Don't always say that it is in accordance with the Sunnah of the Prophet, remember that Rasululullah never shared his love with Khadijah, after Khadijah died he married Aisyah, and on Allah's orders he was immediately allowed to remarry to help war widows, now the context is different, look for someone younger, more beautiful , wanting to show off having more than 1 wife, is very different from the concept of the Prophet's sunnah
Nothing matters as long as u treat Ur all wives equally!!the Qur'an only says to treat them all equal....doesn't matter if u are taking someone young or beautiful as Ur second third or fourth wife.....
@@yasirnizam3090 there is no way to have time for more than one. Plus children and work??? Not enough hours in a day. Someone would have to get less time. AND maybe it's different in your country but the women here in the U.S would not agree to such an arrangement
Enjoyed this video! Amina gave interesting opinion on this popular subject & highlighted Muslim woman value “MashAllah”. 👍🏽 I would love to see more native emirates 🇦🇪 in your videos and their perspective. 🎉
@Jalepenoz what's disrespectful. Respect 🙏 Muslim and Arabic men so much. Sick of this narrative that dehumanizes them due to the asma khallam which is listen to ur husband which they have very similar narratives with orthodox jews and Christians
I enjoyed the conversation and laughed about the commet of 1st marriage is for family and 2nd is for love. Arab culture is very rich and good, there are lots of reservation and at least the respect and fear to the teachings of their religion is still intact… but i do believed bad apple do exist and girls must guard themselves and be very careful.
As a woman, I would always prefer to be in a one-woman one- man marriage. However if the situation arises and your husband takes another woman, I would rather it be in a polygamous marriage as per islamic law. This is because it is better to be a legal wife where you and your kids have rights over the man especially the financial responsibilities and the right to inherit. Most importantly the children will be able to carry the father's name so there is no ambiguity of lineage and honour is preserved for both mother and child. As opposed to becoming a mistress or a girlfriend with zero rights and worse, kids born out that relationship are bastards that cant have the father's name. Alhamdulillah, it is good to be married to a practising muslim man. I feel very secured for myslef and my child. He is kind to not only us but also to my parents and extended family. At least in my culture, most Muslim men are not in a polygamous marriage because it is not common in our culture (there is no history of polygamy in either side of me or my husband's family 4-5 generation up , it is too costly and many do not want the hassle of dealing with too many in laws 😅
Because of satanic influence we can't practice polygyny either we have to have mistress or be patience until enter jannah. I tell to my wife it's hard to deal multiple women modern days but for sure one day I'll enter jannah then no one can stop me. Even feminist helpless
In Islam, in the light of Surah Al- Nisa, a man is conditionally permitted to marry more than one and upto four marriages. And under Pakistan law, 2nd marriage for a man is allowed subject to permission of first wife and so on.
In hinduism wasn't there a woman who married 5 men?? And also dint women have to jump into the fire if her husband died , but if a women dies a husband was allowed to remarry...that was hinduism!!! Ofcourse the law that ur allowed to marry only one is based on the constitution of the country and has nothing to do with hinduism
not meaning to down other peoples culture but i never liked arranged marriages. i may be wrong but i believe a mutual true and pure love for one another has to be the foundation and without it you have nothing to build upon. i cant imagine being married to a woman whom i never loved. and it has to be horrible for the woman as well.
Except arranged marriages have the most common form of marriage throughout the history of humanity. And if the "mutual true and pure love" is there in love marriages, wouldn't the precentage of marriages be increasing rather than decreasing? On an average, you have men 8 and women 7 sexual partners before getting married (at least in the US), so that's the likely body count of the person you're finally deciding getting married to which is not necessarily seen as a great culture either.
