Let's Talk. (An Update on iilluminaughtii drama)

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @OzMediaOfficial
    @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +7345

    This is not a position I ever wanted to be in. Hopefully this explains where I've been, and I hope you all can understand why I've taken this route, and I hope I haven't disappointed you all. The video will still be produced, but for now, I need to return to regular content.
    Here's the go fund me if you choose to further support me. You can also directly support me by watching my videos, or becoming a member. Thank you all again, my gratitude will probably never be properly expressed.
    www.gofundme.com/f/oz-media-legal-fees-and-housing-fund

    • @lololordjr
      @lololordjr Год назад +36

      Ouch

    • @_bit_
      @_bit_ Год назад +64

      Stay safe dude

    • @AngelicGuardian36905
      @AngelicGuardian36905 Год назад +62

      I know you're struggling but stay strong, you can get through this and please know that we are all behind you

    • @AttacusPNG
      @AttacusPNG Год назад +59

      You haven’t disappointed at all this is a very smart decision and probably the best decision in your situation, good luck

    • @matedino3700
      @matedino3700 Год назад +15

      Geez man...how could you let her do something like this?? I realy hope ewerything ends on a happy end

  • @BitterSimplicity
    @BitterSimplicity Год назад +8945

    As a watcher of three years and just a fellow human being, I want to say this: Honey, I am so, so sorry for what that woman is putting you through. She took advantage of you financially, emotionally, socially, and romantically. It was calculated and monstrous. I'm a fair chunk older than you and recently went through something similar, though not nearly to these extremes. Gaslighting is a nasty business; it is not a crime to be naive, but it is pure evil to take advantage of that naivete for control and personal gain. What she did and is doing is evil. It is NOT your fault, and I am so fucking proud of you for recognizing your worth and fighting back. Keep fighting, and keep doing what you love.

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +2326

      If I had the right words, I would properly thank you. But please know that I cannot begin to state just how much the means to me. Thank you.

    • @gracegaylord9025
      @gracegaylord9025 Год назад +390

      Christ, you are an angel. I also hope to have the same level of financial stability you have one of these days ❤

    • @OnTheGrind42086
      @OnTheGrind42086 Год назад +173

      What a MF beautiful thing right here. ❤

    • @Marshie_Gum
      @Marshie_Gum Год назад +82

      You are so much more then an angel!

    • @tylercoon1791
      @tylercoon1791 Год назад +59

      >A fellow human being
      So you say

  • @blackfrost9011
    @blackfrost9011 Год назад +1932

    As a 26 year old, Blair’s apparent pattern of tricking brand new adults with with minimal financial experience, into contracts they don’t fully understand is incredibly gross. When I was in my early 20ies I certainly would not have been able to realize what she was doing. And I reckon most people wouldn’t at that age. Now that we know she’s used the same tactic at least twice, it’s hard to imagine that this isn’t an intentional move on her part.
    You’ll get through this OZ. Keep your head up.

    • @Abcity92
      @Abcity92 Год назад +54

      She rants on how 19 or young 20 year olds are immature and she wouldn't want to associate with them, yet she dated a 20 year old 🤨 from what I read. Lol

    • @marmartin9822
      @marmartin9822 Год назад +41

      Exactly. I’m 28 now and what I know about life and finances vs 20 is astounding and it’s horrifying that she took advantage of that. My jaw just about hit the floor when Oz mentioned the age difference because that adds an extra layer of predatory behaviour to this whole story.

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Год назад

      ​@Abcity92 It's about control. The reason why she associates with young adults is because they are new to the adult world, they are way easier to manipulate, gaslight and control and they won't even know it until one day you wake up and realise you are being abused, and they just move onto the next victim.
      She is a vile, petty piece of evil and she doesn't deserve the success and wealth she has. I dont want oz to even go to court I would rather give my money so he can just pay blaire back and be free from her, court battles are always way more expensive and drawn out and it may cost more then what he owes, and he would still owe her the debt. I would rather he just pay her, and I hope she chokes on it.

    • @EphemeralTao
      @EphemeralTao Год назад +7

      Yeah, young adults (late teens to early twenties) simply don't have the life experience and resources to understand and resist when they're being manipulated like that.
      When I was in training for the Army, I discovered that there's a whole industry out there designed to take advantage of the immaturity and inexperience of recruits, who are typically in the 18-20 age range; and manipulate them into predatory financial deals, usually through high-pressure sales pushing them into extortionate payment plans. I was lucky that my dad was a salesman, and taught me how to spot and resist those kinds of tactics; but so many of my buddies didn't have that understanding, and got suckered into really bad deals. These businesses target young recruits specifically because they know that if and when the recruits get into financial trouble, the military will bail them out, so they don't have to worry about their victims defaulting on their loans/payment plans.
      What Blair is doing here is exactly the same thing, targeting inexperienced and emotionally vulnerable young men who are easily manipulated. She's just as much a predator as any of those other businesses; and worse, since she's clear as much a sexual and emotional predator as a financial one.

    • @blackfrost9011
      @blackfrost9011 Год назад +2

      @@EphemeralTao that’s crazy the army is like that, I’m glad your dad was able to prepare you.
      But yeah the more we find out about her, the more Blair sounds exactly like the type of people she makes videos about

  • @godricktheminecrafted3113
    @godricktheminecrafted3113 Год назад +7857

    Illumaughti never fails to be an abhorrent waste of conscious thought

    • @purple4ruit
      @purple4ruit Год назад +13

      ? wym, why you bringing them up what happend, what did they do bro whaddthey do /gen

    • @DoctorRose
      @DoctorRose Год назад

      Long story short, she started drama with some of the other YTbers.@@purple4ruit

    • @godricktheminecrafted3113
      @godricktheminecrafted3113 Год назад +1

      @@purple4ruit illuminaughti is a terrible person

    • @alexvalentine5091
      @alexvalentine5091 Год назад

      @@purple4ruittf do you live under a rock?

    • @TheSteam02
      @TheSteam02 Год назад +300

      It's genuinely horrific that someone could be THIS much of a manipulative scumbag. How twisted and vindictive does someone need to be to go SO far to ruin someone's life so that you can cover your own ass that you shat in? It's awful.

  • @lisasteel6817
    @lisasteel6817 Год назад +1193

    As a former domestic violence survivor, I hope you eventually find a great councillor you can lean on, it helps immeasurably.

    • @Morelove4ever8
      @Morelove4ever8 Год назад +19

      Me too! I’m glad you made it out too! I don’t think male victims like him get enough attention . I hope that changes.
      DV changes you and it’s hard to heal and recover from. I hope you’re finding peace and healing that you so richly deserve! Sending love and healing!🥰

    • @yelljal2764
      @yelljal2764 Год назад +9

      ​@@Morelove4ever8Oh absolutely. I was thinking that once this is all through and all of the legal shit is settled he should really consider writing a book. We need more voices of male abuse survivors. There are far too many who can't talk about their experiences in fear of retaliation. Male abuse survivors and victims are often disregarded or further abused. It's a sad flaw of the modern movement, with far too many seeing women as the only ones who can be victim to abuse and manipulation. He would be a great inspiration to young boys and men who have or are facing similar challenges. Let's hope the legal system doesn't fail him like it has to so many others in his situation.

  • @samiam2088
    @samiam2088 Год назад +1053

    This comment is going to be buried but:
    - Please check into her possibly stealing your identity and opening credit cards or bank accounts you don’t know about. You may also want to apply for a new Social Security Number to make sure she doesn’t have access to your personal information any longer
    - Bankruptcy exists for a reason. It might be time to look into petitioning for bankruptcy and starting over financially. Please look into if this is a potentially way to escape this woman’s continued abuse and destruction of your life.

    • @fightvale57
      @fightvale57 Год назад +25

      Just trying to boost this ❤

    • @thighmeat6034
      @thighmeat6034 Год назад +23

      hope oz sees this! 🙏

    • @EspressosWork
      @EspressosWork Год назад +33

      This is incredibly easy to do! File a report with the IRS or state tax office and they will investigate it.

    • @Finassamm
      @Finassamm Год назад +8

      Big bump here.

    • @Sahuaro_Christmas
      @Sahuaro_Christmas Год назад +10

      Mom hug to Oz.

  • @chiaroscuroamore
    @chiaroscuroamore Год назад +903

    As others have said, this isn’t drama. It is 100% abuse. Financial, emotional, mental, psychological abuse at the very least.

    • @JenniferPage
      @JenniferPage Год назад +35

      And like Swoop always says "it's not drama, it's dangerous."

