Children Born Out Of Wedlock | Shaykh Abu Eesa
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I’m an illegitimate child. It has bothered me my whole life. I feel we suffer so much when our parents aren’t responsible and put this negative connotation above our heads even before we are born. This makes it feel like it’s our fault even though we had no part in it.
Yea it's not your fault lol it's your parents
May Allah bless you, this is certainly a mighty test and is definitely not your fault. JazakhAllah Khair
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qjtvaddict if you are Muslim, you should certainly know better than to make a comment like that joking about such matters and making stereotypes.
As a woman I would never put that burden on my child, I blame the women who knowingly get pregnant with married men …… you place this lifelong burden on the child one which no matter what will always be on their head. I’m sorry you have that on your head …. The best you can do is break the cycle with your own children and live an exemplary life one that shows despite your start you’ve thrived
A child born out of wedlock has no inheritance yet when the child grows up to be a worthy rich person, that same family that denies him of his inheritance will help him spend his money . The child's hard earn money could be us to save the life of his parents ? The poor innocent child . Its hurts
😞😞😞
Absent fathers and selfish mother's don't know the pain they cause their children.
I'm undergoing countless therapy since March. I'm struggling.
May Allah make it easy for you and increase your rank in jannah ❤
I had my daughter out of wedlock but gave her, her fathers last name, had him put on the birth certificate, and then married him.
I was a agnostic/atheist but after having her and holding her in my arms my entire perspective changed and became of her I am on a journey to find god, I have done everything I can think of to make it right but I still feel bad.
Just keep making a dua for yourself and for your child. And May Allah swt accept your dua. In your case, you were not a Muslim during that time, and since you came to Islam, you are under the Sharia law now, but you were not previously. Your past sins will be forgiven InshaAllah
Bastard children fall easy to the crooked side spiritual fact.
I hope not islam
May you find your way to a true religion.
@@yuliayane6928may you become Muslim
It's so painful to know that you have nothing on earth but only amother imagine 💔 😢😢its a burden to us once you know
Yes it is, one of the reason why this law was put in place is to stop Zina, because when you take a moment to think that if you had a child out of wedlock that child is going to suffer then you will stop doing that action.
I believe that Allah the most merciful forgives all sin no matter how big or small, so I don’t believe people should worry about what some self righteous people say condemning other people as though their destiny and Jenna is guaranteed for them. The main thing is to learn from your mistake and let that lesson draw you closer to your creator.
very inspirational..
Non sense...
So you shouldn't worry about what Allah and his messenger already established some people are gonna follow their imams right into the hellfire it's not permissable to innovate in the deen
My ex promised my parents that he’d marry me and take care of me, then got me pregnant & left me just because he wanted to go explore other women. It was devastating. I am now a single mom caring my daughter but I’m also engaged to a Muslim man for marriage. I’m new to learning about Islam.
Mashallah barakllah, as for your ex surely Allah will punish him severely for ruining two lives. Keep your head high 😅
This WAS the reality back in the day, during the time of the sahabah and the prophets time this was a norm. The rule was put in as a preventative measure.
If the biological father is not technically considered a "father", then what about the biological mother? It takes two to tango. A child is created by both man and woman. So why is the burden put on the woman and the child, and the man gets off scot free? The way to discourage such illegitimate acts is to make people responsible for their actions.
Shariah law let's men go Scott free .In US the man pays approximately 20 percent of his income for each child .
Because religious leaders are sexist. I hate throwing that word out but it it's true.
This life is a test and in the judgement day everyone will their rights even "Bastard child".
The mother still mother but "the biological" father is not the father and the child is innocent and his is their sins
Getting off? You way of life really made you freaks that you see parenthood a punishment, the ruling was made actually to punish the fornicating father by taking away his claim to the child, read about the first time the prophet ruled in the matter the two man were fighting for the child not wanting to get read of him.
@@serenesrn3827 can you please explain a little bit about your claim "Shariah law lets men Scott free" ?
Incredibly good and respectable explanation for a very difficult topic. JazakhAllah Khair
Absolutely not the deen is not based upon opinion it's based upon Quran and SUNNAH , i
I have a friend in this situation the answer she was given if the male that impregnated marries her before the 120 days of the fetus having a soul is some how makes this halal. Apparently they call this a pregnant marriage but the male has asked her to abort the fetus but she refuses to do so because it just committing another sin on top or another bad sin
Amazing explanation
The prophet was pretty straight forward…. If we were suppose to change the deen according to time Allah would have not told us the prophet protected the deen for us and to follow.
