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Dear Future Wifey S3, E320: Divorce (Samantha Lee)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2021
  • Fifty percent of U.S. marriages end in divorce. However, no one gets married believing they will become the statistic on the failed side of marriage. Samantha Lee is going through a painful and public divorce. She shares her journey of faith and what ultimately lead to the heartbreaking decision of filing for "Divorce."
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Комментарии • 681

  • @tubab1
    @tubab1 Год назад +33

    She definitely met someone she was attracted to and was banging him on the side given the way she broke up with her ex husband over text and then quickly moved her things out while he was away working in another state. No sorry half ass excuses can justify her leaving a non abusive relationship the way she did. She then tried to screw him over in divorce court. Scandalous behaviour.

  • @kingtutakhamon
    @kingtutakhamon Год назад +42

    She married him for a lifestyle and I respect it. I wish she would admit it though.

    • @lifecyclestyled6732
      @lifecyclestyled6732 11 месяцев назад +5

      🙄Yes, and he married her for the "look/physical appearance". I wish he would admit it too. It is ashame that our community falls for the "okey dok" from the "Man", while claiming Black Love. Sad....

  • @RealLadi228
    @RealLadi228 Год назад +78

    "She never loved him"
    Ty's new song about this journey is a brilliant masterpiece straight from his heart and soul.

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 Год назад +2

      yep plus thats lenny kravitz on the guitar on that song.

    • @RealLadi228
      @RealLadi228 Год назад +1

      @@arieslove6144
      Supa bad

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 Год назад +1

      @@RealLadi228 yessss

    • @candyperfumegirl4
      @candyperfumegirl4 11 месяцев назад

      She loved him... but didn't love the flip flopping. Tyrese has a track record with all his woman..
      Starting waaay back to his girlfriend from babyboy. Smh he messed her up for many many years after they split. The damage his did to her stayed with her until this day. F*** him he's getting everything he deserves

    • @candyperfumegirl4
      @candyperfumegirl4 11 месяцев назад

      I'm talking about the girl in the barbershop scene ... the girl he took to the red carpet.... he deserves everything he's getting. More to come

  • @Lodeenie
    @Lodeenie Год назад +72

    So you got a tattoo of his initials to show your commitment but you covered it up fairly quickly and easily. So much for commitment. I hope no other man falls for that line.

    • @dwisdomNYC
      @dwisdomNYC Год назад +6

      Tyrese did say Samantha’s mother kidnapped her and moved to Georgia. He also said her mother was divorced 4 times. That’s a lot for a woman.

    • @dpharrison7
      @dpharrison7 Год назад +8

      My ex-husband had my name tattooed on him and he was still cheating 😒

    • @stellabella5269
      @stellabella5269 Год назад +2

      ​@@dpharrison7
      Horrible! 😢

    • @crystalmason829
      @crystalmason829 Год назад +1

      Dudes are simping they will

    • @RCB0107
      @RCB0107 10 месяцев назад

      @@dpharrison7same! I can relate

  • @latonyadurden5010
    @latonyadurden5010 Год назад +69

    She still never said she fell in love with him, or that she loved him for who he was as a person. Being intentional on his part intrigued her and is what caused her to marry him. She said she respected him, she said she trusted him, but never said she loved him. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

    • @sabineduchard1775
      @sabineduchard1775 Год назад +8

      She did not love him. But she loved that he was Tyrese and the attention she got from him. As soon as the attention was not on her, she left. Well, that's what he said

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV Год назад

      So what, you don’t have to live someone to marry them. The wealthy know this.

    • @mirac2062
      @mirac2062 Год назад +2

      She said she was immature and was flirting with other men, while being married, idc if your getting a divorce, it's still adultery.

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV Год назад +1

      @@mirac2062 no flirting isn’t adultery. Stop making stuff up.

    • @mirac2062
      @mirac2062 Год назад

      @AmaLoveGoddessTV it's cheating though, I'm sorry for assuming, but at this point, I'm starting to think that these so called Christian women are just lying, and are using God as a defensive mechanism, like that's not the Christian way, I don't think God even supports divorce, and most girls in America are whores now, and it's true, and now I'm assuming she did as well, and I wouldn't be surprised if she did cheat.

  • @queentanika4337
    @queentanika4337 Год назад +14

    I believe Tyrese. She was made because he went back to work and felt like he was not giving her attention. She never got with God that divorce was the best option. The fact that she comes from a family background of unforgiveness means she should not be in a marriage again. Tyrese moved too fast with her in a sense of commitment.

  • @ephriamsmith8905
    @ephriamsmith8905 Год назад +8

    She doesn’t believe in what she preaches. You are a worldly woman. Marriage is a covenant that is only broken through DEATH. I dislike these PART-Time Christians. You are either all in or all out. Get off the damn fence.

  • @Visiondrivenllc
    @Visiondrivenllc Год назад +45

    She wanted a teammate not a husband and she never told that man or anybody public why she left. Court documents stated she wanted money and he said no.

    • @cdahm5425
      @cdahm5425 Год назад +5

      Finally someone said it🤣 We all know what it is in 21st century america tho. Marry a western broad at your own risk😉

    • @One_Black_Panther
      @One_Black_Panther Год назад

      Facts...I can't listen to this bullshit. Most people so devoted to church ironically live more sinful in experiences...