    • @mackaylacook148
      @mackaylacook148 Год назад +5

      ​@@JenniferPageexactly

    • @hellhound4440
      @hellhound4440 Год назад +7

      Potential sexual abuse as well

    • @tiamarie1226
      @tiamarie1226 Год назад

      Everything he described is characteristic of narcissistic abuse

  • @thatweirdnoiseintheattic
    @thatweirdnoiseintheattic Год назад +1124

    You are a victim of financial and emotional abuse at the hands of someone who was supposed to love you. Abuse is abuse, and you do not deserve it. I'm sorry that this happened to you. Whatever videos you upload? I won't skip the ads.

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +299

      If I had better words I would use them, but please know that Im infinitely greatful for your support. Thank you.

    • @rhyael3933
      @rhyael3933 Год назад +90

      I hear the Eagle Team is taking on new clients.

    • @CrazyQuilman157
      @CrazyQuilman157 Год назад +50

      @@rhyael3933 If Oz, Wonder, and any others chucked legal action by Fem!Bill Cipher could actually aquire the Eagle Team's help at a reduced rate for this case, it would be among the most deliciously ironic moments in internet history.

    • @yelljal2764
      @yelljal2764 Год назад +2

      ​​@@rhyael3933 How amazing it would be if Devin walked into the courtroom and looked Blair right in the face. Go back to where it all started.

  • @Meggolor
    @Meggolor Год назад +1038

    Blair is such a horrible hypocrite. Stay strong, I hope this helps.

    • @Lutrian
      @Lutrian Год назад +4

      I suspect she fell to RUclipsitis, letting everything go to her head.

    • @PrismoftheTruth
      @PrismoftheTruth Год назад +2

      Hi Blair here, I am sorry for everything I did. I don't deserve any forgiveness for what I have done. Making someone homeless and abusing people is not an excuse. I'm sorry Oz Media, I'm sorry Wonder, The Click for abusing you.

    • @themudpit621
      @themudpit621 Год назад

      You can say bitch, its jutified.

    • @PrismoftheTruth
      @PrismoftheTruth Год назад

      @directorr_ Dude stop breaking the illusion. You clearly dont know what is a parody, and who is Liquid Chris

    • @definitelyaduck
      @definitelyaduck Год назад +1

      @@PrismoftheTruththis is not the time for parody’s.

  • @janecat8753
    @janecat8753 Год назад +752

    I'll repeat Swoop's mantra: it's not drama, it's dangerous.
    What you've gone through at the hands of Blair, is Not. Your. Fault. I repeat: None of this is your fault. Please know that. I know first hand how easy it is to put the blame for the abuse you've been victim of, on yourself.
    I'm beyond sorry for and disgusted by what she's put you through. I'm so glad you got out of that horrible relationship, and I hope you manage to escape her villainous clutches soon. My heart goes out to you. 💜

    • @sallyparty1978
      @sallyparty1978 Год назад +1

      200 woah!

    • @jenniferstewart9012
      @jenniferstewart9012 Год назад

      Well part is his fault he needs to realize that and never allow himself to be in this situation again

    • @MORGUEMAW
      @MORGUEMAW Год назад +19

      ​@@jenniferstewart9012 He was verbally and mentally abused, coupled with financial abuse. She is also threatening a lawsuit over this. Dont say its part his fault/his fault at all, its a huge little dick move

    • @poisoncupcake2659
      @poisoncupcake2659 Год назад +6

      ​@@jenniferstewart9012stop it

    • @TheWaiting4lunch
      @TheWaiting4lunch Год назад +8

      ​@@jenniferstewart9012there's a difference between "cause" or "leadup" and "fault" - it's good to recognize how you get into bad situations so you can avoid them next time, but that doesn't make it your fault that you're in an abusive/dangerous situation. The word "fault" in the context of what you said puts blame for the situation on the victim, rather than the person who intended to trap and hurt them. It's also discounting how deceptive and manipulative abusers are. You can seemingly do everything right and they can still manipulate you into situations where you are stuck financially/socially/emotionally. It is definitely possible to learn to see the red flags, but you can't blame yourself if you get sucked in. Abusers are REALLY good at doing that - it's how they get by.

  • @Eldrisaur
    @Eldrisaur Год назад +747

    So Blair’s a liar, a manipulator, a crypto scammer, an abuser, and doesn’t respect other’s privacy to the point of publicly sharing YOUR financial situation and publicly posting someone else’s SUICIDE NOTE to mock them?? And now she’s threatening to leave you homeless?? Everything I hear about Blair just shows even more how horrible she is.

    • @breadstick4458
      @breadstick4458 Год назад +70

      Worse even; a landlord!

    • @the_dennator7723
      @the_dennator7723 Год назад +29

      and a hypocrite on top

    • @ayajade6683
      @ayajade6683 Год назад +28

      Crypto scammer that's new what's the tldr on that or who talked about it she's done a lot it's hard to keep track of everything

    • @justanidiotmk2749
      @justanidiotmk2749 Год назад

      Not even a social leech, she's a social lamprey.

    • @katsudon2048
      @katsudon2048 Год назад +14

      An mlm herself

  • @durk5331
    @durk5331 Год назад +890

    As someone who is neurodivergent, has been backstabbed by people I was supposed to trust, and is constantly afraid of homelessness... I absolutely feel for you Oz and I really hope things get better.

    • @Archiniax
      @Archiniax Год назад +27

      I'm also neurodivergent (depression, adhd, amd odd) and have been taken advantage of several times. It shocks me people could do this to someone else, but they still do, and I hate it.

    • @logancracraftgaming7124
      @logancracraftgaming7124 Год назад

      LOL DANTDM IS CRYING OVER HIS DOG BECAUSE MY VIDEOS ARE BETTER 😂😂🎉

    • @AuDHDarling
      @AuDHDarling Год назад +10

      I'm in the same situation. Autism + ADHD + cPTSD.
      The world is very ableist.
      Fortunately I have my AuDHD mom and other ND friends online.
      Safe spaces for me in a very scary and difficult world.

    • @durk5331
      @durk5331 Год назад +4

      OP here, since you guys shared thought I would too, I've got ASD(Autism), ADHD, BP(Bipolar), and DID(Dissociative Identity)

    • @lookstothetroon
      @lookstothetroon Год назад

      ​@@logancracraftgaming7124nobody actually asked

  • @thatswhatleighsaid
    @thatswhatleighsaid Год назад +782

    Oz, this is textbook financial domestic abuse. I am so sorry you’re going through this. None of this is ok. Please take all the time you need. We will watch and support you. ❤

    • @emilyannamanda
      @emilyannamanda 3 месяца назад

      Well said because I just don’t even need to get into the legal jar and I can see what’s happening here. It’s the retaliation because she is experiencing our net. Lawson is lashing out on the people around her because she doesn’t have the dopamine rush from being wealthy or having attention or her impostor syndrome, no longer is effective and that’s what she’s really trying to sue for and nothings ever going to fix that, I was already someone that could tell I wasn’t interested in her lack of journalistic, integrity, and I’m just a community college student, I know there’s no intellectuals that watch her channel so she had basic girl clipart style. It’s just over
      What is sick woman that has such a crazy lust for entitlement with a very temporary financial influx
      But you’re right it’s textbook, especially knowing that he had experienced something previously through his mother and that he was emotionally swayed by that, and abusive relationships. Also change your brain chemistry and that’s like peer review proven scientifically.

  • @sammieegoldwand
    @sammieegoldwand Год назад +1133

    I didn't think I could grow to hate Blaire more. I have never seen a person dive so deeply into shit so quickly. I hope everything ends up ok for you Oz. No one deserves to go through this.

  • @Seraitsukara
    @Seraitsukara Год назад +2998

    I'm so sorry for everything Blair has put you through. I hope this whole mess gets resolved in your favor as quickly as possible.

    • @ashtru1219
      @ashtru1219 Год назад +24

      I’m not even religious, but bless you.

    • @shadowsoulless6227
      @shadowsoulless6227 Год назад +14

      If I wasn't in between jobs I would donate. If all goes well with my new job in a month I might have a donation ❤

    • @logancracraftgaming7124
      @logancracraftgaming7124 Год назад

      LOL DANTDM IS CRYING OVER HIS DOG BECAUSE MY VIDEOS ARE BETTER 😂😂🎉

    • @LiterallyInklingGirl
      @LiterallyInklingGirl Год назад +11

      @@logancracraftgaming7124 don’t dude,don’t

    • @DaCostaRica48
      @DaCostaRica48 Год назад

      @@logancracraftgaming7124honestly stfu don’t joke about peoples pet when they die

  • @mocking0wl
    @mocking0wl Год назад +920

    I am so sorry that this is happening to you, Oz. Years ago, I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who shares a lot of the same characteristics as Blair. I want you to know that you are NOT to blame for this situation. This is NOT your fault. This was Blair's decision, HER CHOICE to take advantage of people, and now she has to face the consequences. You ARE NOT a parasite. If anyone is a parasite, she is, preying on the generosity and kindness of her closest friends and loved-ones. You ARE NOT a bad friend. Blair might choose to blame you for her own unhappiness, but it is NOT your fault. Blair is actively choosing to live a life of misery and negativity. You ARE NOT responsible for her actions and her choices. Blair is the one with negative intentions. Blair is the one who is actively choosing to take advantage of people. Blair is the one who is using and abusing the justice system. I am so, so sorry that you now have to face her in court, and I wish you all the strength and determination in this legal fight.

