Utterly ridiculous that she can’t show her face and voice her opinions because someone might kill her. If your faith and religion cannot stand up to genuine scrutiny or questioning then what good is it?
I've been following ex-muslims for a few years (due to wanting to understand why Isis was so brutal.) I am appalled at what they go through for leaving their religion. Nothing happened to me when I left Catholicism. I think everyone should have this basic freedom. I'm so glad ex-muslims and other people who have left their faith are connecting. It's lovely to see the mutual support ❤
As an ex-Muslim, I thank you so much for supporting us and taking the time to listen to us 🙏🥹 Not many ex-Christians are as open-minded and curious as you. But maybe ex-Catholics and ex-Christians are different? I’ve gathered that Catholicism is its own thing, despite being a type of Catholicism.
@@winxclubstellamusa@winxclubstellamusa Catholicism is quite different from Protestantism, which is the dominant sect of Christianity in the U.S. It's more like protestants are different ones; Orthodox and Catholics are very similar. They separated due to a difference in understanding of the pope with Catholics stating it was an authoritative position while Orthodox stated it was a position of the highest honor/respect but nothing to due with being able to authorize things.
The original Christians came from churches now called, Catholic, Orthodox , Coptic and other names. Five hundred years ago the protestant reformation occurred. Their leaders changed some basic things, rearranged the new testament of the bible and turned against the Catholic way of doing things. Since then many groups have started up and there are hundreds of protestant groups who all think their interpretations are the best. Catholic Christians make up the largest group of Christians.
@@winxclubstellamusaAll three (Catholicism, Orthodoxy, and Protestantism) are forms of Christianity, though fundamentalists in each sometimes like to trash each other and claim the others are not. Others of us see all three as meeting the basic criteria of the Nicene Creed, and therefore being valid forms of Christianity.
@@winxclubstellamusa I am kind of ex- christian married to ex-muslim. We are out there. Many dont comment and many I suppose are afraid of political correctness and stay silent for that reason I am sure.
@cynthiac.castellano5139 I only learned about it from ex-Muslim and atheist channels. There's some hadith about Mohammad not liking dogs, ordering all dogs be killed, and then later revoking that order... and I think something about angels never entering a house that has a black dog. An ex-Muslim could explain it all a lot better than me.
Agreed !! When you see the love and devotion of a dog to a human - not even talking about service and rescue dogs !! - you know the religion by the desert warlord is not passed down from a god that would have also created this miraculous animal !
I think you might have a bias and some misinformation. Dogs are not haram in Islam. They’re allowed. They are fiercely loyal animals. In Islam we are not taught to hate any animal because they are all creations of God. Their spit is considered unclean so you can’t pray after you have touched their saliva or in a place their saliva has been. But you can wash your hands and go about your day. There’s no reason to hate on dogs and Muslims should and do not. It’s just an issue of uncleanliness. They are definitely allowed and encouraged for safety reasons. We should remember not to conflate how people practice a religion (because people are infallible) and what the religion actually teaches.
@@muil9087 Why you people lie so much ? There is reference to kill dogs and then that criminal perpit changed to black dogs . That cult book is curse on this earth
Her parents care more about their reputation and staying in their toxic, nosy, gossiping community than they do about her. She's better off without them. A "community" like that is no community at all.
@@cuteladybug8622 I would say to the parents, if you want to go to hell then go to hell alone! I don’t have to follow you in your madness. Seriously, they openly follow a madman who preach that go will send everyone to hell even infants. What kind of demonic religion is that? Islam is already a shameful religion which is why muslims don’t proselytize, it’s to hard to sell, unless you are good at lying and making stuff up. So i don’t know why disowning daughters is a thing in that religion, it should be the contrary, you find your dignity by leaving a cult that is insulting whether you’re a woman or a black woman or just a black person.
This is literally how Islam started. The first generation of Muslims started to leave Islam after Muhammad died but they were threatened by the companions into staying. Nearly every Islamic country was coerced into the religion
Your story mirrors mine in so many ways. Except only my father is Muslim. You reach a certain age and suddenly you need to cover up and be surveilled. I used to keep a sweatshirt in my car to cover up despite living in Texas. I had to lie about meeting up with my friends bc God forbid a boy might be there. I feel less alone in my experience hearing your story. Thank you so much for being brave and sharing. And thank you Shelise for creating and maintaining this beautiful platform.
There are a huge amounts of Muslims asking the right questions only for them to be shut down and censored. When a Muslim person disapproves with certain things they're not Muslim anymore. Islam doesn't change nor adapt to certain environments as it has kept the way it was from the 7 century! Islam is fundamentally dangerous especially to women and girls! You need to ask yourself do you want to keep living as you're or keep hiding. It's down to you, 😏!
@@cjane_world muslims have as greatest celebration the sacrifice of Abraham (generally they perceive all cruel acts as role models) deep thinking is forbidden, so learn to admire acts they should be ashamed of...the manipulative mo with the salad he presents as divine guidance ! manages to turn many parents into monsters even now ...
@@amAntidisestablishmentarianist Quran in verse 4:34 allows wife-beating, in verse 98:6 calls Christians and Jews "the worst of creatures", and in 4:24 permits raping sex-slaves. One has to kill his/her conscience to not leave these truths.
