What to do if you need constant reassurance that you'll get what you want
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- Needing constant reassurance that you WILL get what you want might indicate resistance. Release the resistance by knowing it's okay that you cannot be completely reassured for very long. It's totally normal and not something you need to fix in order to get your manifestation.
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Ironically, this is reassuring...
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BAHAHAH
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"Reassurance is temporary....
- it is part of the process;
- uncertainty is OK;
- it is not something to be fixed;
- I know how things work;
- it can coexist and I can still get what I want.
Release resistance, as manifesting is simply things shifting form uncertain to certainty."
I kept thinking I was supposed to believe and know all the time, and that I was supposed to feel reassured by my own self love and vibration... This was so simple that it resonated tremendously. THANKS
For me, I've learned to just be like "Oh, it's okay. My mind / ego wants an answer right now." It'll be fine. I've manifested things even when I was nervous and didn't know how or when. I feel like since watching your videos and teaching myself to just be OKAY with resistance or nervousness and just allowing and accepting that sometimes I feel that way but it's no big deal, it helps me notice it and actually move past it and as such, lately I've felt more carefree and neutral and I've been feeling more and more trusting and in fact like I don't NEED to know the answers. :)
That's true! I've noticed myself that even when I've reassured myself one day, the next day or few days later, I'm needing reassurance again, because the memory of what reassured me back then in my previous scenario is lost/forgotten. I feel like a goldfish in these moments 😂 Yet I still cling to wanting reassurance because it's a way for me to be saved from feeling hopeless or let down.
people generally know what law of attraction is but when they actually try to apply it they come across many loopholes. your videos are so amazing and helpful that they cure these small problems helping us to manifest faster. Thankyou so much. :)
Dhiraj Deshmukh You're very welcome! I'm so glad my videos are able to help you apply it :)
If you are needing constant reassurance, it could also be a sign of a need to heal wounds regarding trust.
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I just manifested a rainbow for the first time yesterday!! It’s making my week!! Took two days and I even sat a bunch of pictures and representations before hand that gave me this really distinctive feeling of anticipation and delight. I think anything is possible now… that’s huge
It helps me to write down the things i have manifested just to remember that it works
Amy you have become like my freaking life coach lol. I love your videos! They're really helping me get back to manifesting again. I love to that so much of these principles can be applied to life too. I don't need constant reassurance and I don't need to worry about the how's and the when's. I just need to believe and have faith that all will be well in the end. :) keep it up!!
I'm going through a lot a lot, and this video has taught me how to look at my lack of reassurement in a more realistic and comforting perspective. Its 2:27AM here, maybe I'll get to bed sooner instead of losing sleep worrying. Thank you for helping opening up my eyes
OMG, Amy! I have been experimenting with LOA for some time, asking for small things, so I can see them happening and build up me belief. (Yes, I'm a very skeptical person.) So, the last thing I asked for was to see a tree house!!! During the last few days though, I had started to doubt that I will ever see one, because of the area where I live. Tonight, however, I was watching videos on resistance and I learned that I just have to believe! And, two minutes later, there you are, in a tree house!!! By the way, I've asked for like ten small things so far and I've gotten them 100%! This is amazing! Thank you, by the way, for the wonderful channel!
What a great manifestation for you!! I"m so glad I could be a part of it :) Thank you for your kind words and keep up the awesome manifesting!
its weirdly calming saying to yourself "its okay to have uncertainty"
Yes! That's because until it manifests, there will be a part of you that is uncertain about if it will really happen or not (that's normal by the way) and when you tell yourself "it's okay to have uncertainty" you acknowledge and accept that part of you (kind of a form of self-love actually).
Amy makes it ok for us to suck at manifesting! We might even still get what we want!!!
I was totally clicking on another video and it brought me to this one. Granted, I just watched one of yours before the one I was gonna click but DEFINITELY needed this
Glad the video was what you needed to hear! Hang in there, keep giving yourself permission to be however you are being and it will pass and then you can do any positive focusing and aligning work that you prefer. ❤️
This gotta be one of my favourite videos of Amy's, reason being that she just has this phenomenal way of understanding herself and others.. everything seems so natural when manifesting her way❤❤❤
THANK YOU .. As a manifester myself I still forget I'M A SP RITUAL BEING HAVING A HUMAN EXPERIENCE WITH EMOTIONS AS PART OF THIS CONDUIT of me and NEED TO BE REMINDED WHAT IS NORMAL AND PART OF THE EXPERIENCE.. EXCELLENT WORK of your earthly journey. Namaste, Glenn
You are one of the coolest people I've ever seen on RUclips, like an older sister I have always wanted to have. So cool and calming and funny. I cannot stop watching your videos. Love you
This is the difference between manifesting and constructive prayer. Constructive prayer offers a peace and the certainty we are looking for.