  • @Sara-ut5zn
    @Sara-ut5zn Год назад +419

    Blair hasn't failed to sink lower. Absolute monstrous behavior. Hope you can find small moments of peace and joy. Much love, Oz

  • @penguin5695
    @penguin5695 Год назад +867

    Wow, I knew Blair was bad, but this video put her into pure evil. She not only manipulated several people into doing her bidding, content wise and financially, but she’s attempting to take a former partners home. I can’t express how sorry I am that she’s putting you through all this, and I hope she gets whatever she deserves in the end. Stay strong Oz.

    • @wolframstahl1263
      @wolframstahl1263 Год назад +14

      I don't wish bad things on people, but accountability I do. And with what Oz stated about actual criminal behavior on her part to be detailed at a later point, I feel like a decent chunk of accountability is both necessary and about to come her way.
      She's profited so much from deceiving and abusing people, and it's high time for that to end and payback to begin.

    • @tuurderom2017
      @tuurderom2017 Год назад +8

      Before all this I wouldn’t have even thought she was capable of this, now I can only imagine what they haven’t dared to bring up yet

    • @cactmayne
      @cactmayne Год назад +1

      Pure evil is the right description

    • @serenabb2820
      @serenabb2820 Год назад +2

      Bruh Penguinz u got strong judge of character, I stopped watching her videos after you made a video on her

  • @TeamOmega27
    @TeamOmega27 Год назад +323

    I was threatened by my own parents multiple times with homelessness. I know that fear I heard in your voice and see in your eyes. I am very lucky to be living comfortably in a house all my own and hope you will get to experience the same relief.

    • @bobstevenson3130
      @bobstevenson3130 Год назад +16

      Damn I’m sorry to hear that, that’s awful. I’m glad you’re doing better now

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +30

      I fully intend to fight as hard as I can to keep my home. I worked really hard to get here, and I don't want to lose this because of her. Thank you very much for your generosity, and thank you for sharing. I'm happy to hear you made it out on the other side alright, and it gives me hope that I might as well.

  • @emilyolsen6777
    @emilyolsen6777 Год назад +597

    I don't have words for your situation, Blair is despicable and i hope everything goes well for you man.

  • @justsaying8041
    @justsaying8041 Год назад +280

    As an abuse survivor, very similar to yours, this story is very important for people to hear. Not every abuser punches you and calls you slurs, often times it ends up like this. Stand strong we are behind you.

    • @SuperJayson75
      @SuperJayson75 Год назад

      U r not a survivor. Surviving means something attempted to end your life and u survived. I bet your story is complete with tons of blaming language, no “I” language , no accountability or self reflecting or self actualization. Let me guess you have never hurt anyone in your life but have been repeatedly hurt. If your a female I’m sure your story is full of sexual assaults/unconcentual sex and/or miscarriages/abortions.

  • @BEllzee-ss9nh
    @BEllzee-ss9nh Год назад +1128

    The way this woman took advantage of you is utterly abhorrent. The cruelty is the point in everything she's done and is doing, and I truly hope this helps you to protect yourself, because you do not deserve to be treated this way.

  • @senatorpalpabean2638
    @senatorpalpabean2638 Год назад +1122

    I am so, so sorry this is happening. I followed iiluminaughtii for a very long time before the drama, but all of this has been absolutely abhorrent. How can someone be so vindictive, vile, cruel, and just downright EVIL as Blair???? I hope this money helps, and I hope and pray that she gets all her just desserts sooner rather than later. That terrible woman is still posting videos as if nothing is wrong. I hope she not only gets pushed off the internet entirely, but that this deeply effects her real life. It's the LEAST she deserves for what she's done to not only you, but all of her "friends" that she abused.

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +416

      Never in my life did I think I would be thanking someone named Senator Palpabean for their generosity... But here I am.. thank you.. I sound like a broken record, but if I had better words, I would give them. Y'all are too amazing...

    • @gamerfox4835
      @gamerfox4835 Год назад +62

      ​@@OzMediaOfficialI'm just glad you could get all off your chest and that people are still kind enough to support you. I wish I could do the same but I'm so not work. I just hope that you know how much you are appreciated. As someone who watched you because of the joy you took in your work. And the little skit you've made that made me laugh at. To your witty banter to yourself. I just hope that you can see this and know you are appreciated. Cheers to an amazing RUclipsr by a simple fan

    • @austinmendez3101
      @austinmendez3101 Год назад +7

      Looks like you won't have to worry about legal fees

    • @wannabewumpus
      @wannabewumpus Год назад +13

      @@austinmendez3101hopefully, but you’d be surprised how expensive lawyers can be…

    • @austinmendez3101
      @austinmendez3101 Год назад +2

      @@wannabewumpus I've had to use lawyers before. So I wouldn't

  • @leftleaner
    @leftleaner Год назад +1673

    As someone who's going through a difficult housing situation, I can understand your fear of being homeless. It's not an easy thing to live with, and what she did to you is truly disgusting; you deserved none of it. You were in a shitty situation and couldn't get out of it, being stuck in the center of the spider's web, and that doesn't mean you're weak. It just means that Blair was such a sickeningly morally bankrupt person as to take advantage of a 20 year old kid and put him through hell to save her own hide and mess with someone. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I don't pity you, I sympathize, and with a couple parts, I can empathize. Stay safe Oz, you're strong but you also deserve to rest.

    • @logancracraftgaming7124
      @logancracraftgaming7124 Год назад

      LOL DANTDM IS CRYING OVER HIS DOG BECAUSE MY VIDEOS ARE BETTER 😂😂🎉

    • @leftleaner
      @leftleaner Год назад +6

      ​@@logancracraftgaming7124dude can you please just,,, not?

    • @electroshockgamer2733
      @electroshockgamer2733 Год назад +2

      ​@@logancracraftgaming7124First off, not even the right creator, secondly, no

    • @arcticcircle9178
      @arcticcircle9178 Год назад

      @@leftleaner It's a bot. Just report it for spam and move on.

    • @TC0119
      @TC0119 Год назад

      @@logancracraftgaming7124listen up kid, 1: don’t disrespect dans loss
      2: don’t be disrespectful to these people
      3: wrong creator
      4: bog off

  • @virkkipa419
    @virkkipa419 Год назад +278

    We are here for you, you don't deserve to be treated like she has treated you. Shame on her for putting you in such a horrible situation!

  • @esthertrklja8618
    @esthertrklja8618 Год назад +1011

    I hope you are able to get through this, Blair absolutely needs to serve time for how she manipulated and abused not only you, but your friends, and others as well. She is a waste of a human being, if you can even call her one. It is true irony that a woman who built a channel about the topic of manipulation is actually a manipulator herself.

    • @SproutiusShrubiusthe16th
      @SproutiusShrubiusthe16th Год назад +25

      I'm so glad to see a ton of people donating to him. Angels, all of you.

    • @logancracraftgaming7124
      @logancracraftgaming7124 Год назад

      LOL DANTDM IS CRYING OVER HIS DOG BECAUSE MY VIDEOS ARE BETTER 😂😂💪

    • @HannekeDebie
      @HannekeDebie Год назад +3

      Well, it takes one to know one, I guess.

  • @BenjaminSpider
    @BenjaminSpider Год назад +707

    Don't let fear define your fate.

    • @sallyparty1978
      @sallyparty1978 Год назад +9

      Wow!

    • @thatvalensteingirl
      @thatvalensteingirl Год назад +7

      Easy to say when it's not someone holding the metaphorical knife to YOUR throat

    • @BenjaminSpider
      @BenjaminSpider Год назад +47

      ​@@thatvalensteingirl Being cynical is far easier than offering support.

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +85

      I won't. And thank you.
      I plan to fight as hard as I can. While I am afraid, I won't let it define me.

    • @Jack_bonfire
      @Jack_bonfire Год назад

      ​@@thatvalensteingirlit is not

  • @AveragePootis
    @AveragePootis Год назад +6389

    Stay strong Oz, almost everyone is against Blair

    • @Ferrari255GTO
      @Ferrari255GTO Год назад

      Honestly if anyone is supporting her it's braindead simps, shit's pretty well known at this point from everyone showing their cards

    • @jojotheswede8444
      @jojotheswede8444 Год назад +282

      the fact you even have to say "almost everyone" is horrendous, let's just hope our possum lord makes it out okey.

