aba: "im not doing this for views" also aba: *makes 7th video on F&F* just admit this virtue signalling is for money and views. All your videos about FnF outperform all your Original content so lets not act like your takes on FnF are anything original or smart that had to be mentioned, you already said thier bozo's. come up with something new
They were not mentioned once in this video. Y’all come after women for being hyper emotional but look at yourself lmao. You overreacted to something that never happened. Ironic that you have Sarutobi as your username, zero patience or wisdom in your comment.
I googled "If you try to attract women with cheese, you're gonna end up with rats." All I got were extermination articles. Its safe to say that quote belongs to Preach
Lmao the amount of google searches that have suddenly popped up from people searching this has got to have the google algorithm bot like wtf?! Out of context it’s even funnier
I never realised why men believe women are like a hive of bees that come when you got honey. We are humans god damnit. Try to connect with us like you would with another male just with the attraction thrown in there somewhere... The ladies will come... What a weird and gross saying
@@lolanaenamilo2395 although u are right, that’s just not our reality.. but look, that’s the difference between bees and QUEEN bees. Actual queens ( queen bees ) dont flock with the herd.
@@lolanaenamilo2395 Well, while I agree with you, I feel you're ignoring the context of the reality. There are women who want love, compassion, respect, etc. If you offer these things, those women will come into your life, usually. If you offer money, cars, and extravagant life, the women who seek that will come, usually. Are there times where you'll want something the other person doesn't? Absolutely. Vice Versa? Also absolutely - but again, it comes down to "understand(ing) why they came" Any way you slice it, the expression holds true. If you understand a woman's intention and true interests, you'll know what kind you're dealing with and vice versa.
Cmon bro. Aba and Preach spit facts all day lol. But that's one of their least effort quotes..they say things that are much more impressive in every video. If you try to attract birds with bread all you'll get is pigeons lmfao. It's just a 1:1 observation.
@@youngmicrowave127 just because you portray a certain thing or pretend live your life a certain way doesnt mean you are that thing, doesnt mean you have what you say you have if that makes sense
As a woman, i'm extremely grateful for you guys and nothing has helped me better than the content that you guys creat. Specially today's content. Forever grateful
When Preach said he was lost till he was 33. That really helps to hear for us in our late 20s still lost and thinking by now we should have it sorted out. Thanks for that.
Fellas im.32 now got my own company own property and have a good job and family.... I still felt empty until I hit 30 despite doing "everything right" all my 20s.... there's a turning point that just hits u one day and changes your views on what important because material shit and money helps but doesn't give u a fulfilling life.... I realised appreciating little things your surrounded by everyday and being grateful gives u satisfaction.... alot of the things that made.me.happy was all nature based... so sitting on a beach as the sunset and walking through bush trails and appreciating everything around me that is free is better than focussing on what u have in front of u like cars money clothes jewellery. Im sure everyone is different but doing little things everyday is living life.... earning money and accumulating things isn't living
@@garrettorourke1513 I can second this statement. Well said. I'm 37, working my ass off with my wife for the last 14 years together, building my business, working full time, not doing much else, accumulating peoperty etc, now about to have my first child, BOOM! all of a sudden he rest of the material crap means nothing. I can't wait. The older I got the more I realised family and community are important. Its more fulfilling then trying to impress others and get "stuff" ... 🙃
He's not lying. It's something that happens in men once you get into your 30s. A change in neurochemicals, something, I don't know. I know that once I got into my 30s, all of a sudden I couldn't play video games anymore. I felt guilty. Like I was wasting my time and not serving my family correctly. I became increasingly obsessed with productivity, financial security, overall wellness and legacy. This has increased year over year. I'm in my early 40s now and I only feel that NOW my plans are coming together and I can see the future. Money is the inevitable biproduct of an obsession with productivity and investment over consumption and spending. Money is not an end; it's the means to various ends. Our youths are centered on consumption and spending until we realize we won't live forever. It's then that we either find a purpose or live a life without it. That's essentially Hell on Earth.
Y’all are really the big brothers I wish I had growing up. There are so many things I’ve learned from this channel or things I had the general grasp of- but couldn’t articulate. Mad respect guys 👏🏾
Exactly. You can’t dangle your check to attract her, then be surprised she’s a gold digger???? It’s like, you dont attract a good woman with money. And firstly, a good woman’s not gonna go for that neither….trust!
I’m 26 just moved out to my own apartment, I’m eating some ice cream out of a red plastic cup, watching this on my laptop on the floor. Life ain’t so bad rn.
Hey Aba and Preach. I’m a female but your advice especially speaks to me. Dealing with depression as a 26 year old living at home, it’s easy to want to “end it all”. I truly thank you for your words and encouragement even though this video may not be geared to my demographic.
Hi N C, I am also female, 41, living in Queensland, Australia. These guys have great content! They help me a lot, not only personally, but also to understand my partner and the Man's prospective. I hope you stay safe and know you are valued.
Integrity and self awareness isn't just for guys, it's just as valuable for women and just as important to being actually happy with yourself and establishing healthy boundaries in your life. Good luck to you in finding yours and getting to a better place in and out of your head.
Actually I first heard this like from Damian Marley in his 2005 song Beautiful. “All this blinging is like you forgot, use cheddar as the bait, then you recruit a rat”. #props the song is HARD
as a 21 year old, the message about taking the leap of faith and persevering through adversity, and eventually it will define who you are... I needed to hear that. thank you both.
Hearing that Preach was still finding himself around 33 really helped me out just now. I constantly feel like I'm late to the party or too slow. It's good to hear that there's no time limit and it's not a race as long as you get to the goal sometime.
You never stop growing! Ever. I'm 46 and still learn new things all the time. Fresh and fit have a different approach than Aba and Preach but they speak some truths too. The wisdom is to take what's useful and discard what isn't no matter the source. If marriage is your goal Aba and Preach are probably more helpful but if dating and casual sex are more your flavors then Fresh and fit can teach you way more.
I mean if yore still lost at 33 something has gone very very wrong. I don't think has even promoting or glorifying it but trying to help other guys not be lost at 30+.
🧀= 🐀 If yall agree.... LIKE THE VIDEO. HELP WITH THE ALGORITHM. This video is from August 16th part of the 4 videos we did on that podcast. Yall have seen 1 video already, this is 2/4. So hearing the commentary, no this isnt negative. Just talking about dating and what not. I can post proof so everybody breathe, the nonsense is over... FOR NOW. HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK
In my mid 20s and quite lost. Trying to build my wealth, get career in order and physique. Patience and trust in the process and myself are the biggest things I’m working on at this time
Alignment. Define yourself & your goals. You are already ahead of most ppl cuz they dont start thinking like that until 30 is staring at them in the face lol. Hard work pays off & always ends in results. Grind time go mode!
Damian Marley has a similar line in his song ‘Beautiful’ “Use cheddar as a bait then you recruit a rat-“…Respects to Aba and Preach, tapped in as usual
As a person with anxiety it hit a lot when aba said to do things we are afraid to. Preach. Going out of the comfort zone is what makes us stronger and more mature.
You will never ever demonetize Aba and preach because they have compassion, wisdom, and great content. Not to mention their personalities and connection is absolutely beautiful. This is coming from a woman who’s been listening to both Fresh and for and Aba and Preach.Ofcourse the latter much much longer, but it’s worth noting that they ARE NOT comparable. It’s clear . Much love Aba and preach. Keep being you.