I can't believe I just sat here and heard this amazing person say that she doesn't understand why people listen to her and why she has a voice that people want to hear. But then during the Linda listen I'm sitting here getting Goosebumps and getting emotional because her words are so powerful that my body is having a physical reaction
your work is so greatly appreciated and NEEDED out here. as an adult searching for answers, infidel noodle was one of the first ex muslim creators i came across when i was looking for answers which ended up in my leaving the warped version of Islam my mom pushed on us. keep up the good work you’re the best ✨
Leaving comments can be due to two reasons: 1) they are afraid of your comment 2) your comment is bullshit 😅 How did you confirm the former and dismiss the latter exactly?
You should put this on a T-shirt: “No you’re not a terrible sinner, you just have critical thinking skills.” I’m not sure if that was exactly it or not, but it was a great statement!
I am so sorry that your family have treated you this way. If you were my daughter, I would be incredibly proud and supportive of you. My mom was a midwife who attended birthing mothers in District Six in the late 1950's. Assisting Cape Malay Mohammedan moms, families, neighbours and community was the happiest time of her life. She has so many amazing stories of that time - I'm happy to share them with you if you want a different slant on your family history. As anti-apartheid activists, we had to flee the country "on a holiday" & eventually ended up in Aus. Bless you, beautiful, brave, independent, compassionate woman. The world needs more young people like you!!! ❤ from Tasmania ❤
@emeraldheart415 You should read Qur'an and then only you will realise how bad it is. Same with old testament and Tora. It is internet age. Anything can be easily searched and ignorance is not an excuse.
@@diaryofnricom163 to remind you that in the OT actions have consequences , prophets are work in progress, the protagonists are NOT people whose actions we must imitate, as they do not know how to love, starting with Adam and Eve who are unable to defend each other as soon as they feel fear,.,so does David in love with a married woman, Saul who is punished for obeying then vengeful priest ...you need the love lens of Jesus to understand the Hebrew texts, wisdom of Budda for Hinduism, logic and curiosity of Socrates to connect the conclusions .
As a neurodivergent, masking outside the home is completely exhausting. I cannot imagine having to do so within my own home, for years on end. Your strength is otherworldly. ❤
You are so brave, Aisha. Thank you for sharing. I am so glad that you are in Australia where I am sure you get some protection against the religious nut jobs that are everywhere. It might seem harsh to be thankful that your parents only disowned you, when even here in Canada (somewhat similar to Australia), we hear about “honour killings “ of rebellious daughters. Stay safe and keep on speaking out. You are doing a good thing.
It will be a great world when honor killings are no longer an issue and women no longer pray or blamed for males actions....but they are the strong ones....they donate to making life we make it 😊
The thing her mother said, that they never will be proud of her, until she wears jihab, its so sad. My children dont have to do anything and I love them, no matter what, and Im proud if them.
Many Muslim parents still thinks like that, you know. If not majority. Although I've seen some are quite liberal. Either way, wearing hijab with heavy makeups and strong perfumes is just shows their hypocrisy.
This is my new favorite channel, I love to see how people overcome the difficult and controlling aspects of their lives. empowerment is truly so powerful.
November is Islamophobia Awareness Month, but this video perfectly illustrates why many people, myself included, have legitimate and justified criticism and dislike of Islam. It's not always down to ignorance and bigotry.
The strength this woman shows I can't image leaving family and going on to be so amazing your family is missing out on the great things you have done and will do we are all so proud of all your accomplishments ❤
I have such love for here! I adopted a teenage daughter, I was married to her father. Yes in Islam adoption is not supported but did it to give her advantages). She was so excited to be exposed to Christianity. She left Islam and her father and I divorced. I never ever converted to Islam. I raised all my children as Christians and was the strongest person in the marriage that I had been in. Islam was just an excuse for him to be a cheater, liar, thief, and I had to work to support myself and my children. I applaud her bravery to speak out on leaving Islam.
In Islam, anyone who adopts a child will be rewarded and it is a good deed, the prophet did it, also to say someone had Islam as the excuse to cheat and lie etc is crazy, you have the totally wrong idea about Islam and must not be around proper decent Muslims, please don’t lie on Islam its giving the wrong idea to others, also my Christian family all disowned me on my fathers side including my father, because reverted to Islam, around the time my mother died Aswell, they were cold and heartless but I don’t judge all Christian’s because of their bad actions.