    • @Ferrari255GTO
      @Ferrari255GTO Год назад +41

      @@jojotheswede8444 agreed

    • @fatboysgarage7984
      @fatboysgarage7984 Год назад

      Anybody with a brain is against her.

    • @AveragePootis
      @AveragePootis Год назад +81

      @@jojotheswede8444 ye, albeit most of her supporters are her viewers, not sure of any larger creators that are on her side

  • @unique_guns_r5769
    @unique_guns_r5769 Год назад +308

    Watched all of you guys for years, and it's so sad to see this happen. Good luck, and keep going on

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +55

      Thank you so much. It's been an incredibly harsh ride over the last few years, but hopefully things will begin to smooth out.
      Hopefully the next chapter of content I produce keeps you around!

    • @Youcantcallmehelen
      @Youcantcallmehelen 8 месяцев назад +4

      ​@OzMediaOfficial dude you don't know it but you've gotten me through some of my hardest times and lowest points. The least we can do is be there for you. Your lovely degenerates have your back!! :)

  • @errorarrow90
    @errorarrow90 Год назад +418

    Holy crap... this is textbook financial abuse. Her using your credit score because hers wasnt where it needed to be, locking you in debt and then abandoning you. This is so gross, this is a vast understatement. Im so so sorry.

    • @thegoldenatlas753
      @thegoldenatlas753 Год назад +35

      Isn't it also credit fraud?

    • @Acrophobia2
      @Acrophobia2 Год назад

      @@thegoldenatlas753yes. Hopefully a DA will grind her into the dirt.

    • @errorarrow90
      @errorarrow90 Год назад +15

      ​@@thegoldenatlas753 probably, I did say this while pretty shocked after watching this. I just had no idea how bad she was and is.

    • @dragonsamurai453productions
      @dragonsamurai453productions Год назад +5

      ​@@thegoldenatlas753in most states, technically yes. I'm no lawyer by trade, but abusing the credit score of anyone is illegal.

  • @realmikexanderr
    @realmikexanderr Год назад +384

    I donated 50 dollars to your go fund me but that was before I realized how hard this situation must be for you I wish you the best of luck and hope justice is served

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +158

      God dammit Im going to fucking cry from all of these donations god damn. Thank you. I wish I could properly say thank you.

    • @MordyMcCheese
      @MordyMcCheese Год назад +38

      ​@@OzMediaOfficialI think in situations like these when giving thanks is hard, don't worry about thank yous. Believe me friend, the support is there ❤

    • @Vidasinvida
      @Vidasinvida Год назад +4

      @@MordyMcCheese👏YES

    • @rainingopals1439
      @rainingopals1439 7 месяцев назад

      ​@OzMediaOfficial you staying around and making content is thanks❤

  • @karanaki_3256
    @karanaki_3256 Год назад +1013

    This is from a former illuminaughti fan. I stopped watching her when I heard about the plagiarism because that was enough from me. The more I learn, the more and more disgusted I become with her, her behavior, and the methods she uses to get her way. Im sorry I ever supported her in the first place. Think of this money as an apology from us, the fans who didn’t know or understand what her behavior behind the scenes was. You can get through this.

    • @angelsartandgaming
      @angelsartandgaming Год назад +41

      I used to be a fan of hers too. Mainly because some of her videos are very nice to listen to while I was playing Minecraft. But yeah.
      I excused SOME of the plagiarism because sometimes when you're making an essay, you sometimes kind of copy what you're reading... But everything else I could not excuse.

    • @princessflutterheart6890
      @princessflutterheart6890 Год назад +12

      You took the words from my mouth

    • @derpkipper
      @derpkipper Год назад +6

      That's not something that you need to apologize or feel guilty for. You had no way of knowing.

    • @WaitWhat-zw2in
      @WaitWhat-zw2in Год назад

      I guess we just need to find someone else to tell us how much PETA sucks

    • @ambiarock590
      @ambiarock590 Год назад

      I only came across her content about a month of two before her exposee vidoe, and I'm glad I never gave her much watch time. She deserves what she gets

  • @pawnerd3525
    @pawnerd3525 Год назад +308

    I say our new goal is at least what is “owed” on the lien/ mortgage so @oz has the f*you money for comfort and the option to decide how he wants to proceed without feeling trapped.
    Also, whether you can donate financially or not, keep watching all videos over and over to boost the channel and make a goal to surpass her there too and shift that power dynamic a bit!
    I will be continuing to donate to the gfm a bit at a time as I can long as it is up!
    Oz deserves the peace❤

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +71

      Honestly, I could never ask the internet to help me with something along that. I feel it's my responsibility to pay Blair back on that front, whatever comes of the legal situation. While I could quite literally use the gofundme to end the foreclosure proceedings right now, that money would go straight to Blair sadly.
      Thank you so much for your donation. I promise it will be put to great use to help me out of this mess.

    • @TheDutchessOfCornville
      @TheDutchessOfCornville Год назад +24

      He definitely has a new subscriber here. Unfortunately I’m unable to offer any financial assistance, but if putting his videos on as background noise after the first watch, it’s worth doing!

    • @AhsimNreiziev
      @AhsimNreiziev Год назад +19

      @@OzMediaOfficial Here's the thing: you don't need to ask.

  • @cruelworldhappymind
    @cruelworldhappymind Год назад +402

    This is an extremely important matter of financial abuse and a massive power imbalance that you have come forward to share your story and help raise awareness of. While we will never know the full gravity of the situation my heart has continued to break for you and everything you have experienced at such a young age. I hope you will be able to find peace, and thank you for sharing your story even through the amount of stress you have been going through lately 🖤

    • @robertbeisert3315
      @robertbeisert3315 Год назад +24

      I hate that every life she's touched, she's done her best to destroy.
      You're good people, the both of you.

    • @alphaomega2117
      @alphaomega2117 Год назад +20

      Thank you for sharing your story too Madison.

    • @WildWorld81
      @WildWorld81 Год назад +11

      You were very strong for sharing your own story, I didn’t realize that this story goes deeper and more depraved than your own experience with her
      Though it seems Blair’s luck has ran out, and that she may have actually broken the law

    • @brandonkennedy4160
      @brandonkennedy4160 Год назад +8

      So sorry to everyone who has been impacted by her. you both are brave, and your experiences are valid and terrible.

    • @TheKatKaiju
      @TheKatKaiju Год назад +5

      Madison coming in clutch for a homie. Love both of you.

  • @andrea1347
    @andrea1347 Год назад +420

    Best of luck, Oz. Describing the way you've been treated as "unfair" is an understatement, and Blair litigating you into silence after all of this is just the cherry on top of the turd sundae. Hopefully any judge this ends up in front of takes one look at the case and sees it as a very obvious case of financial abuse.

  • @ryanmassey1441
    @ryanmassey1441 Год назад +1883

    Stay strong our femboy president!

    • @gc-painter9535
      @gc-painter9535 Год назад +15

      HECK YEEE

    • @logancracraftgaming7124
      @logancracraftgaming7124 Год назад +1

      LOL DANTDM IS CRYING OVER HIS DOG BECAUSE MY VIDEOS ARE BETTER 😂😂🎉

    • @Pixel_Goober
      @Pixel_Goober Год назад

      random ahh perosn@@logancracraftgaming7124

    • @TheBluePhoenix008
      @TheBluePhoenix008 Год назад +12

      We support him!

    • @stopmotionharry8989
      @stopmotionharry8989 Год назад +16

      ⁠@@logancracraftgaming7124that doesn’t make grammatical sense. You have two reasons in one sentence that don’t work together

  • @CallumMarkie
    @CallumMarkie Год назад +187

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +56

      Thanks Markie, you absolute legend.

    • @bluebell1009
      @bluebell1009 Год назад +14

      Markie you absolute gentleman ❤️

    • @LadyZubat
      @LadyZubat Год назад +10

      Markie the absolute boss

    • @Kx____
      @Kx____ Год назад +6

      you are the best Marie, absolutely a gentle man and a gentleman!

    • @Sarspariila
      @Sarspariila Год назад +6

      You’re a brilliant man Markie. Supporting another exceptional person. ❤

  • @soulhunter6438
    @soulhunter6438 Год назад +197

    Don't worry Oz we will aid you to the best of our powers and knowledge.
    But this mess is Webb of madness that needs to be untangled with up most precision and with your lawyers.

  • @huntforbigfloptober1333
    @huntforbigfloptober1333 Год назад +452

    Seriously the fact that she put herself in a position to be able to make people homeless and without a car just makes Blair beyond corrupt. Like supervillain level of power hungry.
    Blair is continuing to become an embodiment of white collar “and it gets worse…”

    • @sluttyMapleSyrup
      @sluttyMapleSyrup Год назад +2

      Blair: Exposes companies for abusive and often criminal yet financially successful fuckery.
      Also Blair: "Fuck, *_I_* should be doing that!"