When Preach said that "Cheese...Rats" line, first song to popped in my head was that Andre 3000 and Kelis song "Millionaire". Where there is cheese there are rats Wherever there are rats there are cats Wherever there are cats there are dogs If you got the dogs, you got bitches Bitches always out to put their paws on your riches - Andre 3000
Simon Elliott and Alex L found this quote: "All this blinging it's like you forgot, use cheddar as the bait den you recruit a rat" Damion Marley - Beautiful (2005)
What aba said about the military is very relatable. The army wasnt for me, but it gave me a lot of tools that help me in life. Perseverance, integrity, and discipline are vital to becoming a person of good character.
Aba’s explanations is the exact definition of Sartre’s work on Existentialism, where people determine their own essence by the choices they make in life. It’s a worthwhile read!
@@Fukuro14 this coming from a person who can't form a simple, coherent sentence? If you're trying to shame me then you're going to have to come up with something better than that. Anyone can hide behind a screen and run their mouth, it's telling of their character with out really saying much. If think you can do better then Sartre then by all means: walk your talk. I look forward to reading it if you have the guts to do so.
*THIS!* character is pathologically undervalued these days. With regards to the earlier part of the video, that's why I absolutely hate it when people say 'men are trash' or 'women are trash' ----- no, you just deal with garbage people and if that's habitual that's on you. Aquila Non Capit Muscas (The Eagle Does Not Catch Flies), strive to be an eagle, don't fuck with flies.
It’s true you have to filter people out when dating my girlfriends always asked me why I never really had horrible experiences with men like that. But it’s because you have to have look at people a little bit more critically if I man or woman is thirst trapping left and right high changes they value and look for strangers approval
I am big on integrity and character. I don’t even know if people understand how important those are in one’s life anymore. I have noticed that this generation of men and women don’t put emphasis on that anymore, they really don’t care.
1:15 “If homegirl is waiting for me to pull up in a Tesla, she’s probably not the girl for me. Even if I got the money for it, it’s not how I roll in, because she wants me for the wrong reasons.” This is nothing but pure unadulterated *facts.* Focus on yourself fellas, the women can come later?
@@SuperMurray2009 if you wanna go traditional, it ain't the womans job to be financially ready for a family, that's the mans job. Doesn't mean the woman is a golddigger or something like that. You have to show that you're responsible and know what to do in order to provide for a family. She can work too🤷🏻♀️. If you want a modern woman, she probably can take care of a family financially but it ain't all financial to raise a good legacy. If you aren't responsible and so didn't get to the point where you can provide for a family and be able to be a father, why would any women pick you?
@@Donja.z Traditionalism is dead. No one in the western world is Traditional. Traditionally women couldn't work but I guarantee you aren't about to quit your job and empty out your back account.
This all comes back to accountability. Too many people like to attract people using shallow attributes and then act like the victim when the people they attract are shallow 🤦🏽♂️
Exactly! If I go out seeking men who are millionaires and drives a Maserati or another expensive car name, and that’s my ONLY qualifier, i shouldn’t be surprised if he’s shallow. I can’t complain when I didn’t go after, values like good character, kindness, respect, intellect or sense of humor.
To paraphrase Sun Tzu's Art of War: "If you are weak, project strength, If you are strong, project weakness." That's why billionaires wear jeans and a shirt, and other people think the surface stuff is an "investment"...
Is their more context in that quote? If not, then I disagree wholeheartedly with it. Authenticity and honesty is king, project your power levels regardless of how high or low it is because fabrication can only last for so long before you cannot keep up with it. Billionaires don't wear jeans and a shirt or drive beaters to project weakness, it's meant to represent who they are as a person.
@@WhoBlah21 i consider myself quite an honest guy but in wartime where winning is more important than truth, that quote makes sense. Like in Avengers when Nick Fury fabricated Coulsons card covered in his blood to motivate The Avengers. Now the problem is what do you consider Wartime? Winning over truth is only important in life or death situations not debates about politics and dating.
A big thing Nietzsche was focused on was this idea that men had killed the idea of "God" this kind of independent moral guideline or framework for life had lost it's value. People say he was a pessimist, but in reality he was dour because he realized religion for the vast majority of people, serves as a framework or morality, values, and how to build a stable and successful life. His major concern was basically trying desperately to justify and argue to people, that there exists the precident to live a morally righteous, fulfilling, and happy life in spite of the absence of God or the supernatural. Now I personally don't care whether you believe God or the supernatural are real, but I think a lot of the vapid hedonism, loss of purpose/direction, and rabid ideological radicalization we see in people as a result of this loss of that framework. Regardless of whether it's based in religion or faith, people need principles, they need doctrines, guidelines, and a framework of how to orient themselves in the world. Without that they end up morally dubious, hedonistic or adrift without purpose. Or they will create those things for themselves, clinging to political agendas and identities like a religious holy book regardless of ideological flaws or shortcomings, because that agenda/identity provides them that framework and sense of security. If you don't want to end up with a shit partner, or surrounded by shit people, you have to be certain that they have that framework, those underpinnings in principles, morality, and values, be it religious, or not. If these people don't have that, then you can't be surprised when they act irrationally, don't hold themselves to any form of consistency, and don't value anyone or anything else around them outside of themselves, their well-being, and furthering their own interests.
If there is no "God" then there is no apparent framework to be honest as our very existence is just as a result of a random sequence of events. The mere concept of morality is laughable in itself because your choices have no bearing in the grand scheme of things ergo we live, we die, we love, we hate but the universe keeps expanding
@@diretnandomnan6060 the fact that this is your perspective is terrifying. By that logic the only thing keeping you from doing harm to others in the name of your own self-interest is the mandate of a magical sky daddy who'll punish you if you do bad. It's perfectly reasonable to not believe in a God, and to desire to help and uplift and minimize the suffering of those around you even if your existence is entirely happenstance. Don't try to brow beat, scare, or bully people into your faith man, it's not gonna get you anywhere.
@@FUNWITHTHEFIRE1 No scare tactics or attempted convictions here, mate. I haven't even told you I believe in a "God". I'm only pointing out that if you think about it, "morality" means nothing in the grand scheme of things if there isn't an immovable, unwavering framework by which to measure it by. Nietzsche is one of my favourite ever characters FYI. However perfectly reasonable as you describe that feeling of morality, reason has no place in a chaotic universe such as ours
Preach: "Google it, that's not my bar..." Every writer when they write a great chapter in first draft, before editing: "Okay, time to run this through Hemingway to make sure I didn't inadvertently plagiarize anything..." I get it, Preach lol
bless you guys. You’re like a compass, giving people direction. I’m in a sphere of some influence irl, and am repeating your words to an audience. These ideas are multiplying.
@Hollyhock Manheim-Mannheim-Guerrero-Robinson they showing you the lesson to learn from hypocritical charlatans who sold you other peoples skills as their own . And did a very terrible job cause none of those people following them are 6 figure earners with women hanging off of them. But hey keep draining your pockets in the Hope's that these men who are using you will give you real advice you can use.
@Hollyhock Manheim-Mannheim-Guerrero-Robinson This is discussing some issues, problem, and ideas for provoking critical thinking. If you stay silent and being bystander seeing some people scamming naive people, you are as worse as the scammer.
Simon Elliott and Alex L found this quote: "All this blinging it's like you forgot, use cheddar as the bait den you recruit a rat" Damion Marley - Beautiful (2005)
Yeah, but so do women that are attracted to money. They come when it's there, they goes when they've spent it all and they generally aren't worried about character because it doesn't buy labels.
Bruh I love y’all’s interactions with each other. You really need a good head on your shoulders to have a relationship like this. I’m looking hard for my boy like this, everyone to strung up on dumb shit nowadays. 🤷🏽♂️
Man even if you guys ain’t conventional friends the exchange about the cheese bar shows just how much you guys you value one another for what you bring to the table. Damn heartwarming contrast to the rest of the world.
