Amen brother girls always say why do you jump from one to another after they reject you because I say life’s too short I’ll check all my crushes then if all aren’t interested I know to stay happy single
😁😁😁😁😁😁funny you.....those girls are in big trouble i just pity them....I wish I new this 15 years ago...am sorry for my self have been through a lot in the hand of girls that doesn't what it at all....they deal with me wickedly because of my ignorance....
When a woman does things like this, she is playing games. Don’t message her again if she isn’t responding. Find a new woman and then once she finally contacts you again let her know that she lost you due to her game-playing. A woman who plays games like this is worthless, and is not wife or relationship material.
@@gracesonhudgins9602 You need to spend time on some other activities that will take your mind off of her. Not necessarily pleasant but useful. Become more social.
@@gracesonhudgins9602 I even have the worse scenario. I have a relationship with my best friend's sister. now what should I do when my best friend knows that I'm no longer in a relationship with his sister? that would be one hell of a mess I guess...
shes not my girl then but i thought we get along well, at first we could do a good 10 minuteconversation then after that day, she just seen the message and no response. fuckin annoying
When she pulls away you pull away very simple. In the mean time you move on with your life. It does work but its not guarantee that you will hear from her again.
@@newaccount3970 what you said it is a very good point and that is why I said if she pulls away, you pull away and move on, you don't chase her and nobody else for that matter even friends. If she comes back, think about it, if she does not come back you are already moving on with your life anyway, so whether she wants to be with you or not that becomes irrelevant once you are moving on.
such a great video. As a man and as a psychologist I totally approve this. And it actually works - having a girlfriend or living with a woman in that matter is like sharing a room with a convicted rapist in prison - you must never show any weakness
Most of the time the reason they stop texting is because they're not interested in you anymore. Chances are they're interested in someone else. Sadly. Happened to me.
Just focus on something else in addition to being unresponsive. If you're just being seen as unresponsive, it's easy to be interpreted as being bitchy or mad as well, but if you have an excuse for acting unresponsive, that's better.
Mine has a lack of texting too but I can tell she really do love me but I do get the frustration when she doesn't text back that's my only problem with her I told her if you keep this up it's going to affect our relationship I understand you're a busy woman but at least tell me what you about to do so I can least know
So true! I work 21 days in camp in a harsh environment “underground mining” she went from talking on the phone, to talking every other day then non existent into talking but only through texts. Some days don’t even get a text without breaking the ice, then it seems like an annoyance on my part in asking how’s everything been? It’s a shitty situation
them : don't show any insecurities to your girl or she might think you're weak Me : spamming a 100 different depression and suicide memes everywhere she's connected to me
Best I have done this after watching this video as she was not replying. I didn't massage her for two days after third day her massage come that ' have you forgotten me'i love you' That was really amazing So very very sincere and loving thanks for this help 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Love from India❤️
Unfortunately with my girlfriend is quite different. It makes no difference to her whether I text much or little. She gets worried if I go on quiet mode but when we’re together we still have no intimacy or nor she desires me more. I already got uninterested and it’s only a matter of time we break up. I’m sure she’ll initiate it because im always to blame.
Don’t text too much . It’s not productive even a girl or man that like to text too much. Because if you text too much what else you gonna talk when you on first date or already many dates. The excitement already gone. It’s suffocating when you’re texting all the time . It’s clingy and not a good position especially for a man. The attention is caring but at the same time you look insecure , needy if you texting her or she all the time. Just be chill and you be more attractive to her. If you watch Clint Eastwood , marlon Brando movie you can feel the coolness of them even if you’re a guy let alone a girl. You know they’re in command because they always cool .
@@oshoodunayo2170 thnx you.i sung song for her and she also had promised me that she will sing for me before she stopped to talk.after 2 days of stopped talk she yesterday sent me message that I sung for you song which I promised with you.in response I tried to convince her that I love her but she didn't response still one more day is passed
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The same thing is happening to me! I’ve been nothing but nice to her, trying to fix everything but I feel like it’s been one way only. Whenever I say stuff there’s no feedback and only indifference. Yesterday I asked if she loved me. She still hasn’t replied but has been online on snap.
