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What if he blocked you in every social media because you called the girl he was cheating on you with and send evidence to her of him saying he doesn't want her & doesnt care about her & only started talking to her when we broke up for a while .
How can I get back with him or how can I know that he miss me because he has block me on all social media platforms and right now we are in no contact period.. please help me..
The principle is this, go silent and work on loving and fulfilling yourself. If he comes back he has to work to get you back because you now have raized your standards. If he doesen’t come back on to the next. You should never put your life on hold for anyone and if you do its because you are trying to fill a void inside you, wich has nothing to do with that other person!
Really men are temporary they stay moment and they leave so ladies keep and flow your dreams take the man like shoes when they leave from you change another , be strong and independent Thank you
I have been watching your videos for months. My mom died in January and my ex left me and moved out of state two weeks later. I was so heart broken bc he even stopped talking to me. He just texted me a few days ago. It’s been 4 months and he wants me to come visit him in his new state. I don’t even know what this meant. But I remember coach Natalie saying that once you are about to not want your ex anymore, that’s when the no contact rule is working and that’s when someone will initiate contact. I honestly don’t think I want him back and I’m happy with the direction my life is going now without him. Natalie you helped me so much. Thank you!
Taylor Jackson I'm proud of you remember to stand your ground with no contact or visits. It gets so much better when you keep your distance and you're getting your life back in order.
Taylor Jackson he has a cheek to expect you to go see him, selfishness, plus I notice a lot of men cant handle any real life events such as bereavement etc, they run off and bury the head in the sand while we are left to get on with it and grieve alone... its pathetic and the more I read peoples comments the more I see how let down I was too... you are strong
For me I don't care if he'll miss me or not.you should focus to yourself how to forget and unlove him and also you have to focus to become better person you are.keep moving on silent
No, it doesn't always work. When they tell you 10, 20times over they don't want a relationship, ti not fall in love with them anger so on, and you end up leaving them for that exact reason, they may miss YOU but they will still not want a relationship. Some men are simply too damaged to allow themselves to love another woman.
I used to beg for love from my ex boyfriend before and the more i begged for his love for me the more he stays away but after i applied this advice by having no contact with him while working on myself was very helpful, i was never expecting my ex came back after 8 months, asking for another chance, but im already happy with myself with my new one.
Works like a charm... We had a fight and he gave me the silent treatment for a week, he didn't even call for my birthday so i cracked and called him... He was all up in his ego so he got the silent treatment for 6 months, he finally surrendered 2 months ago and we're engaged... It wasnt easy but it was worth it
WOW!! Congratulations on your engagement. Feel free to share your story in more depth. How did you stay strong for 6 months? How did you bounce back from the moment you decided to go no contact? And what made him change his mind and want to get married? - Coach Adrian
Best advice I can give from being the “Dumped one” improve yourself and do things to occupy your mind if you have your Ex on social media log off for a few days because social media it’s a high light of other people’s lives. And you don’t need the distraction on bringing yourself back up remember “Bounce Backs over Set Backs”
I agree with you, I recenly blocked my fb accout, I hate to see my ex online without texting with him, it's weird, and hurts me, after all what we lived together being online without talking, it's not fair at all, better be away
Mine is really into football now which is something hate and totally don't wanna be a part of and I still miss him regardless. If you really love someone you just do I guess. If they don't really care about having you in their life anymore is that really a person you want?
You have a lot of oxycotin (bonding hormones) with this man. Time will pass and the levels will decrease. Plus you had a person so close to you and then no longer, you feel rejection, ego bruised. Just don't reach out to him. No contact!!!
Mon P. Did no contact for 7 months and idk why but I’m afraid of reaching out to him now. It feels like I’ll have to talk to some stranger. Sooner or later I’ll stop thinking about him as well :)
Be careful with the time limit, attitude & actions during your no contact. After a certain time anybody that values themselves starts to feel it’s not acceptable to be treated with silence instead of wanting to talk things out. We can’t get back time in our lives so don’t let too much time playing a torture game backfire to the point a person believes you want nothing to do with them while you secretly are trying to win them back. Time⏳⌛️.
G Jayy the silence they are talking about is giving the person time to miss you and for you to get yourself together so when the silence is over your in a better head space and have your emotions in a better place so when you get back together they will stay together
But, dear if during the silent time he/she doesn't contact you then it was never meant to be. You are very valuable in God's eyes. Someone better will come along. And in fact silence is good in two ways, first you get to have time to heal, think and reflect. Second there is a chance your ex will miss you
You guys make me feel so happy and empowered lol it's a great feeling to watch these videos and be assured I'm on the right path all because of you guys
My wife was the silent type I loved her unconditionally and cared everyday and now she shows me much love and affection .. Thanks to Allah the mighty God
He will miss me forever because he's wrong and lying from little to a big thing and has never changed. In fact I don't need a liar in my life besides that I will be the liar towards him if I ever back to him lol 😂
In my case, going silent makes him happy he never has to hear from me again. Learned that the hard way 🙃 night as well move on. Tried the 30 day rule and it backfired.