    • @cdahm5425
      @cdahm5425 Год назад +6

      @@One_Black_Panther Right. Imagine sittin up there ustifying divorce as a Christian, knowing full well there's a verse stating, I THE LORD GOD OF ISRAEL HATE DIVORCE

  • @tommyd1059
    @tommyd1059 2 года назад +41

    Healing is a beautiful thing. The divorce I experienced was painful. It was literally like I experienced death. The people who I thought loved me turned their back on me. I lost a lot including myself. This was only about 5-6 yrs ago. Now 5-6 yrs later I'm healing, growing and learning more than I have ever have in my life. God is faithful and just. Divorce is something I never want to experience again. So if I marry again, it will truly be 'Til Death do us Part.

    • @suzzetteroyal-jk5mu
      @suzzetteroyal-jk5mu 9 месяцев назад

      I don't think she is for real she didn't love him then and she don't love him now, it's because of the money she wants him back.

  • @AndreaSylve
    @AndreaSylve 2 года назад +88

    This episode is a reflection of my heart. God restored me after a divorce. I forgave him and myself. We are in a good space and coparented our children. I prayed for his marriage before he remarried. God can do amazing things when you surrender and let him lead you.

    • @shalalala868
      @shalalala868 2 года назад +5

      This is sooo beautiful and mature! May God bless you the same way!

  • @dwisdomNYC
    @dwisdomNYC Год назад +53

    It would’ve been nice for the interview to start by how they met. Nothing STARTS with Divorce 😮

    • @originalceo
      @originalceo Год назад +3

      Ikr but that's the part that would have been the transparency we needed but I guess that's also the part she f*cked up 😅

    • @momwalker2706
      @momwalker2706 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@originalceo😅

    • @winniexxx1865
      @winniexxx1865 10 месяцев назад +2

      SAM LEE why Divorce....No cheating, No violence WHY

    • @lethabomashapa100
      @lethabomashapa100 10 месяцев назад +1

      I agree! I'm so disappointed that he didn't ask.

    • @dwisdomNYC
      @dwisdomNYC 10 месяцев назад

      @@lethabomashapa100 he normally ask all his guest. I’m sure she asked him to not ask how they met.

  • @oyanamoorer7877
    @oyanamoorer7877 2 года назад +35

    This episode is so necessary. The way she spoke of her ex shows that they’re both great people just not great for one another. My testimony is similar. My marriage ended in divorce almost three years ago. I know now that…I married without a word from God, so I married my season. During the marriage I would ask( not question) God…why is it so hard for us, why is it not working????. We tried everything…including counseling, nothing worked. One day I got my answer, there are marriages we put ourselves in and marriages that God joins together. I put myself in my marriage and prayed for God to fix it or heal it when I had no business in it to begin with.

    • @originalceo
      @originalceo Год назад +6

      Qudos to you for getting to this point and being transparent enough to admit it. My issue is she's basically saying God was ok with her decision. Just because God Is gracious to work with us and cover our sin does not mean it was a right decision in His eyes to divorce. Which is kinda how this whole interview came off to me and honestly irked me. Like is this it?! Is this how it goes down with God now?! Truly admitting mistakes allow us to be set free from making same mistakes again imho.

  • @shernitearnold2151
    @shernitearnold2151 Год назад +51

    When you ask a woman why she married someone, and she doesn't mention love, you have a business arrangement. Intentions have motives. He was motivated by reforming his image. Her desicion making being logica lrather than emotionally driven, or a balance between both, further adds to the evidence that she was there to as an business partner to benefit from through financial security. If she truly loved him and he loved her , it would of made them both behave differently. God is love. Without love nothing will be prosper

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV Год назад +1

      It’s not wise to make Decisions based on emotion.

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 Год назад +1

      #TruthRightThere❗❗❗
      Without love....it is just a business partnership.

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 Год назад

      ​@@fashionwithoutlabelsIt's legal...but not business only.

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 Год назад

      Cheating IS THE reason. Look it up.

    • @RAJOHN-ke7mc
      @RAJOHN-ke7mc 10 месяцев назад

      No one should marry for love. Life is not a fairytale

  • @raywilliams1590
    @raywilliams1590 Год назад +9

    SAMANTHA, IM STILL WAITING TO HEAR "WHY" YOU CHOSE TO DIVORCE??

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Год назад +161

    I really feel in my spirit that a lot of women fall out of attraction with their husbands and that leads to them to divorce. Their attraction is to money and fame in the beginning.🔥

    • @princeD1100
      @princeD1100 Год назад +13

      I totally agree with you 100%!! Their relationships is based on superficial values and materialism, and then they wonder why their relationships fall apart!

    • @hotstreak9805
      @hotstreak9805 Год назад +17

      And a selfish decision from the beginning

    • @tramelparker2085
      @tramelparker2085 Год назад +16

      I was thinking this too… she was no longer attracted to Tyrese made up an excuse and divorced him 😳

    • @princeD1100
      @princeD1100 Год назад +12

      @@tramelparker2085 Exactly! I watched a video of when Tyrese had the artist Jonathan McReynolds to do a private performance at Tyrese's home as a birthday surprise for Samantha Lee, and during that whole time not once did Samantha embrace nor kiss her husband for doing such a beautiful gesture! Very weird behaviour!

