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I don't even think so much about him. I'm living my life to the fullest . Putting myself on the pedestal. Whether he comes or not, it doesn't really matter anymore. Most importantly I have learned to love , appreciate and be grateful to myself.
I don't see anything wrong with people wanting attention from others as long as it's genuine because the person is improving themselves. I've been on fire for the past few months and women are checking me out all over the place. I really can't explain it. I like it but I really only care if my SP notices me and I'm working on her. She's the only one I have eyes for and who has my heart.
Yes just treat yourself with the love you desire and tell yourself the things you desire. You will receive what you believe is to be true, stay calm and relaxed. Yes I have had a couple down days but got back up and keep with my inner peace and knowing.
I was waiting to see what you're going to say in this video after I read the title. The energy that goes with begging is indeed low vibrational and reflects how the person doing the manifestation feels. Great video! 🧡
I almost didn't watch this because I have found that most videos and articles about "making someone" do something are usually garbage! Like you said, I don't want someone to be desperate to be with me, ugh. I'm glad that you made this video.
Ever since I started improving my self-concept, even if it's little by little, I don't feel so attached to my sp and other manifestations. This video just reassured me that I'm on the right path. Thank you so much. 😇
I have everything I want and deserve all my desires and wishes to be fulfilled. I am in a state of abundance. My man is totally into me and he will be here.
Oh my god!! I totally agree with you Shelly!! Big thumbs up 👍🏻 I now have 100% trusting your method. I am all about discovering my most free authentic self, and I would love for the person I love to be the same. Thank you!!
i just found your channel and im hooked. everytime i feel fear about my SP, i watch your videos and i feel better instantly. id love to win those e books to grow even more! manifesting that now :)
Shelly you’re totally right! After a long time trying to manifest my sp with desperation and sense of lack (of course with very poor manifestations) I found Neville and soon after you. I clearly understood that I have to rebuilt my self love, because I was putting so much energy on him, and it was frustrating and exhausting. Some days are fine with affirmation and exercises, but some days I still found myself in a sense of lack and “he’s not here”. And then, here you are with your precious videos. They always make me feel so “I’m not alone” and soothed. Thank you so much dear. 🌈🌸
Hi shelly! I’ve gotten so much attention from men these last couple a weeks and it’s crazy that it does nothing for me except for flatter me! i feel SO fulfilled when i’m really in tune w my inner love. I used to need the opposite sex validation now i just rely on me 🌻
I’m so glad about the message behind the video. I kept putting off watching this because I felt like “I don’t need them to beg” but I watched because Shelly is so wise! 😂 the message resonated!
Where your Energy Flows your Energy Goes. Self love will raise your vibrational frequency and the more you have gratitude the more you come into perfect alignment with your desire which flows back to you. You are loved , admired, wanted and desired. You are special. You are unique. You are uniquely defined and one of a kind just like your finger print which is like no other. You are absolutely worthy of all the love you desire because you are a child of The Creator of All life. You are one with The Most High God because you are made in the Image of The Most High God!! All things are possible to those who believe.
Nice and sensible video. There are so many manifestation coaches who say make them beg, obsessed, crazy etc. But we should never wish someone to be in such position. I have been obsessed crazy for someone. It's not a good space to be in. We should never wish negative things for others. It's bad karma
You nailed it! When someone is desperate for me, he projects lack and low confidence which isn't attractive at all!! We want confident people pursuing us! 😉
When I joined your channel some 3 months ago, I was in a state of desperation and abandonment, confusion and rejection. I was so focused on manifesting my sp back and the more I tried the farther he went away and eventually stopped responding to my texts. So yes desperation is living in the state of lack and creates more lack. I have learnt alot about self love and inner child (my favorite topics lol)from you and more focused on myself now and rarely think about him 😄.
I've been there. My sp and I split up a year ago after an 8 year relationship. I learned about Neville and loa in November of last year but couldn't scratch the surface of practicing any techniques because my anxiety and fear. finally in April I said forget it I need to let go of the fear and just be positive 2 weeks later bam she showed up but immediately when we started to spend time my fears of us not working out came back and then in July I started to get ghosted and then found she was dating someone. I spiraled out of control (not towards her) after two weeks I finally let it go. if she wants to date someone else. fine so be it. Now im finally in a state where I know no matter what it is done and we will be back together and more importantly im appreciative of this time apart. Nothing in middle matters. At all.
