Try not to worry, I had my second daughter 9 months after I had a grapefruit sized ovarian cyst removed. Your family is beautiful and the Lord will pick you up and carry you through. Jack is absolutely precious and I'm sure he will be having a little bro or sis in the near future. Bless you all.
I had a cyst the size of a grapefruit & was never able to have any kids. I’m praying for her. I cried so hard when it never happened for me. But she’s had one & the chance for more is good.
@@lisaquigley-moon9583 Awwwwe, I'm so sorry you're going through this! Doctors told me the same thing, I had two Laparoscopic procedures done and multiple gynos tried talking me info a hysterectomy ( I think is how you spell it). I had baby fever bad, like really intense at one point, longing to hold and care for another baby around the time my only nephew was born, and I got pregnant again! My daughter was 16 yrs old but it finally happened for me. I know of other women given similar prognosis and as soon as their adoption went through they got pregnant!! My advice is to go hold babies, our bodies are mysterious and amazing, sometime disappointing, but try it and I wish you the very best!! 😊💜💙💚
I love how Sara is just a REAL CHICK. She’s absolutely gorgeous but doesn’t have the fake always wanting to be overly perfect vibe that so many have, and I LOVE THAT. She’s just her self and it makes her even more gorgeous :)
100% agree. Both parents come across that way to me. So much more enjoyable than those IG moms who are all about their bodies, their makeup, their clothes, their status.
Sarah, I had the same surgery except I had a cyst on both ovaries! I was nervous too, but I am surprised with how easy the recovery has been! Very little pain and I’m confident you will have the same experience! Listen to your doc and NO heavy lifting!! You will do great!
Seriously love the way younger families are parenting these days! When I was Jack’s age, my parents never paid that much attention to me like you guys do. Jack’s a lucky boy.
It's incredibly hard not picking up your child.....Derick will have to put him on your lap, so you can hug him. You are in my prayers for a speedy recovery.
Having a pillow to brace your tummy while recovering will be your best friend. Anytime I coughed or had to use the bathroom, having a pillow for against my tummy helped ease the pain. I'm sending good vibes hun! You got this!!!
When Jack want you to pick him up go sit down on the couch, chair any place you are comfy and have him crawl up on you. I had surgery when I had a one year old I was cut from hip to hip. I just had my kids crawl/climb up to where I was bed, couch, recliner where ever. You got this!
Orthroscopic surgery is a snap. The incisions are less than 1/2 inch. They fill your abdomen with gas to give them more room for the scope. Don’t fret and stress about it. Deep breath’s and stay zen. Good luck.
@@colleencolligan5586 Ok I was so confused! LOL I think they just do You Tube. But I just found their channel a few days ago so not sure if they do more then You tube.
I know surgery can be scary, but God's got you! You're young, healthy, and active. Several mommies have shared awesome advice like sitting down and letting Jack crawl on you instead of picking him up.... Plus he won't remember a couple of weeks where you didn't pick up up- especially considering how loved he is! Praying for yall!💖
I know this isn’t reassuring but the great thing is we have 2 ovaries!! So at least there’s a backup if anything were to happen :) I love seeing how much Derik cares for you, you can see his expressions as you talk. ALL US LADIES WANT THIS. You two are so lucky to have each other ❤️❤️❤️
Praying that God will guide the surgeons hands and for a speedy recovery for you 🙏. Y'all have a beautiful family and are strong. Jack is absolutely adorable!! 💟
He’s not going to remember the 2-3 weeks you can’t pick him up ❤️. I’m sure he knows you love him like there’s no tomorrow. Kids are smart and can pick up on the smallest things. I hope surgery goes well! I had shoulder surgery and couldn’t pick up my daughter whom was 3 at that time. She doesn’t remember that at all
Sarah, WAAAAY back in 1985 I had a demoid cyst the size of a grapefruit on my right ovary. I those days they did a full lower belly incision. Sounds like they're planning on doing yours arthroscopic, you're very fortunate, so less invasive and much easier to recover from. Also, they weren't able to find my right ovary and fallopian tube within the mass so they were removed along with the cyst. I was told it would be more difficult to get pregnant. HAH!!! I had four beautiful, healthy children with one ovary. That one ovary was very overactive! Please don't worry about your fertility unless you had a problem before. My prayers are with you!
Since this growth keeps changing back and forth, it's likely hormonal related and a cyst. If they have to make more than 1 incision, the others would be for a light and camera, and also to instill gas to inflate the abdomen to help with access and for the MD to see better. As far as picking up Jack, let Derick put him in your lap and that will help keep him from begging you to pick him up so much. Will be praying for you! ❤
This is usual surgery procedure here in Australia. Just dont rush things and do as your Dr says. Derick and Jack will help to keep you safe. God Bless....
Derik and Sarah Just Believe that Gods got Miracles for you have faith and Know that God is POWERFUL AND MAJESTIC. EVERYTHING WILL TURN OUT POSITIVE FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, Jack is such a curious little guy, Love his independence, lights up a room like his parents real joy love happiness in your home. Happy belated bday Jack special one. Sarah and Derik your wonderful parents. Love and prayers God bless you and yours Love Mary
I had a cyst removed in 1998 and it was 2 small incisions (one at the belly button and one near where the ovary is) and it was not too bad at all. A tip on not lifting a young child after surgery is to sit down and then have him climb up next to you or on your lap (but be careful in the first few days as you will be tender at the incision sites).
God will take you in His precious Arms of love, comfort and healing...He always carries us in tough times🛐. Will be praying for you Sarah and your beautiful family💖🙏🕊
I had the three small incisions done to take mine out, my doctor was able to drain mine and remove it through my belly button! The other two incisions were for the cameras. Hope you have a quick recovery!!
So the no “lifting” Jack..just let him crawl into your lap and you can stand up and it’s less stress on your body wounds. This is what I had to do with my youngest son . And this will bring you peace of mind! You guys rock much love ❤️ 🥰😘👍
They'll put a camera in one of the incision area then the next two or three incision areas will be the tools needed in performing the surgery. Praying all goes well for you...✌🏾❤🤗
Praying for you both (and Jack too!) - no complications during surgery, easy, speedy recovery - and wisdom for your next chapter!! Love watching you all grow!
You are the couple I wish my husband and I had been. Moving to Hawaii and living with Just the bare necessities. Adventuresome and living the good life. I hope you don’t mind that I live vicariously thru you via your you tube videos! I smile all the way through your videos except when you talk of Sarah’s surgery. I had an ovarian cyst removed when I was 10 wks pregnant. All was fine and about 7 months later we had a perfect baby boy! Not sure if it was just like yours though. Prayers for a simple uncomplicated surgery and speedy recovery so you can hold that adorable creature you call Jack! Please continue blogging as this world needs all the upbeat happiness you can share with us!