I'm a Muslim and understand your point. It absolutely makes sense to think this way. But the issue with your approach of love first is: 1- It's Haram (You don't care about that so look for the second point). 2- There's the risk of being used and fooled. I.e. Too many Dudes be using love to get sex from girls and no Muslim girl or family would take that risk. That's why we don't do the dating thing. Now here's what you're messing about arranged marriages: While arranged marriage (marriage first and maybe love later doesn't sound romantic), it works most of the time. The reason is we believe that marriage is sanctuary, and God has promised to put love between married couple. That's one reason it tends to work. I have seen guys who married their high school sweethearts and their marriage didn't work out and then went and had a divorce, and the guy would go and have an arranged marriage and they couldn't spend a day far from their new spouse. Also, in arranged marriages you do take the time to know your partner before you marry them. It's kinda like blind dating but supervised by the family so no one would cross the line. So no, you're not marrying a stranger.
@@mosaif_mudawi i understand. but also its the two people in a marriage and how they approach it. it takes work and time and plenty patience. it must be nurtured. in the us people dont take the time to work at it together and not very patient two other things is Grace and Mercy but i find most are not very forgiving. i identify as Christian and i discovered that in biblical times they did not "date" the way we do. the way we do it would be totally foreign to them.
It all depends. Arranged marriage is not equal to forced marriage. Arranged at least in my southeast Asian culture means that the family suggests to their child a partner to become their spouse. This usually works because parents usually know their child the best. The candidate has been vetted , backgrounds have been checked and compatibility taken in mind. It is not a common practice now though, I must say, although my sister in law also went into an arranged marriage. My mum married thean that my grandfather suggested to her. Initially she was reluctant but my dad was clever to win her heart. They have now been married for almost 5 decades. Have hardly left each others side. My dad worked hard to build his business to give my mum a very comfortable life. In her twenties, my dad who is a decade and a half from her has brought my mum travelling all over the world. They are very much in love with each other until today. They are the proud parents of 4 children and 8 grandchildren. Alhamdulillah ❤ For my sister In law, she also ended up being very happy with the spouse that was suggested to her by my FIL, alhamdulillah. They have 3 kids and are doing very well alhamdulillah. IMO, arranged marriages will usually work in situations where the parents are close to their child and have a good understanding of who their children are. Then they are able to suggest a partner that will be a good match.
@@ObsidianFire-o7r You are not correct. Love marriages are not decreasing. Also, in the US most people are not with that many men or women sexually before a marriage, I know a lot of people that never had sex before marriage. I also know that there are a lot of bad arranged marriages. worse than good. Sorry you are wrong.
@@Xxsorafan on no, that is a no go. I am glad he is an ex now. He had an opportunity but blew it, not many women are able to cope with polygyny. Are you Muslim?
I recently visited Dubai from Australia, no smiles at immigration officers, shouting on passengers one guy he puts passport on immigration officer desk she can’t take it from desk she needs on the hand. High ego in the Arabs. I mean I felt it was 3rd world country where labours were imprisoned on 800 diahrams a month. No interest visiting uae again
I just watched a video, a revert that was preaching islam, and now I'm watching a video Muslims talking about dating culture. SubhAllah the world is completely rolling down 🙃
@@francescatrezzani6609 yeah it's true. A muslim man can still practice mutah marriage, have b0nds0m3n and h00r1s even if he's already married. That is the same as cheating.
Que triste brincar com o sentimento das outras pessoas não é mesmo sabe que não quer nada sério mas está se aproveitando da situação graças a Deus como eu trabalhei muitos anos como babás trabalhei em vários países do mundo mas eu nunca me deixei envolver com ninguém quando cheguei na Alemanha na festa de 7 de setembro que é independência do Brasil porque eu estava trabalhando numa das barraquinhas de pão de queijoe conversou bastante tempo comigo eu tinha que ser simpática e dá atenção porque afinal de contas eu estava tentando vender né e o que acontece se a gente começou a se conhecer nos meus dias livres eu saía com ele me apresentou a família a família gostou de mim me acharam um excelente cozinheira mas eu sempre contei atrás com medo eu não sabia onde estava me metendo na alemão não sei eu sou mulata meio difícil mas não depois de dois anos ele veio comigo para o Brasil a gente se casou temos três meninos ele é um bom marido meus filhos são felizes eu sou feliz a gente mora um tempo na Alemanha e um tempo no Brasil porque como ele é mecatrônico ele pode trabalhar também aqui no Brasil para a mesma empresa estudei terminei meus estudos sou dentista e sou muito feliz no meu casamento mas eu escolhi muito bem nunca nenhum país que eu morei todos os países que eu morei os homens olhavam e queriam alguma coisa só que eu nunca deixei para que ninguém depois me usassem eu não sou banheiro eu sou um ser humano 🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🤫❤️
Indian marriages are very good in India people stick to one women and man. divorce in Indian culture are very rare , divorce takes place in rarest case.
