If you are black you need to heal because 9 times out of 10 we were raised by parents who are not healed and they were raised by parents who were oppressed.
I love you mentioned RC Blakes you and him are my only TWO ONLINE MENTORS❤ The rest is counsel from the ONE AND ONLY LORD AND MY SAVIOR “Point blank Periotttt” in my TG voice lol stay Blessed to all of us seeking the righteous knowledge and grateful for the discernment To God Be the Glory!!
Thanks for saying this. A lot of times black culture does not like to hold parents accountable for not preparing their daughters for the world. Then when things go bad everybody act surprised. At least three women a day are dying from domestic violence in America. So at least 1,000 per year. If women were being taught, I’m sure most would want to save their lives and move around. Also, black women idolizing black men are a reason that some end up unalived. The point is do not idolize ANYbody.
This killer is actually a son of a millionaire… she probably thought there was some hope for an easier life . RIP to her sad 😔 this was completely demonic!
I get that Tony is saying we should stop idolizing other races and I agree. But to say no white man would ever genuinely want to date a black woman because we are seen as manly is extremely offensive and aligns with the constantly degrading that black men online do to black women.
That’s hasn’t been my experience. ppl seems to scare bw away from dating interracially but then justify bm dating out by telling stories about a bw they dated.
He’s said that before and I’m very confused as to why no one called it out. It’s a very harmful narrative and also very colorist. I don’t think that’s his intention but the rhetoric that black women are masculine cause many problems for us such as medical malpractice, femicide, etc.
It's so much truth in everything you said Tony.. Ppl need to leave la la land and come back down to earth. Perfect ppl don't exist anywhere on earth.. we're all a work in progress.
It’s watermelon season, Shemiqua….😂😆🤣! Tony, you are Phuuuuneeee! I should be sleep and I’m over here laughing hard belly laughs. Dropping jewels 💎 and jokes all at the same time. 🔥🔥🔥
What people have to understand is that, we are FALLEN creatures. Until the Lord comes into our lives, we are UNDONE. I don’t care what color you are, you have to LEARN how to get along with a mate. When you try to get with a person that is NOT your race, ethnicity, color, WHATEVER, that takes things to ANOTHER level. We can’t even get past the male and female relationship situation. Life is HARD. You’re not going to be in ANY relationship without WORK, WORK AND MORE WORK. It is NOT EASY. You can be nice and sweet and the Best “person” in the world. That does not matter. You are going to go through, before you get through, to your BREAKTHROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU………..Be safe out there.
Indeed. EVERY RELATIONSHIP has problems. As a Black woman that has dated almost every race of man--it's all the same. The first love of my life was my high school sweetheart. He was a Black man. Ups and downs--but the love never died--we just grew into a deep friendship until his death 2 years ago. Most of the men that ask me out since then have been white--I've had several white boyfriends from Americans to Russians (during my LA clubbing days). My last boyfriend was Hispanic. Most men that I attract are not Black---they are all professional men that have their careers and finances together--but they are most often white. I'm not sure what's up with that--but I am open to date all men. (Could be my location--6% Black)🤷🏽♀️
My heart breaks for Sade. Truth and grace is needed in this situation. It’s wild to idolize any human and to do so bc of race or perceived money/status. Vet EVERYONE and stop being afraid of being ALONE!! I disagree with what that one white friend said about white men who date black women, it’s one opinion, not gospel for all white men. Also I’ve heard Candace’s husband speak and have seen how they interact with each other. He is not a pushover and she actually turns to mush around him lol, even when she just talks about him.
I am very glad that you discussed this topic. I actually went with a black guy who was the lightest out of all of his siblings. Even more he use to date white women and he had saved their photos in his album. And, right before I cut him off and the dating ended, he had compared me with his longest relationship with a white women. He told me that she left him and married a white businessman who owns a wine company. The mother of his child is also fair-skinned Portuguese, but he has black friends who are professional but who seem to be for the streets. The black friends who he had exposed me to were without mannerisms and had a passive love for drama. Although he likes to gravitate and socialize around another fair-skinned ethnicity or white individuals when possible apart from these kinds of folks. His mother is a brown-skinned Portuguese woman, however his father is a light-skinned black American mixed with Irish. It may be that self-hate or the same character happens to attract the same kind of people. There is certainly a handful of insecure black men who reveal themselves at the right time.
I forgot to mention that all of the brothers with a woman are widowed and immediately married again to a white woman too. This particular brother just retired as a fireman, so I know based on the social media photos, that she must've married him for the money right before. There is little to no intimacy in there based on the photos-including multiple ones where they are taken separated by other family members. Except for his dark-skinned brother who doesn't look like he has any mixture in him at all and seems to remain single and distant.
A lot of people use Material Things and other unnecessary items to be Accepted by the people who need to be more worried about going Heaven. I don't have anything to prove to Earthly Humans like me.
@@LP--- They don't really have money, but they are constantly learning and making ends meet-simply by being adjusting to certain people especially to their white supervisors and friends. I believe that the only person who may have money is his brother who is a retired fireman. This said person actually is comfortable in his sin, and he confirmed it to me from the beginning.