Same1673 dont do that anymore mimic there behavior. Of she acts cold do the same Now. If you are on social media with her and she hasnt blocked you then you need to post things in social media saying thank for a wonder date so your ex.can see.it Just post random.messaged every now and then. Create a fake.femal.page and put comments on your page saying hey handsome your ex will probably see it and get jealous who know may reach back out to you if u have no time 4 that then dont reach back out
Love you guys..i actually felt sexy and confident today as my ex took that away from me. I have built myself back up and took a profile pic similing and looking happy again. Working on myself x
My man was not loyal - I was sad but I actually responded with love and compassion and also firm that he knows I know. I actually feel sorry for him now I’m silent hope I’m doing it right
My partner of 3 years left me for someone else who had been in his past. Been devastated all week.. after reading all these comments..i found some comfort and will leave him alone..
Hello and thank you!... I had to block myself from msgng him because I would msg him almost daily and only because i felt guilty for the way I left him so hurt...after I realized that when he would respond was with harsh words and always blaming me and not taking initiative for his own mistakes...that's when I said if he doesn't value me as I value him ..not wasting my time anymore...it was a very hard decision to make but I took my life back and it feels great!...
I'm in not contact been 30 days now but while I'm in no contact I'm working on me going to the gym, losing weight, changed my hair color, feeling wonderful about myself, Thanks Coaches your the best!!
Some guys dint want serious stuff no matter what you do. Bottom line is if you have the patience run chase the guy .. but its tiring .. better to leave love aside
My boyfriend just broke up with me Saturday , he said he stopped loving me kinda a month ago, but a month ago he told me he couldn’t wait for the future we were going to have (having kids, a wedding) things like that, saying how I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him, I don’t know what happened
Me and my ex also talked about the future and to move in together next year and for a little more then a month ago he broked up with me. I dont understand a shit:( So i understand exactly how you feel
If he's confused and fickle, then move on. A man will make it happen no matter what if there's genuine interest. Otherwise, take very good care of yourself and be Happy!! 😄
This gives me so much hope. What if he thinks that breaking up and getting together is not a good idea will the silence help. It was a break up over us being too busy and long distance .
I see now how when I did no contact for the first time, I was thinking about him 24/7, missing him, counting down the days till I could reach out and not doing any work on me. When he contacted me I emotionally fell apart.. I was all wrapped up in him and didn't see my own value. Yes he missed me and it did work to get him to reach out!! But fell apart very quickly.. Now I am doing no contact again ( on day 3) and Im hoping after that big mistake, he will come around again. He did tell me he loved me and we can try to talk again down the road however he is sick of the emotional cycle .. Im hoping this time around I will work on myself for ME not him, and enjoy my life. I know for sure if or when he comes back this time I wont react the same anymore because my validation doesn't come from him... So please work on yourself during non contact!!
I'm 32, my bf was 26. He only who approached me and after many break ups I was scared to even commit. But things fall in place from both sides and everything was smooth, happy and seems perfect. The most compatible guy I have ever met in my life. It's only 3 months and suddenly out of the blue he broke up. We didn't fight, no disagreements ever. Not only that he is already in a relationship with another girl when I was stll there in his life. I'm not only broken but suffering from immense pain, anxiety.
Thank you for your advice and reminded me that I need to be the best version of me for me, not anyone else. I am sad that my ex broke up with me, but I think I can survive.
I guess this would explain as to why an ex would unfriend themselves from you during no contact, because they probably couldn’t stand to see you grow without him.
I'm so glad i found Love Advice..and this is exactly what i need to hear and move forward to do! Being strong thru this and staying self focused..hmm has been so hard..being in love
Thts very true, silnce really works if you really want him or her to miss you, don't contact, its very hard but control your emotions and show them you moved on, believe me he or she ll come back to you surprisingly 😊
If my bf ignore then I don't wanna talk anyone I'm very silent. It takes many days before I chat him again but he must message me first and explain why he ignore for the last day. Thank you so much for this video I now know I'm doing right for being silent.
Guys, please give me an advice. No contact period ended (2 months), I reached out to him with a short neutral text about an update on our favourite show. We chatted (I wasn’t initiating, and waited for an hour-two before each response), and then it stopped. I learned that I should in no way be the pursuer, just focus on my own daily life and let him approach me. Guess what, he didn’t. After that conversation he got silent for four days and I don’t know what to think. I expected him to miss me and be at least a bit interested after 2 months of not talking to me, not seeing me and not getting any updates on each other’s lives.
How is it going now? I reached out my ex after 2 years, we had a couple of fun conversations and that’s it. I’m waiting for him to initiate the contact this time...
