PARENTING THROUGH HIS / HER EYES | South African Couple YouTubers

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @claudiasebola6265
    @claudiasebola6265 2 года назад +22

    How do you guys communicate your feelings and thoughts so clearly? Without being misunderstood? Wow

  • @nomfunekomgotyibana5699
    @nomfunekomgotyibana5699 2 года назад +4

    I love how honest you guys can be with each other. I think you doing great with your kids, it shows already.

  • @LETSOALO_LIFE
    @LETSOALO_LIFE 2 года назад +3

    One time,two real ooooh yeah. Good installment it was..very interesting

  • @nthabisengkhoba1789
    @nthabisengkhoba1789 2 года назад +4

    Pheto I am with you here with regards to discipline, the having to reinforce it with them is exhausting. I end up tidying up myself because it drains me to have the conversation again. The difference is my daughter is a teenager, I believe she's defying me cos she is older and should not need to be reminded as much as my 7 year old.

  • @florencezizo
    @florencezizo 2 года назад +3

    True kids find it safe when there's discipline...I totally agree 💯%

  • @euniceasaah667
    @euniceasaah667 2 года назад +25

    I always watch without commenting but my goodness this was a beautiful conversation.
    I'm about to be a first time mum with twin boys "help me Jesus 😁" . I just pray for the grace for my partner and I to be intentional about parenting just as you all are.
    Stay blessed always 🥰

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK 2 года назад +8

    Etseng class captain, here to bring order...
    Here we subscribed akere? We don jus watch nje for the watching. Hit the notification bell so you dont get left behind wa re rona re snux akere.
    Like, comment, share. 🫶🏾

  • @raisingremiandremo
    @raisingremiandremo 2 года назад +15

    I’m super passionate about parenting. After this, I’m strongly considering starting a podcast. Hearing different parenting styles and the whys behind it teach us so much about ourselves ❤
    Thank you for this 😊

  • @siyolemayongo3769
    @siyolemayongo3769 2 года назад +3

    Arg! Your wife is beautiful Mr Makhs. Not me just staring at her face. I love her more because she’s a Godly woman ❤️ Thank you guys for this channel, for your ministry actually. May God continue blessing you guys.

  • @vuyelwagoqwana4587
    @vuyelwagoqwana4587 2 года назад +30

    This segment has really changed how I see marriage, it’s really good to know that there are challenges in every aspect of it but also there are ways to make it better as well, you make it seem possible to enjoy the challenges that comes with being a spouse or a parent. Personally I’ll never see marriage the same again because of the authenticity of this segment in your channel. From the bottom of my heart, Thank you 🙏🏽❤️

    • @sanelemjoli4877
      @sanelemjoli4877 2 года назад +2

      Right? They give you hope each time you watch them.

  • @namara598
    @namara598 2 года назад +4

    Not me checking everyday for a new upload. You win. I join notification gang😅🙈

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 2 года назад +5

    Ayi ayi you guys don't blush enough lol. I mean you compliment each other and still don't blush, you just receive it and not blushing ayi I could have been pink throughout this episode. Wow beautiful, insightful episode. I am learning a lot from you guys and may God continue to bless you.
    The Great I AM loves you

  • @lulumyakayaka
    @lulumyakayaka 2 года назад +3

    Affirmation is so important!!! Because if they don’t hear it from their parents they won’t believe it when they hear it from other people

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 2 года назад +2

    Mrs Makhs is such a daddy's girl 💞🤩 I think dads are such amazing part of their daughters life ...their presence really goes a long way !
    Beautiful episode Fam..we love it

  • @temalangenimachethe6944
    @temalangenimachethe6944 2 года назад +3

    Yal be doing God's work yazi. This type of content should be paid for

  • @DameWaMjengo
    @DameWaMjengo 2 года назад +5

    I agree with Mr. Makhs, as a lady, you model to your children, particularly daughters how they should treat their husbands and men generally.

  • @masabathamhlongo6378
    @masabathamhlongo6378 2 года назад +1

    Thanks guys, being a parent is such a blessing💝 may we fulfil this assignment unto God’s glory!!!
    “God brought them into ours in order to shape our growth” Lerato….love it🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @goabamagosi
    @goabamagosi 2 года назад +3

    I'm a new mom to a beautiful baby girl and this segment came in handy and at the right time because I'm battling with wanting to be a good mother without being hard on myself. You really spoke to me, thank you❤❤

  • @kodwat2134
    @kodwat2134 2 года назад +2

    My partner and I parent different, and it's very much informed by our personalities. It works well for me...

  • @nompumelelomoshani4631
    @nompumelelomoshani4631 2 года назад +5

    💣❤️I have a daughter, I felt it when Mrs. Makhs said disciplining is exhausting sometimes.

  • @Onalenna_Thobega
    @Onalenna_Thobega 2 года назад +6

    This was a wholesome segment. I identify with the struggles of being a first child and being a responsible one or rather having to always be the bigger person, I think the role of being a deputy parent can somewhat creep up on us very quickly and we end up feeling like we are robbed of our childhood. So it's good to hear you had that convo with Hakoe, it's something that I'm certain made her feel heard and seen. in a nutshell, you guys are simply amazing.

