Vlog | Going Back Home, Being a Village Girl, Cousin's Lobola Negotiations & Lots More

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @zizi_moloko
    @zizi_moloko  Год назад +300

    Hey Lovelies... Over the holidays, I was lucky enough to get some time to spend with my family. I went back home to my childhood home and spent some time with the cousins that I grew up with and ofcourse, one of my cousins is a soon to be Mrs and we were there to support her during her Lobola Negotiations and just love on and serve her in-laws....
    This Vlog is really special to me so I hope you really enjoy it...

    • @Tee-pj6cd
      @Tee-pj6cd Год назад +2

      Hey.. hayibo! I went to the same high school as uMakoti(Sthe) at some point in my life.

    • @kuenamonaheng
      @kuenamonaheng Год назад +1

      Enjoyed it alot thank you for sharing😍. Going back to my mothers village where she grew up and when I used to visit on holidays also gave me ho much joy and sadness at the same time seeing how things have change but yet stayed yet same... everything looks smaller than I remembered🤣

    • @skylarblue8875
      @skylarblue8875 Год назад

      I loved the vlog sis wami❤️❤️

  • @nomakhaya24
    @nomakhaya24 Год назад +119

    Zizi you need to stop being afraid an automatic 😂😂 your dream Merc is waiting for you in automatic mode

  • @OyamaMgojo
    @OyamaMgojo Год назад +71

    Absolutely loved this vlog so so soooo much!!!!! I'm obviously going to number my favourite moments as usual...
    1. Zizi has this habit of saying the funniest things with a straight face. What's "Kaloku ndine mpundu ezinkulu so ndihleli phezulu"🤣🤣🤣everyone was in stitches besides her.
    2. Love how quick you nipped the "weight gain" comments in the bud. I struggle with this when I'm home.
    3. Cinematic views zase Marhambeni were so beautiful. Loved how you involved us in the details. Every home has a porcelain dog as an ornament sana🤣🤣🤣
    Your family reunion made me so mushy. What a special privilege it is to have family that loves and gets together for good times🥺❤️

  • @tshego7442
    @tshego7442 Год назад +63

    I can already tell you’re gonna become a cautious mom, you’re so sweet. 🥹

  • @12Nomzamo
    @12Nomzamo Год назад +8

    Thanks for explaining the Xhosa speaking cause I always get confused when u mention KZN as your home . Your vlogs never disappoint shem siyabonga Zizi for your authenticity in a very Instagram curated Era ❤

  • @simplysinovlogs
    @simplysinovlogs Год назад +11

    It's how cautious you were of the baby boy climbing up the stairs... You are going to be such an amazing mom one day Zizi❤️.... Also, I love how you so respectfully reprimanded umamncane from talking about your weight, I wish elders and people in general would understand that commenting on people's weight is not nice at all.

  • @dudumalapane4880
    @dudumalapane4880 Год назад +46

    This was so emotional for me. Our family has separated, I miss my cousins and my grandparents home filled with love and laughter.
    You’re so lucky that you’re able to still maintain healthy relationships with cousins thina we’ve tried many times and failed.

  • @ayandamtyebi6825
    @ayandamtyebi6825 Год назад +20

    It's me waving goodbye to your cousins ezilalini😂. This vlog is the most realistic and intriguing I've seen. The moment you had reminiscing about your grandparents and their home, had me in tears. Life really moves on, we will always appreciate those who loved/love you deeply ❤. The music was perfect for each scene.

    • @mokobakiwendy9706
      @mokobakiwendy9706 Год назад

      I waved goodbye too😂😭oh gosh such a beautiful video mahnii.❤️

  • @cikizwamatrose45
    @cikizwamatrose45 Год назад +10

    I don't know why am crying, but this is beautiful Zizi.

