Yep, overwhelmingly supported by the suicide statistics. Sadly, no one seems to care about them or the circumstances that drive men to do such things. Being constantly berated and blamed in the media surely contributes.
@@BowlCrossy not to mention a societal drive that measures a man's worth only by their financial success, and that you need to be well above "average" to be considered successful anymore. And yet a female does not get measured by that same standard, so as long as she can pay rent, she's doing ok. (Her gucci and suede will be paid for by men anyway)
@@BowlCrossy The inadequate funding to our healthcare system for mental healthcare is the biggest problem . People do care about the male suicide rates we need to address the media and society thinking about men voicing their emotions and issues with depression/anxiety.
@@janemelrose7208 No, if there was more funding, it would simply go to sexier issues... not to men's health. People do care a wee bit about men's health given that so many men do kill themselves, but getting re-elected is always the main aim of any political game, so the money gets overwhelmingly allocated to women and children. That's why there aren't any male homeless shelters.
Their job is to get attention and most of them have chosen to do it in ways that would make the worst social media influencers reconsider their life choices. Men vs women. Black vs white. Young vs old. Religious vs non-religious. LGBTQ vs not. Any way they can think of to provoke outrage, they'll take it. Whats worse is that seemingly intelligent people continue to fall for it.
A 10 year old girl was killed by her mother on the Gold Coast. This will go onto the women killed in Australia statics, but the problem is the finger will still be pointed at men for the problem even though it’s a woman who committed the crime.
They also pointed to mental illness straight away in the report. Not that the mother is despicable for infanticide as they would've done if the father was the guilty party.
It's true that violence against males is also ignored. This isn't male vs female but rather a situation when male violence (against men, women and children) is excessive and the government doesn't do anything meaningful to address this social problem.
A friend of mine was married to a psychopathic and extremely psychologically abusive woman. He was a very strong man, on the way to an AFL career before a major car accident ended that dream. His wife psychologically abused him until he hanged himself. We need to look also at s***ide rates. How many men are driven to that end by psychological abuse? Women seldom use direct physical attack when advising a partner, but psychological abuse is ignored, even considered a weakness of the victim.
imagine if investigations were held into the lives of suicide victims, and blame for death was attriibuted as manslaighter or homicide by suicide! That would put a lot of women in prison...
@@Gumbatron01 Firstly very sorry to hear about your friend. I hope you’re not trying to say that male suicides are due to the actions of some women ??? Sadly most men suicides are due to undiagnosed depression resulting from various factors organic /medical reasons, money issues ,addiction issues, grief, trauma and relationship issues not caused by female manipulation. The “Are you okay “ movement is so important for men.
You can see it clearly in the divorce suicide statistics, men are like 8-9 times more like to commit suicide after a divocr, which clearly shows which way the privledge is going in the eyes of the law. Protect men.
@@Wreniffer typical Feminist, it’s everywhere and every man’s fault, meanwhile women are perfect. Tell me about the abuse of children and how the clear perpetrators are women.
The recent Australian domestic violence crisis was a good example of a media campaign. Often media campaigns take advantage of social problems and stretch the facts to advance an agenda.
There's good money in it. Have a look at how much government funding is doled out to homeless, DV, social organizations etc. You can pretty much guarantee that none of that funding or those organizations will benefit men, only women and children.
Too many people don't understand the overall effect this is having on men's attitudes towards women in general and society as a whole. The constant barrage of anti-male sentiments every-single-day if especially as delivered by MSM helps to further increase men joining groups and/or taking on the philosophies of movements such as MGTOW. Many are putting of relationships and/or deciding to never marry.
MGTOW was going on long before Wokeness became a fad in the late 10s... The characters in movies like Knocked Up pretty much embodied that stereotype. It's tough to fault society for not respecting us, when so many of us don't respect ourselves
Great post ! Been saying the same for years . This is male bashing disguised in victimhood ; What can all these protests , and media spin accomplish ?! NOTHING except widen the division , indeed WAR waged by spoilt western women against men . They will not touch the ethnic stats , lgbtq stats , it's only white hetero males targeted , and the destruction of civilisation continues , and the ladies will have gotten what they deserve , then .
@politenessman3901 Lots of women are destroying their prospects for finding a solid husband and legit work by falling for the lie that OnlyFans is a solid career, I agree
sounds like my soon to be ex-wife, I was studying to become a doctor, away at uni or the hospital alot, then got a spinal injury, have been laid up for near on 2 years, have chronic pain and in that time I supported and encouraged my wife to pursue her interests in study, which was fitness and PT, she became a PT, stopped spending time at home with the kids because I was now there full time looking after them. She cheats on me, destroys our marriage, takes off with the kids to an unknown address and calls the cops on me. They came over and I invited them in for a chat. She had made accusations of me threatening her, raising my fist at her, stalking her, financially abusing her, you name it she claimed it, said she was scared of me. I talked calmly with the police, provided them with my side of the story, my evidence, told them about the counselling and the like. I didnt get an AVO against me, my solicitor said that means they believed me. I think she did it so she could access the escaping violence payment, and I think she took a shelter provided housing, because guess what the person who is scared of me did? Sent me a photo of a letter with her address clearly visible to me. She has continued to make more accusations, none of which are true, she has dragged her feet on going to mediation, because its going to actually end up in court. Also there has now been multiple times when she has come to get the kids from me hungover, and they have come back to me injured, and the little one who is still in nappies with a blister on his bum, and just yesterday with scratches all over his penis and it being red and inflamed. I cant just refuse her to have the kids though, because thats how the law works at the moment, its stacked in her favour, she can make as many claims as she wants, with out proof, and I get tarred with that brush forever.
A mate at work had a similar experience. He locked himself and the kids in the bathroom as she was trying to stab them. Cops called and they wanted to arrest him, even though the slash and stab marks were on the outside of the bathroom door and he and the kids were in there when the cops arrived... but she said he hit her. They only relented when the kids refused to stay in the house if he left.
My mum was a PHd in psych, she told us that men have 3x the muscle density of that of women. She also told us boys that women are more physically abusive by 75%, its just that men put up with the abuse and then lash out. Lashing out for men is unfortunately often lethal.
Last I checked, most intimate partner violence was actually mutually abusive. That is, both partners were violent to each other. In the cases where it was exclusively one-sided, women were far more likely to be the violent party. So that tracks with something like 75% of violence including violent women. Men are both far stronger, and also greater risk takers on general, meaning taking actions in certain situations without fully considering the final outcomes, or being more willing to do extreme acts. This is also the case for suicide. Women actually attempt suicide at a higher rate than men, but the vast majority fail. Basically, men are more capable of extreme violence, towards themselves and others. But fewer men are violent.
@@tophercIaus but a women has ben murdered on average every 4 days this year by a man, & every 17 minutes a women is the victim of DV based on police attendance. Expect bad karma for lying.
@@danejames7098 my response is to the 1st comment that women are 75% more physically abusive than men. So thank you for confirming that is inaccurate. My reference is to men murdering women, not specifically DV cases. It’s to highlight men have an issue with violence against women so you not agree? This video provided stats excluding QLD??? Do you not have an issue with that?? Comparing deaths to 1990 is an attempt to down play this issue. Comparing deaths this year to the same time last year more women are no longer here because of a man who couldn’t control his anger and took a life. It’s this attitude amongst Australian men that is the issue. Hold men accountable for their behaviour. I don’t care how many men have been murdered honestly because men don’t care about women so I have no more empathy for men. Men have murdered more people than woman ever will. That is the point you seem to want to sweep under the rug, and nothing will change unless men accept responsibility and stop covering for each other. Why so Aussie men have this victim mindset? You’re embarrassing
Great job. It annoys me no end that the mainstream media don’t do any statistical research on these things but instead blows issues out of all proportion to the statistics.
Politicians and media follow the feminist agenda. The domestic violence and sex assault industries are dominated and controlled by feminists, who need to keep their funding flowing. We're talking hundreds of millions of dollars. The only way they can do this is to continually demonise men with propaganda, sensationalism, and outright lies. Many politicians are on the boards of these misandrist organisations, pandering to women gets them votes...
The use of fudged numbers is rampant in any pushed agenda. The use of case numbers in the recent scam, where a huge majority were people without symptoms(asymptomatic) or mild cases meant case numbers were absolutely no indication of a viruses virulence. Hospitalisation numbers, where a large proportion were incidental cases, cases where people admitted to hospital with illness/injury but tested positive using questionable methods were immediately put in the 'flew' category. Trust nothing from the UN
The media isn't falling prey to false stats, but has always propagated them, just as sociology classes have for decades. "Manufacturing Consent" was written in 1977.
True. And why? Well, men are less easily manipulated into group think. Men also tend to dissuade women and children from falling victim to manipulation. So the manipulators - on all levels - want to minimise the influence of men in society. One possible reason.
That shopping stabbing one. Everyone was saying he was targeting women. As a dude who watched footages, it was literally random. He was targetting people he could take on which is more chance a woman due to difference in size. I saw him chase a teen boy which he stopped cause the boy was fast. Then he shifted immediately to old dude but he ran quick surprisingly. He tried to sneak up on a dude until he turned n backed out. The stabber even trued to attack a man but the man used chair to distance himself. So clearly, it was a stabbing with no agenda. It just happens women were his victims due to many reasons. Somehow spin the story how women are in danger of male violence…
The following week I heard one of those twits in AFL daily talking about how she was scared to walk to her car at 5 in the morning. She probably lives in Prahran or Brighton FFS
@@Demtows It was the way the story was presented by the media, completely unsupported by the facts. That was the point of including it in the blog. Hayit actually posted, "Somehow spin the story how women are in danger of male violence…"
People only ever talk about domestic violence when it ends up in physical harm or murder. Nobody ever talks about the barrage of emotional blackmail and trauma caused by so many narcissistic partners that go under the radar. A lot of men struggle in silence because they're too scared to speak up about the emotional abuse that happens at the hand of so many women, because it almost always end up in the man being kicked down even when they're the victim. Disgusting, vile world we live in.
I completely agree with you. And it would benefit female victims to acknowledge abuse of men. Why? Because it's all psychological or emotional abuse. And that's where most of the real damage gets done. Victims of physical abuse will always say so. I'm a woman my self.
The anti male agenda is so bad in Australia that when we hear of that poor little girl who was murdered by her mother a couple of weeks ago. The first thing I felt was relief that it was not a man who killed her, and the predictable backlash against men won't occur.
25 years ago, when I lived in London, I knew a fair number of Australian women. The feminists ones were the weirdest I've ever met. Whilst their UK feminist "sisters" can be very strange and immature, they're beaten hands down by the Aussies.
The Australian Government refuse to acknowledge female-perpetrated domestic violence. A few months ago, a father came home to find his little girl deceased - his wife - her mother had slit her throat. The media and police fiercely refused to use the words "domestic violence" yet it was by very definition that. It was a family member perpetrating family violence onto another. All they did is talk about the mother's mental health issues. Boom. Never hear of it again. There's been several cases like this. It happens constantly and it's an absolute travesty. This should not be a gender-specific offence. Mother kills her kids in the blue mountains. It's always about her mental health. Never about DV. They don't afford males that luxury. They are tried, convicted and sentenced before going to court.
If a man defends himself against a violent woman , HE is the one who will get jail time, it sucks big time that when a woman repeatedly gets violent, it gets ignored, I had to put up with 5 months of weekly house invasions and assault before the Police decided to actually do something to prevent it and I stated to them several times that if I defended myself against her I'd be the one locked up, Yes was the response. This woman wasn't even someone with whom I'd had a relationship.
A male person at my place of work was friendly with a female co-worker. A few weeks back I overheard and saw him ask the woman out for afterhours drinks, she declined, and he said ok and walked away. 2 weeks ago he was fighting a sexual assault charge with the same woman and HR. She accused him of touching her when he asked her out, but I saw he was about 2 meters away from her and I know he made no effort at all in trying to touch her. I fronted HR in his defense and guess what, both he and I were sacked last week.
The same happened with me 4 years ago and I still can't get through till this moment and can't carry on any normal daily activities such as looking for work I completely lost all my incentive to do any of this. My feelings are hurt because I didn't deserve this accusation and the treatment that came along after that. I explained explained everything to the security of the place who told me not to trespass the place and police but he also told me the decisions were made and declined my request to clear the misunderstanding and the normalisation of things.
I personally know someone who was falsely accused to gain an upper hand during a divorce. It was proven outright to be a false claim, but there was no legal consequence for the accuser (ex-partner), leaving him with lasting damage to their reputation and emotional well-being.
Am trying to live through the effects of a similar situation- thankfully the abuser figured out they had to back off for their own safety but have been stuck from making any meaningful progress in recovery for a very long time, getting through things but am on survival auto-pilot rn
Same happened to me, not one person ever asked for evidence and I was told just to consent under no admission. I live with that stupid decision still. I wish I had fought back even though she would have received no consequence for doing so.
I was falsely accused for the exact same reason. To gain legal and financial advantage and to perpetrate "systems abuse" as she was trained to do by the government. Worked a charm. No evidence. Every single thing was proven false, in fact, multiple times she was found to be abusing them. Nothing was done to her. Nothing was done but punishing me for being male. All they achieved is the complete destruction of my childrens lives, the indoctrination of my children by a severely mentally ill mother, the goverment sanctioned child abuse and systems abuse over a decade and ongoing. Our system is a fucking joke.
Some poor local young man jumped from a bridge to his death because he was worried about being sent to jail for touching a woman he liked, when she didn't reciprocate his feelings. Apparently this wasn't even sexual contact. And so ended another innocent man, only acting according to his natural impulses, but terrorised by a vile, man hating, feminist society, that he believed (for good reason) wanted him dead anyway. He obviously panicked without a real need to, but this belief that he had done something horrible was only enforced by the toxic attitudes around him. This society needs to be rebooted. And hard.
