Story 1- I don’t think I like OP. Not only did she treat her dad like crap, when she found out her mom, who had abandoned her, was the real pos she just lets her off unscathed. I just couldn’t give af about her drawn out feelings because once again the villain gets to live their happily ever after.
Then when she visits his grave in the end she said “she forgave him”. What did she forgive him for? Being framed, being abandoned or having his life ruined over an allegation.
@@ZacharyMcGovern-p8i Her father told her to in his letter to OP that he was sorry he was not there for her as a father during her childhood. She forgave him to alleviate the guilt in his spirit.
S1: a testament to why you don’t blindly believe anyone not even your parent. And always ask questions I need both sides before I consider taking one That being said I’m petty 🤷🏾 I’m ruining her reputation to everybody she ever cared about call me wat u want but I’m getting my get back one way or another
Story 1: Live with the guilt OP. You will never earn forgiveness an never undo the damage you did to him. If you cant take the guilt you can take the long walk.
Last story: Reddit just doesn't think sometimes. All of those people telling OP get the game, defy your parents. Even after OP describes some of the mental and physical abuse. Her parents beat her with a stick just because she was having trouble understanding some Math. They didn't consider what the parents would do if they found her game system. They won't Just destroy the game system. OP will be going to college soon. She should've waited. Reddit absolutely Failed this OP.
I mean, the OP themselves said that the worst they would likely do is smash the thing. But I do agree that the parents' history of physical abuse is extremely concerning. Regardless of whether or not we agree with Reddit, I think what we can agree on is that these abusive parents are trash. Their continued mental abuse, controlling nature, and possible favoritism towards the younger brother (they let him buy a PS3? wtf?) is truly awful and I hope the OP was able to escape them and cut contact.
@MisterPuck Yep, we do agree that OP's parents are totally rotten to the core. I was happy when she talked about getting out of that house. Getting out and never returning is the best thing for her to do. Hopefully her college has a really good counseling department.
I think it's funny how everyone is assuming Op in the second story is a man because they write like a man. I guess we know who wears the pants in that relationship.
1) i feel sorry for OP and their dad, both of their lives were ruined(OP's dad had it worst), they were lied to from a young age to believing that their father did something horrible, when in reality their mother lied to cover up an affair, that they were get custody and not have their live ruined, ruining OP's live and the fact that she hasn't confessed about it for over 20 years and thinks that she can run away from her choices, she didnt even seem to deny them, the husband is most likely the AP and he knew what happened and doesn't want others to know, i think OP needs to NC with them for their sanity 2)NTA first off, this was never a family home, it wasn't left in a will or was passed down, the second it was put on the market, by your family was the moment they no longer wanted it as such, so they cant have a say in it anymore, also your sister is delusional, she didn't work her butt off for years to afford the house, she didnt even have nearly enough to afford a fraction of it, and didn't think to ask about the plan assuming that she has the house, and "because she has kids", she decided to have kids even when they both had large debt to pay, also how could you "pay you back" the amount of money wouldn't be enough for them to get it back in a timely manor, also 3)NTA OP deserves it, having a 95% average is really good, and the fact that they're letting her have friends over, have hobbies even watching movies doesn't make sense, wouldn't she spend less time on these hobbies and play games instead which wouldn't effect her grades? also the fact that you're being "shielded" from games at the AGE OF 12 is concerning, what happens when you discover all the things that you were forbidden to have, youll be angry and theyll have no reason to defend themselves, also you earned that money
why feel bad for this kid? He was told his entire life that the accusations are bullshit and still never tried to reach out to anyone to confirm anything. Pathetic.
story one: Y T A, you are the worst kid probably ever. Imagine being told your whole life, by the only two people you trust, that your father was innocent but refusing to believe it because a woman you've never met before made accusations that your grandparents vehemently deny. What did you expect calling the scum that ditched you without a seconds hesitation? YTA, pathetic OP deserves everything they get and more.
OO is a selfish brat who deserves to be alone for the rest of their life. They say that they " forgive their father" . It sounds like their father should be forgiving them. How can OP as a child hate a man they knows nothing about? OP simply believe a story that has two sides. But they believed the woman side, without even hearing their father's side. The only person in this story with whom I have any sympathy, is OP's father.