    • @clayfan3
      @clayfan3 Год назад +13

      she acts like an actual movie character villain. it’s absurd and it’s disgusting and it’s just unbelievable

    • @shivertheiguana
      @shivertheiguana Год назад +21

      I honestly feel gross for ever even watching her content, hope things improve for Oz

    • @penguin5695
      @penguin5695 Год назад +9

      She’s genuinely just evil Saul Goodman at this point it’s wild and sickening

    • @victorjun2421
      @victorjun2421 Год назад +5

      Ironically enough she's more evil than most supervillains i've ever seen. Supervillains usually blow up places, steal things or hold people hostages, what she's been doing is a sick psychological nightmare game.

  • @somesubstitute4242
    @somesubstitute4242 Год назад +1661

    I hope she gets her just desserts and all of you hurt by her, both emotionally and financially, are able to fully recover. So many of us stand behind you, Oz.

    • @AngelicGuardian36905
      @AngelicGuardian36905 Год назад +36

      We are already working on that front by stopping her from regaining lost followers

    • @skootergirl22
      @skootergirl22 Год назад +27

      I hope her dog gets taken away from her

    • @possibly_ben
      @possibly_ben Год назад +9

      ​@@skootergirl22alright when you put it like that... but yeah poor casper

    • @skootergirl22
      @skootergirl22 Год назад +12

      @possibly_ben she possibly neglects him

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Год назад +2

      I doubt Casper is in danger. he seems to be happy and healthy.

  • @joshuashaw2923
    @joshuashaw2923 Год назад +180

    You’re half the reason I got through the pandemic sanely, and when u didn’t produce as much I was really bummed out. Now I’m pissed at that horrid being who calls herself human.
    I won’t pretend to know anything close to the hardship you must’ve been through in this situation, but what I do know is you’re stronger than most people I’ve ever known. If anyone tries to insult your character or your masculinity or any of that because of this, just know they could never know the strength this takes to not only survive something like this, but be willing to share it with the world despite the issues it may bring you.
    You are not a coward, you are not stirring up drama, and you are NOT a burden, and you are NOT worthless. You were abused, you were manipulated, you are a gift to everyone you interact with, and you’re worth thousands more than she ever was.
    I’m not a legal expert but one thing I do know is in divorce cases at least, lawyers can’t take on a client if their spouse already consulted with them, so maybe that’s applicable here, consult with the best lawyers you can, even if you don’t use their services, so maybe she won’t be able to use them.
    I hope you get the justice you deserve. I know this isn’t much, but I hope it helps. Take care of yourself, this too shall pass.

    • @joshuashaw2923
      @joshuashaw2923 Год назад +6

      I hope you see this comment, Ik the message may have come out as “thanks!” So I might send it out again

    • @zubetp
      @zubetp Год назад +1

      🛑 consulting with lawyers specifically so that your opponent can't seek local legal representation is illegal.
      everything else you said is spot on, just letting you know so you don't make a big mistake if you end up on the wrong end of a legal battle. i don't want you to get in trouble.

    • @joshuashaw2923
      @joshuashaw2923 Год назад

      @@zubetp legal loophole though, just keep "searching for the right one", there's a bunch of loopholes that exist, and people do it all the time. Is it borderline illegal? Yes, yes it is, is it ethical? in this context, also yes

  • @AnnaVictrix
    @AnnaVictrix Год назад +543

    You’re not obligated to fill anyone’s need for “drama.” Take care of your needs. Especially when recovering from someone like Blair. Your wellness matters.

  • @Vinyl-kh2el
    @Vinyl-kh2el Год назад +85

    You are one of those very rare youtubers that as soon as I see you've posted, I stop everything and immediately watch. You've always been a fun watch, and nothing is going to change that for me.
    You deserve to get what you need, and to stick it back to her. We believe in you man, keep it up. We'll be eagerly waiting for your return, no matter how long it takes.

  • @llpolluxll
    @llpolluxll Год назад +714

    I've never seen someone's reputation go to shit so quickly. Every new revelation about Blair is a testament to how manipulative, vindictive, and malicious she is. She basically built her whole career off of indentured servitude. My thoughts go out to you, brother. Whatever happens, I hope you break free of this nightmare.

    • @justaperson4656
      @justaperson4656 Год назад +17

      I mean, have you seen Shane Dawson, Colleen ballinger, etc? Reputations decline quick when it's warranted

    • @ProjectNetoku
      @ProjectNetoku Год назад +5

      i wonder if shell bounce back though- that may sound odd but considder ppl like miniladd and keemstar still exist- well keem had alot more bs he was doing / causing but they somehow still have a following. since ppl dont learn i have to wonder if things will change.

    • @CircussCake
      @CircussCake Год назад +7

      She's maybe even worse than creepshowart, she not only was a cyber stalker, but a toxic partner, and controlling someone with financial stability,.

    • @frandurrieu6477
      @frandurrieu6477 Год назад +2

      ​@@ProjectNetokuWell some people still watch EDP, the morbidity of all of this is more than enough for some folk

    • @fzerowipeoutlover
      @fzerowipeoutlover Год назад +8

      ​​@@justaperson4656iilluminaughtii ukulele apology video when?

  • @always-alicia
    @always-alicia Год назад +100

    I gave you a little bit on the GFM, but wanted to send you a little more. I can’t speak for others, but please use this as you see fit. Towards a payment to keep your house, towards a retainer fee, or even towards an evening out to get your mind off of all of this.
    Just know that many people love you Oz, and have your back.

  • @zloimorfei9930
    @zloimorfei9930 Год назад +1330

    I can't donate much but I just had to give something. I am so, so, SO sorry that this demon abused you in such a vile, cruel, manipulative way. No one deserves this, especially not young people who don't have the experience with creatures like Blair. I can't tell you it gets better because I don't know, but what I can say is that there are thousands of people who support you in any way that they can. You are not alone, even though she tried her best to isolate you. She couldn't break your spirit, and this video is a proof of that. I don't know if it gets better but I know that you are capable of pulling through. Stay true to yourself and keep doing what you love.

    • @tuesdaysnews4568
      @tuesdaysnews4568 Год назад +10

      Good on you

    • @Anarchist_Angel
      @Anarchist_Angel Год назад +11

      Such nice words and deep thoughts from someone with a cat meme pfp :D 100% though.

    • @zloimorfei9930
      @zloimorfei9930 Год назад

      @@Anarchist_Angel 😅

    • @TheDearestOfThings
      @TheDearestOfThings Год назад +2

      If I could ever consider $200 as "not much" I'd be eating dinner every night like my son does 😅🤣 You made a difference. Don't lessen that fact by saying it aint much!

    • @zloimorfei9930
      @zloimorfei9930 Год назад

      @@TheDearestOfThings well, I can’t afford to give out $200 either! It was 200 Norwegian krone 😅

  • @shadowofthemoon3104
    @shadowofthemoon3104 Год назад +177

    Hey man. Stranger to stranger, here.
    I've been watching you all (well, no longer her, but) for years now. You and Topic and Click especially got me through the hellish years of the pandemic. And seeing this broke my fucking heart. I knew from everyone else that this was bad, but this is horrifying. Youve been through literal hell here. You're impossibly brave. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for pushing through it. And good luck. I (and an entire comments section) got your back.

    • @tofu1394
      @tofu1394 Год назад +6

      That's something we really need to give them credit for, was what felt like a friend going through the hell of the pandemic.

  • @Voltorb1993
    @Voltorb1993 Год назад +482

    I used to be a fan of iilluminaughtii and I even bought some of her merch in the past. Obviously, this was before all of the shit came out but I still feel somewhat guilty about sending that kind of person my money. I apologize to you and everybody else she wronged.

    • @CliffsidePermaculture
      @CliffsidePermaculture Год назад +47

      A lot of us didn't know, she's really good at her fake front.

    • @fastballncs
      @fastballncs Год назад +32

      Don't beat yourself up over that. Hind sight is 20/20 and she's been good at hiding what an absolute waste of good organic matter she is.

    • @megatron8449
      @megatron8449 Год назад +14

      Same here mate, though I never bought the merch (I'm broke, and have been for awhile, high school does that), now I regret ever even liking her content.

    • @ethribin4188
      @ethribin4188 Год назад +14

      Her videos and content had quality.
      Its so sad she couldnt be happy with that...

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Год назад +7

      We never know who a person really is outside of a video, Blair is very good at manipulating people, us included, we saw what she wanted us to see, she made us think she made her videos to help people who have been wronged. Turns out she is a wolf in sheep's clothing, and just as evil if not worse, like the businesses she exposes, she only cares about herself, her image, money, and controlling people in her life. Don't feel guilty for supporting her, we had no way of knowing, now we do, and she is finally getting some consequnce for her actions, her videos don't get anywhere near the views she used to get, and I hope she takes a bigger hit now oz has made this video. And my guess this will enrage her, she has lost money, subscribers and her Robin Hood image, one day karma will bite back.