@@nothanksnoname7567 I believe it. I don't think a woman's ever done the same, maybe that's why akasha thinks it's impossible. Man bad, woman good. Woman not so concerned as that man, so no man is concerned as him
He was stupid for giving them what they wanted. That woman is now laughing about it with her friends (I've dated a few women that have told me drunk about how much they enjoy the "punishments" they've done to their ex-husbands/ex-boyfriends or other males). This is a power all women have over all men and it's a power that many will abuse.
@@Mysterx1440 blackfellas are about 3% of the population but about 30% of the prison population. Most are there for DV. If you don't know that you have obviously never been inside.
@@johnm84Australia now is one of the safest points in human history, to be a human. Historically the abundance caused by agriculture gave us time to explore art and invent. Now we are in a time of physical safety. We get to, as a culture, to explore ways where we a no longer just physically safe, but mentally and emotionally safe. This is a new step for humanity. Not just women. To feel that society is being anti male, when in reality it is just seeking equality is a common misconception. Giving someone else the same rights you have to make them equal, seems to be seen by a lot of men as removing rights to make things equal. Being unfairly advantaged is not a right. Giving other people the same rights removes the advantage not rights.
Excellent presentation of the data. Media and politicians look at data as how it can be USED to advance ideology. Thank you for your reasonable approach.
We need SEVERE punishments for lying and false information from MSM and government. MSM need to publish FACTS only and allow individuals to determine how they feel about the facts, not have an opinionated journalist/media boss's perspective rammed down anyone's throat.
In this case the ideology that was being deployed was " how can we blame the Labor party to stir up trouble as they are not are extreme right wing as we want " Anyone not as right leaning as Mussolini is a 'commie'. ( there are no left leaning politicians in Australia )
Karen speaks truth. Unlike so many women that stick their hand in the sand and allow the toxic environment against men to get worse. Society is at stake... "but don't worry, be happy"...
Try this. How many male suicides were either married or divorced with kids? How many of those divorced had their right to access to their kids less than an equitable 50% of the time? How many of those had their ex-partner make allegations (usually unproven by a court of law) of violence or child abuse to restrict their access to virtually nil or no contact? How many of those were mentally abused by their spouses or partners for a long period of time before they snapped? How many of those had their kids turned against them by malicious allegations made by their ex partners? How many were later or never given access to their kids by the courts? I bet you those numbers are much higher than murder of females by males and that is where the real hidden crisis lies. Maybe it’s about time we had a Bureau of Female Behavioural Change, just for the sake of equity, you know?
I have a son, and I take that stuff into account for him. His father has made him aware of it. The thought that a woman could stop him from seeing his kids is a scary one and one I hope he never has to experience. His father and I separated when my son was 2 years old and other than a few disagreements between us around raising protocols, we managed to keep it friendly. He was never excluded from his son's life and never did I restrict access. There are so many nuances to why this happens because human beings are not perfect. There are many reasons women restrict access to children and many reasons why they shouldn't however, I am against any made up shit that some women and men for that matter, come out with in order to 'win' the fight without taking the children's best interests into consideration. I do feel there is still a bias legally around child custody and mothers. Nursing babies are one thing, but if a man has an adequate set up and the children can receive the care they need, then men should have a fairer sway in the courts than they currently do. I cannot speak for everyone, nor can I make a blanket judgement, but there are things I have seen on both sides where men and women have used the children against the other. I used to work in Child Protection and have seen so many cases where the men have substance abuse issues, and the women and children suffer. I have also seen women call up and tell lies about their ex partners, in order to win custody at family court. In both of those instances I have mentioned, the reverse is also true. What is the solution? I do not have one. If there were an accurate lie detector test that could be utilised in court or any disputes really, then that would be the only way we would be able to make the right call. This is not in existence as far as I know and both men and women can lie and have ulterior motives, so what do we do?
It takes more psychological strength than you can imagine to "survive" the way the system is currently setup, and it's rare blokes come out the other side without something that looks awfully close to PTSD. A large percentage of people I've met personally, or through my work-place have experienced it first hand, or have a family member/good friend that has been run through the wringer. It's absolutely despicable, incredibly unhealthy for social cohesion and is going to create significant problems in the next 10-20 years.
South african living in Sydney. People you don't understand how good you have it. I never have to worry about my wife anymore. We are and feel safe. Australians are friendly and easy going people overall, there is no issue here.
What is worrying is where this is going, not so much where we are now. It is clear that the media only present what they think we should hear, not 'the news'. There is definitely an agenda going on here, and THAT is the big worry!
I'm glad you feel safe here. The big issue is why they are doing the propaganda to make the people _believe_ there is an issue. Thats the real question. What is this agenda all about and who is behind it??
The people who benefits from the lie propagate the lie. The government gave the femunists groups hundreds of millions of dollars each year to fund programs to 'prevent violence and against women . Their introduction livelyhoods are at risk if the truth is revealed.
Yes and the same is true of the road toll. So many immigrants, many who are a danger on our roads, and there's the authorities using that as an excuse for more over policing and subjugation of long term Australians. But we must include, diversify, tolerate, keep our mouths shut, and overpopulate as much as we can, so that homelessness and division become the new normal.
@@2bNot you know according to the statistics our biggest danger on the road is P Platers especially males . The majority of P Platers are Australian born . The other biggest danger to our roads are drunk drivers. Would you like to take a guess which gender are the majority of drink drivers….?
@@janemelrose7208I would challenge that because the ones I see driving very badly are the foreigners and it shows when they do things such as stopping at roundabouts when there are no cars or overtaking uphill on double white lines in blind curves etc. But carry on Demonising men and the female bureaucrats will no doubt bring in more anti male laws to keep you happy.
In Australia our homicide rate nationally is 0.81 per 100K people. In the state of Rhode Island USA, it's 1.5 per 100K people. The lowest in the US where old people go to die has a higher rate than our whole country. Let that sink in...
The homicide stats in the US are kind of misleading because they are the average of all demographics. Young men from minority communities skew the average a lot.
The homicide rate has nothing to do with violence against women. It’s the actual violence against women that’s the problem. The disproportionately high number of women killed by their partners or former partners, plus this not killed but still harmed, for life in many cases.
Women are prioritised when getting help, and everyone talks about violence against women. When was the last DiD (Dads in Distress) campaign? Where are the Mens Mental Health facilities? And who are the first suspects? Men get it hard here in Australia, no-one gives a shit about them.
I see that you are insecure and I just wanted to let you know I will be praying for you 🙏 I hope things get better so that you don’t have to go through life being miserable
@@RealHooksyya based on aus female population is 0.000004%. Its really not that BIG of an issue. We can still reduce it but its not really a huge issue that needs the biggest attention to
It's insane that certain people will claim to be against discrimination based on colour, sexuality and gender, yet at the same time openly demonise straight white men because of their colour, gender and sexuality. It seems it's totally socially acceptable as long as we're always "punching up". And so how do this compare to the stats on male on female homicide in some these "minority" countries? We only touched on that in this video. And what are the stats on male and female suicide compared to homicide? Is it as much of a crisis in proportion to male on female homicide in Australia? Thanks for providing perspective on the topic.
I have seen numbers from ABS showing that if a bloke is going to kill someone the most likely person is himself. Second, by a fair margin, is another bloke, third it's a woman, forth its a child. Concentrating on male on female violence is like if a school was all up in arms about year 10 kids beating up year 7 kids but not caring about fights in the same classroom and completely ignoring the year 12 kid hanging from the noose tied to the footy goal posts. PS I like ya name mate!
Its called being a hypocrite, illogical and, typically, low intelligence. Consistency and rationality are apparently pretty rare. Oddly enough, the people preaching diversity and tolerance are the least tolerant people you'll meet.
@@therealbushmanpat Spot on. The sad truth is that men will typically take out their angers and frustrations on themselves. If we have an "epidemic" of women dying in DV incidents, where is the national uproar over the thousands and thousands of men who kill themselves each year? Ah, that's right... its not sexy enough for the target demographic (women).
@@therealbushmanpatsociety abhors violence committed by stronger against weaker individuals, and rightly so. It’s seen as despicably cowardly, as it is.
Very well done indeed. It’s very humbling to hear an Australian female quoting facts and presenting a balanced assessment. Thank you on behalf of all the good Australian men.🌹
@RealHooksy not anymore they dont. True equality is letting women solve their own problems. "The good men" are the 95% who would never do anything inappropriate to women in their lives. It's the 5% you gotta watch out for.
@@chadcadsonvii5258 He's brainwashed... I can probably count on one hand the total number of times I've shaken one back to reality through comments on the tube. Not sure how entire the job was or how long it lasted because I didn't know the guys and never talked to them again. Mr. Hooksy wants to be a good man, he wants to stand up... but he has no critical thinking skills, literally none. It's not his fault - almost everyone who's not a drone is completely self taught
There needs to be more transparency around the cultural groups that are more prone to acts of violence, especially against women. Appointing a minister of men’s behaviour to tell us that all men are bad isn’t going to address the real issue if it’s only a small group that is vastly over represented in committing these violent acts. Everyone is too concerned with being perceived as mean or racist to admit the truth.
There also needs to be transparency around the behaviour of women. If women were dying because they were riding horses down the freeway, you can't blame the horses for bucking them off. The women need to take responsibility for their actions. I still see it's still very, very common for women to date the "bad boy". No, these men shouldn't hurt women but women also need to have their own "sense of survival " and stay away from bad men. As stated in the video, most men are known to be a danger BEFORE the violence. Stay away from people that are a known problem. Otherwise, you are complicit in your own problem.
It's Aussies. Alcohol is involved in at least half of such incidents. Substance use is also often involved. As for 'cultural groups' poverty is usually a factor.
DV has been falling in Australia since the 70's. The slander and gaslighting in this country is next level. It is enough to convince me that slander and gaslighting is the default position of women in general
@@saijeetdogra9360 You have that back to front! The problem is that Men are berated constantly by Australian Media, Government, Education and on and on. Women get a pass in most cases...
Thanks for this. My partner is constantly showing me things on TikTok about how bad men and women are, but mainly just men. It's draining to hear and harder to counter due to her past. It makes me worried that our son and daughter will grow up with a fear of the opposite or same sex, instead of just caution to some of the dangers out there.
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@@somethingelse9535 Guess I'm a cash grabbing, racist, anti vax, pro choice, right wing extremist, anti migrant, climate denier, transphobe, misogynist, terror loving, conspiracy theorist, putin fanboy(I'm sure I missed a few other monikers)
I found growing up that it is very easy to be alienated as a man. It drove me insane. I think it's based on this idea that I have the potential to earn the world's boons by my male privilege. So it has always been harder to get a job, harder to find social support, harder to be treated fairly in education and mental health services and harder to find adequate medical service because the act of me applying for anything is denying those same applications for the vulnerable, systemically underprivileged women. Each time the person who is meant to represent or allocate those services makes a point of letting me know this. I've had this issue my entire life and it is exacerbated in female dominated industries, especially in mental health, education, nursing, and social services. I've struggled with thoughts on it for years. There were two UK studies that allude to this phenomenon. The first is that female teachers have a bias against male students if they know the gender of their students, and the second is that men are more likely to off themselves after speaking to a mental health professional. That second part threw a spanner in the feminist theory that men avoid services that help them - rather, that women have dominated mental health for so long the industry is wholly unequipped, or perhaps unwilling, to process men with mental health concerns or trauma. Us Australians kind of took the feminist thing and continue to veer in to it without stopping. In Australia, raype is classified as an act of forced penetration - most cishet women don't have the parts to accomplish that unless it is an act of malice, so an act of non consensual smecks by a woman has a far reduced sentence and has no chance on showing up on Australia's rape statistic (you can imagine how people feel looking at the numbers). More recently, domestic violence has been redefined as "violence against women and children in the home", and that classification includes male victims. The trouble is, at least 1/3 of victims of DV are men, and we already have little to no services to provide for any of them. Incidentally, there is not a single study focusing on male victims of DV and SA, so we have no idea what happens to male victims specifically after the fact. We only know that it happens. I've tried looking for them because you would think there would be at least one out there, but there are hundreds of articles, books and papers talking about female victims and not one specifies men unless it is within the context of male aggression. We DO know, however, that victims of trauma and abuse usually traverse down one of four categories - drug and alcohol abuse, crime and incarceration, becoming abusers themselves, or self harm and/or "sewer side"; of these, men dominate all four categories consistently, and those numbers have an upward trajectory globally. Again, health services have no idea how to deal with men with trauma. I believe that there is no reason for anyone to think we should have services for men as they should, in theory, automatically be comforted by their privileges and culture-defined sense of superiority. We allocate services for the vulnerable members of society first, and if men are never defined as such under all circumstances then the issue of an inadequate system will exacerbate and the definition of a patriarchy will continue to be redefined as society continues to shift. We cannot continue to ignore half the population and forever brand them as brutish, uncivilized, toxic, fragile, violent savages, with everything the world has to offer at their fingertips, and call for action against them when we have no clue what is even happening to men. Let's put it another way. Men have lower life expectancy, lower education, higher rates of incarceration, higher chance of death by "sewer side", higher unemployment, higher rates of drug and alcohol abuse, higher rate of homelessness (seriously, 80% of all homeless in Aus are men and social or emergency housing prioritises women without children before men because of the threat of violence against women but you're twice as likely to be murdered as a man), and a higher rate of mental health issues. The last time anyone pointed out those issues in any one group of people, it was due to a systemic problem that put that group of people at a disadvantage and the people that argued "it was due to their inability to co-operate" were rightfully branded as bigots. You'll have to excuse me while I question this privilege I'm supposed to have.