I’ve struggled with self love for the majority of my life but your videos actually make me feel like it’s very possible to learn. And I know I need to have a mindset of “knowing” but I do like knowing that I can learn to love myself💗
When i first saw the title of the video , i thought this one isn t for me to watch. Finally i decided to watch it from curiosity and you haven t dissapointed me! 😊 Shelly I want to thank you for this honest video! I totally agree with you. 💖I believe that everytime we need something outside from us to confirm our value, we should pause, breath and just feel our value inside us. That s our job and then universe's s task is to confirm what we believe for ourselves. Blessings to you!🌺
I agree Shelly . Self concept is number one . I have gone back to the basics and bit focusing on intentional manifestation until I change my self concept . In my life everything I have an inner knowing for it is automatically manifesting . I want to get there with other areas as well . Looking forward to hearing more about self concept
This is so true! I never questioned why I wanted obsession, but you’re right, it is coming from a place of desperation! Thank you so much for this video 💗💗💗
Shelly, I totally love and agree with your approach to the subject of manifesting a specific person. It can be challenging though for some us who suddenly lost their marriages without much warning to come from a place of “Self Love” & self compassion. Starting afresh and having an unshakable confidence to be in the “State” of believing that you’re loved by your new specific person can prove to be difficult. Maybe it’s just a case of practicing more self love until it’s imprinted in the subconscious.
You are exactly right. When I first started manifesting my SP, I thought I wanted obsession and begging but really it was me who was obsessed etc. And the results I got sucked. I've been landed in my own inner knowing for almost a month now and I also know I am so loved, esp by the Universe. The results I'm getting now are amazing now that I've loosened my grip. 💖💖💖
Oh Shelly I’m so glad this was your stance... I felt unease at the title and I’m so happy about how you dealt with this... this resonates and feels affirming 💗
You are so helpful and spot on about self love. I love the the part about “landing in myself” I could feel that happen. I’m also doing the inner child work, especially when I’m in fear of abandonment.
It's funny how different attachment styles can come out depending on the relationship you're in. I was avoidant attached in a previous relationship and now I'm anxiously attached. And my partner is avoidant. I am giving them space, as hard as it is... giving and giving and giving space. So we shall see what happens :-) Appreciate your wisdom so much at the moment Shelly! 💜
Shelly，i feel so happy everytimes i see you ，you change my feeling and make me feel so confidence to nyself，i feel so good and trust myself，i want to get my sp back to me🙏Thank you for every video that you sharing ，you are beautiful and love and thank you angin to meeting you here and thank you to universe to let me meet you from this such beautiful way，i love you❤️🙏
I think ppl wantin their sp to beg or be obsessed has less to do with personal desperation, or it could, but it's for situations where the sp did something that hurt u but u still want them back again but bc of the wound the person had inflicted-- anything less than them begging or bein obsessed will kill the manifestor's sense of self . so yes Shelley you're right but i think it stems more from these situations than manifesting a new or first time specific person
I can't wait to see your self concept video. I recently discovered that i am trying to manifest from a state of lack so ive recently started to affirm that i have what i need within
i just started watching ur videos and oh god u have no idea how much i like u already 🥺 ur words made me cry cuz it’s true i need to work on myself first. thank u so much ! ❤️
I think this video is unique on yt It's just not healthy to want someone be desperate, it's a toxic behaviour and that's just not want you want for someone you love ,you want just to be the other person into you ,not creepy Always be careful what you wish for This lady knows what she is talking about
I have tremendous gratitude for being led to listen to the yt channel called your youniverse, their video about quantum jumping, parallel universes. Immediately after I finished watching and listening to that I suddenly discovered that my suggested videos had only videos about loa, and every channel listed including yours, I had no awareness they existed previously to that moment.. I watched the videos, one after another, and discovered you,Robert Zink, Jaime fast manifesting, Helena Hunt, etc I watched
Has to be one of the most important videos I have watched so far. Yes, the title hooked me in but no I have never wanted to have someone beg to have me back. Seems kinda icky. I am struggling to build an unflinching self love within but I firmly believe it is the only way. My life keeps reflecting back to me a lack of self worth and that is what drive's your message home Shelly. I am feeling better, I am loved and adored, I am a magnificent Goddess. I'm getting there! Keep on illuminating these precious ideas! Thank you!
