how to MAKE FRIENDS EASILY *from an introvert* ( healthy friendships, red flags + more )

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
  • i'm here to give you all the tips & tricks you need, to making your DREAM FRIENDS as well as the green + red flags to look out for, how to maintain these friendships, where you can make friends and so much more!!
    so grab a cup of your favourite drink and let's talk about all things friends ( friendship 101 lol )
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    chapters:
    0:00 so you want to make friends huh
    1:40 it all starts with YOU
    2:07 evaluate your inner circle
    3:55 friendship trauma ( and how to get over it )
    6:03 green flags in friends
    9:20 red flags to look out for
    11:50 different types of friends
    13:05 how to make friends 101
    19:14 maintaining your friendships
    22:20 carrying a conversation
    24:53 the most important tip
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    how to make friends, how to make your dream friends, healthy friends, girl friendships, toxic friends, red flags, green flags, how to carry a conversation, how to talk to people, how to make friends as an introvert, becoming a better you, becoming the best version of yourself, friendships,

Комментарии • 53

  • @saeshell
    @saeshell  4 месяца назад +20

    HOPE U ENJOY THIS WEEKS VIDEO BEANS 🤍
    should i do an advice hotline series on my channel? 👀

    • @gerwinthetiel8878
      @gerwinthetiel8878 4 месяца назад +1

      YESS!! I really enjoyed the other ones and more would be so cool

    • @dreaminrebecca
      @dreaminrebecca 4 месяца назад +1

      yes yes yes

  • @Seolhwaneul
    @Seolhwaneul 4 месяца назад +24

    The way I’m over the moon bc you actually made our suggestion a video aaah ❤❤❤ luv u Shelly 💕

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад

      of course!! i've been meaning to make a friendship video for awhile now & you motivated me 🤍🤍

  • @gerwinthetiel8878
    @gerwinthetiel8878 4 месяца назад +13

    advice hotline sounds like a great idea I would love that!!!!
    edit: when I saw emma come in was bittersweet on the 25th with be a year since my little tiel passed!! my best friend I miss my little Gershy so much

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад +2

      i think it would be so so fun!
      i'm so sorry to hear about your little gershy, that breaks my heart so much

  • @emberk39
    @emberk39 4 месяца назад +12

    Ok, I was literally journaling this last week about what friendship meant for my life and also how to get out and make more friends. And then you post this ? Ahhhhmazing. I’m an extrovert with lots of friendship trauma that I’ve spent the last few years unpacking , so I think I’m going to take a lot of these points and run with them (besides that I deleted all my socials 😆). I think my number one to work on is complimenting others.

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад +1

      great minds think alike! i'm so happy you enjoyed this video 🫶🏼 i believe your new besties will find you this year, you've got this!!

  • @dreaminrebecca
    @dreaminrebecca 4 месяца назад +11

    hiiii shelly i loved this video - as an introvert this helped alot

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад +1

      this makes me so happy i could help out! you've got this 🫶🏼
      ( you've also made my day omg pls !! )

  • @days_of_rose
    @days_of_rose 4 месяца назад +9

    Lovely video, perfect timing 🌷Love the idea of an advice hotline !!! After this video, I would love some tips on how to get out of bad friendships - I avoid confrontation as the thought of people not liking me makes me anxious.

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад

      thankyou so so much! i think an advice hotline is a must hehe
      confrontation is always so scary, it's never easy but one thing i like to think of is: it's better to be alone than to be in the wrong company.
      if they are bad and you know that, just distancing yourself and cutting them off is enough to close the door & find your new besties :) x

  • @fionaann247
    @fionaann247 4 месяца назад +7

    Queen Shelly is back everyone
    Love you Shelly ❤❤

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад +1

      love you so so much 🤍

  • @Teganwinters1
    @Teganwinters1 4 месяца назад +1

    Being 25 everything you have said in this video is exactly how it feels and what iv gone through learning about friendships the past couple of years.

  • @xoxo_maya23
    @xoxo_maya23 4 месяца назад +3

    Hi Shelly!! I found your channel from insta threads and that was the best decision I’ve made this year! I’ve been having a hard time making friends cause people leave me out of things and I have a hard time making myself get noticed by others but I hope this video helps! Thank you for uploading this ❤❤

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад +1

      oh my gosh i didn't think anybody would be here from threads, you're so special to me 🥹🤍
      you're so amazing & i'm so happy i could help out ( hopefully )

  • @hollygraceyt
    @hollygraceyt 4 месяца назад

    i’m so madddd i didn’t discover your channel earlier!!! this video helped me so so so much i’m currently in year ten and i’ve moved schools a lot throughtout school and i just feel like i’ve never found my people yk especially in high school everyone gossips and i don’t want to! because that’s low vibe behaviour so i do feel lonely sometimes 😭but imma implement your tips and join some sort of class and just meet more people more friends thank you so sosososo much seriously beacseu your also australian you feel like a big sisterrrr🤣keep doing this seriously i value your content so so so much ❤

  • @mimibeaar
    @mimibeaar 4 месяца назад

    This video found me right when I needed it!! 🥺💕

  • @avaxaaj
    @avaxaaj 5 дней назад

    THANK YOU SM… ISTG THIS WILL HELP ME A LOT.