@@classydays43 I am afraid a few bad men have tarnished all men in the healthcare system . As a woman feminist and nurse myself and many others like me know the majority of men not brutish violent men. It’s just when the majority of violence towards staff in A&E and the wards is done by men we have become a bit jaded When the majority of sexual assaults and dv victims we see in hospitals are females we do think they are more vulnerable because they don’t have the same strength to fight back.,You can see where nurses are coming from but we do need ensure there is equality in our services
@@classydays43 I do take offence when you say we are I ill equipped or don’t care about male mental health the huge majority of us do care . You statement is a gross inaccurate insulting generalisation. Mental health nurses are doing a lot of training and study in male mental health. Also a lot of nurses are mums sisters and Aunts to males we understandably are very concerned about mental health for men .
Nothing of what you've said doesn't change that men are more likely to go hang in a tree after seeking mental health services. If the entire industry is filled with women fed the same idea that men are the enemy then don't you think it's by design? It's just hard for me to believe you when you're all fed the same idea that men are a weed.
I was stuck in a situation where after I broke up with my ex she threatened to go to the police saying that I held her down during intimacy, at first I was confident because I knew that never happened and have never done anything like that ever before. After I contacted the police and lawyers to see what my options were I was absolutely terrified. I ended up in hospital after I felt I had no hope and tried to end it all before the allegation was started. Thankfully my neighbour saw me passed out and called the ambulance and unfortunately for me I went back to the relationship so she didn't go ahead with that plan. Ended up getting away 5 years later and now couldn't be happier with my life. I don't wish her any ill will and know she's a deeply unhappy troubled person but people who are willing to lie to get their way have so so so much power in todays society. Especially young pretty women.
I see that you are insecure and I just wanted to let you know I will be praying for you 🙏 I hope things get better so that you don’t have to go through life being miserable
@@whitneymadison1056 lol you're making a lot of assumptions, quite wrong by the way. I'm doing great now thanks, my ex is doing better too now that she's getting professional help.
@@Stoogis Pay no attention to her. She is an idiot and a troll and she has been trolling on other people's comments on here. Also sorry to hear what you have been through.
I am a 69 year old male. Have always been respectful to women. Have never been violent to women. My life philosophy has been family centred working with my wife as a team to achieve family goals. I don't understand the anti male sentiment being preached by so many female activists. These days where an allegation of assault is made against a male they are resumed guilty straight away. Doesn't matter years later after.they are found innocent by the legal system the stigma still remains. Guilty whether you are innocent or not. Yes I think young men today shy away from commitment and are less likely to appreciate my own philosophy on family.
Indeed.... And ...maybe ... THAT is exactly the goal of those groups in power ... to.... reorient significant number of young unexpirienced man and women in their LifeStyle... (???)
@@marinvidovic763 Yep and whether it is all the fault of feminist ideology or there are clandestine operatives pulling strings in the background it is hard to say. But what is evident is the blatant toxicity, hypocritical, racist and sexist nature of feminist ideology that is the impetus of what is happening. Feminists want to get rid of up to 75% of men but like all their ideas and noitions they are deluded and absurd.
@@marinvidovic763...More likely, the goal.is to convince some groups that they are "oppressed" so that politicians can present themselves as "saviours" and "liberators".
@@peterwebb8732 looking at their body ,skin, and all other anatomical features it looks ti me that They are and were PROTECTED from most harsh realities of Life out there for MILLENIA , ... because People needed them to care and nurture small children indoors . So story about OPPRESSION is all just a Fabrication to take them out of the Home and enslave them into the assembly lines ...
This is a major issue. It's under reported to the police & that is a known issue. Men don't take crimes against women seriously. Men seem to think they are the victims these days. It's shameful how little men care about women in Australia. They never hold men accountable, they always have a weak excuse. Apparently even 200 women being murdered a year isn't concerning for men.
Good god how refreshing to find someone actually discussing issue in a logical balanced way with reference to actual statistics. Such a rarity in the public sphere. Well done
The money is going to the feminists running the not for profits and charities that pretend to be helping women, 90 % of the work however is fundraising to pay the comfortable salaries
Domestic violence shelters are overcrowded and there is no access for families in need to be provided longer safety, apart from temporary accommodation that is only 30 days long.
@@squiremc I thought I was clever, 12 years ahead of MGTOW.... but you rock sir! Did one of them rob you blind in a divorce or take your kids? I avoided all that to... didn't avoid a couple of sociopathic narcissists though... but I limited their damage.
@@gesheepistemology8050 I'm glad to hear you missed out on the disaster that is marriage and children. I have never been married nor do I have kids. I have been used from time to time until I put my foot down. By the time I had completed my grind and set myself up with a house in the mountains, vehicles, two income streams, I realised by watching the advent of MGTOW That I had really won this game. Life is good! 😁
Late comment but my husband and I are witnessing the most acrimonious break up of very good friends. She has turned into a lying hateful woman and we have been shocked at what she is doing. We have known them for a long time. She took the kids claimed DV, refused access and isolated the children from him and all his family. She then took off in the middle of the night with the kids and nobody knew where she went. Terrifying her ex. The police in QLD would not put an AVO on him and the courts threw it out due to lack of evidence. So she turned up in Victoria and immediately got a DVO put on him without evidence needed. Family courts were useless and cost a mint. She has turned the children against him and they refuse to cooperate with any orders. After what we have witnessed we start to understand why some dads are backed into a corner and end up committing horrific crimes of violence. How much can a person put up with? How can the courts and police keep granting women all the power thy help back men into a corner??
This sounds horrible, I have been going through many comments on this video and I must say that Australian justice doesn’t seem to favour men at all when it comes to DV, there is no exception or even realisation of it going both ways in their eyes. But also as a 17 year old boy who’s always been taught at school that men are the problem when it comes to any violent act. I knew I couldn’t trust and didn’t trust education but this pains me to hear these stories of abuse of any sorts to just be ignored or downplayed.
@@skankhunt5360 thanks 4 ur opinions n suport, yes men here relay r 2nd class citizens n 4 sme time. its tense living here 4 many men, n mnay like myslef have withdrawn frm v comunity n society, n sme r moving o/s, im tinking of it 2. i dotn want my future children subjected by vis anti male propaganda/dogma that sadly has become v dominant culture in vis once gd country.
@@thefleecer3673 Yep. Follow the money. You can add in the latest "outbreak" scare to that list as well. Guess we're all going to be expected to get a few more jabs in the near future.
nothing occurs in a vacuum, but as a species we prefer to deal with symptoms rather than causes. And what of all the mothers who mentally abuse their kids for years, leaving them with anxiety, depression, anger issues, addiction etc?
34 successful Aussie married man here. In my experience Australian women don't like good guys with 9-4 jobs handsome or not. ask were the good guys are when they hit their 30s Yet there's tens of thousands of women who love Wade Wilson and he's a rapist and a killer. Makes no sense to me at all when they try to justify it. Women need more role models in this day and age.
I've gone through all these statistics from the ABS recently and came to a pretty similar conclusion as this essay. It's really hard to bring it up in real life because it can get you cancelled pretty fast. However, statistics always win - overly focusing on these means we're missing out on solving problems that can have more impact.
Thank you for having the first balanced approach to this issue. I as a white man am sick of been abused, racially and sexually harassed over things I would never do. Because of this I now feel like I can no longer go to public gyms and have to stay vigilant when out in public to ensure I don’t go near women or that my interactions with women are not misinterpreted such as, moving seats if a women sits next to me, crossing the road if a women walks in front of me, not making eye contact or where possible look at a women in public to ensure I’m not falsely accused.
Absolutely, as an older single white man it's dangerous to even say hello to a woman, I brought up my children the best a could my wife was a drunk,I love to walk my dog,one day I walked past a public toilet, 10 minutes later the cops pulled me up,apparently some women called them thinking I was a preadater?.
I understand it mustn’t feel good to be equated to other people doing bad things when you wouldn’t do those things. You just have to understand that women being cautious isn’t personal to specifically you as a human. I understand why it might feel that way. I do also wish there was more understanding as to why women do feel certain fears, and for people to have empathy for it. I don’t agree with people attacking you though.
I would love to know what percentage of men in Australia have actually committed a violent crime ? Being I keep hearing how there is a problem with men and the whole male culture but as a man I seldom ever see it. Maybe I’m just naïve but I would love to see the numbers…
Three things: the adoption of the Duluth Model by Australian agencies has contributed to the uptick in reporting and convictions for DV/SA that now do not require the burden of proof based on criminal justice to record a conviction. That might explain the divergence from DV/SA and homicides stats. If as asserted we're a 'dignity' based culture, many people would not report to police to avoid a stain being made public. As victim narratives become more valourised, of course reporting by women could expect to increase. It also is as divorce lawyer will advise, pivotal in nasty custody battles, just sayin.' In respect of women selecting men from the underclass, i.e., men with convictions or 'form' for being nasty violent people. That goes into the too hard basket, along with women often preferring "bad boys" over nice guys, which is not folklore, but observable IRL and data too. What can society do about that exactly? Interested to hear? Lastly, re: your stat data comparison with the USA for murder. If you take out the murder rates for the 5 worst cities for murder/100k (all democrat run cities BTW), the USA murder rate collapses back to being much closer to Canada. I would have appreciated a comment on why Australia recently manufactured a crisis about DV when the stats are stable, and critical thinking indicates otherwise? What was really behind it? Just more craven funding for more Feminist powers ($100's of millions) to further emasculate ordinary men while doing nothing effective to educate or reduce the suffering of our women cohabiting with the low life, perhaps?
The Duluth model was evidenced to have no basis in any legitimate scientific research, and crested by an uneducated unqualified group of people. Go figure
Thinking is NOT necessary here, ... indeed ! MGTOW is One efective solution ... until A) Family law doesn't become fair and normal . (* If 2 adults decide to split apart everything should get split fairly in 2 INCLUDING a children custody (!!! in particular !!!) So ...there is no child support isdues or allemony nonsence . There is no parental Alienation as well.) Those are 2 adult persons and eacjlh needs to organise his/ her houshold according to his/ her working abilities and have children there for 1 week on /off. ) This is a crucial ISSUE Here that makes men very angry and creates suicide in men. ... fSS recently, feel that they are loosing a tight GRIP over the media and the False narrative -( youtub and internet provides neeaded Light and destroys their monopoly). so they try to manufacture CRISIS and bring in * Gov. CENSORSHIP on discussions and * more and more intimidation and CONTROL. Left is ...generally all about control and intimidation , power and constant projections onto other what They do. MGTOW and you can enjoy your life.
This comment is evidence of a rational and evidence-based mind. You must be driven to the point of insanity on a semi-regular basis by the absurdities and baseless claims of the current "culture wars".
You clearly have NO idea what the Duluth Model is. It doesn’t redefine DV, it outlines its stages able an educative tool for social workers and others to use with vulnerable women to understand the pattern of their relationships. The stats have remained the same. And we think that’s okay? When other measures of crime are actually going down as a proportion of population, DV is not. Women being killed by their partners is a crisis, should always be thought of as a crisis, and the fact that you guys will gaslight yourselves into excusing your murderous behaviour is absolutely insane. Also, research shows us over and over and over again that women do not marry the bad guy, they marry the man they think will make the best father based on qualities such as kindness and mutual respect. Unfortunately, men lie and alter their behaviour to get women to marry them. This is why DV often doesn’t show up until after people marry and have children.
The issue at hand is not the actual violence, which I do not want too dimmish, but rather the politicisation of the issue and the associated lies, misinformation, misdirection, indeed the entire false narrative surrounding domestic violence. This is because domestic violence and its misrepresentation is a major weapon and strategy in the feminist and woke agenda. Although feminists and the domestic violence industry does not want to admit it, domestic violence falls into one of three categories and all three categories are counted as equal when determining the number of DV instances. The categories are Feelings based, Situational/Issues based, and Ongoing/Never-ending. Feelings based does not actually include any violence, its new, after the definition of DV was changed to include feeling threaten or coerced by mean words. It certainly helps get the DV count up and is often used by women and divorce lawyers as part of a strategy or even revenge. Today, I'd suggest to men to reciprocate and any time preventing or lessening access to children is mentioned, claim feeling fearful, threaten, and coerced. Situational/Issues based is by far the most common form of physical DV, up to 85%. It is characterised by BOTH partners verbally/physically abusing one and other although ONLY the male the partner is ever prosecuted. This form of DV is usually issues based e.g. Promiscuity, cheating, jealousy, paternity issues, controlling behaviour, gambling, drinking/drugs, loss of job/income, financial stress and of course divorce and breakups. It's a domestic argument/fight and whilst there may be other arguments/fights it's generally not ongoing and generally not deadly. The third category accounts for 15% of physical DV, is the most insidious and evil, it is one sided, ongoing, based on absolutely nothing and usually will not stop until you leave or are dead. It is the type of DV that makes the news, and the DV industry likes to pretend is indicative. Men and Women BOTH do it and are perpetrators in equal numbers, with females usually using a weapon with a sneak or surprise attack or waiting to he is asleep, drunk, stoned or otherwise unable to defend himself. Although the number of attacks may be similar, males take the life of their partner more often due to greater strength and capability. It is almost always only the male that is ever prosecuted. There are no services or sympathy for male victims and their children, only derision and false blame.
My ex tried to stab me with a kitchen knife. Cops showed up and literally laughed at me due to our size difference, said if anyone was getting taken in it would be me even though she admitted I hadn’t touched her. Refused to remove her from the house.