S3: wow. I can’t believe that there are still people out there like this person’s parents. They are controlling and abusive. I really hate people like that.
S1: Why would anyone marry that woman! She committed a serious crime and doesn't have the bravery to face it. This is why false accusations need to be a serious criminal and arrestable crime no matter how long it has been. As for OP, I really wish he gave his dad a chance. Sadly, he wasted so many years believing one side of the story.
Story 1, was born while dad was arrested, never convicted, but after he got out of detainment, she was old enough to say she didn't want to meet him? Hmmm.
S1 - Impossible to believe the paternal grandparents would let their grandson hate their son for things that weren't true......and that they never saw their son?! What kind of grandparents would let a 9-year old kid decide what's best for him?! They never told the kid the truth?! How did OP even hear his mother's side, and take it, while hating her, and never hearing his dad's side?! C'mon.......This is just too far-fetched.....
Wait I call bullshit , if he wasn't convicted because there wasn't enough evidence, but still was in jail (first wtf), I take it, it might have been a few weeks, months at most, say even it took 2 years (again, how the fuck would it take so much time for a not guilty verdict), how come OP could *tell* his grandparents he hated his dad???? By the story, it goes like this : Mom gets pregnant, cheats, gets caught, accuses dad of assault, dad gets jail without proof while she stays at grandparents for a while and gives birth, then ups and leaves "when he was a baby" leaving him alone with grandparents. So, how did a baby have the awareness to hate his father and the decision making power to chase him away? Meh I call fake
Story 3 if you want to be a gamer more power to you just wait till you get your own place cuz once you turn 18 your parents cant do shit unless they want to end up in a prison cell or hand cuffs once your 18 your parents authority over you vanishes they cant force you to do shit and if they do its labeled as assault and battery
Ok good thing story 1 is fake because op was in her mother womb when her mother accused her father of assaulting him wnd jail him and only few months old when op mother abandon her too with paternal grandparents. And in few months when op father was out because of no evidence she was old enough to be angry at him for what he did to her mom, despite her mom leaving her with her grandparents when op was just few months old.
@@Waitt..reallỳ its not that, op said his father was in jail for a few months, and when he got out op didnt want to hear from him, but from the timeline he gave, he should not be two by that point, hard to think a small child would think like that
Story 1- I don’t think I like OP. Not only did she treat her dad like crap, when she found out her mom, who had abandoned her, was the real pos she just lets her off unscathed. I just couldn’t give af about her drawn out feelings because once again the villain gets to live their happily ever after.
She took from her mom lmao
Then when she visits his grave in the end she said “she forgave him”. What did she forgive him for? Being framed, being abandoned or having his life ruined over an allegation.
@@ZacharyMcGovern-p8i Her father told her to in his letter to OP that he was sorry he was not there for her as a father during her childhood. She forgave him to alleviate the guilt in his spirit.
Op 1 lol - dad said his side, his parents agreed, mom refuses to say - I just don't know who to trust!!
Story 1, i don't think the mom feels any guilt, she jsut doesnt want to face the consequences of her actions.
She did nothing wrong dad is lying all grapists are
@@goodnightmyprince6734cringe bait 0/10
@@goodnightmyprince6734 she did a lot of wrong but I see your pro abandoning your kids and causing the death of innocent people
@@goodnightmyprince6734mom was a manipulative person. That’s why she is unhappy regardless of what she does.
Just say you hate men and sybau😂😂@@goodnightmyprince6734
S1: a testament to why you don’t blindly believe anyone not even your parent. And always ask questions I need both sides before I consider taking one That being said I’m petty 🤷🏾 I’m ruining her reputation to everybody she ever cared about call me wat u want but I’m getting my get back one way or another
Story 1: Live with the guilt OP. You will never earn forgiveness an never undo the damage you did to him. If you cant take the guilt you can take the long walk.
Forgive him for what.
Loving you.
S1 was an absolute punch to the heart
Last story: Reddit just doesn't think sometimes.