  • @m.lavenders
    @m.lavenders Месяц назад

    this is so helpful, tysm

  • @Sponggybobbie
    @Sponggybobbie 4 месяца назад +3

    Yess! Thanks for the vid I’ve been needing to make new friends

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад

      so happy i can help!! :)

  • @aimeemckillop224
    @aimeemckillop224 4 месяца назад +4

    And that is why Emma is a bestie she has all the green flags 💚

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад

      you're talking about emma my bird right 👀 becuase she's the biggest green flag ever yess

    • @aimeemckillop224
      @aimeemckillop224 4 месяца назад

      @@saeshell yess I love your birds in videos so cute! I love animals I have my dog as my best friend

  • @beanieboos321
    @beanieboos321 4 месяца назад

    such a helpful video thank you!! 😊

  • @alessia_117
    @alessia_117 4 месяца назад +5

    loved the video shelly 🤍 ur literally one of my fav youtubers!!

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад +1

      sobbing fr
      you're the sweetest, thankyou 🥹

  • @SunshineShaye
    @SunshineShaye 4 месяца назад +3

    Need me a friend group that actually wants to go out 😂

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад

      you'll find them!! keep on looking 🫶🏼

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 4 месяца назад +3

    Hi Saeshell happy Sunday night and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter

  • @DANCEFOR3VER
    @DANCEFOR3VER 4 месяца назад +2

    THE QUEEN HAS POSTED!! 🤍🤍

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад

      YES HELLOO 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @victoriavillarreal5211
    @victoriavillarreal5211 13 дней назад

    It’s so hard to make friends as a adult. I have 0 friends today because I finish school early and I didn’t tell anyone at the time when I left because I was in my own little teenage world. Now it’s hard for me

  • @ItS_bAiLeE_DeBoRaH
    @ItS_bAiLeE_DeBoRaH 4 месяца назад

    You should make a podcast with stuff like this.❤❤

  • @luvruru
    @luvruru 20 дней назад

    i have so many experiences with fake friends and people that one day just decided to ghost me.. (and im guilt of doing this with other "friends" as well....)
    today i totally understand why some of them left me, but others... im still thinking about it..
    now, i have one of my best friends (my boyfie❤)
    but he also have friendships that he can trust and talk about his passions without fear of being judge...
    the problem is. i cant do that with my trio... they do not have the same valoues as mine. and i feel so sad that i cant talk with them abt my religion, my thoughts, my opinions... bc they would probably scream at me and say that i totally wrong.
    i moved to a new school with them. and now i dont know what to do but stay with this same trio. i really want to find new friends and people that also think the same as me (not 100% obviously).
    i just dont know how. im shy and i hate that.

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  16 дней назад +1

      you will find your people, just give it time

  • @Annagartland-fr4im
    @Annagartland-fr4im 22 дня назад

    Omg thank u cus I’ve been wondering if my friend was true and she had no green flags and all the red flags no joke

  • @grwmglow
    @grwmglow 4 месяца назад +3

    Second ❤

  • @stephaniewatt2781
    @stephaniewatt2781 4 месяца назад

    Please do the advice hotline❤love from South Africa xxx

  • @Silvazul
    @Silvazul Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @vijayatripathi9124
    @vijayatripathi9124 4 месяца назад +4

    First

  • @zombieslammer9947
    @zombieslammer9947 4 месяца назад

    MOAR COCKITAIL VID S NOW CHOP CHOP GIRLY POp

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад

      not with that attitude pls

  • @siarha70
    @siarha70 4 месяца назад

    shit am i the problem?

    • @saeshell
      @saeshell  4 месяца назад +1

      the first step to improvement is self awareness 🥹

  • @person-sx5ki
    @person-sx5ki 4 месяца назад +1

    🤍🤍🤍

  • @latisheira
    @latisheira 3 месяца назад

    im never manage to get thru over half of ur videos without wanting, NEEDINg, to like share subscribe repost reblog retweet your video!!!! 🤍

  • @Annagartland-fr4im
    @Annagartland-fr4im 22 дня назад

    Omg thank u cus I’ve been wondering if my friend was true and she had no green flags and all the red flags no joke

  • @Annagartland-fr4im
    @Annagartland-fr4im 22 дня назад

    Omg thank u cus I’ve been wondering if my friend was true and she had no green flags and all the red flags no joke

  • @Annagartland-fr4im
    @Annagartland-fr4im 22 дня назад

    Omg thank u cus I’ve been wondering if my friend was true and she had no green flags and all the red flags no joke