Dear Future Wifey S3, E321: Marriage Remix (Tim+Juliette Ross)

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2021
  • There are no words to describe this episode. This is something you’ll just have to experience. Here to wrap up the “Marriage Vows Series” are Tim and Juliette Ross. Listen as they transparently share their dynamic marriage journey in an episode entitled, “Marriage Remix.”
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  • @sinedladla1955
    @sinedladla1955 2 года назад +416

    This one hit me hard when he said he was molested by a teenage boy when he was 8 years old . That hit me so hard because here is a black man who has been abused and he has healed. He has completely healed and he is committed to loving wholeheartedly!!! God is Good!!!

  • @karene3493
    @karene3493 2 года назад +382

    "You can make that altar as pretty as you want...it's still an altar" . I need a WHOLE sermon about this when I get married.

    • @twelch0215
      @twelch0215 2 года назад +9

      Come on sis! A WHOLE sermon!!!

    • @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
      @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations 2 года назад +8

      In our church, we usually have short sermons before the vows are exchanged. And in all of the decades I have been attending church weddings, never heard a preacher explain marriage vows like that. Its like its no longer a happily ever after. Its a totally new thing, that includes death, and in the process of dying is where you'll get your ever after that will include the joy of the Lord that far exceeds the meagre 'happily' you were hoping for..

    • @DailyDoseOfRuth
      @DailyDoseOfRuth Год назад +5

      SAME. 😭😭😭 i literally thought about that portion of my future wedding when he said that!!

    • @Krfran14
      @Krfran14 Год назад +6

      Man... I wish they'd let me know first.. Its so true. Learning on the job, as they say

    • @jupiterj6913
      @jupiterj6913 Год назад +2

      This!!!!!!!!

  • @petracain6794
    @petracain6794 Год назад +226

    Juliette voice is like a waterfall, it cascades, it's soothing.

  • @mrsbrownsugarsweetz
    @mrsbrownsugarsweetz 2 года назад +430

    “Jesus wasn’t given a title but he was given a name that is above all names. Demons don’t know titles but they know names.”🔥🔥🔥

    • @shenitathompson7493
      @shenitathompson7493 2 года назад +4

      Did I miss that in this video? I'm going to rewatch. It must be in the beginning when I was washing dishes.

    • @mrsbrownsugarsweetz
      @mrsbrownsugarsweetz 2 года назад +1

      @@shenitathompson7493 yes it is in the video.

    • @shannonsejour657
      @shannonsejour657 Год назад +2

      Thissss here

    • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
      @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Год назад +1

      💯Demons know power behind names.

    • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
      @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Год назад +4

      Acts 19:13-17 the demons indeed knew names & totally dismissed the titles, even if Jew.
      It was said at the beginning of this episode.

  • @MsLi-ef1xp
    @MsLi-ef1xp 2 года назад +198

    Do you guys see their body language?! I am so jealous...wow! After 22 years, they are touching each others arms, legs, patting their shoulders. I love that!!

    • @kikic7637
      @kikic7637 2 года назад +25

      Yes, and in the beginning they are sitting like each other as well, they are very in tune with each other👌

  • @melissaglasper1772
    @melissaglasper1772 2 года назад +424

    “What happens at the alter is death.”
    “Encoded into the whole ceremony is you having the opportunity to die.”
    I just can’t past that part. The level of respect I have for marriage has grown exponentially since this series began. The truth of the matter is I know now that all the preparation and planning is preparing me to die to myself completely.
    Thank you Tim, Juliette, and Laterras for opening my eyes. I am grateful for the lesson. I hope this one goes viral!

    • @moniquedependable3782
      @moniquedependable3782 2 года назад +26

      I absolutely agree word for word I wish I would have said it first! THIS MARRIAGE Series has shed a whole new to Jesus light in me! At 55 I thought I knew, now I know!

    • @melissaglasper1772
      @melissaglasper1772 2 года назад +8

      @@moniquedependable3782 That was a whole word you just shared. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @coachshaund.8815
      @coachshaund.8815 2 года назад +10

      This stood out to me too! Powerful!

    • @Iriswl1
      @Iriswl1 2 года назад +6

      Yesss, that part there. A whole word by itself. A major gem. You said it well. Seeing marriage from this perspective and being ready/willing to go through the preparation.

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 2 года назад +5

      @@coachshaund.8815 Yes indeed!

  • @fefeknox
    @fefeknox 2 года назад +221

    When you don't have good intimacy it's because you don't have good communication! So GOOD 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @cannon5041
      @cannon5041 Год назад +1

      Dropping gems Yo.

