I loved this video. I am like you Jillz, I don't believe in dating just to date and as I'm still young and not even looking for a long term relationship and marriage, I've never dated before. I believe that when I'm ready to start looking for him, he will be ready also and i will attract him that way. In the meantime, I'm learning about myself and becoming the woman I want to be, the woman who i feel proud and confident to be, the woman who i want as the mother for my children, the amazing wife of my husband.
I LOVE that you brought up the fact you need to have chemistry and attraction to someone, it's either there or its not. I've dated some really great people that by all accounts on paper we shouldv'e worked but it lacked that extra thing that sets it apart from the real deal. I've had people make me feel terrible for not forcing it to work because what are my chances of finding someone that is all those great kind qualities AND I want to kiss them for the long haul.
I would like some advice although I’m a guy? Is there a way I can try to ease my woman’s emotions. I messaged my woman and then she told me to stay away from her and she would bite my throat off but then after we texted for around 15 minutes she ended with telling me she loved me and was happy that I have been thinking about her. Please help any advice would be welcomed. She said she was having a hard day that day but I’d like some insight to how to maybe manager her in the future. Thank You.
Modern women have many options. But they think nobody is good enough. At 45 yr when beauty is gone they are alone, living with cats, drinking wine and thinking about the good old days
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great video. contempt -- some people might be shocked that anyone would be so rude towards their partner but ive been in a position where i felt resentment and contempt for my partner. it's not something that happens overnight, and it's not right but it happens. i think some of this can also be prevented if i just had stopped thinking of my partner's potential and just accepted them the way that they were and the current position they were in life. had i been honest with myself and asked myself, "am i okay being the bread winner, having my partner be much more of an outgoing person than me, be willing to split whatever time we have together with his friends? if so, then keep being with this person and dont put this against him!! if not, leave." in the end, both parties have gotta be equally attracted together. one person shouldnt like the other more than the other unless you wanna risk some sort of imbalance of "power" in the relationship. /sigh. relationships are difficult and more and more people are realizing that being lonely isnt a good enough excuse to be with someone (eg me LOL). good luck yall.
Well said. This is why we shouldn’t choose a partner for the their “potential” because it ends up in resentment and hurt. If the partner doesn’t fulfill their potential, we become resentful and hold the partner in contempt because we now view that partner as a loser. On the flip side, when the partner fulfills their potential, they’re more than likely to leave for someone that’s more in their new lane. We need to choose our partner by where they are NOW, and if it bothers us, we don’t waste either our time or their time and move along.
Thanks Jill When I have been experiencing issues and grives with my husband we have chosen to consult a therapist and it was the best thing to do because a lot of things change in a better way in my relationship and we have saved our marriage thanks god
thanks, Jillz! youre so talented to create women's health videos, you continue to be the "Mr. Rogers" of educating women... easy to receive the message and feel positive afterward
Thank u for this .. I’m noticing that my boyfriend when he arrives to me home for visit usually the last weeks he is more on the phone or laptop … and in feeling like he prefer to do that instead of being with me ..
You just put all of my thoughts into this video lol Too bad I still haven’t found that loving and nurturing partner. I’ve dealt with contempt, disrespect, men who date just to date… hopefully I’ll find someone who can build a life with me and grow together :)
This video was full of hard pills to swallow, especially when you talked about how dating just to date was a waste of energy… I just broke up with my first boyfriend a few weeks ago and I didn’t realize at the beginning why he was so serious about dating me. I was looking at it as more of a dating just to date thing, but even as time went on and I became more serious about him I still had to realize that it wouldn’t work because my parents are religious and wouldn’t approve of him. It broke my heart and I kept trying to justify dating him without long term intention because I felt I deserved love, but it would be a waste of time in the end. It’s been a rough few weeks but hearing you say the same thing I was thinking helped. Thank you Jillz, love your videos 💗
I’m only 21 and I’ve never had a boyfriend ( I share my story on my channel) ❤️ These videos are super helpful for me and sooo many others on our journey. So many little nuggets here.. thank you ❤️ Big Aloha 🤙🏾 from Hawai’i 🧘🏽♀️🌸🫖🪴
Could you give examples of little things to forgive? I know every person is different but I feel my gauge is being forgiving, but I can’t forget and trust is compromised😢
Not necessarily, it depends on the relationship...everyone needs respect so if you feel like you're completely missing it, it will be something you're craving! Hard to explain in just a short comment ❤️
I usually love your videos, and I mean no offence but the point on masc/fem completely ignores LGBTQ relationships. Btw I am not in that spectrum and am heterosexual.