@Xxsorafan they are women who liked to sharing a husband. Especially the second wife, third wife and the fourth wife. We are different. Either the husband rich or poor, we don't shared our titled as wife to others women. Our titled as wife is one and only. Muslims husband can't not cheat to his wife, but he can marry his lovers. While our husbands cant not cheat and can not marry other women. 😂
@@Xxsorafan they are the women who liked to sharing a husband. Especially the second wife, the third wife and the fourth wife. We are different, either the husband rich or poor, we don't shared our titled as wife to other women. titled as a wife is one and only to a husband. Muslims men can't not cheat, but he can marry his lovers. Non Muslims husband can't not cheat and can't not marry any other women. Polygamy not for us.
@@ださって皆さんださ it’s not for everyone. Even generally, the man will prefer to give his one and only wife all his love and attention. A good man at least. Weird men will try to persuade his wife to do a threesome or have an open relationship only for his benefit 🚩
Is that so? If this is true, then I am not surprised at the questions this guy is posing in this interview. His questions are alike to someone who is not a Muslim.
Why do we attach so much negativity to a man wanting a second or even a third wife, if he is of good character and has sufficient wealth, We should encourage him instead. A father should advise his son not to agree to restrictive demands that could lead to disaster. After all, if a man seeks a halal arrangement rather than having a mistress, what is the problem? I certainly wouldn’t let my own son sign such a deal.
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I'm learning a lot about the culture. Thank you so muchhh Saeed. More content like this please.. 😊
Don't always say that it is in accordance with the Sunnah of the Prophet, remember that Rasululullah never shared his love with Khadijah, after Khadijah died he married Aisyah, and on Allah's orders he was immediately allowed to remarry to help war widows, now the context is different, look for someone younger, more beautiful , wanting to show off having more than 1 wife, is very different from the concept of the Prophet's sunnah
Finally ... someone talked ... they twisted everytging to their advantage ....
Nothing matters as long as u treat Ur all wives equally!!the Qur'an only says to treat them all equal....doesn't matter if u are taking someone young or beautiful as Ur second third or fourth wife.....
Is it posible@@yasirnizam3090
@@yasirnizam3090 there is no way to have time for more than one. Plus children and work??? Not enough hours in a day. Someone would have to get less time. AND maybe it's different in your country but the women here in the U.S would not agree to such an arrangement
Aisha was 6… not the best context really
Love her idea of freedom of women in the right way
Enjoyed this video! Amina gave interesting opinion on this popular subject & highlighted Muslim woman value “MashAllah”. 👍🏽 I would love to see more native emirates 🇦🇪 in your videos and their perspective. 🎉
Thanks a lot for this interview I really enjoy it and happy new year ❤
Wonderful video! I love Dubai and I think that the women in Islam are so empowered and graceful
White American married to a faithful Egyptian from Egypt. Not heaven. But faithful good man good dad wouldn't go without him. Happy HamdAllah
Al hamdulillah Sister ❤
Don't shorten
Please as it is disrespectful. You may not be aware.
@Jalepenoz what's disrespectful. Respect 🙏 Muslim and Arabic men so much. Sick of this narrative that dehumanizes them due to the asma khallam which is listen to ur husband which they have very similar narratives with orthodox jews and Christians
@Jalepenoz didn't
As salam aleikum I know that lady from Russia,Chechnya republic 😊 from others Russian channels it was interesting to see her
4:31 husband wife 50/50 she says she doesn’t like it till she marries a millionaire.