  • @BloodyBender199
    @BloodyBender199 Год назад +136

    Using someone's youth and naivete against them is despicable, especially when they claim to care about you. Good luck to you.

  • @NickSaysHenlo
    @NickSaysHenlo Год назад +563

    She's financially groomed you and other unfortunate victims for the sole purpose of stroking her own ego and for the sake of her own gain.
    $5 isn't much, but I know it'll help out. It's the least I could do. I wish you the best of luck man.

  • @SirAsdf
    @SirAsdf Год назад +672

    Blair strikes me as that kind of "friend" who has individualized blackmail folders for everyone she meets.

    • @meowkittymeowmeow2786
      @meowkittymeowmeow2786 Год назад +52

      Pretty sure she does

    • @GetElevatedWithMe
      @GetElevatedWithMe Год назад +17

      Yeah and Colleen Ballinger too I swear

    • @logancracraftgaming7124
      @logancracraftgaming7124 Год назад +2

      LOL DANTDM IS CRYING OVER HIS DOG BECAUSE MY VIDEOS ARE BETTER 😂😂💪

    • @rainingwhenidie
      @rainingwhenidie Год назад +37

      ​@@logancracraftgaming7124I'm sorry that you never had a strong father figure in your life

    • @questionablebackyardmeows
      @questionablebackyardmeows Год назад +5

      Ugh accidentally clicked a thumbs up on that spammer when I meant to thumbs down, fixed it@@rainingwhenidie

  • @KaneyoriHK
    @KaneyoriHK Год назад +650

    This isn't a drama. This is a tragedy. Stay strong, Oz.

    • @partlycloudy7707
      @partlycloudy7707 Год назад +36

      It was drama when she picked a fight with LegalEagle. Now, this is abuse and hopefully the downfall of a criminal piece of shit.

    • @MarceldeJong
      @MarceldeJong Год назад +17

      Indeed, this isn't drama, this is dangerous. Good luck, Oz!

    • @marthapozo4881
      @marthapozo4881 Год назад +7

      I've seen cases where people have LOST their lives for less ... some people are horrible, I swear.

    • @alphakevin687
      @alphakevin687 Год назад

      Not sure about the term "tragedy": in a classical tragedy the protagonist just receives whats their inevitable fate, oftentimes due to some character flaw that they have. A bad person that just makes others suffers because they are a bad person is not a tragedy, or unavoidable in any form. Its just a bad person being bad.

    • @KaneyoriHK
      @KaneyoriHK Год назад +12

      @@alphakevin687 Hey. Can you not? It's a tragedy. Shove off with your logic. Let me be kind in peace.

  • @jayzawoodart
    @jayzawoodart Год назад +164

    Sorry, this isn’t much (college student on a budget and all) but we’re all on your side. Stay safe. Blair isn’t gonna win.

  • @danielthedude
    @danielthedude Год назад +695

    You were lied to, used and taken advantage of. This is no fault of your own and you're incredibly strong for going through with this. You have my absolute best wishes and I sincerely hope that everything that you intend to go as planned for you.
    Godspeed, Oz. We're rooting for you.

    • @Ferrari255GTO
      @Ferrari255GTO Год назад +1

      Well, i don't wanna say that it is his fault, but when someone brings you in onto a room with a lawyer and papers you should at the very least read them, it's easy to be told a lie in front of you using trust. People overcommit with trust on relationships and end up payng the price. It's still a huge shame that he had to end up here and a completely unfair situation don't get me wrong, but he should've seen the red flags like her pulling him away from friends. I really hope he gets back on his feet soon

    • @danielthedude
      @danielthedude Год назад +9

      @@Ferrari255GTOit's the risk we take when being close with another human being.

    • @mattthecat901
      @mattthecat901 Год назад

      @@Ferrari255GTO He talked about how that was ignorance on his part, he knows.
      But abusers and manipulators abuse and manipulate so that you don't see the red flags until it is too late. They do it on purpose, and many, many people have fallen victim to assholes like illuminaughtii because of how good they are at hiding their intent. They win your trust and don't show their true colours until they know you're at a disadvantage.
      "he should have seen them" is unfair to say to someone who has been trapped by an abuser. It's not easy-you can't live your life mistrusting everyone, even your own partner. You just don't suspect them of malice, because why would you? You give them the benefit of the doubt and put them first, because they are your partner. Meanwhile, every move they make is calculated- but you don't expect that because a loving partner and friend would not do that, and that was who you thought they were.
      People don't overcommit- people fall in love and make friends, and it's normal to trust someone that close to you. If you withhold trust on matters as important as someone's good intentions towards you, then you should not be with them. If they break your trust, it is still their fault.

    • @MissCaraMint
      @MissCaraMint Год назад +3

      @JavierPerez-ev3jj Manipulation is no joke. Not to mention that just reading the papers might not mean you fully understand what they mean. Ideally you need your own lawyer to read through any documents you sign. OZ didn’t have the money for a lawyer. Blair made damn sure of that.

    • @Ferrari255GTO
      @Ferrari255GTO Год назад +1

      @@MissCaraMint look i'm not sayng it's completely his fault, he's still a victim regardless, i just think he could've been wiser about it. Maybe i'm too cold to understand but partners don't deserve absolute trust and we should know to never lock ourselves away from our loved ones, i'd never fail myself nor my family for a partner unless my family failed me bad enough first.

  • @mikaisepic8251
    @mikaisepic8251 Год назад +517

    I've never seen so many donations on a single video before. I'm so proud of you Oz, you are so amazing, strong, and funny, and you didn't deserve any of this. Sending love from Philly, we ALL love you ❤️

  • @juliaczia
    @juliaczia Год назад +364

    The only parasite in this situation is Blaire
    Oz, stay strong. You are on the right path

  • @kariuchiha16
    @kariuchiha16 Год назад +77

    The way she can just look at someone younger, more impressionable, someone that is asking for sincere help from a person they love, and just…rip their heart out. I hope that at some point, you can have peace of mind, Oz.

  • @Echo_Rin
    @Echo_Rin Год назад +337

    Hey, Oz. My name is Rin, I'm 22 years old. Last year i was facing down an appointment to set a date for my own death. Im severely disabled with chronic pain. Your videos and humour gave me hope and joy every time you posted. I'm alive and not planning on changing that now. You did nothing wrong, even in the slightest. Your kindness, humour, and intelligence made me laugh until i cried more times than i can count. And you *are* intelligent. You built a computer in minecraft, thats incomprehensible. I look up to you even more now. You've been living through hell, and fighting ceaselessly. You aren't alone anymore, you don't need to fight alone anymore. Your voice was one that felt like a friend, and i only hope that if you do see this, it lifts even the tiniest bit of burden.

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Год назад +12

      I too have chronic pain and i am also in a wheelchair, I completely understand the sheer torture life is with non stop pain. I have had days that were so bad I couldn't do anything but rock in place and cry, I just wanted to say you're not alone, and I'm so sorry you have to live the same way I do,
      I know what you said is controversial with ending everything yourself, but my take on it is we should be allowed the choice to end it, if at that point we have stopped living life and we are just existing, mentally destroyed and a shell, we legally have to let our pets go if they don't have a quality of life. It has always baffled me why we can do the same. Most people without any mental health issues, don't just wake up one day wanting to just end everything. The people who think we should deal with pain forever would have a change of heart if they themselves suffered from chronic pain and disability I'm a heart beat. I am glad you found something to life your spirit, and I hope that continues to be the case.
      Personally I wish I had the same option, I hope I would never need that option, but I wish I could even have that decision, there are hoops which are good, it should never be decided lightly, but if we put pets down that are suffering with no quality of life, why are we then why are we forced to endure the torture?
      I wish you the best. Sorry for unloading on you.

    • @pawnerd3525
      @pawnerd3525 Год назад +2

      I am glad that you BOTH are here. I do believe that you should have the right to choose relief for yourselves at some point, but I hope that your quality life continues to improve so that you do not need to exercise that option.

    • @Echo_Rin
      @Echo_Rin Год назад

      Thank you both. I wasn't expecting anyone to read my comment, let alone Oz or anyone going through their own hell. I really appreciate the support, and I do especially need it right now. Thank you

    • @SheriLynNut
      @SheriLynNut Год назад

      As a mom of two young men, and a partially disabled chronic pain sufferer, please hang in there and know that life is a gift, regardless of how much it cost to live it. You are loved ❤️

  • @open8180
    @open8180 Год назад +169

    We're here for you OZ, no matter what. You've been there when we needed a laugh and now we'll be there when you need our support. We love you OZ ❤

  • @razormarkz
    @razormarkz Год назад +516

    Hey Oz. You haven't disappointed us. You take your time. You are going through a lot. A lot more than we all know. I and many others from your subscribers and beyond are with you. We all hope you're okay and wish you nothing but the best.

