Why women should not marry! Of course we know we have a choice but she says more!
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- Today's woman no longer needs to see herself as half of a relationship, waiting for Mr. Right to come along and put it together for her. This book is an inspiration for any woman on the brink of giving up her independence to seek the security that marriage has always promised but seldom provides.....according to Cynthia Smith
She was ahead of her time
Right 👍
5/2/2024
Yes ma'am!!
Marriage has never benefited women. Single child free women are happier, healthier and wealthier than married women with kids, single child free women live longer than married women. Marriage benefits men only not women . The value of marriage is not worth the misery that women must go through to be married
Single mothers have more time for themselves than married women.
The husband usually behaves like the more difficult to handle toddler.
Remember divorce was recently less 100 years ago legalized. You were a slave if you felt trapped!
I agree. Marriage does not benefit women. PERIOD!
I can’t enjoy the interview because the interviewer won’t shut up.
Shes on point ! As a widow I am happier than ever .not marrying again
Why is this so hard for the interviewer to understand??? She's so dense
Cynthia Smith: You don't have to marry if you don't want to. You can if you want but don't feel pressured to.
Interviewer: SO YOU'RE SAYING DON'T GET MARRIED????
Interviewer is not right in the head/lives in fairy lands.
She's blonde lol
that was honestly how alot of women thought long time ago
The interview doesn't get that some women enjoy the company of men but they don't want marriage.
Emily Dickinson enjoyed lovers and didn't get married. If you want to get married then go for it. It is not something every woman wants though. If you want it then go for it but it should not be pushed on women.
This woman, Cynthia, was really ahead of her time
"We all miss something in life." How true. I'm 71 and never married. A few guys wanted to marry me, but I just couldn't do it. In looking back I realize that marriage to any of them wouldn't have lasted. There are times when I think I missed out on not having a husband or children, but I've had a full life and being independent has been wonderful. This interview was awhile back. More and more women are embracing the single life. Only 25% of couples are truly happy, so that leaves 75% that aren't. With odds like that, being single is actually a pretty darn good choice.
She’s speaking facts!
Being single is heavenly!
I wished I had Cynthia as a my aunt.
I'll never forgive my pickme grandma for trying to groom me into being liked by men by constantly repeating that if I don't learn to cook and clean then no Man would want me.
I'm happy I never cooked and cleaned for a man and I will never move in.
@AutumnAprodithe I was taught never approach a man and wait til they approach you. So, I waited. My mother told me that I didn't have a man because I couldn't cook, screw, or watch ball games.
Then I was approached by an "ok" man. Then my mom got mad when I didn't invite her to my wedding...then she laughed at me when my ex husband assaulted me. She gave me no emotional susport during my divorce. She was happy that I failed. She never asked me if I was ok or what I wanted....he never asked either.
I'm free from both of them and I feel so much better.
@@kameshiam1674 Good. After healing from the narc crap I had to endure I started to like cooking. I set clear boundaries, I'm not going to cook for a man, I cook what I would like to have and he can grab a plate. If he doesn't want what I'm having then that's too bad.
I'm not making sacrifices because it doesn't matter what you do or don't do, if a man wants to leave he will.
This woman is spittin. The saddest part about all this tho is that societal discourse really hasn't evolved much past this point.
The author is excellent and the interviewer is argumentative.
Yes! She is right on! I was married 20 years - it’s definitely not all it’s cracked up to be! Men are celebrated for being single & woman are tortured mentally for being single- the interviewer sounds like she just got married & is blindly in love - with some cheater that has her under the foolish spell - she is so combative & refuses to agree!
What you say is true. Your last sentence made me holler.
Exactly!
I agree with this woman. My mother without my knowledge tried time and time again to match me with people I never would have been with initially let alone be miserable in a marriage with them. To be owned is lame and a nightmare.
Im a guy and I approve this message.
Women should have the option not to marry.
"Whose mother doesn't have a mother of the bride dress hanging in the damn closet" LOL I love her straightforward honesty
This lady in the yellow sound like these aggravating misogynistic podcasts 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ikr, she didn’t let the women talk, like she swallowed a radio or sth 🤦🏻♀️
That interviewer was struggling lol
The interviewer has comprehensive issues
I have been leaning towards asexuality my whole life. As a kid I only had crushes on fictional men you see on tv.
I tried to get into romance books but that didn't make the human male more appealing.
Sure I love me some romance like Gomez and Morticia but that's fiction.
Real men are nothing like that.
Careers are better anyway.
I'm 64 yo. If i knew then what i know now, I would never married. I divorced my 1st husband and got remarried 4 yrs later. I will never do this again. My parents were part of the WW2 generation and all daughters were too get married... that was crammed down my throat for years. Listen, you can have a child without being a wife. I agree with Cynthia 100%.
Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is /-\dultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that state. ==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits /-\dultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits /-\dultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an /-\dulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. (1 Corinthians 7:39) You can live alone, but cannot remarry BTW, I was in that position - in an /-\dulterous remarriage, when I discovered this truth, and I vacated the relationship. Now I am alone but not sad about it,
I'm asexual and I have been pressured to get marry as easy as possible since I was 7, I was told around that age by my grandmother that if I don't cook and clean no man would want me while the dumb donkey only got abusive husband's.