    • @RhondaR4
      @RhondaR4 Год назад +1

      @@princeD1100, AMEN!💯

  • @tonimariebeautifulluv
    @tonimariebeautifulluv 2 года назад +92

    She is me. Going through the same thing and am not bitter and intentional about operating in Forgiveness. 😊 I thank God for his healing of the Broken- hearted 🙏🏾. I am somebody's wife though. I will trust God and his process for me!

    • @supportdmv00
      @supportdmv00 2 года назад

      Well said 🙌🏽

    • @michelledowner5148
      @michelledowner5148 2 года назад +1

      I am working on forgiveness....Agree I am someone wife 👏🏾

    • @the_truth21
      @the_truth21 2 года назад +1

      So you’re also trying to screw over your ex husband

    • @kirkmontague7809
      @kirkmontague7809 Год назад +3

      Well I haven't heard from her what she needs to forgive him for?

  • @elkimasimpson1580
    @elkimasimpson1580 2 года назад +13

    I was at the edge of losing hope remarrying. After told that marriage isn't a possibility in the church and being divorcee in church having to face criticism from believer who thinks God Judgment is upon you. I came across this podcast and it truly help hearing others stories on divorce. Thank you for being lead by God to help women and men who suffer through divorce.

  • @paulhaye
    @paulhaye Год назад +11

    Karma is going to hit this girl hard. Tyrese gave her no reason to leave him.
    The man is a saint, but that he was not an A-list star is what caused her to leave him.
    He had money, but not enough money for her taste.
    The next guy she snags will be much richer than Tyrese, and therein will lie your proof.
    This is not a sincere woman, and fellows should run for the hills if they see her coming.

  • @glorycarriersrenmow
    @glorycarriersrenmow 2 года назад +57

    "Let the God in you, connect with the God in him." I'm encouraged 🙏

  • @patrickhatcherson3416
    @patrickhatcherson3416 Год назад +46

    Seeing how confused our women are is extremely saddening! Our community is in trouble.

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV Год назад +1

      It’s not confusion. How many women has Tyrese ran away. The current one is online publicly humiliating him.

    • @asiatyreeshow6643
      @asiatyreeshow6643 11 месяцев назад +3

      She said she not black

    • @samanthalowe9522
      @samanthalowe9522 10 месяцев назад +1

      Men are just as confused

    • @aaronmiles2802
      @aaronmiles2802 9 месяцев назад

      @@samanthalowe9522Nonsense, statistically it’s not men that are breaking up their families en masse

    • @askiabattle3678
      @askiabattle3678 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@samanthalowe9522 confused in what way

  • @cherwallace6026
    @cherwallace6026 2 года назад +5

    I don’t remember how I came across this podcast, but I’m so glad I did. It has been such a blessing; hearing how the different couples came together and are overcoming divers challenges to stay together. The wedding vows series was extremely insightful and inspiring.

  • @patriciascorner4686
    @patriciascorner4686 2 года назад +115

    As I listened to this episode all I heard was Samantha's respect for her ex husband and that she's happy her daughter has a fantastic relationship with her dad. And this talking post divorce! I really admired her class.
    Side note she looks so much like Eva Longoria!

    • @andreababb7525
      @andreababb7525 Год назад +2

      That is so true

    • @hotstreak9805
      @hotstreak9805 Год назад +13

      If she had real respect, she would have stayed. I don't think she got divorced for any real reason. It seems lame and these women think it's a fashion trend or something.

    • @bardarians
      @bardarians Год назад +7

      ​@@hotstreak9805 Agreed marriage is an oath to God and shouldn't be thrown in the bin likely

    • @lovemusic751
      @lovemusic751 Год назад +1

      I thought it was Eva Longoria initially.

    • @angenereid730
      @angenereid730 Год назад +10

      Even Tyrese has no clue why she left him. I honestly don’t think that’s fair to him. She should respect him enough to tell him the truth.

  • @mzsuzdle
    @mzsuzdle 2 года назад +13

    "Let go of all expectations of a human being's behaviour in response to what God has called me to do." This right here!!!!!

  • @karenjones7607
    @karenjones7607 2 года назад +16

    Another powerful session here Laterras. Certainly ranks within my top 5 for all the wisdom bestowed in this dialogue. I've already re-watched several sections, took notes, etc.
    Thank you so much for this.
    Anticipate this one to go viral like your Essence video.

  • @aliciamcmillan9322
    @aliciamcmillan9322 2 года назад +68

    I really love that God has blessed Samantha and she is not bitter and God is first in her life. Great Podcast! I was not looking to see what she would say about her marriage, but instead enlightened by her journey. Be blessed you two!

  • @stormb8433
    @stormb8433 Год назад +12

    Lol ask her what Christianity has to do with wanting $20k a month from Tyrese despite never working with they were married.

    • @Foodphillic
      @Foodphillic Год назад

      When you have a spouse stay at home, that is their role in that marriage. So yes, the providing spouse MUST continue to provide after a divorce plus there may be kids involved. $20k May seem like a lot to you. You don’t know their lifestyle.

  • @savaunahrae
    @savaunahrae Год назад +5

    Im confused...What is she even talking about? Why did she divorce Tyrese? Did he cheat? I really wanna know. Has she talked about that?