I loved this video. I am like you Jillz, I don't believe in dating just to date and as I'm still young and not even looking for a long term relationship and marriage, I've never dated before. I believe that when I'm ready to start looking for him, he will be ready also and i will attract him that way. In the meantime, I'm learning about myself and becoming the woman I want to be, the woman who i feel proud and confident to be, the woman who i want as the mother for my children, the amazing wife of my husband.
Love that you’re focusing on yourself 💕
good for u loveee!! 🤍🤍
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I LOVE that you brought up the fact you need to have chemistry and attraction to someone, it's either there or its not. I've dated some really great people that by all accounts on paper we shouldv'e worked but it lacked that extra thing that sets it apart from the real deal. I've had people make me feel terrible for not forcing it to work because what are my chances of finding someone that is all those great kind qualities AND I want to kiss them for the long haul.
You just can’t force it!! 💕
I would like some advice although I’m a guy? Is there a way I can try to ease my woman’s emotions. I messaged my woman and then she told me to stay away from her and she would bite my throat off but then after we texted for around 15 minutes she ended with telling me she loved me and was happy that I have been thinking about her. Please help any advice would be welcomed. She said she was having a hard day that day but I’d like some insight to how to maybe manager her in the future. Thank You.
Modern women have many options. But they think nobody is good enough. At 45 yr when beauty is gone they are alone, living with cats, drinking wine and thinking about the good old days
@@trollthebringerofdeath2.0j99 Women are stronger in the subject of love because we are more romantic and vulnerable. After a break up or divorce men are screwed. Ask men not women. The best love coaching and chefs are men
Amen to this! Romance is the ONLY thing that distinguishes the marriage relationship from other relationships
great video.
contempt -- some people might be shocked that anyone would be so rude towards their partner but ive been in a position where i felt resentment and contempt for my partner. it's not something that happens overnight, and it's not right but it happens. i think some of this can also be prevented if i just had stopped thinking of my partner's potential and just accepted them the way that they were and the current position they were in life. had i been honest with myself and asked myself, "am i okay being the bread winner, having my partner be much more of an outgoing person than me, be willing to split whatever time we have together with his friends? if so, then keep being with this person and dont put this against him!! if not, leave."
in the end, both parties have gotta be equally attracted together. one person shouldnt like the other more than the other unless you wanna risk some sort of imbalance of "power" in the relationship. /sigh. relationships are difficult and more and more people are realizing that being lonely isnt a good enough excuse to be with someone (eg me LOL). good luck yall.
Thank you! And ya I think contempt is more common than we realize!
Wow! You have so much wisdom
Well said. This is why we shouldn’t choose a partner for the their “potential” because it ends up in resentment and hurt. If the partner doesn’t fulfill their potential, we become resentful and hold the partner in contempt because we now view that partner as a loser. On the flip side, when the partner fulfills their potential, they’re more than likely to leave for someone that’s more in their new lane. We need to choose our partner by where they are NOW, and if it bothers us, we don’t waste either our time or their time and move along.
Your videos have helped me so much in all facets of my life. I was so exhausted and in my masculine energy forever.
So glad they’ve helped you!!! 💕💕
I really like to listen to ur videos when i clean my room but today i already clean it so I'm just gonna chill and listen to the video
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This is gold for men trying to understand women or fix their relationship
Sage-Mystic here, married to a Magician-King. Never a dull moment.
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Thanks Jill
When I have been experiencing issues and grives with my husband we have chosen to consult a therapist and it was the best thing to do because a lot of things change in a better way in my relationship and we have saved our marriage thanks god
Please keep making videos. I just subscribed. I'm so happy I found your channel. It's amazing and is helping me out in many ways! ♥️
thanks, Jillz! youre so talented to create women's health videos, you continue to be the "Mr. Rogers" of educating women... easy to receive the message and feel positive afterward
I am so glad I found your channel ☺️ you've been helping me out a lot
Aww so glad! I’m glad you found me too! 🥰
Thank u for this .. I’m noticing that my boyfriend when he arrives to me home for visit usually the last weeks he is more on the phone or laptop … and in feeling like he prefer to do that instead of being with me ..