I took it to the heart with uno reverse card and I refused to cook and clean.
I refuse to be groomed into being liked by men.
Everything I do I do it for me.
The interviewer got on my nerves!! She is not objective at all. She doesn't get it.😒 It's as if she is trying to get Cynthia to change her mind.
I wished I had her as my grandmother. She's amazing.
Hey if something is amazing to have it doesn't have to be sold, it sells itself... there has to be societal pressure because the marriage deal is generally set up for a mans benefit not a womans
That younger woman is so brainwashed.
This woman in the yellow is a terrible interviewer. She should just do a monologue.
I’m getting her book…😂
I’d like to know more about this woman.
Marriage is absolutely garbage. Single and financially independent is awesomeness ❤❤❤
8:09 The way she zipped past the book, seems like she had an attitude 😂.
This is how I feel
Take if from me ,you are not missing fck ..the wedding is your last touch with happiness don't care how nice the man is .
Right on!
3:12 did you here that? It’s not 50/50.
Marriage benefits men and divorce benefits the women....thats why we hardly see men whom are married complain but they only complain when he goes through divorce that's because divorce actually takes away from him it's not pouring into him
If marriage benefits men.. why are men not wanting to get married??? 🤦🏾♂️ marriage and divorce benefits women… marriage is a trap for men.
IM NEVER GETTING MARRIED
As a widow with 5 kids ..you ain't missing fck !! Live you life and date forever i am .serious too
Right with you! I got crazy looks when I was younger. Now the same people agree with me and expressed regret.
I made the mistake of marrying my childhood sweetheart at 18. He then decided he owned me and started putting his hands on me. Took me less than a year to rid myself of him. Even had he not been abusive, I quickly realized that I was not cut out to be anyone's wife. I want to be left alone !
I am perfectly fine in my own space,in my own company.Relationship never crossed my mind,i am having to succumb as i have no other choice but to start looking for the one.Why do i have to make the move if men are not interested in committed relationship.This is what my nosy relatives don’t try to get! the whole of society is so screwed up 😢
I might change my mind but i need prove if there’s really genuinely good guy out there who wants a woman like me. No one like that has been found so why the rush to marry.If i don’t get any proposals at all i have decided to remain virgin for life.
Thankfully,my parents respect my decision and they never pressure me into anything.Even they have to think twice before handing me over to the one(only if it happens).Sad we don’t value platonic relations that much.
I liked her!
Terrible interviewer
Got damn Eileen, why are you going against the grain? All of this resistance.
😂
😂😂😂😅
Yes 👍🏾
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This woman must be a Queen, In other lifetime! A Goddess’s 😂😂😂 I read about book about What Men Dont Want Women To Know - The Secrets, The Lies, The Unspoken Truth - Smith and Doe !!! She is not lying all our relationship with men especially marriages benefits men more than woman! Read it for yourself and be awaken! You will gag! 😅
Marriage is not so romantic adventure,you are literally handcuffed and expected to be lady like following patriarchal rules.
Sadly the society i live in doesn’t view single people from a positive angle.I am indirectly facing backlash for not rushing to do what other women are doing-getting hitched.Well,why on earth i have to follow what others want.It’s my choice,my decision.Just because my parents are aging and i am getting old doesn’t mean marriage will solve all my life’s problems,should never be the end goal.
Not against marriage but i feel it’s not meant for all.
I feel less alone now,Cynthia is a progressive thinker and i loved how she’s being unapologetically HER in the interview.
YESSSS.
God this was horrible to listen to due to the host.
What year was this??
What year was this wow
This host is a die-hard pick-me.
Yes!!!! Wonder how long it took for her to get a divorce lol
Pick me are dangerous same ones who traffic kids too. I've been thru it luckily they husbands snuff em and we don't got deal w it no more
Exactly!
Most women marry for resources and security.
And if she's lucky,he'll die, and she can really get it that .
And what about you men? Do tell...
That was what my mother assumed. Even if I had married , I would never accept a single dollar from the guy. I don't see that as fair. I see that as a price paid for a hooker.
Societies that are more egalitarian/matriarchal and give women power have very low marriage rates among women.
@@mjohnson1741 women need food water shelter. NONE of these include male presense! Segregation of resources make the male seem appealing over starving...
I totally agree with this. This is a true choice. I choice to abort a baby by men or women is a not so good choice, and that seems to be up to individuals. Marriage however is not necessarily for everybody. Ignore societal pressure when it comes to marriage.
❤❤❤
I think women marry to have a wedding.
Many offer their 'boyfriends' the option of going to the courthouse.
And men don't want to marry because they like to put it about and couldn'tbe loyal if their life depended on it. Your type in particular like polygamy. No thanks.
😂😂😂
My mother was the push person for a wedding. I never wanted to marry and I never did.
@@phoenixtoash2396This is why I love ❤️ my mother and father. I told them I never wanted to get married. They both didn't care at all even though they were married. It's a beautiful thing to come from tradition and not indoctrination.