I don't know anything more difficult than self restraint generally speaking. Talking too much really opens the door for fitnah for oneself. What has come out, has come out. Allaahul Musta'aan
Qais bin Abu Hazim "(May Allah be pleased with him)(c) said: Abu Bakr (May Allah be pleased with him) came upon a woman named Zainab from the Ahmas tribe and noticed that she was observing total silence. He said: "What has happened to her? Why does she not speak?" People informed him that she had sworn to remain silent. He then said to her: "You should speak, it is not permissible (to observe silence), for it is an act of the Days of Ignorance (Jahiliyyah)." (After hearing this) she started speaking. [Al-Bukhari]. Explanation (according to riyad us saliheen): During the pre -Islamic period, keeping quiet was also considered as a sort of worship or devotion to God. Islam does not allow such ascetic ceremonies and extravagance. So such actions are forbidden. Further it has been stressed that instead of keeping quiet one should engage in good actions, such as enjoining good, forbidding evil, entertaining a guest, remembering Allah and glorifying Him. However, it is better to keep quiet rather than telling lies, indulging in indecent talk or backbiting My comment would be that you should lessen speaking and if you should then engage in the good actions above, mainly dhikr if you dont wanna talk to people.
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I don't know anything more difficult than self restraint generally speaking. Talking too much really opens the door for fitnah for oneself. What has come out, has come out. Allaahul Musta'aan
Jazzakallah kheir ❤
Ma Sha Allah I have been training myself on how to hold back my tongue JazakaAllah is very helpful 😍🙏
جزاك الله خيرا
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Qais bin Abu Hazim "(May Allah be pleased with him)(c) said: Abu Bakr (May Allah be pleased with him) came upon a woman named Zainab from the Ahmas tribe and noticed that she was observing total silence. He said: "What has happened to her? Why does she not speak?" People informed him that she had sworn to remain silent. He then said to her: "You should speak, it is not permissible (to observe silence), for it is an act of the Days of Ignorance (Jahiliyyah)." (After hearing this) she started speaking. [Al-Bukhari].
Explanation (according to riyad us saliheen):
During the pre -Islamic period, keeping quiet was also considered as a sort of worship or devotion to God. Islam does not allow such ascetic ceremonies and extravagance. So such actions are forbidden. Further it has been stressed that instead of keeping quiet one should engage in good actions, such as enjoining good, forbidding evil, entertaining a guest, remembering Allah and glorifying Him. However, it is better to keep quiet rather than telling lies, indulging in indecent talk or backbiting
My comment would be that you should lessen speaking and if you should then engage in the good actions above, mainly dhikr if you dont wanna talk to people.
The sheikh said to limit your speaking he didnt say to stop speaking completely thats totally different
Limit not compete stop