  • @deemashabela9982
    @deemashabela9982 Год назад +39

    This was probably one of my favourite vlogs to watch, so wholesome, made me feel so emotional because I feel the same way whenever I go to my late grandparents home, a mix of sadness, guilt and happiness. Thanks for sharing this with us Zizi ❤️❤️

  • @faithmsipha2416
    @faithmsipha2416 Год назад +8

    I have'nt seen my family for live 3 years . I got so emotional watching this vlog with so much love in it . Family makes us complete. Thank you for sharing your family with us Zizi

  • @BuhleN20
    @BuhleN20 Год назад +7

    The b-roll when you were eMarhambeni 🥺🥺🥺 aaaw man, sooo much nostalgia. We also got to see a glimpse of mommy Zizi, and you’re gonna be such a great mom to your soccer team! The music selection was top tier too 😍Congratulations to your cuzzy!

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 Год назад +22

    I was holding the tears In when Zizi was speaking about her childhood home,her grandparents then they just went flowing when she was playing change in time ahgg thank you allowing us to see such intimate moments

  • @Power2Black
    @Power2Black Год назад +9

    Dudu Busani Dube mentions eNtsikeni in Iqunga, her fourth novel in the Hlomu series. So beautiful with all those hills and valleys.

    • @KhanyiSibande
      @KhanyiSibande Год назад +1

      That’s what I crossed my mind when she mentioned eNtsikeni

  • @lincavanessa9954
    @lincavanessa9954 Год назад +9

    Africa is just sooo beautiful, our culture, our people, our food, our countries😭😭😭…. Thank you for this beautiful video Zizi! Love from Rwanda💋

  • @silindokuhlekhubone
    @silindokuhlekhubone Год назад +3

    Thank you for a therapeutic session 😢😢😢..I just had to cry because you took me back into my childhood…everything came back ..Growing up poor and moving into a better place but for some reason I miss that place wheee we used to eat food in one plate or dish ..A place I wanted to leave so badly when I was young but now I miss it 😢

  • @dintlebogatsu4743
    @dintlebogatsu4743 Год назад +8

    This was so refreshing, as an African it gave me nostalgia… made me miss my mom and grandma May thier souls continue to Rest In Peace ❤🙏🏾

  • @thandekandlovu5135
    @thandekandlovu5135 Год назад +11

    This was the most emotional vlog😭😭😭 It left a lump on my throat. Just thinking about how family structure/ dynamics changes over years as we loose loved ones 💔 Beautiful vlog ke my dhiye ❤️

  • @nondumisod
    @nondumisod Год назад +7

    Oh Zizipho. I shed a tear when u were reminiscing on your childhood, you being raised by your grandparents, and them being no more(same with me). But ke indeed life goes on❤

  • @nornomzizi5843
    @nornomzizi5843 Год назад +11

    Zizi Moloko is just on another level 💞

  • @aphiwebongo2183
    @aphiwebongo2183 Год назад +10

    Oh thank you Zizi ntombi for sharing this with us 😥. It has made me miss my cousins from my dad's side and we haven't spent time together in forever. Thank you so much Zizi ❤️

  • @khulekaninyuswa721
    @khulekaninyuswa721 Год назад +5

    Changing drivers was a great idea,you shouldn't drive if you not confident about it... Especially on the Freeway! Checking in🙋

  • @dipuo-x9z
    @dipuo-x9z Год назад +8

    WOW WOW WOW WOW!!!!! What a vlog. I went through the entire hour like it was 15 minutes. You are the girl you think you are and more shem. Your content is loved and appreciated ❤️

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 Год назад +11

    This was the most emotional vlog I have ever watched on your channel, seeing where you grew up for a few years of your life,to the life that you have created for yourself reminded me that it does get better. I also come from the rural areas in Limpopo, but we are not so separated. I know how it feels to grow up in such an environment, one really has to do well in school to get a better life. Yoooh what a beautiful yet emotional vlog ♥️♥️

  • @BYTHEBRUSH
    @BYTHEBRUSH Год назад +6

    I love how you take cognizance of the finer details Zizi.. It's 100 percent for effort doll!!!