Okay please read this if you’re desperate as i was and crying all the time, thinking and wondering if he will come back and what if he will find someone else better that me and what if i was’t the best girlfriend and the last thing he will do is come back. I know, i was there too. I was so desperate that i stoped eating and i was crying all the time, also i put my school on the side and now i have so much to work to do. I know that you’re hurting but please listen to me. As soon as we came back together with my boyfriend i felt a need to spread this message because when i was where you are now, i was searching for tons of videos on youtube and forums on internet trying to find way to get my ex back. And after i watched every video, i was searching for comments where people wrote their experiences and HOW LONG WILL HE NEED TO COME BACK BECAUSE I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM. and all i found was poor souls writing that they never came back and they are still in no contact and it’s already more than 3 months. I was like nooo i can’t wait that long and all of this thing. I want YOU to know that there is enormous possibility that he WILL COME BACK. MY EX CAME BACK AFTER ONE WEEK. AND YES IT’S POSSIBLE AND IM NOT THE ONLY CASE. People who was lucky enough as i was don’t write comments anymore. They are to happy and they leave that behind so that’s why there is 99% of cases that have sad story and their exes haven’t came back. So please stay positive, don’t cry all the time, PLEASE DON’T OVERTHINK. My boyfriend for example did all the thing he knew i didn’t like and that i was scared about just for making me jealous. He didn’t have bad planes, it was just to hurt me and that i will be pissed and start writing him things about that and he already didn’t like that about me(jealousy). Also let me say that he was so sure about break up that i was sure that he meant it. And when he came back he told me that he was angry than and he saw only bad thing about our relationship. THAT IS WHY YOU NEEEEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE, to find out what is like to not having you and that you don’t react out for him as you did. Leave phone alone, don’t stalk him because you will make scenarios that don’t even exist. You will think for the worst one. PLEASE BE POSITIVE AND HAPPY. If you had healthy relationship he will soon found out what you meant to him and what he had. And do no contact. Its the best you can do because if you don’t let him experience what is like without you he won’t have a need to get you back. Now smile and be the best version about yourself. And work on things that you’re not proud of and are hurting your relationship.❤️❤️❤️
What if the reason of our break up is me.... He cannot tolerate me anymore, im so toxic to him.. I think i need to give him a break I don't want to hate me anymore, I'm done trying. I want to leave him at peace.
I remember clearly when i was alone i felt so special and many people tried to flirt with me, but i choosed him cause i saw he was special. I know that i wasn't wrong. Now i have to think about myself differently, i really want to GIVE something but i understand that i can do it only if i love myself. The problem is "treat" the one that you love as a normal human, not listen to the fear, and focusing on be fine and after happy. I really hope i will act without letting my fears and anxiety take the control of me. I really wish i could buy a session with you when i finish the exam i will send you the mail for the student discount and see if i can effort it somehow.
TheLightSkinLing Yes and no. I've had exes come back after 1 month, 6 months and even 7yrs later. None have worked out, none of them changed for the better. But the exes always came back.
I lost 30lbs, volunteering to help kids with autism at a horse stable, went back to school and help my grand babies for after school care. I didn’t answer his call yesterday and I got a text basically all about himself. Not hi I hope you’re ok. So he’s being selfish and has no clue what I’m doing. He doesn’t do social media.
I don't know what to do, I've been with my ex for like two years and he doesn't want to be with me anymore because he wants to be single and enjoy his single life and doesn't want to be tie down in a relationship anymore. He told me he still loves me but he can't pick because he wanna be with me but the same time he wanna be free and do him. It hurts me to know that, also i remember whenever we break up I always begged and made him stay with me. I guess I gotta stop that, he told me to let him be and leave him alone. He says every time he sees me cry he gets weak, he told me I have a big influence on him and he wants to not love me anymore and wants me to be fine without him. I'm so hurt to know I can't have someone who I love so much and I can't do anything but to let go because at the end of the day I can't make a person stay if they don't want to stay.... now I fall back I feel like we will never get back together I feel like it's over and he will never reach out to me again. I'm very sad I need help !!
I've been there. You just have to go within. Exercise go to therapy....get your mind off it. He'll be back once he realizes the grass isn't always greener.
After 8 years relationship and after all hopes and future plans he gave to me..he married another girl on my birthday..i found out about this next day..i m speechless ..i hope one day he will regret and suffer more than i do it now.
After watching this video, which is really good ! My question is how can I show my ex the changes I've made since weve been seperated if I have no contact with him.. were both not on social media.
I have no idea, i can tell you i have a friend of mine that he is going out with other girls, but everytime we talk he always mention his exGF. I think they can still back together but both have to put some efforts and find compromises. Depends anyway, they made a video about that, i can't link it but it's called "my ex is already dating someone else"
Don't even think .....wat he is doing ....wat he is not doing ....look at yourself in the mirror .....nd ask yourself are you doing enough ....are you growing ....are you evolving .....nd if not ....then start evolving
If he is seeing someone else. It would be great to have known. I don't interfere with their relationship. If I find out now the same thing is No interference. I move on. Meaning more attention elsewhere school, volunteer work, my health, be peaceful in my choices. No revenge.