@@She-millz You don't tell the full story, at all, because the truth isn't a nice story at all. Muhammad did adopt a son... at first... he gave him his family name, he could say that he's Zayd Ibn Muhammad, Zayd Son of Muhammad. He married, but then one day Muhammad saw his wife naked, made some comment about Allah guiding his heart, left her there, suddenly he got a "revelation" saying that adoption is actually haram, Zayd Ibn Muhammad can't wear his name, he will have to take back it's old name, Zayd Ibn Haritha. Thanks to that, they were no longer father and son, and once Zayd repudiated his wife, Muhammad finally could marry her. He banned adoption for an entire civilisation to marry his adoptive son's wife Because Muhammad is a pos
@@She-millz What a LIAR LAIR , its banned in your cult to have adopted children . Oh by the way do you know a father can marry a adopted daughter , IRAN passed that bill and in IRAQ you can marry 9 year old girl . Criminals
@@She-millz *Top ten reasons where Islam gives special status to women. Final goal, is to become a houri in Jannah for the sëx uāl pleasure of men* 10. A husband has sëx with his wife, as a plow goes into a field. The Quran in Sura (Chapter) 2:223 says: Your women are your fields, so go into your fields whichever way you like . . . . 9. Husbands are a degree above their wives. The Quran in Sura 2:228 says:Wives have the same rights as the husbands have on them in accordance with the generally known principles. Of course, men are a degree above them in status . . . 8. A male gets a double share of the inheritance over that of a female. The Quran in Sura 4:11 says: The share of the male shall be twice that of a female . . . . . A woman's testimony counts half of a man's testimony. The Quran in Sura 2:282 says: And let two men from among you bear witness to all such documents [contracts of loans without interest]. But if two men be not available, there should be one man and two women to bear witness so that if one of the women forgets (anything), the other may remind her. 6. A wife may remarry her ex-husband if and only if she marries another man, they have sëx, and then this second man divorces her. The Quran in Sura 2:230 says: And if the husband divorces his wife (for the third time), she shall not remain his lawful wife after this (absolute) divorce, unless she marries another husband and the second husband divorces her. [In that case] there is no harm if they [the first couple] remarry . . . 5. Slave-girls are sêxüãl property for their male owners. The Quran in Sura 4:24 says: And forbidden to you are wedded wives of other people except those who have fallen in your hands [as prisoners of war] . . .
4. A man may be polygamous with up to four wives. The Quran in Sura 4:3 says: And if you be apprehensive that you will not be able to do justice to the orphans, you may marry two or three or four women whom you choose. But if you apprehend that you might not be able to do justice to them, then marry only one wife, or marry those who have fallen in your possession. 3. A husband may simply get rid of one of his undesirable wives. The Quran in Sura 4:129 says: It is not within your power to be perfectly equitable in your treatment with all your wives, even if you wish to be so; therefore, [in order to satisfy the dictates of Divine Law] do not lean towards one wife so as to leave the other in a state of suspense. . Husbands may hit their wives even if the husbands merely fear highhandedness in their wives (quite apart from whether they actually are highhanded The Quran in Sura 4:34 says: 4:34 . . . If you fear highhandedness from your wives, remind them [of the teaching of God], then ignore them when you go to bed, then hit them. If they obey you, you have no right to act against them. God is most high and great 1. Mature men are allowed to marry prepubescent girls. The Quran in Sura 65:1, 4 says: 65:1 O Prophet, when you [and the believers] divorce women, divorce them for their prescribed waiting-period and count the waiting-period accurately . . . 4 And if you are in doubt about those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, (you should know that) their waiting period is three months, and the same applies to those who have not menstruated as yet. As for pregnant women, their period ends when they have delivered their burden.
I find it repugnant that in this day and age the only way a person feels they can only speak freely behind a mask 😢 please, keep speaking your truth and Shelise thank you for giving people a platform to speak their truth, experiences and help them to continue their healing journey ❤❤
What a journey! I am so impressed by our courage, clarity, and vision. I hope you and your siblings will heal. Kudos and hats off to you for your willingness to speak your truth, regardless of how your family reacts, regardless of death threats. What integrity you have. I wish you peace and send you all my blessings. And to Shelise (and co-host Oscar) too, of course. Love to you all.
I agree, but not just Muslim parents but any fundamental belief parents....coming from someone raised by a covert narcissistic mother. Finally got out 3 months ago but not doing good at the moment very dark place
@ I understand I was in a similar situation, it took time to readjust my mindset as it felt like my brain had been poisoned, it’s just awful, wishing you lots of healing 🙏
Yes!! I was hoping you would get Infidel Noodle on as the next ex-muslim!! Love her! She is very highly educated and has so many amazing videos on her channel. Thank you for sharing her story!! ❤
I still living a double life although I live in a different country from my family. I still pretend in front of them when I see them. I admire you for your courage. Be safe and happy❤
Infidel Noodle and CtC Team, thank you so much for the content. I'm proud of all of you, I understand putting yourselves out there is not the safest thing, but the impact you have on US viewers is very positive and important.
She is such a lovely young woman. I am so happy she finally married the love of her life. I am rejoicing for her ❤. He was real to her and that is what matters.
Beautiful soul !,,, as an Arab speaker who grew up in a Muslim country, I get it , bless that woman for standing up for her well being , her conscience , her dignity !,,
Thanks both of you for that caveat at the beginning. When I worked in a public high school in a mostly Muslim area in my (Aussie) city I really began to appreciate just how many different ways people practice Islam (and , yes, how seriously they cling to Hadith). So as not to feed into public Islamophobia, it’s really important to let your viewers know that not every family is like Aisha’s and that there are equivalents of Christian’s who just go to church at Easter and Xmas, as well as devout hijabi muslims who spend their lives trying to help those less fortunate regardless of gender, religion or sexuality (and without intention of converting people). And then there’s the families like Aisha’s, keeping score of religious social status hierarchies and assuming this will affect their afterlife positively - I’m pretty sure destructive gossip and bullying are frowned on by most gods!
The problem are not Muslims, it's islam. You're confusing two things. Islamophobia is a fear of islam and I would say it's healthy when you see what is in it. What isn't is being anti-muslim. You don't say a judeophob for an antisemite do you? Because it is not distrust or even hatred of a religion that is a problem.