Can you do a video on "feeling lost." It really struck me how you both pointed out a point where there was a shift for you, I think it would greatly assist your audience to talk about that and "maturing" in general, or at least what that looked like for you in your lives.
I had a conversation with a young man in his early 20's, I try to motivate him and encourage him to get into school, he's a smart kid and I dont want him to go through his life like how I did mine, he seems to lack a lot of direction with his life and I understand completely, I was the same way well into my early 30's as well, now my life has much more purpose and direction. If y'all could only see how much I've improved my life you'd be proud of me, lol. Life is good and the sky is the limit.
For those who are wondering, they said a multiple of times that they had pre-recordings of F&F. They said this on the *No Jumper Podcast,* and on one of those "beef videos," they mentioned they had more videos on them. I don't see why they shouldn't put out a video that they already recorded, edited, worked on, etc just because it had F&F on it. They didn't tagged F&F liked they did with other videos, nor did they mentioned them once throughout the whole video. They did it the classy way. This was an amazing topic that a lot of people needed to hear, and I'm glad they shared it. Stopped trying to start something that's not there. Just keep it pushing.
Hey Aba n Preach. The part towards the end where you mentioned being lost and finding yourselves at 25 - 30, it really hit home for me. I'm 25 currently and I feel like I've lost who I am and *I wonder will I get out of this phase.* It would be great to hear about your journey's through your 20s and the fuck ups and lessons you learned. Thanks for all the great content and mainly for being genuine...cheers!
Based on your post and what I know about both pairs of RUclipsrs you probably relate closest to fresh aka Walter. My advice to you don't limit your scope of learning and acquiring knowledge even if that source of knowledge is not seen as cool or trendy.
Im 27 still trynna find the path. Im very close because im seeing the finances i never had in my earlier years. Things are in the direction theyre suppose to go and i see it everyday. Bud, your time is coming. Life alters to you and who you are. Youre not even at your full potential but oh boy the direction its going youll feel it intensely
@@movielord911 seeing these guys go through the same things we're going through, makes it feel a little less daunting I guess. I hope they make a video talking about their journey to finding themselves
Or maybe it made them think, they often say similar things as well, don’t lead with money. You have to stop saying baseless things for likes.. you’re not funny
@@RagnarLoudpak How do they not when they don’t pay for play yet aba here is advocating paying for box? which is fine the opinions can differ but genuinely explain to me cause it seems you don’t really know what your talking about
There’s two levels to confidence. Internal and external. Internal confidence comes from experiencing and growing through situations that test your character vs. External confidence which shows as a result of your accomplishments being proud of yourself and feeling accomplished.
You guys are actually brilliant a lion doesn't flinch doesn't look when a dog barks. The brilliance that I see in you two is on another level. I've watched a lot of people on here in a lot of people claim to be alpha or top dogs or whatever you want to call but to prove yourself with previously recorded video brilliant brilliant I applaud you.
Good Lord that song in the outro by “Ghen” just absolutely warms my heart and provides tranquility to the mind that’s unlike any sound I’ve listened to before! Great work Gents🥂 cheers
It's so hard to believe you guys aren't best friends who hang out all the time. I love y'alls chemistry, vibe,knowledge, humor and characters! Keep on being grown black man goals!🥰💪🏾🙏🏽
I’m so happy I discovered this channel. As a 21 y/o, y’all spoke to my heart fr bros. Having your values stand the test of time and tribulation teaches you. Keep doing what y’all doing. SALUTE
I love how you guys are absolutely fair, genuine and make 100% sense as human beings irrespective of your gender. Love how Preach was humble with the cheese and rats analogy. We need more men like you in the world. And thank you for creating content tirelessly for years, spreading your level-headedness, infecting mind with the right values, giving them guidance on how to build character. Thank you gentlemen 🙏
If you always present and represent your true self, even if you don't attract anyone, at least you could have fun being yourself. Me driving away in my Kia Forte with anime stickers in the windows.
@starving artist I know! I admit I have few female friends but the ones I have are beautiful and NOT going for wealthy dudes if anything they have dated down or equal. My husband was making 30k a year when we got together, he makes 65k now and we have going on 5 children. Love of my life.
I for one appreciate that you are showing the good kinds of conversations on F&F and also expanding on what you had previously talked about on their show. I hope this is another positive step in bringing this destructive conflict to an amicable end.
Only 1.4 Million? This channel needs to hit 10M, this sort of wisdom honestly helped my life and I can definitely as someone who grew up with no positive role models that you guys changed my life. Kudos.
As a 23 year old I highly respect your advice on knowing yourself and values first to be comfortable enough around the opposite sex. It really made me understand the things I need to work on for myself. So Thank you 👏🏾
@AbaAndPreach You guys should make this public. This is a great video with great advice many people need to hear. You guys are consistent with your integrity to have people who need it receive the message.
As a Marine I’ve live by creating challenges and leading from the front. Currently living Japan and managing a large business, while sleeping well at night.
I literally cried from 10:00, I am going through a rough time moving into a new season in my life and this encouragement and motivation really helped me. I love you guys guys so much and what you present for us young men. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. P. S Preach....SHUT UP AND CLAIM THAT BAR, YOU HUMBLE BEAST...WE GOOGLED, IT'S YOURS !!!😂
Preach had all the bars this video. The food thing made me laugh. My family always thinks I'm trying to escape a meal with how fast I eat. Some of those military habits just stick.
Army and my father (Korea Vet) surrounded by strong, very thoughtful and hard working men did me a world of good. Make no excuses, understand why and move forward.
The character speak toward the end was so well put. And the genuine laughs from you two while explaining it is so refreshing. Loving the videos still. lol
i'd argue myron doesn't lead with money, he leads with status but he doesn't drive a cool car or wear new clothes. the man wears fresh and fit merch to the club lmao. but fresh definitely does - rolex, mcclaren etc etc
@@notthatsrssrsly he does actually. he tries to get women by telling them he has a podcast and they have to fuck him to come on lol He doesn’t lead with his values or morals at all .
@@jasminexxx3911 To be fair the environment he's in doesn't find significance in values and morals. Anyone in that area (or any place) is better off understanding what the market wants/finds significance in whilst being aware of the risks at hand. He wants a quick lay and knows what it takes in that scene to make it happen efficiently. Can you blame him?
@@reichvybz2893 no he chose that environment . He has a podcast . A podcast . And chooses to act the way he does with no morals or character value . Maybe if he was male stripper you could use that argument , but there’s no rule that just because you have a podcast all morals go out the window lol and he wants a quick lay but doesn’t wanna pay for it he wants to take advantage of women just so they can be in his podcast . And clearly his tactics aren’t “efficient” because he’s being outed and now everyone knows his dirt and dirty games and it’s affecting him negatively . If he was smart he would have just payed a woman for sex since that’s all he clearly wants , and he could have avoided that drama , but he won’t tell you guys that out of fear of being labeled a “simp”. I’m sure if he actually treated women right or took care of them properly monetarily to not air out his dirty tactics , the “high value man” wouldn’t be going through this mess lol karma comes when you objectify and try to take advantage of women
“Where there is cheese/there are rats Wherever there are rats/there are cats Wherever there are cats/ there are dogs If you got the dogs you’ve got bitches/ Bitches always out to put their paws on your riches If you got riches/you got glitches….” - 3 Stacks …(verse continues on) - Millionaire by Kelis ft. Andre 3000 - Album: Tasty 👌🏾
Thank you guys for everything you do. This is a big topic for me personally. I always feel lost. (I’m 22) even when I know I’m going in a direction and doing what I have to do. I’m always questioning if my choices were the right way to go and how to improve. Hopefully when I get my own house in the next year or two and I’ve saved more I’ll feel more gathered. But, even still like you guys said. I definitely wanna hit up that Merch sometime to have you guys with me when I hustle. I appreciate you guys a lot. Need a group of chill dudes like y’all.
aba: "im not doing this for views"
also aba: *makes 7th video on F&F*
just admit this virtue signalling is for money and views. All your videos about FnF outperform all your Original content so lets not act like your takes on FnF are anything original or smart that had to be mentioned, you already said thier bozo's. come up with something new
They were not mentioned once in this video. Y’all come after women for being hyper emotional but look at yourself lmao. You overreacted to something that never happened.