  • @oougahersharr
    @oougahersharr Год назад +113

    Oz, I want you to know that you are loved and supported. You are a strong man who can get through this very dark time. Look after yourself first and foremost. Take time to breathe and just be. And know that we are rooting for you. No one should ever go through such humiliation and manipulation. No one should ever do such to another person. Huggles from someone on the other side of the country who supports you and the rest of the victims of this horrible set of circumstances forced on y'all.

  • @rustedknight_
    @rustedknight_ Год назад +661

    I can't give much as I'm a minimum wage worker atm, but it's only right for me to give you this at the least.
    Abuse like this, and abuse in general, is something I'd wish upon no one.
    I hope that you can climb out of this in one piece, and I hope that Blair ends up in a fucking cell, where she belongs.

    • @misskeirstin6355
      @misskeirstin6355 Год назад +2

      You’re making minimum wage! This dude lives in a house u could only dream of! Wake up! These creators are no different from these homeless people on the streets with their hands out! Get a real damn job if making videos ain’t cutting it!

    • @donnyshields4450
      @donnyshields4450 Год назад

      @misskeirstin6355 bro what?

    • @amazingjames1979
      @amazingjames1979 Год назад +34

      @@misskeirstin6355not the time man

    • @canabalistic7579
      @canabalistic7579 Год назад +23

      ​@misskeirstin6355 he..litterally stated that he DID get a job, under blair even, and still wasnt making enough to pay her back.
      Also, homelessness isnt as easy to get out of as everyone thinks it is. Tell me, how easy would it be for you to get a job if you struggle to have clean clothes? No minutes on your phone? No mailbox? No constant place to shower so you smell good? Razor burn, stains, holes, ill fitted clothing? What about no alarm to wake you?
      Have some compassion in your life. Homeless people and people who've struggled with abuse deserve empathy.

    • @rustedknight_
      @rustedknight_ Год назад +11

      @@amazingjames1979 😂 I'd almost believe that reply was a Blair psy-op, though the age of the channel creates enough plausible deniability.

  • @vayichrah
    @vayichrah Год назад +625

    I probably cannot say anything that will make things feel better. But, as someone who has had to face homelessness due to other's financial irresponsibility, I heavily empathize with your situation. Stay strong friend.

    • @artisan2906
      @artisan2906 Год назад +1

      Hey, what's ur pfp from?

    • @vayichrah
      @vayichrah Год назад +3

      @@artisan2906
      It's from the self-titled album from a Swedish heavy metal band called Wolf. Very original name.

  • @IcePhoenixMusician
    @IcePhoenixMusician Год назад +64

    She literally turned you into a modern day indentured slave! WTF. I’m pretty broke myself, so I can’t afford much, but I hope this helps!

  • @thesenate5291
    @thesenate5291 Год назад +62

    In the words of Ronnie barker in Porridge, "Don't let the bastards grind you down.", Oz, were holding a candle for you

  • @lotusthemermaid
    @lotusthemermaid Год назад +637

    I'm broke, but I hope this helps.
    As a psychology student on her way to becoming a counselor, I can tell you with full confidence that every single detail of Blair's behavior that you conveyed in this video describes classic abuse tactics. I'm so deeply sorry that you endured this. When I tell you my jaw dropped when you said what the document was called... This woman is truly insidious. I'm sincerely praying for your safety, security, and healing.

    • @matyasselmek3673
      @matyasselmek3673 Год назад +3

      This is just a clear example of pathological lier and narcissist.

    • @claire-amel
      @claire-amel Год назад +4

      I'm sure it's a high percentage of your available income. And that's amazing of you. ❤

  • @SleepyBishh
    @SleepyBishh Год назад +239

    We love you Oz, you take all the time tou need. We are all here to support you❤️

  • @lunaangeleclipse9745
    @lunaangeleclipse9745 Год назад +217

    Financial abuse is an incredibly powerful and dangerous form of abuse that doesn't get talked about enough.

  • @bassqueen41
    @bassqueen41 Год назад +198

    So proud of you for standing up for yourself and others affected by her. We got this

  • @Ian-qh7le
    @Ian-qh7le Год назад +223

    If she really wants to start shit with you, and she wants to continue to start it, make sure you end it. It'll be hard, but if you dont take the risks and fight the good legal fight, she'll loom over you forever. By not giving up, youre ensuring she'll think twice before hurting your self and other people in the future.

  • @NJRDC
    @NJRDC Год назад +339

    No one deserves to go through this, especially not for just sharing their story. Hang in there, Oz.

  • @lucindaegonzales
    @lucindaegonzales Год назад +332

    I'm so sorry Blair is retaliating against you like this. Take all the time you need to get your safety back. We'll be here when you're ready to share your story.

    • @wolframstahl1263
      @wolframstahl1263 Год назад +3

      At least this means her further establishing her pattern of abuse, maliciousness and retaliation. It's heartbreaking to see people who have suffered from her abuse so much already taking further hits, but the thought that it means she's digging her own hole deeper doing that is at least some consolation.

  • @haloedge2829
    @haloedge2829 Год назад +121

    Truly heartbroken for you. I didn't think I could get any more outraged by Blair but I knew there was far worse to come. You will not be fighting this alone. You have it correct, your mental health comes first and the closed-door legal stuff comes second. You are so brave for reaching out to your friends and family, cycles are hard to break but you will come out of this.

  • @Autistic_Goblin
    @Autistic_Goblin Год назад +673

    JFC this is so much worse than I could ever have imagined... I'm so sorry that you were victimized this way. It's not your fault, you didn't deserve any of this. But I'm glad to hear you're trying to get some semblance of normalcy back with returning to making content. Take care of yourself.

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +88

      Thank you. This means more than I can ever properly explain. Please know that you have more gratitude from me than I could ever properly express.

    • @thebreaddealer4942
      @thebreaddealer4942 Год назад

      Ur amazing I wish I could donate 😔

  • @InfernoOmni
    @InfernoOmni Год назад +139

    Very clear what happened here. She took advantage of your lack of experience in every facet of life (financials, relationships, etc.) and made you a prisoner. You were not left with any options from the beginning. Absolutely predatorial.

  • @simonzenn
    @simonzenn Год назад +284

    stay strong and safe my dude, i’m so sorry any of y’all have gone through her mistreatment

  • @ghostie_is_missing3904
    @ghostie_is_missing3904 Год назад +75

    Im so sorry this is happening to you. Hope this helps.

  • @yeetymcneety
    @yeetymcneety Год назад +3056

    This isn't "drama", you were abused by this horrid woman. She's hurt you and many others, and I feel that calling it "drama" commodifies it

    • @jennabeth6851
      @jennabeth6851 Год назад +182

      As Swoop says, It's not Drama, It's Dangerous.

    • @Da-C0ry
      @Da-C0ry Год назад +22

      Calling her a woman implies she's a human being. Bit too generous, innit?

    • @humzahrashid6736
      @humzahrashid6736 Год назад +53

      @@Da-C0ry I am pretty sure a rapist is considered a human being, unless she gone to the next level.

    • @ErinLorainePCOS
      @ErinLorainePCOS Год назад +28

      It makes me so mad to see this! She abused Oz and so many… she is trash!

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 Год назад +152

      @@Da-C0ryNo. Humans can be monsters. Dehumanizing them makes it easier for people to ignore the signs.

  • @DrRosenPihnoos
    @DrRosenPihnoos Год назад +344

    Hey bro, Blair is a psycho. You dont deserve this at all. I hope this helps you out bro. Were behind you ❤❤

    • @TheTediousFellow
      @TheTediousFellow Год назад +4

      W

    • @gurogoth
      @gurogoth Год назад +4

      Let's not bring ableism into youtuber drama 🫶 that makes you absolutely no better

    • @coketictac22
      @coketictac22 Год назад +2

      @@gurogoth bro who was being ableist here

    • @frandurrieu6477
      @frandurrieu6477 Год назад +1

      ​@@gurogoth How is that abelism?

    • @gurogoth
      @gurogoth Год назад

      @coketictac22 it's not anyone's place to armchair diagnose anyone. Stop fucking demonizing cluster b personality disorders, as someone with a personality disorder myself. They're not some label you just slap onto someone because they're a bad person, that's quite literally ableist

  • @Horned-Swashbuckler
    @Horned-Swashbuckler Год назад +75

    Stray strong. She is going down with her manipulation and lies. You are a victim and deserve love, help and justice.

