Your house is just stunning! I think it’s nice to have someone help you. Especially since you said it’s hard for your kids to warm up to people. It’s nice to know you can plan your outings knowing you are leaving your kids with someone they want to be around.
All these comments completely missing the point of Au Pairs - you're not hiring a professional nanny but hosting someone from a different country, that wants to experience live abroad and maybe learn a new language. Au Pairs are always young and often do this after school and before university. They can take college courses next to babysitting and travel around the country. It's a way to stay somewhere else for a while and earn a little bit of money - but by no means enough to be considered a full time job. I stayed in London for a year after school and loved my family and still have contact with them 5 years later. If you don't treat your Au Pair like family, you are doing it wrong.
I am so glad that your blessed wnough to have a.beautiful home a live in nanny and a guest house for her. The twins and your health are your biggest blessings but the mice house sure doesnt hurt. May God continue to bless you with all you have.
Your husband works through the week so when its weekend and he is home you go away so she can be the woman around him? Maybe rethink how you want to use that au pair and especially wheb you say "its more than a work relationship" well.. i would for sure not look at it like that especially since you may see her as a little sister to your husband she is just a beautiful girl that is around him all the time especially when youre gone. Surf during the week and give her the weekend of and put boundaries girl.. be smart
right i was kinda thinking the same thing..like it doesn’t seem like she works besides uploading videos. so why can’t she have a ‘self care’ day during the week, then on the weekends spend time with her entire family and give her employee time off? instead she chooses to pick a day to be alone, when her entire family is together, and leave her extremely pretty live-in employee to take care of her kids with her husband, on one of his only days off to spend time with the kids? lol. i don’t get it?? wouldn’t you want to spend sundays with your whole family being together?
Please please set boundaries and do not treat her like a sister. You are her boss. If you ignore that aspect of the relationship she will feel taken advantage of eventually. I’m speaking from experience. This is not to hate because you seem very nice but please don’t forget to have clear communication as essentially she is working for you and not part of the family. She needs her space too.
No this is very cruel of you! Treat her like family because she will love your kids and one day like another lady wrote her kids took care of her host parents in their elderly age. Please we’ve also had horrible experiences with host families not just the au pairs.
I don’t agree with that if you bring someone in your home to take care of your children, you should treat them like family!!! This young lady can easily get a job in another home where she is treated well!! Nobody should be treating anybody like they are above them that’s where you’re wrong!! She is there to help you be grateful!! And there’s no need to be on some power trip obviously this lady isn’t insecure as you are!!
Self care & stress free time to regroup for moms & wives in this hectic busy times is needed to stay in touch with your self growth & priority set aside time you need is healthy & good. More moms could use this routine for moms to get self fufillment aside from being wife and Mom to a womans basic natural needs today as well !!! Good for you and your wise 🦉 established self needs & care 💅😘 🌺
It makes my stomach flip a bit, when an employer refers to you as family, its a huge red flag. Its nice that youre comfortable with her, and shes good at her job is one thing- but she is not family. She is your employee. 😔 I really hope youre paying her a living wage, and giving her normal working hours and PRIVACY
The au pair arrangement is different. It's for work also, but it's mostly for cultural experience. They re supposed to be a part of the family and learn the culture and language. That was the initial idea at least, before people started taking advantage of the sysyem.
I do understand where you’re coming from with this. Especially with blurring lines and having boundaries. However au pairs are intended to integrate into the families life and culture, it’s considered a more personal approach to a nanny for example.
I think husband is encouraging her to not just be home all the time or run down always having the kids . He wants his wife to remain youthful & active. Although I do agree that maybe she should be with husband on weekends and aupair gone when he is home. She can be active during the week.
Aupair gone when he is home? Y’all have some jealousy issues. The au pair LIVES there. What is she supposed to do, tiptoe around the husband at her own house because she might tempt him? What a joke dude. She’s just a young girl. Leave her alone to do her job and enjoy byron bay.
@user-lt1jd1ye3v has nothing to do with jealousy - my comment was from the video where she said her husband is gone during the week amd home on weekends , so I was just saying if he ia going during the weekaube it should mainly be family time during the weekend. And the au pair should give some space. If course that is theor choice . Not once did insinuate anything else. That's you being captain save a youtuber.
