Clearly ancient tribes created it as a way to keep down jealous male murders. The U.S. has a huge number of three-way love triangle murders even today. It must have been massive in the earliest sapien days. Interestingly, Thais overwhelmingly never registered their marriages with any government until the White man's ways arrived with the Vietnam war.
"You don't own me" is not something a Thai woman would say. Face works both ways and to say out loud that a husband has no authority is a major red flag. Amazing that this guy was smart enough to get a lawyer to protect himself from Thai divorce laws!! Interracial marriage requires tenderness and awareness, but at the end of the day as Thai's are deed based you will know every single day if she is acting properly.
Seriously ? If he has brains, I'd hate to see the rest of them. He got "married" for starters. Then he says "in the end I'm so glad I made the right decisions" LOL. Then he says "It didn't cost me a penny, but I had to give her 100,000 baht". LOL. LOL. Yeah, he has heaps of brains. LOL. I'd say she's the one with the brains.
Nobody EVER learns from other people's experiences. Unfortunately. Unfortunately, people think their girls are different. They are hiveminded. They aren't thinking differently.
Be interested to know the age difference? She wanted to go out partying, he didnt maybe? When dating in Thailand, and any country for that matter, you should always be asking lots of questions first to make sure your lifestyles are compatible. If a girl wants to drink beer every day, I tell her theres lots of foreigners that like to drink beer everyday so go find one. As far as the money goes, not sure about "my money my rules". If your going to "take care" of a woman, any woman in any country, they of course shes going to want to spend money on things she likes. It could be partying, make up, her children etc etc. Explain your monthly living budget, take care of the bills and food etc etc, give her whatever you have both agreed on per week or month and don't ask her once what shes spending it on. The woman needs some pride and not to come crawling like a dog asking for money or explaining what shes spending it on.
For the prenup ( i ve looked into it a little bit), in thailand it is a contract that you need to register upon the registration of ur marriage. I think post-ups are not binding in this country. If there s a prenup upon divorce, this contract will be used to help with division of asset etc. I am a thai woman dating a foreigner, and if i were to get married, my partner and i will be signing one. Opportunistic relationships go both ways. I think it s very wise to protect oneself. Marriage is not only about love, but it is a legal partnership between two people. I dont know how all the foreign men marrying thai woman do without the legal safety. Because without this contract how could i ever be sure he s here for me and not the comfort and financial security i can provide.
IMO, don't get married, live in partner is enough, don't let anyone have access to your money, or even know how much money you have. Anything more, is a deal breaker, like sinsod or becoming an ATM. It is hard, but cut your losses early. Always be prepared for the long game, cause they are. Most important look for someone with a stablished career. This eliminates so many issues. Doesn't need to be a Doctor or a lawyer, as an example, a nurse, dental assistant, office worker with years of stable work for a company. Look at her resume, like you are hiring for a job. Obviously, not asking for it, but rather finding out little by little. Not a guarantee, but beats the hell of "my bar girl is different"
Been going to thailand for 14 years still makes me laugh seeing these people think they have found there dream girl we are nothing but tellar machines to 99% of them have fun with them and go home neal didn't protect him self he got fleeced before they broke up could off had a lot more fun being single instead of being conned end of story lol
There really has been a lot of development on Lad Phro Road. Used to live there around 2004. Had a total mental map of what the place looked like, totally different know.
You keep emphasising there is a lot of success with relationships in Thailand but if you look at the stats with foreign/ Thai marriages or relationships the odds are nearly none of success please have a look it’s not being negative it’s unfortunately the facts ! Protect urselves men please
Cut the money off. Once she don't behave she gets no money to spend. shes gets food and her room thats it. If she don;t behave after that she gets to leave the house.