  • @DameWaMjengo
    @DameWaMjengo 2 года назад +6

    The way I kept checking for an upload.. ☺️
    Happy to be a part of the Dream Team. 🌺

  • @oyamabululu1564
    @oyamabululu1564 2 года назад +3

    Look, I don't even have a boyfriend. Lots of steps before I'm a parent. Thanks for the broadening of my mind AND HEART for/towards my kids. I have a niece who is now my favourite human being. Parenting her has been a touch-and-go thing because, though I see her as my own, I haven't really thought about being intentional in doing it. My sister, mom, and I should sit and have this conversation among ourselves. Thank you guys, LOVE YOU LOTS.

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu 2 года назад +3

    Absolutely loved this, especially the part where Lerato mentioned that kids don't always no how to articulate themselves. I always say "use your words" too so I'm gonna work on that and be mindful of it. Thank you fam for this. I love you ❤️

  • @lydialekgothoane117
    @lydialekgothoane117 2 года назад +2

    Great conversations,may you please share the documentaries you talked about!

  • @raisingremiandremo
    @raisingremiandremo 2 года назад +3

    My husband and I noticed that most of our friend that grew up in a home with a present father have a very different kind of confidence, in a positive way. They are always so sure of themselves. Fathers done have to be in the home to be present. Wish more men Understood this

  • @tsebedaphney2678
    @tsebedaphney2678 2 года назад +2

    Yoh guys 😭😍
    This was so beautiful to watch

  • @shemillionheir
    @shemillionheir 2 года назад +2

    What an Amazing conversation. You guys are Amazing!!!

  • @lulumyakayaka
    @lulumyakayaka 2 года назад +2

    Mr. Makhs is so like my father (may he continue to rest in peace) he’d never shout at us, he’d just be like yay pasop and you’d listen to him immediately

  • @reagilemoloko4892
    @reagilemoloko4892 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!! Mrs Makhs is so graceful, loving and oozes elegance.

  • @rachealkihunde6677
    @rachealkihunde6677 2 года назад +3

    Love you guys so much

  • @SimplyK94
    @SimplyK94 2 года назад +3

    I agree with Lerato - how your mom speaks to your dad or defines him, does play a huge role in how you view your father and other men.

    • @LM-he7eb
      @LM-he7eb 2 года назад +1

      Really? I think it does play a role. But, NOT a HUGE role.

  • @chumafiglan4653
    @chumafiglan4653 2 года назад +6

    Beautiful conversation guys 🙂. Thank you
    I actually took some things as a newly single parent.
    #God has equipped me to take care of my gift (baby)
    #God is the Father to the Fatherless

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu 2 года назад +4

    Yho Ruo is like my daughter😭 I also feel like she's 3 turning 13 too😂 I asked my partner today if toddlers have hormones of teenagers, like what's going on🙆‍♀️

  • @mosimamaheya235
    @mosimamaheya235 2 года назад +2

    Oh I love you guys. What a wholesome beautiful conversation. My heart is full. I just shared this with my husband ❤

  • @tabisadlamini5689
    @tabisadlamini5689 2 года назад +2

    I absolutely loved this conversation fam,what a loaded instalment this was It made me do an introspection and will definitely have this convo with my husband....

  • @nosipheloduduma3735
    @nosipheloduduma3735 2 года назад

    I loved everything about this😢😢😢. Got me on my feels a little bit about family and parenting. You’re a real blessing to your kids. Having children is my biggest fear by the way.

  • @mosibudipriesta
    @mosibudipriesta 2 года назад +4

    Welcome back, I have been looking at my notification 🤣😂😂

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 года назад

    Phetola is stunning, forever in awe of her beauty.

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 2 года назад +6

    Been here from day one mtkbw. I now have a Masters in Marriage🤣🤣🤣

    • @simnikiwemajiki8265
      @simnikiwemajiki8265 2 года назад +5

      I was single when I started watching this channel. My mindset changed and mans put a ring on it.

    • @siyamtolo6733
      @siyamtolo6733 2 года назад +2

      @@simnikiwemajiki8265 oh wow! May this be my testimony too. Still single!🤣🤣🤣

  • @matshidisomohale4720
    @matshidisomohale4720 2 года назад

    Mr and Mrs Makhetha, thank you so much for this podcast, i dropped a tear watching how Mrs Makhetha defines your way of love Sir (tracing steps to find baby's key). its really in my heart to say, thank you, thank you for always finding it fullfing to share all that you share with us, my heart for you is big and will remain, thank you for showcasing the personality of Christ in every way and form💝

  • @lulumyakayaka
    @lulumyakayaka 2 года назад +3

    The key part 🥹❤ that was so cute

  • @dancinginthepurplereign4126
    @dancinginthepurplereign4126 2 года назад +3

    I really enjoyed this conversation.
    I wish Lerato could share more about his upbringing. I get his parents are public figures, so it's kinda hard to talk about people who are known.
    Also maybe as he said he is still figuring it out himself. And how tough it was for him
    Also childhood issues areextremely tough because all those perceptions are made by a 10 year old or 8 year old, and we as adults just need to know what our innerchild is saying.
    I appreciate your self awareness and intentionality. It's remarkable that you guys strive to be honest and never perfect.
    Thank you so much for this.