  • @youngcyy
    @youngcyy Год назад +25

    I really feel sorry for Tyrese Gibson for falling for her

  • @sdcaldwell8882
    @sdcaldwell8882 Год назад +1

    You got me again. I am sitting here sobbing as you read that letter. Please do not ever feel like you were not called to this: you were and you are. I cannot even describe the yoke that have been destroyed and the burdens that have been lifted just by you having conversations. This is what has been missing. The conversations with saints, the conversations that are heard at the feet of great leaders. Thank you, thank you - thank you!❤❤❤

  • @MrPrettyBoyChina
    @MrPrettyBoyChina Год назад +11

    Why y’all give her a platform she trifling

    • @Amiyah2love
      @Amiyah2love 2 месяца назад

      How

    • @MrPrettyBoyChina
      @MrPrettyBoyChina 2 месяца назад

      @@Amiyah2love she faked like she loved Tyrese. Only married him to divorce him for the 💰💰 . #Trifling

  • @kinder7513
    @kinder7513 Год назад +8

    LRW you do such a great job of just sitting down and talking to people. I am so impressed with your thought provoking way of interacting with your guests. I can sense that you are truly interested in their journey and the flow of your conversations are so organic. God definitely has His hand on your life and He has and will allow great things to happen for you. God has blessed you and He will keep you is my prayer.

  • @jdelaynanderson
    @jdelaynanderson 2 года назад +20

    Another great session! Just when I think that I have watched the best session, another one comes along. I am grateful for Samantha's openness and transparency in sharing the "REAL" moments in a divorce... Contemplating the Christian walk in choosing divorce. Many people suffer in silence because they just don't know what to do for so long because they are trying to preserve the family. People need to hear this. It took a lot of studying the scriptures and seeking God's understanding for me. Its called, Letting go and letting God. This is another "Me Too" moment. You've done it again!

  • @marthemendo1643
    @marthemendo1643 2 года назад +4

    This was a great convo. Real, honest, authentic, encouraging and emotional. Loved it Good job!

  • @marauderad
    @marauderad Год назад +7

    Lol, lies she over here capping . She is not a Christian am sorry. Too many fakesters running around

  • @RonnieRobinson78
    @RonnieRobinson78 2 года назад +9

    I love how she said “team mate” that’s exactly what I would need. I love how she doesn’t bash him as many woman do when they breakup with the guy or get a divorce. I love how she spoke positive about him.
    I love how she said she is not married to her timeline
    This was definitely a blessing for people who are going through divorce.

  • @lawandamcdowell8147
    @lawandamcdowell8147 2 года назад +16

    I Corinthians 7:15 God has called US to peace! If DIVORCE or the unbeliever departed. Forgiveness is definitely the key. Forgiveness in LOVE, I love that part of the podcast! What the law couldn't do GRACE (Jesus) did much more abound like the woman with five husband's. Jesus didn't condemn her but gave her peace through LOVE 💕

  • @theresa904
    @theresa904 Год назад +4

    She was never In love with Tyrese. She speaking a lot of Word Salad!

  • @theresalor
    @theresalor 2 года назад +6

    So I went out to dinner with with girlfriend tonight and had an honest conversation about marriage. And the Dear Futurw Wifey podcast was brought up. I was talking about the LIT concept and how if we understood the concept of marriage as believers, many of us would step into marriage differently. Marriage is no joke. Marriage ain't for punks. I think that's why I'm so apprehensive lol and i take it seriously to even date you. Thank you for this ❤

  • @faithoverfear6965
    @faithoverfear6965 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hold on.... She is saying that she prayed and fasted and was listening to God before getting a divorce??
    She's walking in obedience??
    Why would God call you to leave your husband and break up your family so that your daughter would grow up in a broken home?
    This makes absolutely no sense!!
    Stop using God to cover up your sins and packaging it up to sound godly.
    In her most recent interview on Highly Initiated she's now making completely conflicting statements. She's saying that she was "emotionally intoxicated" when she left her husband and that she had no one in her ears at the time that was giving her good marriage advice.
    She admitted that she made an irrational decision while angry and now regrets it.
    This whole interview needs to be called into question.
    They went from having these amazing date nights during the pandemic and then as soon as he went back to making music she bounced.
    His story is starting to make alot of sense now and it's unfortunate that she's hiding lies behind Christianity.
    She's out here making conflicting statements and giving marriage advice while her own house is burning down.
    Just like she said to fact check ✅
    That's what we are doing and it's not adding up 👎

  • @42Israel1
    @42Israel1 Год назад +4

    This was a good interview. You can learn so much by listening to people. When people live a life of stardom you really don’t know who they are until you meet them or hear their story of truth. Laterras you are an awesome interviewer. You bring out a lot of a person’s character. I must say the most touching part of your show are your letters to your future wife. When she is presented to you and you two are in each other’s presence. It’s going to be a beautiful experience that will last a lifetime. ❤

  • @MsPhumzi
    @MsPhumzi 2 года назад +4

    "Now relax, I'll take it from here" - This went straight to my heart. Thank you
    This session has restored my faith in trusting a good MAN is out there with the pure heart, INTENTIONAL MAN. Amen

  • @DMDNLove
    @DMDNLove 2 года назад +25

    This was amazing! If you came here for tea, this was the wrong episode for you! That Forgiveness wall was so POWERFUL! Blessings to you, Queen, on your continued journey!

    • @olderwiser1017
      @olderwiser1017 Год назад

      Forgiveness - Deep!!