Ironic that you have Sarutobi as your username, zero patience or wisdom in your comment.
@@AbaNPreach boom blast
Pin of shame
Hyuck hyuck
OOF the pin of shame.
How about *you* stop simping for borderline rapists and frauds, you misguided incel.
I googled "If you try to attract women with cheese, you're gonna end up with rats." All I got were extermination articles. Its safe to say that quote belongs to Preach
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Lets add it to Google
Lmao the amount of google searches that have suddenly popped up from people searching this has got to have the google algorithm bot like wtf?! Out of context it’s even funnier
HOLY SHIT!!
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"If you attract women with cheese, you're gonna end up with rats."
Preach is preaching right here.
He's called that for a reason
I don’t think so. I think you’ll get what you want and you can move on ……. Get off his nuts
I loved that also. I'll use that saying in real life. Lol. I have kids in their 20's.
So funny and so true 😂
@@zuwopw6533 if you want people who use you and steal from you then yessir. You will get what you want
"The ladies will come, but understand why they came..."
- Chamillionaire
I never realised why men believe women are like a hive of bees that come when you got honey. We are humans god damnit. Try to connect with us like you would with another male just with the attraction thrown in there somewhere... The ladies will come... What a weird and gross saying
@@lolanaenamilo2395 although u are right, that’s just not our reality.. but look, that’s the difference between bees and QUEEN bees. Actual queens ( queen bees ) dont flock with the herd.
Kamala said don't come
@Ryan lol no you are just sexist. No woman wants to be included to such thing. Find better women
@@lolanaenamilo2395 Well, while I agree with you, I feel you're ignoring the context of the reality. There are women who want love, compassion, respect, etc. If you offer these things, those women will come into your life, usually. If you offer money, cars, and extravagant life, the women who seek that will come, usually. Are there times where you'll want something the other person doesn't? Absolutely. Vice Versa? Also absolutely - but again, it comes down to "understand(ing) why they came"
Any way you slice it, the expression holds true. If you understand a woman's intention and true interests, you'll know what kind you're dealing with and vice versa.
Googled preach's quote, nope thats his bar. Well said, mans sounding like Plato out here.
I second this. No where on Google that I see. 👀
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How humble he was when he said it’s not my bar…and in fact it is is even better.
Cmon bro. Aba and Preach spit facts all day lol. But that's one of their least effort quotes..they say things that are much more impressive in every video. If you try to attract birds with bread all you'll get is pigeons lmfao. It's just a 1:1 observation.
@@gothxm Well if one of their weaker quotes makes them sound like Aristotle or Plato I think that really says something about them.
Preach Preach!
"Just because you are a character, doesn't mean you have character"
-The Wolf 🐺
🐺 Awooga 🐺
Yall are sad as hell
WTF is that suppose to mean?
@@youngmicrowave127 just because you portray a certain thing or pretend live your life a certain way doesnt mean you are that thing, doesnt mean you have what you say you have if that makes sense
@@gabrialblast2007 You still going on videos calling people sad? Don't you think thats sad?
As a woman, i'm extremely grateful for you guys and nothing has helped me better than the content that you guys creat. Specially today's content. Forever grateful
same here , i have learned so much from this duo .
The male perspective they bring on topics is absolutely refreshing! I always run to watch their videos!
And so are us men, too many frauds out there trying to manipulate us these days but these brothers are real and even role models for us.
What was the main take away?
When Preach said he was lost till he was 33. That really helps to hear for us in our late 20s still lost and thinking by now we should have it sorted out. Thanks for that.
I’m 28 I have a job have a car have an apartment an still don’t know where I’m going but I push forward hard work pays off
Fellas im.32 now got my own company own property and have a good job and family.... I still felt empty until I hit 30 despite doing "everything right" all my 20s.... there's a turning point that just hits u one day and changes your views on what important because material shit and money helps but doesn't give u a fulfilling life.... I realised appreciating little things your surrounded by everyday and being grateful gives u satisfaction.... alot of the things that made.me.happy was all nature based... so sitting on a beach as the sunset and walking through bush trails and appreciating everything around me that is free is better than focussing on what u have in front of u like cars money clothes jewellery. Im sure everyone is different but doing little things everyday is living life.... earning money and accumulating things isn't living
I didn’t figure it out till 34
@@garrettorourke1513 I can second this statement. Well said. I'm 37, working my ass off with my wife for the last 14 years together, building my business, working full time, not doing much else, accumulating peoperty etc, now about to have my first child, BOOM! all of a sudden he rest of the material crap means nothing. I can't wait. The older I got the more I realised family and community are important. Its more fulfilling then trying to impress others and get "stuff" ... 🙃
That's facts I'm probably the youngest here but I still feel like I should have my life figured out. This really helps.
“I was lost, till I was 33”
I’ll be 30 in 2 months, just starting to find my way but, that little sentence gave me a lot of hope.
Facts💯
Same here men am turning 34yrs this year. .....I now have a new value system
He's not lying. It's something that happens in men once you get into your 30s. A change in neurochemicals, something, I don't know. I know that once I got into my 30s, all of a sudden I couldn't play video games anymore. I felt guilty. Like I was wasting my time and not serving my family correctly. I became increasingly obsessed with productivity, financial security, overall wellness and legacy. This has increased year over year. I'm in my early 40s now and I only feel that NOW my plans are coming together and I can see the future.
Money is the inevitable biproduct of an obsession with productivity and investment over consumption and spending. Money is not an end; it's the means to various ends.
Our youths are centered on consumption and spending until we realize we won't live forever. It's then that we either find a purpose or live a life without it. That's essentially Hell on Earth.
Tell ur story brother, here to listen
Same
Y’all are really the big brothers I wish I had growing up. There are so many things I’ve learned from this channel or things I had the general grasp of- but couldn’t articulate. Mad respect guys 👏🏾
Rt
Damn you’re attractive
@@jasmynlandramos6633 thanks mama
Hellyeah. I see em like older cousins..
On some real fucking shit bro
"If you attract women with cheese, you'll end up with rats."
-Erich Preach
Yeah Preach, that quote is yours! Enjoy it brudda. #Bars
No it's not it's from a Jr gong song beautiful, use cheddar as bait and you will recruit a rat, the line is not his
Exactly. You can’t dangle your check to attract her, then be surprised she’s a gold digger????
It’s like, you dont attract a good woman with money. And firstly, a good woman’s not gonna go for that neither….trust!
Also known as: "If you sleep with dogs, you're bound to get fleas"
@@oioi310i you ain't lying, lol!
That’s hilarious, I’m using it …
I’m 26 just moved out to my own apartment, I’m eating some ice cream out of a red plastic cup, watching this on my laptop on the floor. Life ain’t so bad rn.
That's a vibe
Congrats on new place
Congrats cuh!