I had a complex hemorrhagic cyst. Mostly my concern is all the study I’ve been doing about spinal intrusion procedures for anesthesia. There’s a lot more going wrong with people than they admit, because there’s a very narrow margin of safety. If you can keep them out of your spine so you have a 100% chance of being able to walk when they’re done. Besides that cyst I’ve had 5 other surgeries. (endometriosis). Make sure they manage your pain, and you’ll heal faster. Mine were over a 20 year. And no matter what they gave me for pain, once I was healed it wasn’t needed for a part of our lives. It’s important that you hear a nurse talk about this, because I’ve treated patients and been a patient so I know there’s a lot of propaganda that isn’t true out there. I hope they take excellent care of you and of course I’m crossing my fingers and saying my prayers because you guys are a precious little family and I want the best for all of you. Amen 🙏🏻🥰
Love and prayers to you all! This surgery will be fine! You're a healthy young mom, you're going to have a reserve unit of your own blood- what a great set up! You're describing arthroscopic surgery- what a great way to go! Its much less drastic, and you'll be picking Jack up in a few weeks, instead of 6-8 weeks+ with lots of restrictions! You've git this girl!!! I hope y'all get to stay in Hawai'i!!
Best wishes for Sarah's surgery to go smoothly and for a speedy recovery. It's good you are getting it taken care of hon. Derik will take good care of you and Jack I know. Cheers! 🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏
Just rest after & try not to lift Jack for a week! Went through same the year after my son born '94. Easier than a gallbladder lap, no pain after a bit achy a couple days & I got pregnant 8 mos later! You'll be fine, being scared is normal, and besides, that's why we were blessed with 2 ovaries!! My prayers🙏🙏
I’m saying prayers for all of y’all! I was told that due to endometriosis I wouldn’t be able to conceive. Well, I have a son who is 32 and another son who is 27. God always takes care of his children. He made it so that I had two wonderful sons. Y’all will be able to have more if it’s His will and in His plans for y’all’s lives. I found your channel not too long ago. I watch as many of your videos as I can. You’re a wholesome, beautiful family! Thank you for letting us into your family life!! Gives me hope for the future!! God bless!! ❤️🙏🏻✝️
I’ve experienced the same thing and I think when someone hears cyst or tumor, it’s instantly scary. Mine was similar where it grew then it shrink and then it grew to the point where it actually started overtaking my ovary. Good luck!
Wish you all love and prayers. I also want you to know I had a teratoma on my ovary which grew but I had to have it removed but because it got nicked while removing I had to have the ovary removed and want you to know that 6 months later I conceived my twins. If you want to ask me questions, I’d be more than happy to let you know it will be fine. I also had another baby years later. I have 4 children, all grown healthy and my absolute pride and joy. Love your fam 🤗
I had an ovarian cyst a few years ago from my endometriosis, and when I had my ultrasound it was 7cm, and when it was removed (two months later) it was 9cm, and I got so worried about it effecting my ovary! But with many prayers it ended up all good (but my fallopian tube was knotted so lucky I had the surgery when I did!). Resting was the best recovery but also trying to walk around helped me recover quicker, best wishes 🤍
Sending love and healing thoughts from Maine!!! As a retired ultrasound tech, I know these cases turn out well; in no way does this diminish your concerns!! You have the love and support of all of us!!😍
I had an exploratory laparotomy when my daughter was less than two. I was a single mom but I made it. You can show Jack your bandage and let him know that mommy has an owie. Kids are pretty smart, even when young, plus it helps him learn compassion. I was a critical care RN for over 20 years and worked a long time in open heart recovery unit. Yes, surgery is scary, but the reason you're informed of all possibilities is a legal thing. Sounds like you have a great doctor and that's the most important thing. Prayers for you. Trust Jesus has you. My best friend and "adopted mom" used to tell me "God didn't bring us this far to drop us on our heads". You got this! Love you guys! ❤️
You guys are always so cool, calm and collected all the time. I can’t even picture you two in an argument. It feels like you’d be physically incapable of saying mean things. I admire how zen you and your whole family are. And it never feels forced or unnatural. I know you get this a lot but you’re definitely the poster family
I went through something similar about three years ago. Based on the ultrasound my OB thought the cyst was 8 cm. When he did the surgery he discovered that it was actually 12 cm and the ovary had twisted on itself three times. They ended up having to take the ovary. My other ovary has stepped up and my cycles have been completely normal. I've also conceived twice since then. The surgery wasn't bad at all. I was a little nauseous afterwards due to the anesthesia, but that went away after a couple of hours. I did feel a bit like I'd been punched in the stomach, but only when my abdomen was touched. Don't worry, you'll do great!
you will do amazing, jack will understand!! i grew up with a mum that got and vertigo multiple times a year. not the same as what you’re going through but she did a really good job explaining that she just needed some time to feel better and that it didn’t mean that she loved me any less. he’s just going to be happy that you’re okay ❤️
Such a loving and beautiful family. Sarah any type of surgery is always scary. However, I know you both know the Lord. Remember, His word teaches us to cast all our fear and concerns upon Him because He loves us. He’ll be in that operating room with you. I will be praying for you.
Amen & Amen❤❤❤ My intercessory prayers sent up, for God to be your Surgeon, as He is Our Physician, as well as Healer💖💖💖 Sending Much Love & Air Hugs Doll🥰🤗 I agree with previous comments, to have Derik place Jack in your arms, while sitting or laying. Godspeed to you Rommel, Sarah, Derik, Jack & All💌
First time commenting on this channel! I love Jack's hair in pigtails and his outfit matching with Sarah's! Wishing you a smooth surgery Sarah, that doesn't have any complications 😘
Wow...so smart and he is talking so much! He is so amazing for his age! I have 3 grown sons of my own! We always read to our boys & they loved it! Keep teaching him and you will be so happy you did!
I had to have two cystic tumors on each ovary about 2 months after I had my baby (just a few days after Jack!) One was very large and they told me they may have to take that ovary just to prepare me, but everything went well and that didn't happen! I will say that recovery was a little tough, although I didn't take my pain medicine because I was breastfeeding. Just take it easy, but make sure you walk around. Some of the worst pain was from built up gas pockets (because they have to inflate your abdomen). I know everything will be fine!