So, in other words, religious people who take their religion seriously and adhere to sexual mores that have been with us for millennia are the problem? But those who think it's all one big joke are OK?
Love your show you are so kind your guests and you guide the conversation so nicely without interrupting them. I think you would make a wonderful psychologist.
❤❤❤ she’s a gorgeous soul. It blows my mind that parents can just turn their back on their children, regardless if they are grown adults or not. This goes for all religions.
I come from a religious background that is considered as a cult by majority of people. When I left at 18 I lost everything I knew, I lost my family and I lost my friends. That hurt but knowing that the people I loved the most and still miss never loved me based on who I am but based on conditions will never stop hurting. They talk about unconditional love and don't even understand what that means.
I decided to check in with a comment..because I eagerly await your videos. I can enthuse about many if not most of your guests. This is such a perfect platform for both host and guest..I'm 75, just to give you a demographic.
I can’t even imagine what life is like for women who go through this. My heart goes out to them. They are very strong for leaving and I know many more wish they could leave
Her parents should be proud of raising someone of such strength and independence. They should throw away all their religious petty mindedness and embrace her as she is. 🎉
This religion is cult and this cult brainwashed them to love it and more than their own kids.. it's sad how religion takes our humanity and most precious human characteristics 😢
@chrissy138 what is worse is abusers who persecute, are leading themselves into a fiercer destruction and it was warned on several RUclips recent videos
I am 64. I was adopted as an infant. My adopted parents were Americans, ethnic Germans and Lutheran. We stopped attending church when I was 6. When I was 16 I told them that when I was 18 I intended to convert to Orthodox Judaism and emigrant to Israel. They handed me a suitcase and kicked me out having no idea of where I would go. I could easily have ended up prostituted on the street (we lived just outside New York City). My point is that you don't need to be in a "cult" to be a horrible parent. The US is full of throwaway kids. "It's my way or the highway."
@hocuspocus123 No it was after studying Jewish history more than anything plus living in close proximity to Orthodox communities. There are numerous converts to Orthodox Judaism each year however they are inconspicuous. Also the Orthodox community doesn't believe in doing outreach to gentiles.
@JacobStein1960 I read the scripture of all three Abrahamic religions and can't think for a moment wanting to be part of any. I found that God they worship is genocidal, misogynistic, homophobic, petty, hateful, and so much more. So, to me, I find it fascinating and really want to know what makes a person choose a religion over another. Sorry, but I still would say a cult over another.
These issues with parents undermine you at some deep, fundamental level, it's so hard to recover. And it used to be even worse and even more widespread - a doctor 'demanding' that the son becomes a doctor too or else, 'this is MY son' (you own me, do you) etc etc. People can be both so nice and loving and so stupid and narrow-minded it beggars belief.
Here is my question. Why do people flee or escape from oppressive countries and governments (often religion is intermingled with the governmental rules) to a western or secular nation, yet bring the oppression with them and try to make the new place like the old place? (in reference to the guests' parents)
Merch Alert. ..." Don't worry you're not a delusional synical sinner you're just a critical thinker" LOVE It.....Rabbit holes can lead to awesome insight!!!!
*I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him,* $230k every 4weeks! I now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
I started pretty low, though, $5000 thereabouts. The return came massive. Joey is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Evelyn Vera, you're a miracle.
Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.
I've been agnostic for many years. Weirdly learning more about Islam made me love Jesus more and strengthened my faith. I'm still not a devout Christian and probably never will be. But I appreciate my religion a lot!
We Must All Help The Women Of Afghanistan!😭 You speak of collective empowerment but why is there not more talk and protesting and fight for the women of Afghanistan? I am not Afghani or Muslim but an oppressed woman anywhere is not ok 😡
Imagine the courage it takes just to say: "It's man made superstition, not real or good, I don't believe in it." under a threat of violence or even sometimes death, as well as the loss of loved ones.
Watching this after my Muslim girlfriend of 7 years (now ex) gave me the ultimatum to convert to marry or she’s leaving. I wish she had made the decision infidel noodle did, we were so happy together 🥲
You'll find someone with a better belief and better family. Muslims are stubborn, I know this because I was one and my family members are like that lol
The whole story was powerful but when she said some of the people who gave her vile hate messages came back to her because they were questioning gave me full body chills. I was just putting away laundry now I’m tearing up
I would love if you could cover the topic FGM please 🥺 female genital mutilation some tribes religions still practice this and I'm sure many women have left because it was forced on them . Thanks for raising awareness ❤
My best friend, would leave the house looking like a devout Muslim, get dressed at my place in the sexiest outfits and party like crazy at the discos. She drank alcohol, and even experimented with recreational drugs. When she was with her family, she was a different person. She led a double life.
Aisha, to noodle is to “do or think about something without giving it full or serious attention”. Sounds like the perfect word for the way your TikTok began! Thanks for this very articulate discussion. My Christian upbringing in NZ and Australia wasn’t much different to yours so I really loved hearing your story.
❤❤❤ I love the Linda listen 👂 it’s nothing against good men that aren’t super controlling. I feel so blessed to have an amazing husband that respects and loves me unconditionally. This was such an amazing podcast.
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Utterly ridiculous that she can’t show her face and voice her opinions because someone might kill her. If your faith and religion cannot stand up to genuine scrutiny or questioning then what good is it?
Get over it. She is sharing her story in a way that is most comfortable for her.