While i'm scrolling on youtube, this vidz appeared... but exactly what am facing right now.... longing for my ex, actually still fresh broke up, just few days.... maybe this will help me to be strong right now. Thanks God bless... new subscriber here watching from Hongkong... but i'm from Phils. Thank you
Thank you for subscribing and for watching! We really appreciate it. Stay strong! If it's only been a few days the best thing you can do is to not overreact and wait for your ex to make the first move :) - Adrian
What if he is really passive and will probably think that he should stop disturbing you? I know my ex will do this even though he really misses me. What do i do?
Coach Alex and coach Natalie, my x is very stubborn and mean at times, and he is the man u guys were talking about he will not go back on his word and I think he has a rebound. Please give me some advice, I'm 50 and he's 60.he may want to call me but his pride is not going to let him, especially if he's in a rebound relationship.
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What if he blocked you in every social media because you called the girl he was cheating on you with and send evidence to her of him saying he doesn't want her & doesnt care about her & only started talking to her when we broke up for a while .
How can I show that I'm doing better if he blocked me and got mad saying he doesnt want drama
How can I get back with him or how can I know that he miss me because he has block me on all social media platforms and right now we are in no contact period.. please help me..
He has 3/4 gf at the same time would he miss me?
The principle is this, go silent and work on loving and fulfilling yourself. If he comes back he has to work to get you back because you now have raized your standards. If he doesen’t come back on to the next. You should never put your life on hold for anyone and if you do its because you are trying to fill a void inside you, wich has nothing to do with that other person!
Thank you. I needed to have seen your comment this very moment.
Thanks, well written [said]🧘🏾♀️👩🏽🏫
"He's just a man among so many"
Really men are temporary they stay moment and they leave so ladies keep and flow your dreams take the man like shoes when they leave from you change another , be strong and independent
Thank you
Straight to my fave. Silence is too powerful and rebuilding yourself for the best version of you. I can prove that now coach Nat & coach Alex ☺️
Leave him alone and focus more on yourself...💖 easier said than done lol
Productive silence vs passive silence, that makes the difference.
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Yes
Best Comment I've Saw Thus Far 🙏🙌💯💌🌟
That's the best summary
THIS🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 It’s a difference..if you do it out of bitterness or hate It will not work and disservices you 🙏🏿
I have been watching your videos for months. My mom died in January and my ex left me and moved out of state two weeks later. I was so heart broken bc he even stopped talking to me. He just texted me a few days ago. It’s been 4 months and he wants me to come visit him in his new state. I don’t even know what this meant. But I remember coach Natalie saying that once you are about to not want your ex anymore, that’s when the no contact rule is working and that’s when someone will initiate contact. I honestly don’t think I want him back and I’m happy with the direction my life is going now without him. Natalie you helped me so much. Thank you!
Taylor Jackson I'm proud of you remember to stand your ground with no contact or visits. It gets so much better when you keep your distance and you're getting your life back in order.
Taylor Jackson he has a cheek to expect you to go see him, selfishness, plus I notice a lot of men cant handle any real life events such as bereavement etc, they run off and bury the head in the sand while we are left to get on with it and grieve alone... its pathetic and the more I read peoples comments the more I see how let down I was too... you are strong
Taylor Jackson wow! You are so much better off
Lq
Taylor Jackson I hope your doing well love. Stay strong and find a better man.
The best medicine u can have. Is to love urself nomatter what. Women. U have to know ur worth Once u find that. Can’t nobody get one over on u
YES!!, AS long as women are constantly improveing themselves. = impowering themselves..
For me I don't care if he'll miss me or not.you should focus to yourself how to forget and unlove him and also you have to focus to become better person you are.keep moving on silent
No, it doesn't always work. When they tell you 10, 20times over they don't want a relationship, ti not fall in love with them anger so on, and you end up leaving them for that exact reason, they may miss YOU but they will still not want a relationship. Some men are simply too damaged to allow themselves to love another woman.
So true
That's right, especially if they have been in abusive relationship..
Does it mean they would nevr love smone again....ever
That's true same happened with me . He didn't call me back . May be he is looking for another girl
And vice versa
I used to beg for love from my ex boyfriend before and the more i begged for his love for me the more he stays away but after i applied this advice by having no contact with him while working on myself was very helpful, i was never expecting my ex came back after 8 months, asking for another chance, but im already happy with myself with my new one.