    • @Jsu-x2i
      @Jsu-x2i 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes intimacy starts outside of the bedroom 🙏🏽

  • @ldwoods3237
    @ldwoods3237 2 года назад +316

    I love her statement of giving people grace and not being surprised when people fail her. It's taking me nearly 45 years to get to this point but it's freeing 🙌🏾

  • @joymosley8997
    @joymosley8997 2 года назад +553

    This is the best marriage advice I've ever heard. As a single woman I really appreciate this.

  • @iammonicadenise1335
    @iammonicadenise1335 2 года назад +370

    This is the level of transparency and conversations that need to be had in the church concerning marriage! I believe we would see less divorce. Thanks Laterras for continuing to keep it L.I.T. and making a difference on the path to love and relationships. 💖

  • @jordanmontour5658
    @jordanmontour5658 Год назад +40

    “Marriage is a full length mirror…Marriage is you looking at you, talking to you about you”

  • @worshipwithmedaily
    @worshipwithmedaily Год назад +145

    Tim Ross, I’ve been following the basement for months and loving it, BUT YOUR WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 What a gem!

    • @shalkhouri5915
      @shalkhouri5915 Год назад +5

      His wife voice is so calm. She need her own show

    • @sharondafarrish
      @sharondafarrish 5 месяцев назад +2

      I agree. Got me searching for more words of wisdom from her.

  • @latoyabasden4725
    @latoyabasden4725 8 месяцев назад +37

    The level of respect they give each other is admirable! Not interrupting or interjection and extremely controlled conversation. Peaceful!

  • @ultimatewoman4352
    @ultimatewoman4352 2 года назад +197

    If there’s something I love about Juliette and Tim, is they keep it 100 and that’s their gift. ♥️

    • @mstkfit
      @mstkfit 2 года назад

      Perfectly said.

  • @melissagere850
    @melissagere850 Год назад +140

    OMG the Holy Spirit literally let me know the difference between my earthly father and my heavenly father. Thank you Juliette for putting that out there. I hope this resonates with all viewers

    • @kianawalters5006
      @kianawalters5006 Год назад +6

      it did indeed was mind blowing.

    • @ahmedrachael4611
      @ahmedrachael4611 4 месяца назад

      I cried so bad when she said that🥹. Lord bless her heart

  • @oo5240
    @oo5240 5 месяцев назад +9

    Watching this in Feb 2024. Tim Ross now has a podcast called the basement and he always talks about his wife’s grace. It’s my first time listening to her and I’m captivated ❤

  • @cherwallace6026
    @cherwallace6026 2 года назад +225

    It was a blessing hearing this couple talk about how great their love life is. I hear so many married people complain about their sex lives, especially men. It was great hearing this man talk about how husbands should take the lead and responsibility of pleasing their wives sexuality. So refreshing, because even in church it is traditionally taught that the weight of sexual responsibility in a marriage is on the wife: please your husband, give him sex regardless of his behavior, attitude, and I HAVE NEVER HEARD ANYONE teach how a husband should taking the responsibility and lead to please his wife.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @monettevalliere
      @monettevalliere Год назад +8

      Me neither. Even women today are lying to themselves by taking all kinds of lead and those relationships still don't work. I appreciate this couple. They are doing it God's way!

    • @oatmealbrownie09
      @oatmealbrownie09 Год назад +1

      Yes!

  • @jaleccia56
    @jaleccia56 2 года назад +204

    When I saw Tim Ross on here, I knew this was going to be powerful but Mrs. Juliette!!!!!! Chilllleeeee that woman is a BEAST! This was such a great episode! My heart always gets checked! Thank you so much for this!

  • @lhug921
    @lhug921 Год назад +80

    “Love without boundaries is not love.” 🙌🏻

    • @joaniegap
      @joaniegap 5 месяцев назад +1

      Amen amen!!

  • @jamiehigh924
    @jamiehigh924 Год назад +49

    Julietteeeee - explaining the difference in the Savior and The Lord Of Your Life!!! YESSSSSS!!!!!

  • @kaywisseh
    @kaywisseh 2 года назад +85

    This episode was so goood. After being married to a man of God that had a hidden porn addiction, I can say that was the most difficult thing that I have EVER endured in my entire life. I did not sign up for that! People think it’s not that big of a deal but if you’ve never been though it then you have no idea. I’m blessed to be out of that marriage and to be in my right mind but only by the grace of God!!!

  • @patriciascorner4686
    @patriciascorner4686 2 года назад +152

    I loved this! The way he's so affectionate with his wife after 20+ of marriage. I'm really glad to hear the topic of sex in a Christian marriage discussed so freely. I've always thought sex within a Christian marriage was repressive and boring.