Kinda off topic here lol but I think it would be cool to see a Q&A with you and your man, or just getting to know you both as a couple and about how you met😊❤
I'm so glad you said this in this video! I wouldn't want to manifest my SP in that state - I've been in that state and it's MISERABLE. I'm happy to date my SP as someone who is genuinely interested in me. :)
I agree 👍.. I was in a state of desperation when I started manifesting my SP & no matter what I did.. Any number of "LOA TECHNIQUES " he was further going away.. I realized that it clearly wasn't working, I started feeling low, depressed and clueless.. Then I came across Neville goddard's lectures after watching few other youtubers just like you.. And BAM.. it LITERALLY TRANSFORMED MY LIFE I started with the practice of living in the end.. I did it without hesitation.. At first it was a little bit different because it's altogether a different lifestyle.. But over the period of time.. Like in 2-3 weeks.. I got good at it..and from that time onwards I just knew that we are going to be together.. I also practiced self love as you mentioned.. I have written my own affirmations that work well for me.. ever since I have landed in this what I would call "inner knowing" He has contacted me so many times.. I can easily tell that my manifestation is near 😇.. He's eager to meet me.. He thinks about me.. He wants to spend time with me.. I think as Neville says the bridge of incidents are unfolding..!!! Would also like to add-on I have become very calm after practicing self love.. That's my observation.. Like I feel good and peaceful almost all day long.. I'm also working on manifesting various other things.. Some of them have already entered my 3D reality.. I'm improving every single day.. Getting better and better.. Will be sharing my success story soon.. Guys just follow what she's saying.. & trust me you are going to be successful..!! have faith.. 😇🙏 Love and peace✌😘🌎💖🍃 Happy manifesting.. 🙏❤😇
4:29 yes, yes, yes. If you want somebody to be obsessed with you, or desperately chasing, it is about your own lack, your own intentions. Even if it happens so, it is based on the fundamental- minority, maybe revenge, playing games, instead of honest, crystal clear love. You are right. Two equal energies- Male and Female- God and Godess. Nothing less than that. And it is all over the same- my deep down self concept. Thanks Shelly. :) On the other hand- it is some sad- that headlines like- How to make him chase, or how to get him back, and so on, are more clickable-than the clear idea- just look into yourself. This is how we think initially. :)
BRAVO.... WHY THE SP TO BE OBSESSED? WHY NOT THE OTHER PERSON TO LOVE US NATURALLY BY CHANGING OURSELVES INSIDE TO ATTRACT THEM? WHY NOT TO WORK INSIDE OURSELVES IN ORDER TO LOVE OURSELVES FIRSTLY AND BE CONFIDENT AND ONLY TO CARE ABOUT THE SP? WELL, SELF-CONCEPT! I AGREE FULLY FULLY WITH YOU AND I AM THAT I AM! IF THE MANIFESTER DOES NOT USE THE OBSESSION FEELING CORRECTLY HE/SHE MAY END UP OBSESSED ABOUT THE SP OR THE OBJECT AND BELIEVE ME IS VERY EXHAUSTING AND BORING TOO THE SP TO BE OBSESSED. . FINALLY I AGREE IN EVERYTHING YOU SAID. EXCELLENT! 👍
I don’t want him to beg to be with me. I want him to find the experience of being with me so pleasurable that he feels it’s a natural expression of himself to love me, and decide to spend the rest of his life playing with me. 😁
I am new to your channel and have listened to many videos today, all wonderful. You have given me that ahh moment of understanding I feel that I have been struggling with with manifesting. So great. Love your channel.
Having been on the other side, it'd be nice to just have a balance between my wanting to be with him and him wanting to be with me. Two wholes coming together to create something better.