Keep ur mind on the higher things, not on the things of earth. Colossians 3: 2
Works like a charm... We had a fight and he gave me the silent treatment for a week, he didn't even call for my birthday so i cracked and called him... He was all up in his ego so he got the silent treatment for 6 months, he finally surrendered 2 months ago and we're engaged... It wasnt easy but it was worth it
WOW!! Congratulations on your engagement. Feel free to share your story in more depth. How did you stay strong for 6 months? How did you bounce back from the moment you decided to go no contact? And what made him change his mind and want to get married? - Coach Adrian
Best advice I can give from being the “Dumped one” improve yourself and do things to occupy your mind if you have your Ex on social media log off for a few days because social media it’s a high light of other people’s lives. And you don’t need the distraction on bringing yourself back up remember “Bounce Backs over Set Backs”
I agree with you, I recenly blocked my fb accout, I hate to see my ex online without texting with him, it's weird, and hurts me, after all what we lived together being online without talking, it's not fair at all, better be away
I think coach Natalie is so attractive!!!
Isnt she, I would totally take her out!
Pham Linh Cuc Nguyen Yeah esp from 5:35 to 5:55 I’ve repeated so many times loool
Pham Linh Cuc Nguyen her eyes so attractive !!!
For me I never go again to the one who left. I can’t. I want new relationship.
My ex is doing absolutely nothing with his life except for being a jerk.. why do I miss him then? -.-
Mine is really into football now which is something hate and totally don't wanna be a part of and I still miss him regardless. If you really love someone you just do I guess. If they don't really care about having you in their life anymore is that really a person you want?
Justyna Wisniewska yeah, you are right.. the fact that he doesn't care anymore is what keeps me away from contacting him :)
You have a lot of oxycotin (bonding hormones) with this man. Time will pass and the levels will decrease. Plus you had a person so close to you and then no longer, you feel rejection, ego bruised. Just don't reach out to him. No contact!!!
Mon P. Did no contact for 7 months and idk why but I’m afraid of reaching out to him now. It feels like I’ll have to talk to some stranger. Sooner or later I’ll stop thinking about him as well :)
Mine is into his rebound. I cried my eyes out at first, but now I’m laughing cuz she has to put up with his dumbass now. 😂💪
Be careful with the time limit, attitude & actions during your no contact. After a certain time anybody that values themselves starts to feel it’s not acceptable to be treated with silence instead of wanting to talk things out. We can’t get back time in our lives so don’t let too much time playing a torture game backfire to the point a person believes you want nothing to do with them while you secretly are trying to win them back. Time⏳⌛️.
G Jayy the silence they are talking about is giving the person time to miss you and for you to get yourself together so when the silence is over your in a better head space and have your emotions in a better place so when you get back together they will stay together
But what if he or she is a narcissist?
G Jayy couldn’t put it any better. Keyword is time limit
Maggie Hertrampf Exactly 💯That is what I'm doing right now.. guess we will never talk again because I stay silence💅
But, dear if during the silent time he/she doesn't contact you then it was never meant to be. You are very valuable in God's eyes. Someone better will come along. And in fact silence is good in two ways, first you get to have time to heal, think and reflect. Second there is a chance your ex will miss you
I deleted him from all social media. He doesn’t want to be in my life, then why would I want him in mine ..
That's fair :) - Adrian
Jen Collings he wants to keep me and be part of his life I don’t know if I can move on with stay friends
Jen Collins, you are so beautiful ❤️❤️🌹 🌹 and I will be happy to know you
Or he's just happy to be rid of you and not care at all
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LMAO
Haaaaaaaa
Tell me about it..
I love the way Alex say 'stubborn' lol!!
My man just dissappear out of no where and has not contacted me guess what i dont have to contact its his lost and my game see ya!!!!
You guys make me feel so happy and empowered lol it's a great feeling to watch these videos and be assured I'm on the right path all because of you guys
Feel the same way ❤
My wife was the silent type I loved her unconditionally and cared everyday and now she shows me much love and affection .. Thanks to Allah the mighty God
Loving and caring genuinely ,💯❤️🎀
He will miss me forever because he's wrong and lying from little to a big thing and has never changed. In fact I don't need a liar in my life besides that I will be the liar towards him if I ever back to him lol 😂
In my case, going silent makes him happy he never has to hear from me again. Learned that the hard way 🙃 night as well move on. Tried the 30 day rule and it backfired.
It didn't backfire, it showed you his character and that he wasn't the one. God must have something even better instore for you.
I begged and told my ex I love her forever and can’t live without her, it drove her away. Works Great!!
To my ex......🖕🏼
Same1673 dont do that anymore mimic there behavior. Of she acts cold do the same
Now. If you are on social media with her and she hasnt blocked you then you need to post things in social media saying thank for a wonder date so your ex.can see.it
Just post random.messaged every now and then. Create a fake.femal.page and put comments on your page saying hey handsome your ex will probably see it and get jealous who know may reach back out to you if u have no time 4 that then dont reach back out
If I can be strong to rebuild my self after a break up, I don’t want him back. I want him to accept me the way I am.
Love you guys..i actually felt sexy and confident today as my ex took that away from me. I have built myself back up and took a profile pic similing and looking happy again. Working on myself x
I love the way Alex talks. The accent and voice is so soothing & very attractive.