She’s beautiful 😍
I enjoyed the conversation and laughed about the commet of 1st marriage is for family and 2nd is for love. Arab culture is very rich and good, there are lots of reservation and at least the respect and fear to the teachings of their religion is still intact… but i do believed bad apple do exist and girls must guard themselves and be very careful.
And third is for lust
@@Slaw6602and 4th as well
Saeed sir I like the way you ask questions.it’s admireable.lot’s of love from Nepal.
CULTure is temporary, Islam is forever.
As a woman, I would always prefer to be in a one-woman one- man marriage. However if the situation arises and your husband takes another woman, I would rather it be in a polygamous marriage as per islamic law. This is because it is better to be a legal wife where you and your kids have rights over the man especially the financial responsibilities and the right to inherit. Most importantly the children will be able to carry the father's name so there is no ambiguity of lineage and honour is preserved for both mother and child. As opposed to becoming a mistress or a girlfriend with zero rights and worse, kids born out that relationship are bastards that cant have the father's name.
Alhamdulillah, it is good to be married to a practising muslim man. I feel very secured for myslef and my child. He is kind to not only us but also to my parents and extended family. At least in my culture, most Muslim men are not in a polygamous marriage because it is not common in our culture (there is no history of polygamy in either side of me or my husband's family 4-5 generation up , it is too costly and many do not want the hassle of dealing with too many in laws 😅
It is because of typical subcontinent mentality
Because of satanic influence we can't practice polygyny either we have to have mistress or be patience until enter jannah. I tell to my wife it's hard to deal multiple women modern days but for sure one day I'll enter jannah then no one can stop me. Even feminist helpless
Definitely a hell. I experienced it myself.
In Islam, in the light of Surah Al- Nisa, a man is conditionally permitted to marry more than one and upto four marriages. And under Pakistan law, 2nd marriage for a man is allowed subject to permission of first wife and so on.
This is same in Algeria and Morocco and Libya ! 🇱🇾 if I’m correct but in Tunisia it’s like Turkey polygamy is illegal !
Tunisia 🇹🇳 is the only Arab country that Abolish Polygamy 😍
Tunisia is gay.
Sleeping around everywhere 🤮
You must be allowed to go somewhere together in public before marriage to properly get to know each other!
just want a simple beautiful love story but so complicated
In hindu culture taking divorce is sin and having relationship with other guy after marriage is nowhere it may be in rarest case .
You gotta be king! India has high divorce . Don't know where you live, India is VERY WESTERNIZED!
In hinduism wasn't there a woman who married 5 men?? And also dint women have to jump into the fire if her husband died , but if a women dies a husband was allowed to remarry...that was hinduism!!! Ofcourse the law that ur allowed to marry only one is based on the constitution of the country and has nothing to do with hinduism
I am so glad I found your channel, and Amina is an incredibly interesting, intelligent woman. I hope we get to see her again.
You are going to date someone and you dont know whether he is married already or not? That's crazy!
not meaning to down other peoples culture but i never liked arranged marriages. i may be wrong but i believe a mutual true and pure love for one another has to be the foundation and without it you have nothing to build upon. i cant imagine being married to a woman whom i never loved. and it has to be horrible for the woman as well.
Except arranged marriages have the most common form of marriage throughout the history of humanity. And if the "mutual true and pure love" is there in love marriages, wouldn't the precentage of marriages be increasing rather than decreasing? On an average, you have men 8 and women 7 sexual partners before getting married (at least in the US), so that's the likely body count of the person you're finally deciding getting married to which is not necessarily seen as a great culture either.
I'm a Muslim and understand your point. It absolutely makes sense to think this way. But the issue with your approach of love first is:
1- It's Haram (You don't care about that so look for the second point).
2- There's the risk of being used and fooled. I.e. Too many Dudes be using love to get sex from girls and no Muslim girl or family would take that risk. That's why we don't do the dating thing.
Now here's what you're messing about arranged marriages:
While arranged marriage (marriage first and maybe love later doesn't sound romantic), it works most of the time.
The reason is we believe that marriage is sanctuary, and God has promised to put love between married couple. That's one reason it tends to work.