I recently decided to try and date even though I swore I was done with black men. So, this time I dated outside of my race with a Dominican, who by the way is also partially handicapped. He was moving way to fast to soon and I had to let him know that I was uncomfortable. He blew up at me, told me that I hurt him. Sir, we went on one date and nothing sexual happened. I say that to say that men are crazy. Now I’m back to staying single again.
Maybe unintentionally but nothing about this video would help a black woman's self esteem. It comes off as nobody wants a black woman. I don't idolize other races but I don't see how a white man couldn't genuinely want a black woman. I honestly don't know the story the video is about and I follow Tony hard but this was one of the few videos where I was like I hope my brother doesn't think like this 😔. Black women can't catch a break sometimes 🤦🏽♀️.
Sadly, what he said it the truth, we as group are at to bottom and most men from other groups don't want bw. Many men from other groups talk bad about bw in private, but they are either last on their dating list on not on their list at all. I've heard wm encouraging each other to get an Asian woman, but they never talk that way about bw. The truth hurts, but it's still the truth.
Loooooooooool when TG held up his palm and looked into the camera and said “studies disapprove that that ain’t got no correlation” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 He said don’t play with me now!
My aunt was married to a white man,for years. Had 3 beautiful kids. She Divorced him, because his became violent with her. She remarried a black man and has been a lot happier. They live in a small town in NC; it's more common to see interracial couples there.
😭😭😭fried chicken 😂🤣😂😭😭🤣🤣😂🤣😭😭. Stop- The white person impersonation with the names 😂🤣😂😭😭😭😂🤣😭😭. 😂🤣😂🤣🤣😭😭😭. Uncle Tony has no right being this Hilarious 😭😭😭
Love isn't logical. You fall in love with who you fall in love with due to circumstance, location, timing etc. I believe the best & most lasting bonds are built on a foundation of great friendship & a degree of attraction. Whether that attraction comes in physical or spiritual/personality wise. You can't really make sense of love, but love will make sense outta the two of you. I'm sorry Mr. Gaskins, but I'm a hopeless romantic that believes if we only had the capability to see the world in black & white.. We'd fall in love with who God deemed for us. We don't get to choose where we're born, how much money we're born into, what race, color, shape etc. but we're all born with an innate sense to find love & be loved & I believe that's what makes love so everlasting. It discriminates no one, yet affects everyone. It's an intermingling of faith, love & hope & that makes it just as simple as it is complicated.
It appears that the point is to remain single. Is better to be called the N word or the B word? Unfortunately, data reveals BW are more likely to be deleted by BM. This relationship conversation is very complex.
This 100% true. Just visited Barbados & one taxi cab driver told me & my friends “black Americans are aggressive & rude.” We hadn’t been in his car more than 5 mins & after him realizing we were American he projected on to us.
Doc! This video is so on point. Stressing relationships between wht and blk, between wht women and athletes, putting whts on a pedalstile...we still have a lot of work to do...mentally. Thank you for addressing these issues.
When i look at how God has had his hand over my life and given my unconditional grace it brings me to tears. I put myself in so many dangerous situations as a younger woman and i am just grateful for the mercy of God bc i could have been this young woman (not by a white man though, they’ve always scared me lol)
I didn’t have to go to a certain school to learn proper English. I went to a thriving all black private school K-8. My grandma was an English teacher and we were a diversified family
@30:00 but black women go thru the same thing. I saw black girls who were quirky or different get picked on as well. Especially, in the black community I was called Oreo because of how I talk.
THIS 💯 same with me and my sister too. People have pre-conceived notions about how they think black women are supposed to be, even to the degree of associating intelligence, competence, and nerdiness solely with "whiteness", and then you get the "you weren't what I was expecting" and the "you're smarter than you look" comments.
I have received more rejection from the blk community than any other race. Both blk people and non-blk people alike seemed to be surprised that I don't fit the stereotype. The difference is when I'm around blk people that when they find out they ridicule me and don't want to be around. The non-blk people accept the fact that I don't fit the narrative and treat me the same as their people.
The takeaway from this video is to not put any man on pedestal! And do not think another race/ ethnicity/nationality is better than the other. As soon as you do they will give you their AY, ES, ES… to kiss! Facts 🫡
Is it about race or simply just being aware of the nature of man; mankind, humanity? Tony has given countless talks on the fact that as women we need to vet and discern men better. We are not wired the same at all. Harming women, kids, nature, animals = men can do it with bare consciousness.
When I dated a Nigerian man, he used to tell me his friend who is married to white woman would call him the n word and that he can go back to his country in front of his black friends. Let that sink in. We are in Canada happens here all day long
I straight like you Tony for your transparency and honest it's helping me. And you speaking from experience and from a being and man .people always going to try to find fault in your knowledge and opinions.
It's probably not the first time he's done this. I wouldn't be surprised if they searched his property. They may find body parts of other woman. Or personal belongings of other woman. I hope her family gets justice. He's just evil. 😢🙏🙏
Tony I don’t have a father or any male in my life who will tell me these things. Thank you so much, I appreciate your videos so much. I have a baby with my ex and am struggling with abuse from him and mistreatment from his family, although we’re the same race we are different nationalities and he makes sure to remind me of that and put me down for it.