The poor innocent child😪💔
I am currently pregnant with an illigitimate child(please don't judge)... I found out after the father got married to other woman due to arrange marriage. I told the father but he just got mad. And still ignoring me.
Just put him child support . Enjoy your single life .Your home your rules and the man will pay for the child he created .
@@serenesrn3827 no in Islam it's not allowed
I’m making dua for you sis, Allah forgives and never doubt his forgiveness. Stay firm 🤲🏾
Repent to Allah, May He forgive you.
your child will be a bastard but it is obligation to raise the child and teach them the Deen. DO NOT put the child in an orphanage!
@@serenesrn3827 take maintenance from the father of the child. He is responsible for the baby's upbringing. Don't just let him go
'I know you're thinking 'you dont understand this''...but its because it makes no sense. Religious people are always scrambling to make new interpretations of their religious teachings, based on the the trends of society. If you're constantly trying to put a round peg through a square hole, perhaps the round peg wasnt fit for purpose in the first place.
True man
Why Muslim specifically females all of sudden begin to worry about children born out of wedlock. 🤨
A scholar can't change the deen , that would be worshipping them by following them in what Allah swt has made forbidden
This is very subtle and sophisticated
U do not give an example comparing (the reasons) what the ulamaks think we should do, to things that the prophet did.
I tried to explain to my freinds ( I’m not even Muslim mind you! Grew up Christian with muslim aunties...I’m african) that children don’t always get the last name of the “father” If the parents aren’t married. It’s an exception. It’s play play. And that’s only for the kids sake. They think I’m crazy 😂
In Texas married or not the child takes the fathers last name especially if paternity is legally established .Many women like their children taking their last name and parents can agree on that .
This is a man made law and has nothing to do with the Qur'an.
Why is it a difficult one? It’s in Quran, it’s explained.
What if a biological child doesn't want any of the inheritance? Is it allowed in Islam?
Beautifully explained
Assalamy alaykum everyone i have a question if someone does zina at an early age (14) if the child is kept is it haram like does everything it do become haram i reslly wanna know (i promise its not me) please help me im literally crying and inexperienced to tel the person what to do 💔💔
know that the child is completely innocent of sin, and the mother should repent her sin and do the best she can to raise the child. may allah help her in this difficult situation, accept her repentance, and guide her on the right path inshallah
People dont speak with knowledge or wisdom there is no creature decreed life by Allah Almighty that he does not provide for . All the people talking about thr pooe child just fear Allah Almighty he can provide for that child better than any mother ir father and if he decrees that childs guidance the child cannot go astray and if he decrees otherwise then Allah Almighty knows better than all .
How does this apply in cases of rape?
In that case it's no fornication, so both her and her child are not to blame
@@XODUSYNOGA I doubt the child would take the name of the father & father will probably pay a fee for the harm he caused the lady - mahr
Oke and when you take an orphan ?? Be honest the children have the right
No the child doesn't have right of inheritance
No wonder he is a part of the group of omar Suleiman
The child of fornication does not belong legimatly to the father this can causes problems with future halal marriages these fathers put their illegal children before his legal wife and legal children these children get preferences as the father boast of his children .
It is frustrating my halal marriage my husband has 2 children of fornication since he accepted islam and they both carry his name. His complete focus is on them lived beside his child's mother to father the child , the bond has grown s close with them that he is devastated because he got marred to me and moved away, he can't get use to marriage bcuz he wants to be close to his children of fornication
@@speakthetruth54 but these children get to spent way less time with their father, so don’t you think it’s fair for their sake?
@@speakthetruth54 They are still his children though.. Imagine from the child's perspective what it would be like to have a Father who has no interest in your existence and takes no responsibility for the role he had in bringing you into this world. That doesn't mean of course that it's not frustrating for you but a Father's responsibility to his children never goes away
@@speakthetruth54 what a stupid idea father is a father ,
Yes he has to be held responsible for all children he created .There is no pick n choose .If he does not want to create a pregnancy he needs to be celibate or use a condom .
I love this
I like this..we need new fiqh.
may Allah guide you and this beard man and all of us
@@knutdenratte2171 Ameen
You are sick
There's nothing like new fiqh, the Deen belongs to Allah , understanding is that of the Salaf that we're supposed to be on , Fear Allah ...stop watering down the religion