Omg! Jack is walking! I love it! I mean I did watch his bday, but I missed the episode where you guys said he'll be walking next we see you. Now that I'm all caught up I'm noticing more. I love you guys sooo much and your fam. I just love seeing a family so close net, and the love you all have for each other and how genuine and real it is. You guys are so special, you don't see good young ppl like Derik and Sarah anymore it's so BEAUTIFUL❣️❣️ 💕🥺🥲😂🥰😍
You’ll do great! 😇 I felt the same way before getting my cyst (and my ovary) but it’s definitely is a relief afterwards! Plenty of rest the first two days, Ice pack on the incision and ibuprofen! Baby snuggles will probably feel great too! 😇 even if you can’t pick him up for a while lol 😂
I have been through several of these. I have dealt with PCOS and endometriosis for over 3 years. I had my son at 30 after several cleanup surgeries. My best advice is to make sure you take it easy after the surgery like the doctor says. To much lifting can create scar tissue and that can cause trouble with conception. So just do your best to rest. I know it is hard. Oh and that baby I had turned 17 yesterday, 10/28.
Love u guys. You are beautiful inside and out. You are so real and down to earth not obsessed w/ your looks like so many others. Appreciate that you are people of substance. Good luck w/ your surgery Sarah.... I'm sure it will go fine because it think God has his hand on you all. Keep being you..... you are wonderful as you are.
Depending on the size they open up more then one hole to remove the whole cyst. My mom had this and it was easy. Get a blessing before you go and our heavenly father will keep you safe. I’m praying for you! You are going to do great! You will definitely have more babies. There is nothing wrong with renting until you know what u want.
Will definitely be praying for you during your surgery and a speedy recovery following. You're a strong momma and you will get through it safely. I know and have faith you will. I have PKD and only wish I could have surgery to remove all the cysts covering both kidneys. All I can do is take care of my body and stay away from salt. Lol. You have such a beautiful family, amazing friends and so many supporters who care for all of you. That's an amazing support system to have in times like this. Love you all!
Hey, you 3 are the sweetest...prayers sent up for all of you! I can't wait to see Jack with a baby sister or brother. I saw the family video where you said Jack was obsessed with baby Stella. He loves her, you could see it all over his little face! It will happen Sarah just keep praying. 😊🙏❤
Good luck with your surgery. I hope everything turns out ok. When I had my gallbladder removed my daughter was around 2 and it was very hard not to pick her up. I had to sit on the couch so She could sit on my lap. I also hope you find a really nice home to buy. Prayers to you Sara.
I know it is so scary, as a mom you just worry. I myself and going through something similar after having my two boys. You are gonna do great, I will be praying for you and your family!
I had an ovarian cyst removed as well. I had 3 very small incisions...1 by my belly button and 2 in the lower pelvic area. 1 on each side. No stitches and healed very quickly. They did remove a small portion of my ovary with the cyst and had 2 wonderful kids after!
You're such an amazing family ! Love the bond between you and Jack. Derek will be an awesome dad and mom during ur surgery so nothing to worry about . Lots of love from Philippines!
Prayers going up!🙏💜💫 You guys are so adorable. You remind me so much of my life with my precious late husband! We were so Blessed and blissfully happy. It does my heart good to watch you guys. Good luck to you Sarah. Love and Prayers 🙏💜💫
Not the same but still abdomin surgery, after having our daughter Lillie-Dawn I ended up getting an umbilical hernia, a few months ago I ended up having open surgery just underneath my belly button and towards it. It was difficult not picking her up but definitely do what your surgeon says, I ended up ripping/tightening my stitch as I saved Lillie-Dawn from falling off the edge of our bed! Don't overwork yourself and rest, drink as much fluid as possible and try not to soak for too long as it can cause an infection with bacteria if you're not careful. You'll do great! Your little family is amazing and so positive, I seriously look up to you all x
The cost of housing rt now (CA) is insanely ridiculous!! 😱😱 I've never EVER known it to be so outrageous as it is currently & I've lived here all my life! 💔 The possibility of owning a home appears to be impossible unless we pick up & move to another state 🥺 I recommend making the decision before Jack starts school, that way relocating isn't so detrimental on him ❤
You will do great. I put an air mattress out on my family room floor with lots of pillows and comforters so my 3 boys and 3 dogs could come and cuddle up to me anytime during the day. They loved it and it reminded them to do things on their own instead of asking me. Even a big bean bag chair would work. I hope you feel better soon and I am sure baby #2 will not be far behind.
Sarah, you and Derik and Jack are in my prayers 🙏🏻. My sil had a grapefruit size ovarian cyst removed and she did great also. Going through stuff like that isn’t much fun, but God is good, and He’s with you, plus the drs have a lot of experience, thankfully!
You guys are amazing! You are so open about sharing what's going on in your lives. I feel close to you because of this openness. Life is throwing a lot of pretty heavy duty stuff at you, and I admire how you're dealing with things. Of course, you have your feelings of fear and uncertainty and worry. That is natural. But you come back when you are knocked down (again!). And you get up and stagger for a while but you keep moving. Your shared sense of humor is really helping you, as well as your strong connection to your family. And last, but by no means least, you have your faith. I'll be praying for you and your little family with Jack. God bless.
Another way is to get Jack a little step stool so he can climb up to Momma. He could bring you ice or heat packs. For the first couple of days sleep. Show him how to help with you, especially the fact of not jumping on top of you. It is going to be so hard cause he has the eyes mastered and your toast. We will be praying for you. Derik is an amazing husband and dad. Be safe! Take it easy! Read and rest! Oh yeah stairs are going to be a bitch for awhile
Best of luck with your surgery! When Jack wants you to pick him up, sit on the couch, bed, floor etc and let him crawl/cuddle on you until you recover❤️
Good Evening , Beetson Family 🏠 Thank you , So much for sharing this great adventure with us, God Bless and Protect all all of you, May God continue bless you ! ❤ 🙏 10 / 27 / 2021 🙏
The first shot for my daughter she cried. My son was 3. He cried, too, and said, "They hurt her! I don't like them." Jack has entered the awesome stage of "Imagination on his own". You are both so attentive, fun, and loving. Wonderful parenting!! His wheeler is just like my grandson's." We all loved seeing him as he mastered it. Tell Jack why Mamma can't pick him up. Have him climb on a chair, stand and carefully help Mamma hold him. He's smart, very smart. My daughter has the same kind of cysts. I think it's an epidemic amongst young women. You all are in my prayers. Tuesday, my grandson, age 2, spent the day at his daycare. He wears his mask with no problems. That evening my son texted us: What developmental stage is it when your baby uses the word Covid? He and Jack both have that beautiful light, light hair. Your family is a trio that shines love.
There is no way God would allow you guys to not have more children. You are such great loving fun parents! It’s all in his hands and I believe there will be more babies for you both ❤️
Try not to worry! I had a large ovarian cyst and the ovary removed when I was 20. It was unknown that I was pregnant at the time. I carried twins to full term, they are 37 now! I went on to have more children without issue. Love your videos. So little fakeness, just you as you are. Jake is a gorgeous little boy.
Sending prayers to y'all for Sara's surgery to go well, with no complications. Y'all seem so happy and "at home" in Hawaii , but honestly wherever you go I'm sure you'll be that way. Love watching your channel; very inspiring for all ages!!