@@user-lt1jd1ye3v no dumbass not jealousy . Since you keep bringing it up maybe 🤔 your the one who has issues. Don’t put words or actions into others when you don’t clearly have experience or any common sense. Now go troll someone else and talk shit . Don’t start it here !
Maybe bc she’s qualified & a person can’t help the way they were born.. Her being beautiful & blonde was not a choice & should not keep her from being able to do a job… Some of y’all are ridiculously jealous, insecure & rude.
specially when she said that, he encourages her to go out on Sundays when he’s there so she can get out and do some thing that sounds suss but yeah, I wouldn’t trust that girl or him honestly.
I think men should realize they're actually weak so they can run from any sight of temptation. Their wives should also know this and avoid setting themselves up for a big blow.
@@TheMirmir225honestly. 😵💫 People in other countries have at home helps or nanny’s. If you’re marriage isn’t secure enough for you to feel you can bring another woman in, then don’t and if you just don’t feel secure having another woman in your home then again..don’t. I would hope your husband would be able to communicate with you enough to tell you if something were to happen and that you would communicate with your children as well to help elevate issues. Not everyone is out to get you, some people just want to make a living.
Yes she's setting the scene for him to cheat and her to get a lucrative divorce settlement cause why else the hell do you need an au pair when you don't have a job.
Good for you, Katy! Theres s whole lot of jealousy going on in this comment section. Ignore the haters. Im sure that if a good deal of them had the $$ to live your lifestyle, theyd be doing all the same. As far as self care, if we dont take care of ourselves, we cant care for others as well as we can when we do take care of ourselves. Nothing wrong with anything youre doing! 👍😊
God this comes off as incredibly bratty. You have no job, your husband works hard to support you and your family. You now hired someone to cook, clean and raise your children. Hopefully all this “me time” you seek is worth ultimately feeling very alone and unneeded.
What a waste to have an au pair called Elsa when your kids are boys ❄️👸 Think of all the girls that would love to have Elsa visit 😂 joking of course 😉 you look like a wonderful family and au pair and a great match 😊😊
So what is it that you do, that you need help raising your two little kids that all they do is play. I will never understand mothers who does not raise their own kids
Sallyvalley do you have Kids Probably not. The audacity of some people they got the Money and the Space to hire help so let them. Just to give you an Reality Check if you have got Kids you dont have Time for yourself unless they sleep or watch tv. It’s always mum look mom why mom can I … mom my brother stole my toy. It is not physically exhausting but mentally. And her man is away for work so she is doing 2 24 hour jobs housewife and mother.
@@Vampiremo92😂 then why become a mom? If you can’t manage to look at what your kids made or are doing then why bother being a mom? This whole self care stuff is outrageous. Yes certain steps, I understand, maybe taking care of skin maybe extra sleep. But other than that why?
@@aishabegum8966 Wow! I do not envy all of the karma that you just called down on yourself with that comment! Karma means that what you do not understand, you will by becoming it. So one day, the exact situation that you have just described and can not understand WILL HAPPEN to you in one form or another. Enjoy working out those life lessons. Hopefully it will teach you to use that thing above your neck, it's called a brain
@@litebrite8993 Aisha is Muslim. Most likely from a South Asian background. This self care business is a cultural thing and western women seem to really focus on their me time.