My man was not loyal - I was sad but I actually responded with love and compassion and also firm that he knows I know. I actually feel sorry for him now I’m silent hope I’m doing it right
Coach Alex's voice is so relaxing. You guys have the most helpful channel ever!
Staying silent is harder than you think
I don't know what experts said but with my personal experience I can say that ex really comes back if we don't care about them at all..
Break ups aren't science. Sometimes begging will help, somtimes NC will help.The most imortant thing is to feel well alone
Michal Sterenberg begging never helps it’s actually devastating and degrading it gives another person power over you!
Michal Sterenberg,you are so beautiful ❤️❤️🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌹 🌹 and I will be happy to know you
The way Coach Alex pronounces the word "stubborn" has delicious effects on me...
My partner of 3 years left me for someone else who had been in his past. Been devastated all week.. after reading all these comments..i found some comfort and will leave him alone..
I can say it's true for me. It's only pride that I won't reach out first but not stubborn. Just stay silent until he comes
What's all this about getting your ex back...move on.
Why are you here then 🤔.
🥺😡
because i’m still in love with him
Army Matters totally agree
Silence while improving on ones self Thanks Alex and co
Hello and thank you!...
I had to block myself from msgng him because I would msg him almost daily and only because i felt guilty for the way I left him so hurt...after I realized that when he would respond was with harsh words and always blaming me and not taking initiative for his own mistakes...that's when I said if he doesn't value me as I value him ..not wasting my time anymore...it was a very hard decision to make but I took my life back and it feels great!...
I'm in not contact been 30 days now but while I'm in no contact I'm working on me going to the gym, losing weight, changed my hair color, feeling wonderful about myself, Thanks Coaches your the best!!
I have seen a LOT of videos on this subject recently, and this is the most sound advice Ive heard. Natalie you are a genius 💕 thank you!
Some guys dint want serious stuff no matter what you do. Bottom line is if you have the patience run chase the guy .. but its tiring .. better to leave love aside
My boyfriend just broke up with me Saturday , he said he stopped loving me kinda a month ago, but a month ago he told me he couldn’t wait for the future we were going to have (having kids, a wedding) things like that, saying how I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him, I don’t know what happened
Me and my ex also talked about the future and to move in together next year and for a little more then a month ago he broked up with me. I dont understand a shit:( So i understand exactly how you feel
It is devastating but all you need to know is that he CHANGED. That is enough closure. Don't let curiosity stop you from moving on.
he is confused..if its meant to be it will happen or else no need to wait...focus on yourself
If he's confused and fickle, then move on.
A man will make it happen no matter what if there's genuine interest.
Otherwise, take very good care of yourself and be Happy!! 😄
This gives me so much hope. What if he thinks that breaking up and getting together is not a good idea will the silence help. It was a break up over us being too busy and long distance .
Bellepepper same here. Did it work for you ???
I see now how when I did no contact for the first time, I was thinking about him 24/7, missing him, counting down the days till I could reach out and not doing any work on me. When he contacted me I emotionally fell apart.. I was all wrapped up in him and didn't see my own value. Yes he missed me and it did work to get him to reach out!! But fell apart very quickly..
Now I am doing no contact again ( on day 3) and Im hoping after that big mistake, he will come around again. He did tell me he loved me and we can try to talk again down the road however he is sick of the emotional cycle .. Im hoping this time around I will work on myself for ME not him, and enjoy my life. I know for sure if or when he comes back this time I wont react the same anymore because my validation doesn't come from him... So please work on yourself during non contact!!
I'm 32, my bf was 26. He only who approached me and after many break ups I was scared to even commit. But things fall in place from both sides and everything was smooth, happy and seems perfect. The most compatible guy I have ever met in my life. It's only 3 months and suddenly out of the blue he broke up. We didn't fight, no disagreements ever. Not only that he is already in a relationship with another girl when I was stll there in his life. I'm not only broken but suffering from immense pain, anxiety.
His accent 😍🔥
Nice voice too.
Thanks guys.
He could say anything
With this accent
And sound heavenly
LOL... Thank you for your support! - The Love Advice TV | With My Ex Again Team
Thank you for your advice and reminded me that I need to be the best version of me for me, not anyone else. I am sad that my ex broke up with me, but I think I can survive.
Shannon Clark -Rivera,Your story touched my heart 💓 and I will be happy to know you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🙏.
I guess this would explain as to why an ex would unfriend themselves from you during no contact, because they probably couldn’t stand to see you grow without him.
He cheat me by marrying another lady. Without telling me. Now I'm in silent and hurt
So sorry. 💔 I hope your doing better.😊
He wasnt a good man. Go about your business. Fall in love with yourself baby girl. ❤😍💋
Don't worry...in future that lady will teach him a good lesson n then he will miss u again...n feel regret
You deserve better..... There is someone out there who will give you the world.... Be happy dear... I too faced it... I can understand ur pain
That's why I'm in silence with him so he'll know wat he needs it's my move to say
Will he be ready to walk through fire and spikes to get me back? Well if he can then come and get it boy.