My best manifestation so far was done as a bit of a joke, a test, if you will. I randomly decided I would like to be given a free pair of jeans. I think I said out loud a few times, hey, thanks for the jeans, they're great. Gave it no more thought. A mate handed me a pair of jeans within about five days.
Now why can't everything be like that!
You make the process of manifesting so realistic. I don’t feel judged or like if I have any doubts at all, I’m doing it wrong. Your content helps me let go of certain limiting beliefs tbh.
I searched on youtube "constant reassurance". This video is exactly the reassurance I needed, ironically. The only thing that is different is I think I need constant reassurance that I "should" do something. I like approval from other people. The feeling of being celebrated, like, "Yeah! You should do that, that sounds awesome". Or maybe its a support thing as while.
Somethings I feel like I know what I "want" but not really should what it is that I "should" do. What you said, "needing reassurance that you will get what you want," whereas I was thinking its if I should do something or not. That statement changes my perspective. Because ultimately, getting approval to do something then will lead me to get what I want, right? Or at least what I think I want. So if I am not sure what it is that I want then I seek for someone to tell me "Yes, you should do that". Because that solid "yes" confirms that that's what I want.
After watching this video, maybe its not that I need
Thank you Amy. I trust your technique more than anyone. Have a lovely day
I guess this is what people say when they say let go and let god.
I didnt even know I needed this video until I saw the title. Thank you.
In my opinion, uncertainty is fine as it is, cause the more you try to ’control’ the situation and be certain, the more resistance you are adding. How many times have you been uncertain about something in life and it still happened? Faith is the answer, doesnt matter if you are certain or uncertain, things are still happening behind the scenes by your higher self.
Amy, you are one of my manifestations. Thank you.♥
Hello Amy! I came upon your videos this morning. I am going through a little situation right now that does not feel good.I really relate to this video a lot, because constant reassurance is something I need on a regular bases.This video is really an eye opener for me. I tend to drive myself and my spiritual adviser crazy by doing this. Even when I am told something will or won't happen, I tend to go back for more answers.Thank you for this video.
Let it be okay that you have been doing this, you're perfect just as you are. Then if you'd like, tell yourself it's okay to not know what's going to happen or when it's going to happen. Not knowing can feel weird if you resist it, but you can also allow it and have peace of mind :)
your 'spiritual advisor' is that a psychic who does readings for you? Then you may be addicted which is disempowering
keep the positive reinforcements coming ...
Really needed it today! I'm probably gonna write down my fears, my negative thoughts and all that stuff to free myself from them and have a more lucid prospective on what are the things that create my resistance. Then I'll just repeat to myself that it is ok to be in resistance and to have the need of reassurance. I CAN STILL GET WHAT I WANT. It's so hard to let go and trust the process of LoA, especially if you're using it for the first time and you are manifesting something really important to you. Anyway, better struggle and try to understand something as the LoA that can really help you and make your life better, than struggling with constant negativity, sadness, depression, ect. and focusing on what you don't have. That doesn't make you feel and live better!
You’re amazing. I stumbled across your videos about a week ago and I’ve never come across a teacher that explains manifestation the way that you do. I’ve been studying and practicing for years. Some of the bigger things test my belief, your videos help me fine tune what I already know/do. Thank you.
wow great great great. Thank you. As someone already said here on the comments: She definitely addresses all the weird questions and problems our minds come up with that's for sure !
I so love this. It literally feels more about our own ability to soothe and just be aight with uncertainty coming up. It's a superpower.
Also I tend to ask the universe sometimes, and lots of magicalness flows in. Also you literally in a treehouse is actual relevant to my thing, which could be reassurance aka magicalness from the universe, so funny :3 I wasn't lookin tho, just loving it showing up, haha. I sooo want a treehouse too omg trees are the best!! :D
This kind of explains why a lot of people that don´t belief in law of attraction or don´t know about it have a easy time manifesting things that they desire without knowing it...
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
Oh my goodness this is exactly what I've been searching for :)!!