All of those people telling OP get the game, defy your parents. Even after OP describes some of the mental and physical abuse. Her parents beat her with a stick just because she was having trouble understanding some Math. They didn't consider what the parents would do if they found her game system. They won't Just destroy the game system.
OP will be going to college soon. She should've waited.
Reddit absolutely Failed this OP.
I mean, the OP themselves said that the worst they would likely do is smash the thing.
But I do agree that the parents' history of physical abuse is extremely concerning. Regardless of whether or not we agree with Reddit, I think what we can agree on is that these abusive parents are trash. Their continued mental abuse, controlling nature, and possible favoritism towards the younger brother (they let him buy a PS3? wtf?) is truly awful and I hope the OP was able to escape them and cut contact.
@MisterPuck Yep, we do agree that OP's parents are totally rotten to the core.
I was happy when she talked about getting out of that house.
Getting out and never returning is the best thing for her to do. Hopefully her college has a really good counseling department.
I think it's funny how everyone is assuming Op in the second story is a man because they write like a man. I guess we know who wears the pants in that relationship.
1) i feel sorry for OP and their dad, both of their lives were ruined(OP's dad had it worst), they were lied to from a young age to believing that their father did something horrible, when in reality their mother lied to cover up an affair, that they were get custody and not have their live ruined, ruining OP's live and the fact that she hasn't confessed about it for over 20 years and thinks that she can run away from her choices, she didnt even seem to deny them, the husband is most likely the AP and he knew what happened and doesn't want others to know, i think OP needs to NC with them for their sanity
2)NTA first off, this was never a family home, it wasn't left in a will or was passed down, the second it was put on the market, by your family was the moment they no longer wanted it as such, so they cant have a say in it anymore, also your sister is delusional, she didn't work her butt off for years to afford the house, she didnt even have nearly enough to afford a fraction of it, and didn't think to ask about the plan assuming that she has the house, and "because she has kids", she decided to have kids even when they both had large debt to pay, also how could you "pay you back" the amount of money wouldn't be enough for them to get it back in a timely manor, also
3)NTA OP deserves it, having a 95% average is really good, and the fact that they're letting her have friends over, have hobbies even watching movies doesn't make sense, wouldn't she spend less time on these hobbies and play games instead which wouldn't effect her grades? also the fact that you're being "shielded" from games at the AGE OF 12 is concerning, what happens when you discover all the things that you were forbidden to have, youll be angry and theyll have no reason to defend themselves, also you earned that money
Heres my question why even bother getting full custody if you are just gonna abandon the kid either get an abortion or do adoption
@@mriddley basically to stick it to him, during divorce, and doesnt actually care
As for story 1, agreed.
why feel bad for this kid? He was told his entire life that the accusations are bullshit and still never tried to reach out to anyone to confirm anything. Pathetic.
@@InTheDemonsWake he was lied to, and manipulated
story one: Y T A, you are the worst kid probably ever. Imagine being told your whole life, by the only two people you trust, that your father was innocent but refusing to believe it because a woman you've never met before made accusations that your grandparents vehemently deny. What did you expect calling the scum that ditched you without a seconds hesitation? YTA, pathetic OP deserves everything they get and more.
You need to work on your listening comprehension skills.
@harleyquinn5774 thanks for your comment, much love
Doubt dad is innocent
@@goodnightmyprince67340/10 bait
OO is a selfish brat who deserves to be alone for the rest of their life. They say that they " forgive their father" . It sounds like their father should be forgiving them. How can OP as a child hate a man they knows nothing about? OP simply believe a story that has two sides. But they believed the woman side, without even hearing their father's side. The only person in this story with whom I have any sympathy, is OP's father.
Op was a child, what do you expect?
@@musicmusette2014 That the grandparents explained the situation and got therapy for the OP
@@ravanpee1325 So its the grandparents fault then.
@Argonisgema Putting blame on the grandparents js not what the commenter is saying.
No kid should go thru that. Probably feels worthless
S3: wow. I can’t believe that there are still people out there like this person’s parents. They are controlling and abusive. I really hate people like that.