It's not necessarily the channels but these IDIOTS controlling RUclips who would allow violence and sex to be viewed by children but God Forbid if the READ something sensible on Boobtube Class Action Lawsuit
Finding a GOOD and affordable lawyer in Thailand (or most anywhere)......might just be the "first problem". My two divorces were ammicable w/o a pre-nup. But the two women that I was married to were "somewhat reasonable". And, for the record......there were no kids with either of them. My son. That's another story. But wiith the second wife? Well, I kept that marriage short and bailed within 5 years. I was kind of late to notice the "red flags". Though it appears that Neil got the same sort of treatment as I did. No respect and claims of being "controlling". Really? Is it too much to ask for a bit of respect and that she come home at a "reeasonable time"? Well, what time is that? A : Certainly not, when it's consistently......at about 0200-0400 when it's suppose to be a "Girls Night Out". Or with the response of the claims that, "You are being CONTROLLING, I don't have to tell you everything". Then add, that it appears that you're no longer spending any quality time together. Yeah....EJECT!!! EJECT!!!! EJECT!!! IMHO......just Stay Single. And, be READY to walk when the conditions no longer suit YOU. Unless you're planning to have babies. But then........ THAT......is another story (for another time).
Omg finally someone who thinks with his head and not blinded by the fantasy !!! Who ever you are hats off to you sir ! Maximum respect !
A foreigner who didn't become dizzy with snatch. Very rare.
@@rvajna 👍😀
The smell is enough to make one dizzy 🦨 🐟
Really ? I'd say that's exactly what happened.
I cannot see any reason for getting married.
@@wayneparkes1350 😀
it may be necessary for "face" but i get what you are saying
Clearly ancient tribes created it as a way to keep down jealous male murders. The U.S. has a huge number of three-way love triangle murders even today. It must have been massive in the earliest sapien days. Interestingly, Thais overwhelmingly never registered their marriages with any government until the White man's ways arrived with the Vietnam war.
And YOU my friend are they only sensible person on this page.
NO. You just don't ever entertain the thought right from the very first day !!!!
A known devil is better than an unknown saint.
"You don't own me" is not something a Thai woman would say. Face works both ways and to say out loud that a husband has no authority is a major red flag. Amazing that this guy was smart enough to get a lawyer to protect himself from Thai divorce laws!! Interracial marriage requires tenderness and awareness, but at the end of the day as Thai's are deed based you will know every single day if she is acting properly.
Thais never gave one whit about farang face that I saw. It worked only one way.
Finally an expat with brains.
@@billyjohnson9166 yep!
Seriously ? If he has brains, I'd hate to see the rest of them. He got "married" for starters. Then he says "in the end I'm so glad I made the right decisions" LOL. Then he says "It didn't cost me a penny, but I had to give her 100,000 baht". LOL. LOL. Yeah, he has heaps of brains. LOL. I'd say she's the one with the brains.
@@jessemrk 100,000 bhat is nothing to most successful men. I realize for some you included that’s a lot of money.
Nobody EVER learns from other people's experiences. Unfortunately.
Unfortunately, people think their girls are different.
They are hiveminded. They aren't thinking differently.
Your girl will be different if you didn't get her from the bar or just a tourist location in general.
Be interested to know the age difference? She wanted to go out partying, he didnt maybe? When dating in Thailand, and any country for that matter, you should always be asking lots of questions first to make sure your lifestyles are compatible. If a girl wants to drink beer every day, I tell her theres lots of foreigners that like to drink beer everyday so go find one. As far as the money goes, not sure about "my money my rules". If your going to "take care" of a woman, any woman in any country, they of course shes going to want to spend money on things she likes. It could be partying, make up, her children etc etc. Explain your monthly living budget, take care of the bills and food etc etc, give her whatever you have both agreed on per week or month and don't ask her once what shes spending it on. The woman needs some pride and not to come crawling like a dog asking for money or explaining what shes spending it on.
soon as the money is spent red flag
For the prenup ( i ve looked into it a little bit), in thailand it is a contract that you need to register upon the registration of ur marriage. I think post-ups are not binding in this country. If there s a prenup upon divorce, this contract will be used to help with division of asset etc. I am a thai woman dating a foreigner, and if i were to get married, my partner and i will be signing one.