👏
Congrats my dude
“More money, more problems…..it’s actually more money, different problems if you showcase it” keep preachin preach💪🏽
pfp twin
@@chabweezy9905 right on 🤝
@@chabweezy9905 😁
Hey Aba and Preach. I’m a female but your advice especially speaks to me. Dealing with depression as a 26 year old living at home, it’s easy to want to “end it all”. I truly thank you for your words and encouragement even though this video may not be geared to my demographic.
Take care of yourself.Drop your email if you need some help getting back to your fabulous self.See if we can help.
Hi N C, I am also female, 41, living in Queensland, Australia. These guys have great content! They help me a lot, not only personally, but also to understand my partner and the Man's prospective. I hope you stay safe and know you are valued.
True, these men has some of the most wise takes on youtube. Hope you win your battle against depression though! We are rooting for ya!
@@Daisy-si2uy I appreciate your input. Best to you and your partner.
Integrity and self awareness isn't just for guys, it's just as valuable for women and just as important to being actually happy with yourself and establishing healthy boundaries in your life. Good luck to you in finding yours and getting to a better place in and out of your head.
“If you try to attract women with cheese you gonna get RATS”
- Preach
It’s yours now!! We googled it😂
Big bars!
Actually I first heard this like from Damian Marley in his 2005 song Beautiful.
“All this blinging is like you forgot, use cheddar as the bait, then you recruit a rat”.
#props the song is HARD
@@ricardosmith5753 nice bro I'm go Listen 🎶
@@ricardosmith5753 Impressive
I actually thought he said racks not rats I was like wtf
as a 21 year old, the message about taking the leap of faith and persevering through adversity, and eventually it will define who you are... I needed to hear that.
thank you both.
On god fam I feel the same. Appreciate y’all older brothers Aba and preach
Word goats right here
That's was your bar, Preach. Dude is so humble he can't even take credit for his own genius Lol.
Its not his bar, its a common bar.
Montana of 300 Icon (Remix) : Young and dumb, told myself fuck a job, I’ma trap
And if cheese is involved, you should watch for the rats
@@calebof300 I don't think that context involved women. So it's not the same.
@@joshuaosei5628 lol
@@calebof300 wtf?😂😂
Hearing that Preach was still finding himself around 33 really helped me out just now. I constantly feel like I'm late to the party or too slow. It's good to hear that there's no time limit and it's not a race as long as you get to the goal sometime.
You never stop growing! Ever. I'm 46 and still learn new things all the time. Fresh and fit have a different approach than Aba and Preach but they speak some truths too. The wisdom is to take what's useful and discard what isn't no matter the source. If marriage is your goal Aba and Preach are probably more helpful but if dating and casual sex are more your flavors then Fresh and fit can teach you way more.
I mean if yore still lost at 33 something has gone very very wrong. I don't think has even promoting or glorifying it but trying to help other guys not be lost at 30+.
@@mememachine5244 I don’t think age matters in terms of being ‘lost’. Time doesn’t discriminate.
Didn't fins myself until recently. I'm about to turn 42. Yeah, shit went wrong.
That's why I got mad time and Respeck for Aba & Preach.
I'm 34 and only just figured out what I wanna do with my future.
Aba would make a great dad.. that advice hits like it’s coming from a very wise man that’s seen life
"money looks better when it's invisible"
- The great DJ Quik
WHat does that mean
@@liltrill8976 it is better when no one knows you have money and it's not flaunted by being flashy ... You have money but you're low key about it
@@YouThoughtIt3 💯
@@liltrill8976 means wear a suit but don't drive a Lamborghini. Drink good alcohol but don't be popping bottles.
@@YouThoughtIt3 Every verse from DJ Quik "When You're A Gee" also, "...When you're a Gee you just check yours."
🧀= 🐀 If yall agree.... LIKE THE VIDEO. HELP WITH THE ALGORITHM.
This video is from August 16th part of the 4 videos we did on that podcast. Yall have seen 1 video already, this is 2/4. So hearing the commentary, no this isnt negative. Just talking about dating and what not. I can post proof so everybody breathe, the nonsense is over...
FOR NOW. HYUCK HYUCK HYUCK
nice
Oh shit second reply
@@gregkareem9824 oof
@@nyshyn307 😅 ikr
yea i figured this was made prior since you both are currently on travel
In my mid 20s and quite lost. Trying to build my wealth, get career in order and physique. Patience and trust in the process and myself are the biggest things I’m working on at this time
Keep going! I’m 21, wife, college student and a mother! The journey is worth continuing!
@@kristianmanning6482 how do you manage bruh
@@aloowalia2849 on god I be struggling with just picking a job
@@tairyhesticals604 yeah same 😁
Alignment. Define yourself & your goals. You are already ahead of most ppl cuz they dont start thinking like that until 30 is staring at them in the face lol. Hard work pays off & always ends in results. Grind time go mode!
"If you try to attract women with cheese, you're going to end up with rats!" - Preach
BARS!
CLAIM IT PREACH!
This is an amazing quote. 💪
Google has confirmed that this was never said before lol
Bro you need to copyright these bars
Witnessing the birth of a good quote.
That's all you homie lol own it lol
Damian Marley has a similar line in his song ‘Beautiful’ “Use cheddar as a bait then you recruit a rat-“…Respects to Aba and Preach, tapped in as usual
Chris brown too. ....." I don't fuck with rats, I throw away the cheese"😂
Factd
Thank you brederin
This was exactly what came to mind when he said it😅
That's exactly what came to mind
As a person with anxiety it hit a lot when aba said to do things we are afraid to. Preach.
Going out of the comfort zone is what makes us stronger and more mature.
"Trust someone when their action match their words."
Integrity is vital in a person's life. 💪
Amen, bruv
I see you everywhere bruv
Agreed.
That's why Myron and Walter are made for each other
Humans with genuine integrity is a dying breed
Preach’s “give a girl cheese, you’ll end up with rats” line should be put on a shirt. “Merch”!!! I would buy that. That was a whole bar.
Googled it. Nowhere to be found.
Stephane Gregory Dan he a savage
That’s not the bar… sigh. Not y’all already twisting their words to some bs. Now why would they tell you not to give your girl money
@Enlightning exactly and makes more sense
teespring.com/attraction-7219?pid=212&cid=5819
No problem boys, just a lil sumn
You will never ever demonetize Aba and preach because they have compassion, wisdom, and great content. Not to mention their personalities and connection is absolutely beautiful. This is coming from a woman who’s been listening to both Fresh and for and Aba and Preach.Ofcourse the latter much much longer, but it’s worth noting that they ARE NOT comparable. It’s clear . Much love Aba and preach. Keep being you.
that's up to youtube ngl
@@natediaz1863 well you're right about one thing: you don't know shit
Googled that bar and nah YOU GOOD PREACH CLAIM IT!
When Preach said that "Cheese...Rats" line, first song to popped in my head was that Andre 3000 and Kelis song "Millionaire".
Where there is cheese there are rats
Wherever there are rats there are cats
Wherever there are cats there are dogs
If you got the dogs, you got bitches
Bitches always out to put their paws on your riches
- Andre 3000
Simon Elliott and Alex L found this quote:
"All this blinging it's like you forgot,
use cheddar as the bait den you recruit a rat"
Damion Marley - Beautiful (2005)
What aba said about the military is very relatable. The army wasnt for me, but it gave me a lot of tools that help me in life. Perseverance, integrity, and discipline are vital to becoming a person of good character.
Same. Plus, meeting some good people, Brothers I should say.
did you regret it?
Same except the Marine Corps.
