How To Know If A Man Is Husband Material Or Not. IS THE GUY YOU'RE WITH REALLY ENOUGH?
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- Опубликовано: 4 мар 2018
- HOW TO KNOW IF A MAN IS HUSBAND MATERIAL. In this session we discuss three developmental stages of a man and how a woman may make a general assessment of what level a man is on. Two of the three levels we discuss may or may not be suitable for a woman to consider as mate material. PLEASE LIKE AND SHARE THIS ONE.
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I got everything I needed in the first 7 mins! "When a woman puts herself beneath a man who is not enough and if she is more than the man is, she limits her potential and stifles her own growth." Let the church say AMEN and take up the offering.
AMEN
Hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah. This hit me. I'm done ✅
Thank you
Aaaaaaamen
"A man's circle is always an indication of his level" Teach on.
I learned this lesson so late 😖
Which is why my ex bf didn't introduce me to his 2 closest male friends because they are down low bisexual men.. and my ex was probably hooking up with them. He had told me that those 2 male friends had a threesome together but I gave him benefit of doubt that he wasn't like them. Then I find his Amazon purchase history during our break up being anal toys. Ladies, please do your due diligence with men before commiting! Have strong boundaries and keep your standards high. Keep praying to God for discernment.
@@basicinfo2022 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Laor Jones Same goes for women...
Princess OMG. That is so devastating. No judgement, but I just don’t understand bi. I would have told him to pick a team!
“You can help a man, but you can’t build a man.”
abd you damn sure can't CHANGE a man. they say the way to test a man/ womans character you give them 3 things sex, money, abd power. that shows you who they truly are
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Amen!! He has to be willing to help HIMSELF before God can help him
Popcorn ✅
Remote for rewinding ✅
Coachable spirit ✅
Pen and paper ✅
Listening heart ✅
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Exactly Right ❤
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This!! All his videos🎯🎯🎯
Amen.
"A man should have the capacity to make his wife better". Amen
BETTER is the key word! ❤
Should a wife should help her husband make a better life together?
@@bmcneil112 men were made 4 the leadership position that's y women were called 2 submit 2 them, not the other way around unless ur a child and that woman is ur mother 😒
Touché ‼️amen🙏🏽
Amen
"A man with potential is not enough to cover a wife" .... powerful 👌
Most women have been polluted into ‘believing they should help a man reach his potential’.... the myth of the ‘down woman’... her focus becomes all HIM and She makes him her GOD!
PaulinaJohnson MBA So true!
PaulinaJohnson MBA I made this mistake once too many
PaulinaJohnson MBA your statement is all facts! Thank God for deliverance because I have been that woman before.
Preach!!
PaulinaJohnson MBA
Wow So Very True
I’m 32 and I feel nowhere near meeting the right husband let alone partner anytime soon. I had been comparing myself so much to all my friends, who are either married or onto their children. Now I’m realizing that just because someone is married doesn’t mean it’s the right person or will last. I need to stop comparing myself and keep working on becoming my best self. In that space is the only way I’ll find the mature man I hope for.
32 is still young at least from where I'm sitting. Be encouraged!!
Bless you young lady
Thank you all for the kind replies, I haven’t seen them until now!
Same feeling here✋❤🤗
I'm 56 and in the same boat.
Your wisdoms is such a blessing in my young life. I’m 21. My father has NEVER sat me down and counselled me on men ever. I’m grateful and I appreciate you. God bless
Many don't , don't despair .
Wow... 21?? God Bless you.. Please listen to Pastor's series - it will Save you from the many, many childish snakes out here! I know you are Intelligent, because you are already listening lol.. I so wish I had this wisdom to listen to @21 Ha! Lord Jesus! But, God is Good... Please go with the Lord~
You are so blessed to be hearing this at 21, it’ll save you from heartache, joyriders & time wasters
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P.S....as a young sista....check out..Derrick Jaxn...You Tube
Channel....and check out his
Book: "Don't Forget Your Crown"
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Queens don’t marry potential! R. I. P. to potential! Where is your fruit??!!
I married potential and now divorced 10 years later with a little daughter and struggling. I helped him become wealthy and got nothing for it because I ignored that his heart wasn't right and that I felt awful whenever I was with him, and the still small voice that from the beginning was telling me to leave.
Why should a relationship be so difficult? I failed big time in the compatibility area. I feel safe being a single woman but desire having a mate. 😔
Too many narcissistic men. Watch sheraseven1 channel too. She's been really helpful.