    • @kyrianjoseph1403
      @kyrianjoseph1403 Год назад

      I realized by the comments there’s alot of tea people.

    • @Pasonrev
      @Pasonrev 11 месяцев назад

      Actions always speak louder than words. James 3:12 says a whole lot. I don't care what people say, I observe their actions

  • @karenmcgee1869
    @karenmcgee1869 2 года назад +13

    The level of forgiveness that Samantha spoke of is really deep. I pray that the LORD helps me to forgive on that level! Blessings to you both. I loved this podcast. Spoke to my heart.

  • @KellieAlston
    @KellieAlston 2 года назад +15

    The description of the pursuit and the "you're the one" on the first date sounds a lot like the behavior of narcissists and would be a red flag for me now that I know what I know. Narcs move fast and tell you things like, "There is nothing else I could want in a woman," or "I have never felt like this before" and then love bomb you like crazy. Yes, it is "beautiful" at first but those persons are not able to maintain that "persona" as it is not authentic. The act is part of the disorder. I have been learning about this disorder for years now and am so glad that I know the cycle of narcs now. It seems sooo good, sooo genuine in the beginning and as a result, people stay with narcs hoping to feel that way again. Unfortunately, the love was never authentic and so those who remain with narcs spend their entire lives on a rollercoaster or should I say a "merry-go-round" all because they were hoping things would go back to the way they were in the beginning. I am so glad she made the decision that was best for her. Interestingly, "he" (her ex) was in a relationship with a much younger woman five minutes after they broke up. That is another symptom of NPD. They cannot be alone and jump from relationship to relationship without batting an eye.😉

    • @ibiminaabiye257
      @ibiminaabiye257 2 года назад

      More like a merry go round. Was married to one for 16 yrs, now seperated. I thank God for wisdom to navigate these times

  • @gilbertdavenport4389
    @gilbertdavenport4389 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your story was very impactful, especially where you spoke about forgiving people in the space of love. I learned growing up how to hold a grudge as well, but I also learned that I can't be forgiven if I don't forget!

  • @lelegeo7204
    @lelegeo7204 2 года назад +29

    she has a beautiful soul, i love that she spoke so positively about her marriage.

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 2 года назад

      Me too!

    • @crypto_guapo
      @crypto_guapo Год назад +1

      She got an evil soul…she divorced that man for no reason that is acceptable under God

    • @kirkmontague7809
      @kirkmontague7809 Год назад +2

      So she's a good wife why did she leave again??? He didn't cheat and he wasn't beating her...... I'm not hearing her reason why she left..... But I'm certainly hearing her express how devoted she is to the Lord..... I hear a lot of people saying that maybe she was in love with what he is ( a celebrity) not who he is as a person..... as soon as she had the baby she left...... packed up her stuff while he was out of town recording a video.....she didn't want to talk....then got an attorney right away and then went for some money.

    • @crypto_guapo
      @crypto_guapo Год назад

      @@kirkmontague7809 now she’s on RUclips and Instagram analyzing everyone else’s relationships but her own

    • @oprahholder3669
      @oprahholder3669 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@kirkmontague7809he never cheated??

  • @queeni5212
    @queeni5212 10 месяцев назад +2

    This guy over this podcast I discerned he based how a woman looks to him, how he listens, he gives off flirty vibes. He has a type but his type never likes him back. He falls in a friend zone with this type. He did the same thing with Essence. He gives choosing signals strong. This is a whole lie. She married somebody else husband and expected a different result. She married him for clout and monetary convenience. Her actions show it in court. Just because you appear to the naked eye successful with this podcast, you can be successfully wrong. Tyrese was not your husband, his true wife was his first wife. You were in a adulterous relationship with him. When there’s no standard in the world there is no convictions to the truth or choices we make. Listening to her words they are not trustworthy. If he good at being a dad why did you fight him with three lawyers in court for more money? Make it make sense. This lady is what happens when you giving others advice that you are speaking from a defeated place. Because you have not acknowledge the truth, so you will ultimately repeat this patterns. I digress!

  • @deecarb5891
    @deecarb5891 8 месяцев назад +1

    This podcast is totally worth noting!!

  • @natashaj4078
    @natashaj4078 2 года назад +4

    IDK if someone mentioned this in the comments .. when Noah sent the dove out after the flood when they came back, it came back the first time with an olive branch... It reflects restoration and also peace.
    I agree with the idea of breakdown... I often say in conversations, "breakdown brings breakthrough". It is the starting place for true transformation when we come to the end of ourselves or our plans.
    Ill take it from here... 🎤🔥🔥🔥

  • @ldwoods3237
    @ldwoods3237 2 года назад +36

    She's exhibiting a peace that surpasses all understanding in the midst of something that some women would be hiding away from 🙌🏾 #OnlyGod

  • @kayleek4406
    @kayleek4406 Год назад +4

    So she broke up with Tyrese because she had to heal from her pain that went thru in her childhood and former life before Tyrese Gibson?