You ladies have not learnt from Au pairs, did u read the news of the auir pair in francs sleeping with the husband and when she tried to black mail them they killed her most young Au pair or help have bad intentions I would rather employ an older lady to assist me and trust me am also around the Au pairs age
What a ridiculous comment, I have twins that are 18 Months old and two teenagers. It's incredibly hard work and obviously this lady does have family there or friends. I am the same and I would love a little bit of help, my partner works to provide so it's literally full time mum, women can lose themselves and if a person still has something for themselves you are happier, therefore happy mum, happy wife and enjoy life. Everyone needs help she is a fantastic mum The boys are so happy. I get really down and feel like I don't get the quality time I wish I had with my children because I am so tired just trying to be a mum, run a house. So I fully support this woman. Life should be happy and not jealous of people who can live this way
@@HelenSheridan-m6v You are 100% right on! And the only people disagreeing with you are those that don't have kids and they should just stay silent because their opinions are meaningless
Please just dont even listen to these haters you go live life teach your sons that you ar a cool mum and they know you are there for them. I would love your type of living i have twins and its hard work. My mums passed away family live away to take all the help you get and enjoy life ❤
This is totally not realistic for a mother. I’m rich and I can have whatever I want and this is still not realistic. I guess if u had a nanny and got the nanny to raise ur children then yes it would be possible but me personally I wouldn’t be able to leave my Children with someone else to raise them
@@cheryletaimalie6012 not everyone is seeking to get a green card out of it! You’re so ignorant. I was an aupair and came to my country, Infact I could not wait to get back home. I entered the program for travel. When I was done exploring the states, I was happy to head back home to Germany where I have a waaaay better life than a lot of the people in the states. Stop judging people, not everyone thinks the US is the end all be all.
Have know idea why this popped up...but honestly the laziness in not wanting to take care of your own children is real...you won't love the aupair so much when she sleeps with your husband because she is showing she's a better wife and mother than you...
🤷🏻♀️WOW, TERRIBLE MOTHER, NEVER WOULD I SAY....."I HAVE MY MORNINGS"......IN OTHER WORDS YOUR CHILDREN ARE ON THE WAY!! WOW, DONT HAVE KIDS NO MORE, IMAGINE IF YOUR KIDDOS HEAR THIS WHEN THEY GROW UP??? THESE KIDS WITHOUT THE PARENTS, WILL THROW U IN A NURSERY TOO, SO THEY CAN HAVE THEIR OWN FUN DAYS TOO WITHOUT U GUYS, WHAT U SOW.....U WILL REAP! 😉👍🏻
Well I for one am not jealous of this woman. I wouldn’t want anyone else raising my kids except me and my spouse. And I am not taken in by all the stuff she has….big homes mean absolutely nothing to me. So not everyone here commenting something that isn’t praising this woman isn’t jealous.
I’m a proud SAHM and cherished the time I had with my babies. I enjoyed watching and participating in each of their milestones - it would have broken my heart not to be there for that. It also would’ve broken me to not be there when they needed me whether physically ill or emotionally struggling with “whatever”. Do I think moms need a break every now and then? Absolutely. An hour here, an hour there perhaps monthly. You can do self care after they go to bed at night or during naps. You can also accomplish this when dad takes them for a while, or Grandma, or Auntie, etc. I’m not quite sure why you’d need someone to watch your child several times a week when you’re a SAHM 🤔 Maybe get help with time management? Perhaps look into help with teaching your children boundaries and/or learning age appropriate self sufficiency? Browsing through your channel I see video after video of your boys making messes on purpose and behaving poorly with you laughing instead of teaching them what’s acceptable - which may be partly why you feel you need a daily break. If you teach your children right from wrong and what is acceptable behavior you’ll end up enjoying being around them regardless their age. Your children are only small for a handful of years. Don’t miss out on it by delegating another person to be at their call when they need something 😞
She can't be there 24/7 calm down. It's nice to have a break and come back refreshed to have good quality of time people need to chill. It's also good for the kids too so they have time to experience different things and be excited to tell her what they have been up too
So how do single moms , & divorced moms & moms whose husbands have died follow your life instead of living based on their own needs cause we can't all be the exact same as your life style. Some moms go back to work out side the home & need help too . There's not 🚫 one set way to raise children , especially based on your trying to guilt other women today into following your life ,when other women have their own mental health needs & the end result is a just fine , living for their own family needs that's a extra challenge with twins, ok. 👀!!
Most of you are soooo jealous its funny lol. Please realize if we were this rich, we would be doing the exact same things! Its just how it works. Two different worlds.
As an architect, I follow her for their house 🤣 I want to discover more détails about it
Same!
Your house is just stunning! I think it’s nice to have someone help you. Especially since you said it’s hard for your kids to warm up to people. It’s nice to know you can plan your outings knowing you are leaving your kids with someone they want to be around.