People say that he looked crazy well he probably looked crazy because he just killed this girl and he was trying to cover it up then he got caught so of course he looks crazy. Anybody will look crazy after all of that. He probably looked somewhat decent when she met him. But I don’t doubt his conversation might have been a little dark or off. She was just so young to pick up on it. Then it’s unfortunate that me as a black woman I experience more racism from black men than I do from anybody else so now what!!??
As someone that Was in a long relantionship/engagement to a white guy let me tell you Tony is speaking facts. He was also my first and only partner. A man is a man 🙃
You cannot believe nothing you see I had a coworker and we were in high school and her mom was dating a white man and he would beat her so bad and she recorded it and they will have to call the police and it was just terrible. I’m glad you’re speaking on this because I was going through some hard stuff with some guys I liked, but I don’t want to give up on them. I love them so much.
Don’t like anyone more than they like you. You are the prize. You’re still young but you will see. No matter the color your standards must remain the same across the board and do not give them up for anyone. Not even the prince of zamunda!
I can attest one of my clients is an Asian family. The wife spends without a question. And her Asian husband always says to me whatever my boss (his wife) says I have no say 😂😂
Hmm… as someone that listens to your videos and mostly agrees or gains knowledge from them I have to say I don’t agree with this one. Love is love and to say that all white guys will say racial words to their girlfriend or wife. That’s also discounting all of the healthy interracial relationships that are out there. At the end of the day it goes down to that person’s values and their relationship with God. To say that all white guys won’t want to date black women because of one white guy you spoke to? Yea this video isn’t it at all. Put your faith in God and let Him lead the relationship. This video was distasteful and ignorant in my opinion.
We have similar and / or worse crimes against women in SOuth Africa. Literally being butchered by men, mostly men they are in romantic relationships with. And our criminal system is not fair. Perpetrators walking free, outta jail on parole in no time.
Thank you Mr Tony Gaskin for this video, you’re keeping it real and straight to the point, some times it’s hard to hear the truth! And I realise Nothing much has changed since the Plantation!!
I agree 💯. A man is a man, no matter the race. My aunt (Black African) married a WM. He was the most disrespectful man i have heard speak to a partner. I am not an aggressive person but this man used to make me mad. But she thought she had a prize. And I worked with WM, all married to WM. Let’s just say that some of the things heard from these women opened my eyes. I felt so bad for them. But they would rather stay married than be totally independent.
See I love Tony , he always gonna keep it real in the nicest way possible , true gift especially in the times we live in where everyone is aleady sensitive. Your giving, the neighbor that chastise your neighbors kids back in the day when it was okay
You are the best life coach going. You keep it 💯 in addition to being extremely hilarious. I am literally laughing so hard right now but at the same time being educated with my 63 year old self😁. Proud of your success as a Black male. Keep pushing!!!
I'm glad you said this about relationships because it is true. It is not easy. I thought it would be when you find the one, but no it's even harder honestly.
Caucasian men are different. Ive never dated one, but I remember when I was younger a whyte male co-worker said he would bury me in the woods. I think we had a very minute disagreement. 20 years later and I still remember that moment. I always have that in that in the back of my mind when I think about whyte men.
You are extraordinary I been listening to you for years and this by far is one of your best videos. You covered everything in 1hr a breath of fresh air.
Poor Abraham. She took advantage of him and she took everything. You’re absolutely right. He didn’t know her at all but she was able to swindle him out of his money.
Bro Tony thanks alot for your wisdom this was so enlightening to not penalize another race and as well with a little twist of humor and rhyming . You're the best Bro Tony 🙏🏾💯❤️🎯
Nooo, Tony! Not old dude using the key to lock his door. I hollered!! 😂 Keep making me laugh while giving us the real nuggets of wisdom! Bahaa! 😂💯🤦🏽♀️
Ladies make sure that you date a man that treats you right. This video alone could make you miss out on your blessing! Have discernment and seek God with who you date. Don’t listen to what everyone tells you because their advice alone could make you miss out on someone special. Saying that all white men would treat you wrong or that you’re not valuable to them is like saying you dated one black man and he treated you wrong so you’re not going to date another black man again. Black and white thinking isn’t helpful. Also as much as the world tries to push on to us that we’re not valued remember that our worth comes from Christ and don’t even entertain anything else!
You missed the point of the video. That's not what he was saying at all. He's not implying that all white men will do you wrong, just like all black men won't do you right. He's saying that don't go to white men thinking that you'll be treated better because of some delusional grandeur you have made up in your head. The title of the video speaks for itself. A poor man of character is a poor man of character regardless of race, ethnicity, or nationality. Having a man just treat you right is not enough, either. You're right on the discernment part though.
@@nataliet.3023The way he spoke in this video was not mainly stating that point. In my opinion this video was still distasteful and ignorant and that’s how I view it. Yes any man could treat you wrong. Still that’s not how he was saying it. Still an ignorant video and disheartening to watch. Saying that white men don’t view BW as feminine and how they don’t have a true interest in BW is ignorant. That’s how I view it and colorist as well… he said and I quote from speaking to one white male, “No real white man wants a black woman.” You don’t see anything wrong with that statement and putting that out there like that? People need to have discernment and logic on what they’re feeding and listening to.
... I wonder if he bought the new Meta game device.. would they tell us what else they found in his house thru his computer..... did he have advanced games technology at home? besides this dungeon? .. l would like to see if cops will reveal what type of online activity this man was into...