  • @tdubb876
    @tdubb876 2 года назад +7

    Samantha appears to have such a beautiful soul that shined through this interview. May God continue to bless her ministry. I pray that he keeps her and her family as they navigate this complex season. 🙏🏾💖

    • @kirkmontague7809
      @kirkmontague7809 Год назад

      So she's a good wife so why did she leave again??? He didn't cheat and he wasn't beating her...... I'm not hearing her reason why she left..... But I'm certainly hearing her express how devoted she is to the Lord..... I hear a lot of people saying that maybe she was in love with what he is ( a celebrity) not who he is as a person..... as soon as she had the baby she left...... packed up her stuff while he was out of town recording a video.....she didn't want to talk....then got an attorney right away and then went for some money. So imagine you get a call from your wife/ spouse out-of-the-blue saying surprise I'm leaving ...then they cover up the ring doorbell so you can't see that you're actually leaving and moving 50 boxes out... Then tell everybody that HE kicked you out with the baby and cut up all the credit cards???

    • @user-nn7wo8cu5q
      @user-nn7wo8cu5q Год назад

      @@kirkmontague7809 we live in a sick world, she never came out to change the story that she got kicked out. All just to tarnish this man's image.

  • @miltonkyra
    @miltonkyra 2 года назад +4

    I HAVE NEVER heard someone on such a public forum shout out Dacula GA!! I was shooketh lol!! Thanks for sharing your story -a fellow Mill Creek Grad ❤️❤️

  • @mspeacemkr
    @mspeacemkr 11 месяцев назад +3

    I'm going to bust the bubble. She didn't have biblical grounds for divorce. You don’t just change partners because you're not feeling someone. Not in Christ.

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham89 11 месяцев назад +2

    Her face is flawless, I can see why he was enamored by her, but she clearly used Tyrese for money.

    • @sarossamitha8094
      @sarossamitha8094 11 месяцев назад +1

      they are using the best lighting and makeup, to give up the experience...the illusion.

  • @monalisasmiles1978
    @monalisasmiles1978 2 года назад +3

    Babyyyyyyyyyy this woman married my crush! The man I mimicked my ex after so this was therapeutic, refreshing, wisdom, godly, and breathtaking to listen to AND understand my journey! What a beautiful and transparent interview! You never cease to amaze me Latteras: GREAT JOB

  • @p31ChicaLove
    @p31ChicaLove 2 года назад +44

    I love the confidence this woman exudes! Yes Sis! You are a Wife and so am I!…by the Grace of God!

    • @tanyaholland8542
      @tanyaholland8542 2 года назад +5

      👏👏 yes even at my age I still sing the youthful song
      " Jesus loves me this I know for the Bible tells me so". It's definitely one of my all-time comforting songs. That I can always turn on from inside out or without turning on my favorite worship artists. As someone that has been married, divorce and married again this episode definitely reminds me of the song"we Fall down but we get up". So as true believers in Christ we fall but God always allows us to rise back up. God always causes us to win we just have to be ready stay in position to begin again.
      There are stil God fearing God loving good men in the world.

    • @loribee858
      @loribee858 2 года назад

      @@tanyaholland8542 thanks for this, especially the last sentence...timely reminder 🤗

    • @kirkmontague7809
      @kirkmontague7809 Год назад +2

      So she's a wife why did she leave again??? He didn't cheat and he wasn't beating her...... I'm not hearing her reason why she left..... But I'm certainly hearing her express how devoted she is to the Lord..... I hear a lot of people saying that maybe she was in love with what he is ( celebrity) not who he is as a person..... as soon as she had the baby she left...... Didn't want to talk got an attorney right away and then went for some money.

  • @AaronAkron1204
    @AaronAkron1204 Год назад +7

    I listen to T. Gibson

  • @GospelMusicians
    @GospelMusicians 10 месяцев назад

    Been watching a few episodes and it heartens me on how light Christians are taking divorce. Matthew 5:31-32 - “' But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”

  • @lerrylee8711
    @lerrylee8711 2 года назад +4

    I enjoyed this podcast; Samantha was absolutely right in what she stated towards the end; you, Laterras, have given me hope that there are men out there willing to take the walk and do the work towards healing, learning, growing and becoming a better version of themselves.

  • @milisaganiso4438
    @milisaganiso4438 2 года назад +4

    Also Sam's encouragement at the end😭😭🙌🙌 may the LORD bless her ❤

  • @springsoflivingwater
    @springsoflivingwater 2 года назад +6

    I love her energy and her openess. Never been married yet I learnt so so so much from her. Forgiveness being a major work in progress for me, I love what she shared ❤

  • @arinetwork4886
    @arinetwork4886 Год назад +1

    How can a man stay married to a woman who is angry forever? She doesn't appear to be a humble woman as she looks on the outside. Ty said she had a video coming out about some important people and had people over. He had given her ten months at home during the pandemic, and she didn't want him to be with others. I hope Samantha looks inside and realize that her unforgiveness could have caused issues in her marriage. She is from a town close to where I live.

  • @mrdanielleebrown
    @mrdanielleebrown 11 месяцев назад +1

    Lord, the most romantic thing about you is your commitment. I need to now use your word, love grace, commitment and relationship to effectuate a successful natural marriage, as a man who finds a wife with the qualities aforementioned is truly a good thing.

  • @natzg
    @natzg 2 года назад +2

    Loved this episode ❤ BUT your letter was everything!! You are healing hearts and restoring hope. Thank you 💖

  • @leroymckenziejr.jnfenterpr567
    @leroymckenziejr.jnfenterpr567 Год назад +2

    I would be interested in seeing u hve Tyrese on you show and hve him discuss this,since u had her. Very interesting interview.