    • @tylynn256
      @tylynn256 2 года назад

      I know right!!!!

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 2 года назад +7

      It's not repressive OR boring. But it's definitely not a free-for-all just because you are married. I thoroughly enjoyed this podcast, but there were points when the Holy Spirit let me know they were off target. And interestingly enough, he "pastors". Oral sex is 10000% sodomy and not of God. It's an open door to the enemy that people don't want to close because their flesh thoroughly enjoys it. For so long I was in the dark about this truth, but I personally prayed about it and sought the Lord. His answer was a game changer. I will continue to intercede for those who are in need of God's truth on the matter. But this idea that just because folks are married they are free to do whatever in the bedroom with each other is an outright lie. Sex for married couples within the body of Christ is not repressive or boring. But it most definitely is not to be rooted in the same worldly, carnal, and lustful acts that can be found in the bedrooms of people who DON'T know God. LOL!
      Learning how to chew the meat and spit out the bones though. Overall this was a great podcast filled with awesome points to digest.

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 2 года назад +7

      @@d.c.4706 if you're married and you're with your husband or wife God says be FRUITFUL that means have sex whatever form they choose to do it they are in conveant so oral sex is allowed when you're married now outside of it its dangerous...but God literally had Solomon write a very detail version of love making in the bible so that's your opinion ..but God does say do not deny your husband or spouse because that opens doors and nagging your husband or wife because that can cause an open door as well...

    • @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
      @ClassicAudiobooksInspirations 2 года назад +1

      @@d.c.4706 I also heard that, but then noticed immediately afterwards the wife gentle made a correction that set everything straight.

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 2 года назад

      @@janderson947 God said be fruitful and MULTIPLY. Let's not chop and remix His word. In order to multiply, children would need to be born. And in order for children to be born, sperm would need to connect to an egg--which can only be done through actual intercourse. Oral sex is actually anti-multiplication and sodomy. Sodomy is anal or oral sex (regardless of sexual orientation). Folks have been doing it for so long and love doing it so much, that they can't even FATHOM or even begin to consider it is sinful and ungodly. Praying for all who are still blinded.
      www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sodomy

  • @yaznicolejohnson
    @yaznicolejohnson 2 года назад +92

    Her voice is so calming!

  • @howoriginal1986
    @howoriginal1986 2 года назад +64

    You can tell how much mutual love and respect these two have for each other. No one has more “power” over the other. So rare to see these days! I love it

  • @dariyan214
    @dariyan214 2 года назад +80

    Ju messed me up with the father/daddy story. Whew! I love them!

  • @natashacampbell5765
    @natashacampbell5765 2 года назад +182

    SMH, this podcast just keep getting better every show. Omg.

  • @serritaanderson7409
    @serritaanderson7409 Год назад +22

    When Juliette shared her mother's words, I immediately let "it" go. My let it go is personal. And all I can think is, "ok Jesus, I understand now." The feeling is amazing, I'm free.

  • @butterflyreid1
    @butterflyreid1 Год назад +47

    This is one of my top 5 Dear Wifey podcasts. The realness is unparalleled.

  • @dawn7220
    @dawn7220 2 года назад +138

    This is another conversation that shows deep introspection. I am not in hurry to marry, actually, I'm content not getting married unless all parties has this level of commitment.

  • @quietstorm1176
    @quietstorm1176 2 года назад +130

    I'm only 30 minutes in and already convicted. That word 'capacity' resonated with me this summer. Not every one has the capacity to love you the way you desire or deserve.
    We go to the altar to die...😫 lawd help!!

    • @drs214tx
      @drs214tx 2 года назад +2

      This bro!

    • @DebaFunmi
      @DebaFunmi 2 года назад +4

      Ohhh, Capacity "came-out" to me too.

    • @ngreat4390
      @ngreat4390 Год назад

      If you die properly you won't be alone: that's the principle of marriage. So the capacity comes after the death...
      Adam died first... Jesus died first...
      If the man doesn't die first, the spirit/rib can't be taken to build the bride...
      What you deserve is directly proportional to your degree of death

  • @Miranda9Bella
    @Miranda9Bella Год назад +195

    I'm just DONE at the 1 minute opener, "Our sex life puts porn to shame"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the rest MUST be an hour n half of sheer entertainment 😂lemme go get some pizza, wings, and a root beer😅

    • @ASOnly1
      @ASOnly1 5 месяцев назад +1

      🤭😹😹😹

    • @junemalcolm
      @junemalcolm 3 месяца назад

      57:53

  • @rosemshelia8565
    @rosemshelia8565 Год назад +19

    The part where He said His wife reflects him, just draws me back to the reason why marriage really reflects Christ and his bride, the Church, Also how he created man in his image and man reflecting Him. That's why Man is still the only creature with Will power Damnnn .... Always brings me back to that.