A woman has to know herself, a woman has to take her time to learn the suitor man and she must not talk too much, too soon and too everything!
This is just confirmation. It's been 6 minutes. Summed up an entire fiasco of a marriage in 6 minutes. Thank you God. Just bcuz he's in "PURSUIT", does not make him suitable. Amen. Confusion, GONE, KA BOW!
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Girl!!! I wish I would of understood this! We are not responsible for who is attracted to us but we are responsible who we entertain🌺🌺
You are such a blessing,wish all women can listen to you,married and unmarried!!Married women esp wake up!!!
This right here wasn’t nothing but the simple TRUTH! Don’t let being stuck on “potential” complicate your lives ladies!
I am in tears because I wasted my time & love on formless men all of my life. My biological & step-father were/are formless men. Farrakhan said a woman's uterus is God's workshop. We cannot allow just any man with a good game in. I'm going to save this for my daughter & son. This is important! A Christian woman cannot submit to a man if he isn't right with Christ. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
Exactly sis! Exactly
Potential has messed up many a persons!
PaulinaJohnson MBA That's why guys think they are God. just to beat and control the women. but not doing it God way. smh
It’s a beautiful trap even the most intelligent and successful women fall for. When outsiders see it, the unspoken question is “Why is SHE with HIM?!”
Amen!
I can't express enough how much of a blessing it is to have someone teaching about relationships and discernment in finding the right mate. I wish someone had taught me these things 25 years ago, as I just turned 51 and am still single. Thank you Bishop. And I thank God for you!
rcha1967 Me too... I did not have any modeling or teachings of any kind on this and have suffered immensely. I am now 42 and so grateful for this!
So true Gina Zee,without this kind of teaching,we bound to make regrettable decisions,and and mistakes and will pay a hefty price for it.
It's not to late ...but you have to b a wife when he find you. ..i got married@ 49.yr old ...so there's still hope..blessings.
Yes...I do not want a project. Potential is a project.
It is not our job to have a project of a baby.
YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD.
Its good dealing with someone who knows God but some use it as a disguise in the beginning spiritual discernment required
Truth, Queen Dyna!! Now, when a man says he's a Christ follower, I ask him "How do you know you are"? The liars always stumble over their words! Spiritual discernment 😊
Many do.
I love your relationship videos. But I swear even thinking about a relationship gives me a headache. It's a whole lot. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thanks, Pastor Blakes, for this timely and valuable teaching. No longer will I waste time on a man who is a form of a man. “A woman can help a man, but she can’t make a man.”
You got that right! I gave up my ‘Build a man Bag a long time ago’! I can’t ‘build a man’ like ‘build a bear’!
PaulinaJohnson MBA 😂😂😂
Say that!!
PaulinaJohnson MBA 😊💯
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yesss I'm a High Caliber woman & I need someone equally yoked with me 😀
A man that has no God Awareness or Self Awareness Cannot Lead bcz he is in Spiritual or Emotional Limbo = He is not ready to be your Husband!!!!! Dont Settle or your your days can be shorten.....
Teisha Haymon True 😩
Amen.. Including the FAKE ones in Church with a Mask of Narcissism on pretending to be Godly! Peel back the layers~
I have seen a few in church
@@TheMonica82 EXACTLYYYY they are worse than the non believer men!
@@TheMonica82 Currently divorcing one of those!! You live and you learn!
Bishop, the way you broke down Adam's needing time to be complete BEFORE Eve was taken out of & presented to him was mind blowing for me. I've read Genesis so many times but that truth never hit me until now. Thank God there are shepherds like you in the Church. Topics like this really matter. The institution of marriage is seriously under attack, so this is so timely. Please keep it up!
L. Patrick You stated exactly how I felt when I heard this message as well. It made me excited to go back and read the creation story again & again! I look forward to presenting this information to my children.
Gunn Shotta Amen! Same here, when I have them.
Yes!
L. Patrick He's talking about the Genesis 2 creation story then. Because in Genesis 1 male and female were created together. I wonder what happened to those 6th day creations? Because what was created on the 8th day seems to be what the rest of the bible talks about.
My ex always held me back, and continues to do so. (And some men DO hate themselves, and take it out on their partners.) I worshipped a false Idol.
Recovering Soul My sympathies, sister. That's why this information is vital for our children & youth - they'll be empowered early enough to know who & what to avoid. I pray your situation changes for the best soon & becomes what the Lord originally planned for you. You deserve the best! God bless & strengthen you, amen!