  • @milisaganiso4438
    @milisaganiso4438 2 года назад +5

    No ways! The letter was just simply beautiful. Amen🌻🙏🏽

  • @LovesJourney1
    @LovesJourney1 2 года назад +8

    Another GREAT episode. Her journey was part of my journey. She gave so many nuggets. She was definitely LIT

    • @marcuskennedy4699
      @marcuskennedy4699 Год назад +1

      So if he wasn't beating you up and there was no infidelity on what grounds did you divorce him what biblical grounds did you have I see none and I hear none out of your own mouth 🤔

  • @maniaccash1414
    @maniaccash1414 Год назад +130

    Lol hilarious... what happened was she get with him because he was rich got a baby and bounced because she figured shed get 20k a month child support 😂🤣

    • @latonyadurden5010
      @latonyadurden5010 Год назад +9

      I agree🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @v.i.butterfly4779
      @v.i.butterfly4779 Год назад +9

      Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @bobbijokramm1976
      @bobbijokramm1976 Год назад

      Absolutely 💯 she's a 👉🤡

    • @DC-qk8ue
      @DC-qk8ue Год назад +12

      Yup! This dude is a 🤡 by allowing her a platform and using her name for clicks. 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @lionface1364
      @lionface1364 Год назад +3

      For real. God told he " go get that check girl" lmao

  • @sco3202
    @sco3202 2 года назад +2

    Samantha, thank you for sharing your story. I just recently ran across the 'Dear Future Wifey' podcast and I have been tremendously blessed by each show.

  • @bjrambow584
    @bjrambow584 2 года назад

    Very Sweet Podcasts. I work and still make time to tap in when The desk isnt buzzing! So worth the sneak to peak!!!!

  • @tylynn256
    @tylynn256 2 года назад +2

    Making Decisions from a Healed place is good word!. That gave me chills right there.

  • @ruthglory5245
    @ruthglory5245 2 года назад +10

    ✨Isaiah 54: 12 - I will make your battlements of rubies, your gates of sparkling jewels, and all your walls of precious stones.✨
    🏹 The function of battlements in war is to protect the defenders, by giving them something to hide behind, from which they can pop out to launch their own missiles.🏹
    I love Isaiah 54: 12 because no matter the scar, no matter the wound, no matter the battlement,
    Jesus turns all of those things into beautiful gems 💎 & what the enemy thought he would use against us, to drag us, to slander our name, & even try to make us condemn ourselves. ... but God, we can hide in His presence, grow in His presence, & inturn be a vessel for the HolySpirit to use to help others!
    & This is 1of the ways we destroy the tactics of the enemy.
    And this is something that this conversation is doing for the masses!!!
    Shoot your shot Sam & to God be The Glory 🕊️🧬🕊️

  • @user-zs5bb7bb8m
    @user-zs5bb7bb8m Год назад +2

    This reminded me that in marriage we must go an extra step after forgiveness and choose reconciliation and not a stalemate. Forgiveness is hard but reconciliation is twice as hard. I can forgive ok but it’s reconciliation where I have to really put in that work!

  • @stephanie1611
    @stephanie1611 2 года назад +6

    Love your podcast. This is such a blessing to single women like myself. I would love to hear topics from women on how to look for warning signs during a courtship. I recently met a guy that has been engaged twice and I’m like oh heck no!! Warning sign number 1. I think if we pay attention to a person’s previous relationship history, this may save people from divorce. I know we are all flawed but we must let the Holy Spirit guide us to the right person. This may save a lot of pain.

    • @pcarlisle86
      @pcarlisle86 Год назад +1

      So true if both spouse have the Holy Spirit but you’re real trials don’t start until you say I do

  • @mrdanielleebrown
    @mrdanielleebrown 11 месяцев назад +1

    The scary part about marriage in America, and even in the church is the lack of purpose for getting married and the lack of commitment between two people to walk out that purpose. There really needs to be a purpose for getting married that exceeds the superficial and enters the spiritual. We're just not producing that type of husband and wife in this country. If you find that in this country, FIGHT because that type of spouse is a narrow as the road to salvation. The road to destruction is broad, but the road to salvation is narrow. Only few will find it.
    For sure!

  • @tonywalker2748
    @tonywalker2748 Год назад +6

    The lies can literally show in her face. She’s evil. It was about money from day one. Stop using God in your words.

  • @ruckusbuck
    @ruckusbuck Год назад +3

    If God causes no man to sin, why is it believed that you can "pray on it" say "God advised you to get a divorce?"

  • @meadowsol11
    @meadowsol11 2 года назад +7

    Thank you Laterras and Samantha. This conversation was exactly what I needed and right on time. God is so good. There were so many gems that will stick with me:
    * “I let go of all expectations of a human beings behaviour in response to whatever God has called me to do.”
    * “That’s not really walking in obedience, that’s walking in expectation…”
    * “I’m somebody’s wife!”
    * “I’m not so married to my timeline that I’m not going to abide by His” 👏🏾

  • @d1powell
    @d1powell Год назад +6

    Am I the only one who sees a chameleon?
    Listening to her and watching these comments is making me think so different about marriage. The delusion of a good wife is so rampant thats its basically impossible to have a healthy traditional marriage.
    #Chameleon

  • @nosiphopakamile8972
    @nosiphopakamile8972 2 года назад +6

    'I'm not so married to my timeline that I won't abide by His' ❤💯This!
    Thank you Sis, you're indeed someone's wife! You've done great with the cards you were dealt.
    Your friend was right Mr Host, being yourself has drawn so many souls that needed to see and hear real 🙏🏾
    May God keep blessing you both.