  • @sinolwethuhlebo6511
    @sinolwethuhlebo6511 Год назад +3

    I just shared a tear when you were feeling sad. I felt that I go home quite often but I am trying to build my own family and I also want to rebuild my home as well akukho lula but kuzokwenzeka one day. I really felt that moment Zizi thank you so much being you. I love your content mntase. ❤️❤️

  • @luyandamiya853
    @luyandamiya853 Год назад +15

    Such an emotional, wholesome and relatable vlog. I think this is my favorite vlog by far❤

  • @maitemashangoane4758
    @maitemashangoane4758 Год назад +7

    I can never fully explain in words how wholesome Zizi's vlogs make me feel shem. Like after a long day at work I come back sit back and just enjoy pure beautiful content. Rea leboga Mrs Moloko 🥰

  • @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890
    @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890 Год назад +5

    Oh this was a beautiful vlog. The way I love you Zizi. ❤️. You are such a lover, the warm hugs you give. The way you were so careful with that baby. Like everything wethu was just 👌🏽. Seeing your background and how far you have come, its really encouraging.

  • @mavissibanda2959
    @mavissibanda2959 Год назад +6

    Loved this so much Zizi. The part where you were looking over your granny’s home was so emotional❤

  • @nqobiile
    @nqobiile Год назад +6

    my fav youtuber! thank you for the video, you've given us another part of who you are. loved from the beginning to the very end. you are so relatable.

  • @babuirapoo
    @babuirapoo Год назад +5

    What a wholesome vlog❤
    Family reunions are the best

  • @MsKay287
    @MsKay287 Год назад +4

    I really enjoyed watching. It felt like a 30minute vlog I really didn't want it to end. Zizipho I love, love how authentic you are. You are just the ultimate wholesome hun, your content is top tier. 💯❤️❤️❤️

  • @siscaliciousentertainment
    @siscaliciousentertainment Год назад +7

    Gosh, did I not want this vlog to end. This vlog displayed a side of you which we've been aware you've had in you but been waiting for you to unleash sorta vibes and I loved it a million. Family dynamics and seeing how unfiltered you have been with your family is the best part of this video and really leaves me feeling emotional. 🥺🥺💗💗

  • @busisiwepakade3924
    @busisiwepakade3924 Год назад +5

    Beautiful, wholesome vlog as usual. Nibahle kini, Ntombi. When you were talking about your childhood, chile, I became emotional. That road trip from Mariannhill Toll Plaza, BP Garage (Refreshment stop) outside Hammersdale, Thornville turnoff brought so many memories of us visiting both my maternal and paternal families in Kokstad.😍

  • @bridgetditshego3506
    @bridgetditshego3506 Год назад +8

    Hi Zizi thanks for the wonderful vlog ntombi.Love how close you are with the family because as we grow old we tend to drift apart.Love it for you since a family that prays together stays together.

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 Год назад +4

    This was an interesting side of you Zizi- I enjoyed this vlog 100%. The authenticity was on another level.

  • @tatekambeu4724
    @tatekambeu4724 Год назад +4

    One of my favourite vlogs to date. Thank you for sharing with us the moments that bring you happiness and the people close to your heart. I pray you get to have more heartwarming experiences like this one ❤

  • @phumlamyataza8527
    @phumlamyataza8527 Год назад +2

    I like your cousins for being so understanding about your vlogging. You're so blessed. 😇 They are so sweet 😍

  • @lilykok7357
    @lilykok7357 Год назад +4

    This was beautiful Mrs Moloko, your very supportive my dhiye may God continue to bless you.

  • @SipheleleWeAreEnough
    @SipheleleWeAreEnough Год назад +9

    This vlog was what I needed today ❤ warm and comfort it felt like a hug

  • @mercymafuta8702
    @mercymafuta8702 Год назад +3

    Notification gaaaang!! 🔔 Been looking forward to some Zizi content in my life 💃💃

  • @saytshenigumede5239
    @saytshenigumede5239 Год назад +1

    You are honestly the BEST RUclipsr in SA! Hands down!