Greetings from Canada! This essay is a FANTASTIC example of how people have a "recency bias" in looking at trends and are SO quick to hit the panic button. While your example is a tragic one of violence aimed at women, I see a similar patter of behaviour in the manufacturing industry where we may have an incident of product failures and similarly people run around with the chicken little approach that the sky is indeed falling. By looking at statistics you can identify if things have gone completely out of the bounds of normal occurrences (as this essay did). Excellent work on showing how to gather information to calibrate a reasonable response whether it is a social issue or an industrial problem. Note: I am NOT making and equivalncy between violence and technical problems - just saying that people respond in the same way often with a huge over-reaction that often does not get taken away once the problem goes into the "normal" bounds. So if you put extreme measures in place to deal with a "seeming violence explosion" those measures don't simply disappear once people realize it is not a violence explosion. Gotta consider.
99% of the people commiting domestic violence are the same people coming in and out of jail that have no regard for women, the rules or the feelings of people in general, these people have no empathy what so ever they see kindness as a weakness to exploit, the average person isn't beating their partner
In NSW someone is in jail charged with manslaughter. He was arguing with his father who had a heart attack & died. Yes charged with manslaughter for a verbal argument because the other person died from the "stress".
15:15 - Thank you for a thoughtful analysis. It makes me recall a telephone call I received when working for a shooting organisation. Her "What do I do about my husband’s guns?" Me "You'll have to give me more information than that?" Her "My husband was unemployed. I told him, go and do something, anything. He did, he hung himself." That was the edited form and I still remember the anguish in her voice. Why do I risk entering such a contentious debate? Because I want a reduction in homicides and suicides. Few murders happen in isolation. You make the important point that most such crimes occur among couple known to authorities. Psychological violence is "equal opportunity." (I am not suggesting that the above incident involved such behaviour.) I contend that society can effectively trap a couple in a disastrous situation. Few women kill, but men don't just kill women, they escape by killing themselves. We should remember, these are all tragedies and seek mechanisms to assist in de-escalating relationships long before the outburst of violence.
Fantastic video focused on facts. I particularly liked the bit about honour/face/dignity cultures. Does explain a lot and shows where we may be limited in getting the rate to 0.
If 500 people were purposely deleted by 500 men. If we take away kids under 16, that means that approximately 10,000,000 men did not delete or harm anyone. Stop blaming the 10,000,000 for the actions of 500. Yes those 500 should feel the full force of the law, but don't make out the rest of us responsible or liable for them.
@@johnm84 Anyone who's not allowed to drive, or have any other adult responsibility is a kid for the purpose of this comment.. But really, what is you point? 14 million people who shouldn't be blamed for the actions of 500? Just makes my point even more poignant.
Some common mistakes and omissions in this piece. Corrections below. Guns are prolific in Scandinavian, France and other European countries with low murder rates, Countries with African descended people always have high murder rates in this group. In the USA 52% of murders are committed by this group according to government statistics. This has also been noted by Police in Melbourne Australia. Australian domestic violence figures are skewed by the horrendous situations in indigenous communities. Without this domestic violence would be much less statistically. East Asian people carry their peaceful behaviour to other societies, where they are often a minority. They make people of European descent look like thugs. Like Australia, the USA has also had a sharp decline in murders that is mirror image in proportion. The United States attributes this to brilliant new policing methods. Australia attributes this to restrictions on firearms. The reality is that most murderers are in younger age groups. The baby boomers got older and therefore committed less murders.
Very interesting, with utterly reasonable conclusions drawn from these data. Two things strike me: One is the relatively low (surprising to me) homicide rate for Italy - I wonder what conclusions could be drawn here. Are the data accurate, or is there something about Italian culture where violence stops just short of homicide? Two, is media (ab)use of the 'crisis narrative' (good term). Literally every week in the UK we have another 'crisis' of something. Perhaps the meta data could be drilled into to explain the rise of this term in widespread media usage.
The fact that I'm Italian is relevant only because I had your surprise and sense of disbelief about Italian murders many years ago, and since then I've checked the data over and over: Italy is a very peaceful country as for murders and violent crimes in general. As for interpersonal disputes, we seem to prefer relying on the judiciary system (which basically means we prefer suicide over homicide 😂). And as for the mafias, the main organizations have massively abandoned violence as a method; they prefer corruption, mostly peaceful drug dealing, investments in northern Europe... Criminal, but usually not violent.
@@nefaristo Fascinating and very positive for Italy - I've always found it an incredibly friendly country, but as a tourist I hardly experience reality. But there must be lessons for the Northern Europeans re social structure, socioeconomics, family and rural/urban life.
@@jameshoward9700 i suspect crime rates, violent or not, vary from region to region like,a lot. I have a home in the north west countryside with glass doors, not rarely left open, without any incident in 18 years. I wouldn't do that in the nearest city for example.
Around 30% of DV hospital admissions are from aboriginal communities, with their multitude of social challenges. The issue of DV is far more nuanced than the "save Australian women" campaign suggests.
@@awf6554 In Aboriginal culture women are just seen as property that belong to men and that is why in Aboriginal culture it is acceptable for men to abuse women. The European settlers that came to Australia also wrote diaries of the horrible horrific abuse they saw Aboriginal men inflict on Aboriginal women.
I have to say, i had extreme reservations coming into this, but Russels work dispelled those swiftly, i thank him for his take on things and i thank you for spreading it without claming all the credit! Far too many people do so.
A woman has been charged with the domestic violence murder of a man in NSW. It has passed without comment. If the roles were reversed, we would be treated to the usual feminist inspired mantra following the report.
I was nearly murdered. The abuser breached DVO many times and still isn't being charged. Many other women i know who experienced DV, one got slashed with knife, and their abuser never went to jail. There's definitely more than what the statistics showed.
That’s an issue with the justice system tbh. I promise you as a male survivor of DV that I received no justice either, despite having overwhelming evidence
Sadly this video is poorly titled. It's about HOMICIDES, not DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. It's total drivel and content is not reflected by the title. As a survivor of extreme DV, this video and the presenter are completely insulting and are not even close to discussing what DOMESTIC VIOLENCE actually is, and unfortunately, the comments are filled with reactions from red pill mysoginists.
Domestic violence is sad and wrong but it comes second to the number of men murdered which runs from what I see nearly double the rate of women murdered. Just look at the government statistics. From this you could easily assume men do not count, they are expendable apparently.
Domestic violence is about male muscle vs female muscle. How many men murder women vs how many women murder men. Men murdering men is a problem of men, men murdering women is a problem of men so fix it.
Your assumptions assume that women have no intelligence. In life if a situation gets out of hand you extract yourself as best as possible, I know this as self preservation. Please no ifs or buts; to put it crudely it was my mother’s tongue that got me many a hiding and I have made hospital in my childhood on this very issue so I have had experience here and when my mother left home peace came. Goading was the problem. I go back to my original argument which is factual. I do respect your opinion but I disagree from experience and say it again it generally is not muscle but intelligence that is lacking. All of this experience strengthened me as a person and I have been happily married for 66 years now.
@@CharliCharboneauthe fix would be to stabilise it fix broken homes to prevent future perpetrators, but that's the logical thing to do, not that you'd understand based off your incredibly snarky comment
@@CharliCharboneau You're ignorant. What about the women that murder other women and the women that murder men and the women that murder children. The problem is with women so fix it.
The only people that most blokes in Australia will delete are themselves.
Yep, overwhelmingly supported by the suicide statistics. Sadly, no one seems to care about them or the circumstances that drive men to do such things. Being constantly berated and blamed in the media surely contributes.
@@BowlCrossy not to mention a societal drive that measures a man's worth only by their financial success, and that you need to be well above "average" to be considered successful anymore. And yet a female does not get measured by that same standard, so as long as she can pay rent, she's doing ok. (Her gucci and suede will be paid for by men anyway)
That’s a very sad fact 😢
@@BowlCrossy The inadequate funding to our healthcare system for mental healthcare is the biggest problem . People do care about the male suicide rates we need to address the media and society thinking about men voicing their emotions and issues with depression/anxiety.
@@janemelrose7208 No, if there was more funding, it would simply go to sexier issues... not to men's health. People do care a wee bit about men's health given that so many men do kill themselves, but getting re-elected is always the main aim of any political game, so the money gets overwhelmingly allocated to women and children. That's why there aren't any male homeless shelters.
The media isn't there to tell you the news. It's there to tell you what to think.
It’s not news, it’s info-tainment and propaganda. Seldom do we actually get meaningful news.
Yes.In particular the woke ABC.
@@simsong1188 nah ALL of them are full of shit. selling the drama. The skyhooks song "horror movie" has never been more apt.
The people around me irl are all under their spell
Their job is to get attention and most of them have chosen to do it in ways that would make the worst social media influencers reconsider their life choices.
Men vs women. Black vs white. Young vs old. Religious vs non-religious. LGBTQ vs not.
Any way they can think of to provoke outrage, they'll take it. Whats worse is that seemingly intelligent people continue to fall for it.
A 10 year old girl was killed by her mother on the Gold Coast. This will go onto the women killed in Australia statics, but the problem is the finger will still be pointed at men for the problem even though it’s a woman who committed the crime.
They also pointed to mental illness straight away in the report. Not that the mother is despicable for infanticide as they would've done if the father was the guilty party.
@@CBlackEagle women seem to almost get a free pass, yet when a male does something it’s in the news for weeks and it’s collectively men’s fault
Now you are stoking the fire.. the ruling class are far too inbred to acknowledge this because it messes with their leveraging of public opinion.
In the UK male victims of sexual or domestic abuse are officially categorised as "victims of violence against women and girls". I kid you not.
@jeremyschipp In Australia it was legal for women to rape little boys until the turn of the century.
So this clearly shows that society does not care about homicide when a man is the victim.
How do you draw that conclusion?
no it doesn't
Um who's committing those murders?
It's true that violence against males is also ignored. This isn't male vs female but rather a situation when male violence (against men, women and children) is excessive and the government doesn't do anything meaningful to address this social problem.
OR A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
A friend of mine was married to a psychopathic and extremely psychologically abusive woman. He was a very strong man, on the way to an AFL career before a major car accident ended that dream. His wife psychologically abused him until he hanged himself.
We need to look also at s***ide rates. How many men are driven to that end by psychological abuse? Women seldom use direct physical attack when advising a partner, but psychological abuse is ignored, even considered a weakness of the victim.
imagine if investigations were held into the lives of suicide victims, and blame for death was attriibuted as manslaighter or homicide by suicide! That would put a lot of women in prison...
@@Gumbatron01 Firstly very sorry to hear about your friend. I hope you’re not trying to say that male suicides are due to the actions of some women ???
Sadly most men suicides are due to undiagnosed depression resulting from various factors organic /medical reasons, money issues ,addiction issues, grief, trauma and relationship issues not caused by female manipulation.
The “Are you okay “ movement is so important for men.
You can see it clearly in the divorce suicide statistics, men are like 8-9 times more like to commit suicide after a divocr, which clearly shows which way the privledge is going in the eyes of the law. Protect men.
Feminists are not protecting people like that, just raising issues about the widespread dc issue everywhere
@@Wreniffer typical Feminist, it’s everywhere and every man’s fault, meanwhile women are perfect.
Tell me about the abuse of children and how the clear perpetrators are women.
The recent Australian domestic violence crisis was a good example of a media campaign. Often media campaigns take advantage of social problems and stretch the facts to advance an agenda.
They probably hate it when it's the women doing the murders or committing violence.
Or do they want equality in that too ?
Very well said my friend, you are spot on. 👏🏻
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Silencing the male perspective is the real agenda here is it ?
Family Lawyer here - "recent Australian domestic violence crisis" - there wasn't one.
There's good money in it. Have a look at how much government funding is doled out to homeless, DV, social organizations etc. You can pretty much guarantee that none of that funding or those organizations will benefit men, only women and children.
Too many people don't understand the overall effect this is having on men's attitudes towards women in general and society as a whole.
The constant barrage of anti-male sentiments every-single-day if especially as delivered by MSM helps to further increase men joining groups and/or taking on the philosophies of movements such as MGTOW. Many are putting of relationships and/or deciding to never marry.
The Jarred Hayne case is a classic example of a stitch up
MGTOW was going on long before Wokeness became a fad in the late 10s... The characters in movies like Knocked Up pretty much embodied that stereotype. It's tough to fault society for not respecting us, when so many of us don't respect ourselves
Great post ! Been saying the same for years . This is male bashing disguised in victimhood ; What can all these protests , and media spin accomplish ?! NOTHING except widen the division , indeed WAR waged by spoilt western women against men . They will not touch the ethnic stats , lgbtq stats , it's only white hetero males targeted , and the destruction of civilisation continues , and the ladies will have gotten what they deserve , then .
@@pukeachu now apply that logic to women, feel free to cite onlyfans participation and countless bad movies as your justfication.
@politenessman3901 Lots of women are destroying their prospects for finding a solid husband and legit work by falling for the lie that OnlyFans is a solid career, I agree
Too much sense here in this video for modern Australia. That’s not allowed anymore
Always allowed otherwise we don't have a voice
It lacks sense, think about how race is never mentioned.
There’s limited political mileage and ratings opportunities in facts based journalism. Even the ABC has succumbed to this nonsense.
That's because 99% of our career politicians are stupid .....😒
@@carlstewart927 the ABC is relevant to the majority of the population? Was it ever?
My wife hit me, called the cops and I got arrested in NSW. Dismissed in court. Cops wanted to forcefully bring my daughters from elementary school
I'm sorry man, that's horrible.
sorry mate! 😞
sounds like my soon to be ex-wife, I was studying to become a doctor, away at uni or the hospital alot, then got a spinal injury, have been laid up for near on 2 years, have chronic pain and in that time I supported and encouraged my wife to pursue her interests in study, which was fitness and PT, she became a PT, stopped spending time at home with the kids because I was now there full time looking after them.