  • @judithjackson1086
    @judithjackson1086 2 года назад +54

    "that I can actually grow up and be the man God called me to be."
    "I am my wife's vibrator."😂😂😂this guy

  • @creativetips97
    @creativetips97 2 года назад +139

    I’m glad somebody said what I have known and believed as well. If God didn’t join them why do we fast and pray and beg God’s help when he never approved of the relationship in the first place. Great episode.

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro Год назад +62

    MY GOODNESS!! The repetition in her story of her mother’s reminder is allowing room for my tear ducts to express themselves…😭😭😭😭okay still listening/watching…

  • @loraleeneg9839
    @loraleeneg9839 Год назад +24

    25:17 when she talked about not having to take everything in a marriage, is so validating.

  • @mrs.aleyajohnson
    @mrs.aleyajohnson 2 года назад +109

    I love her mindset..my father in heaven will never disappoint me and will always be there for me..humans will do all of thee above..allow and practice grace..love this podcast

  • @heatherl7094
    @heatherl7094 2 года назад +86

    This was the MOST transparent conversation from a couple I have ever heard and do appreciate their honesty and openness. As a single woman there was so much I learnt I have to watch this video more than once. Thank you so much!!

    • @dashelledisna6239
      @dashelledisna6239 2 года назад +6

      They're so good. Watch their upset the vows series on their channel (embassy city church)

    • @heatherl7094
      @heatherl7094 2 года назад

      @@dashelledisna6239 Thank you so much for directing me to their channel.

    • @drs214tx
      @drs214tx 2 года назад

      @@dashelledisna6239 I got it packaged up right here. :) ruclips.net/p/PLeTYyvN7tFdOuvRtSOiRaKPfZENcBkZuX

  • @tommyd1059
    @tommyd1059 2 года назад +40

    Maaaannnn this right here was something serious. Tim and Juliette dropped some serious gems. I'll have to go back and listen to this one again. The piece on the wedding and it's correlation to death, dying to self. So many do not understand this at all. Like you the marriage sessions have allowed me to reflect when I was married. It's opening my eyes to the severity of the marriage vows. I need to go see that infamous message from Tim also. Edit: The church really need to have these types of conversations about life, sex and relationships. We (The Church) need to stop making everything so "taboo."

  • @ItsBrittany.
    @ItsBrittany. 2 года назад +93

    Married for 3 weeks so far…whoa its hard already. Staying prayed up & trying to adapt to my new life

    • @ladybeegeevee8548
      @ladybeegeevee8548 Год назад +3

      Praying for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽 6years and Lord knows it has been a rollercoaster

    • @ItsBrittany.
      @ItsBrittany. Год назад

      @@ladybeegeevee8548 But the good Lord has us! Thank you sis, stay prayed up!

    • @cinsationalcindy
      @cinsationalcindy Год назад

      You got this and He’s got you. Congrats!

    • @keena20071987
      @keena20071987 Год назад +2

      Same here! Been married less than a year and lord have mercy! This is not for the faint of heart. Lots of positives but adapting to married life is tough.

    • @janaewells1646
      @janaewells1646 Год назад +3

      I'll tell you what no one told me. It's HEART work but it's worth the work

  • @ba091579
    @ba091579 2 года назад +54

    This podcast motivated me to keep waiting on Gods best for me . Kingdom Marriage is the only way for me Amen!! 👑👑❤️❤️

  • @meridithcalloway8980
    @meridithcalloway8980 2 года назад +60

    Thank you to Tim and Juliette. This was a rich conversation that we needed.

  • @lyttle1832
    @lyttle1832 2 часа назад +1

    This is the second time I have commented on this podcast and I must say I came back to watch the entire episode again from yesterday. I was so blessed I had to watch it twice. These two really blessed me and Miss Juliette’s strength ooooooh my was so much strength and I was full. I was so full at the end of it all that I had to come back a second time for an overflow Eysh! Thank you for bringing this couple on. All truth and all honestly and all blatant so thank you this was a buffet of flavour with so much fragrance!!

  • @mhizrita1385
    @mhizrita1385 Год назад +20

    It's the way Tim looks at Juliette when she talks for me❣️, you could tell that he is in awe of his woman... Mehn! All I see is two people committed to giving their 💯 to grow all round.
    I'm just sitting on my couch and Wondering, "if this is what marriage is about, then I've got alot of suiting up and growing up to do." Y'all just gave me permission to be authentic and I'm grateful.