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 Год назад +5

    Awww Zizi this is beautiful & very authentic .Just got emotional coz we were discussing this with hubby ukuthi we would rather invest where we are in the UK 🇬🇧 for our son coz back in Africa uzokhula & maybe not bother going back then it will be a loss 😢

  • @leratolegae1846
    @leratolegae1846 Год назад +8

    Discovered your channel last week and I'm obsessed Chile :)

    • @Busisiwemanzikazi
      @Busisiwemanzikazi Год назад

      You will not be disappointed..best you Tuber in SA for me ...go back to her previous vlogs you will be inspired

  • @Katlego_Mmekwa
    @Katlego_Mmekwa Год назад +5

    Such a wonderful vlog I really enjoyed 🥹❤️
    The weight topic is always a topic when going back home I even got to a point where I hate going home during holidays 😢

    • @yethugamedze7317
      @yethugamedze7317 Год назад +1

      I hate it so much...I also stopped visiting relatives. 😒 it's so inconsiderate and growing up it affected my self esteem.

  • @anelisaluke
    @anelisaluke Год назад +2

    you made me miss ezlalini sana.......not me wanting to cry while you are talking about the guilt of your grandma's house.

  • @boitumeloramosa1456
    @boitumeloramosa1456 Год назад +4

    This was beautiful to watch. Thank you. Im so fulfilled, like honestly!

  • @BonoloPalesaNorris
    @BonoloPalesaNorris Год назад +3

    Oh man Zizi this vlog made me want to visit my hometown, it’s been so long and I understand what you mean by feeling guilty; ever since my grandparents passed on, no one goes home anymore. Replayed from 41:52 and got more and more emotional with each replay ❤ Thank you for this video 🥹

  • @carolbongekanduku2341
    @carolbongekanduku2341 Год назад +2

    Great vlog….it was beautiful to see my village through RUclips ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lebohangmeya9755
    @lebohangmeya9755 Год назад +12

    The excitement I get when I see a notification for your channel Zizi 🥺♥️
    I love you my dhiye ♥️

  • @keneilwemarwane
    @keneilwemarwane Год назад +11

    Such a beautiful and relatable vlog! i enjoy your content so much Zizi.

  • @bongib2793
    @bongib2793 Год назад +4

    This vlog made me so emotional gosh. So relatable! Your content is great Zizi

  • @AneleNdoda
    @AneleNdoda Год назад +9

    Thank you for such beautiful and wholesome content Zizi ❤️

  • @jeanetteyalley6435
    @jeanetteyalley6435 Год назад +1

    One thing your vlog did, was make me miss the simple things that make one happy… being at home, being in USA and seeing blogs like this I truly miss SA mpumalanga to be exact

  • @nalediliphapang7429
    @nalediliphapang7429 Год назад

    Oh Zizi enkosi sisi for sharing. I was on Route 56 nam ngo December 2022 heading home to the EC after 10 years. Felt the same mix of emotions sisi. Having been raised by my grandmother during my primitive years.

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 Год назад +3

    Automatic is the best Zizi I cant even drive manual now voz been buying auto all the way

  • @TheNarrator1989
    @TheNarrator1989 Год назад +1

    I've just the most beautiful movie ever , u lol , u cry, it remind u of home, where u come from, the importance of family yho , thanks Mrs Moloko

  • @nontobekotau9773
    @nontobekotau9773 Год назад +2

    This was such a wholesome vlog I really enjoyed it. Thank you. Also emotional when you showed us your grand parents house.
    After spending last week crying, Im home sick again.

  • @sandisiwemahlamvu6448
    @sandisiwemahlamvu6448 Год назад +6

    Someone: i-rain iyeza
    Uncle: ngena Noah
    🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Wholesome vlog❣️

  • @SibuleleTafeni
    @SibuleleTafeni Год назад +3

    That was beautiful sisi. Really enjoyed that was so wholesome... family vibes🥰 Thank you for sharing Zizi

  • @tshepang_11
    @tshepang_11 Год назад +3

    Such a wholesome vlog🥺😭❤️ siyabonga sisi for taking us home with you🤍😭

  • @thejourneyofhope08
    @thejourneyofhope08 Год назад +11

    As I rush here after my job interview just to release some stress 🙂 happy new year my dhyie it's good to have you back ❤️❤️❤️💕💕

