She Gave Her Boyfriend An Ultimatum And Time Is Up!
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- Is their relationship even going anywhere? She gave him a deadline…propose before my birthday. Well, time is up. What should she do next?
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No, this is over. IF he proposes, she's going to feel like she forced him to and that he didn't want to. She will never get over that.
I don't know how she feels about this, but I think she should show him she is SERIOUS about this deadline. Pack up a few things and let him see that she intends to leave if he doesn't propose. Place it by the door, and have the talk about marriage. I emptied EVERYTHING I had before our marriage and he got home from work and the house echoed. He came to me, told me he loved me, and wanted me back at home. In the end, our marriage ended in divorce but neither of us were ready for marriage.
To be honest I'm on HIS side. The economy is totally different right now and Steve Harvey explains it the best. A woman is ready for marriage when she's in love, a man is ready for marriage when he is FINANCIALLY prepared. They've been together 5 years and in that 5 years he lost a job and had to get a new one, who says he has the savings right now for any of that? 5 years (depending on your situation) is not a lot of time to save for a ring, especially since years 1-2 you're still kinda feeling it out. She said he still treats her great so MAYBE he just doesn't feel he is in a financial position to pay for the ring OR the wedding that he thinks she deserves. If you love each other and he shows commitment and shows you respect then why not BE HAPPY. But no, once again status wins over common sense. She'd rather be single again and risk waiting 10 more years for someone to propose than wait maybe 2 more years for him to feel comfortable? Women need to give their head a shake. Make it make sense.
He better say something about commitment, or it may be over...
This relationship was over the moment she made the ultimatum. It might have been salvageable when she was just thinking about this stuff. But she said the words out loud to him... And a radio station. Even if he proposes and she says yes, she will always have this situation in her mind. So much so that the resentment will build and build. Eventually divorce and hatred will be the only things that will come out of the marriage.... All because she couldn't get out of her own head.
I don’t know why, but even though I don’t know the guy’s side of the story, something is telling me to side with him
He her real reason why he doesn't want to get married, know giving him I ultimatum of marriage, then called radio station to embrass him ,she doesn't care about his feelin gs are consistent. He needs to dump her ,she doesn't care about him it all about her, and what she wants ,I have a question is she worth the ultimatum and ending her relationship
Why do you need to get married? You don’t need the government involved to be with someone
Again, her life will always live single and Abby does not need to give advice