His accent is just over the top 😍
but what if they started dating someone new how would they miss me if there mind is on her
It's a rebound..distraction trust he's thinking of you regardless.
Specially when he's alone and reflects on what he's doing with out you.
Lala angelz exactly
Exactly!
@@losangelz5047 agree with this too!
OMG! I use to think my ex is seriously stubborn .... But this video "actually" motivated me so much... Thank you ❤
hey roquaiya, that's what we're here for :) Come back whenever you need a little more motivation - Coach Nat
I'm so glad i found Love Advice..and this is exactly what i need to hear and move forward to do! Being strong thru this and staying self focused..hmm has been so hard..being in love
Thts very true, silnce really works if you really want him or her to miss you, don't contact, its very hard but control your emotions and show them you moved on, believe me he or she ll come back to you surprisingly 😊
If my bf ignore then I don't wanna talk anyone
I'm very silent.
It takes many days before I chat him again but he must message me first and explain why he ignore for the last day.
Thank you so much for this video I now know I'm doing right for being silent.
Yes it acted for me... My most stubborn best friend came back to me after 6month no contact😀😀
Guys, please give me an advice.
No contact period ended (2 months), I reached out to him with a short neutral text about an update on our favourite show. We chatted (I wasn’t initiating, and waited for an hour-two before each response), and then it stopped. I learned that I should in no way be the pursuer, just focus on my own daily life and let him approach me. Guess what, he didn’t. After that conversation he got silent for four days and I don’t know what to think. I expected him to miss me and be at least a bit interested after 2 months of not talking to me, not seeing me and not getting any updates on each other’s lives.
How is it going now? I reached out my ex after 2 years, we had a couple of fun conversations and that’s it. I’m waiting for him to initiate the contact this time...
Wow.... awesome....bravo
The moment when u r learning about the no contact rule with love tv but ur ex watches love tv also and knows about it 2 😂😂😂😂
Exactly, oh my god 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Okay please read this if you’re desperate as i was and crying all the time, thinking and wondering if he will come back and what if he will find someone else better that me and what if i was’t the best girlfriend and the last thing he will do is come back. I know, i was there too. I was so desperate that i stoped eating and i was crying all the time, also i put my school on the side and now i have so much to work to do. I know that you’re hurting but please listen to me. As soon as we came back together with my boyfriend i felt a need to spread this message because when i was where you are now, i was searching for tons of videos on youtube and forums on internet trying to find way to get my ex back. And after i watched every video, i was searching for comments where people wrote their experiences and HOW LONG WILL HE NEED TO COME BACK BECAUSE I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM. and all i found was poor souls writing that they never came back and they are still in no contact and it’s already more than 3 months. I was like nooo i can’t wait that long and all of this thing. I want YOU to know that there is enormous possibility that he WILL COME BACK. MY EX CAME BACK AFTER ONE WEEK. AND YES IT’S POSSIBLE AND IM NOT THE ONLY CASE. People who was lucky enough as i was don’t write comments anymore. They are to happy and they leave that behind so that’s why there is 99% of cases that have sad story and their exes haven’t came back. So please stay positive, don’t cry all the time, PLEASE DON’T OVERTHINK. My boyfriend for example did all the thing he knew i didn’t like and that i was scared about just for making me jealous. He didn’t have bad planes, it was just to hurt me and that i will be pissed and start writing him things about that and he already didn’t like that about me(jealousy). Also let me say that he was so sure about break up that i was sure that he meant it. And when he came back he told me that he was angry than and he saw only bad thing about our relationship. THAT IS WHY YOU NEEEEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE, to find out what is like to not having you and that you don’t react out for him as you did. Leave phone alone, don’t stalk him because you will make scenarios that don’t even exist. You will think for the worst one. PLEASE BE POSITIVE AND HAPPY. If you had healthy relationship he will soon found out what you meant to him and what he had. And do no contact. Its the best you can do because if you don’t let him experience what is like without you he won’t have a need to get you back. Now smile and be the best version about yourself. And work on things that you’re not proud of and are hurting your relationship.❤️❤️❤️
What if the reason of our break up is me....
He cannot tolerate me anymore, im so toxic to him..
I think i need to give him a break
I don't want to hate me anymore, I'm done trying.
I want to leave him at peace.
Thanks Alex and Natalie for such a valuable addition of tips and hope to stay strong in no contact period.
How will he miss me if he's already dating some one else? 😶
I remember clearly when i was alone i felt so special and many people tried to flirt with me, but i choosed him cause i saw he was special. I know that i wasn't wrong. Now i have to think about myself differently, i really want to GIVE something but i understand that i can do it only if i love myself. The problem is "treat" the one that you love as a normal human, not listen to the fear, and focusing on be fine and after happy. I really hope i will act without letting my fears and anxiety take the control of me. I really wish i could buy a session with you when i finish the exam i will send you the mail for the student discount and see if i can effort it somehow.