I remember dating a white girl in college And she called me boy Her father drove a pick up truck I remember sitting on her porch because i couldnt go in her house This was in 2004 lol I had a monte carlo thought i was the stuff I had flashbacks😂😂😂 Missisipi burning
Wow. They won’t outright say she can’t date a black guy (because that’s not politically correct), so the parents make him feel so uncomfortable that he gracefully bows out.
Unfortunately a lot of parents in "our" community harbor resentment or jealousy of their own children, because of self-hate in my opinion. This is also why generational wealth is so rare for us. I've heard parents say they're not giving a dime to help their kids, and the kids will have to "struggle" like they did. And wonder why they get abandoned in nursing homes later on...
Thank you Tony .you give alot of great advice and are doing great things for the Culture/ people , I'm in a second generation multi culture family the white people have been poor government cheese Food stamps, lockup ,not graduating, addiction divorces, dysfunctional. Single moms..low income housing. Ect.. alot of black folks don't know .Rich white people don't like poor white people . All whites are not the same,,my second black wife ,we have the same problems anyone else has, my white fam never owed slaves. My black wives have 2 parent families. Poor white men aren't simps . Plenty of successful black people. quickly coming to a place were color doesn't matter. Not there entirely but getting closer. The famous MLK( Content of character) .1% of a person skin color . Don't make the human. I know your talking generally. Thank you for all you do.
We do Toni Gaskins your right! We do black women will hurt a guy feelings but we just be playing or being to real🤦🏾♀️😏my guy told me one time I was aggressive. I had never had a guy to tell me that in my entire life. I am from Louisiana he is from Indiana. 🤷🏾♀️
If you are black you need to heal because 9 times out of 10 we were raised by parents who are not healed and they were raised by parents who were oppressed.
This!!!!
I love you mentioned RC Blakes you and him are my only TWO ONLINE MENTORS❤ The rest is counsel from the ONE AND ONLY LORD AND MY SAVIOR “Point blank Periotttt” in my TG voice lol stay Blessed to all of us seeking the righteous knowledge and grateful for the discernment To God Be the Glory!!
Period! I do not believe in none of these dating channels. I only listen to Tony and RC Blakes.
I love RC and Tony.
Me too
Me too ❤
Same!🙏🏽💖
Thanks for saying this. A lot of times black culture does not like to hold parents accountable for not preparing their daughters for the world. Then when things go bad everybody act surprised. At least three women a day are dying from domestic violence in America. So at least 1,000 per year. If women were being taught, I’m sure most would want to save their lives and move around. Also, black women idolizing black men are a reason that some end up unalived. The point is do not idolize ANYbody.
Come on sis.
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This killer is actually a son of a millionaire… she probably thought there was some hope for an easier life . RIP to her sad 😔 this was completely demonic!
Who are the individuals in this case?
@@JWW77 the victim was Sade Robinson and the killer Maxwell Anderson. He literally is a Jeff Dahmer reincarnated smh!
Period
Whos his son?
I mean dsd
Wow Tony you are 100% right on this, so much self hate in the black race and idolization of other races.
I get that Tony is saying we should stop idolizing other races and I agree. But to say no white man would ever genuinely want to date a black woman because we are seen as manly is extremely offensive and aligns with the constantly degrading that black men online do to black women.
THIS PART 🗣️🗣️
That’s hasn’t been my experience. ppl seems to scare bw away from dating interracially but then justify bm dating out by telling stories about a bw they dated.
Yea making it seem to where black women are viewed as invaluable by all black women isn’t it. Couldn’t finish the video because it was distasteful.
He’s said that before and I’m very confused as to why no one called it out. It’s a very harmful narrative and also very colorist. I don’t think that’s his intention but the rhetoric that black women are masculine cause many problems for us such as medical malpractice, femicide, etc.
To be honest he’s made colorist comments before but I’d try to just listen to what the overall video said.
It's so much truth in everything you said Tony.. Ppl need to leave la la land and come back down to earth.
Perfect ppl don't exist anywhere on earth.. we're all a work in progress.
It’s watermelon season, Shemiqua….😂😆🤣!
Tony, you are Phuuuuneeee! I should be sleep and I’m over here laughing hard belly laughs. Dropping jewels 💎 and jokes all at the same time. 🔥🔥🔥
What people have to understand is that, we are FALLEN creatures. Until the Lord comes into our lives, we are UNDONE. I don’t care
what color you are, you have to LEARN how to get along with a mate. When you try to get with a person that is NOT your race, ethnicity, color, WHATEVER, that takes things to ANOTHER level. We can’t even get past the male and female relationship situation. Life is HARD. You’re not going to be in ANY relationship without WORK, WORK AND MORE WORK. It is NOT EASY. You can be nice and sweet and the Best “person” in the world. That does not matter. You are going to go through, before you get through, to your BREAKTHROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU………..Be safe out there.
Say it! @patwilson 1257
Indeed. EVERY RELATIONSHIP has problems.
As a Black woman that has dated almost every race of man--it's all the same.
The first love of my life was my high school sweetheart. He was a Black man. Ups and downs--but the love never died--we just grew into a deep friendship until his death 2 years ago.