I had the same issue. I opted out of surgery which honestly I regretted later. When they popped, it HURT so BAD! My daughter thankfully had surgery but it came back and they had to remove her ovary. She did not want to go back for surgery a 4th time. She was so done. Hasn't come back anywhere else thankfully. Suggestions, be on time for your pain meds. Set alarms and wake up at night to take them too. Drink lots and lots of water, and eat lots of nutrient rich foods. Both will help clear the toxins from your body and feed your cells to heal fast and thoroughly. Sleep is extraordinarily important. Your body heals more while you're sleeping than any other time. Snuggle with Jack when he is sleepy. Put a pillow across your abdomen so he can't cause damage to your surgery areas while you heal. Read to him, play on the floor etc. Interact with him while you're awake, just make sure that pillow is between you, at least for the first week, maybe 2. Also, DO NOT PICK ANYTHING UP. Not yelling, just being clear. Damaging your surgery site, especially your ovary might cause irreparable damage. The surgery itself is quick, simple and easy. Low risk of complications. Don't be scared. That just adds to the stress on your body and increases bad hormones in your body. Take care of yourself and we will be her with lots of love and prayers. ❤
Sarah, I've had an ovarian cyst like you did, about 10 years ago (didn't know I even had it until I felt a lot of pain all of a sudden). It was the size of a small grapefruit haha - but I didn't have to lose my ovary even though the surgeon was convinced I would. I'm glad you only have to get a couple small incisions - I had to have a full C-section unfortunately. The doctor gave a really strong pain med prescription to take home, and my advice to you is if the meds make you super loopy, take half a pill instead - that worked just fine for me to manage my pain bc I hated that loopy feeling. I'll be keeping you in my prayers that everything goes all right
I've had that same type of surgery 5 or 6 times now (I'm 32). But I also have other issues. I did have a cyst removed that was the size of my uterus. Honestly the surgeries aren't that bad. My issues come while recovering, I'll feel great a couple days after and I'll over do. Then hurt more for a couple days. Ask for a little pillow (my hospital gives them out after surgeries). It'll help for counter pressure, every time you stand up/sit down. Just take it slow and easy and let your boys take care of you. Make sure you have your favorite comfy close ready for at least a few days maybe a week. I'll be praying for you guys!!
Don't worry my daughter has had multiple cysts taken off her ovaries ,some were getting big. Recovery was not to bad and within a year welcomed baby Daisy so please don't worry. 😊🏴
The surgery is pretty easy. You'll be sore for several days. Be up frequently for short periods of time to prevent you from getting too much gas which can be uncomfortable. You'll do great. 😊🙏
Sara your strong. You will be ok. I had 11 surgeries in 3 days re assembling my shattered legs. Now i do crossfit. And am back 100%. And i only had a 10% chance of ever walking again. Its all about your will. Surgery is only part of your recovery. You have to think positive.
When you're picking your house out to buy. Make sure is everything that you want. It's set up for however many kids you want, it's able to set up a garage if you want it, all the little things like a dishwasher, where you want your washer and dryer do you want a changing area as you come in the house. Different things like that. Make a list of everything you want your house to have. When you are ready to go wherever you want to you can give that to your realtor and they will help you get everything that you want.
Years ago I had them on both my ovaries but my Dr. had me take birth control and they burst on their own. Mine were definitely from hormonal imbalances. I also had a tubal ligation which they did the bandaid surgery. It wasn’t so bad as far as recovery went just no lifting, no cleaning or anything with reaching or twisting involved. It was hard because I had a 6 mth old at the time but was able to manage it for the two weeks. I pray you have success and that everything goes smoothly for you! 🙏🏼
Hey Sarah, I dont want you to worry about your surgery or afterwards. The Laparoscopy is a common procedure. Yes, it carries risks as all surguries do but its shouldn't take long & that lessens the risk. After surgery one way you can "pick up" Jack is by kneeling down & holding him in a "pick up" hold but just not standing up. Sit on the floor a lot to spend cuddle time with him. You don't to be lying on the couch & have him crawl onto your stomach. It will be tender! He understands Owies and Booboos so tell him Mommy has Owies on her tummy and it hurts to pick up things & him so Daddy's going to be Mommy's helper. Derik can start explaining the day(s) you're in hospital. As for the surgery: A Laparoscopy has 3 points of entrance for the Surgical instruments -2 holes for the instrument s that will do the surgical procedure and one that has a video feed for the surgeon to see what she's doing. ( CO2 is put in onto your abdomen to expand the working area. Then its removed at the end. But there is always a small amount left & it migrates up into the empty space of your left shoulder. It just feels sore for a couple days. Your stomach will be very tender more than painful. Your Doctor will tell you what you can use for pain relief. I'm very hopeful all will go well. If you're comfortable with your Doctor and Surgeon, then that's good.
Try not to worry, I had my second daughter 9 months after I had a grapefruit sized ovarian cyst removed. Your family is beautiful and the Lord will pick you up and carry you through. Jack is absolutely precious and I'm sure he will be having a little bro or sis in the near future. Bless you all.
Same here. I had 2 kids after 2 different cysts surgery, both within months of each other
Absolutely!!! I had 2 cysts that ruptured just 8 months before my daughter was born. (My first baby). I have 4 children now.
I had a cyst the size of a grapefruit & was never able to have any kids. I’m praying for her. I cried so hard when it never happened for me. But she’s had one & the chance for more is good.
My friend had to have IVF for her first baby due to ovarian cysts.
Years later she had them removed and fell pregnant naturally.
@@lisaquigley-moon9583 Awwwwe, I'm so sorry you're going through this! Doctors told me the same thing, I had two Laparoscopic procedures done and multiple gynos tried talking me info a hysterectomy ( I think is how you spell it). I had baby fever bad, like really intense at one point, longing to hold and care for another baby around the time my only nephew was born, and I got pregnant again! My daughter was 16 yrs old but it finally happened for me. I know of other women given similar prognosis and as soon as their adoption went through they got pregnant!! My advice is to go hold babies, our bodies are mysterious and amazing, sometime disappointing, but try it and I wish you the very best!! 😊💜💙💚
Derik shows his love for you in many ways. Look at his facial expression while you tell your update;pure love. All the best and prayers.
I love how Sara is just a REAL CHICK. She’s absolutely gorgeous but doesn’t have the fake always wanting to be overly perfect vibe that so many have, and I LOVE THAT. She’s just her self and it makes her even more gorgeous :)
100% agree. Both parents come across that way to me. So much more enjoyable than those IG moms who are all about their bodies, their makeup, their clothes, their status.
A very rare quality to woman that looks like that. And just in general
Very true. She's the type of person who can be friends with pretty much anyone and at any age.