@@CablecolI think she is criticizing the religion with this comment not infidel noodle
Well then she can edit her comment in such a way that doesn't sound like the guest is being blamed. @audrey6821
Get over it.
@@Cablecol get over a woman feeling unsafe and hiding herself??? Wow how compassionate you are
I've been following ex-muslims for a few years (due to wanting to understand why Isis was so brutal.) I am appalled at what they go through for leaving their religion.
Nothing happened to me when I left Catholicism. I think everyone should have this basic freedom.
I'm so glad ex-muslims and other people who have left their faith are connecting. It's lovely to see the mutual support ❤
As an ex-Muslim, I thank you so much for supporting us and taking the time to listen to us 🙏🥹
Not many ex-Christians are as open-minded and curious as you. But maybe ex-Catholics and ex-Christians are different? I’ve gathered that Catholicism is its own thing, despite being a type of Catholicism.
@@winxclubstellamusa@winxclubstellamusa Catholicism is quite different from Protestantism, which is the dominant sect of Christianity in the U.S. It's more like protestants are different ones; Orthodox and Catholics are very similar. They separated due to a difference in understanding of the pope with Catholics stating it was an authoritative position while Orthodox stated it was a position of the highest honor/respect but nothing to due with being able to authorize things.
The original Christians came from churches now called, Catholic, Orthodox , Coptic and other names. Five hundred years ago the protestant reformation occurred. Their leaders changed some basic things, rearranged the new testament of the bible and turned against the Catholic way of doing things. Since then many groups have started up and there are hundreds of protestant groups who all think their interpretations are the best.
Catholic Christians make up the largest group of Christians.
@@winxclubstellamusaAll three (Catholicism, Orthodoxy, and Protestantism) are forms of Christianity, though fundamentalists in each sometimes like to trash each other and claim the others are not. Others of us see all three as meeting the basic criteria of the Nicene Creed, and therefore being valid forms of Christianity.
@@winxclubstellamusa I am kind of ex- christian married to ex-muslim. We are out there. Many dont comment and many I suppose are afraid of political correctness and stay silent for that reason I am sure.
I love it whenever exmuslims talk about how they've gotten dogs (black dogs in particular) after leaving. It's always so wholesome!
I had no idea that dogs were considered haram 😮
@cynthiac.castellano5139 I only learned about it from ex-Muslim and atheist channels. There's some hadith about Mohammad not liking dogs, ordering all dogs be killed, and then later revoking that order... and I think something about angels never entering a house that has a black dog. An ex-Muslim could explain it all a lot better than me.
Agreed !! When you see the love and devotion of a dog to a human - not even talking about service and rescue dogs !! - you know the religion by the desert warlord is not passed down from a god that would have also created this miraculous animal !
I think you might have a bias and some misinformation. Dogs are not haram in Islam. They’re allowed. They are fiercely loyal animals. In Islam we are not taught to hate any animal because they are all creations of God. Their spit is considered unclean so you can’t pray after you have touched their saliva or in a place their saliva has been. But you can wash your hands and go about your day. There’s no reason to hate on dogs and Muslims should and do not. It’s just an issue of uncleanliness. They are definitely allowed and encouraged for safety reasons. We should remember not to conflate how people practice a religion (because people are infallible) and what the religion actually teaches.
@@muil9087 Why you people lie so much ? There is reference to kill dogs and then that criminal perpit changed to black dogs . That cult book is curse on this earth
Her parents care more about their reputation and staying in their toxic, nosy, gossiping community than they do about her. She's better off without them. A "community" like that is no community at all.
in BUKHARI AL ADAB AL MUFRAD 1183 ,mohhamed swapped spit with little boys, he sucked little boy tongue
Amen!
@@cuteladybug8622 I would say to the parents, if you want to go to hell then go to hell alone! I don’t have to follow you in your madness. Seriously, they openly follow a madman who preach that go will send everyone to hell even infants. What kind of demonic religion is that?
Islam is already a shameful religion which is why muslims don’t proselytize, it’s to hard to sell, unless you are good at lying and making stuff up. So i don’t know why disowning daughters is a thing in that religion, it should be the contrary, you find your dignity by leaving a cult that is insulting whether you’re a woman or a black woman or just a black person.
This is literally how Islam started. The first generation of Muslims started to leave Islam after Muhammad died but they were threatened by the companions into staying. Nearly every Islamic country was coerced into the religion
Your story mirrors mine in so many ways. Except only my father is Muslim. You reach a certain age and suddenly you need to cover up and be surveilled. I used to keep a sweatshirt in my car to cover up despite living in Texas. I had to lie about meeting up with my friends bc God forbid a boy might be there. I feel less alone in my experience hearing your story. Thank you so much for being brave and sharing. And thank you Shelise for creating and maintaining this beautiful platform.
There are a huge amounts of Muslims asking the right questions only for them to be shut down and censored. When a Muslim person disapproves with certain things they're not Muslim anymore. Islam doesn't change nor adapt to certain environments as it has kept the way it was from the 7 century! Islam is fundamentally dangerous especially to women and girls!
You need to ask yourself do you want to keep living as you're or keep hiding. It's down to you, 😏!
As someone who grew up in the US with a Muslim father, you articulate my same experience so well. It’s so oppressive.
That's why I always tell to my daughter never marry a Muslim because that is one of the worst thing you will do to your daughters.