She cheats on me, destroys our marriage, takes off with the kids to an unknown address and calls the cops on me. They came over and I invited them in for a chat. She had made accusations of me threatening her, raising my fist at her, stalking her, financially abusing her, you name it she claimed it, said she was scared of me. I talked calmly with the police, provided them with my side of the story, my evidence, told them about the counselling and the like. I didnt get an AVO against me, my solicitor said that means they believed me. I think she did it so she could access the escaping violence payment, and I think she took a shelter provided housing, because guess what the person who is scared of me did? Sent me a photo of a letter with her address clearly visible to me. She has continued to make more accusations, none of which are true, she has dragged her feet on going to mediation, because its going to actually end up in court.
Also there has now been multiple times when she has come to get the kids from me hungover, and they have come back to me injured, and the little one who is still in nappies with a blister on his bum, and just yesterday with scratches all over his penis and it being red and inflamed. I cant just refuse her to have the kids though, because thats how the law works at the moment, its stacked in her favour, she can make as many claims as she wants, with out proof, and I get tarred with that brush forever.
be glad you aren't in queensland. you'd have been put inside for sure here. queensland is trash, and the rest of australia is getting just as bad.
A mate at work had a similar experience. He locked himself and the kids in the bathroom as she was trying to stab them. Cops called and they wanted to arrest him, even though the slash and stab marks were on the outside of the bathroom door and he and the kids were in there when the cops arrived... but she said he hit her.
They only relented when the kids refused to stay in the house if he left.
My mum was a PHd in psych, she told us that men have 3x the muscle density of that of women. She also told us boys that women are more physically abusive by 75%, its just that men put up with the abuse and then lash out. Lashing out for men is unfortunately often lethal.
Last I checked, most intimate partner violence was actually mutually abusive. That is, both partners were violent to each other. In the cases where it was exclusively one-sided, women were far more likely to be the violent party. So that tracks with something like 75% of violence including violent women.
Men are both far stronger, and also greater risk takers on general, meaning taking actions in certain situations without fully considering the final outcomes, or being more willing to do extreme acts. This is also the case for suicide. Women actually attempt suicide at a higher rate than men, but the vast majority fail. Basically, men are more capable of extreme violence, towards themselves and others. But fewer men are violent.
yeah sometimes u just kill girls by accident cause u forget ur strength and lash out and thats normal.
Physics. When people resort to violence.🇦🇺
@@tophercIaus but a women has ben murdered on average every 4 days this year by a man, & every 17 minutes a women is the victim of DV based on police attendance. Expect bad karma for lying.
@@danejames7098 my response is to the 1st comment that women are 75% more physically abusive than men. So thank you for confirming that is inaccurate. My reference is to men murdering women, not specifically DV cases. It’s to highlight men have an issue with violence against women so you not agree? This video provided stats excluding QLD??? Do you not have an issue with that?? Comparing deaths to 1990 is an attempt to down play this issue. Comparing deaths this year to the same time last year more women are no longer here because of a man who couldn’t control his anger and took a life. It’s this attitude amongst Australian men that is the issue. Hold men accountable for their behaviour. I don’t care how many men have been murdered honestly because men don’t care about women so I have no more empathy for men. Men have murdered more people than woman ever will. That is the point you seem to want to sweep under the rug, and nothing will change unless men accept responsibility and stop covering for each other. Why so Aussie men have this victim mindset? You’re embarrassing
Great job. It annoys me no end that the mainstream media don’t do any statistical research on these things but instead blows issues out of all proportion to the statistics.
You still watch main steam media? Ha.
I suspect some encounter the data, but choose to ignore it. Cognitive dissonance.
Politicians and media follow the feminist agenda. The domestic violence and sex assault industries are dominated and controlled by feminists, who need to keep their funding flowing. We're talking hundreds of millions of dollars.
The only way they can do this is to continually demonise men with propaganda, sensationalism, and outright lies. Many politicians are on the boards of these misandrist organisations, pandering to women gets them votes...
The use of fudged numbers is rampant in any pushed agenda. The use of case numbers in the recent scam, where a huge majority were people without symptoms(asymptomatic) or mild cases meant case numbers were absolutely no indication of a viruses virulence. Hospitalisation numbers, where a large proportion were incidental cases, cases where people admitted to hospital with illness/injury but tested positive using questionable methods were immediately put in the 'flew' category. Trust nothing from the UN
The media isn't falling prey to false stats, but has always propagated them, just as sociology classes have for decades. "Manufacturing Consent" was written in 1977.
Unfortunately it’s a coordinated strategy against men and masculinity.
True.
And why?
Well, men are less easily manipulated into group think. Men also tend to dissuade women and children from falling victim to manipulation. So the manipulators - on all levels - want to minimise the influence of men in society. One possible reason.
When women have everything they ever wanted they start looking at men and devise ways to crush them so as to elevate themselves on the demise of men.
Correct
@@christofthedead I liked the other comments because yours was so useless and added nothing to the convo.
@@christofthedeadI can tell that you are an intellectual giant.
That shopping stabbing one. Everyone was saying he was targeting women. As a dude who watched footages, it was literally random. He was targetting people he could take on which is more chance a woman due to difference in size. I saw him chase a teen boy which he stopped cause the boy was fast. Then he shifted immediately to old dude but he ran quick surprisingly. He tried to sneak up on a dude until he turned n backed out. The stabber even trued to attack a man but the man used chair to distance himself. So clearly, it was a stabbing with no agenda. It just happens women were his victims due to many reasons. Somehow spin the story how women are in danger of male violence…
Men more adequately defending themselves is misogyny now apparently.
The following week I heard one of those twits in AFL daily talking about how she was scared to walk to her car at 5 in the morning. She probably lives in Prahran or Brighton FFS
We changed the facts to make the story more interesting to our fee male viewers to please the advertising demographics.
Exactly. How is that stabbing related to women? How is the homicide data related to violence against women??
@@Demtows It was the way the story was presented by the media, completely unsupported by the facts. That was the point of including it in the blog. Hayit actually posted, "Somehow spin the story how women are in danger of male violence…"
People only ever talk about domestic violence when it ends up in physical harm or murder. Nobody ever talks about the barrage of emotional blackmail and trauma caused by so many narcissistic partners that go under the radar. A lot of men struggle in silence because they're too scared to speak up about the emotional abuse that happens at the hand of so many women, because it almost always end up in the man being kicked down even when they're the victim.
Disgusting, vile world we live in.
I completely agree with you. And it would benefit female victims to acknowledge abuse of men. Why? Because it's all psychological or emotional abuse. And that's where most of the real damage gets done. Victims of physical abuse will always say so. I'm a woman my self.
The anti male agenda is so bad in Australia that when we hear of that poor little girl who was murdered by her mother a couple of weeks ago. The first thing I felt was relief that it was not a man who killed her, and the predictable backlash against men won't occur.
They immediately start looking for excuses, and particularly look at any males in her vicinity who might be the “real” cause.
Mothers are statistically higher in murdering their kids
25 years ago, when I lived in London, I knew a fair number of Australian women. The feminists ones were the weirdest I've ever met. Whilst their UK feminist "sisters" can be very strange and immature, they're beaten hands down by the Aussies.
@@paulwarygee, why would police be investigating the most likely suspect in a murder case?
@@ViscusRUclips Its not clear which side you are taking here. If you think men are more likely to kill children, please check the stats.
The Australian Government refuse to acknowledge female-perpetrated domestic violence. A few months ago, a father came home to find his little girl deceased - his wife - her mother had slit her throat. The media and police fiercely refused to use the words "domestic violence" yet it was by very definition that. It was a family member perpetrating family violence onto another. All they did is talk about the mother's mental health issues. Boom. Never hear of it again. There's been several cases like this. It happens constantly and it's an absolute travesty. This should not be a gender-specific offence. Mother kills her kids in the blue mountains. It's always about her mental health. Never about DV. They don't afford males that luxury. They are tried, convicted and sentenced before going to court.
If a man defends himself against a violent woman , HE is the one who will get jail time, it sucks big time that when a woman repeatedly gets violent, it gets ignored, I had to put up with 5 months of weekly house invasions and assault before the Police decided to actually do something to prevent it and I stated to them several times that if I defended myself against her I'd be the one locked up, Yes was the response. This woman wasn't even someone with whom I'd had a relationship.
A male person at my place of work was friendly with a female co-worker. A few weeks back I overheard and saw him ask the woman out for afterhours drinks, she declined, and he said ok and walked away. 2 weeks ago he was fighting a sexual assault charge with the same woman and HR. She accused him of touching her when he asked her out, but I saw he was about 2 meters away from her and I know he made no effort at all in trying to touch her. I fronted HR in his defense and guess what, both he and I were sacked last week.
That's fked
@@aussietaipan8700 That's disgusting outrageous and fucked up. Sorry to hear that.
@@aussietaipan8700 That's disgusting and outrageous. Sorry to hear that.
The same happened with me 4 years ago and I still can't get through till this moment and can't carry on any normal daily activities such as looking for work I completely lost all my incentive to do any of this. My feelings are hurt because I didn't deserve this accusation and the treatment that came along after that. I explained explained everything to the security of the place who told me not to trespass the place and police but he also told me the decisions were made and declined my request to clear the misunderstanding and the normalisation of things.
That's completely fucked up, we live in a fucked up world man.
I personally know someone who was falsely accused to gain an upper hand during a divorce. It was proven outright to be a false claim, but there was no legal consequence for the accuser (ex-partner), leaving him with lasting damage to their reputation and emotional well-being.
Am trying to live through the effects of a similar situation- thankfully the abuser figured out they had to back off for their own safety but have been stuck from making any meaningful progress in recovery for a very long time, getting through things but am on survival auto-pilot rn
@@AlexQuinn-f2r good luck my friend take care. Its a very long and hard road. 💜
Same happened to me, not one person ever asked for evidence and I was told just to consent under no admission. I live with that stupid decision still. I wish I had fought back even though she would have received no consequence for doing so.
Police very predjudice against males. Doesn’t matter about the years of emotional abuse they suffered!
I was falsely accused for the exact same reason. To gain legal and financial advantage and to perpetrate "systems abuse" as she was trained to do by the government. Worked a charm. No evidence. Every single thing was proven false, in fact, multiple times she was found to be abusing them. Nothing was done to her. Nothing was done but punishing me for being male. All they achieved is the complete destruction of my childrens lives, the indoctrination of my children by a severely mentally ill mother, the goverment sanctioned child abuse and systems abuse over a decade and ongoing. Our system is a fucking joke.
Some poor local young man jumped from a bridge to his death because he was worried about being sent to jail for touching a woman he liked, when she didn't reciprocate his feelings. Apparently this wasn't even sexual contact. And so ended another innocent man, only acting according to his natural impulses, but terrorised by a vile, man hating, feminist society, that he believed (for good reason) wanted him dead anyway. He obviously panicked without a real need to, but this belief that he had done something horrible was only enforced by the toxic attitudes around him. This society needs to be rebooted. And hard.
....Sure mate, that sounds legit
@@akashajones6079 It happened. Society is busted.
@@nothanksnoname7567 I believe it. I don't think a woman's ever done the same, maybe that's why akasha thinks it's impossible. Man bad, woman good. Woman not so concerned as that man, so no man is concerned as him
He was stupid for giving them what they wanted. That woman is now laughing about it with her friends (I've dated a few women that have told me drunk about how much they enjoy the "punishments" they've done to their ex-husbands/ex-boyfriends or other males). This is a power all women have over all men and it's a power that many will abuse.
Yep a hard reboot. We men need too remember we are warrior's n warrior's don't take shit. The reboot is nearly here warrior's. Justice for all. Amen.
Select migrant and aboriginal perpetrators out of the data and watch it plunge significantly.
uh oh! you're about to be called a racist!
Can't say that. Blasphemy!!!
You don't know that
@@Mysterx1440 blackfellas are about 3% of the population but about 30% of the prison population. Most are there for DV. If you don't know that you have obviously never been inside.
@@Mysterx1440 really???
Australia is the safest country in the world for women and has been for the last 100 years at least...
Australia is not the safest country in the world for women but Australia is one of the safest countries in the world for women.
Did you fall asleep during the video?
Third world migrants will soon change that
@@johnm84Australia now is one of the safest points in human history, to be a human.
Historically the abundance caused by agriculture gave us time to explore art and invent.
Now we are in a time of physical safety. We get to, as a culture, to explore ways where we a no longer just physically safe, but mentally and emotionally safe.
This is a new step for humanity. Not just women.
To feel that society is being anti male, when in reality it is just seeking equality is a common misconception.
Giving someone else the same rights you have to make them equal, seems to be seen by a lot of men as removing rights to make things equal.
Being unfairly advantaged is not a right. Giving other people the same rights removes the advantage not rights.
@@mofuonamotorcycle Are you including the fact that they are building two womens prisons in the NT in your definition of equality?
Excellent presentation of the data. Media and politicians look at data as how it can be USED to advance ideology. Thank you for your reasonable approach.
We need SEVERE punishments for lying and false information from MSM and government.
MSM need to publish FACTS only and allow individuals to determine how they feel about the facts, not have an opinionated journalist/media boss's perspective rammed down anyone's throat.
In this case the ideology that was being deployed was " how can we blame the Labor party to stir up trouble as they are not are extreme right wing as we want "
Anyone not as right leaning as Mussolini is a 'commie'. ( there are no left leaning politicians in Australia )
"Women are precious objects, Men are expendable agents" Karen Straghn.
It doesn't matter what KStraghn said or wrote. What matters is that you and your GF/wife look after each other.
🙏🫂
Karen speaks truth. Unlike so many women that stick their hand in the sand and allow the toxic environment against men to get worse. Society is at stake... "but don't worry, be happy"...
@@JulietCrowson….Karen Straughan is a pro male voice. She’s highlighting the west’s attitudes towards men, not her attitude.
@@JulietCrowson My GF doesnt even talk to my wife!