That’s the Hawaii vibe😍
She is adorable!!! Incredible mom and wife!
Show Jack part of your scar and say ouch. I think that will help him to have empathy for you, and begin to understand.
Sarah, I had the same surgery except I had a cyst on both ovaries! I was nervous too, but I am surprised with how easy the recovery has been! Very little pain and I’m confident you will have the same experience! Listen to your doc and NO heavy lifting!! You will do great!
Omg that's so scary. You are literally a brave woman. Hats off ❤️❤️
Seriously love the way younger families are parenting these days! When I was Jack’s age, my parents never paid that much attention to me like you guys do. Jack’s a lucky boy.
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It's incredibly hard not picking up your child.....Derick will have to put him on your lap, so you can hug him.
You are in my prayers for a speedy recovery.
Having a pillow to brace your tummy while recovering will be your best friend. Anytime I coughed or had to use the bathroom, having a pillow for against my tummy helped ease the pain. I'm sending good vibes hun! You got this!!!
When Jack want you to pick him up go sit down on the couch, chair any place you are comfy and have him crawl up on you. I had surgery when I had a one year old I was cut from hip to hip. I just had my kids crawl/climb up to where I was bed, couch, recliner where ever. You got this!
May I ask what kind of jobs you both have?
Orthroscopic surgery is a snap. The incisions are less than 1/2 inch. They fill your abdomen with gas to give them more room for the scope. Don’t fret and stress about it. Deep breath’s and stay zen. Good luck.
@@colleencolligan5586 May I ask why you want to know what job I have? What does my job have to do with this?
@@mimi-yt7gq lmao sorry I was asking the cute couple I just watched their video
@@colleencolligan5586 Ok I was so confused! LOL I think they just do You Tube. But I just found their channel a few days ago so not sure if they do more then You tube.
I know surgery can be scary, but God's got you! You're young, healthy, and active. Several mommies have shared awesome advice like sitting down and letting Jack crawl on you instead of picking him up.... Plus he won't remember a couple of weeks where you didn't pick up up- especially considering how loved he is! Praying for yall!💖
I know this isn’t reassuring but the great thing is we have 2 ovaries!! So at least there’s a backup if anything were to happen :) I love seeing how much Derik cares for you, you can see his expressions as you talk. ALL US LADIES WANT THIS. You two are so lucky to have each other ❤️❤️❤️
I love you for that
So well said. 💖
Praying that God will guide the surgeons hands and for a speedy recovery for you 🙏. Y'all have a beautiful family and are strong. Jack is absolutely adorable!! 💟
He’s not going to remember the 2-3 weeks you can’t pick him up ❤️. I’m sure he knows you love him like there’s no tomorrow. Kids are smart and can pick up on the smallest things. I hope surgery goes well! I had shoulder surgery and couldn’t pick up my daughter whom was 3 at that time. She doesn’t remember that at all
Sarah, WAAAAY back in 1985 I had a demoid cyst the size of a grapefruit on my right ovary. I those days they did a full lower belly incision. Sounds like they're planning on doing yours arthroscopic, you're very fortunate, so less invasive and much easier to recover from. Also, they weren't able to find my right ovary and fallopian tube within the mass so they were removed along with the cyst. I was told it would be more difficult to get pregnant. HAH!!! I had four beautiful, healthy children with one ovary. That one ovary was very overactive! Please don't worry about your fertility unless you had a problem before. My prayers are with you!
Good for u 👍
Since this growth keeps changing back and forth, it's likely hormonal related and a cyst. If they have to make more than 1 incision, the others would be for a light and camera, and also to instill gas to inflate the abdomen to help with access and for the MD to see better. As far as picking up Jack, let Derick put him in your lap and that will help keep him from begging you to pick him up so much. Will be praying for you! ❤
This is usual surgery procedure here in Australia. Just dont rush things and do as your Dr says.
Derick and Jack will help to keep you safe.
God Bless....
I forgot about inflating the abdomen with air. You'll be farty for a few days later. Lol
Derik and Sarah
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EVERYTHING WILL TURN OUT POSITIVE FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY,
Jack is such a curious little guy,
Love his independence, lights up a room like his parents real joy love happiness in your home.
Happy belated bday Jack special one.
Sarah and Derik your wonderful parents.
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I had a cyst removed in 1998 and it was 2 small incisions (one at the belly button and one near where the ovary is) and it was not too bad at all. A tip on not lifting a young child after surgery is to sit down and then have him climb up next to you or on your lap (but be careful in the first few days as you will be tender at the incision sites).
God will take you in His precious Arms of love, comfort and healing...He always carries us in tough times🛐. Will be praying for you Sarah and your beautiful family💖🙏🕊
Prayers heaped up, pressed down and overflowing.... God's got this !!! 🙏❤🙏
Don’t be scared sweetheart. Everything will be just fine. I will be praying for you but I know in my heart that you will be fine. 🙏❤️
I had the three small incisions done to take mine out, my doctor was able to drain mine and remove it through my belly button! The other two incisions were for the cameras. Hope you have a quick recovery!!
Did these incisions leave any scar?
Jack is walking so good. Growing so fast.
Thx you guys for sharing your family with us. We love y'all. God bless your beautiful family.
So the no “lifting” Jack..just let him crawl into your lap and you can stand up and it’s less stress on your body wounds. This is what I had to do with my youngest son . And this will bring you peace of mind! You guys rock much love ❤️ 🥰😘👍
They'll put a camera in one of the incision area then the next two or three incision areas will be the tools needed in performing the surgery. Praying all goes well for you...✌🏾❤🤗
Prayers for you r family
You got this Sara❣ We all believe in your strength. Have faith, & the Beeston Fan Base will 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 for you❣👍🏼🏨🙏🏼
When Derik was like “Jack” and he said “wat” I replayed it like 20 times he has the sweetest most cutest voice 🥰🥰
Ikr!! That was so adorable!!!
Praying for you both (and Jack too!) - no complications during surgery, easy, speedy recovery - and wisdom for your next chapter!! Love watching you all grow!
You are the couple I wish my husband and I had been. Moving to Hawaii and living with Just the bare necessities. Adventuresome and living the good life. I hope you don’t mind that I live vicariously thru you via your you tube videos! I smile all the way through your videos except when you talk of Sarah’s surgery. I had an ovarian cyst removed when I was 10 wks pregnant. All was fine and about 7 months later we had a perfect baby boy! Not sure if it was just like yours though. Prayers for a simple uncomplicated surgery and speedy recovery so you can hold that adorable creature you call Jack!
Please continue blogging as this world needs all the upbeat happiness you can share with us!
I had a complex hemorrhagic cyst. Mostly my concern is all the study I’ve been doing about spinal intrusion procedures for anesthesia.