Simple way to reassure is to ask your self...
Who am I not to Trust who has created all of us
You are wonderful! I have such specific questions and you always manage to answer them every time:)
Happy to help!
Thank you Amy, you know every weird problem and obstacle our crazy minds can come up with !
This really helped me I've been stuck in this position but you're advice really helped me see things clearly.
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I love your videos Amy! I look forward to them. I just love how for me they make manifesting easier. I listen to a lot of manifesting videos - Abraham to name one and I always found it hard to "quieten" the doubt and thoughts of resistance. I found since watching your videos It has made it easier for me. Thank you thank you thank you! You are a wonderful teacher.
Thank you for your lovely comment :) I'm glad my videos are helping you. Happy Manifesting! 💖
Thank you so much for your videos! They give me a lot of clarity on the Law of Attraction. I asked my angels and the universe for more signs, and this popped up on my feed as 33k views from 3 years ago. I am definitely finding more reassurance within myself now.
Wow, my new fave... and oh my gosh, a grownup treehouse ?!!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜
while living in the end, an image of my dream fulfilled, I totally accept the sensation of "no reassurance." Actually, this sensation itself is a clue to me that manifestation is on its way! How do I know this? Because I say so. I am the only one who says what is and what will be in my experience.... xoxoxox
Amy your videos cover EXACTLY what I need to hear!!! you're so great ily
Omgod best LOA video ever!! Thank you!!
This is so helpful. Thank you for your generous and easy explanations and easy to follow guides.
I thought I was the only one with this problem :)
So much information flying around. Some say detach, some say have 100% belief that it's coming and some say detach but keep the manifestation in mind. It's stressing me out. Would it help to just leave the manifestation alone altogether? like not thinking about it etc and maybe to the point of completely forgetting about it? Thaaanks
Great question and I agree, a lot of contradictory info floating around. Think of it as several notes that make up a chord, when each note is played together perfectly create a lovely sound as a chord (alignment). So belief it's possible and detachment are different notes. Belief PLUS detachment. They actually sound/feel lovely together even though logically it doesn't seem like they would. Also, I do not try to believe it's coming as that implies it hasn't happened yet. I simply believe it's possible and release the limiting beliefs around it.
Even i get confused,some say keep focus on ur desires while some say dont keep thinking on ur desires ,focus on other things in life that makes u happy ,feel that u r happy even without the thing u want is not there ,wen u r happy anyhow u manifest
Ah....well, you come on this channel!
Loved this....love the tree house 😀
This video really placed me into a statement of wondering and taught me something totally new. I had the impression that unshakable faith and the feeling of certainity for our success with the LOA are our goals when we put ourselves into the manifesting proccess which, from my own experience, is something actually very difficult to be achieved. Yet, if we get this feeling of needing constant reassurance, isn't it an indication of inmost doubt which is destructive for the manifesting proccess? Also, needing constant reassurance doesn't let us dittach from our desire which is a very important condition considering the successful outcome. Until now I thought that if someone does truly believe they are on the right track they wouldn't need this reassurance at all and so I got somehow confused now. I may need reassurance and still consider myself a true believer?
Great question! This video is about releasing resistance to the need for reassurance. I have discovered (through personal experience and working with others) that allowing everything to be exactly as it is (including the need for reassurance) is more important than trying to believe/know you WILL get what you want.
For instance, I have unshakable faith in manifesting in general. However, that doesn't mean that on a day to day basis my mind has unshakable faith about every single thing I'm manifesting because once a desire is activated so are the limiting contradictory beliefs specific to that topic. So instead of using my unshakable faith in manifesting to convince myself that I WILL get my specific desire, I have found it's much better to just allow the need for reassurance and let it be there (without actually trying to get reassurance). I sit with the uncomfortable feeling of that need rather than trying to do something about it. This allows that particular resistance to clear faster and then the next time the need for reassurance comes up, my mind doesn't make a big deal out of it (because it knows that feeling went away last time when I just sat with it) so the need for reassurance fades away very quickly as it cannot hold my attention.