OW.MY.GOD
you are amazing !!! thank you so much
God bless u guys for this wonderful advice
What if my man at the first point already look for somebody new before he leaves me. ?
I will apply this.
After a certain amount of time they don’t contact you that means they have moved on I think
TheLightSkinLing Yes and no. I've had exes come back after 1 month, 6 months and even 7yrs later. None have worked out, none of them changed for the better. But the exes always came back.
I guess if both parts do the no contact rule, who is going to contact the other at all?
Maybe or maybe not...pretty much all of mine have come back...proudly I can say I’ve never went back to one
Great way to put it 👍🏼 liked and subscribed
This is my first time going through this experience and no contact 🤦🏾♀️😰💔
Me too... how are you??
Wait I did not know these two are on the same channel! My two favorites 😄
This is so true. No man is unique
apart from gorgeous Alex 😉
It is about human.
Continue your great work love advice. ... 👍
I lost 30lbs, volunteering to help kids with autism at a horse stable, went back to school and help my grand babies for after school care. I didn’t answer his call yesterday and I got a text basically all about himself. Not hi I hope you’re ok. So he’s being selfish and has no clue what I’m doing. He doesn’t do social media.
Such an awesome topic
Thank u for your advises , i did as you have told and he came back indeed. More power!
How can I improve and make him miss me when we are in lockdown and i don’t have social media neither does he. I am finding this harder in lockdown
Same here
Forget those who leaves u
I don't know what to do, I've been with my ex for like two years and he doesn't want to be with me anymore because he wants to be single and enjoy his single life and doesn't want to be tie down in a relationship anymore. He told me he still loves me but he can't pick because he wanna be with me but the same time he wanna be free and do him. It hurts me to know that, also i remember whenever we break up I always begged and made him stay with me. I guess I gotta stop that, he told me to let him be and leave him alone. He says every time he sees me cry he gets weak, he told me I have a big influence on him and he wants to not love me anymore and wants me to be fine without him. I'm so hurt to know I can't have someone who I love so much and I can't do anything but to let go because at the end of the day I can't make a person stay if they don't want to stay.... now I fall back I feel like we will never get back together I feel like it's over and he will never reach out to me again. I'm very sad I need help !!
I've been there. You just have to go within. Exercise go to therapy....get your mind off it. He'll be back once he realizes the grass isn't always greener.
Linda Nguyen hey linda. How are you?
After 8 years relationship and after all hopes and future plans he gave to me..he married another girl on my birthday..i found out about this next day..i m speechless ..i hope one day he will regret and suffer more than i do it now.
Can you please make a video about a very long distance relationship?
He really is a man among many
God knows my heart I'm trying to be cool cuz he leave me an went back to his ex bt he still want me in his life....an it's hard
Thank you Alex. Your answers are from a man's perspective and some female perspective.
You're welcome! - Coach Alex
After watching this video, which is really good ! My question is how can I show my ex the changes I've made since weve been seperated if I have no contact with him.. were both not on social media.
Yes he will miss you forever.
How does this apply if they are seeing someone else?
I have no idea, i can tell you i have a friend of mine that he is going out with other girls, but everytime we talk he always mention his exGF. I think they can still back together but both have to put some efforts and find compromises. Depends anyway, they made a video about that, i can't link it but it's called "my ex is already dating someone else"
Don't even think .....wat he is doing ....wat he is not doing ....look at yourself in the mirror .....nd ask yourself are you doing enough ....are you growing ....are you evolving .....nd if not ....then start evolving
r chetna, I am working on myself! I just was wondering if your silence means anything if they are seeing someone else?
Kathy Jepsen
If he is seeing someone else. It would be great to have known. I don't interfere with their relationship. If I find out now the same thing is No interference. I move on. Meaning more attention elsewhere school, volunteer work, my health, be peaceful in my choices. No revenge.
While i'm scrolling on youtube, this vidz appeared... but exactly what am facing right now.... longing for my ex, actually still fresh broke up, just few days.... maybe this will help me to be strong right now. Thanks God bless... new subscriber here watching from Hongkong... but i'm from Phils. Thank you
Thank you for subscribing and for watching! We really appreciate it. Stay strong! If it's only been a few days the best thing you can do is to not overreact and wait for your ex to make the first move :) - Adrian
I love coach alex
Lovely lovely and lovely ..... and cool talk... impressed
We're glad :) Thanks! - Coach Steven
What if he is really passive and will probably think that he should stop disturbing you? I know my ex will do this even though he really misses me. What do i do?
I think its important that what you suggest we do during the "silence" period should be repeated throughout dating so that it never gets stale....
Coach Alex and coach Natalie, my x is very stubborn and mean at times, and he is the man u guys were talking about he will not go back on his word and I think he has a rebound. Please give me some advice, I'm 50 and he's 60.he may want to call me but his pride is not going to let him, especially if he's in a rebound relationship.