  • @nyanisamajavu4508
    @nyanisamajavu4508 2 года назад +48

    Wow Essence Atkins started this series and we are ending it with the Ross's. You can take a whole two years Latteras we have enough substantive content by GOD's grace through your podcast to drink from until you return. We thank GOD for men who are a true living example of how Christ is the standard through you. May you see many more heavenly blessings🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @KeepHealingSis
    @KeepHealingSis 2 года назад +46

    I have never heard a more accurate description of what porn addiction looks like or what porn and masturbation does to men and their psyche. More women and wives need to truly understand, study and discover just how deep this goes because it is absolute spiritual warfare!!!
    Absolutely amazing, raw and transparent episode. The breakdown of every single point is incredible!! I’ll have to rewatch just to process this even further.

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 5 месяцев назад

      Porn is used as a scapegoat to to distract away from the truth of the matter, and its that there is hierarchy of desire and desirability and most men do not have access to the top tier outside of porn in real life and the fact that monogamy is not natural. Men are hardwired to spread their seed wherever they can and women are not wired to facilitate that sex drive oir make up for lost opportunities 24/7. Getting rid of porn honestly would destroy more marriages then save them becasue the only way a lot of men can tolerate being with who they were able to get is to supplement and outsource digitally. This is not new. Porn has always been around, its just more accessible these days but when it was less accessible there were books, magazines, trinkets, and then the oldest profession , prostitution.

  • @rao_inspires
    @rao_inspires 2 года назад +29

    Okay okay okay, i just has to pause for a moment. Wow. What she said about "Your Dad is your earthly dad, but your Father is in heaven" brought me to tears. Dragged both my kids with absent father's and said that to them. I don't have a model of great marriages and parenting, but I'm being intentional and going to break the curse with my children. It starts with me.

  • @neciesworld8521
    @neciesworld8521 Год назад +15

    I have the "I expect people to fail me" mentality. Thank God she clarified what she meant because I needed to hear it. I've accepted a flaw from someone for way longer than I should have and I'm trying to gain clarity as to why I remain in the relationship. Thank you Juliette!

  • @dr.majidahsmith9006
    @dr.majidahsmith9006 2 года назад +12

    My takeaways
    1. She was Playa proof lol and he knew he couldn't run game on her.
    2. Her strength is not a dealbreaker. It's a deficit in the boys not men out there.
    3. Her mom told her several times Your Dad is just your Earthly Dad but you only have 1 Father in Heaven. They are two different. Her Father in Heaven will never disappoint her, hurt her and abandon her. Never compare the two. When your Earthly Dad or people disappoint you go and pray to your Father in Heaven.
    4. She expects to be hurt and disappointed in people because she understands that people are human and make mistakes. She learned to show grace to people. And she is surprised when they don't disappoint.
    5. When they spoke about people using porn and people that demand or expect things from their partners especially when they haven't communicated properly and given to their spouse is unfair to the marriage and relationship.
    6. (41 mins) Iron sharpest Iron but we also come with plastic parts. Can we accept and discuss the plastic, silicone issues the partner comes with.
    7. If you say God is Lord over your life then his ways should trump yours. We have to follow his standards. Sin is not his standards. Believers have to change.
    8. I am following a King not a govt. A King makes commands and I don't have to like it.

    • @profmj7630
      @profmj7630 Год назад +1

      Thank for sharing this...excellent notes...be blessed

  • @mrsscott0616
    @mrsscott0616 2 года назад +44

    Listen…..wow just wow! There were about 50 sermons within this 1.5 hour podcast! They KILT it! This was a-ma-zing!

  • @kashopatishikongo3110
    @kashopatishikongo3110 Год назад +11

    I just had a day were the emotions were high because of some deep disappointment and Juliette's testimony around grace for human disappointment, soooooo powerful. Thank you so much.

  • @SongiGodsgirl
    @SongiGodsgirl Год назад +11

    The way He looks at her while she is talking. This Episode was raw honest & beautiful.

  • @Thrivegrl24
    @Thrivegrl24 2 года назад +19

    Tim never disappoints and his wife was a great addition . This is the type of conversations that need to be had in churches.

  • @melaniereid7958
    @melaniereid7958 2 года назад +57

    This conversation was so needed and is needed with people of God. We need more conversations like this in the body of Christ. 🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

  • @amaragrace94
    @amaragrace94 Год назад +8

    Lmaooo😂 man I love them. Definitely one of my favorite episodes. Y'all don't let these men keep playing with you. A man that is READY knows in the first 6 months. A proposal in a year. Married by year 2. You BOTH need to be ready. In the mean time, I say take time to yourself, live in your purpose, study the word, work on being healthy (diet and physical activity), seek counsel (via prayer, spiritual counseling, and therapy) in order to heal, get your financials in order (or be in the process of working through your plan), listen to this wonderful podcast and absorb all these life lessons, be with nature, do things that bring you joy, see the world. Until the right person comes into your life (with God's timing), there is plenty of work to be done.