Most of the men that ask me out since then have been white--I've had several white boyfriends from Americans to Russians (during my LA clubbing days). My last boyfriend was Hispanic. Most men that I attract are not Black---they are all professional men that have their careers and finances together--but they are most often white. I'm not sure what's up with that--but I am open to date all men. (Could be my location--6% Black)🤷🏽♀️
These are the kind of conversations that you can’t have with everyone. This was so good!
“It’s watermelon season” 😂😂😂😂😂
I haven’t got to that point in the video yet, but I read this in his voice and BOL 😂😂😂 Tony is funny
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My heart breaks for Sade. Truth and grace is needed in this situation. It’s wild to idolize any human and to do so bc of race or perceived money/status. Vet EVERYONE and stop being afraid of being ALONE!! I disagree with what that one white friend said about white men who date black women, it’s one opinion, not gospel for all white men. Also I’ve heard Candace’s husband speak and have seen how they interact with each other. He is not a pushover and she actually turns to mush around him lol, even when she just talks about him.
I am very glad that you discussed this topic. I actually went with a black guy who was the lightest out of all of his siblings. Even more he use to date white women and he had saved their photos in his album. And, right before I cut him off and the dating ended, he had compared me with his longest relationship with a white women. He told me that she left him and married a white businessman who owns a wine company. The mother of his child is also fair-skinned Portuguese, but he has black friends who are professional but who seem to be for the streets. The black friends who he had exposed me to were without mannerisms and had a passive love for drama. Although he likes to gravitate and socialize around another fair-skinned ethnicity or white individuals when possible apart from these kinds of folks. His mother is a brown-skinned Portuguese woman, however his father is a light-skinned black American mixed with Irish. It may be that self-hate or the same character happens to attract the same kind of people. There is certainly a handful of insecure black men who reveal themselves at the right time.
I forgot to mention that all of the brothers with a woman are widowed and immediately married again to a white woman too. This particular brother just retired as a fireman, so I know based on the social media photos, that she must've married him for the money right before. There is little to no intimacy in there based on the photos-including multiple ones where they are taken separated by other family members. Except for his dark-skinned brother who doesn't look like he has any mixture in him at all and seems to remain single and distant.
The LOVE of Money makes some people Sell Out...
A lot of people use Material Things and other unnecessary items to be Accepted by the people who need to be more worried about going Heaven.
I don't have anything to prove to Earthly Humans like me.
Gotta See it,
To Want to Be It ..
@@LP--- They don't really have money, but they are constantly learning and making ends meet-simply by being adjusting to certain people especially to their white supervisors and friends. I believe that the only person who may have money is his brother who is a retired fireman. This said person actually is comfortable in his sin, and he confirmed it to me from the beginning.
I recently decided to try and date even though I swore I was done with black men. So, this time I dated outside of my race with a Dominican, who by the way is also partially handicapped. He was moving way to fast to soon and I had to let him know that I was uncomfortable. He blew up at me, told me that I hurt him. Sir, we went on one date and nothing sexual happened. I say that to say that men are crazy. Now I’m back to staying single again.
WELL CHILE YOU TRIED ,IM SINGLE IN MY LATE 50'S AND I HAVE NO INTENTION ON MARRYING EVER 🤷🏾🤗
Are you white?? Dominican is not a race...
This will not be a popular statement. Biblically, we're not supposed to date or marry outside of our own race.
@@Yna-u3g That's what I was thinking. That's a race???
@@claraht.6999 that's not true. It says you shouldn't date outside of the faith (those who don't serve God/Yahweh.
I loved every minute of this.
Maybe unintentionally but nothing about this video would help a black woman's self esteem. It comes off as nobody wants a black woman. I don't idolize other races but I don't see how a white man couldn't genuinely want a black woman. I honestly don't know the story the video is about and I follow Tony hard but this was one of the few videos where I was like I hope my brother doesn't think like this 😔. Black women can't catch a break sometimes 🤦🏽♀️.
I agree 100% with you. TG gives great advice most of the time, but this video didn’t do it for me.. 😓
He is simply saying do not put any man on a pedestal! Not a black, not a white, not a nothing. When you do, they will show you why you shouldn’t.
Sadly, what he said it the truth, we as group are at to bottom and most men from other groups don't want bw. Many men from other groups talk bad about bw in private, but they are either last on their dating list on not on their list at all. I've heard wm encouraging each other to get an Asian woman, but they never talk that way about bw. The truth hurts, but it's still the truth.
@@bubblybubbles4023 Are you privy to those conversations or just going by what you see online?
@lexi6797 I've heard them, I know you want to keep hope alive, but I've heard these conversations.
Tony's perspective of racism norms and needs is spot on. It is the MAJORITY perception.
Loooooooooool when TG held up his palm and looked into the camera and said “studies disapprove that that ain’t got no correlation” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 He said don’t play with me now!
I CANNOT TAKE IT😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I haven't laughed so much watching a video😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yet you're speaking 100% TRUTH
Same 🤣🤣🤣I rewinded that part 3x I love Tony he is funny all while telling the truth !!!!!