My ex who broke it off with me, but reached out again after 2 weeks. She said she wants me in her life and then wants to see me. The following day she has something planned so she can't hang out but says we can do something tomorrow which is today. She never responded back and it's been well over 24 hours. I don't get women!
When I send text msg to my gf and she doesnt reply. I waited awhile and text the 2nd msg. Then the 3rd. When I still got no response, I pull away and she pulls away. Then I do no contact and would take months. This happen through out our long distance relationships and it is so frustrating.
How about I test her by not answering her phone calls when she wants me to do something important for her? Let's see how "needy and insecure" she'll be.
it doesnt take that long to answer a message, women use that trick to control men, dont play along, also why are you not supposed to be angry in a text to her highness?? if you feel that way, the other person should know. b strong and open your eyes to the red pill way.
By showing anger you are acting needy, desperate for attention, giving her the power's. The other human being can't really be forced or pressurized to entertain you if she is not interested.
My girlfriend is shit at texting, but she likes phone calls. Thanks God I learned that. So if you are worried about her text, try to call her and you will have a better understanding
So I'm struggling with this right now. If I'm with my girl in person its absolutely perfect. The thing is we live 2 hrs away so I only see her on weekends therefore have been relying on text to keep in contact. I have been over texting and acting clingy and I know this. I have a strong fear shes going to leave and the texting is making it worse. I have even been an asshole a couple times due to frustration and confusion as to why shes not messaging. My question is did I fuck this up to bad already? Today I am not going to message and am going to stay strong until she messages me. I hate this so much because I know if we were in person everyday we wouldn't have these problems at all. I hate this.
You are getting way too hung up on this girl dude. By all the texting and overpursuing you provably killed all of the attraction she had towards you. The best thing to do is to cut off all contact and start dating other girls.
me and my girl had an argument today, it wasn't major but we did both end up very irritated and angry. I told her I was gonna just go and sleep it off but she didnt reply and she didnt reply to my apology either. Hopefully when I wake up tomorrow things will be alright but... I dont know... I trust her with my life and we are both very romantic towards one another (over 1 year in a relationship, 4 years of being best friends) so I really hope this isn't anything major and we can go back to being happy together soon
but we are long distance. we have been dating for 8 months and we rarely text throughout the day. we call every night (or more accurately, I call her). I fear if i don’t make the effort to talk to her, she will just not talk to me. how do I get her to want to talk to me and to trust me?
If you feel like you're the one making all the effort and feel that it would fall apart if you wernt then you need to reevaluate the relationship. My advice to you would be to stop calling every night and cut communication a little bit and see what happens. If she makes no effort to contact or call you in your absence, then I'm afraid shes probably mentally checked out. I'm in a LDR myself and communication is absolutely vital. If you feel its one sided and she makes no effort then it probably true. I would go cold for a few days and see what she does.
Who says this stuff, tell you to do the same thing as she is doing to you, two wrongs don't make a right. I wait a week to see if she's still doing the same thing, if she is then I'll simply send her a text telling it, clearing she's lost interest and that I'm not going to wait around for her, so it's best we just go our own ways in life. I have a saying, "What you put into a relationship, is what you get out of it!" it's that simple folks.
Met a new girl it’s been 2 months .. lately she doesn’t respond to my texts .. I waited 2 days .. still no response .. I ended up blocking her .. I’ve moved on ..
I had this happen to me. We used to chat all throughout the days, and it just gradually got less frequent. Sometimes, I would not get a response at all. I then stopped sending her messages. A whole week went by! I asked her to call me and she did. A month later, she broke up with me. I guess my question is, is this really the best advice? What evidence is there that this works?
This ex of mine I put on no contact. She continues to reach out every few months. As soon as I actually try to talk to her she leaves me on read. What the hell.
I've noticed that I'm texting twice for every text that she sends and now her response is slowing more. Thanks for the advice. I think that now I'll respond with a question that demands a response from her but wait for her to text twice before I respond. Yes?