  • @lai7034
    @lai7034 2 года назад +20

    This was necessary and a necessity! I'm divorced and the level of transparency that was shared about marriage was powerful!!! Excellent content!!!

  • @ErA-el1je
    @ErA-el1je 2 года назад +24

    Deep!! Will rewatch with hubby!!
    A lot of porn stars are sex trafficking victims. And when you watch you are helping the sex trafficking industry to continue. NOT GOOD. And its sexual immorality.
    Thank you for another great video💟

  • @antoniapinnix8321
    @antoniapinnix8321 2 года назад +22

    Okay...You've out done yourself with this couple!! If I had to rank my favorite episode, it would be this one!! I actually saw the "Help, I'm Horny" sermon and truly a Word preached and received. Thank you for your obedience to do this. I've watched every episode and I'm being encouraged thoroughly.

  • @Diababeing
    @Diababeing Год назад +10

    This was so beautiful to watch. As a single woman, recently divorced and lover of Jesus Christ waiting on my hubby earthly hubby, stumbling upon this channel is a revelation ❤.

  • @dandrapratt9474
    @dandrapratt9474 Год назад +15

    I have seen so many DFW podcasts. This one is BOMB!!! Mrs. Ross’ perspective on readiness is game-changing.

  • @pspr1149
    @pspr1149 2 года назад +30

    I love their physical touch towards one another. 💕

  • @krissagayle7018
    @krissagayle7018 2 года назад +34

    They touched on everything! This episode was amazing! That part on sex and sexual desires etc is so necessary! So so good! Tim Ross is so real and Juliette is such a beautiful soul!! Love them!

  • @ldwoods3237
    @ldwoods3237 2 года назад +28

    "What happens at the alter is death and sacrifice , you come there to die to self"🙏🏽#serious #sacrifice #NOoptics #KingdomCouple #deathatthealter #purposepartner

    • @ngreat4390
      @ngreat4390 Год назад

      Yop! Preach sister! Except a grain of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains alone... So if they don't reckon themselves dead to sin and alive in Christ, they can't bond in marriage to you because then, they're alone and have no helper (Holy Spirit).
      God has to literally kill you before you can receive a mate.
      Adam was put in a deep sleep...AKA dead! He died!
      If you want someone you gotta die!

  • @linasanderson1649
    @linasanderson1649 Год назад +16

    I can’t tell you how many times I screamed out loud as I was listening to this message. I was in such agreement with ALL of this!!!!!! I will have to listen to this a few times!!!! Wow!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @latricemarie6188
    @latricemarie6188 2 года назад +170

    His "Help, I'm Horny!" Teaching ushered me into deliverance from years of secret shame & condemnation.

    • @nikamoff5835
      @nikamoff5835 2 года назад +5

      That message was sooooo POWERFUL!!!! Confirmation that my deciding to wait is the BEST choice for me ♥️

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri 2 года назад +6

      Omg yes! I had my 18 year old son watch it too.

    • @ngreat4390
      @ngreat4390 Год назад +4

      Because it was the word of God and you listened, received it, repented and the word went straight to work and yielded 100%.
      Congratulations Son of God!🎉🥳

  • @carolynhicks8911
    @carolynhicks8911 2 года назад +19

    Yeah Laterras this the one! I can already see yokes being destroyed and chains broken! Thank you for being led to bring on this power couple!

    • @twelch0215
      @twelch0215 2 года назад

      Amen, I stand in agreement with u there!

  • @andreawinzer7892
    @andreawinzer7892 2 года назад +10

    "Love without boundaries is not love, it's licentiousness" Amen and amen!!!

  • @zodwanzimande9984
    @zodwanzimande9984 Год назад +14

    I have never heard marriage explained so beautifully . ❤

  • @isabelvargas6618
    @isabelvargas6618 2 года назад +39

    Wow!! 🙌🏽 I want Tim & Juliette Ross for my pre marriage consultations . To my future husband let’s make an informed I DO🙏🏻. @Laterase congratulations on another powerful episode/season can’t wait for your promise to come to fruition 🥰so blessed to be able to follow you on your journey Thank you for being trasparente. God is moving!!
    💍👑🍿😃🙌🏽

  • @chrisb787
    @chrisb787 2 года назад +55

    Not heard of this couple before - but I appreciated everything they had to share. I love this YT page and look forward to each new teaching. Powerful!