There’s a lot more going wrong with people than they admit, because there’s a very narrow margin of safety. If you can keep them out of your spine so you have a 100% chance of being able to walk when they’re done. Besides that cyst I’ve had 5 other surgeries. (endometriosis). Make sure they manage your pain, and you’ll heal faster. Mine were over a 20 year. And no matter what they gave me for pain, once I was healed it wasn’t needed for a part of our lives. It’s important that you hear a nurse talk about this, because I’ve treated patients and been a patient so I know there’s a lot of propaganda that isn’t true out there. I hope they take excellent care of you and of course I’m crossing my fingers and saying my prayers because you guys are a precious little family and I want the best for all of you. Amen 🙏🏻🥰
Love and prayers to you all! This surgery will be fine! You're a healthy young mom, you're going to have a reserve unit of your own blood- what a great set up! You're describing arthroscopic surgery- what a great way to go! Its much less drastic, and you'll be picking Jack up in a few weeks, instead of 6-8 weeks+ with lots of restrictions! You've git this girl!!! I hope y'all get to stay in Hawai'i!!
You mean Laparoscopic, arthroscopic is on the joints.🙂
Best wishes for Sarah's surgery to go smoothly and for a speedy recovery. It's good you are getting it taken care of hon. Derik will take good care of you and Jack I know. Cheers!
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Sending prayers for your surgery. I had a cyst on my ovary also and had surgery...then 2 kids later!! You have got this!!
You two are so lucky you found each other! What a blessing! And to have that gorgeous Jack! ❤❤❤❤❤
Just rest after & try not to lift Jack for a week! Went through same the year after my son born '94. Easier than a gallbladder lap, no pain after a bit achy a couple days & I got pregnant 8 mos later! You'll be fine, being scared is normal, and besides, that's why we were blessed with 2 ovaries!! My prayers🙏🙏
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I’m saying prayers for all of y’all! I was told that due to endometriosis I wouldn’t be able to conceive. Well, I have a son who is 32 and another son who is 27. God always takes care of his children. He made it so that I had two wonderful sons. Y’all will be able to have more if it’s His will and in His plans for y’all’s lives. I found your channel not too long ago. I watch as many of your videos as I can. You’re a wholesome, beautiful family! Thank you for letting us into your family life!! Gives me hope for the future!! God bless!! ❤️🙏🏻✝️
I’ve experienced the same thing and I think when someone hears cyst or tumor, it’s instantly scary. Mine was similar where it grew then it shrink and then it grew to the point where it actually started overtaking my ovary. Good luck!
Wish you all love and prayers. I also want you to know I had a teratoma on my ovary which grew but I had to have it removed but because it got nicked while removing I had to have the ovary removed and want you to know that 6 months later I conceived my twins. If you want to ask me questions, I’d be more than happy to let you know it will be fine. I also had another baby years later. I have 4 children, all grown healthy and my absolute pride and joy. Love your fam 🤗
I had an ovarian cyst a few years ago from my endometriosis, and when I had my ultrasound it was 7cm, and when it was removed (two months later) it was 9cm, and I got so worried about it effecting my ovary! But with many prayers it ended up all good (but my fallopian tube was knotted so lucky I had the surgery when I did!). Resting was the best recovery but also trying to walk around helped me recover quicker, best wishes 🤍
Prayers and Love to you all. I had an ovarian cyst removed when I was 15 and I got thru perfectly well. With God’s help y’all got this!!
You are such an amazing couple. Take care of yourself Sara. Praying for your family.💝
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Sending love and healing thoughts from Maine!!! As a retired ultrasound tech, I know these cases turn out well; in no way does this diminish your concerns!! You have the love and support of all of us!!😍
All our best with the surgery, no worries. Love Jack's test run on the "wanderer" mode! Major anxiety for a moment 😂
You'll do fine, Sarah!💜 I am absolutely keeping you in prayer for a smooth surgery and a thorough recovery.❤️
As someone like 27 surgeries at the age of 18, I can tell you that you'll be okay 🥰🤗
I had an exploratory laparotomy when my daughter was less than two. I was a single mom but I made it. You can show Jack your bandage and let him know that mommy has an owie. Kids are pretty smart, even when young, plus it helps him learn compassion.
I was a critical care RN for over 20 years and worked a long time in open heart recovery unit. Yes, surgery is scary, but the reason you're informed of all possibilities is a legal thing. Sounds like you have a great doctor and that's the most important thing. Prayers for you. Trust Jesus has you. My best friend and "adopted mom" used to tell me "God didn't bring us this far to drop us on our heads". You got this! Love you guys! ❤️
Love and prayers for Sarah.....Blessings for your cute lil family!!🙏💓
You guys are always so cool, calm and collected all the time. I can’t even picture you two in an argument. It feels like you’d be physically incapable of saying mean things. I admire how zen you and your whole family are. And it never feels forced or unnatural. I know you get this a lot but you’re definitely the poster family
I went through something similar about three years ago. Based on the ultrasound my OB thought the cyst was 8 cm. When he did the surgery he discovered that it was actually 12 cm and the ovary had twisted on itself three times. They ended up having to take the ovary. My other ovary has stepped up and my cycles have been completely normal. I've also conceived twice since then. The surgery wasn't bad at all. I was a little nauseous afterwards due to the anesthesia, but that went away after a couple of hours. I did feel a bit like I'd been punched in the stomach, but only when my abdomen was touched. Don't worry, you'll do great!
you will do amazing, jack will understand!! i grew up with a mum that got and vertigo multiple times a year. not the same as what you’re going through but she did a really good job explaining that she just needed some time to feel better and that it didn’t mean that she loved me any less. he’s just going to be happy that you’re okay ❤️
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Such a loving and beautiful family. Sarah any type of surgery is always scary. However, I know you both know the Lord. Remember, His word teaches us to cast all our fear and concerns upon Him because He loves us. He’ll be in that operating room with you. I will be praying for you.
Amen & Amen❤❤❤
My intercessory prayers sent up, for God to be your Surgeon, as He is Our Physician, as well as Healer💖💖💖
Sending Much Love & Air Hugs Doll🥰🤗
I agree with previous comments, to have Derik place Jack in your arms, while sitting or laying.
Godspeed to you Rommel, Sarah, Derik, Jack & All💌
Praying for you 🙏🏼♥️ you’re lucky to have loved ones’ support, everything will be great, speedy recovery!
First time commenting on this channel! I love Jack's hair in pigtails and his outfit matching with Sarah's! Wishing you a smooth surgery Sarah, that doesn't have any complications 😘
Wow...so smart and he is talking so much!
He is so amazing for his age!
I have 3 grown sons of my own!
We always read to our boys & they loved it!
Keep teaching him and you will be so happy you did!