So yes, the need for reassurance indicates doubt, however, doubt is totally normal in the process (because it's the activation of the limiting beliefs that come up when the desire is activated) and not to be feared or overcome. Let me know if this makes sense! :)
Thank you very much for your answer! I can confidently say that all my puzzlement and confusion has vanished after reading it. I totally understand what you mean, and let me say, your words made me feel relieved as I honestly realised I should just let the "imperfection" be instead of trying to press things in order to achieve "perfection". The true acceptance of that "imperfect" inner statement will certainly generate a great feeling of freedom, serenity and trust into the soul, in other words it will generate happiness which is the emotional goal we want to achieve as aspiring manifestors. Thank you for this new lesson. You are a great teacher, and I don't say it out of kindness, I totally believe it!
Life is a quest and we need to enjoy the adventure❤❤❤😊
I did this with my great desire for a Valentine date this past Valentine's Day. I needed the reassurance because I decided to manifest this ten days before so it was rushed. I got guys interested in being my date or taking me out but I got sick which obviously blocked my manifestation. I think I obsessed too much about it.
thank you!
You're welcome ❤
So, question, then. And this was exactly the video I needed right now. Ha.
Obviously, our thoughts create or reality... but how far do we have to lose a handle on things to undo what we are trying to accomplish? I have definitely seen things manifest when I have a somewhat negative-ish thought, as well as a handful of positive ones, but even if it were for just a split second, once I get out of my head and out of the moment when I have a negative thought, I can get really bogged down with hoping that one or two thoughts/moments didn’t mess things up for my manifestation.
I have many times where I have let go, but then, if course, I take it back. In that, can things be totally undone? Especially when I’ve come so far. But because I’ve seen both sides to it, I wonder if my occasional ‘flip flop’ could just make me ‘flop.’
My problem is that I know that I'm doing most things right in attracting a marriage to my sp... I'm not concerned with the when or how of it, because I know the universe is at work... I just need constant reassurance that the universe has my back.. Working on letting that go...
Wow! Thank you so much, this is so straightforward and feels like the missing piece for me! Love your videos! 🧡
This is exactly what i needed to hear. Thank you 🙏🏼
Or I hold on the last words of reassurance that the people who love you and you love them have given you and just remember that time and hold on to it🤍
I love this perspective!
Trust that it is unfolding!
I absolutely love u. Thanku so so much ❤❤❤
Wonderful Video Amy Madam.... Very Nice.... Wondeful Tips provided by you here to cover & seal all the Loopholes wrt Law of Attraction and manifest in a foolproof manner!
Thank You ✌️👍
Reassurances is a part of process
I am seeing however it hasn't happened yet but I know that it is coming I am trusting God and I am going to get everything I've ask
And what about people who want to be reassured once in a blue moon 😬🙂
love this thank you 👍🏻🌷
That’s what I need to hear. Thanks!
This is so helpful. Thank you so much ❤️
I wanted to see a Lotus for reassurance and I see it behind you in this video..which is about reassurance. Hmm interesting. Also thankyou💕💕
This helped, thank you
Manifest has always been easy for me. It's having the means to BUY my manifestation if where the challenge lies! ie;
I manifest the house i See myself living in. Then it appears on Craigslist and then it costs $1.5million. NOW WHAT?
You've said to focus on what you want (the what)NOT the money (how) to get it. So....???
You are pretty and arround pretty places...
sooo what about when your manifestation almost happened and then boom. it's all spiraling backwards...the person is barely talking to me now and I can't seem to let this go. I keep reassuring myself it is okay and that letting go or letting it be will bring it back but I still don't feel confident enough now. can anyone offer a suggestion?
If that happens, it's showing you that you either have limiting beliefs that still need to be released or that you may have been able to raise your vibration enough to get the manifestation but were unable to maintain it (again, usually because of limiting beliefs). So ask yourself, "what do I have to believe is true for this to have happened?" and start releasing that belief. Keep in mind that no circumstances or manifestation have the ability to support our vibration, only we have that ability, so check in with yourself to see what you started or stopped doing vibrationally once the manifestation began to happen.
illuminatingjoy thank you Amy! you are a lifesaver. I'm not very sure where it went wrong. but I know at the time I had been working on grounding my root chakras and gaining strength. during the process up until it manifested I had plenty of confidence so not sure what happened really...
How did this work out?
Thank you for everything ☺️
hey Amy, sometimes I catch myself "i really dont know if its going to happen or not" there is a possibility that i will but its possible i might not.
having this neutral frequency is that good or bad? is it helping?
That's ideal actually because it allows you to drop resistance to it NOT happening and yet still be in the state of allowing :)
+illuminatingjoy thank you for always taking the time to answer.