Dont overthink bro just wait for her to reach out to you amd then you respond just make sure she ia always the one that reaches out to you not the other way around😁
I was trying to hold back a call from me tonight because she stopped replying today, but I caved, shit, I want her to know I care don't I? Even if she can't answer?
same with my gf everything was normal yesterday we were laughing and everything but today she started ignoring me, i tried my best when this happened in the past but this time i'm not gonna do anything until she responds back
dont be afraid to walk away if you have to. life's too short to waste time playing games with people who dont want to be with you anyway
Dam straight
@@seayonshawnsmith6086 i legit said it out loud and scrolled down lmao
Correct brother... Very very correct
Amen brother girls always say why do you jump from one to another after they reject you because I say life’s too short I’ll check all my crushes then if all aren’t interested I know to stay happy single
True brother
I feel bad for any of Chris's ex girlfriends. They don't stand a chance against him!
Lol😂😂😂
😁😁😁😁😁😁funny you.....those girls are in big trouble i just pity them....I wish I new this 15 years ago...am sorry for my self have been through a lot in the hand of girls that doesn't what it at all....they deal with me wickedly because of my ignorance....
🤣🤣
Not a guarantee...he is talking from experience
When a woman does things like this, she is playing games. Don’t message her again if she isn’t responding. Find a new woman and then once she finally contacts you again let her know that she lost you due to her game-playing. A woman who plays games like this is worthless, and is not wife or relationship material.
but what if the girl has been ur bestfriend since middlecholl and yal started dating in 8th grade and r now a juniur in college and cant get over her
@@gracesonhudgins9602 You need to spend time on some other activities that will take your mind off of her. Not necessarily pleasant but useful. Become more social.
@@gracesonhudgins9602 I even have the worse scenario. I have a relationship with my best friend's sister. now what should I do when my best friend knows that I'm no longer in a relationship with his sister? that would be one hell of a mess I guess...
Who else comes back to this vid when your girl leaves you on seen 😆
She leaves me on delivered (but i know she on phone)
If she leaves u ON read without any good reason u should dump her
SolidTree Videography meeee
shes not my girl then but i thought we get along well, at first we could do a good 10 minuteconversation then after that day, she just seen the message and no response. fuckin annoying
Ygg
I have to agree with Chris on his advice. Mirror her emotions, create anxiety and boost your masculinity.
When she pulls away you pull away very simple. In the mean time you move on with your life. It does work but its not guarantee that you will hear from her again.
If you don't hear from her again means she didn't want to be with you since the beginning!
@@newaccount3970 what you said it is a very good point and that is why I said if she pulls away, you pull away and move on, you don't chase her and nobody else for that matter even friends. If she comes back, think about it, if she does not come back you are already moving on with your life anyway, so whether she wants to be with you or not that becomes irrelevant once you are moving on.
Global You're right. In the end it's her loss
If she doesn't make time for you... leave while you can
such a great video. As a man and as a psychologist I totally approve this. And it actually works - having a girlfriend or living with a woman in that matter is like sharing a room with a convicted rapist in prison - you must never show any weakness
Konrad Curze 😂 best comparison ever lol
Konrad Curze fk you're talking about ? If I share a room with a convicted rapist he won't wake up one day.
Konrad Curze fucking comparisons you have. What type of crack you smoke ? Lol
Convicted r6pis elaborate wym G
Most of the time the reason they stop texting is because they're not interested in you anymore. Chances are they're interested in someone else. Sadly. Happened to me.
When she doesn't text back, I always assume "maybe she's sick or dead ultimately" and carry on with my things. . . Lol 😂
I'm listening from Japan. Your advice is GOLD. arigatou
Doitashimashite :) I've spent a lot of time in Japan and love it there. Can't wait to go back someday!
Harigato gouzamais
When she back away and doesn't respond to your messages, she is definitely talking to someone else behind your back!
Women are always talking to other people
Cris... N E V E R stop doing what you are doing. Love your advises and your calm and very powerfull videos.
If your girlfriend doesn’t respond.. she isn’t your girlfriend anymore 😅
True
Dude you are amazing! Thank you 🙏
I going thought this right now, and this was a great advice! Thanks
Just focus on something else in addition to being unresponsive. If you're just being seen as unresponsive, it's easy to be interpreted as being bitchy or mad as well, but if you have an excuse for acting unresponsive, that's better.