Aba’s explanations is the exact definition of Sartre’s work on Existentialism, where people determine their own essence by the choices they make in life.
It’s a worthwhile read!
Thank you for sharing this. I would love to read it. Tidbits like yours are why I read the comments.
Lmao no, please stop.
@@Fukuro14 stop what?
@@44mag17 acting like it's Sartre deep??? Lmao
@@Fukuro14 this coming from a person who can't form a simple, coherent sentence? If you're trying to shame me then you're going to have to come up with something better than that.
Anyone can hide behind a screen and run their mouth, it's telling of their character with out really saying much.
If think you can do better then Sartre then by all means: walk your talk. I look forward to reading it if you have the guts to do so.
Preach: "If you try to attract women with cheese, you're going to end up with rats"
Mice Watching: "And I felt that shit"
🤣🤣
“And I took that personally”
😂😂😂
'I felt lost until I was like 25' Thanks for sharing that Aba.
I'm 23 and I be feeling lost sometimes like I just don't know what I'm doing anymore.
Integrity, values and being realistic. Aba and Preach, you are a breath of fresh air!
Fresh air…not fresh and fit 😏
Your besties Amber & Peaches, are the cutest flower couple.
@Myron Gaines aka Amrou Fudl Hey Preach and Aba, you must have a lot of time on your hands to run that account.
@Myron Gaines aka Amrou Fudl You're a pathetic internet troll, the most garbage existence possible. Let those words ring in your head all day long 👍
@Myron Gaines aka Amrou Fudl Keep advertising your pathetic existence and claiming that you get women LOFL! Good joke clown.
*THIS!* character is pathologically undervalued these days. With regards to the earlier part of the video, that's why I absolutely hate it when people say 'men are trash' or 'women are trash' ----- no, you just deal with garbage people and if that's habitual that's on you. Aquila Non Capit Muscas (The Eagle Does Not Catch Flies), strive to be an eagle, don't fuck with flies.
BARS!
@@ytv1234567 ☺️
It’s true you have to filter people out when dating my girlfriends always asked me why I never really had horrible experiences with men like that. But it’s because you have to have look at people a little bit more critically if I man or woman is thirst trapping left and right high changes they value and look for strangers approval
I am big on integrity and character. I don’t even know if people understand how important those are in one’s life anymore. I have noticed that this generation of men and women don’t put emphasis on that anymore, they really don’t care.
I mean that’s a pretty big generalization everyone’s an individual some people are as you described and some aren’t.
@WT you are blackpilled my friend
@WT that looks and genes are everything and determine your success level in this existence
You did say it in your own comment
Well said!!! I’m so glad these guys are the antithesis of that. And have a huge platform to spread it!!
1:15
“If homegirl is waiting for me to pull up in a Tesla, she’s probably not the girl for me. Even if I got the money for it, it’s not how I roll in, because she wants me for the wrong reasons.”
This is nothing but pure unadulterated *facts.* Focus on yourself fellas, the women can come later?
Can come later?
Must come later.
Why go for a woman when you can't take care of a family yet?
@@Donja.z Can you take care of yours?
@@SuperMurray2009 if you wanna go traditional, it ain't the womans job to be financially ready for a family, that's the mans job. Doesn't mean the woman is a golddigger or something like that. You have to show that you're responsible and know what to do in order to provide for a family. She can work too🤷🏻♀️.
If you want a modern woman, she probably can take care of a family financially but it ain't all financial to raise a good legacy. If you aren't responsible and so didn't get to the point where you can provide for a family and be able to be a father, why would any women pick you?
@@Donja.z Traditionalism is dead. No one in the western world is Traditional. Traditionally women couldn't work but I guarantee you aren't about to quit your job and empty out your back account.
This all comes back to accountability. Too many people like to attract people using shallow attributes and then act like the victim when the people they attract are shallow 🤦🏽♂️
Exactly! If I go out seeking men who are millionaires and drives a Maserati or another expensive car name, and that’s my ONLY qualifier, i shouldn’t be surprised if he’s shallow. I can’t complain when I didn’t go after, values like good character, kindness, respect, intellect or sense of humor.
Wow facts!!!!!!!!!!! Deep
To paraphrase Sun Tzu's Art of War:
"If you are weak, project strength,
If you are strong, project weakness."
That's why billionaires wear jeans and a shirt, and other people think the surface stuff is an "investment"...
There’s more to it than that
Lol what a crock of shit.
@@kesuya Comments telling people they are wrong without saying how just make you look petulant.
Is their more context in that quote? If not, then I disagree wholeheartedly with it. Authenticity and honesty is king, project your power levels regardless of how high or low it is because fabrication can only last for so long before you cannot keep up with it. Billionaires don't wear jeans and a shirt or drive beaters to project weakness, it's meant to represent who they are as a person.
@@WhoBlah21 i consider myself quite an honest guy but in wartime where winning is more important than truth, that quote makes sense. Like in Avengers when Nick Fury fabricated Coulsons card covered in his blood to motivate The Avengers. Now the problem is what do you consider Wartime? Winning over truth is only important in life or death situations not debates about politics and dating.
A big thing Nietzsche was focused on was this idea that men had killed the idea of "God" this kind of independent moral guideline or framework for life had lost it's value. People say he was a pessimist, but in reality he was dour because he realized religion for the vast majority of people, serves as a framework or morality, values, and how to build a stable and successful life. His major concern was basically trying desperately to justify and argue to people, that there exists the precident to live a morally righteous, fulfilling, and happy life in spite of the absence of God or the supernatural.
Now I personally don't care whether you believe God or the supernatural are real, but I think a lot of the vapid hedonism, loss of purpose/direction, and rabid ideological radicalization we see in people as a result of this loss of that framework.
Regardless of whether it's based in religion or faith, people need principles, they need doctrines, guidelines, and a framework of how to orient themselves in the world.
Without that they end up morally dubious, hedonistic or adrift without purpose. Or they will create those things for themselves, clinging to political agendas and identities like a religious holy book regardless of ideological flaws or shortcomings, because that agenda/identity provides them that framework and sense of security.
If you don't want to end up with a shit partner, or surrounded by shit people, you have to be certain that they have that framework, those underpinnings in principles, morality, and values, be it religious, or not.
If these people don't have that, then you can't be surprised when they act irrationally, don't hold themselves to any form of consistency, and don't value anyone or anything else around them outside of themselves, their well-being, and furthering their own interests.
Man... I wish I could shake your hand! Wisdom right here
If there is no "God" then there is no apparent framework to be honest as our very existence is just as a result of a random sequence of events. The mere concept of morality is laughable in itself because your choices have no bearing in the grand scheme of things ergo we live, we die, we love, we hate but the universe keeps expanding
@@diretnandomnan6060 the fact that this is your perspective is terrifying.
By that logic the only thing keeping you from doing harm to others in the name of your own self-interest is the mandate of a magical sky daddy who'll punish you if you do bad.
It's perfectly reasonable to not believe in a God, and to desire to help and uplift and minimize the suffering of those around you even if your existence is entirely happenstance.
Don't try to brow beat, scare, or bully people into your faith man, it's not gonna get you anywhere.
@@FUNWITHTHEFIRE1 No scare tactics or attempted convictions here, mate. I haven't even told you I believe in a "God". I'm only pointing out that if you think about it, "morality" means nothing in the grand scheme of things if there isn't an immovable, unwavering framework by which to measure it by. Nietzsche is one of my favourite ever characters FYI. However perfectly reasonable as you describe that feeling of morality, reason has no place in a chaotic universe such as ours
@@diretnandomnan6060 you should check out doomer politics interview with Adam friended.