I have seen guys who married their high school sweethearts and their marriage didn't work out and then went and had a divorce, and the guy would go and have an arranged marriage and they couldn't spend a day far from their new spouse.
Also, in arranged marriages you do take the time to know your partner before you marry them. It's kinda like blind dating but supervised by the family so no one would cross the line. So no, you're not marrying a stranger.
@@mosaif_mudawi i understand. but also its the two people in a marriage and how they approach it. it takes work and time and plenty patience. it must be nurtured. in the us people dont take the time to work at it together and not very patient two other things is Grace and Mercy but i find most are not very forgiving.
i identify as Christian and i discovered that in biblical times they did not "date" the way we do. the way we do it would be totally foreign to them.
It all depends. Arranged marriage is not equal to forced marriage. Arranged at least in my southeast Asian culture means that the family suggests to their child a partner to become their spouse. This usually works because parents usually know their child the best. The candidate has been vetted , backgrounds have been checked and compatibility taken in mind.
It is not a common practice now though, I must say, although my sister in law also went into an arranged marriage.
My mum married thean that my grandfather suggested to her. Initially she was reluctant but my dad was clever to win her heart. They have now been married for almost 5 decades. Have hardly left each others side. My dad worked hard to build his business to give my mum a very comfortable life. In her twenties, my dad who is a decade and a half from her has brought my mum travelling all over the world. They are very much in love with each other until today. They are the proud parents of 4 children and 8 grandchildren. Alhamdulillah ❤
For my sister In law, she also ended up being very happy with the spouse that was suggested to her by my FIL, alhamdulillah. They have 3 kids and are doing very well alhamdulillah.
IMO, arranged marriages will usually work in situations where the parents are close to their child and have a good understanding of who their children are. Then they are able to suggest a partner that will be a good match.
@@ObsidianFire-o7r You are not correct. Love marriages are not decreasing. Also, in the US most people are not with that many men or women sexually before a marriage, I know a lot of people that never had sex before marriage. I also know that there are a lot of bad arranged marriages. worse than good. Sorry you are wrong.
I don’t mind polygamy. As long as I am loved and treated with respect. Is it strange I’m not a very jealous or possessive person?
Have you experienced polygyny before? I am not against it as it is from Allah swt. Maybe this is something good for you if you can handle it.
@ I was open to trying it when my ex brought it up. But he wanted me to also have a romantic relationship with the woman and I’m straight so.
@@Xxsorafan on no, that is a no go. I am glad he is an ex now. He had an opportunity but blew it, not many women are able to cope with polygyny. Are you Muslim?
I recently visited Dubai from Australia, no smiles at immigration officers, shouting on passengers one guy he puts passport on immigration officer desk she can’t take it from desk she needs on the hand. High ego in the Arabs. I mean I felt it was 3rd world country where labours were imprisoned on 800 diahrams a month. No interest visiting uae again
There is no third world first world and second world only one world 🌎 racist discrimination.. will not divided a divine human😂😂😂😂
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I just watched a video, a revert that was preaching islam, and now I'm watching a video Muslims talking about dating culture. SubhAllah the world is completely rolling down 🙃
I love the channel because you use English mwah mashallah ❤❤❤🎉
Nice 👍
This is not love. Theze are just following a tribal set of rules. I wish everyone wake up for love. The one person love.
So can I only love, really no gf no relationship only waiting for one person future wife
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Beautiful ❤.. women Arabs.. i love UAE i was in UAE for 5,years
Its not oligatory to marry 4 girlz,theres a rule for that,one has to treat all alike.cheating and secretly marrying is not right.
but cheating is allowed in Islam
@@itachi7285what do you mean? 😮😢
@@francescatrezzani6609 yeah it's true. A muslim man can still practice mutah marriage, have b0nds0m3n and h00r1s even if he's already married. That is the same as cheating.