I love myself I am loved I am complete and whole person I am adorable I am enough I am a prize I am in demend I am beautiful I am amazing I know my worth i don't need to beg someone because he/she is already mine i have what i want already i don't need to do anything i'm gonna watch my feelings and thoughts sit like a Goddess because i am the God of my reality i don't need to do anything everything is always working out for me. My specific person is coming back his energy to me I am wanted to my specific person My specific person is only interested to me✨🦋❤
I really enjoy Shelly’s videos and absolutely love them all!! I have learned some amazing life changing things listening, but not quite sure if I agree with this one, it kind of threw me off. I happen to like the click bait titles and feel that most of the other titles are kind of similar. I also happen to enjoy it when my SP is obsessed and begging for me, I think it’s super cute. I feel like I’m in a good confident state too. To each their own 🤷♀️
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I started manifesting I am beautiful a few weeks ago and I've had at least 5 STRANGERS come up and tell me I'm beautiful. 😊
You are beautiful
You're beautifulll❤❤
I agree with those strangers :)
You are beautiful! ❤️
U are beautiful
I am claimed. I am missed. I am appreciated. I am the prize. I am adored.
I don't even think so much about him. I'm living my life to the fullest . Putting myself on the pedestal. Whether he comes or not, it doesn't really matter anymore. Most importantly I have learned to love , appreciate and be grateful to myself.
Me: :(
Shelly: “✨Hello, welcome, I’m so happy you’re here!✨”
Me: :)
Lol!!
I feel the same. I always say "I'm happy to be here!" in response.
Ahahaha yes
Literally..
Me too .. i instantly feel uplifted!
I don't see anything wrong with people wanting attention from others as long as it's genuine because the person is improving themselves. I've been on fire for the past few months and women are checking me out all over the place. I really can't explain it. I like it but I really only care if my SP notices me and I'm working on her. She's the only one I have eyes for and who has my heart.
I am lovable, I am wanted, I am abundant, I am adored!! Thank you Shelly!!
I am lovable, I am adored, I am special, I am loved, I am pursued.
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Exactly! Desperate energy is always repellent. Even if you think this is what you want from someone...it isn't! 😂
YES!!!!
Yes just treat yourself with the love you desire and tell yourself the things you desire. You will receive what you believe is to be true, stay calm and relaxed. Yes I have had a couple down days but got back up and keep with my inner peace and knowing.
Love your back in your inner peace and know!
I was waiting to see what you're going to say in this video after I read the title. The energy that goes with begging is indeed low vibrational and reflects how the person doing the manifestation feels. Great video! 🧡
Glad you liked it!~
I almost didn't watch this because I have found that most videos and articles about "making someone" do something are usually garbage! Like you said, I don't want someone to be desperate to be with me, ugh. I'm glad that you made this video.
Yes, chose to title it this way for a reason... ;) I hope that came across in the video :)
Yep! It sure did! I was like surely she's not offering "techniques". Thank you for a click bait title with real substance! ❤️
I feel this! I don't usually watch these either
My sp blocked me and my male bestie. He has recently unblocked him. I believe he’s coming towards me!
Same, my sp also blocked me, j dnt know if we still in relationship, no break up but he dnt want to communicate with ne
Ever since I started improving my self-concept, even if it's little by little, I don't feel so attached to my sp and other manifestations. This video just reassured me that I'm on the right path. Thank you so much. 😇
I have everything I want and deserve all my desires and wishes to be fulfilled. I am in a state of abundance. My man is totally into me and he will be here.
Oh my god!! I totally agree with you Shelly!! Big thumbs up 👍🏻 I now have 100% trusting your method. I am all about discovering my most free authentic self, and I would love for the person I love to be the same. Thank you!!
i just found your channel and im hooked. everytime i feel fear about my SP, i watch your videos and i feel better instantly. id love to win those e books to grow even more! manifesting that now :)
Shelly you’re totally right! After a long time trying to manifest my sp with desperation and sense of lack (of course with very poor manifestations) I found Neville and soon after you. I clearly understood that I have to rebuilt my self love, because I was putting so much energy on him, and it was frustrating and exhausting. Some days are fine with affirmation and exercises, but some days I still found myself in a sense of lack and “he’s not here”. And then, here you are with your precious videos. They always make me feel so “I’m not alone” and soothed. Thank you so much dear. 🌈🌸
Oh I love this so much! So happy you're here!