    • @dashelledisna6239
      @dashelledisna6239 2 года назад +4

      They are pastors at embassy city church in Irving, texas

    • @chrisb787
      @chrisb787 2 года назад +3

      @@dashelledisna6239 Thank you

    • @drs214tx
      @drs214tx 2 года назад

      Here's more of them. ruclips.net/p/PLeTYyvN7tFdOuvRtSOiRaKPfZENcBkZuX

    • @chrisb787
      @chrisb787 2 года назад

      @@drs214tx thank you kindly

  • @antoniagrant8914
    @antoniagrant8914 2 года назад +34

    I loved it when Juliette nodded her head in agreement and said: spectacular

  • @Kristalwalker1972
    @Kristalwalker1972 Год назад +7

    This has been such a blessing to watch. So many topics that are struggles and a lot of people won’t talk about them so openly because it’s “taboo” or considered not appropriate. Yet these are realities that Christians face. Let’s be real about our walk with Christ. THANK YOU for discussing marriage in a whole new light. NO ONE has ever said that it’s about death and not life!!! I was glued from start to finish. I needed this because I want to be married one day. I want to know what I’m getting into.

  • @gaynelllangston1008
    @gaynelllangston1008 2 года назад +33

    I was so excited to see this couple on here even before watching this. This podcast is changing the thoughts and experiences connected to love and marriage. The fruit of this podcast is health to the soul. I enjoy watching this and my eye and ear gates are blessed because of it. May God bless this podcast exceedingly, abundantly, above all that you have ever asked, thought, or imagined. In Jesus' name, Amen.

  • @Ndaps1
    @Ndaps1 2 года назад +38

    This was powerful. God bless the couple for their truth and transparency. We appreciate you Laterras for creating this platform, more blessings to you.

  • @dasheriicarte
    @dasheriicarte Год назад +11

    I’ve been bingeing on “The Basement w/ Tim Ross” & happened to see this podcast with the both of them & decided to watch. They are truly transparent & allowing God to use them for this time & season. This particular video podcast was soo enlightening in different areas. Though recorded a yr ago, it is still rich in content. Thank you sir, about to go watch more of your podcasts. So needed in these times where divorce rate is soo soo high. God bless you! 😊👏🏾🙏🏾💕

    • @jcconsulting1974
      @jcconsulting1974 Год назад +1

      This is awesome such a mature couple representing Christ being real!

  • @vestavesta687
    @vestavesta687 2 года назад +16

    Awesome couple. A pastor talking about sex is a great thing especially for young people at this time of life when so many teens having identity crisis

  • @msreeree65
    @msreeree65 2 года назад +27

    I am fairly new to this podcast. After watching maybe 5 episodes I finally stopped shacking up and subscribed (AND turned on the notification bell)! I have binged watched more than once. Out of the many other episodes that I loved.....THIS RIGHT HERE!!!! OMG this one is DEFINITELY the best of all the others! Laterras keep doing what you're doing! I can't wait to watch the episode of you and your Future Wifey‼🤵🏿👰🏾 Peace and Blessings to you!

  • @laneyjackson5916
    @laneyjackson5916 2 года назад +17

    Tim and Juliette are amazing human beings. I thank God for their lives! I was so blessed by this video!

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson7179 Год назад +9

    Oooooh JESUS I was so truly touched by Juliette's testimony as her Mother explained to her as a little child about the difference between her earthly Dad and our Heavenly Father and how the Holy Spirit unfolded this understanding wisdom to her at such a young age, so amazing. 👏 She and Tim are awesome anyway because I love tuning into their podcast "the BASEMENT" and I'm always Blessed 🙌 because of the transparency, the wisdom & understanding, and it's just so beautifully sculpted to challenge us minus pretention, religiosity, legalism, sexism, but full of accountability it's totally mind-blowing 🤯 🤣😂

  • @makenasimani4688
    @makenasimani4688 Год назад +9

    This is officially going Into my downloads and to listen to over and over!!! Thank you for this transparent conversation

  • @elizabethmoten106
    @elizabethmoten106 2 года назад +15

    This conversation displayed so much from all involved! We conversed, we laughed, we empathized, we cried, we learned ❤️❤️ Laterras sir your laugh is contagious.

  • @sarinawillis8923
    @sarinawillis8923 2 года назад +18

    So much more of this kind of conversation is needed. The Ross’s are phenomenal and a great example of loving Jesus and enjoying marriage, life and ministry!

  • @leslieamoros6689
    @leslieamoros6689 Год назад

    This has to be the best thing I’ve heard yet! Thank you so much to all involved for sharing.