  • @DennysMakesMusic
    @DennysMakesMusic Год назад +163

    I know its a low amount, but im a teenager with a low paying job. I hope this helps even just a lil bit. All power to you Oz. Lets hope that wretches web of pain ends soon

    • @CrystalCat24
      @CrystalCat24 Год назад +12

      You are super kind. I saw ur comment and just wanted you to know that.

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Год назад +8

      The fact you donated any money despite having little money is far more generous than you think it is. The amount doesn't matter, its the fact you still chose to help him to your own detriment, that is true kindness.

  • @AnnaVictrix
    @AnnaVictrix Год назад +1464

    Blair is a true creep for targeting men so much younger than her with manipulative financial abuse.

    • @dannybrine8718
      @dannybrine8718 Год назад +97

      If gone unchecked, how long until minors become her targets?

    • @buttsmcgee1227
      @buttsmcgee1227 Год назад +85

      I'm pretty hopeful though. Blair coerced Oz into signing those documents which means they can be challenged. You can't force someone into signing a legal document, just like how you can't sign anything while under the influence. Hopefully he can get his names off her loans. She is insidious.

    • @dakz9296
      @dakz9296 Год назад +45

      They have a 6 year age gap. He was 20 years old when they first started dating. She did this on purpose so she can control him.

    • @xcvcvcvvcvc9914
      @xcvcvcvvcvc9914 Год назад +38

      It’s immediately what I thought when it all came to light. Like why is this woman who’s 30 living with these 20 year olds ??

    • @kenirainseeker539
      @kenirainseeker539 Год назад +18

      Blair is a horrible and abusive person clearly, but I'm not sure I like this line of reasoning where we're basically implying someone is a pedophile for...being an adult dating and hanging around other adults...

  • @Phantomistress363
    @Phantomistress363 Год назад +209

    Hi Oz. I've been watching you, Click, and Wonder for 3 years now. I just wanted to say that there is always light at the end of the tunnel. What Blair has done to all of you is pure evil, and I believe that you can win. Thanks for always being a source of joy and laughter through all these years.

  • @fluffymonster396
    @fluffymonster396 Год назад +68

    This isn't much, but I want to help. Sorry you met someone awful like her. No one deserves to be treated like that. I wish you luck with everything.

  • @melimsah
    @melimsah Год назад +160

    Former Illuminaughti subscriber who is also a motion designer and can't believe how this all initially came to light. Sorry you're going through this shit. You gotta do what you gotta do, but hope a donation helps.

  • @yepidoodles
    @yepidoodles Год назад +285

    Spend this money on something for yourself, your favourite ice cream, snack, plushie, coffee, whatever. You deserve a little happiness

    • @Brooklyntrash
      @Brooklyntrash Год назад

      Just had to say this was such a nice gesture!

  • @riverlynx1895
    @riverlynx1895 Год назад +507

    The fact that I supported Blair with view and a subscription makes me sick. This time, the odds are stacked against her. Stay strong, Oz. We’re all on your side.

    • @chayden153
      @chayden153 Год назад

      Same. I'm fuckin disgusted that someone I genuinely enjoyed is this vile.

    • @blyatman5891
      @blyatman5891 Год назад +30

      She talked about frauds for years, and it's only now that we learn she was one herself.

    • @TearfulZorua
      @TearfulZorua Год назад +23

      ​@@blyatman5891
      Guess that makes her a walking example of the phrase "it takes one to know one"

    • @fzerowipeoutlover
      @fzerowipeoutlover Год назад +10

      I can't believe I was subscribed to her and a was a regular viewer of her videos.
      So glad I unsubbed back in May

    • @erinbeaud4556
      @erinbeaud4556 Год назад +3

      It’s okay, you made up for it by unsubscribing and never watching her again.

  • @riannekaiba9608
    @riannekaiba9608 Год назад +30

    Hi - I am a fellow survivor of an abusive relationship that used similar tactics of power and control. I am also a former fan of Blair's. Thank you for having the courage to speak out.

  • @abbzehx
    @abbzehx Год назад +58

    take your time with your video oz, your health (and your situation) is far more important right now. blair will get what's coming to her but it's not worth rushing things if it puts you in any sort of danger.
    also, oz, no one blames you for whatever happened. i know you already know this, but you were in your early twenties and she was nearly a decade older. you weren't naive, you were young and simply inexperienced, and she knew that and took advantage. she was supposed to be your partner, yet i would say she almost gaslit you and chose to put you into debt rather than helping you (with a situation that ~she~ put you into) as a partner should. you didn't deserve any of what's happened to you, and i'm sorry that you've gone through so much.
    please try and take care of yourself, and don’t destroy yourself for her.

  • @HirschfeldWillamette
    @HirschfeldWillamette Год назад +233

    Best of luck to you, Oz. Her main videos were about scams and controversy. Looks like she was taking fucking notes.

    • @justalonelypoteto
      @justalonelypoteto Год назад

      oh she definitely was, I'd place my bets on the company town one just being a convenient way to write off her personal research as a business expense and dailyharvest sponsorship / nordvpn

  • @WolfPack-gi7br
    @WolfPack-gi7br Год назад +855

    Oz, you are one of the strongest people I know for speaking up about this. We’re all sending you only the absolute best of wishes. We love you; stay strong man!❤️

    • @intrusive...thoughts
      @intrusive...thoughts Год назад +52

      Dude everyone like you donating are all awesome I wish I could

    • @OzMediaOfficial
      @OzMediaOfficial  Год назад +133

      Thank you for the support sent my way, it means more than I can ever properly describe.. Thank you..

    • @logancracraftgaming7124
      @logancracraftgaming7124 Год назад

      LOL DANTDM IS CRYING OVER HIS DOG BECAUSE MY VIDEOS ARE BETTER 😂😂🎉

    • @intrusive...thoughts
      @intrusive...thoughts Год назад +12

      @@logancracraftgaming7124 who are you?

    • @IcedCoffeBestCoffee
      @IcedCoffeBestCoffee Год назад +16

      @@intrusive...thoughtsa robot

  • @shika80
    @shika80 Год назад +20

    You didn't deserve to go through what Blair/iiluminaughtii put you through. I hope you are able to heal.

  • @bookiebook8543
    @bookiebook8543 Год назад +396

    I can't help much but I want to help a little. Godspeed, Oz. We're here for you.

  • @KaiDrawsShit03
    @KaiDrawsShit03 Год назад +519

    Why am I not surprised that Blair would financially and emotionally abuse someone. We're all here for you Oz ❤️ Take your time

    • @randomtinypotatocried
      @randomtinypotatocried Год назад +2

      That broke my heart but sadly sounds on point for her

    • @nevaehhamilton3493
      @nevaehhamilton3493 Год назад +6

      She also had a previous boyfriend which she abused to the point of him attempting suicide, so...

    • @Bala_Niranna
      @Bala_Niranna Год назад +5

      and prey on someone barely out of their teens while she was pushing 30 -_-

  • @iceeollie
    @iceeollie Год назад +73

    While I've been speechless throughout everyone's accounts, I have to say that I deeply empathize with you and Wonderstruck.
    All of these view points put together paint a truly harrowing depiction of Blair.
    You, Wonderstruck, Click, OT, and whomever else has been hurt and/or affected by these situations. If it's surreal for bystanders like me, I can only imagine how it feels to be living through it.
    I believe that all of you will ensure that she faces the consequences she has brought unto herself.
    I believe in you, Oz. In fact, I'm sure the whole world does. I hope this helps

  • @thelivingshtpost
    @thelivingshtpost Год назад +75

    You were one of my favorites on Sad Milk back in the day and man, this is fucking insane. This video broke my heart several times, I'm fucking bewildered everytime more info of how terrible she is comes out. I don't have much, but I really hope you're able make it out of this shit one day.

  • @Rioriathewitch
    @Rioriathewitch Год назад +123

    Thanks for everything you do oz. Your content helped pull me from a mental prison that I was in for years. I hope you can make it through this time, and I hope blair ends up in the dirt.

  • @byereality7492
    @byereality7492 Год назад +234

    I have no words. I'm so sorry this is the situation. I'm glad that everyone is coming out and discussing how Blair is manipulative and honestly evil. I hope everything works out for you, and I hope her reputation is completely destroyed so she can't do this to anyone else

  • @cassidymalcolm880
    @cassidymalcolm880 Год назад +187

    I know I can’t do too much. What an evil and despicable human being for doing this to you. I hope she gets all the karma she deserves 10fold, and that you get the justice you so desperately need. You have all sorts of amazing fans supporting you. Homelessness is no joke.

  • @oroborosspaghetti6425
    @oroborosspaghetti6425 Год назад +61

    Holy hell, even after everything this is so much worse than I ever thought it could be.
    Good luck man, hopefully the giga-video is the buckshot needed to expose all the unturned rot.