@@DirkusTurkess perhaps you should've married a man...
Try this. How many male suicides were either married or divorced with kids? How many of those divorced had their right to access to their kids less than an equitable 50% of the time? How many of those had their ex-partner make allegations (usually unproven by a court of law) of violence or child abuse to restrict their access to virtually nil or no contact? How many of those were mentally abused by their spouses or partners for a long period of time before they snapped? How many of those had their kids turned against them by malicious allegations made by their ex partners? How many were later or never given access to their kids by the courts?
I bet you those numbers are much higher than murder of females by males and that is where the real hidden crisis lies.
Maybe it’s about time we had a Bureau of Female Behavioural Change, just for the sake of equity, you know?
Maybe it’s time you took responsibility for your own actions
@@RealHooksy I suggest you read the Royal Commission Report into the Family Law Courts.
I have a son, and I take that stuff into account for him. His father has made him aware of it. The thought that a woman could stop him from seeing his kids is a scary one and one I hope he never has to experience.
His father and I separated when my son was 2 years old and other than a few disagreements between us around raising protocols, we managed to keep it friendly. He was never excluded from his son's life and never did I restrict access.
There are so many nuances to why this happens because human beings are not perfect. There are many reasons women restrict access to children and many reasons why they shouldn't however, I am against any made up shit that some women and men for that matter, come out with in order to 'win' the fight without taking the children's best interests into consideration.
I do feel there is still a bias legally around child custody and mothers. Nursing babies are one thing, but if a man has an adequate set up and the children can receive the care they need, then men should have a fairer sway in the courts than they currently do.
I cannot speak for everyone, nor can I make a blanket judgement, but there are things I have seen on both sides where men and women have used the children against the other. I used to work in Child Protection and have seen so many cases where the men have substance abuse issues, and the women and children suffer. I have also seen women call up and tell lies about their ex partners, in order to win custody at family court. In both of those instances I have mentioned, the reverse is also true.
What is the solution? I do not have one. If there were an accurate lie detector test that could be utilised in court or any disputes really, then that would be the only way we would be able to make the right call. This is not in existence as far as I know and both men and women can lie and have ulterior motives, so what do we do?
It takes more psychological strength than you can imagine to "survive" the way the system is currently setup, and it's rare blokes come out the other side without something that looks awfully close to PTSD. A large percentage of people I've met personally, or through my work-place have experienced it first hand, or have a family member/good friend that has been run through the wringer. It's absolutely despicable, incredibly unhealthy for social cohesion and is going to create significant problems in the next 10-20 years.
@@Lenergyiskey358 you must be one of the nice people who actually try to amicably sort it out afterwards.
South african living in Sydney. People you don't understand how good you have it. I never have to worry about my wife anymore. We are and feel safe. Australians are friendly and easy going people overall, there is no issue here.
What is worrying is where this is going, not so much where we are now. It is clear that the media only present what they think we should hear, not 'the news'. There is definitely an agenda going on here, and THAT is the big worry!
I'm glad you feel safe here.
The big issue is why they are doing the propaganda to make the people _believe_ there is an issue. Thats the real question. What is this agenda all about and who is behind it??
australians are good but not mislims
It's about the media.
Sorry to say that's a dumb comparison. So what you are saying is there can be more violence before it can be classed as bad. Respect ✌️
Begs the question: why/who perpetuates the lie???
The issue is never really the issue,The Issue is always The Revolution. J.L.
The people who benefits from the lie propagate the lie.
The government gave the femunists groups hundreds of millions of dollars each year to fund programs to 'prevent violence and against women .
Their introduction livelyhoods are at risk if the truth is revealed.
But I'm a victim dammit!
Divide and conquer! That's nothing new.
The ABC is a good place to start looking.
@@lukecarey613and SBS. Strange how SBS never get a mention for their blatant political agendas.
Biting the hand that feeds them.
Population has grown rather a lot since 93. So overall if numbers stay the same then there is an overall decline.
Yes and the same is true of the road toll.
So many immigrants, many who are a danger on our roads, and there's the authorities using that as an excuse for more over policing and subjugation of long term Australians.
But we must include, diversify, tolerate, keep our mouths shut, and overpopulate as much as we can, so that homelessness and division become the new normal.
That's why the per 100,000 rate is used as a metric, not overall figures.
@@David-xt5ob The decline is good but the fact domestic violence still occurs is not good enough it just shouldn’t happen
@@2bNot you know according to the statistics our biggest danger on the road is P Platers especially males . The majority of P Platers are Australian born . The other biggest danger to our roads are drunk drivers. Would you like to take a guess which gender are the majority of drink drivers….?
@@janemelrose7208I would challenge that because the ones I see driving very badly are the foreigners and it shows when they do things such as stopping at roundabouts when there are no cars or overtaking uphill on double white lines in blind curves etc.
But carry on Demonising men and the female bureaucrats will no doubt bring in more anti male laws to keep you happy.
In Australia our homicide rate nationally is 0.81 per 100K people. In the state of Rhode Island USA, it's 1.5 per 100K people. The lowest in the US where old people go to die has a higher rate than our whole country.
Let that sink in...
The homicide stats in the US are kind of misleading because they are the average of all demographics. Young men from minority communities skew the average a lot.
The homicide rate has nothing to do with violence against women.
It’s the actual violence against women that’s the problem.
The disproportionately high number of women killed by their partners or former partners, plus this not killed but still harmed, for life in many cases.
@@RealHooksy Talk statistics.
@@Jeremy-ql1or It is also the average in Australia. I’m just comparing the grand scope of things. Homicide rate per 100K people.
You're comparing Australian and US statistics on murder? That's comparing apples to grenades
Women are prioritised when getting help, and everyone talks about violence against women.
When was the last DiD (Dads in Distress) campaign? Where are the Mens Mental Health facilities? And who are the first suspects?
Men get it hard here in Australia, no-one gives a shit about them.
I see that you are insecure and I just wanted to let you know I will be praying for you 🙏 I hope things get better so that you don’t have to go through life being miserable
Hard in Australia. That largely depends on the cocoa percentage in your colouration.
People 'marching for justice' dont live in reality. They are dumb.
Abbie Chatfield
Well, half the population has below average intelligence so it is to be expected I suppose.
The reality of 1 women per week on average being killed by a partner or former partner?
They're what Stalin called the "useful little cogs".
@@RealHooksyya based on aus female population is 0.000004%. Its really not that BIG of an issue. We can still reduce it but its not really a huge issue that needs the biggest attention to
It's insane that certain people will claim to be against discrimination based on colour, sexuality and gender, yet at the same time openly demonise straight white men because of their colour, gender and sexuality.
It seems it's totally socially acceptable as long as we're always "punching up".
And so how do this compare to the stats on male on female homicide in some these "minority" countries? We only touched on that in this video.
And what are the stats on male and female suicide compared to homicide? Is it as much of a crisis in proportion to male on female homicide in Australia?
Thanks for providing perspective on the topic.
The "tolerant" are actually the most intolerant...
Go figure.
We were better off paying no attention and saying go f yourself
I have seen numbers from ABS showing that if a bloke is going to kill someone the most likely person is himself. Second, by a fair margin, is another bloke, third it's a woman, forth its a child. Concentrating on male on female violence is like if a school was all up in arms about year 10 kids beating up year 7 kids but not caring about fights in the same classroom and completely ignoring the year 12 kid hanging from the noose tied to the footy goal posts.
PS I like ya name mate!
Its called being a hypocrite, illogical and, typically, low intelligence. Consistency and rationality are apparently pretty rare. Oddly enough, the people preaching diversity and tolerance are the least tolerant people you'll meet.
@@therealbushmanpat Spot on. The sad truth is that men will typically take out their angers and frustrations on themselves. If we have an "epidemic" of women dying in DV incidents, where is the national uproar over the thousands and thousands of men who kill themselves each year? Ah, that's right... its not sexy enough for the target demographic (women).
@@therealbushmanpatsociety abhors violence committed by stronger against weaker individuals, and rightly so. It’s seen as despicably cowardly, as it is.
Very well done indeed.
It’s very humbling to hear an Australian female quoting facts and presenting a balanced assessment.
Thank you on behalf of all the good Australian men.🌹
Good Australian men don’t get triggered by other men being called out for bad behavior.
They stand up to help.
@RealHooksy not anymore they dont. True equality is letting women solve their own problems. "The good men" are the 95% who would never do anything inappropriate to women in their lives. It's the 5% you gotta watch out for.
@@RealHooksy if you cannot see what is actually being done then I fear you're beyond redemption.
@@chadcadsonvii5258 He's brainwashed... I can probably count on one hand the total number of times I've shaken one back to reality through comments on the tube. Not sure how entire the job was or how long it lasted because I didn't know the guys and never talked to them again. Mr. Hooksy wants to be a good man, he wants to stand up... but he has no critical thinking skills, literally none. It's not his fault - almost everyone who's not a drone is completely self taught
She was reading an essay written by a man.
I grew up in Mexico, Australia is as safe as it gets in our crazy little planet. Let's keep it that way.
Thanks Zoe and Clare for providing much needed reality check on the prevalence of domestic violence and homicides in Australia.
Thank you for telling the truth and stating the actual facts.
Manipulating statistics to make stupid people feel better about themselves more like it.
There needs to be more transparency around the cultural groups that are more prone to acts of violence, especially against women. Appointing a minister of men’s behaviour to tell us that all men are bad isn’t going to address the real issue if it’s only a small group that is vastly over represented in committing these violent acts. Everyone is too concerned with being perceived as mean or racist to admit the truth.
So, basically punishing the host majority over the actions of a smaller parasitical group living among them?
There also needs to be transparency around the behaviour of women.
If women were dying because they were riding horses down the freeway, you can't blame the horses for bucking them off. The women need to take responsibility for their actions.
I still see it's still very, very common for women to date the "bad boy".
No, these men shouldn't hurt women but women also need to have their own "sense of survival " and stay away from bad men.
As stated in the video, most men are known to be a danger BEFORE the violence. Stay away from people that are a known problem. Otherwise, you are complicit in your own problem.
@@JaySun-t3dwhat an incredibly stupid comment
It's Aussies. Alcohol is involved in at least half of such incidents. Substance use is also often involved. As for 'cultural groups' poverty is usually a factor.
@vanessac1965 Domestic violence happens throughout the world so it's not just Aussies.
DV has been falling in Australia since the 70's. The slander and gaslighting in this country is next level. It is enough to convince me that slander and gaslighting is the default position of women in general
Berating women doesn't help men.
Berating women doesn't help men.
@@saijeetdogra9360 Berating men doesn't help women.
@@saijeetdogra9360 You have that back to front! The problem is that Men are berated constantly by Australian Media, Government, Education and on and on. Women get a pass in most cases...
@@saijeetdogra9360The feminist movement has been lying about men since its inception. Careful.study of the writings of its founders makes this clear.
One thing that was not mentioned about Asian murder rates was the lack of feminism.
Thanks for this. My partner is constantly showing me things on TikTok about how bad men and women are, but mainly just men. It's draining to hear and harder to counter due to her past. It makes me worried that our son and daughter will grow up with a fear of the opposite or same sex, instead of just caution to some of the dangers out there.
20 year and a 10 year relationship. The rest of my days are and will continue to be enjoyed in peace
✌️ & love 🇬🇧🏴😏
You’re now on the watchlist with this excellent, high quality content.
It even somehow ticks the climate denier box. Don't ask me how
@@lyricallyunwaxable1234 If you are a "climate denier", you are a person who has looked at the data.
@@somethingelse9535
News reporter - So the polar ice caps are receding?
Scientist - Yes, every year the polar ice caps recede due to the seasonal changes, then proceed to previous levels because of the new season.
6pm Sheep o'clock news.
Reporter - So the polar ice caps are receding?
Scientist - Yes(cutting and editing)
Reporter - This is the sheep o'clock news reporting
@@somethingelse9535 Guess I'm a cash grabbing, racist, anti vax, pro choice, right wing extremist, anti migrant, climate denier, transphobe, misogynist, terror loving, conspiracy theorist, putin fanboy(I'm sure I missed a few other monikers)
@@somethingelse9535 🤪🤡
Thanks for presenting this. We all need to try to be more level headed regarding these issues.
I found growing up that it is very easy to be alienated as a man. It drove me insane. I think it's based on this idea that I have the potential to earn the world's boons by my male privilege. So it has always been harder to get a job, harder to find social support, harder to be treated fairly in education and mental health services and harder to find adequate medical service because the act of me applying for anything is denying those same applications for the vulnerable, systemically underprivileged women. Each time the person who is meant to represent or allocate those services makes a point of letting me know this. I've had this issue my entire life and it is exacerbated in female dominated industries, especially in mental health, education, nursing, and social services. I've struggled with thoughts on it for years.
There were two UK studies that allude to this phenomenon. The first is that female teachers have a bias against male students if they know the gender of their students, and the second is that men are more likely to off themselves after speaking to a mental health professional. That second part threw a spanner in the feminist theory that men avoid services that help them - rather, that women have dominated mental health for so long the industry is wholly unequipped, or perhaps unwilling, to process men with mental health concerns or trauma.
Us Australians kind of took the feminist thing and continue to veer in to it without stopping. In Australia, raype is classified as an act of forced penetration - most cishet women don't have the parts to accomplish that unless it is an act of malice, so an act of non consensual smecks by a woman has a far reduced sentence and has no chance on showing up on Australia's rape statistic (you can imagine how people feel looking at the numbers). More recently, domestic violence has been redefined as "violence against women and children in the home", and that classification includes male victims. The trouble is, at least 1/3 of victims of DV are men, and we already have little to no services to provide for any of them.