I am appreciated. I am adored. I am the prize. I am brilliant. I am loved. He wants me.
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I am loved. I am cherished. I am beautiful. I am irresistible. I am charming. I am ravishing. 💜💞❤️
Great video. I have to say - that color really makes your eyes pop! You look amazing.
So nicely said that begging to be loved is not love it's neediness and lack of self love. Thank you for clearing the concept.
Like attracts like. Focus on the good things!
Hi shelly! I’ve gotten so much attention from men these last couple a weeks and it’s crazy that it does nothing for me except for flatter me! i feel SO fulfilled when i’m really in tune w my inner love. I used to need the opposite sex validation now i just rely on me 🌻
Beautiful
You have power Shelly. I'm attracting new people in my life!
I’m so glad about the message behind the video. I kept putting off watching this because I felt like “I don’t need them to beg” but I watched because Shelly is so wise! 😂 the message resonated!
I have let go of my desire it feels so good to just finally live in the end. I can honestly say I'm satisfied in the state.
Gorgeous. This is so good to hear.
My sp finally proposed me yesterday ...ur videos helped me a lot specifically the meditation .... thank you so much
Where your Energy Flows your Energy Goes. Self love will raise your vibrational frequency and the more you have gratitude the more you come into perfect alignment with your desire which flows back to you. You are loved , admired, wanted and desired. You are special. You are unique. You are uniquely defined and one of a kind just like your finger print which is like no other. You are absolutely worthy of all the love you desire because you are a child of The Creator of All life. You are one with The Most High God because you are made in the Image of The Most High God!! All things are possible to those who believe.
I already have my popcorn ready waiting for this premiere!
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@@ruthcarlisle2663 ruth I have the snacks etc for tomorrow's premiere hope you'll be in the chat!
@@samhitaparab I ended up having popcorn during the premiere LOL
Nice and sensible video. There are so many manifestation coaches who say make them beg, obsessed, crazy etc. But we should never wish someone to be in such position. I have been obsessed crazy for someone. It's not a good space to be in. We should never wish negative things for others. It's bad karma
You nailed it! When someone is desperate for me, he projects lack and low confidence which isn't attractive at all!! We want confident people pursuing us! 😉
i completely agree with desperation being repellent, the times my sp has begged to be with me actually pushed me away
When I joined your channel some 3 months ago, I was in a state of desperation and abandonment, confusion and rejection. I was so focused on manifesting my sp back and the more I tried the farther he went away and eventually stopped responding to my texts. So yes desperation is living in the state of lack and creates more lack. I have learnt alot about self love and inner child (my favorite topics lol)from you and more focused on myself now and rarely think about him 😄.
This is so beautiful to hear. I'm so happy you're here.
I've been there. My sp and I split up a year ago after an 8 year relationship. I learned about Neville and loa in November of last year but couldn't scratch the surface of practicing any techniques because my anxiety and fear. finally in April I said forget it I need to let go of the fear and just be positive 2 weeks later bam she showed up but immediately when we started to spend time my fears of us not working out came back and then in July I started to get ghosted and then found she was dating someone. I spiraled out of control (not towards her) after two weeks I finally let it go. if she wants to date someone else. fine so be it. Now im finally in a state where I know no matter what it is done and we will be back together and more importantly im appreciative of this time apart. Nothing in middle matters. At all.
@@seaeff6428 Beautiful 🙌
I often watch your videos when I feel sad or anxious. They make me realize my worth & calm me so thank you so much❤️
So glad they help💙🙏
I’ve struggled with self love for the majority of my life but your videos actually make me feel like it’s very possible to learn. And I know I need to have a mindset of “knowing” but I do like knowing that I can learn to love myself💗
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Yay! THis is beautiful!
When i first saw the title of the video , i thought this one isn t for me to watch. Finally i decided to watch it from curiosity and you haven t dissapointed me! 😊 Shelly I want to thank you for this honest video! I totally agree with you. 💖I believe that everytime we need something outside from us to confirm our value, we should pause, breath and just feel our value inside us. That s our job and then universe's s task is to confirm what we believe for ourselves. Blessings to you!🌺
I agree Shelly . Self concept is number one . I have gone back to the basics and bit focusing on intentional manifestation until I change my self concept .