I had to have two cystic tumors on each ovary about 2 months after I had my baby (just a few days after Jack!) One was very large and they told me they may have to take that ovary just to prepare me, but everything went well and that didn't happen! I will say that recovery was a little tough, although I didn't take my pain medicine because I was breastfeeding. Just take it easy, but make sure you walk around. Some of the worst pain was from built up gas pockets (because they have to inflate your abdomen). I know everything will be fine!
Omg! Jack is walking! I love it! I mean I did watch his bday, but I missed the episode where you guys said he'll be walking next we see you. Now that I'm all caught up I'm noticing more. I love you guys sooo much and your fam. I just love seeing a family so close net, and the love you all have for each other and how genuine and real it is. You guys are so special, you don't see good young ppl like Derik and Sarah anymore it's so BEAUTIFUL❣️❣️ 💕🥺🥲😂🥰😍
You’ll do great! 😇 I felt the same way before getting my cyst (and my ovary) but it’s definitely is a relief afterwards! Plenty of rest the first two days, Ice pack on the incision and ibuprofen! Baby snuggles will probably feel great too! 😇 even if you can’t pick him up for a while lol 😂
I have been through several of these. I have dealt with PCOS and endometriosis for over 3 years. I had my son at 30 after several cleanup surgeries. My best advice is to make sure you take it easy after the surgery like the doctor says. To much lifting can create scar tissue and that can cause trouble with conception. So just do your best to rest. I know it is hard. Oh and that baby I had turned 17 yesterday, 10/28.
Sending love, blessings, and good health always to all three of you! ❤️❤️
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Love u guys. You are beautiful inside and out. You are so real and down to earth not obsessed w/ your looks like so many others. Appreciate that you are people of substance. Good luck w/ your surgery Sarah.... I'm sure it will go fine because it think God has his hand on you all. Keep being you..... you are wonderful as you are.
Sarah is absolutely gorgeous,praying all that everything goes well😍, you are an amazing parents, i love you jack so cute
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Depending on the size they open up more then one hole to remove the whole cyst. My mom had this and it was easy. Get a blessing before you go and our heavenly father will keep you safe. I’m praying for you! You are going to do great! You will definitely have more babies. There is nothing wrong with renting until you know what u want.
Love y’all! Jack is the cutest! Praying for you Sarah💕
Will definitely be praying for you during your surgery and a speedy recovery following. You're a strong momma and you will get through it safely. I know and have faith you will. I have PKD and only wish I could have surgery to remove all the cysts covering both kidneys. All I can do is take care of my body and stay away from salt. Lol. You have such a beautiful family, amazing friends and so many supporters who care for all of you. That's an amazing support system to have in times like this. Love you all!
Hey, you 3 are the sweetest...prayers sent up for all of you! I can't wait to see Jack with a baby sister or brother. I saw the family video where you said Jack was obsessed with baby Stella. He loves her, you could see it all over his little face! It will happen Sarah just keep praying. 😊🙏❤
Good luck with your surgery. I hope everything turns out ok. When I had my gallbladder removed my daughter was around 2 and it was very hard not to pick her up. I had to sit on the couch so She could sit on my lap. I also hope you find a really nice home to buy. Prayers to you Sara.
I know it is so scary, as a mom you just worry. I myself and going through something similar after having my two boys. You are gonna do great, I will be praying for you and your family!
Bless your heart ❤️ you’ve got this girl!! Sending up prayers for the guidance of the surgeons hands when ever you have your surgery 💕🙏
I had an ovarian cyst removed as well. I had 3 very small incisions...1 by my belly button and 2 in the lower pelvic area. 1 on each side. No stitches and healed very quickly. They did remove a small portion of my ovary with the cyst and had 2 wonderful kids after!
You're such an amazing family ! Love the bond between you and Jack. Derek will be an awesome dad and mom during ur surgery so nothing to worry about . Lots of love from Philippines!
Stay safe please!! We love you three and hope you guys are okay!!!
Prayers going up!🙏💜💫
You guys are so adorable.
You remind me so much of my life with my precious late husband! We were so Blessed and blissfully happy.
It does my heart good to watch you guys.
Good luck to you Sarah. Love and Prayers 🙏💜💫
Not the same but still abdomin surgery, after having our daughter Lillie-Dawn I ended up getting an umbilical hernia, a few months ago I ended up having open surgery just underneath my belly button and towards it. It was difficult not picking her up but definitely do what your surgeon says, I ended up ripping/tightening my stitch as I saved Lillie-Dawn from falling off the edge of our bed! Don't overwork yourself and rest, drink as much fluid as possible and try not to soak for too long as it can cause an infection with bacteria if you're not careful.
You'll do great! Your little family is amazing and so positive, I seriously look up to you all x
The cost of housing rt now (CA) is insanely ridiculous!! 😱😱 I've never EVER known it to be so outrageous as it is currently & I've lived here all my life! 💔 The possibility of owning a home appears to be impossible unless we pick up & move to another state 🥺 I recommend making the decision before Jack starts school, that way relocating isn't so detrimental on him ❤
Such a beautiful family💕 Thank you for sharing 😊
You will do great. I put an air mattress out on my family room floor with lots of pillows and comforters so my 3 boys and 3 dogs could come and cuddle up to me anytime during the day. They loved it and it reminded them to do things on their own instead of asking me. Even a big bean bag chair would work. I hope you feel better soon and I am sure baby #2 will not be far behind.
Really happy for you. You make such a beautiful family. I’ve been following you for a bit & was wondering, do you both work from home?
Sarah, you and Derik and Jack are in my prayers 🙏🏻. My sil had a grapefruit size ovarian cyst removed and she did great also. Going through stuff like that isn’t much fun, but God is good, and He’s with you, plus the drs have a lot of experience, thankfully!
Prayers and you guys are absolutely the sweetest... I love y’all 💖
You guys are amazing! You are so open about sharing what's going on in your lives. I feel close to you because of this openness.
Life is throwing a lot of pretty heavy duty stuff at you, and I admire how you're dealing with things. Of course, you have your feelings of fear and uncertainty and worry. That is natural. But you come back when you are knocked down (again!). And you get up and stagger for a while but you keep moving.
Your shared sense of humor is really helping you, as well as your strong connection to your family. And last, but by no means least, you have your faith.
I'll be praying for you and your little family with Jack. God bless.
Another way is to get Jack a little step stool so he can climb up to Momma.
He could bring you ice or heat packs.
For the first couple of days sleep.
Show him how to help with you, especially the fact of not jumping on top of you.
It is going to be so hard cause he has the eyes mastered and your toast.
We will be praying for you. Derik is an amazing husband and dad.