Incidentally, there is not a single study focusing on male victims of DV and SA, so we have no idea what happens to male victims specifically after the fact. We only know that it happens. I've tried looking for them because you would think there would be at least one out there, but there are hundreds of articles, books and papers talking about female victims and not one specifies men unless it is within the context of male aggression.
We DO know, however, that victims of trauma and abuse usually traverse down one of four categories - drug and alcohol abuse, crime and incarceration, becoming abusers themselves, or self harm and/or "sewer side"; of these, men dominate all four categories consistently, and those numbers have an upward trajectory globally. Again, health services have no idea how to deal with men with trauma. I believe that there is no reason for anyone to think we should have services for men as they should, in theory, automatically be comforted by their privileges and culture-defined sense of superiority. We allocate services for the vulnerable members of society first, and if men are never defined as such under all circumstances then the issue of an inadequate system will exacerbate and the definition of a patriarchy will continue to be redefined as society continues to shift. We cannot continue to ignore half the population and forever brand them as brutish, uncivilized, toxic, fragile, violent savages, with everything the world has to offer at their fingertips, and call for action against them when we have no clue what is even happening to men.
Let's put it another way. Men have lower life expectancy, lower education, higher rates of incarceration, higher chance of death by "sewer side", higher unemployment, higher rates of drug and alcohol abuse, higher rate of homelessness (seriously, 80% of all homeless in Aus are men and social or emergency housing prioritises women without children before men because of the threat of violence against women but you're twice as likely to be murdered as a man), and a higher rate of mental health issues. The last time anyone pointed out those issues in any one group of people, it was due to a systemic problem that put that group of people at a disadvantage and the people that argued "it was due to their inability to co-operate" were rightfully branded as bigots. You'll have to excuse me while I question this privilege I'm supposed to have.
@@classydays43 I am afraid a few bad men have tarnished all men in the healthcare system . As a woman feminist and nurse myself and many others like me know the majority of men not brutish violent men. It’s just when the majority of violence towards staff in A&E and the wards is done by men we have become a bit jaded When the majority of sexual assaults and dv victims we see in hospitals are females we do think they are more vulnerable because they don’t have the same strength to fight back.,You can see where nurses are coming from but we do need ensure there is equality in our services
@@classydays43 I do take offence when you say we are I ill equipped or don’t care about male mental health the huge majority of us do care . You statement is a gross inaccurate insulting generalisation. Mental health nurses are doing a lot of training and study in male mental health. Also a lot of nurses are mums sisters and Aunts to males we understandably are very concerned about mental health for men .
Nothing of what you've said doesn't change that men are more likely to go hang in a tree after seeking mental health services. If the entire industry is filled with women fed the same idea that men are the enemy then don't you think it's by design? It's just hard for me to believe you when you're all fed the same idea that men are a weed.
@@janemelrose7208 Do a better job then, you are doing a PATHETIC job at protecting and caring for men. DO BETTER.
@@DaOverman00 are you okay?? You don’t seem to be in a good place.
I was stuck in a situation where after I broke up with my ex she threatened to go to the police saying that I held her down during intimacy, at first I was confident because I knew that never happened and have never done anything like that ever before. After I contacted the police and lawyers to see what my options were I was absolutely terrified. I ended up in hospital after I felt I had no hope and tried to end it all before the allegation was started. Thankfully my neighbour saw me passed out and called the ambulance and unfortunately for me I went back to the relationship so she didn't go ahead with that plan. Ended up getting away 5 years later and now couldn't be happier with my life. I don't wish her any ill will and know she's a deeply unhappy troubled person but people who are willing to lie to get their way have so so so much power in todays society. Especially young pretty women.
I see that you are insecure and I just wanted to let you know I will be praying for you 🙏 I hope things get better so that you don’t have to go through life being miserable
@@whitneymadison1056 lol you're making a lot of assumptions, quite wrong by the way. I'm doing great now thanks, my ex is doing better too now that she's getting professional help.
@@Stoogis Pay no attention to her. She is an idiot and a troll and she has been trolling on other people's comments on here. Also sorry to hear what you have been through.
I am a 69 year old male. Have always been respectful to women. Have never been violent to women. My life philosophy has been family centred working with my wife as a team to achieve family goals. I don't understand the anti male sentiment being preached by so many female activists. These days where an allegation of assault is made against a male they are resumed guilty straight away. Doesn't matter years later after.they are found innocent by the legal system the stigma still remains. Guilty whether you are innocent or not. Yes I think young men today shy away from commitment and are less likely to appreciate my own philosophy on family.
Indeed....
And ...maybe ... THAT is exactly the goal of those groups in power ...
to.... reorient significant number of young unexpirienced man and women in their
LifeStyle... (???)
@@marinvidovic763 Yep and whether it is all the fault of feminist ideology or there are clandestine operatives pulling strings in the background it is hard to say. But what is evident is the blatant toxicity, hypocritical, racist and sexist nature of feminist ideology that is the impetus of what is happening. Feminists want to get rid of up to 75% of men but like all their ideas and noitions they are deluded and absurd.
@@marinvidovic763...More likely, the goal.is to convince some groups that they are "oppressed" so that politicians can present themselves as "saviours" and "liberators".
@@peterwebb8732 looking at their body ,skin, and
all other anatomical features
it
looks ti me that They are and were PROTECTED from most harsh realities of Life out there for
MILLENIA ,
... because
People needed them to care and nurture
small children indoors .
So story about OPPRESSION is all just a Fabrication to take them out of the Home and enslave them into the assembly lines ...
This is a major issue. It's under reported to the police & that is a known issue. Men don't take crimes against women seriously. Men seem to think they are the victims these days. It's shameful how little men care about women in Australia. They never hold men accountable, they always have a weak excuse. Apparently even 200 women being murdered a year isn't concerning for men.
Good god how refreshing to find someone actually discussing issue in a logical balanced way with reference to actual statistics. Such a rarity in the public sphere. Well done
Labour has dedicated 4 billion dollars to the so called crisis. Why and where is the money going?
The money is going to the feminists running the not for profits and charities that pretend to be helping women, 90 % of the work however is fundraising to pay the comfortable salaries
Domestic violence shelters are overcrowded and there is no access for families in need to be provided longer safety, apart from temporary accommodation that is only 30 days long.
Walk away men. I chose to walk away from women 15yrs ago. I am safe, well and happy!
I walked away 25 years ago. Best time of my life since that.
@@squiremc I thought I was clever, 12 years ahead of MGTOW.... but you rock sir!
Did one of them rob you blind in a divorce or take your kids? I avoided all that to... didn't avoid a couple of sociopathic narcissists though... but I limited their damage.
@@gesheepistemology8050 I'm glad to hear you missed out on the disaster that is marriage and children.
I have never been married nor do I have kids.
I have been used from time to time until I put my foot down.
By the time I had completed my grind and set myself up with a house in the mountains, vehicles, two income streams, I realised by watching the advent of MGTOW That I had really won this game.
Life is good!
😁
@@gesheepistemology8050 try "and"
It's been 8 years now, i'll never let anyone ever dismantle what great things i have done for myself. I love women very much and its a sacrifice.
Late comment but my husband and I are witnessing the most acrimonious break up of very good friends.
She has turned into a lying hateful woman and we have been shocked at what she is doing. We have known them for a long time.
She took the kids claimed DV, refused access and isolated the children from him and all his family. She then took off in the middle of the night with the kids and nobody knew where she went. Terrifying her ex.
The police in QLD would not put an AVO on him and the courts threw it out due to lack of evidence. So she turned up in Victoria and immediately got a DVO put on him without evidence needed.
Family courts were useless and cost a mint.
She has turned the children against him and they refuse to cooperate with any orders.
After what we have witnessed we start to understand why some dads are backed into a corner and end up committing horrific crimes of violence.
How much can a person put up with?
How can the courts and police keep granting women all the power thy help back men into a corner??
Nothing has changed in over 30 years when my husband went through the same disgusting system with his ex!
she been feminised like 80%of mww, vey actually become evil whn v opertunity raises
This sounds horrible, I have been going through many comments on this video and I must say that Australian justice doesn’t seem to favour men at all when it comes to DV, there is no exception or even realisation of it going both ways in their eyes.
But also as a 17 year old boy who’s always been taught at school that men are the problem when it comes to any violent act. I knew I couldn’t trust and didn’t trust education but this pains me to hear these stories of abuse of any sorts to just be ignored or downplayed.
@@skankhunt5360 thanks 4 ur opinions n suport, yes men here relay r 2nd class citizens n 4 sme time. its tense living here 4 many men, n mnay like myslef have withdrawn frm v comunity n society, n sme r moving o/s, im tinking of it 2. i dotn want my future children subjected by vis anti male propaganda/dogma that sadly has become v dominant culture in vis once gd country.
So good to hear some intelligent discussion of this topic. So, who's driving the 'crisis' narrative?
Marxist Feminists would be my guess. 🇦🇺
Same people promoting the "climate crisis"
@@thefleecer3673 Yep. Follow the money. You can add in the latest "outbreak" scare to that list as well. Guess we're all going to be expected to get a few more jabs in the near future.
@@anthonysutherland4108 Nice dog whistle there, you clearly know nothing about either just trendy buzzwords that feel good.
@@sophiepooks2174 Thank you for your reply and assumption. I'll assume an angry feminist, uncomfortable with home truths.🇦🇺
The media’s exaggeration of this is incredible. Also im so sick of hearing about Brittany Higgins.
nothing occurs in a vacuum, but as a species we prefer to deal with symptoms rather than causes. And what of all the mothers who mentally abuse their kids for years, leaving them with anxiety, depression, anger issues, addiction etc?
Most of them raised by single moms, most of the single moms chose bad men to sleep with or to leave good men and suck the money from them remotely.
34 successful Aussie married man here. In my experience Australian women don't like good guys with 9-4 jobs handsome or not. ask were the good guys are when they hit their 30s Yet there's tens of thousands of women who love Wade Wilson and he's a rapist and a killer. Makes no sense to me at all when they try to justify it. Women need more role models in this day and age.
I've gone through all these statistics from the ABS recently and came to a pretty similar conclusion as this essay. It's really hard to bring it up in real life because it can get you cancelled pretty fast. However, statistics always win - overly focusing on these means we're missing out on solving problems that can have more impact.
Great presentation and data driven as well!
Thank you for having the first balanced approach to this issue. I as a white man am sick of been abused, racially and sexually harassed over things I would never do.
Because of this I now feel like I can no longer go to public gyms and have to stay vigilant when out in public to ensure I don’t go near women or that my interactions with women are not misinterpreted such as, moving seats if a women sits next to me, crossing the road if a women walks in front of me, not making eye contact or where possible look at a women in public to ensure I’m not falsely accused.
Absolutely, as an older single white man it's dangerous to even say hello to a woman, I brought up my children the best a could my wife was a drunk,I love to walk my dog,one day I walked past a public toilet, 10 minutes later the cops pulled me up,apparently some women called them thinking I was a preadater?.
Can't even sit on a bench in a park close to a kindergarten or primary school for fear of being looked upon as a peodophile.
yeah me 2, withdrew frm our society a decade ago, n its getn worse.
I understand it mustn’t feel good to be equated to other people doing bad things when you wouldn’t do those things. You just have to understand that women being cautious isn’t personal to specifically you as a human. I understand why it might feel that way. I do also wish there was more understanding as to why women do feel certain fears, and for people to have empathy for it. I don’t agree with people attacking you though.
yeah me 2 mate, v femos got us all stressed.
I would love to know what percentage of men in Australia have actually committed a violent crime ?
Being I keep hearing how there is a problem with men and the whole male culture but as a man I seldom ever see it.
Maybe I’m just naïve but I would love to see the numbers…
You’re naive
@@RealHooksy You're the one that's naive and you're a fool.
It's only a small percentage.
Excellent, fair, open minded, evidence driven video. This is true journalism.
Really though thank you for this. It means a lot having someone like you batting for us.
Three things:
the adoption of the Duluth Model by Australian agencies has contributed to the uptick in reporting and convictions for DV/SA that now do not require the burden of proof based on criminal justice to record a conviction. That might explain the divergence from DV/SA and homicides stats. If as asserted we're a 'dignity' based culture, many people would not report to police to avoid a stain being made public. As victim narratives become more valourised, of course reporting by women could expect to increase. It also is as divorce lawyer will advise, pivotal in nasty custody battles, just sayin.'
In respect of women selecting men from the underclass, i.e., men with convictions or 'form' for being nasty violent people. That goes into the too hard basket, along with women often preferring "bad boys" over nice guys, which is not folklore, but observable IRL and data too. What can society do about that exactly? Interested to hear?
Lastly, re: your stat data comparison with the USA for murder. If you take out the murder rates for the 5 worst cities for murder/100k (all democrat run cities BTW), the USA murder rate collapses back to being much closer to Canada.
I would have appreciated a comment on why Australia recently manufactured a crisis about DV when the stats are stable, and critical thinking indicates otherwise? What was really behind it? Just more craven funding for more Feminist powers ($100's of millions) to further emasculate ordinary men while doing nothing effective to educate or reduce the suffering of our women cohabiting with the low life, perhaps?
The Duluth model was evidenced to have no basis in any legitimate scientific research, and crested by an uneducated unqualified group of people. Go figure
Thinking is
NOT necessary here,
... indeed !
MGTOW is
One efective solution
... until
A) Family law doesn't become fair and normal .
(* If 2 adults decide to split apart everything should get split fairly in 2 INCLUDING a children custody
(!!! in particular !!!)
So ...there is no child support isdues
or allemony nonsence .
There is no parental Alienation as well.)
Those are 2 adult persons and eacjlh needs to organise his/ her houshold according to his/ her working abilities and have children there for 1 week on /off. )
This is a crucial ISSUE Here that makes men very angry and creates suicide in men.