In my life everything I have an inner knowing for it is automatically manifesting .
I want to get there with other areas as well .
Looking forward to hearing more about self concept
Love how u think. Totally a vibe I can relate to. It really helps my energy in making my art and atracting positive people in my life. Thank you
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I loved the explanation , one of the best video ever and you are becoming more and more attractive @Shelly
I am lovable
I am wanted
I am attractive
I am irresistible
I am a force
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This is the most "on point" video on this topic on RUclips. :)
Thanks for getting it! ;)
This is so true! I never questioned why I wanted obsession, but you’re right, it is coming from a place of desperation!
Thank you so much for this video 💗💗💗
Yes! Glad you see that!
Very true.. create the best self concept you can and you cannot be sad for things because you will be simply happy to be yourself and with yourself!
Shelly, I totally love and agree with your approach to the subject of manifesting a specific person. It can be challenging though for some us who suddenly lost their marriages without much warning to come from a place of “Self Love” & self compassion. Starting afresh and having an unshakable confidence to be in the “State” of believing that you’re loved by your new specific person can prove to be difficult. Maybe it’s just a case of practicing more self love until it’s imprinted in the subconscious.
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@@clarakevin2627 Hi Clara, thank you for your message. The matters of the heart are indeed intriguing. Help is very much welcome.
I am loved and I am wanted. I am the only girl with whom my sp has ever been attracted to😜. Your self concept videos are awesome ♥️☺️🥰
So you want a gay man who “turned straight” one time just for you? Lol cuz that’s kinda what you’re asking for, girl IJS 🤷🏻♀️
@@whitneyangelie3682 😂🤣only attracted to me
prathamesh pawar I know what you meant, but you know the old saying, “Be careful what you wish for...” lol
@@whitneyangelie3682 🤣🤣🤣
You are exactly right. When I first started manifesting my SP, I thought I wanted obsession and begging but really it was me who was obsessed etc. And the results I got sucked. I've been landed in my own inner knowing for almost a month now and I also know I am so loved, esp by the Universe. The results I'm getting now are amazing now that I've loosened my grip. 💖💖💖
Amazing!
Oh Shelly I’m so glad this was your stance... I felt unease at the title and I’m so happy about how you dealt with this... this resonates and feels affirming 💗
You are so helpful and spot on about self love. I love the the part about “landing in myself” I could feel that happen. I’m also doing the inner child work, especially when I’m in fear of abandonment.
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So well said shelly if we want someone to want us bad it’s actually our state of mind
Yes.
These types of titles are indeed full of desperation. Great video ✨
Being in my own self-love journey, I now can see how true is that... Wanting someone to be obsessed is a reflection of your own obsession
Yes. Exactly.
I have to disagree.. It's your reality..if
you want them obsessed. Well then they will be...obsessed don't have to be a bad thing..
Your videos changed my habits for the better ❤️❤️❤️ I already see changes in my life
Wonderful!
The thumbnail recruitment seems to have went great. They look so lovely lately
It's funny how different attachment styles can come out depending on the relationship you're in. I was avoidant attached in a previous relationship and now I'm anxiously attached. And my partner is avoidant. I am giving them space, as hard as it is... giving and giving and giving space. So we shall see what happens :-) Appreciate your wisdom so much at the moment Shelly! 💜
Shelly，i feel so happy everytimes i see you ，you change my feeling and make me feel so confidence to nyself，i feel so good and trust myself，i want to get my sp back to me🙏Thank you for every video that you sharing ，you are beautiful and love and thank you angin to meeting you here and thank you to universe to let me meet you from this such beautiful way，i love you❤️🙏
Yes Shelly Bingo!!! Needy, desperation isn’t hot lol. So perfectly said!!!
I think ppl wantin their sp to beg or be obsessed has less to do with personal desperation, or it could, but it's for situations where the sp did something that hurt u but u still want them back again but bc of the wound the person had inflicted-- anything less than them begging or bein obsessed will kill the manifestor's sense of self . so yes Shelley you're right but i think it stems more from these situations than manifesting a new or first time specific person
I never watched this kind of video because desperation sound wrong, I was a bit surprised you got this title as well but now I understand 😃 thank you
Just feeling the best from few days letting go and just switching to self love this switching is best suggestion by @shelly mam😊
Wonderful!