Me too! He is telling the truth! I'm at work and my coworker must hear me giggling and is asking what's so funny and all I say is "nothing" 😂😂😂
My aunt was married to a white man,for years. Had 3 beautiful kids. She Divorced him, because his became violent with her. She remarried a black man and has been a lot happier. They live in a small town in NC; it's more common to see interracial couples there.
I believe it sis I just can’t do it. Idk 🤷♀️ why I’m just not comfortable my kids are Latina and black but I am happily married to a black man
@@lekeshia84thank you for sharing this story of your family and thoughts with me.
😭😭😭fried chicken 😂🤣😂😭😭🤣🤣😂🤣😭😭. Stop-
The white person impersonation with the names 😂🤣😂😭😭😭😂🤣😭😭. 😂🤣😂🤣🤣😭😭😭. Uncle Tony has no right being this Hilarious 😭😭😭
Love isn't logical. You fall in love with who you fall in love with due to circumstance, location, timing etc. I believe the best & most lasting bonds are built on a foundation of great friendship & a degree of attraction. Whether that attraction comes in physical or spiritual/personality wise. You can't really make sense of love, but love will make sense outta the two of you. I'm sorry Mr. Gaskins, but I'm a hopeless romantic that believes if we only had the capability to see the world in black & white.. We'd fall in love with who God deemed for us. We don't get to choose where we're born, how much money we're born into, what race, color, shape etc. but we're all born with an innate sense to find love & be loved & I believe that's what makes love so everlasting. It discriminates no one, yet affects everyone. It's an intermingling of faith, love & hope & that makes it just as simple as it is complicated.
It appears that the point is to remain single. Is better to be called the N word or the B word?
Unfortunately, data reveals BW are more likely to be deleted by BM. This relationship conversation is very complex.
Right. Id prefer to be called neither of them. The hate towards BW from BM is very rampant and that is definitely a complex topic.
Neither be single until God send the man who treat you the way you deserve.
This 100% true. Just visited Barbados & one taxi cab driver told me & my friends “black Americans are aggressive & rude.” We hadn’t been in his car more than 5 mins & after him realizing we were American he projected on to us.
Doc! This video is so on point. Stressing relationships between wht and blk, between wht women and athletes, putting whts on a pedalstile...we still have a lot of work to do...mentally. Thank you for addressing these issues.
One day Tony and RC Blakes gonna do a show together. What a team full of wisdom we are going to learn from.💪
When i look at how God has had his hand over my life and given my unconditional grace it brings me to tears. I put myself in so many dangerous situations as a younger woman and i am just grateful for the mercy of God bc i could have been this young woman (not by a white man though, they’ve always scared me lol)
I didn’t have to go to a certain school to learn proper English. I went to a thriving all black private school K-8. My grandma was an English teacher and we were a diversified family
Me too
@30:00 but black women go thru the same thing. I saw black girls who were quirky or different get picked on as well. Especially, in the black community I was called Oreo because of how I talk.
THIS 💯 same with me and my sister too. People have pre-conceived notions about how they think black women are supposed to be, even to the degree of associating intelligence, competence, and nerdiness solely with "whiteness", and then you get the "you weren't what I was expecting" and the "you're smarter than you look" comments.
@@desireer111 exactly
I have received more rejection from the blk community than any other race. Both blk people and non-blk people alike seemed to be surprised that I don't fit the stereotype. The difference is when I'm around blk people that when they find out they ridicule me and don't want to be around. The non-blk people accept the fact that I don't fit the narrative and treat me the same as their people.
Tony as a young black woman I really needed to hear this.
The takeaway from this video is to not put any man on pedestal! And do not think another race/ ethnicity/nationality is better than the other. As soon as you do they will give you their AY, ES, ES… to kiss! Facts 🫡
OK YESSSS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That man looked crazy!! Idk what would make her go out with him. Smh.
Is it about race or simply just being aware of the nature of man; mankind, humanity? Tony has given countless talks on the fact that as women we need to vet and discern men better. We are not wired the same at all. Harming women, kids, nature, animals = men can do it with bare consciousness.
This conversation is deep👌🏾 some real real truths told right here. Tony so damn funny too 😂
When I dated a Nigerian man, he used to tell me his friend who is married to white woman would call him the n word and that he can go back to his country in front of his black friends. Let that sink in. We are in Canada happens here all day long
wow! That is crazy!
I straight like you Tony for your transparency and honest it's helping me. And you speaking from experience and from a being and man .people always going to try to find fault in your knowledge and opinions.
You told the truth!!
Much needed!🙏🏽🩷
Where IS THE LIE!!! 😒🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
Its a marathon!...Pace YOURSELF!!!
It's probably not the first time he's done this. I wouldn't be surprised if they searched his property. They may find body parts of other woman. Or personal belongings of other woman. I hope her family gets justice. He's just evil. 😢🙏🙏
"I don't care if you glow in the dark"😂😂😂😂😂
Tony I don’t have a father or any male in my life who will tell me these things. Thank you so much, I appreciate your videos so much. I have a baby with my ex and am struggling with abuse from him and mistreatment from his family, although we’re the same race we are different nationalities and he makes sure to remind me of that and put me down for it.
“The study has shown there is no correlation”😂
Brother Tony, thank you so much for continuing to tell the truth how it I S is.