The last story I would say. There are worse things to buy.
Story 1 - You sound like the monster to me.
I just started to listen to people spill that good tea and I have a question. The hell does OP mean?
S1: Why would anyone marry that woman! She committed a serious crime and doesn't have the bravery to face it. This is why false accusations need to be a serious criminal and arrestable crime no matter how long it has been. As for OP, I really wish he gave his dad a chance. Sadly, he wasted so many years believing one side of the story.
WTF does the text-to-speech keep insisting that 3DS is pronounced as three-decise-sconce?
Fr
Story 1, was born while dad was arrested, never convicted, but after he got out of detainment, she was old enough to say she didn't want to meet him? Hmmm.
S1 - Impossible to believe the paternal grandparents would let their grandson hate their son for things that weren't true......and that they never saw their son?! What kind of grandparents would let a 9-year old kid decide what's best for him?! They never told the kid the truth?! How did OP even hear his mother's side, and take it, while hating her, and never hearing his dad's side?! C'mon.......This is just too far-fetched.....
Wait I call bullshit , if he wasn't convicted because there wasn't enough evidence, but still was in jail (first wtf), I take it, it might have been a few weeks, months at most, say even it took 2 years (again, how the fuck would it take so much time for a not guilty verdict), how come OP could *tell* his grandparents he hated his dad????
By the story, it goes like this :
Mom gets pregnant, cheats, gets caught, accuses dad of assault, dad gets jail without proof while she stays at grandparents for a while and gives birth, then ups and leaves "when he was a baby" leaving him alone with grandparents.
So, how did a baby have the awareness to hate his father and the decision making power to chase him away?
Meh I call fake
I need to get a 3 Dicisecons. Game sounds lit!
Story 3: Tell me your parents are Asian without telling me your parents are Asian.
Mannnnnnnnn!
Story 1: in my opinion no evedence means it's a lie unless we want to make all lies true
Story 3 if you want to be a gamer more power to you just wait till you get your own place cuz once you turn 18 your parents cant do shit unless they want to end up in a prison cell or hand cuffs once your 18 your parents authority over you vanishes they cant force you to do shit and if they do its labeled as assault and battery
Ok good thing story 1 is fake because op was in her mother womb when her mother accused her father of assaulting him wnd jail him and only few months old when op mother abandon her too with paternal grandparents.
And in few months when op father was out because of no evidence she was old enough to be angry at him for what he did to her mom, despite her mom leaving her with her grandparents when op was just few months old.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@rohanchalke3378 lowkey
Bethany?
Story 2: OP is entitled. Just because you have money doesn't mean you don't support your family. OP needs to give the house to the sister.
No😅
How old is that story for it to be a 3DS lol?
it’s been about a decade
Story 1. Please updated AI.
Why is no one talking about SecretVoices just casually dropping a hand reveal? 😂
It's stock footage from other people, not his or her hands playing.
Can you put GOW or GTA as background gameplay
Definitely
@SecretVoices25 thanks
Dad is probably a liar and a coward
Damn, you really have a problem
You the ex wife
@@ShadowGladiatorXnever married
Day 161 of telling secretvoices to have a good day
Go Woke? Go broke!
Nah how is this woke. Smh
@clarkabeast8136 what isn't woke about it?!
You
story one seems fake
Assuming that Op's parents were married Marital rape is legal in many places so being SAd by your husband is not illegal depending on the state.
@@Waitt..reallỳ its not that, op said his father was in jail for a few months, and when he got out op didnt want to hear from him, but from the timeline he gave, he should not be two by that point, hard to think a small child would think like that
@@Waitt..reallỳ In the U.S. marital rape is illegal in all 50 states.
Of course a female wouldn’t want to believe it
Why would op father koll himself unless he knows is guilty if Grape
Because he's treated like a rapist.
But the timeline given made it clear the story was fake, so it doesn't really matter
No fuckin way you commented this 9 hrs ago, and then commented again after 8 hrs, you really need to seek therapy
@@balarion539the guy from Chris Hanson show unalived himself because he was guilty though 🤔🤔🤔