House Tour when?!!!
All these comments completely missing the point of Au Pairs - you're not hiring a professional nanny but hosting someone from a different country, that wants to experience live abroad and maybe learn a new language. Au Pairs are always young and often do this after school and before university. They can take college courses next to babysitting and travel around the country. It's a way to stay somewhere else for a while and earn a little bit of money - but by no means enough to be considered a full time job. I stayed in London for a year after school and loved my family and still have contact with them 5 years later. If you don't treat your Au Pair like family, you are doing it wrong.
Yall making a life time movie out of this woman’s life. RE-LAX. 😂
What a great home!
Ok but I need that espresso machine! Lol😍 God bless
I am so excited for u and ur family!! Your house is gorgeous!! 100% my taste in a home!
I am so glad that your blessed wnough to have a.beautiful home a live in nanny and a guest house for her. The twins and your health are your biggest blessings but the mice house sure doesnt hurt. May God continue to bless you with all you have.
Your husband works through the week so when its weekend and he is home you go away so she can be the woman around him? Maybe rethink how you want to use that au pair and especially wheb you say "its more than a work relationship" well.. i would for sure not look at it like that especially since you may see her as a little sister to your husband she is just a beautiful girl that is around him all the time especially when youre gone. Surf during the week and give her the weekend of and put boundaries girl.. be smart
The hand that rocks the cradle.....
Gwen Stefani
Etc etc
right i was kinda thinking the same thing..like it doesn’t seem like she works besides uploading videos. so why can’t she have a ‘self care’ day during the week, then on the weekends spend time with her entire family and give her employee time off?
instead she chooses to pick a day to be alone, when her entire family is together, and leave her extremely pretty live-in employee to take care of her kids with her husband, on one of his only days off to spend time with the kids? lol. i don’t get it?? wouldn’t you want to spend sundays with your whole family being together?
@@crn1318 oh wait in just dawned on me....maybe she wants her husband to cheat so she can catch him red handed and divorce and take all his money.
@@SimplySoumaya1711 hahaha, i mean that’s one way to get a good chunk of money out of a divorce
Please please set boundaries and do not treat her like a sister. You are her boss. If you ignore that aspect of the relationship she will feel taken advantage of eventually. I’m speaking from experience. This is not to hate because you seem very nice but please don’t forget to have clear communication as essentially she is working for you and not part of the family. She needs her space too.
Right especially if she's young and pretty...watch and pray
@@SimplySoumaya1711yep, I've watched too many of those lifetime movies😂😂😂😂
No this is very cruel of you! Treat her like family because she will love your kids and one day like another lady wrote her kids took care of her host parents in their elderly age. Please we’ve also had horrible experiences with host families not just the au pairs.
Ofcourse there will be boundaries but affection is good, as long as they are not expecting her to be working outside her working hours
I don’t agree with that if you bring someone in your home to take care of your children, you should treat them like family!!! This young lady can easily get a job in another home where she is treated well!! Nobody should be treating anybody like they are above them that’s where you’re wrong!! She is there to help you be grateful!! And there’s no need to be on some power trip obviously this lady isn’t insecure as you are!!
That’s so nice to have someone help you. Love your bathroom do you mind sharing your wall tiles?thanks!
Wow! What a beautiful home!! Omg!
I love this for you ! Forget the haters !
Self care & stress free time to regroup for moms & wives in this hectic busy times is needed to stay in touch with your self growth & priority set aside time you need is healthy & good. More moms could use this routine for moms to get self fufillment aside from being wife and Mom to a womans basic natural needs today as well !!!
Good for you and your wise 🦉 established self needs & care 💅😘 🌺
Your home is beautiful.
It makes my stomach flip a bit, when an employer refers to you as family, its a huge red flag. Its nice that youre comfortable with her, and shes good at her job is one thing- but she is not family. She is your employee. 😔 I really hope youre paying her a living wage, and giving her normal working hours and PRIVACY
I’ve heard things along those lines and it really made me think 🤔 good point.
The au pair arrangement is different. It's for work also, but it's mostly for cultural experience. They re supposed to be a part of the family and learn the culture and language.