  • @yumekametoyer7471
    @yumekametoyer7471 Год назад +7

    This was the best one yet! The most applicable marriage advice.

  • @angelahubbard3331
    @angelahubbard3331 2 года назад +14

    Oh my goodness this was one of if not the best podcast I’ve seen. I divorced wanting to remarry and this made me think about so much . This was an eye opener. Boy this was good

  • @AmarisLW
    @AmarisLW 2 года назад +10

    My, my my. When I saw Pastor Tim, I knew it was going to be LIT! Absolutely enjoyed it. I didnt want the conversation to end. Laterras, God truly is intentional with your guests. I got teary eyed watching the episodes in this series. It's so helpful and informative. Gosh this channel is a blessing! God bless you in all your endeavors!!! We appreciate you sooooo much. You're changing lives!!!! Can't wait til the next series. Enjoy your break. You deserve it!!! May God surprise you and blow your mind continually!!! Thank you so much. Be blessed. Love you!!!

  • @sanitagarrett5144
    @sanitagarrett5144 Год назад +3

    There is so much knowledge in this podcast that I will have to listen to it several times! Thank y’all for your transparency and thank you for the prayer of comfort during this season of singleness.

  • @mieyattamalone
    @mieyattamalone 2 года назад +12

    🥲🥲🥲 I was taking a nap when this RUclips video popped on. It literally brought tears to my eyes…This session was the MOST powerful one I’ve heard thus far. Beautiful job💕

  • @cathyanderson1288
    @cathyanderson1288 2 года назад +14

    This episode is awesome. And yes it needs to be discussed in the church. We are so ashamed to talk about it. Sex is apart of marriage.

  • @leslieralston5461
    @leslieralston5461 2 года назад +9

    This was AWESOME!!!! I’ve watched some of Tim’s sermons on RUclips. He’s very relatable. He and his wife are truly meant for one another. I loved how open they were. The church needs to have more convos like this. It’s so necessary!!! You’ve been going hard Laterras, you deserve a break!! See ya in a couple of weeks. Blessings!!

    • @celestesosa01
      @celestesosa01 Год назад

      Yes, and not just for married and engaged couples. Singles and couples who are not engaged need it as well!!

  • @truthteller3181
    @truthteller3181 2 года назад +10

    I’m re-watching and thinking this episode should have far more views! One the of most truthful and transparent

  • @undiscoveredpieces1723
    @undiscoveredpieces1723 2 года назад +24

    This interview was EPIC!!!!! LOVE EVERYTHING THAT THIS COUPLE SHARED! My soul is so refreshed!!!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
    Thankyou, thankyou & thankyou!!!!

  • @iniobongekereke4647
    @iniobongekereke4647 2 года назад +8

    The extent your guests are LIT about their personal stories is a proof God sent you ....He's solidly behind you like He was with Moses

  • @clairelashaun4886
    @clairelashaun4886 2 года назад +4

    This was the best session! I love this couple and their wisdom and transparency!! The honesty and TRUTH they have is such a BLESSING!!! Thank you for allowing us to see them! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💜

  • @blazebrown9102
    @blazebrown9102 2 года назад +6

    Tim & Juliette Ross are the most transparent couple I've seen in years. Their in a position to help many people & couples as they relate to life in general. #TimRoss JulietteRoss #PastorTimRoss Embassy City Church
    Thanks Laterras for another episode of Life Gems 💎💎 & marriage.

  • @Gbeauty714
    @Gbeauty714 2 года назад +9

    39 minutes in and WOW! Already a powerful episode. Every couple needs to watch this together.

  • @paulachambers7756
    @paulachambers7756 2 года назад +19

    I really enjoyed this episode. I took away so many wonderful nuggets and the openness and transparency was refreshing.
    Thank you 😃

  • @amandariley6946
    @amandariley6946 2 года назад +1

    This couple is a breath of fresh air! I could listen to them all day. Laterras, you done outdid yourself again👏🏽. Thank you for this super dope podcast. Have a good break❤️

  • @kabricelewis2349
    @kabricelewis2349 2 года назад +3

    This dialogue was so inspirational, transparent and powerful! This ministered to my soul tremendously. I am sharing this with everyone! Be blessed amd thank you for speaking truth! 🙌 🙏 ❤

  • @michelledavischarismainspi9494
    @michelledavischarismainspi9494 2 года назад +7

    Thank you all for this wonderful content and teaching. You all did that and I am definitely sharing this with all my married friends and singles. Keep going Laterras you are helping many, married and singles. THIS FINALE TO SEASON THREE BOUGHT IT HOME!!
    GRAND SLAM!! ⚾️
    Get some rest (for real😊) and we will be awaiting the next season.