I wonder how he gets haters like he's such a great parson
These all dislikes are from girls im sure
Mine has a lack of texting too but I can tell she really do love me but I do get the frustration when she doesn't text back that's my only problem with her I told her if you keep this up it's going to affect our relationship I understand you're a busy woman but at least tell me what you about to do so I can least know
Just call her
Bro my girlfriend literally doesn't do shit at her job. She told me she watches movies all day yet texts me back hrs later. Like wtf
@@babybee4261 same dude do you wanna talk to me in private?
@@Help540 yeah Im down could use more homies to texttt
@@babybee4261 my girl is joblessstill doesn't reply allday
So true! I work 21 days in camp in a harsh environment “underground mining” she went from talking on the phone, to talking every other day then non existent into talking but only through texts. Some days don’t even get a text without breaking the ice, then it seems like an annoyance on my part in asking how’s everything been? It’s a shitty situation
Update
They broke up
them : don't show any insecurities to your girl or she might think you're weak
Me : spamming a 100 different depression and suicide memes everywhere she's connected to me
Be ready with a backup, she is gonna pull away some day ...
Wow! Chris speaks Japanese! I would be happy to host you when you visit Japan someday!
I appreciate that. I'll let you know when I next come to Japan :)
Frustrated after 2 days. You have to laugh once you understand what Chris is teaching us.
When I hear him say the word weak I get angry..I dont know why? I hate and almost wont to hurt a person who do people like that.
Why is love like this... Too hard to leave someone..😭.. She keeps on ignoring me all.the time.. I will try to do this..
Bro stay on your pupose!! Stop crying and be confident in yourself
@@EJayyDreadHead thanks bro
Grow a pair, kid
From Somaliland you're great man , in relationship counseling.
Thanks man, I was panicing but you help me💪🏼
I look forward to it
Can't it be like both mates never getting tired texting, talking, meeting. Why the pull away, unresponsive attitude?
another great video with excellent delivery. Thank you
Best
I have done this after watching this video as she was not replying.
I didn't massage her for two days after third day her massage come that ' have you forgotten me'i love you'
That was really amazing
So very very sincere and loving thanks for this help 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Love from India❤️
I loves her, and I'm on the edge of crying
dude same here, but honestly if my gf doesn't care or call or love me back then there is no reason for this relationship to continue
@@itsmeSmile just had a mutual breakup @1 AM
She lied, and cheated. That hurts more than a normal breakup.
@@RoninMartialArtsOrientalMeds Yeah.. Im happy that we broke up.. She was toxic
Well then you have no reason to cry for her. You are more than capable to find another woman.
@@alisaiful6717 I don't even miss her now🐒
Great segment 👍thanks for sharing your insights 👏living in the days of current technology makes me miss the old days when people chatted on the phone📞
At least then you could actually hear 👂 their sweet voice and go by the tone Oh well I'm reminiscing 😂
Unfortunately with my girlfriend is quite different. It makes no difference to her whether I text much or little. She gets worried if I go on quiet mode but when we’re together we still have no intimacy or nor she desires me more. I already got uninterested and it’s only a matter of time we break up. I’m sure she’ll initiate it because im always to blame.
Thanks, this took away my anxiety
The avoidant makes you more anxious
Don’t text too much . It’s not productive even a girl or man that like to text too much. Because if you text too much what else you gonna talk when you on first date or already many dates. The excitement already gone. It’s suffocating when you’re texting all the time . It’s clingy and not a good position especially for a man. The attention is caring but at the same time you look insecure , needy if you texting her or she all the time. Just be chill and you be more attractive to her. If you watch Clint Eastwood , marlon Brando movie you can feel the coolness of them even if you’re a guy let alone a girl. You know they’re in command because they always cool .
I was feeling so weak.talked with my brother and sister no one could heal my like this guy gave me confidence.now I am feeling powerful
He helped me too
Contact him OK, it will be fine OK.
@@oshoodunayo2170 thnx you.i sung song for her and she also had promised me that she will sing for me before she stopped to talk.after 2 days of stopped talk she yesterday sent me message that I sung for you song which I promised with you.in response I tried to convince her that I love her but she didn't response still one more day is passed
He helped me too get back my ex within 7days
I will not contact her
This has weirdly made me feel better so Thank you
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hello it works I can believe am with my love again after so many years of break,up
she's just uset to you and she thinks your strong it happens
THIS CURRENTLY FVKIN HAPPENING TO ME RIGHT NOW I 😢😢😢
Did she respond back?