That was the initial idea at least, before people started taking advantage of the sysyem.
I do understand where you’re coming from with this. Especially with blurring lines and having boundaries. However au pairs are intended to integrate into the families life and culture, it’s considered a more personal approach to a nanny for example.
Check out the au Pair's living situation. It's a concrete box with no HVAC, and no windows. It's atrocious.
I think husband is encouraging her to not just be home all the time or run down always having the kids . He wants his wife to remain youthful & active. Although I do agree that maybe she should be with husband on weekends and aupair gone when he is home. She can be active during the week.
Well said and that is true with alot of wisdom, I completely agree. You have to have boundaries.
Aupair gone when he is home? Y’all have some jealousy issues. The au pair LIVES there. What is she supposed to do, tiptoe around the husband at her own house because she might tempt him? What a joke dude. She’s just a young girl. Leave her alone to do her job and enjoy byron bay.
@user-lt1jd1ye3v has nothing to do with jealousy - my comment was from the video where she said her husband is gone during the week amd home on weekends , so I was just saying if he ia going during the weekaube it should mainly be family time during the weekend. And the au pair should give some space. If course that is theor choice . Not once did insinuate anything else. That's you being captain save a youtuber.
@@user-lt1jd1ye3v no dumbass not jealousy . Since you keep bringing it up maybe 🤔 your the one who has issues. Don’t put words or actions into others when you don’t clearly have experience or any common sense. Now go troll someone else and talk shit . Don’t start it here !
your home is beautiful
Where is this awesome unitard from??
Can you make house tour video. I think it is a U shape design. If you already done it pls share link.
Awww your house is soo beautiful ❤
Omg is that a black bathing suit or one piece? I love it
Right! I need to know where it's from!
Looks like the Rip Curl Mirage Ultimate Short Jane Wetsuit 😊
I can't even imagine living a life as nice and pampered like yours. How much money do you have to spend to have it?
Why would you get such a beautiful young blonde nanny
Because she’s not jealous and crazy?
Maybe bc she’s qualified & a person can’t help the way they were born..
Her being beautiful & blonde was not a choice & should not keep her from being able to do a job…
Some of y’all are ridiculously jealous, insecure & rude.
Your house is like a motel. What did you like about it
👏🏾😊👌🏾happy days 🌤️
"Fun things for me"..lol....it doesn't go like that!
Careful with Elsa around that husband of yours. Many of us wholeheartedly 100% "trusted" or husbands also. It happens to the best of us. Js...
specially when she said that, he encourages her to go out on Sundays when he’s there so she can get out and do some thing that sounds suss but yeah, I wouldn’t trust that girl or him honestly.
The comment I just came to look for😂😂. You got that right!
I don't know about Elsa but my ex nanny did this to me. Unfortunately, the now ex husband bit the bait.
I think men should realize they're actually weak so they can run from any sight of temptation. Their wives should also know this and avoid setting themselves up for a big blow.
With husband that show luxury life he can provide. The young beautiful au pair live together under one roof. We know how this situation will end.
I would not invite another woman into my home and family. Trouble.
Facts!!!
Right!!!!!!!!!!!!
And she looks like a model too
if your marriage was strong and you weren’t insecure then you would ..and there wouldn’t be issues
@@TheMirmir225honestly. 😵💫 People in other countries have at home helps or nanny’s. If you’re marriage isn’t secure enough for you to feel you can bring another woman in, then don’t and if you just don’t feel secure having another woman in your home then again..don’t. I would hope your husband would be able to communicate with you enough to tell you if something were to happen and that you would communicate with your children as well to help elevate issues. Not everyone is out to get you, some people just want to make a living.
well yea of course you're exhausted after having someone else raise your twins...sure take a Sunday off
Happy for you
Ask your mother's and father's opinion for this.Are you preparing your divorce?
Yes she's setting the scene for him to cheat and her to get a lucrative divorce settlement cause why else the hell do you need an au pair when you don't have a job.