Do Muslim fathers stop loving their daughters all of a sudden?
@@cjane_world
muslims have as greatest celebration the sacrifice of Abraham (generally they perceive all cruel acts as role models) deep thinking is forbidden, so learn to admire acts they should be ashamed of...the manipulative mo with the salad he presents as divine guidance ! manages to turn many parents into monsters even now ...
Her hair is SO beautiful.
Yet they say to her she is sinner because she shows it.. 🤮
I left Islam with my children too and it was the most terrifying thing I've ever done. Aisha, voices like yours are SO important!
It takes great courage. Admirable.
Leaving truth is always terrifying 😅
@@amAntidisestablishmentarianist Quran in verse 4:34 allows wife-beating, in verse 98:6 calls Christians and Jews "the worst of creatures", and in 4:24 permits raping sex-slaves. One has to kill his/her conscience to not leave these truths.
@@amAntidisestablishmentarianist 🤣 "truth"
I can't believe I just sat here and heard this amazing person say that she doesn't understand why people listen to her and why she has a voice that people want to hear. But then during the Linda listen I'm sitting here getting Goosebumps and getting emotional because her words are so powerful that my body is having a physical reaction
Nothing in the world is feared as much as the influence of women who are mentally independent.
😂 really?
Especially in some of the middle eastern countries. Women are viewed as expendable baby makers & that’s about it.
@@ukachiveronica8877 Yes, really!
That's pretty much why people like Nick Fuentes glee at the thought of women having their autonomy revoked.
😂 no one fears them. It would be everything's ok. No law and order. No consequences for society. It would be a disaster. Females are not leaders.
your work is so greatly appreciated and NEEDED out here. as an adult searching for answers, infidel noodle was one of the first ex muslim creators i came across when i was looking for answers which ended up in my leaving the warped version of Islam my mom pushed on us. keep up the good work you’re the best ✨
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So have you apostatized or fallen for more taqiya?
They leave those comments because they can't control you any more. So proud of you for speaking up girl 🦄🦄
@@I_am_not_your_sister We're all brothers and sisters.
Leaving comments can be due to two reasons:
1) they are afraid of your comment
2) your comment is bullshit 😅
How did you confirm the former and dismiss the latter exactly?
@amAntidisestablishmentarianist The third reason some people leave comments is because they're telling the truth and exposing the lies.
Three things happened in 1979:
1. Mecca was hijacked by terrorists
2. Soviet invasion of Afghanistan
3. Iranian revolution
You should put this on a T-shirt: “No you’re not a terrible sinner, you just have critical thinking skills.” I’m not sure if that was exactly it or not, but it was a great statement!
I am so sorry that your family have treated you this way. If you were my daughter, I would be incredibly proud and supportive of you.
My mom was a midwife who attended birthing mothers in District Six in the late 1950's. Assisting Cape Malay Mohammedan moms, families, neighbours and community was the happiest time of her life. She has so many amazing stories of that time - I'm happy to share them with you if you want a different slant on your family history.
As anti-apartheid activists, we had to flee the country "on a holiday" & eventually ended up in Aus.
Bless you, beautiful, brave, independent, compassionate woman. The world needs more young people like you!!!
❤ from Tasmania ❤
Are you a follower of Islam ?
@@diaryofnricom163 No, however I believe that all religions have a purpose and following that is appropriate to the 'time and culture'.
@emeraldheart415 You should read Qur'an and then only you will realise how bad it is. Same with old testament and Tora.
It is internet age. Anything can be easily searched and ignorance is not an excuse.
@@diaryofnricom163abd thw hadiths that allow sex slavery and concubinate
@@diaryofnricom163
to remind you that in the OT actions have consequences , prophets are work in progress, the protagonists are NOT people whose actions we must imitate, as they do not know how to love, starting with Adam and Eve who are unable to defend each other as soon as they feel fear,.,so does David in love with a married woman, Saul who is punished for obeying then vengeful priest ...you need the love lens of Jesus to understand the Hebrew texts, wisdom of Budda for Hinduism, logic and curiosity of Socrates to connect the conclusions .
As a neurodivergent, masking outside the home is completely exhausting. I cannot imagine having to do so within my own home, for years on end. Your strength is otherworldly. ❤
Break the silence. Break the cycle.
You are so brave, Aisha. Thank you for sharing.
I am so glad that you are in Australia where I am sure you get some protection against the religious nut jobs that are everywhere.
It might seem harsh to be thankful that your parents only disowned you, when even here in Canada (somewhat similar to Australia), we hear about “honour killings “ of rebellious daughters.
Stay safe and keep on speaking out. You are doing a good thing.
It will be a great world when honor killings are no longer an issue and women no longer pray or blamed for males actions....but they are the strong ones....they donate to making life we make it 😊
She’s so well spoken and so brave for speaking out. Thank you for sharing your story
As an ex-Muslim, I would tell this brave woman: Congratulations on liberating yourself from mental slavery of Islam!
The thing her mother said, that they never will be proud of her, until she wears jihab, its so sad. My children dont have to do anything and I love them, no matter what, and Im proud if them.
Many Muslim parents still thinks like that, you know. If not majority. Although I've seen some are quite liberal. Either way, wearing hijab with heavy makeups and strong perfumes is just shows their hypocrisy.