I’ve watched this vid a lot of times but still come back 😂
It’s so hard damn. She’s online on Snapchat but won’t respond to me :/
Well, you know her verdict already.. Move on
phil do the same shit to her, if she won’t respond to u, don’t respond to her texts. Make her come back to u
YoungEric U.R.T thanks for your tip, its already over! :)
The same thing is happening to me! I’ve been nothing but nice to her, trying to fix everything but I feel like it’s been one way only. Whenever I say stuff there’s no feedback and only indifference. Yesterday I asked if she loved me. She still hasn’t replied but has been online on snap.
@@tgcb2 oh feel
ya man :/ u got this but if things wont feel right just leave her u deserve way better 👑
just delete their numbers and walk away , if shes truly into she wouldnt do that shit with you ,get over it guys and start finding yourself
My ex who broke it off with me, but reached out again after 2 weeks. She said she wants me in her life and then wants to see me. The following day she has something planned so she can't hang out but says we can do something tomorrow which is today. She never responded back and it's been well over 24 hours. I don't get women!
Heard that
Best Advice Bro . Thanks
Just got in a new relationship. It’s a very early phase.
Best video to listen 👂
When I send text msg to my gf and she doesnt reply. I waited awhile and text the 2nd msg. Then the 3rd. When I still got no response, I pull away and she pulls away. Then I do no contact and would take months. This happen through out our long distance relationships and it is so frustrating.
i know how you feel
Move On. Forget her. Delete her number, pictures, memories. She is not worth it. Plenty of people around who would like to spend time with you.
She Was sucking somebodys banana.
How about I test her by not answering her phone calls when she wants me to do something important for her? Let's see how "needy and insecure" she'll be.
😂😂
it doesnt take that long to answer a message, women use that trick to control men, dont play along, also why are you not supposed to be angry in a text to her highness?? if you feel that way, the other person should know. b strong and open your eyes to the red pill way.
By showing anger you are acting needy, desperate for attention, giving her the power's. The other human being can't really be forced or pressurized to entertain you if she is not interested.
Your girlfriend is the one who's meant to get upset when you don't text her back. Not you, Right?
Would u say it could be a way of them hiding the fact they talking to some one else behind our back??
Right bro what I’m thinking right now I’m going insane
Yeah
L0cd 0ut that’s where we’re starting to not have the same taste in girls as we used cuz u know how they r
My girlfriend is shit at texting, but she likes phone calls. Thanks God I learned that. So if you are worried about her text, try to call her and you will have a better understanding
They have so many guys they're texting or talking to
So I'm struggling with this right now. If I'm with my girl in person its absolutely perfect. The thing is we live 2 hrs away so I only see her on weekends therefore have been relying on text to keep in contact. I have been over texting and acting clingy and I know this. I have a strong fear shes going to leave and the texting is making it worse. I have even been an asshole a couple times due to frustration and confusion as to why shes not messaging. My question is did I fuck this up to bad already? Today I am not going to message and am going to stay strong until she messages me. I hate this so much because I know if we were in person everyday we wouldn't have these problems at all. I hate this.
You are getting way too hung up on this girl dude. By all the texting and overpursuing you provably killed all of the attraction she had towards you. The best thing to do is to cut off all contact and start dating other girls.
me and my girl had an argument today, it wasn't major but we did both end up very irritated and angry. I told her I was gonna just go and sleep it off but she didnt reply and she didnt reply to my apology either. Hopefully when I wake up tomorrow things will be alright but... I dont know... I trust her with my life and we are both very romantic towards one another (over 1 year in a relationship, 4 years of being best friends) so I really hope this isn't anything major and we can go back to being happy together soon
how is it now?
but we are long distance. we have been dating for 8 months and we rarely text throughout the day. we call every night (or more accurately, I call her). I fear if i don’t make the effort to talk to her, she will just not talk to me. how do I get her to want to talk to me and to trust me?