Good for you, Katy! Theres s whole lot of jealousy going on in this comment section. Ignore the haters. Im sure that if a good deal of them had the $$ to live your lifestyle, theyd be doing all the same. As far as self care, if we dont take care of ourselves, we cant care for others as well as we can when we do take care of ourselves. Nothing wrong with anything youre doing! 👍😊
Hello where did you get the black jumpsuit from? 😍
Looks like the Rip Curl Mirage Ultimate Short Jane Wetsuit. It won’t allow me to add a link so just Google the name
God this comes off as incredibly bratty. You have no job, your husband works hard to support you and your family. You now hired someone to cook, clean and raise your children. Hopefully all this “me time” you seek is worth ultimately feeling very alone and unneeded.
Tell me you dont have a good man or money without telling me 😂😂😂😂 jealous mucb 😂😂
What a waste to have an au pair called Elsa when your kids are boys ❄️👸 Think of all the girls that would love to have Elsa visit 😂 joking of course 😉 you look like a wonderful family and au pair and a great match 😊😊
Haha, husband is encouraging her to leave on Sundays. I wonder why? He gets alone time with the hot nanny
Bruh right🤦🏽♀️
that was my thought 😂
Is “aupair” just your version of a nanny?
I love your house
Bet your husband loves her already!
So what is it that you do, that you need help raising your two little kids that all they do is play. I will never understand mothers who does not raise their own kids
Self-care. Apparently it's exhausting.
Sallyvalley do you have Kids Probably not. The audacity of some people they got the Money and the Space to hire help so let them. Just to give you an Reality Check if you have got Kids you dont have Time for yourself unless they sleep or watch tv. It’s always mum look mom why mom can I … mom my brother stole my toy. It is not physically exhausting but mentally. And her man is away for work so she is doing 2 24 hour jobs housewife and mother.
@@Vampiremo92😂 then why become a mom? If you can’t manage to look at what your kids made or are doing then why bother being a mom? This whole self care stuff is outrageous.
Yes certain steps, I understand, maybe taking care of skin maybe extra sleep. But other than that why?
@@aishabegum8966 Wow! I do not envy all of the karma that you just called down on yourself with that comment! Karma means that what you do not understand, you will by becoming it. So one day, the exact situation that you have just described and can not understand WILL HAPPEN to you in one form or another. Enjoy working out those life lessons. Hopefully it will teach you to use that thing above your neck, it's called a brain
@@litebrite8993 Aisha is Muslim. Most likely from a South Asian background. This self care business is a cultural thing and western women seem to really focus on their me time.
Thinking how she move the camera for every take 🙄 like... everything is so fake..posing .etc..jezz😂
Alsa ? Is her name Alsa ? From which country is this name ?
You ladies have not learnt from Au pairs, did u read the news of the auir pair in francs sleeping with the husband and when she tried to black mail them they killed her most young Au pair or help have bad intentions I would rather employ an older lady to assist me and trust me am also around the Au pairs age
So you need another woman to raise your kids so you can go out and make friends? That’s asking for trouble. Raise your own kids.
What a ridiculous comment, I have twins that are 18 Months old and two teenagers. It's incredibly hard work and obviously this lady does have family there or friends. I am the same and I would love a little bit of help, my partner works to provide so it's literally full time mum, women can lose themselves and if a person still has something for themselves you are happier, therefore happy mum, happy wife and enjoy life. Everyone needs help she is a fantastic mum The boys are so happy. I get really down and feel like I don't get the quality time I wish I had with my children because I am so tired just trying to be a mum, run a house. So I fully support this woman. Life should be happy and not jealous of people who can live this way
Chill.
@@HelenSheridan-m6v You are 100% right on! And the only people disagreeing with you are those that don't have kids and they should just stay silent because their opinions are meaningless
@@OnalennaMogapi Take your own advice
Elsa ❤
Please just dont even listen to these haters you go live life teach your sons that you ar a cool mum and they know you are there for them. I would love your type of living i have twins and its hard work. My mums passed away family live away to take all the help you get and enjoy life ❤
Omg. U are so naive
Uh, yeah. The au pair is way cuter than her. Yikes.
