Rediscovering sex after a dry spell | Lisa Opel | TEDxFrankfurt

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  • Опубликовано: 20 мар 2024
  • Are you finding that pleasure has slipped down your list of priorities? Have you ever not wanted sex and wondered if that’s normal? Or considered how motherhood reshapes sexual identity? In her raw, honest, funny, and emotional TEDx talk, Lisa Opel, an acclaimed multilingual author, confronts these nuanced and often taboo themes head-on. Lisa's voice resonates across the spectrum of sexual discourse.
    Lisa Opel, a multilingual author born in Germany, raised in Portugal, and educated in England, has revolutionised the world of literature with her captivating erotic works. Combining light-heartedness, education, and taboo exploration, Lisa's writing rekindles passion and encourages open dialogue. Her diverse background, from working in offices to factories and a fetish shop, has provided her with profound insights into human desire. Featured on esteemed platforms such as WDR, Spiegel Online, SIXX, and global podcasts, Lisa aims to introduce a new genre of literature to unassuming audiences. Additionally, she serves as a strong advocate for struggling mothers, helping them navigate personal transformation.
    Lisa challenges societal norms, encouraging a deeper understanding of long-term relationships and inspiring individuals to embrace their desires. Join Lisa Opel as she unlocks the power of love through her transformative words! This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 76

  • @mariyagrinina739
    @mariyagrinina739 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you Lisa for such a vulnerable and important sharing!

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 25 дней назад +1

    This was actually really insightful . I love how she touched on while there may be physical barriers , a lot of it is mental .

  • @pleasepinchmehard
    @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +42

    It was such a pleasure being on that stage and sharing my story. Thank you, TEDx Frankfurt!

    • @winstontorr
      @winstontorr Месяц назад +3

      this is awesome lisa! absolutely wonderful talk! so proud of you!❤❤❤

    • @ms.ajones7168
      @ms.ajones7168 Месяц назад +2

      🙌🏾 I really enjoyed this! And will definitely implement what u shared🤎🤎 thank u!

    • @Tykadesor
      @Tykadesor Месяц назад +2

      Hey Lisa, thank you for sharing that on stage, I hope it gets the echo that it deserves.
      PS : Can I get the references of your skirt, it looks so amazing !

    • @arrow0seb
      @arrow0seb Месяц назад +1

      ​@@TykadesorYeah that skirt is wild! So cool

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +1

      @@Tykadesor this fabulous skirt is by Marina Hoermanseder ❤

  • @lananhle9200
    @lananhle9200 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you TEDx talks ❤🎉

  • @telviselvis1378
    @telviselvis1378 Месяц назад +2

    Love this ! You are so much fun to watch. ❤️

  • @friederikegalland988
    @friederikegalland988 Месяц назад +11

    Finally! Dear Lisa, your TED Talk is marvellous. I hope it gets the attention it deserves, and the topic needs.

  • @carlabanc6254
    @carlabanc6254 Месяц назад +2

    Amazing work and what an important topic for all!😍

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words and, more importantly, for providing a platform where important conversations like this can be held. Your dedication to spreading awareness on a wide range of topics is truly inspiring. I'm grateful for the opportunity to contribute to such a meaningful dialogue. Thank you for enabling this discussion and for your amazing work in bringing these talks to life! 😍

    • @carlabanc6254
      @carlabanc6254 Месяц назад +1

      @@pleasepinchmehardGlad you apply back in the days! To proud of you!

  • @CarniNeen
    @CarniNeen Месяц назад +4

    Been through a few ‘droughts’ myself …got a lot out of this talk. Thank you!!! From a ‘post menopausal’ 56 year old ☺️ 🇦🇺

  • @aestheterisa
    @aestheterisa Месяц назад +5

    Amazing talk! Great Job to Lisa and TEDxFrankfurt!🥳💫🥂

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      Thank you so much! It was an incredible experience to collaborate with TEDxFrankfurt. I'm thrilled to hear you enjoyed the talk. Your kind words and celebration mean a lot to me. Here's to more inspiring conversations! 🥳💫🥂

  • @naimulIslam503
    @naimulIslam503 Месяц назад +3

    Great speech. I loved it thoroughly.

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much! I'm thrilled to hear you enjoyed the speech. It means a lot to me to have such positive feedback. Your support encourages me to keep exploring and sharing. Thanks again!