If you feel like you're the one making all the effort and feel that it would fall apart if you wernt then you need to reevaluate the relationship. My advice to you would be to stop calling every night and cut communication a little bit and see what happens. If she makes no effort to contact or call you in your absence, then I'm afraid shes probably mentally checked out. I'm in a LDR myself and communication is absolutely vital. If you feel its one sided and she makes no effort then it probably true. I would go cold for a few days and see what she does.
Charles Lee Ray u talking bout Tiffany, or did u find a new girl?
Thank God I find u🙏🏾
This is happening to me right now...
Who says this stuff, tell you to do the same thing as she is doing to you, two wrongs don't make a right. I wait a week to see if she's still doing the same thing, if she is then I'll simply send her a text telling it, clearing she's lost interest and that I'm not going to wait around for her, so it's best we just go our own ways in life. I have a saying, "What you put into a relationship, is what you get out of it!" it's that simple folks.
Thnku Sir .....very helpful
Maybe she doesn’t love you anymore
Met a new girl it’s been 2 months .. lately she doesn’t respond to my texts .. I waited 2 days .. still no response .. I ended up blocking her .. I’ve moved on ..
Thanks bro this really helps I will try these solutions 👍😁
Dis guy !smh so powerful🙌🏽🔥🔥 mehn!!! Still waiting for her thou lol
Thanks
Thx for ur content.
Also depends if she’s on her period Or like mine in college
Alex Rangel, Lol🤣
thank you
Yea
I had this happen to me. We used to chat all throughout the days, and it just gradually got less frequent. Sometimes, I would not get a response at all. I then stopped sending her messages. A whole week went by! I asked her to call me and she did. A month later, she broke up with me.
I guess my question is, is this really the best advice? What evidence is there that this works?
1:10 And maybe she's NOT interested and the guy needs to move on and stop wasting time with this particular girl... Life is short...
Thank You so much i thougth my girlfriend hated me or brocke up with out saying any thing.
Best text if she doesn’t respond- LETS BREAKup
if not txt u bk shee find new men ..... 100% thanks for u vid
Yes, most probably she did
This ex of mine I put on no contact. She continues to reach out every few months. As soon as I actually try to talk to her she leaves me on read. What the hell.
What Iif she don’t come back
Till i was following Chris advice I was going good in my relationship, as soon I follow my emotions I fucked everything, he is right 🤝
I don't panic at all
You send text .. no response .. move on!
It’s that simple.
All of this is so true lol and it works very well
may as well accept its over its only going to get worse walk away from it
I am not freaking out at all
Who else came to this when your GF left you on read?
Brentin S. she left me on read for two days now
I hv learnt alot from you
No one should say "Sweet dreams" causes very bad dreams
I've noticed that I'm texting twice for every text that she sends and now her response is slowing more. Thanks for the advice. I think that now I'll respond with a question that demands a response from her but wait for her to text twice before I respond. Yes?
Dont overthink bro just wait for her to reach out to you amd then you respond just make sure she ia always the one that reaches out to you not the other way around😁
@MichelleObama isAman facts
too late
Just perfect advice.
well she found another guy. You go and find another girl. If she comes, well it doesnt matter
Just leave her ...
My girlfriend is not responding to my text my action is clear. I gonna break up with her!
She’s watching all my stories but not replying to me 😅😴
But what can guys like me in an Long distanse relationchip keep the relationchip going
The girl that I'm texting told me that she's not in the mood to talk anymore and idk what that means
What to do if my girlfriend is not texting me back
I was trying to hold back a call from me tonight because she stopped replying today, but I caved, shit, I want her to know I care don't I? Even if she can't answer?
Women only react with coolness. Be cool...calm...in control of your emotions. This is what will bring a woman back.
What if I already sent that nasty message
she just couple of min ago like my post and then unlike and then follow me on Instagram then unfollowed.what she wants to convey me
No! I just give him a piece of his own behaviour. And he doesn’t like it at all. I do respond but not long messages and not right away.
same with my gf everything was normal yesterday we were laughing and everything but today she started ignoring me, i tried my best when this happened in the past but this time i'm not gonna do anything until she responds back
all of your solutions are just mirroring what they do... that doesn’t help with everyone
I am a woman and dealing with a man. It is aggravating.