Omg Shelly! You look amazing in blue 😍 it’s definitely your color
I can't wait to see your self concept video. I recently discovered that i am trying to manifest from a state of lack so ive recently started to affirm that i have what i need within
i just started watching ur videos and oh god u have no idea how much i like u already 🥺 ur words made me cry cuz it’s true i need to work on myself first. thank u so much ! ❤️
So glad you’re here!🥰
I agree to her. I don't want my person to ever beg. He won't need it. I can't respect someone who begs and the love is built on respect.
I am happy and I am wanted, I am adored. Thank you Shelly 🤩😘🥰❤💙🙏
I think this video is unique on yt
It's just not healthy to want someone be desperate, it's a toxic behaviour and that's just not want you want for someone you love ,you want just to be the other person into you ,not creepy
Always be careful what you wish for
This lady knows what she is talking about
Thé hidden meaning of certain concepts. Love it
I have to say I was definitely surprised to see the title of this video after following you so long LOL Great point and video as always Shelly 💖
Yes. Tricked ya ;)
Thank you for setting the record straight.
I have tremendous gratitude for being led to listen to the yt channel called your youniverse, their video about quantum jumping, parallel universes. Immediately after I finished watching and listening to that I suddenly discovered that my suggested videos had only videos about loa, and every channel listed including yours, I had no awareness they existed previously to that moment.. I watched the videos, one after another, and discovered you,Robert Zink, Jaime fast manifesting, Helena Hunt, etc
I watched
Hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked for me add me up let's chat better...
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Self love is the best kind of love💕☺️💯
that is so true. a healthy minded person will not be attracted to someone obsessed over them.
Has to be one of the most important videos I have watched so far. Yes, the title hooked me in but no I have never wanted to have someone beg to have me back. Seems kinda icky. I am struggling to build an unflinching self love within but I firmly believe it is the only way. My life keeps reflecting back to me a lack of self worth and that is what drive's your message home Shelly. I am feeling better, I am loved and adored, I am a magnificent Goddess. I'm getting there! Keep on illuminating these precious ideas! Thank you!
You said some things about love that deepened my awakening experience! Thank you! I love you💙💚💛🧡💜
Wonderful. SO happy to hear that!
Kinda off topic here lol but I think it would be cool to see a Q&A with you and your man, or just getting to know you both as a couple and about how you met😊❤
CUTE! We'll think about it ;)
I'm so glad you said this in this video! I wouldn't want to manifest my SP in that state - I've been in that state and it's MISERABLE. I'm happy to date my SP as someone who is genuinely interested in me. :)
YES EXACTLY
Self love is the foundation for an relationship.
Have you done any videos on the Law of Assumption? Curious about this topic.
If you search my name and "assumption" you might find some!
Rockin the overalls.
Diggin them these days ;)
@@ShellyBullard the company should pay you - making their product look good.
Perfect explanation 💕🙏🏻 everybody needs to hear this! Accurate in every way!
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your outfit is so cute!
Thank you!
I agree 👍.. I was in a state of desperation when I started manifesting my SP & no matter what I did.. Any number of "LOA TECHNIQUES " he was further going away.. I realized that it clearly wasn't working, I started feeling low, depressed and clueless.. Then I came across Neville goddard's lectures after watching few other youtubers just like you.. And BAM.. it LITERALLY TRANSFORMED MY LIFE I started with the practice of living in the end.. I did it without hesitation.. At first it was a little bit different because it's altogether a different lifestyle.. But over the period of time.. Like in 2-3 weeks.. I got good at it..and from that time onwards I just knew that we are going to be together..
I also practiced self love as you mentioned.. I have written my own affirmations that work well for me.. ever since I have landed in this what I would call "inner knowing" He has contacted me so many times.. I can easily tell that my manifestation is near 😇.. He's eager to meet me.. He thinks about me.. He wants to spend time with me.. I think as Neville says the bridge of incidents are unfolding..!!!