Be safe! Take it easy! Read and rest! Oh yeah stairs are going to be a bitch for awhile
Best of luck with your surgery! When Jack wants you to pick him up, sit on the couch, bed, floor etc and let him crawl/cuddle on you until you recover❤️
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Thank you , So much for sharing this great adventure with us, God Bless and Protect all
all of you, May God continue bless you ! ❤
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The first shot for my daughter she cried. My son was 3. He cried, too, and said, "They hurt her! I don't like them." Jack has entered the awesome stage of "Imagination on his own". You are both so attentive, fun, and loving. Wonderful parenting!! His wheeler is just like my grandson's." We all loved seeing him as he mastered it. Tell Jack why Mamma can't pick him up. Have him climb on a chair, stand and carefully help Mamma hold him. He's smart, very smart. My daughter has the same kind of cysts. I think it's an epidemic amongst young women. You all are in my prayers.
Tuesday, my grandson, age 2, spent the day at his daycare. He wears his mask with no problems. That evening my son texted us: What developmental stage is it when your baby uses the word Covid?
He and Jack both have that beautiful light, light hair.
Your family is a trio that shines love.
There is no way God would allow you guys to not have more children. You are such great loving fun parents! It’s all in his hands and I believe there will be more babies for you both ❤️
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Try not to worry! I had a large ovarian cyst and the ovary removed when I was 20. It was unknown that I was pregnant at the time. I carried twins to full term, they are 37 now! I went on to have more children without issue. Love your videos. So little fakeness, just you as you are. Jake is a gorgeous little boy.
Jack is just the cutest funniest little kid 🥰
Sending prayers to y'all for Sara's surgery to go well, with no complications.
Y'all seem so happy and "at home" in Hawaii , but honestly wherever you go I'm sure you'll be that way.
Love watching your channel; very inspiring for all ages!!
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I had the same issue. I opted out of surgery which honestly I regretted later. When they popped, it HURT so BAD! My daughter thankfully had surgery but it came back and they had to remove her ovary. She did not want to go back for surgery a 4th time. She was so done. Hasn't come back anywhere else thankfully. Suggestions, be on time for your pain meds. Set alarms and wake up at night to take them too. Drink lots and lots of water, and eat lots of nutrient rich foods. Both will help clear the toxins from your body and feed your cells to heal fast and thoroughly. Sleep is extraordinarily important. Your body heals more while you're sleeping than any other time. Snuggle with Jack when he is sleepy. Put a pillow across your abdomen so he can't cause damage to your surgery areas while you heal. Read to him, play on the floor etc. Interact with him while you're awake, just make sure that pillow is between you, at least for the first week, maybe 2. Also, DO NOT PICK ANYTHING UP. Not yelling, just being clear. Damaging your surgery site, especially your ovary might cause irreparable damage. The surgery itself is quick, simple and easy. Low risk of complications. Don't be scared. That just adds to the stress on your body and increases bad hormones in your body. Take care of yourself and we will be her with lots of love and prayers. ❤
Think positive. You will do great. The anxiety is the worse part of surgery. Praying for a fast recovery.
Sarah, I've had an ovarian cyst like you did, about 10 years ago (didn't know I even had it until I felt a lot of pain all of a sudden). It was the size of a small grapefruit haha - but I didn't have to lose my ovary even though the surgeon was convinced I would. I'm glad you only have to get a couple small incisions - I had to have a full C-section unfortunately. The doctor gave a really strong pain med prescription to take home, and my advice to you is if the meds make you super loopy, take half a pill instead - that worked just fine for me to manage my pain bc I hated that loopy feeling. I'll be keeping you in my prayers that everything goes all right
I've had that same type of surgery 5 or 6 times now (I'm 32). But I also have other issues. I did have a cyst removed that was the size of my uterus. Honestly the surgeries aren't that bad. My issues come while recovering, I'll feel great a couple days after and I'll over do. Then hurt more for a couple days. Ask for a little pillow (my hospital gives them out after surgeries). It'll help for counter pressure, every time you stand up/sit down. Just take it slow and easy and let your boys take care of you. Make sure you have your favorite comfy close ready for at least a few days maybe a week. I'll be praying for you guys!!
Take a pillow for the ride home. It’s a life saver. Prayers for a safe surgery and recovery ❤️🩹
Don't worry my daughter has had multiple cysts taken off her ovaries ,some were getting big. Recovery was not to bad and within a year welcomed baby Daisy so please don't worry. 😊🏴
The surgery is pretty easy. You'll be sore for several days. Be up frequently for short periods of time to prevent you from getting too much gas which can be uncomfortable. You'll do great. 😊🙏
You’ve got this! I lost my whole right side & was able to have 2 beautiful children. Lifting you up in prayers.
Sara your strong. You will be ok. I had 11 surgeries in 3 days re assembling my shattered legs. Now i do crossfit. And am back 100%. And i only had a 10% chance of ever walking again. Its all about your will. Surgery is only part of your recovery. You have to think positive.
When you're picking your house out to buy. Make sure is everything that you want. It's set up for however many kids you want, it's able to set up a garage if you want it, all the little things like a dishwasher, where you want your washer and dryer do you want a changing area as you come in the house. Different things like that. Make a list of everything you want your house to have. When you are ready to go wherever you want to you can give that to your realtor and they will help you get everything that you want.
It’s hard to tell you not to worry but just know that many of us are loving you and praying for you all ❤️✝️
Years ago I had them on both my ovaries but my Dr. had me take birth control and they burst on their own. Mine were definitely from hormonal imbalances. I also had a tubal ligation which they did the bandaid surgery. It wasn’t so bad as far as recovery went just no lifting, no cleaning or anything with reaching or twisting involved. It was hard because I had a 6 mth old at the time but was able to manage it for the two weeks. I pray you have success and that everything goes smoothly for you! 🙏🏼
Hey Sarah, I dont want you to worry about your surgery or afterwards. The Laparoscopy is a common procedure. Yes, it carries risks as all surguries do but its shouldn't take long & that lessens the risk. After surgery one way you can "pick up" Jack is by kneeling down & holding him in a "pick up" hold but just not standing up. Sit on the floor a lot to spend cuddle time with him. You don't to be lying on the couch & have him crawl onto your stomach. It will be tender!
He understands Owies and Booboos so tell him Mommy has Owies on her tummy and it hurts to pick up things & him so Daddy's going to be Mommy's helper. Derik can start explaining the day(s) you're in hospital.
As for the surgery: A Laparoscopy has 3 points of entrance for the Surgical instruments -2 holes for the instrument s that will do the surgical procedure and one that has a video feed for the surgeon to see what she's doing. ( CO2 is put in onto your abdomen to expand the working area. Then its removed at the end. But there is always a small amount left & it migrates up into the empty space of your left shoulder. It just feels sore for a couple days. Your stomach will be very tender more than painful. Your Doctor will tell you what you can use for pain relief.
I'm very hopeful all will go well. If you're comfortable with your Doctor and Surgeon, then that's good.