I have a question: Abraham Hicks talked about focusing on your desire and not the obstacles allows not only the desire to manifest but the obstacle to fall away. In your experience do you think it's true? For example, I'm dealing with some resistance from my family towards a goal i want to achieve for myself and know its for my highest best good. My family is fearful which is really discouraging . If i hold a pure positive desire towards my goal without worrying what my family thinks, do you think vibrationally they will eventually be distracted and get out of my way? Sorry for the long question.. Im new to manifesting and this is my biggest dream! I would appreciate your advice :)
I do think it's true if you can actually do it. Most people cannot easily do that. Instead, I look at my obstacles for a short time in order to become non-resistant to them. Let them be fearful and then imagine them being supportive :)
Thank you!!that's what exactly what i was thinking...of imagining them being supportive instead of fearful. Just wasn't if it would manifest that way because they have they're own free will. Do you have any videos on the topic of resisting obstacles i can look into?
I'm going to guess that they would rather feel supportive as that's a positive feeling versus feeling fearful... so I think they'd be okay feeling better :)
Here is a playlist of some of my videos about resistance and another person's that I really like:
ruclips.net/video/yqvQR8wyTMQ/видео.html
thank you sooo much!!! i really appreciate your advice :)
Have you ever tried to manifest something and it not work out? or do ALL of your manifestations come true?
Pleasant ASMR Funny how she didn't answer this question, don't you think?
I didn't answer because I've been dealing with a family crisis, but thank you for reminding me to answer :)
Great question! Trying to manifest does not always equal success. Finding alignment with the desire equals success. When I was first learning to manifest, I had all sorts of successes and failures depending on if I just tried a process or two or if I actually found alignment. So to answer your question, as I've gotten the process down by experiencing both success and failure and learned the difference between trying and aligning, yes, the things I now deliberately align with manifest. I've also had some of my beginner stage failures manifest in later years (long after I'd accepted they weren't going to manifest) as I continued to understand the system of how it all works better. I do always remind people though, we don't get what we want just because we want it, we get what we align with either naturally or deliberately. Hope that helps! :)
This is s great video 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏻🌈😘
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Thank you
So is getting signs a bad thing? If that's getting reassurance. I'm getting these signs without even trying
Actually Amy there is no law of attraction. It's law of assumption. And your thoughts create. you don't have to get into a vibrational alignment or anything else for that matter. You just have to persist in the Assumption of what you want. And work on your self concept because that's the only thing that gets in your way. You don't even have to believe in the affirmations that you affirm eventually your subconscious mind will believe them. These are all things that I've learned in the last year.
It’s actually a mechanical process of selecting reality through beliefs and focus, and the Law of Attraction and the Law of assumption are both belief systems and they both produce results.
☺️ Glad you’ve had so many realizations this year!
@@illuminatingjoy I have I have gone through quite a bit in the last year believe me I have to tell you thank you because you were the first person that I ever listen to about a year ago maybe more than that now about creating your reality and I just Googled it and you were there showing the steps on what you don't want and what you do want kind of thing and you were the first person that I ever followed and I still follow you because you have great advice on things and it has helped me through a lot of stuff. I tend to follow and listen to Joseph Alai, Sammy from the mermaid gang, Amanda from create your future, and Kim Velez. And you. You all seem to be on the same page with everything and believe me I went through so many emotions learning this and used to be completely tied up inside and not anymore I have control over things, do I have a little moment yeah but you've taught me to let it go. LOL and face it and know that it's okay. Thank you 💖
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU'RE IN ALIGNMENT?!?!?!😭
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This happens to me amy..
Happens to a lot of people, you're in good company :)
I called you and left a voicemail for you last year for a private session and you didn't call me back.
Hi there, as far as I know, I did not receive a voicemail asking for a session as I only schedule appointments via email and don't have a number listed publicly to be reached at, so if you'd like to contact me via the number you have to see if it's the right number, please try again. Thanks and my apologies for the inconvenience.
How did you read my mind !!!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Like Abdullah with Neville. Slam the door.
Shpw us around the tree house
I am sick and tired of the universe not giving me what I want
and holding me back in life.
My talents have been wasted on this planet
and I am getting older.
I only have so much time to do my life purpose
and I need my wealth to do it.
I dont know how to get into alignment.
I am angry and resentful all the time now
because it never comes. Thanks universe, fn assholes!
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This was so helpful. Thank you 🙏🏼 ♥️
Thank you