Preach: "Google it, that's not my bar..."
Every writer when they write a great chapter in first draft, before editing: "Okay, time to run this through Hemingway to make sure I didn't inadvertently plagiarize anything..."
I get it, Preach lol
Lmao so true!
Yup!
bless you guys. You’re like a compass, giving people direction. I’m in a sphere of some influence irl, and am repeating your words to an audience. These ideas are multiplying.
@Hollyhock Manheim-Mannheim-Guerrero-Robinson Bruh...
@Hollyhock Manheim-Mannheim-Guerrero-Robinson they showing you the lesson to learn from hypocritical charlatans who sold you other peoples skills as their own . And did a very terrible job cause none of those people following them are 6 figure earners with women hanging off of them. But hey keep draining your pockets in the Hope's that these men who are using you will give you real advice you can use.
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@Hollyhock Manheim-Mannheim-Guerrero-Robinson This is discussing some issues, problem, and ideas for provoking critical thinking. If you stay silent and being bystander seeing some people scamming naive people, you are as worse as the scammer.
" Use Cheddar as bait and you'll recruit a rat" - Damian Marley. Song is called Beautiful ft Bobby Brown. That's the first time I heard that line.
Did a hard Google search and Preach, it looks like that bar is yours. Well done buddy, that line is a banger 🔥🔥🔥
Simon Elliott and Alex L found this quote:
"All this blinging it's like you forgot,
use cheddar as the bait den you recruit a rat"
Damion Marley - Beautiful (2005)
@@c2h0a0o7s ahh good find!
"They say money talks but don't tell you that wealth doesn't speak at all. " - Royce da 5'9
"If you try to attract women with cheese you can end up with rats." This is my new favorite line and I'm going to be using it forever thank you!
Never be attracted to a person based on money. Money comes and goes. Character is here to stay!
You understand what 95% of women nowadays don’t 🙏🏽
Yeah, but so do women that are attracted to money. They come when it's there, they goes when they've spent it all and they generally aren't worried about character because it doesn't buy labels.
I wish more people, had your mindset. 👏🏼
@@sawedoffshottyshane9637 95% sounds a bit high
@@angelmartin7310 Unfortunately, it isn't. It's about right.
I love how throughout the conversation Fresh n Fit were quiet, taking it all in. Aba out here helping the lost.
😂😂😂😂😂
Bruh I love y’all’s interactions with each other. You really need a good head on your shoulders to have a relationship like this. I’m looking hard for my boy like this, everyone to strung up on dumb shit nowadays. 🤷🏽♂️
Man even if you guys ain’t conventional friends the exchange about the cheese bar shows just how much you guys you value one another for what you bring to the table. Damn heartwarming contrast to the rest of the world.
Can you do a video on "feeling lost." It really struck me how you both pointed out a point where there was a shift for you, I think it would greatly assist your audience to talk about that and "maturing" in general, or at least what that looked like for you in your lives.
I fully support this because I’m there now I’m 28 an don’t know what I’m doing or what to do
I had a conversation with a young man in his early 20's, I try to motivate him and encourage him to get into school, he's a smart kid and I dont want him to go through his life like how I did mine, he seems to lack a lot of direction with his life and I understand completely, I was the same way well into my early 30's as well, now my life has much more purpose and direction. If y'all could only see how much I've improved my life you'd be proud of me, lol. Life is good and the sky is the limit.
Y'all are definitely dudes I can sit down and sip a beer wit .. makes a g feel like he's a part of the convo
"How you attract people is often times going to lead to the outcomes that you receive."
Very nicely put!
Man….. y’all really Tightened UP these last few months hard hitting topic, new background, controversy, and great outro music
For those who are wondering, they said a multiple of times that they had pre-recordings of F&F. They said this on the *No Jumper Podcast,* and on one of those "beef videos," they mentioned they had more videos on them. I don't see why they shouldn't put out a video that they already recorded, edited, worked on, etc just because it had F&F on it. They didn't tagged F&F liked they did with other videos, nor did they mentioned them once throughout the whole video. They did it the classy way. This was an amazing topic that a lot of people needed to hear, and I'm glad they shared it. Stopped trying to start something that's not there. Just keep it pushing.
This!!!
Right???
I don't know why people are being intentionally obtuse
@@Cpt_MacTavish haters will always find a way lol!
This is how they should’ve done it from the jump instead of insulting them for 4 minutes in their original video
Yeah, before I saw the timestamps on the comments I thought this was an old video.
Hey Aba n Preach. The part towards the end where you mentioned being lost and finding yourselves at 25 - 30, it really hit home for me. I'm 25 currently and I feel like I've lost who I am and *I wonder will I get out of this phase.*
It would be great to hear about your journey's through your 20s and the fuck ups and lessons you learned.
Thanks for all the great content and mainly for being genuine...cheers!
Based on your post and what I know about both pairs of RUclipsrs you probably relate closest to fresh aka Walter. My advice to you don't limit your scope of learning and acquiring knowledge even if that source of knowledge is not seen as cool or trendy.
Im 27 still trynna find the path. Im very close because im seeing the finances i never had in my earlier years. Things are in the direction theyre suppose to go and i see it everyday. Bud, your time is coming. Life alters to you and who you are. Youre not even at your full potential but oh boy the direction its going youll feel it intensely
@@movielord911 seeing these guys go through the same things we're going through, makes it feel a little less daunting I guess. I hope they make a video talking about their journey to finding themselves
I love how fnf couldn’t relate AT ALL, yet they was sitting there like “mmhmm, yup” like 😭
It went way above their heads lol
Or maybe it made them think, they often say similar things as well, don’t lead with money. You have to stop saying baseless things for likes.. you’re not funny
@@josephbth5562 they say it. They don’t practice it.
@@RagnarLoudpak what did they do?
@@RagnarLoudpak How do they not when they don’t pay for play yet aba here is advocating paying for box? which is fine the opinions can differ but genuinely explain to me cause it seems you don’t really know what your talking about
Excellent message and overall knowledge. This needs to be heard by the masses. God bless and thank you
There’s two levels to confidence. Internal and external. Internal confidence comes from experiencing and growing through situations that test your character
vs.
External confidence which shows as a result of your accomplishments being proud of yourself and feeling accomplished.
You guys are actually brilliant a lion doesn't flinch doesn't look when a dog barks. The brilliance that I see in you two is on another level. I've watched a lot of people on here in a lot of people claim to be alpha or top dogs or whatever you want to call but to prove yourself with previously recorded video brilliant brilliant I applaud you.
I swear these two are my therapists. Great attitude for mental health. Especially for us young men.
Someone needs to put Preach's quote on a hoodie or T-Shirt. I'd buy it
@keep rollin oh stfku with your links, gosh.
great idea ....I hope they do it
Is that right? *Opens Illustrator and my Zazzle store....