This is totally not realistic for a mother. I’m rich and I can have whatever I want and this is still not realistic. I guess if u had a nanny and got the nanny to raise ur children then yes it would be possible but me personally I wouldn’t be able to leave my
Children with someone else to raise them
I am 22 years old.... I reside in Zimbabwe, and very interested in Au-pair programs
Google it. She wouldn’t be able to tell you how to do it because she isn’t an Au-Pair.
For what a green card
You're very silly and narrow minded.@@cheryletaimalie6012
@@cheryletaimalie6012 not everyone is seeking to get a green card out of it! You’re so ignorant. I was an aupair and came to my country, Infact I could not wait to get back home. I entered the program for travel. When I was done exploring the states, I was happy to head back home to Germany where I have a waaaay better life than a lot of the people in the states. Stop judging people, not everyone thinks the US is the end all be all.
@@LuzayePetersen bull 💩
Oh to be rich
Hie...... I also want to do venture in Au-pair .... How do I start.....
Have know idea why this popped up...but honestly the laziness in not wanting to take care of your own children is real...you won't love the aupair so much when she sleeps with your husband because she is showing she's a better wife and mother than you...
🤷🏻♀️WOW, TERRIBLE MOTHER, NEVER WOULD I SAY....."I HAVE MY MORNINGS"......IN OTHER WORDS YOUR CHILDREN ARE ON THE WAY!! WOW, DONT HAVE KIDS NO MORE, IMAGINE IF YOUR KIDDOS HEAR THIS WHEN THEY GROW UP??? THESE KIDS WITHOUT THE PARENTS, WILL THROW U IN A NURSERY TOO, SO THEY CAN HAVE THEIR OWN FUN DAYS TOO WITHOUT U GUYS, WHAT U SOW.....U WILL REAP! 😉👍🏻
You betta let her join u & hubby or he will be with her when u not around
I feel like this channel is quite sickening.
Jesus on a stick
This is SO cringe worthy
Well I for one am not jealous of this woman. I wouldn’t want anyone else raising my kids except me and my spouse. And I am not taken in by all the stuff she has….big homes mean absolutely nothing to me. So not everyone here commenting something that isn’t praising this woman isn’t jealous.
I’m a proud SAHM and cherished the time I had with my babies. I enjoyed watching and participating in each of their milestones - it would have broken my heart not to be there for that. It also would’ve broken me to not be there when they needed me whether physically ill or emotionally struggling with “whatever”. Do I think moms need a break every now and then? Absolutely. An hour here, an hour there perhaps monthly. You can do self care after they go to bed at night or during naps. You can also accomplish this when dad takes them for a while, or Grandma, or Auntie, etc. I’m not quite sure why you’d need someone to watch your child several times a week when you’re a SAHM 🤔 Maybe get help with time management? Perhaps look into help with teaching your children boundaries and/or learning age appropriate self sufficiency? Browsing through your channel I see video after video of your boys making messes on purpose and behaving poorly with you laughing instead of teaching them what’s acceptable - which may be partly why you feel you need a daily break. If you teach your children right from wrong and what is acceptable behavior you’ll end up enjoying being around them regardless their age. Your children are only small for a handful of years. Don’t miss out on it by delegating another person to be at their call when they need something 😞
Omg it’s only a couple of hours, she’s still present in their life
She can't be there 24/7 calm down. It's nice to have a break and come back refreshed to have good quality of time people need to chill. It's also good for the kids too so they have time to experience different things and be excited to tell her what they have been up too
Thank you for your comment. Very good and mindful comment ❤
@@userabcdef81 thank you
So how do single moms , & divorced moms & moms whose husbands have died follow your life instead of living based on their own needs cause we can't all be the exact same as your life style.
Some moms go back to work out side the home & need help too . There's not 🚫 one set way to raise children , especially based on your trying to guilt other women today into following your life ,when other women have their own mental health needs & the end result is a just fine , living for their own family needs that's a extra challenge with twins, ok. 👀!!
Most of you are soooo jealous its funny lol. Please realize if we were this rich, we would be doing the exact same things! Its just how it works. Two different worlds.
My parents are wealthy and retired they travel alot and raised my sisters and I together. No au pair.