I loved this advice!! Thank you so, so much. I feel like this encapsulates all the teachings one needs to build something you actually want.
You just put all of my thoughts into this video lol
Too bad I still haven’t found that loving and nurturing partner. I’ve dealt with contempt, disrespect, men who date just to date… hopefully I’ll find someone who can build a life with me and grow together :)
You will! ❤️
Something special is going to happen to you soon.. I am so positive for all out there.Just have to be open to love and be less sensitive. I think..
This video was incredible, I don't have enough words to describe it. Thank you!
Glad you liked it!!! 😍
i needed to hear that forgiveness part. thank you 🙏🌸😊🤍
You’re welcome!! 💕
I was a little bit upset because of my fiance. Thank You My Dear ! This video proved a answer to my Anxiety .
Bottom line... self love is the key 🔑.. to our own heart and finding a longterm partner.
Very true 💕
i came across you videos, i am so happy i did. They are amazing, really helpful so thank you 💙
So glad you found me!! 💖
This video was full of hard pills to swallow, especially when you talked about how dating just to date was a waste of energy… I just broke up with my first boyfriend a few weeks ago and I didn’t realize at the beginning why he was so serious about dating me. I was looking at it as more of a dating just to date thing, but even as time went on and I became more serious about him I still had to realize that it wouldn’t work because my parents are religious and wouldn’t approve of him. It broke my heart and I kept trying to justify dating him without long term intention because I felt I deserved love, but it would be a waste of time in the end. It’s been a rough few weeks but hearing you say the same thing I was thinking helped. Thank you Jillz, love your videos 💗
So glad it was helpful for you 💕💕
That was beautifully said 💗
Thank you 🥰🥰
I agree with you dear
Thank you so much. I had several relationships but never longer than ten years. I seem to struggle around years seven or eight.
You’re welcome! I’ve heard that year 7 is statistically the hardest year!
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Hi jillz lov the way you speak....it helps a lot...lov frm india
Thank you! 💕
Thank you so much for this video 😊
I’m only 21 and I’ve never had a boyfriend ( I share my story on my channel) ❤️ These videos are super helpful for me and sooo many others on our journey. So many little nuggets here.. thank you ❤️ Big Aloha 🤙🏾 from Hawai’i 🧘🏽♀️🌸🫖🪴
Glad you found it helpful!! 💖💖
Hey bby can we chat
Could you give examples of little things to forgive? I know every person is different but I feel my gauge is being forgiving, but I can’t forget and trust is compromised😢
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Hey what does your playlist have on it? I dont have spotify
All so true
Great advice.
Thanks Jillz! 💞 I wonder: if I need more respect and appreciation, does that mean I'm more masculine than feminine?
Not necessarily, it depends on the relationship...everyone needs respect so if you feel like you're completely missing it, it will be something you're craving! Hard to explain in just a short comment ❤️
Every day is a choice. 40 years in.
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Where did you get that pink dress behind you 😍😍
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You’re so funny 😆
Please do the mbti test. You seem like intp or intj, I am really interested what type you are
Haha ok I will do it soon!
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Jillz, I am a woman... but should I confess? Do you have a video for that?
Can u make a video about male infidelity and forgiving.
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My advice for women is pursue men and be their provider. Men did both since the dawn of time. It's women's turn.
So many ads in a 12 min video…..👎
Oh really? I thought there was only 1. I’ll check it out, thanks!
I usually love your videos, and I mean no offence but the point on masc/fem completely ignores LGBTQ relationships. Btw I am not in that spectrum and am heterosexual.
There’s masc/fem energy in every relationship, including same sex! It’s no different
Thank you for clearing that up ❤️
LGBTQ has the same dynamics. IT depends who is playing the woman and who the man. good luck for you
Energy is not gender specific.
there appears to be a bit of trying to impress your beliefs on people. dating just to date is dumb. dumb is a dangerous controlling term.
Of course my videos will naturally include my beliefs. But I think people should do whatever they want with that info!
If you want negative consequences, go with dating just to date. It won't land you anywhere happy. To me, wanting that result is dumb.
Imagine thinking there is such a thing as feminine energy
Chemistry is just another term for “good looking “
Nah you can go with good looking guys and not have chemistry. I've been with guys that are average looking and there's been amazing chemistry.
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