Good Lord that song in the outro by “Ghen” just absolutely warms my heart and provides tranquility to the mind that’s unlike any sound I’ve listened to before! Great work Gents🥂 cheers
I google concretize 🤣🤣🤣 and it's actually verb.. Aba vocabulary is on point 👍
I be learning new words from them lol
It's so hard to believe you guys aren't best friends who hang out all the time. I love y'alls chemistry, vibe,knowledge, humor and characters! Keep on being grown black man goals!🥰💪🏾🙏🏽
Actually update, they are kinda
Careful with the F word, it's frowned upon in this channel
@@Slickdown 🤣🤣🤣
They are friends. They just don't want to admit it. Weirdos. 😂😂😂
They’re lovers but will never admit it
I’m so happy I discovered this channel. As a 21 y/o, y’all spoke to my heart fr bros. Having your values stand the test of time and tribulation teaches you. Keep doing what y’all doing. SALUTE
"Use cheddar as the bait and you recruit a rat" - Damian 'Junior Gong' Marley
But Aba....how else are you supposed to get her soul?!!! 😩😩😩 Also Preach you need to own them bars! Shit was 🔥🔥🔥
🤣🤣🤣 bruh chill
Also that bar was crazy
U aint shit
That bar?🌋🌋🌋🌋
You get her soul by not paying
I love how you guys are absolutely fair, genuine and make 100% sense as human beings irrespective of your gender. Love how Preach was humble with the cheese and rats analogy. We need more men like you in the world. And thank you for creating content tirelessly for years, spreading your level-headedness, infecting mind with the right values, giving them guidance on how to build character. Thank you gentlemen 🙏
"Use cheddar as the bait den you recruit a rat" - Damion Marley - Beautiful
Good on you, dude. You found the quote!
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Someone finally found it
If you always present and represent your true self, even if you don't attract anyone, at least you could have fun being yourself.
Me driving away in my Kia Forte with anime stickers in the windows.
Asmongold?!
@@lebmc2148 no.
“How do you wanna guide yourself when you don’t even know the direction you are trying to get to?”
That part hit me mann
If a man tries to attract me with money or material things, I know he can never truly love me.
Bingo. That's why I always avoided that type. So creepy
@starving artist I know! I admit I have few female friends but the ones I have are beautiful and NOT going for wealthy dudes if anything they have dated down or equal. My husband was making 30k a year when we got together, he makes 65k now and we have going on 5 children. Love of my life.
No, you should love yourself, this is not about love, respect is the thing that you should be looking for it.
@@reduneyconceicao3420 So I want respect but not love? This makes no sense to me. I can love myself and expect my partner to love me, too.
@@riotsquirrelz NOT love because everyone have own definition of love,
you cant build your life based on emotios.
I for one appreciate that you are showing the good kinds of conversations on F&F and also expanding on what you had previously talked about on their show. I hope this is another positive step in bringing this destructive conflict to an amicable end.
Only 1.4 Million? This channel needs to hit 10M, this sort of wisdom honestly helped my life and I can definitely as someone who grew up with no positive role models that you guys changed my life. Kudos.
Nah Preach claim yo bar😂
Regarding the bar
Damian Marley - "Beautiful"
The line goes "Use cheddar as the bait then you recruit a rat."
Close enough
Hes a reggae fan too
As a 23 year old I highly respect your advice on knowing yourself and values first to be comfortable enough around the opposite sex. It really made me understand the things I need to work on for myself. So Thank you 👏🏾
Love how Preach always says he has nothing to add then proceeds to add some shit we really needed to hear 😭
"If you try to attract women with cheese, you gonna end up with rats." Take my upvote. You earned it
Honestly I've seen gold digging women end up with abusers too. If their priority is just money and materials, it isn't about substance.
A Sage once told me,
""If you try to attract women with cheese, you're gonna end up with rats."" - Preach
@AbaAndPreach You guys should make this public. This is a great video with great advice many people need to hear. You guys are consistent with your integrity to have people who need it receive the message.
It'll be public soon, don't worry
As a Marine I’ve live by creating challenges and leading from the front. Currently living Japan and managing a large business, while sleeping well at night.
I literally cried from 10:00, I am going through a rough time moving into a new season in my life and this encouragement and motivation really helped me. I love you guys guys so much and what you present for us young men. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart.
P. S Preach....SHUT UP AND CLAIM THAT BAR, YOU HUMBLE BEAST...WE GOOGLED, IT'S YOURS !!!😂
Preach had all the bars this video. The food thing made me laugh. My family always thinks I'm trying to escape a meal with how fast I eat. Some of those military habits just stick.
Army and my father (Korea Vet) surrounded by strong, very thoughtful and hard working men did me a world of good. Make no excuses, understand why and move forward.
" Use cheddar as the bait den you recruit a rat "
Damion Marley ft Bobby Brown - Beautiful
Preach said it better tho
"Use cheddar as the bait den you recruit a rat" - Damian Marley
"If you attract women with cheese, you'll end up with rats."
-Sun Tzu
I never said that shit
- sun tzu
"The Art of War"
@@aloowalia2849 I read that in Preach
Popular Opinion: Every single one of y'all agrees both of em' made our night much composed:
No cap
The best RUclipsrs in the game ⚔️
i dont know what composed means, but ill agree so that ill seem smart
@@tony_fanta yeah, what did that person mean by that
Correction, they made my morning more composed lol.
The character speak toward the end was so well put. And the genuine laughs from you two while explaining it is so refreshing. Loving the videos still. lol
Preach staring into the camera is such an enormous transference of energy, it gives me damn _chills_ lol
It's funny how the Myron guy is agreeing with Aba yet he is the type of guy that Aba is talking about lol
i'd argue myron doesn't lead with money, he leads with status but he doesn't drive a cool car or wear new clothes. the man wears fresh and fit merch to the club lmao. but fresh definitely does - rolex, mcclaren etc etc
@@notthatsrssrsly he does actually. he tries to get women by telling them he has a podcast and they have to fuck him to come on lol
He doesn’t lead with his values or morals at all .
Fresh 100% leads with his wallet
@@jasminexxx3911 To be fair the environment he's in doesn't find significance in values and morals. Anyone in that area (or any place) is better off understanding what the market wants/finds significance in whilst being aware of the risks at hand. He wants a quick lay and knows what it takes in that scene to make it happen efficiently. Can you blame him?
@@reichvybz2893 no he chose that environment . He has a podcast . A podcast . And chooses to act the way he does with no morals or character value . Maybe if he was male stripper you could use that argument , but there’s no rule that just because you have a podcast all morals go out the window lol and he wants a quick lay but doesn’t wanna pay for it he wants to take advantage of women just so they can be in his podcast . And clearly his tactics aren’t “efficient” because he’s being outed and now everyone knows his dirt and dirty games and it’s affecting him negatively . If he was smart he would have just payed a woman for sex since that’s all he clearly wants , and he could have avoided that drama , but he won’t tell you guys that out of fear of being labeled a “simp”. I’m sure if he actually treated women right or took care of them properly monetarily to not air out his dirty tactics , the “high value man” wouldn’t be going through this mess lol karma comes when you objectify and try to take advantage of women
“Where there is cheese/there are rats
Wherever there are rats/there are cats
Wherever there are cats/ there are dogs
If you got the dogs you’ve got bitches/
Bitches always out to put their paws on your riches
If you got riches/you got glitches….” - 3 Stacks
…(verse continues on)
- Millionaire by Kelis ft. Andre 3000
- Album: Tasty
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Thank you guys for everything you do. This is a big topic for me personally. I always feel lost. (I’m 22) even when I know I’m going in a direction and doing what I have to do. I’m always questioning if my choices were the right way to go and how to improve. Hopefully when I get my own house in the next year or two and I’ve saved more I’ll feel more gathered. But, even still like you guys said. I definitely wanna hit up that Merch sometime to have you guys with me when I hustle. I appreciate you guys a lot. Need a group of chill dudes like y’all.
Attract people with Beyblades and Pokémon, you'll have life long relationships.
Yeah because they can't affordable to tell them how they actually think and feel m
What about yu gi oh cards?
Man I wish I could attract a woman with pokemon cards. Not a huge fan of beyblades but I did love the shogun steel opening.
As a woman, I wish someone tried to impress me with their pokemon knowledge!
Beyblades damn, those were the days, went hundy on buying those as a poor kid