... fSS
recently, feel that they are loosing a tight GRIP over the media and the False narrative -( youtub and internet provides neeaded Light and destroys their monopoly).
so
they try to manufacture
CRISIS and bring in
* Gov. CENSORSHIP on discussions
and
* more and more intimidation and CONTROL.
Left is ...generally all about control and intimidation , power and constant projections onto other what They do.
MGTOW
and you can enjoy your life.
This comment is evidence of a rational and evidence-based mind. You must be driven to the point of insanity on a semi-regular basis by the absurdities and baseless claims of the current "culture wars".
You clearly have NO idea what the Duluth Model is. It doesn’t redefine DV, it outlines its stages able an educative tool for social workers and others to use with vulnerable women to understand the pattern of their relationships.
The stats have remained the same. And we think that’s okay? When other measures of crime are actually going down as a proportion of population, DV is not. Women being killed by their partners is a crisis, should always be thought of as a crisis, and the fact that you guys will gaslight yourselves into excusing your murderous behaviour is absolutely insane.
Also, research shows us over and over and over again that women do not marry the bad guy, they marry the man they think will make the best father based on qualities such as kindness and mutual respect. Unfortunately, men lie and alter their behaviour to get women to marry them. This is why DV often doesn’t show up until after people marry and have children.
It been my experience that nothing makes a woman more happy than to be in a crisis.
you sound like a cuck.
That’s a very sexist and generalising statement.
@@ella1125Perhaps, but that is my experience.
Great video, very fair. Thank you
Nice job with this. Thanks. It has been really interesting to get a dry perspective rather than an emotive one.
Great video. These facts and context is much needed to be told, our media wont
MRA sent me here. Glad I came.
Shared.
A population is easier to control when they're scared.
The issue at hand is not the actual violence, which I do not want too dimmish, but rather the politicisation of the issue and the associated lies, misinformation, misdirection, indeed the entire false narrative surrounding domestic violence. This is because domestic violence and its misrepresentation is a major weapon and strategy in the feminist and woke agenda.
Although feminists and the domestic violence industry does not want to admit it, domestic violence falls into one of three categories and all three categories are counted as equal when determining the number of DV instances. The categories are Feelings based, Situational/Issues based, and Ongoing/Never-ending.
Feelings based does not actually include any violence, its new, after the definition of DV was changed to include feeling threaten or coerced by mean words. It certainly helps get the DV count up and is often used by women and divorce lawyers as part of a strategy or even revenge. Today, I'd suggest to men to reciprocate and any time preventing or lessening access to children is mentioned, claim feeling fearful, threaten, and coerced.
Situational/Issues based is by far the most common form of physical DV, up to 85%. It is characterised by BOTH partners verbally/physically abusing one and other although ONLY the male the partner is ever prosecuted. This form of DV is usually issues based e.g. Promiscuity, cheating, jealousy, paternity issues, controlling behaviour, gambling, drinking/drugs, loss of job/income, financial stress and of course divorce and breakups. It's a domestic argument/fight and whilst there may be other arguments/fights it's generally not ongoing and generally not deadly.
The third category accounts for 15% of physical DV, is the most insidious and evil, it is one sided, ongoing, based on absolutely nothing and usually will not stop until you leave or are dead. It is the type of DV that makes the news, and the DV industry likes to pretend is indicative. Men and Women BOTH do it and are perpetrators in equal numbers, with females usually using a weapon with a sneak or surprise attack or waiting to he is asleep, drunk, stoned or otherwise unable to defend himself. Although the number of attacks may be similar, males take the life of their partner more often due to greater strength and capability. It is almost always only the male that is ever prosecuted. There are no services or sympathy for male victims and their children, only derision and false blame.
My ex tried to stab me with a kitchen knife. Cops showed up and literally laughed at me due to our size difference, said if anyone was getting taken in it would be me even though she admitted I hadn’t touched her. Refused to remove her from the house.
😔 police have no idea what domestic violence is. I bet the police attendance was not even put on file.
Greetings from Canada! This essay is a FANTASTIC example of how people have a "recency bias" in looking at trends and are SO quick to hit the panic button. While your example is a tragic one of violence aimed at women, I see a similar patter of behaviour in the manufacturing industry where we may have an incident of product failures and similarly people run around with the chicken little approach that the sky is indeed falling. By looking at statistics you can identify if things have gone completely out of the bounds of normal occurrences (as this essay did). Excellent work on showing how to gather information to calibrate a reasonable response whether it is a social issue or an industrial problem. Note: I am NOT making and equivalncy between violence and technical problems - just saying that people respond in the same way often with a huge over-reaction that often does not get taken away once the problem goes into the "normal" bounds. So if you put extreme measures in place to deal with a "seeming violence explosion" those measures don't simply disappear once people realize it is not a violence explosion. Gotta consider.
99% of the people commiting domestic violence are the same people coming in and out of jail that have no regard for women, the rules or the feelings of people in general, these people have no empathy what so ever they see kindness as a weakness to exploit, the average person isn't beating their partner
In NSW someone is in jail charged with manslaughter. He was arguing with his father who had a heart attack & died. Yes charged with manslaughter for a verbal argument because the other person died from the "stress".
Where’s the link to this story?
Yep, there is none.
@@oo0Spyder0oo how do you know? did you check yourself? I guess not. Easier to tap away on the keyboard thinking you're clever, amirite?!
15:15 - Thank you for a thoughtful analysis. It makes me recall a telephone call I received when working for a shooting organisation.
Her "What do I do about my husband’s guns?"
Me "You'll have to give me more information than that?"
Her "My husband was unemployed. I told him, go and do something, anything. He did, he hung himself."
That was the edited form and I still remember the anguish in her voice. Why do I risk entering such a contentious debate? Because I want a reduction in homicides and suicides.
Few murders happen in isolation. You make the important point that most such crimes occur among couple known to authorities. Psychological violence is "equal opportunity." (I am not suggesting that the above incident involved such behaviour.) I contend that society can effectively trap a couple in a disastrous situation. Few women kill, but men don't just kill women, they escape by killing themselves. We should remember, these are all tragedies and seek mechanisms to assist in de-escalating relationships long before the outburst of violence.
Can't thank you enough for putting this out there!!!
Fantastic video focused on facts. I particularly liked the bit about honour/face/dignity cultures. Does explain a lot and shows where we may be limited in getting the rate to 0.
I wonder when the Australian powers that be decide to homogenise the statistics so they better support the narrative?
The davos conclave
lol. Take the national temperature, so to speak ;P
If 500 people were purposely deleted by 500 men.
If we take away kids under 16, that means that approximately 10,000,000 men did not delete or harm anyone.
Stop blaming the 10,000,000 for the actions of 500.
Yes those 500 should feel the full force of the law, but don't make out the rest of us responsible or liable for them.
They aren’t
Kids are under 13. People 13 14 15 16 and older are adults.
@@johnm84 yeah, that’s ok then 🤦🏻♂️
@@johnm84 Anyone who's not allowed to drive, or have any other adult responsibility is a kid for the purpose of this comment..
But really, what is you point? 14 million people who shouldn't be blamed for the actions of 500?
Just makes my point even more poignant.
@@stevegraham3817 People 13 and older are adults. People 13 and older are physically mentally and biologically adults.
Some common mistakes and omissions in this piece. Corrections below.
Guns are prolific in Scandinavian, France and other European countries with low murder rates,
Countries with African descended people always have high murder rates in this group. In the USA 52% of murders are committed by this group according to government statistics.
This has also been noted by Police in Melbourne Australia. Australian domestic violence figures are skewed by the horrendous situations in indigenous communities. Without this domestic violence would be much less statistically.
East Asian people carry their peaceful behaviour to other societies, where they are often a minority. They make people of European descent look like thugs.
Like Australia, the USA has also had a sharp decline in murders that is mirror image in proportion. The United States attributes this to brilliant new policing methods. Australia attributes this to restrictions on firearms. The reality is that most murderers are in younger age groups. The baby boomers got older and therefore committed less murders.
Always the variables they don't like, so won't mention
Great work on presenting the facts without trying to push a false narrative. It's so refreshing. Liked and subscribed!
Thank you for productive conversation & content that helps counter misinformation
Activists gonna activist. Opportunity for gains come from crisis... Real or imagined
What a surprise, the facts don’t support the narrative? Who would have thought that? 😊
Very interesting, with utterly reasonable conclusions drawn from these data. Two things strike me: One is the relatively low (surprising to me) homicide rate for Italy - I wonder what conclusions could be drawn here. Are the data accurate, or is there something about Italian culture where violence stops just short of homicide? Two, is media (ab)use of the 'crisis narrative' (good term). Literally every week in the UK we have another 'crisis' of something. Perhaps the meta data could be drilled into to explain the rise of this term in widespread media usage.
The fact that I'm Italian is relevant only because I had your surprise and sense of disbelief about Italian murders many years ago, and since then I've checked the data over and over: Italy is a very peaceful country as for murders and violent crimes in general.
As for interpersonal disputes, we seem to prefer relying on the judiciary system (which basically means we prefer suicide over homicide 😂).
And as for the mafias, the main organizations have massively abandoned violence as a method; they prefer corruption, mostly peaceful drug dealing, investments in northern Europe... Criminal, but usually not violent.
@@nefaristo Fascinating and very positive for Italy - I've always found it an incredibly friendly country, but as a tourist I hardly experience reality. But there must be lessons for the Northern Europeans re social structure, socioeconomics, family and rural/urban life.
Italy has aged immensely, the citizens are too old to commit violence.
@@jameshoward9700 i suspect crime rates, violent or not, vary from region to region like,a lot. I have a home in the north west countryside with glass doors, not rarely left open, without any incident in 18 years. I wouldn't do that in the nearest city for example.
What makes you think Italy would be a country with lots of murders?
Truly appreciate a balanced perspective. Thank you Zoe
Nicely said. It is good to hear a more fine-grained message than that which we hear through the media.
ffs - domestic violence is a far broader phenomenum than just murder....bashing, raping, psychological abuse etc, etc, etc
Thank you and John from auto experts covering the truth about this so-called "crisis". The numbers don't lie.
They’re both justifying violence against women.
Both as disgusting as each other.
Around 30% of DV hospital admissions are from aboriginal communities, with their multitude of social challenges.
The issue of DV is far more nuanced than the "save Australian women" campaign suggests.
@@awf6554 In Aboriginal culture women are just seen as property that belong to men and that is why in Aboriginal culture it is acceptable for men to abuse women. The European settlers that came to Australia also wrote diaries of the horrible horrific abuse they saw Aboriginal men inflict on Aboriginal women.
Thanks Russell for the insight, thanks Zoe for sharing
I have to say, i had extreme reservations coming into this, but Russels work dispelled those swiftly, i thank him for his take on things and i thank you for spreading it without claming all the credit! Far too many people do so.
A woman has been charged with the domestic violence murder of a man in NSW. It has passed without comment. If the roles were reversed, we would be treated to the usual feminist inspired mantra following the report.
Because statistics matter.
@@akashajones6079 Yes. All of them. Including those of female perpetrators.
Why don't we talk about female violence, Erin Pizzey has don't a lot of work in this space and her interviews are eye opening.
She received death threats for talking about female violence. Credible threats, the Police had her under guard until she left her country.
Women are consistently less violent than their male peers amongst all races and societies.
@@KuriosDiogenesJarno. Wonen are more evil .dont be fooled
@@ACDZ123 My experience has been mostly the opposite. I must be fortunate.
@@KuriosDiogenesJar where's your other comment gone?
I was nearly murdered. The abuser breached DVO many times and still isn't being charged. Many other women i know who experienced DV, one got slashed with knife, and their abuser never went to jail. There's definitely more than what the statistics showed.
That’s an issue with the justice system tbh. I promise you as a male survivor of DV that I received no justice either, despite having overwhelming evidence
Sadly this video is poorly titled. It's about HOMICIDES, not DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. It's total drivel and content is not reflected by the title. As a survivor of extreme DV, this video and the presenter are completely insulting and are not even close to discussing what DOMESTIC VIOLENCE actually is, and unfortunately, the comments are filled with reactions from red pill mysoginists.
@@peaceweapon1933yeah, but you weren’t likely to anyway… she as a woman expects it (which is rightfully so)
@@Mashamazzi But not rightfully so for men huh? You’re a sexist
@@Mashamazziand male victims shouldn't expect justice?
This was excellently researched &presented.
Thank you for showing and sharing with us, some facts on this important subject.
There is only a crisis of fear...... in reality we are safer than ever..... we are just softer and more scared.
Excellent presentation.
Domestic violence is sad and wrong but it comes second to the number of men murdered which runs from what I see nearly double the rate of women murdered. Just look at the government statistics. From this you could easily assume men do not count, they are expendable apparently.
Domestic violence is about male muscle vs female muscle. How many men murder women vs how many women murder men. Men murdering men is a problem of men, men murdering women is a problem of men so fix it.
Your assumptions assume that women have no intelligence. In life if a situation gets out of hand you extract yourself as best as possible, I know this as self preservation. Please no ifs or buts; to put it crudely it was my mother’s tongue that got me many a hiding and I have made hospital in my childhood on this very issue so I have had experience here and when my mother left home peace came. Goading was the problem. I go back to my original argument which is factual. I do respect your opinion but I disagree from experience and say it again it generally is not muscle but intelligence that is lacking. All of this experience strengthened me as a person and I have been happily married for 66 years now.
@@CharliCharboneauthe fix would be to stabilise it fix broken homes to prevent future perpetrators, but that's the logical thing to do, not that you'd understand based off your incredibly snarky comment
@@CharliCharboneau You're ignorant. What about the women that murder other women and the women that murder men and the women that murder children. The problem is with women so fix it.
Very high content density for youtube. Thank you!
Thanks for finally providing a honest & factual look at this over-hyped subject.