Did they really love you? I could not disown my kids. I feel with this woman. Strong and sensible.
This is my new favorite channel, I love to see how people overcome the difficult and controlling aspects of their lives. empowerment is truly so powerful.
"I get emotional and I don't know why". You are human and you deserved to be loved and cared for.
November is Islamophobia Awareness Month, but this video perfectly illustrates why many people, myself included, have legitimate and justified criticism and dislike of Islam. It's not always down to ignorance and bigotry.
My question is:
Why are organized religions so full of hate? Just very sad.
Yes, very sad.
to divide and conquer
CONTROL!
Not every organized religion but most certainly this one & too many others.
Which other organised religion?.
Liked. Shared. Commented. Sent the algorithm out to start a new family with those who’ve lost their biofamily.
Your “Sassy Statements” at the end really hits home with any religion. So much empowerment!!!! ♥️
The strength this woman shows I can't image leaving family and going on to be so amazing your family is missing out on the great things you have done and will do we are all so proud of all your accomplishments ❤
Alhamdulillah she left Islam. We need to uplift voices like this
I have such love for here! I adopted a teenage daughter, I was married to her father. Yes in Islam adoption is not supported but did it to give her advantages). She was so excited to be exposed to Christianity. She left Islam and her father and I divorced. I never ever converted to Islam. I raised all my children as Christians and was the strongest person in the marriage that I had been in. Islam was just an excuse for him to be a cheater, liar, thief, and I had to work to support myself and my children. I applaud her bravery to speak out on leaving Islam.
In Islam, anyone who adopts a child will be rewarded and it is a good deed, the prophet did it, also to say someone had Islam as the excuse to cheat and lie etc is crazy, you have the totally wrong idea about Islam and must not be around proper decent Muslims, please don’t lie on Islam its giving the wrong idea to others, also my Christian family all disowned me on my fathers side including my father, because reverted to Islam, around the time my mother died Aswell, they were cold and heartless but I don’t judge all Christian’s because of their bad actions.
@@She-millz You don't tell the full story, at all, because the truth isn't a nice story at all.
Muhammad did adopt a son... at first... he gave him his family name, he could say that he's Zayd Ibn Muhammad, Zayd Son of Muhammad.
He married, but then one day Muhammad saw his wife naked, made some comment about Allah guiding his heart, left her there, suddenly he got a "revelation" saying that adoption is actually haram, Zayd Ibn Muhammad can't wear his name, he will have to take back it's old name, Zayd Ibn Haritha.
Thanks to that, they were no longer father and son, and once Zayd repudiated his wife, Muhammad finally could marry her.
He banned adoption for an entire civilisation to marry his adoptive son's wife
Because Muhammad is a pos
@@She-millz they where probably angry at you for going back to something they risked thier lives leaving
@@She-millz What a LIAR LAIR , its banned in your cult to have adopted children . Oh by the way do you know a father can marry a adopted daughter , IRAN passed that bill and in IRAQ you can marry 9 year old girl . Criminals
@@She-millz
*Top ten reasons where Islam gives special status to women. Final goal, is to become a houri in Jannah for the sëx uāl pleasure of men*
10. A husband has sëx with his wife, as a plow goes into a field.
The Quran in Sura (Chapter) 2:223 says:
Your women are your fields, so go into your fields whichever way you like . . . .
9. Husbands are a degree above their wives.
The Quran in Sura 2:228 says:Wives have the same rights as the husbands have on them in accordance with the generally
known principles. Of course, men are a degree above them in status . . .
8. A male gets a double share of the inheritance over that of a female.
The Quran in Sura 4:11 says:
The share of the male shall be twice that of a female . . . .
. A woman's testimony counts half of a man's testimony.
The Quran in Sura 2:282 says:
And let two men from among you bear witness to all such documents [contracts of loans without
interest]. But if two men be not available, there should be one man and two women to bear
witness so that if one of the women forgets (anything), the other may remind her.
6. A wife may remarry her ex-husband if and only if she marries another man, they have
sëx, and then this second man divorces her.
The Quran in Sura 2:230 says:
And if the husband divorces his wife (for the third time), she shall not remain his lawful wife
after this (absolute) divorce, unless she marries another husband and the second husband
divorces her. [In that case] there is no harm if they [the first couple] remarry . . .
5. Slave-girls are sêxüãl property for their male owners.
The Quran in Sura 4:24 says:
And forbidden to you are wedded wives of other people except those who have fallen in your
hands [as prisoners of war] . . .
4. A man may be polygamous with up to four wives.
The Quran in Sura 4:3 says:
And if you be apprehensive that you will not be able to do justice to the orphans, you may marry
two or three or four women whom you choose. But if you apprehend that you might not be able
to do justice to them, then marry only one wife, or marry those who have fallen in your
possession.
3. A husband may simply get rid of one of his undesirable wives.
The Quran in Sura 4:129 says:
It is not within your power to be perfectly equitable in your treatment with all your wives, even if
you wish to be so; therefore, [in order to satisfy the dictates of Divine Law] do not lean towards
one wife so as to leave the other in a state of suspense.