You can tell about a man from the company he keeps. That speaks volume.
He might not be there when you want him but he's always on time... God is good...
Great teaching, continue to help through your teaching. 😊
Eve didn’t prove Adam but her father did. It would be nice if our elders, fathers and pastors assisted in screening potential spouses to eliminate the hazards that are a by product of dating.
VoL. THATS REAL GOOD
I've seen often where the woman rejected having the father, elder, leader in that process. They wanted to make their own decision. I am a bit partial to arranged marriages for the reasons you stated.
Thank you for this. My hudband is trying to do the love bombing thing again and I'm not having it. I married potential and it took me years to come to my development as the Queen that I am. We both came to know one another not entirely whole. I grew, developed and matured and tried to help him grow and I see him being so more much the form of a man with his circle. It hurt to listen to this, but it was so needed. It just confirms that my choice to end things is the right choice. I dont have a partner that can maximize my growth. I wish him well and I hope he does grow, but it will not be with me. Thank you for following the gift on your life. You've radically changed my life in a short time with the word and the power of the Holy Spirit. God bless you and your beautiful family. 🙏😊💖
How are you doing now? I hope your life has improved.
I wasn’t married to mines, thank the Lord! He blocked it!
Hi 💖 How did it turn out for you? How are you doing?
“A man’s circle is always an indication of his level” WOW!!!!!!🤯🤯🤯🎤
Yes! I married a man who was not enough and I thought that we would grow together. After he pulled himself together as a result of my support, he dumped me and married another immediately in order to "upgrade". Now I can come into the fullness of what God made me to be which is the real upgrade!
This is what happened to me as well
GREAT message, I think also fasting and prayer and asking the holy spirit to confirm this. THE HOLY SPIRIT is never wrong.
The form of the man describes my ex to a tee! So sad! And he sees nothing wrong with himself! I however did have the strength to leave that relationship! Thank God! 💯 ❤️
Then there isn’t really many real men out there that I can see so far..
Invaluable information for all single women. Excellent!
Married too..like myself
I found you on you tube December of 2016 when I was going through a lot (separated from the father of my kids , we weren't married but living in fornication ) it was hard to face that truth but God destroyed that illegal structure ; from that time I listen to your messages I make sure that I take notes I've books now full of your messages and I've realised that there was a lot I didn't know about relationships mainly because I never had a father or mother in my life not because they were dead but they just chose to be not part of my life .I grew up feeling rejected and ive come to a point of forgiving them and move on with my life .I listened to your teachings of father daughter talk and that helped and matured me a lot .being single now I thank God for all these messages you are taking your time to teach .For me it's pure gold .finding you and Mrs Lisa Blakes has been a blessing we appreciate you .
Yvonne Monde thank you for your transparency & testimony. Please know that you are not alone in this journey. I am so grateful to be single after two failed marriages AND content with understanding that if a man wants to be a part of my life, he has to go through MY FATHER first. Stay encouraged & blessed ❤
Yvonne Monde LISA andI love you
Yvonne Monde I can definitely relate to your experience thanks for sharing
Balarie Miller ...pleasure my dear .
Gunn Shotta ...We sometimes learn through our mistakes ; stay encouraged will be praying for you/us in our singleness season .
Yes indeend..I am a high quality woman from the beginning...I made some big mistakes.and did not realize i was always enough..But i am truly whole now..And God is truly restoring..me in such a magnificant way...Thanks for reaffirming that...Awesome...
awesome word.
Wish there was a “Love” button to click on! Thank You Sir!!
the FORM of a Man...
'Prove a man before you approve a man'.... I recieved that! 🙌🏾
This is gold for men also. When i listen i dont think of him saying this for me, think of what i need to be to have the queen of my dreams. these seminars work for both sides. For example, as a man after watching this, i understand that i should not even be chasing relationships and marriage and children without first FULLY establishing self, and then cultivating my own potential. only then can i love serve and cultivate the wife i was meant to have. These videos work for both sexes guys...just a matter of perspective. Thank you Pastor Blakes. its crazy how 30 minutes a day can begin to change the entire trajectory of your life.
when i was younger my aunt use to share ith me these lessons. i thought she was being to hard on men. but through hard knock life. i saw for myself that what pastor and my aunt say are totally true. now i go in like earl flin asking questions . no longer a silly woman. chicago speaks
Stumbled upon you Rev in 2018.....as I was separating from my narc husband. Our son was only 5 months old but with God's strength, Grace, mercy, help and your teachings.....I've happily moved on and haven't had to get professional counselling. God bless you Rev...keep teaching us women as most of us now Queens had no dad nor stepdad to guide us when we were growing up.