  • @kgomotsomoloto3962
    @kgomotsomoloto3962 Год назад +2

    What a wholesome vlog, had to re-watch it even
    ❤️

  • @siba92
    @siba92 Год назад +2

    It's 12:39 pm I'm stressed Sana because adult life!! Came across this video, let me relax and open my savanna, watch my girl 💃💃🥂

  • @Mensforum
    @Mensforum Год назад +1

    Beautiful dear I appreciate your love an the tightness in your family I see you've kept gogo's values nonke wow I wish all families were like yours, ya'll are sooo blessed bethuna Zizi oh my dear keep up the good work, love the originality in your videos oh maan I'm touched, very emotional as we all at some point move on in life in all aspects of our lives. Wooooow I'm just in awe dear🥰 loved this it was like I journey seriously... You sure gave us an experience. Awesome ❤️

  • @napsadinaps2330
    @napsadinaps2330 Год назад

    Cam back here after two months to rewatch..this vlog is wholesome bandla. The warmth is unmatched.

  • @ayapharalasi278
    @ayapharalasi278 Год назад +10

    Your vlogs are literally SO GOOD ntombi!! I am always soo hooked!
    I loved the lali content!

  • @kelebogilemillicent1207
    @kelebogilemillicent1207 Год назад +6

    Can't wait to relax and watch.
    We love your vlogs Mrs Moloko they are wholesome and refreshing .

  • @nosisandlovu801
    @nosisandlovu801 Год назад

    Just that Zizi is wearing same dress noKhunjulwa..Issa sisterhood there maDhiye. I love it ..road leads to 40 madhiye....

  • @roselineuiras8603
    @roselineuiras8603 Год назад +3

    Wholesome on all levels. Love it here 💕💕🌹🌹💖💖

  • @Miss_kaytt
    @Miss_kaytt Год назад +1

    I can’t believe I watched right up until the end yet I have an early morning tomorrow . Beautiful Vlog Hun❤

  • @ziphelelemadonsela2486
    @ziphelelemadonsela2486 Год назад +2

    Ngaze ngaHappy💃. Ohh the love I have for you❤

  • @tshego7442
    @tshego7442 Год назад +4

    What a refreshing vlog 🥹

  • @bex_saku
    @bex_saku Год назад +2

    Yoh Zizi🥹what a wholesome vlog mahn🥰reminded me of your Lobola vlog running errands with Namhla💕this is beautiful

  • @nandisameela5050
    @nandisameela5050 Год назад +1

    So much nostalgia, such a wholesome vlog. My favourite vlog yet

  • @SimplyNoxoloSangweni
    @SimplyNoxoloSangweni Год назад +2

    Lol mamncane though but I get her. Abantu basemakhaya associate being big with being happy. Ma umkhulu nje you're happy kubo.

  • @nomhirumbu7197
    @nomhirumbu7197 Год назад

    Jonga Zizipho, I just love you...nje masiqale apho. Such a beauty🥰, and then your content ke...👌I enjoy every vlog yakho..the most uncomplicated and enjoyable to watch

  • @dimphohadebe250
    @dimphohadebe250 Год назад +2

    My fav notification !!! Zizi, this vlog was so wholesome and really enjoyed every moment.

  • @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa
    @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa Год назад +6

    😂😂😂 the way uZizipho a overprotective ngayo kulomntana... it's clear she's gonna be a paranoid mother...I was a very paranoid mommy and my daughter never crawled 😭😭😭 coz I was fearing for her life... she's 10 now andikabinaye omnye coz I'm a "stalker" of a mother...besides finances I can't have anxiety for more than one kid it won't be good for my mental health...I don't know Zizi personally but I think she's definitely fall under the paranoid/overprotective mother 🥺