  • @shameemaabdulazeez5165
    @shameemaabdulazeez5165 Месяц назад +3

    Wow! Amazing Talk! ❤

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      Thank you immensely! I'm so glad you found the talk amazing. Your enthusiasm and support mean the world to me. ❤

  • @kellyrosegreene1698
    @kellyrosegreene1698 Месяц назад +3

    i need this video thank you

  • @robertnobles8189
    @robertnobles8189 Месяц назад

    The premise is that the thoughts in her head ABOUT what other people were thinking is correct. I can’t place my confidence in the premise.

  • @vampireteddygram720
    @vampireteddygram720 Месяц назад +1

    I feel like that audience may not have been ready for that level of enthusiasm! xD This is just not what I think of when I think of a TedTalk.

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! True, tastes vary, but the live audience that day was really into it, showing lots of fabulous reactions. We edited down for time, but the enthusiasm was through the roof.

  • @nicolescott89
    @nicolescott89 Месяц назад +3

    Such a good talk. Intimacy is so important ❤

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      Absolutely, and thank you for recognizing that! Intimacy is indeed vital, and I'm so glad the talk resonated with you on this important aspect. Your support and understanding truly warm my heart. ❤

  • @mitsunam7001
    @mitsunam7001 Месяц назад +4

    Great video!! 💗💐👍

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      Thank you so much 🖤 I have so many people to thank for it!

  • @BrezzaLover
    @BrezzaLover Месяц назад +4

    Great video busting modern stero types

  • @user-fc8nq5sj2h
    @user-fc8nq5sj2h Месяц назад +2

    Perfect 🎉

  • @mohamedananyelhadymorad6151
    @mohamedananyelhadymorad6151 Месяц назад +6

    Just like all of us.... To Do.

  • @tareqkhtatbeh7486
    @tareqkhtatbeh7486 Месяц назад +3

    sooooooo❤❤❤

  • @runw1ththehunted
    @runw1ththehunted Месяц назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @ali123mari
    @ali123mari Месяц назад +3

    .

  • @MariaFalconRojas
    @MariaFalconRojas Месяц назад +6

    0:08

  • @dongivafoc4493
    @dongivafoc4493 Месяц назад +14

    All this BS has become so theatrical it's hard to focus with the overexageration

    • @sherylheidecker9025
      @sherylheidecker9025 Месяц назад

      I sort of agree.

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      Appreciate your take! Aimed for a bit of theater to keep things spicy-after all, who doesn't love a dash of drama?

  • @cringecorps
    @cringecorps Месяц назад +1

    Kingcobrajfs

  • @Thechristianrapper530
    @Thechristianrapper530 Месяц назад +1

    Lol

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      Glad to add a bit of humor to your day! Thanks for watching and sharing a laugh. 😄

  • @innerlocus
    @innerlocus Месяц назад

    Lost libido is like hair loss, thank god.

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +1

      Quite the comparison! Just like with hair, there are always ways to embrace change or find creative solutions. Thanks for sparking an interesting analogy!

  • @Dr_LK
    @Dr_LK Месяц назад +1

    Sheesh they’ll make a talk out of everything these days...

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +1

      Absolutely, it's quite the era we live in-there's a talk for every curiosity under the sun!

  • @AaronHalliday
    @AaronHalliday Месяц назад +1

    The moral of the story (as of 1:52): "Don't have kids."

    • @friederikegalland988
      @friederikegalland988 Месяц назад +2

      Just do not forget yourself while taking care of them.

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +1

      Appreciate the takeaway, but the deeper message is about embracing life's complexities, including parenthood. It's about finding joy and growth in all experiences. Thanks for watching!

  • @daiyaanhasan2235
    @daiyaanhasan2235 Месяц назад +10

    oh my days..
    how far have Ted Talks fallen

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      aww, how come?

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад

      It's true that deeply-rooted beliefs can shape our views on various topics, leading to a rich tapestry of opinions and feelings. Recognizing and respecting these differences is key to understanding each other better. @@hyperadapted

  • @oceandizzle7
    @oceandizzle7 Месяц назад +3

    Damn... this reads like poetry. 🫂❤

    • @friederikegalland988
      @friederikegalland988 Месяц назад +2

      it better - that talk was prepared in depth. And Lisa is a writer. Thanks. Delighted you like it.

    • @pleasepinchmehard
      @pleasepinchmehard Месяц назад +2

      Thank you so much! I'm thrilled to hear that it resonated with you like poetry. Connecting through words and sharing these experiences is truly special. Your support means a lot! 🌟❤

  • @isabelcathrink
    @isabelcathrink Месяц назад +3

    💕💕💕💕💕