This was excellent, even as a non-Christian this gave me a lot of information to think on and apply.
Be blessed.
And if not a Christian, would you like to give it a go?
Great message for the soul. My 17 yr old daughter watched this along with me. We have subscribed! Thank you so much
Bishop, my Lord you are so in order and on point. This needs to be part of a woman's understanding so we can be better and do better. To God be the Glory.
God bless you, I'm 48 and just lost my husband to brain in June 2017. He was young and died of brain cancer. I have to start all over again and I just so happens to come across your videos in the past two months. These blessed conversations I believe are God sent. I made many mistakes in my marriage that I wish I could un-do but my focus is to learn who I am in Christ. Mr. Blake's please pray for me and may God continue to give treasurable wisdom and understand. AMEN.
Kimberly Jones My sincere prayers are in your direction 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This reminded me of my ex husband. This is good lesson. Thank you, Brother Blakes
“A woman can help a man but she can’t make a man!” Love that!
I'm a young woman 25 and I'm from Rochester NY I love love love your message And How you are Allowing the Lord to use you for my young sisters .you have taught me sooooo much .God Bless you and I want that Book.
Absolutely felt the message loud and clear. I've given 14 yrs and was blessed with a child but I can't live any longer with disrespect, verbal, and emotional abuse. The man claims he knows the lord but has tried to tear me down. Now I see that the comments are also being directed to my daughter with no awareness of how this affects her self esteem. Enough is enough and so true about the friends this man surrounds himself with.
His teachings keeps us "awake" Thank you Sir
This IS A GOOD WORD!
Wow! Adam was enough to being forth his own wife!!!! God didn't even breathe in Eve! Adam was enough! Powerful revelation!
Thank you so much for this channel and your messages. I didn’t have a father growing up and when I gave my life back to Christ and started to love myself and have standards watching you and others helped me so much to be able to set standards in my life for my future spouse. You are truly like a father figure for women who grew up without fathers.
What you're doing is absolutely incredible! Please keep it up. Thank you & God bless!
This is MAJOR transformative type teaching! So, glad to be able to listen in. So much rich, biblical knowledge being dropped here! Thank you sir!
Teaching a young girl about all this is mandatory!
RC Blakes you are a great messenger of God. You deliver God's word In a very digestible way. May God continue to BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR MINSTRY.
Amen Pastor, this was the Word right here. Great message and dissemination. Put on the whole armor of Christ so that you can discern a Whole man/woman.
You are changing my whole mindset on myself, my life, and men. Lifechanging messages for me at just the time I've decided my life must change. God bless and thank you.
Amen I am praying for a whole Godly man enjoyed you!
Right!!
“The form of a man”...where were you 8-9 years ago when I really needed to hear this 😔 I thank you for your teachings and I am going to make sure I applied it all for my next relationship/marriage if it is in God’s will!!! That’s another thing I grown to learn “God’s will” but that’s a nothing subject/video, lol!! Good bless you & your family ❤️
You have been a blessing to my life. Truely. I am learning and growing.
Woowee! This is so good. God bless you Pastor!
A WHOLE WORD Y'ALL!!!🙌🏾 This is life saving message. Share as widely as possible!!!!
Thank you so much for your God given revelation Pastor Blakes. You are such a blessing to men and women who are seeking the face of God in matters of relationships. May God continue to bless your ministry and your family. Peace.
Dynamite information, King! Thank you sooooo much!⭐⭐⭐⭐
Excellent teaching!!! Amen
"You should Prove a Man BEFORE you Approve a Man!" perfectly stated..thank you so much for your wisdom..I am learning so much from your teachings
Been there, and done that. This is so true, I thank God FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE WISDOM. I wish I knew; what I know now, I would have never gave myself so freely.
Great message pastor Blake first timer. I really enjoyed the message
Amen an Amen. Another great teaching by Pastor RC Blakes. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. God Bless!
he's done
On point as always Pastor! Blessings!
Been watching your video's for a while now. Great advice! Keep up the good work and God bless
Wow, this video has helped me more than you will ever know! God bless you and your family, Pastor Blakes, Jr. I’m so grateful for you! There is LIFE in the Word!
Thank you so much.. I'm in need of these teachings right now. Thanks so much, cuz I didn't have a father either to teach me anything.