People say that he looked crazy well he probably looked crazy because he just killed this girl and he was trying to cover it up then he got caught so of course he looks crazy. Anybody will look crazy after all of that. He probably looked somewhat decent when she met him. But I don’t doubt his conversation might have been a little dark or off. She was just so young to pick up on it. Then it’s unfortunate that me as a black woman I experience more racism from black men than I do from anybody else so now what!!??
Thank you so much for helping others to understand, discern and evaluate what is around...and your honesty
As someone that Was in a long relantionship/engagement to a white guy let me tell you Tony is speaking facts. He was also my first and only partner. A man is a man 🙃
Stop Tony 🤣🤣shemekkacweeka. Tony Stop!! You are hilarious
You cannot believe nothing you see I had a coworker and we were in high school and her mom was dating a white man and he would beat her so bad and she recorded it and they will have to call the police and it was just terrible. I’m glad you’re speaking on this because I was going through some hard stuff with some guys I liked, but I don’t want to give up on them. I love them so much.
Don’t like anyone more than they like you. You are the prize. You’re still young but you will see. No matter the color your standards must remain the same across the board and do not give them up for anyone. Not even the prince of zamunda!
I can attest one of my clients is an Asian family. The wife spends without a question. And her Asian husband always says to me whatever my boss (his wife) says I have no say 😂😂
Hmm… as someone that listens to your videos and mostly agrees or gains knowledge from them I have to say I don’t agree with this one. Love is love and to say that all white guys will say racial words to their girlfriend or wife. That’s also discounting all of the healthy interracial relationships that are out there. At the end of the day it goes down to that person’s values and their relationship with God. To say that all white guys won’t want to date black women because of one white guy you spoke to? Yea this video isn’t it at all. Put your faith in God and let Him lead the relationship. This video was distasteful and ignorant in my opinion.
😂😂🤣😭😭 stop it TG REALLY I only wanted fried chicken!!! 💟🕊️🙏
We have similar and / or worse crimes against women in SOuth Africa. Literally being butchered by men, mostly men they are in romantic relationships with. And our criminal system is not fair. Perpetrators walking free, outta jail on parole in no time.
Thank you Mr Tony Gaskin for this video, you’re keeping it real and straight to the point, some times it’s hard to hear the truth! And I realise Nothing much has changed since the Plantation!!
I agree 💯. A man is a man, no matter the race. My aunt (Black African) married a WM. He was the most disrespectful man i have heard speak to a partner. I am not an aggressive person but this man used to make me mad. But she thought she had a prize. And I worked with WM, all married to WM. Let’s just say that some of the things heard from these women opened my eyes. I felt so bad for them. But they would rather stay married than be totally independent.
The white ppl impersonation 😂😂😂
“I said Aye, it’s some sushi bein brought down there” 😂😂😂
Tony you should not be this funny
But message received indeed ✅✅
Baby gaskins is senior gaskin 2.0 he said daddy GET TO THE BIDNESS you hear me😂❤❤❤ much love my brother
See I love Tony , he always gonna keep it real in the nicest way possible , true gift especially in the times we live in where everyone is aleady sensitive. Your giving, the neighbor that chastise your neighbors kids back in the day when it was okay
You are the best life coach going. You keep it 💯 in addition to being extremely hilarious. I am literally laughing so hard right now but at the same time being educated with my 63 year old self😁. Proud of your success as a Black male. Keep pushing!!!
Tony is right, the grass isnt greener onbthe other side....
REAL TALK TONY!!!!🙏🏽
It's great that you are addressing this, Tony.
Shaniquamishaaaaa 😅😂😂😂😂😂
Jaden for the biracial child's name 😫🤣
Tony you're too much
I'm glad you said this about relationships because it is true. It is not easy. I thought it would be when you find the one, but no it's even harder honestly.
Caucasian men are different. Ive never dated one, but I remember when I was younger a whyte male co-worker said he would bury me in the woods. I think we had a very minute disagreement. 20 years later and I still remember that moment. I always have that in that in the back of my mind when I think about whyte men.
You are extraordinary I been listening to you for years and this by far is one of your best videos. You covered everything in 1hr a breath of fresh air.
Agree, very insightful! Almost too real 😅
Poor Abraham. She took advantage of him and she took everything. You’re absolutely right. He didn’t know her at all but she was able to swindle him out of his money.
I’d like to hear your take on the drizzle drizzle/ sprinkle sprinkle tropic.
what does those terms mean?
@@SheCanSmilejust look up the "Sprinkle Sprinkle Lady".. the "Drizzle Drizzle Movement" is weak mens' nonsensical satirical response to her message..
Bro Tony thanks alot for your wisdom this was so enlightening to not penalize another race and as well with a little twist of humor and rhyming . You're the best Bro Tony 🙏🏾💯❤️🎯
As a black dark skinned woman from another country I get zero love from BM. Zero.
Nooo, Tony! Not old dude using the key to lock his door. I hollered!! 😂 Keep making me laugh while giving us the real nuggets of wisdom! Bahaa! 😂💯🤦🏽♀️
Ladies make sure that you date a man that treats you right. This video alone could make you miss out on your blessing! Have discernment and seek God with who you date. Don’t listen to what everyone tells you because their advice alone could make you miss out on someone special. Saying that all white men would treat you wrong or that you’re not valuable to them is like saying you dated one black man and he treated you wrong so you’re not going to date another black man again. Black and white thinking isn’t helpful. Also as much as the world tries to push on to us that we’re not valued remember that our worth comes from Christ and don’t even entertain anything else!