Opportunistic relationships go both ways. I think it s very wise to protect oneself. Marriage is not only about love, but it is a legal partnership between two people. I dont know how all the foreign men marrying thai woman do without the legal safety. Because without this contract how could i ever be sure he s here for me and not the comfort and financial security i can provide.
Good on him 😊
IMO, don't get married, live in partner is enough, don't let anyone have access to your money, or even know how much money you have. Anything more, is a deal breaker, like sinsod or becoming an ATM. It is hard, but cut your losses early. Always be prepared for the long game, cause they are. Most important look for someone with a stablished career. This eliminates so many issues. Doesn't need to be a Doctor or a lawyer, as an example, a nurse, dental assistant, office worker with years of stable work for a company. Look at her resume, like you are hiring for a job. Obviously, not asking for it, but rather finding out little by little. Not a guarantee, but beats the hell of "my bar girl is different"
Nicely done! Don't understand why one would get married in retirement to begin with but at least you covered yourself pretty well.
Been going to thailand for 14 years still makes me laugh seeing these people think they have found there dream girl we are nothing but tellar machines to 99% of them have fun with them and go home neal didn't protect him self he got fleeced before they broke up could off had a lot more fun being single instead of being conned end of story lol
Neil ain't ever getting married again if he has any sense
There really has been a lot of development on Lad Phro Road. Used to live there around 2004. Had a total mental map of what the place looked like, totally different know.
Yep good street for a walk :) To confirm this is Loi Khro in Chiang Mai, not Lad Phrao in Bangkok :)
@@talksofthailand right Lad Khro is what i was talking about. do you know if the thc roof top bar is still around?
Not sure about that place tbh
You keep emphasising there is a lot of success with relationships in Thailand but if you look at the stats with foreign/ Thai marriages or relationships the odds are nearly none of success please have a look it’s not being negative it’s unfortunately the facts ! Protect urselves men please
Cut the money off. Once she don't behave she gets no money to spend. shes gets food and her room thats it. If she don;t behave after that she gets to leave the house.
🤣🤣🤣 This dude 🤣🤣🤣
@@tonyfuller8717 😂
As my comments have recently disappeared, I am unsubscribing and spreading the word. We only support channels that respect and practice free speech.
@@davidb2206 cool but I don’t delete any comments, RUclips blocks many!
@@talksofthailandwhere is this video filmed please?
@@dannywilcox8744 Loi Khro road
It's not necessarily the channels but these IDIOTS controlling RUclips who would allow violence and sex to be viewed by children but God Forbid if the READ something sensible on Boobtube Class Action Lawsuit
@@talksofthailand Doesn't make sense. Who is afraid of the rest of the story with my ex-wife. I was on a roll. I wrote it all, honest, pain and all.
Finding a GOOD and affordable lawyer in Thailand (or most anywhere)......might just be the "first problem". My two divorces were ammicable w/o a pre-nup. But the two women that I was married to were "somewhat reasonable". And, for the record......there were no kids with either of them.
My son. That's another story.
But wiith the second wife? Well, I kept that marriage short and bailed within 5 years. I was kind of late to notice the "red flags". Though it appears that Neil got the same sort of treatment as I did.
No respect and claims of being "controlling". Really? Is it too much to ask for a bit of respect and that she come home at a "reeasonable time"? Well, what time is that? A : Certainly not, when it's consistently......at about 0200-0400 when it's suppose to be a "Girls Night Out". Or with the response of the claims that, "You are being CONTROLLING, I don't have to tell you everything". Then add, that it appears that you're no longer spending any quality time together. Yeah....EJECT!!! EJECT!!!! EJECT!!!
IMHO......just Stay Single. And, be READY to walk when the conditions no longer suit YOU. Unless you're planning to have babies. But then........ THAT......is another story (for another time).