  • @MolobaneEstateLodgeSpa
    @MolobaneEstateLodgeSpa 5 месяцев назад

    I'm watching and listening this channel for the third time Today
    You are God children guy, God be with you ❤

  • @kundaikoti9701
    @kundaikoti9701 2 года назад +2

    Lost for words to describe how beautiful this was. ❤

  • @OscarineMlisana
    @OscarineMlisana 2 года назад +4

    Wow your conversation👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👏👏👏👏👏 is so authentic, very educative keep it up with the good work , I love you guys❤️❤️🇬🇧

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu 2 года назад +2

    "I love you as a woman" 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ayandadyasi3118
    @ayandadyasi3118 2 года назад +2

    Thanks guys you two are amazing we need more people like you

  • @nosisasharon3534
    @nosisasharon3534 2 года назад +4

    Having watched this but by just seeing the upload my heart is full❤ love you guys

  • @misscarol_m
    @misscarol_m 2 года назад

    Sometimes i look at Phetola and think geez this lady is so damn beautiful and its unreal. Loved this segment as usual

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 2 года назад +3

    First things first: Did I see Phetho & Mama Claudine on Wife-VS-Mom?

  • @careymayisa8407
    @careymayisa8407 2 года назад +6

    Honestly gonna come back to this once I have my own kids

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 2 года назад +2

    I'm with Phetho. My mom is very sharp-tongued. But, my dad was my hero & I was always sensitive about him. As he is to me. If anything, I go out of my way to not be brash; because of my mom.

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi6724 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful instalment

  • @juzasgatya4274
    @juzasgatya4274 2 года назад +2

    Love yr conversation yr thinking

  • @wambuindungu5601
    @wambuindungu5601 2 года назад +7

    Kept checking for an upload, ❤️💃

  • @myriamcajuste1194
    @myriamcajuste1194 2 года назад +1

    This video right here is everything OMG thank you so much 👏🙏🙌

  • @Sibahle_Bahleh
    @Sibahle_Bahleh 2 года назад +3

    Phakathi inside!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 2 года назад +2

    Issa wrap ♥️

  • @WisdomQuest_SA
    @WisdomQuest_SA 2 года назад +2

    We are here❤❤

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 2 года назад +1

    I thought Phetho would say Lerato is STRICT. 🤣She always says that

    • @teboJoh
      @teboJoh 2 года назад +1

      @L M me too 🤔

  • @MolobaneEstateLodgeSpa
    @MolobaneEstateLodgeSpa 5 месяцев назад

    We adore you guys ❤

  • @nosizweTT
    @nosizweTT 2 года назад +2

    ❤❤❤ 💯

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 2 года назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾

  • @Nitah_M
    @Nitah_M 2 года назад +2

    You guys!!! 😭

  • @MolobaneEstateLodgeSpa
    @MolobaneEstateLodgeSpa 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lifutsotsephe7544
    @lifutsotsephe7544 2 года назад +2

    👌🏾

  • @boitumelotumi7535
    @boitumelotumi7535 2 года назад +2

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 2 года назад +1

    Mr.Makhs what constitutes a "spoilt" kid?

  • @ausitumi
    @ausitumi 2 года назад

    In the next life, if there is a next life, I'd like to be Mr and Mrs Makhs' daughter 🥺❤️. #Dreamteam

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 2 года назад

    Heyy Fam network boras me Bona I’m only seeing this now ke network ja one bar 😩💔 I hope it doesn’t stop while I’m watching I wanna go back to the hood😭😭

  • @sindysibanda1841
    @sindysibanda1841 2 года назад +2

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @tshepisompala2236
    @tshepisompala2236 2 года назад +2

    Gang Gang 🥰

  • @lerato17mokoena
    @lerato17mokoena 2 года назад +2

    ❤️💡🙏♾

  • @lesedisekhu3192
    @lesedisekhu3192 2 года назад

    i just noticed that a really really need therapy, just to unpack my life in general

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 2 года назад

    I’m the first kid it’s a 9 to 17 job please yoh at my age I’m still struggling and going through the most of my sibling my parents take his side things I should be getting mara I’m not gonna get cause I’m female and his a boy yoh hai

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 2 года назад

    Yes yoh I get that and when I voice out my opinion or my hurt they say I’m to defences mara le wena don’t tell me one thing everyday I know what I must do you told me once and it has sat within my brain I won’t forget it ah manje wena everyday everyday 😂😂😂😂 that’s why you feel like it’s hard

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 2 года назад

    My parents told me to do those things everyday, I still don't do it today . . . I'm 30

  • @ntebohelengqoi8332
    @ntebohelengqoi8332 2 года назад +2

    • @lopangsebeke8677
      @lopangsebeke8677 2 года назад +3

      Always amazed how Mr Makhs unpacks issues. MmaBakwena is truly blessed