You missed the point of the video. That's not what he was saying at all. He's not implying that all white men will do you wrong, just like all black men won't do you right. He's saying that don't go to white men thinking that you'll be treated better because of some delusional grandeur you have made up in your head. The title of the video speaks for itself. A poor man of character is a poor man of character regardless of race, ethnicity, or nationality. Having a man just treat you right is not enough, either. You're right on the discernment part though.
@@nataliet.3023The way he spoke in this video was not mainly stating that point. In my opinion this video was still distasteful and ignorant and that’s how I view it. Yes any man could treat you wrong. Still that’s not how he was saying it. Still an ignorant video and disheartening to watch. Saying that white men don’t view BW as feminine and how they don’t have a true interest in BW is ignorant. That’s how I view it and colorist as well… he said and I quote from speaking to one white male, “No real white man wants a black woman.” You don’t see anything wrong with that statement and putting that out there like that? People need to have discernment and logic on what they’re feeding and listening to.
Preach to them Tony people gone do what they want to we have to always put ourselves first
Thank you, Tony, for telling the "Truth. " Thank you, for this video. We need to hear and discuss this topic right here - right now.
I visited Oklahoma and there was a lot of interracial couples. I love me a black man ❤. I’m not attracted to any other race.
Truth facts this video is an eye opener and it's facts
Great points! This is why I became an accountant!
The rapper Logic, who’s biracial and could pass for white says his own white mother would call him a n word when she got upset with him
I dunno, I think he’s lying about that 🙄 He’s white by phenotype.
@@PGproud03 lol I hear you however it’s a lot of them out here passing. The only telltale sign is his thick skin
I remember the story about Abraham and he won the lottery, what a shame but I'm enjoying all of this.
Why do men keep telling me to find a man? I mean, why are men so worried about whether I have a man or not.
... I wonder if he bought the new Meta game device.. would they tell us what else they found in his house thru his computer..... did he have advanced games technology at home? besides this dungeon? .. l would like to see if cops will reveal what type of online activity this man was into...
I heard it some crazy stuff on the dark web..
You are hilarious 😆 😂😂
So true there me and my husband is going through our growing pains 7 years is starting to flourish a little bit but it’s more peace then arguing now
I remember dating a white girl in college
And she called me boy
Her father drove a pick up truck
I remember sitting on her porch because i couldnt go in her house
This was in 2004 lol
I had a monte carlo thought i was the stuff
I had flashbacks😂😂😂
Missisipi burning
Wow. They won’t outright say she can’t date a black guy (because that’s not politically correct), so the parents make him feel so uncomfortable that he gracefully bows out.
@@TheGoodLifeStarterPack yea this was summer 2004
😂😂😂😂
To blame slavery on how black men behave in today's world is a complete cop out. Give me a break. You dropped the ball on this one 💯💯💯💯💯💯
I know personally a young black woman who is in a domestic violent relationship within a interracial relationship
Is she okay? Did she got out of that relationship?
Tony I'm just lost of words you are speaking truth. Been there wow.
Teach This Thing Mr. Tony 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥‼️ Season's
Good teaching. TG teaches so many perspectives here. There is genuine and there is fantasy. Choose well.
This message is so true uncle Tony thank you for always sharing the truth 😅
You are 100% right on all of this. I mean ALLLLLLLL!!!!
Can anyone answer what type of man doesnt help his kid get into college?? Like is this normal black men behavior. Abuse comes in many forms.
Unfortunately a lot of parents in "our" community harbor resentment or jealousy of their own children, because of self-hate in my opinion. This is also why generational wealth is so rare for us. I've heard parents say they're not giving a dime to help their kids, and the kids will have to "struggle" like they did. And wonder why they get abandoned in nursing homes later on...
@@PeaceBeStill- omg 😦
Thank you Tony .you give alot of great advice and are doing great things for the
Culture/ people , I'm in a second generation multi culture family the white people have been poor government cheese
Food stamps, lockup ,not graduating, addiction divorces, dysfunctional. Single moms..low income housing. Ect.. alot of black folks don't know .Rich white people don't like poor white people . All whites are not the same,,my second black wife ,we have the same problems anyone else has, my white fam never owed slaves. My black wives have 2 parent families. Poor white men aren't simps . Plenty of successful black people. quickly coming to a place were color doesn't matter. Not there entirely but getting closer. The famous MLK( Content of character)
.1% of a person skin color . Don't make the human. I know your talking generally. Thank you for all you do.
I have to admit I myself have definitely thought about dating outside of my race because being treated so badly by black men 😢
Amen about relationship 👏🏾👏🏾bro you are speaking truth 💯
U are a COMEDIAN 😂😂😂…and u never fail to give us the truth!
You gotta ask yourself...why am I attracting these type of ppl.
We do Toni Gaskins your right! We do black women will hurt a guy feelings but we just be playing or being to real🤦🏾♀️😏my guy told me one time I was aggressive. I had never had a guy to tell me that in my entire life. I am from Louisiana he is from Indiana. 🤷🏾♀️