Now I have a daughter, that's 19 yrs old, wanting to quit her ivy league schoarship to live w a 20 yr boy that isn't ready either for marriage. Trying to have her listen to ur channel, but she's rebelling against me. Please may you and ur subscribers please help me pray before she messes up her life. Thanks and may God continue to bless you!
You have a lot of wisdom. You videos have helped me greatly
A formless man...(mercy) Speak the truth Pastor B!
Love this so much. Incredibly helpful and beautifully illustrated. Thank you.
Thanks so much for this message beloved 💖
Great word...more women need to hear this !!!
You are right on point pastor, thanks for your teaching.
Thanks
This is so good and very helpful 😊👍. Thank you!
I've listened to many of your teachings...this right here...this is profound!
Pastor Blake, this is great teaching! God right now has me in hiding and I am loving it. I am taking in this teaching everything and applying it to my life. I have made wrong choices in my past life and this time it will be a right choice because God is preparing me to do things right. Thank you so much! I liked when you said God will not send his man until he is qualify. New York
i really thank God for you as a God loving man. you really have helped me along my growth with God. since I've been watching you i feel peace comfort and joy in my life. i just want to say thank you . God bless you and your family. i will keep watching and learning.
This is an awesome message! It's so true! Love your teachings it's helping many! Thank you! God bless you!!!
Love your channelGodBless this message ...Beautiful message well executed !!!
I raised 3 sons as a young widow and raised them in the Lord. I have been saved since the age of 6 and I am in my 50s was a widow in my late 20s married my first boyfriend that I met at the age of 14. My sons are in their late 20s early 30s put God first still virgins by the grace of God all great careers and now looking to God to send them each their wives. I explained to my sons as young men how having sex without marriage is a tough road and it can cause a person to live a defeated life. The bible says sin leads to death and this is true. People want to get married but will not until they seek First the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness.
God will not send immoral people to moral people that seek Him because then they will not have peace in their home to listen to God's Holy Spirit to guide them correctly. God sees what everyone does. He knows the beginning to the end. When you seek God He will change your heart to be marriage material until then you will stay single or marry the wrong person. Many seek God for something and they will never receive this possession because God sees the hearts of all humans and knows what will happen after He gives you what you desire.
God has blessed me to guide people to His truths and many have had their lives changed because of doing things the right way. I have not had many troubles in my life because I choose to do things God's way because it works. God can outwait anyone and has more patience then anyone can imagine. God will allow a person to die single due to seeking the idol instead of seeking Him.
I feel blessed to be getting this teaching. Thank you Pastor Blakes!
Wow, several t-shirts, and who's the 3 thumbs down. All I can say is their potential hasn't manifested! LOL Thanks and God bless Bishop....
Josephine Evans 😂😂It never fails. They find any reason to 👎🏿. I thank God that my message reaches people like you who are ready to hear it.
Miss Klass Also known As..... "Josephine Evans"??? Unless I got the acronym wrong.....?? But how's that????
Hi Brother R C. I don’t remember ever adding a comment to any of your playlists. However, you have become part of my family and have been the father, brother, and most honest man that I never had before, even though I’m 69. I’ve been married to 3 abusive husbands. I’m single by choice and I’m not desperate. I always knew in my gut when I made wrong choices but I didn’t listen. Your messages have helped me more than you can possibly know and I want to personally thank you from the very bottom of my heart. I have said “no” to many men in my past several years because it isn’t right in my conscience mind and heart. I finally value myself more than casual sex. I won’t go into public details about my life from childhood to the present but I’m very blessed to have found you and your honest, truthful, and knowledgeable messages. May God Bless you, yours, and all who find you. I’m positive that you have helped many. Thank you for having the courage to speak the truth.
God bless you good teaching and thank you! every woman need to hear this message.
Pastor Blakes this is one of the best, I mean the best sermon I have heard about this topic and believe me I have read many books watched many videos/Tv shows. I just wish somehow you could make this a cover for your conferences. This have taught me so much, but what is so remarkable about this video is that God answered my questions. I wonder do you really realize how many lives you are changing/saving.
tina james Thank you . I am just trying to share my heart.
This is such a powerful truth, thank you for doing what you do. I'll see you Friday night in Orlando.. I'm really looking forward to it!!!! Queenology!!
Great message thanks!!!
Limiting potential explained so much for me
Thank you Pastor great teaching! ❤️
This is Blessing me sooooo much this morning! Bless you Bishop Blakes!