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Que triste brincar com o sentimento das outras pessoas não é mesmo sabe que não quer nada sério mas está se aproveitando da situação graças a Deus como eu trabalhei muitos anos como babás trabalhei em vários países do mundo mas eu nunca me deixei envolver com ninguém quando cheguei na Alemanha na festa de 7 de setembro que é independência do Brasil porque eu estava trabalhando numa das barraquinhas de pão de queijoe conversou bastante tempo comigo eu tinha que ser simpática e dá atenção porque afinal de contas eu estava tentando vender né e o que acontece se a gente começou a se conhecer nos meus dias livres eu saía com ele me apresentou a família a família gostou de mim me acharam um excelente cozinheira mas eu sempre contei atrás com medo eu não sabia onde estava me metendo na alemão não sei eu sou mulata meio difícil mas não depois de dois anos ele veio comigo para o Brasil a gente se casou temos três meninos ele é um bom marido meus filhos são felizes eu sou feliz a gente mora um tempo na Alemanha e um tempo no Brasil porque como ele é mecatrônico ele pode trabalhar também aqui no Brasil para a mesma empresa estudei terminei meus estudos sou dentista e sou muito feliz no meu casamento mas eu escolhi muito bem nunca nenhum país que eu morei todos os países que eu morei os homens olhavam e queriam alguma coisa só que eu nunca deixei para que ninguém depois me usassem eu não sou banheiro eu sou um ser humano 🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🤫❤️
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What are the law and do and dont to be marry an arab man ?
Genesis 1,27.
Sudah cukup aku tidak pernah ke Dubai untuk belanja
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Indian marriages are very good in India people stick to one women and man. divorce in Indian culture are very rare , divorce takes place in rarest case.
Looool are you sure ? Because i heard if in Hindusium if lady didn’t pay the dowry her husband will beat her
Totally wrong 😂
Indian marriages are far the WORST..u treat your women like garbage
That’s crazy….
Dubai is not place for love!
Hi
True, agree
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@@keetyfelixianalianto love you
Where's the Islam???
Astagfirullah
Eu não cairia nessa conversa. Muito perigoso.
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I very ecstatic bro
Marry a rich man or the wealth will be heaven for the Muslims women. And there is no problems for them to sharing a husband.
Yes I noticed usually it’s wealthy men who get this. The women won’t mind they probably have their own house and funds
@Xxsorafan they are women who liked to sharing a husband. Especially the second wife, third wife and the fourth wife. We are different. Either the husband rich or poor, we don't shared our titled as wife to others women. Our titled as wife is one and only.
Muslims husband can't not cheat to his wife, but he can marry his lovers. While our husbands cant not cheat and can not marry other women. 😂
@@Xxsorafan they are the women who liked to sharing a husband. Especially the second wife, the third wife and the fourth wife. We are different, either the husband rich or poor, we don't shared our titled as wife to other women.
titled as a wife is one and only to a husband. Muslims men can't not cheat, but he can marry his lovers. Non Muslims husband can't not cheat and can't not marry any other women. Polygamy not for us.
@@ださって皆さんださ it’s not for everyone. Even generally, the man will prefer to give his one and only wife all his love and attention. A good man at least. Weird men will try to persuade his wife to do a threesome or have an open relationship only for his benefit 🚩
shame on them. I thought they were real muslims.
I looking for arabic guy
You can not be a law-abiding person. Wear what you are in France. I bet you were not law-abiding
Que bom que nasci no Brasil.
Most girls are looking for a rich husband😅
I am from North America and having severals wifes I do not support this at all.
Emirati's are jews.Not muslims or Arabs
Is that so? If this is true, then I am not surprised at the questions this guy is posing in this interview. His questions are alike to someone who is not a Muslim.
Why do we attach so much negativity to a man wanting a second or even a third wife, if he is of good character and has sufficient wealth, We should encourage him instead. A father should advise his son not to agree to restrictive demands that could lead to disaster. After all, if a man seeks a halal arrangement rather than having a mistress, what is the problem? I certainly wouldn’t let my own son sign such a deal.
very interesting I'd like to hear more about your culture how things happen..🫶
Salam I want to be on your show I always get asked to be married from Arabic men contact me brother
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