    • @LivinglifeInAbundance
      @LivinglifeInAbundance Год назад +3

      It can be very difficult being a mom...alot of times we dont know where to draw the line...when to be protective and when to let go and allow the child to learn n make mistakes and discover things by themselves....I think the best way is to follow your maternal insticts. If they say "Protect" you do that😍😍😍

    • @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa
      @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa Год назад +1

      @@LivinglifeInAbundance Amen to that sister 🤗 10 years in the game I still don't know when to draw the line...ndinqandwa nguye...my daughter be like Mom you overdoing it now...mom stop I need my space...I need to go out and play with other kids...but I think I'll do better kwabalandelayo...kentando kaThixo of course 😊🙏

  • @thandonkomiyapi5438
    @thandonkomiyapi5438 Год назад +3

    Love you Zizi🌺

  • @Mosolodi_ii
    @Mosolodi_ii Год назад +1

    I just love your videos so so much sis Zizi🥺❤️. I enjoy your content so much my sister even says I'm always watching you😂. Be it sit downs, hair videos vlogs.. Everything

  • @sphiwemonama7575
    @sphiwemonama7575 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your family with us, I really enjoyed this vlog wethu

  • @thulzmadiba
    @thulzmadiba Год назад +3

    Spending my lunch on this channel,, a whole hour, thanks for such a beautiful vlog 💖💖💖💖💕💕💕🎊🎊

  • @keikantse
    @keikantse Год назад +3

    Aow mma Moloko are fah fah ka 1 hour vlog Rea leboga 😍😍❤️ me taking an early lunch to watch the vlog

  • @shandrydavids1112
    @shandrydavids1112 Год назад

    Zizi you half a wonderfull family,there's alot of love when you'll together. Stay close to each other cause family is important

  • @thahxaki3879
    @thahxaki3879 Год назад

    I have been scares, I really i enjoyed the Vlog cc🤗❤especially being home 💃💃, even saw my desk mate Sakhe Nogubha back from Mvenyane while u were in cerdavile andisavuye🤗

  • @ntutudawuwa8604
    @ntutudawuwa8604 Год назад

    Sbwl umleqwa Bandla. I love this vlog it takes me back when I use to visit my rural home and meet all the cousins uncles and aunts .

  • @zoemagojo7376
    @zoemagojo7376 Год назад +1

    Haybo Zizi , this is Umzimkhulu mos.... mkhaya phela wena

  • @unana.__
    @unana.__ Год назад +1

    What a relatable beautiful vlog!😭😭❤️ Ohh thank you Mrs M...

  • @aminamoloto8611
    @aminamoloto8611 Год назад +2

    What a beautiful vlog, really enjoyed watching it ♥️

  • @ChefSharon263
    @ChefSharon263 Год назад +3

    Those teapots are scrubbed to the gods.. a wholesome vlog Zizi♥️♥️

  • @dorahdlamini7532
    @dorahdlamini7532 Год назад

    All i can say zee"Siyabonga for envyting us emndini wakho cc.. Heart warming video... 1 of the best ,,,

  • @unathithithilanga5838
    @unathithithilanga5838 Год назад

    Also recently went to go visit kwa Gogo eNtsikeni, after over 10 years....felt so peaceful 💓

  • @kelebohiledienkimotaung9100
    @kelebohiledienkimotaung9100 Год назад +1

    Our girl, thanks for the vlog ke wethu dear❤️❤️❤️

  • @neilwek4231
    @neilwek4231 Год назад +2

    This was such a beautiful vlog, my goodness. Zizi you are so soft😍 I really enjoyed it❤️❤️

  • @noxolo4538
    @noxolo4538 Год назад

    Zizi’s Sound tracks 😭😭 this video makes me so emotional I wanna go home

  • @llt4726
    @llt4726 Год назад +1

    Love how all of you work well together🥰🥰🥰

  • @cookwiththepolishedmama
    @cookwiththepolishedmama Год назад +3

    I already feel ba this is going to be wholesome ke sana ❤

  • @sikelelwa_
    @sikelelwa_ Год назад +1

    Looked forward to watching this the whole day. It was worth it. Thank you Zizi ❤