  • @chewznbooz
    @chewznbooz Год назад +1

    Good show! Thanks again! I cannot watch too many episodes back to back because I would be crying all day long, but I love the show!

  • @creativetips97
    @creativetips97 2 года назад +2

    I thought we was keeping it lit & transparent. I don't follow celebrity life & lifestyles so I felt not enough content was provided.

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 2 года назад +5

    People who aren't you can't tell you to go back to what they didn't experience in your marriage As you did. You shouldn't fight for something when you are the only one willing to get in The ring, once the other person is done, you can't force or carry them to the finish line. The Race has to be for both together, not you dragging someone to something they're actions show you they don't want. Not something I heard. And once you are free, the lightness and paths open up for what God has for you. Bless those who can work it out, but to work it out BOTH people have to have a Want To Spiritand Yoking, PERIODT ❣✌🏾

  • @tracymiller6965
    @tracymiller6965 2 года назад +1

    I absolutely love this Podcast. That being said, the heartbeat of it...is transparency. And unfortunately someone who is in the midst of a divorce can't be transparent. Because the heartbeat of the Podcast is transparency, it lends itself to then being a place of restoration. Something as significant as divorce, must be spelled out. People may not realize it, but divorce is just as sacred as marriage. I love this Podcast.... amazing work!!!!!

  • @mitchella5954
    @mitchella5954 2 года назад +1

    Another great episode. Really loved when she talked about forgiveness. She realized that it really wasn't for them, it for us. Keep 'em coming Bro!

  • @MichaelAlexander1967
    @MichaelAlexander1967 2 года назад +1

    I saw the video where Samantha received Jonathan Mcreynolds on her birthday. I really enjoyed this conversation. Best well wishes and prayers going up for Samantha and this new chapter of her beautiful life. 🥰🙏

  • @preciousmike34
    @preciousmike34 2 года назад +3

    Christians we can be mean sometimes😔. We heard that she consulted God and different advice, including spiritual and some are here quoting "wrongness" of divorce, yet forget to show compassion for a hurting person. Divorce is not the unforgivable sin, we need to learn to use the Word of God to love, comfort, teach, encourage & build up people, not condemn them. This is a sore topic for me, because I love marriage and family, though I've never been married & divorced, I've seen how it has hurt many people, no one wants their family torn apart. Great journey Samantha👏👏

  • @swqueen03
    @swqueen03 Год назад +4

    So, she divorced because of unforgiveness? I’m confused… WHY DID SHE DIVORCE TYRESE?

  • @fatimahalea8472
    @fatimahalea8472 2 года назад +2

    It’s the hearty laugh for me. I felt that 😂😂😂

  • @hankl6897
    @hankl6897 Год назад +4

    GOLD DIGGER ???? DONT SEE NO REMORSE IN HER..JUST --PLAY ACTING....REAP THE SOWS

  • @MacPunky2908
    @MacPunky2908 2 года назад +2

    Absolutely love this episode...always thought provoking and very uplifting and encouraging 🎉🤗

  • @rellsmind9842
    @rellsmind9842 Год назад +4

    This hit different when you here tyrese side

    • @Lodeenie
      @Lodeenie Год назад +1

      Exactly! That's why I'm here a year later.

  • @shrmtcoleman
    @shrmtcoleman 2 года назад +5

    So sad when “intentional” is love bombing.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 года назад +3

      You said a mouthful. Preach. There's a fine line.

  • @StayingAliveforWomen
    @StayingAliveforWomen Год назад +3

    She struggled to say why she married Tyrese.she avoids using his name.eyes batting and other nonverbal gave us the answer. never LOVE or respected him.

    • @KarenWBaugh
      @KarenWBaugh 10 месяцев назад

      She was asked not to say his name They were still in the divorce sessions this time.

  • @lisandrahaynes7631
    @lisandrahaynes7631 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for bringing her on. I’ve been watching her for some time now and have watched her grow so much.. God works thru her. Enjoyed this. ❤️🙏🏽

  • @aishamills5629
    @aishamills5629 2 года назад +3

    Another mind blowing podcast
    Thank you Thank you Thank you
    I'm on my journey of healing as well, and this session spoke directly to my story. Thank you for your obedience to Gods guidance and direction on your Podcast its a Blessing.

  • @tonytone1395
    @tonytone1395 Год назад +4

    She didn't even really say why she married him lol I don't know if she loved him

    • @kinglistosas5010
      @kinglistosas5010 Год назад

      She didn't. It was a payday. Have a kid by a man with money then divorce him. Women are rewarded for divorce.

  • @shawnettecottle412
    @shawnettecottle412 2 года назад +2

    This was amazing y’all vibe was on point love the transparency of you both @Sam GOD has made you a natural this is just the beginning of many more 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 you walked in your truth you’re such an beautiful classy confident woman you show other women they can be transparent and love themselves 🙌🏽

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Год назад +1

    Have you ever thought about doing a poll on different topics? That would be cool to see on your community post. Blessings sent your way.🙏🏽❤️🌟