Would also like to add-on
I have become very calm after practicing self love.. That's my observation.. Like I feel good and peaceful almost all day long.. I'm also working on manifesting various other things.. Some of them have already entered my 3D reality.. I'm improving every single day.. Getting better and better.. Will be sharing my success story soon..
Guys just follow what she's saying.. & trust me you are going to be successful..!! have faith.. 😇🙏
Love and peace✌😘🌎💖🍃
Happy manifesting.. 🙏❤😇
Great listen on the drive home.
Thank You!
4:29 yes, yes, yes. If you want somebody to be obsessed with you, or desperately chasing, it is about your own lack, your own intentions. Even if it happens so, it is based on the fundamental- minority, maybe revenge, playing games, instead of honest, crystal clear love. You are right. Two equal energies- Male and Female- God and Godess. Nothing less than that. And it is all over the same- my deep down self concept. Thanks Shelly. :) On the other hand- it is some sad- that headlines like- How to make him chase, or how to get him back, and so on, are more clickable-than the clear idea- just look into yourself. This is how we think initially. :)
BRAVO.... WHY THE SP TO BE OBSESSED? WHY NOT THE OTHER PERSON TO LOVE US NATURALLY BY CHANGING OURSELVES INSIDE TO ATTRACT THEM? WHY NOT TO WORK INSIDE OURSELVES IN ORDER TO LOVE OURSELVES FIRSTLY AND BE CONFIDENT AND ONLY TO CARE ABOUT THE SP? WELL, SELF-CONCEPT! I AGREE FULLY FULLY WITH YOU AND I AM THAT I AM! IF THE MANIFESTER DOES NOT USE THE OBSESSION FEELING CORRECTLY HE/SHE MAY END UP OBSESSED ABOUT THE SP OR THE OBJECT AND BELIEVE ME IS VERY EXHAUSTING AND BORING TOO THE SP TO BE OBSESSED. . FINALLY I AGREE IN EVERYTHING YOU SAID. EXCELLENT! 👍
I don’t want him to beg to be with me. I want him to find the experience of being with me so pleasurable that he feels it’s a natural expression of himself to love me, and decide to spend the rest of his life playing with me. 😁
Excellent video!!
Thanks!
So true! Glad you said what you said about it!
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SO VALUABLE information! I would love you to be my Psychotherapist! hahaha love youuu shelly! you're amazing
I am King. I am the prize. I am worshiped by my SP people.
I must have manifested this!! Everything I needed to hear, thank you
I'm so glad!
Haha...I was curious but I knew, I knew so much you're going to say exactly what you were saying, cuz it's the truth :D
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I am new to your channel and have listened to many videos today, all wonderful. You have given me that ahh moment of understanding I feel that I have been struggling with with manifesting. So great. Love your channel.
So wonderful you're here!!
Oh my God! It's going to be so special, I must say 😁
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Having been on the other side, it'd be nice to just have a balance between my wanting to be with him and him wanting to be with me. Two wholes coming together to create something better.
Yes. Exactly.
I love the new Thumbnail picture on your videos 💙💙💙 fresh and lovely!
I love myself I am loved I am complete and whole person I am adorable I am enough I am a prize I am in demend I am beautiful I am amazing I know my worth i don't need to beg someone because he/she is already mine i have what i want already i don't need to do anything i'm gonna watch my feelings and thoughts sit like a Goddess because i am the God of my reality i don't need to do anything everything is always working out for me. My specific person is coming back his energy to me I am wanted to my specific person My specific person is only interested to me✨🦋❤
i couldn't agree more! plus it's very unattractive to see desperation in someone's eyes... that's how i see it. confidence is sexy!
Exactly!
I really enjoy Shelly’s videos and absolutely love them all!! I have learned some amazing life changing things listening, but not quite sure if I agree with this one, it kind of threw me off. I happen to like the click bait titles and feel that most of the other titles are kind of similar. I also happen to enjoy it when my SP is obsessed and begging for me, I think it’s super cute. I feel like I’m in a good confident state too. To each their own 🤷♀️
Thanks for your honest opinion!! ❤️ It is ok not to like them all 😉
Thank you dear, just found your channel and I love it I'm still learning how to manifest... I have to say you are so beautiful. Love from Kenya
I am worthy shelly i am changed a lot thank u fr self love now i love my own company
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