. Husbands may hit their wives even if the husbands merely fear highhandedness in their
wives (quite apart from whether they actually are highhanded
The Quran in Sura 4:34 says:
4:34 . . . If you fear highhandedness from your wives, remind them [of the teaching of God], then
ignore them when you go to bed, then hit them. If they obey you, you have no right to act
against them. God is most high and great
1. Mature men are allowed to marry prepubescent girls.
The Quran in Sura 65:1, 4 says:
65:1 O Prophet, when you [and the believers] divorce women, divorce them for their prescribed
waiting-period and count the waiting-period accurately . . . 4 And if you are in doubt about
those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, (you should know that) their waiting
period is three months, and the same applies to those who have not menstruated as yet. As for
pregnant women, their period ends when they have delivered their burden.
Her last statements/Linda Listens are brilliant!!!!! Thank you!
Glad you brought her to your show, she definitely deserves more collaborations like this so everyone can understand the truth
I find it repugnant that in this day and age the only way a person feels they can only speak freely behind a mask 😢 please, keep speaking your truth and Shelise thank you for giving people a platform to speak their truth, experiences and help them to continue their healing journey ❤❤
What a journey! I am so impressed by our courage, clarity, and vision. I hope you and your siblings will heal. Kudos and hats off to you for your willingness to speak your truth, regardless of how your family reacts, regardless of death threats. What integrity you have. I wish you peace and send you all my blessings. And to Shelise (and co-host Oscar) too, of course. Love to you all.
There are great similarities between having mu-slim parents and narcissistic parents, the gaslighting, the discard, conditional love etc, scary 😦
💯 Yes, I lived it!
Same with every religion, if you think that claims of absolute truth come without narcissism, you are delusional
Very similar to a lot of other fundamentalist religions too.
I agree, but not just Muslim parents but any fundamental belief parents....coming from someone raised by a covert narcissistic mother. Finally got out 3 months ago but not doing good at the moment very dark place
@ I understand I was in a similar situation, it took time to readjust my mindset as it felt like my brain had been poisoned, it’s just awful, wishing you lots of healing 🙏
Yes!! I was hoping you would get Infidel Noodle on as the next ex-muslim!! Love her! She is very highly educated and has so many amazing videos on her channel. Thank you for sharing her story!! ❤
I still living a double life although I live in a different country from my family. I still pretend in front of them when I see them. I admire you for your courage. Be safe and happy❤
Infidel Noodle and CtC Team, thank you so much for the content. I'm proud of all of you, I understand putting yourselves out there is not the safest thing, but the impact you have on US viewers is very positive and important.
She is such a lovely young woman. I am so happy she finally married the love of her life. I am rejoicing for her ❤. He was real to her and that is what matters.
What a fascinating conversation between two articulate and intelligent women.
That Linda Listen directed to the men....THANK YOU! Being a female in the United States right now, that statement was comforting to me!
Beautiful soul !,,, as an Arab speaker who grew up in a Muslim country, I get it , bless that woman for standing up for her well being , her conscience , her dignity !,,
Powerful closing statements. Thank you so much.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Thanks both of you for that caveat at the beginning. When I worked in a public high school in a mostly Muslim area in my (Aussie) city I really began to appreciate just how many different ways people practice Islam (and , yes, how seriously they cling to Hadith).
So as not to feed into public Islamophobia, it’s really important to let your viewers know that not every family is like Aisha’s and that there are equivalents of Christian’s who just go to church at Easter and Xmas, as well as devout hijabi muslims who spend their lives trying to help those less fortunate regardless of gender, religion or sexuality (and without intention of converting people).
And then there’s the families like Aisha’s, keeping score of religious social status hierarchies and assuming this will affect their afterlife positively - I’m pretty sure destructive gossip and bullying are frowned on by most gods!
The problem are not Muslims, it's islam. You're confusing two things. Islamophobia is a fear of islam and I would say it's healthy when you see what is in it. What isn't is being anti-muslim. You don't say a judeophob for an antisemite do you? Because it is not distrust or even hatred of a religion that is a problem.
So, in other words, religious people who take their religion seriously and adhere to sexual mores that have been with us for millennia are the problem? But those who think it's all one big joke are OK?
Proud of you. Well done
So proud of you! ❤
Loved the bit about dogs. They can be a really wonderful part of life.
Aisha was an amazing guest, so well spoken and intelligent. Shelise, amazing work as usual. 💕
I am proud of you and admire your strength. Continue standing strong young lady.❤
That was beautiful! What a great interview🎉
Love your show you are so kind your guests and you guide the conversation so nicely without interrupting them. I think you would make a wonderful psychologist.
❤❤❤ she’s a gorgeous soul. It blows my mind that parents can just turn their back on their children, regardless if they are grown adults or not. This goes for all religions.
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100% there is (almost) nothing my child could be or do that would make me turn my back on them.
And yet the most disowned kids from all religious groups are ex-muslims
I come from a religious background that is considered as a cult by majority of people. When I left at 18 I lost everything I knew, I lost my family and I lost my friends. That hurt but knowing that the people I loved the most and still miss never loved me based on who I am but based on conditions will never stop hurting. They talk about unconditional love and don't even understand what that means.
They forget that love is more sacred than any dogma.
Anabaptist by chance? Possibly ultra strict Apostolic Pentecostal?
I decided to check in with a comment..because I eagerly await your videos. I can enthuse about many if not most of your guests. This is such a perfect platform for both host and guest..I'm 75, just to give you a demographic.
I just feel like you!❤
Wow! That was simply amazing. Such an intelligent and easy to understand discussion. ❤
I can’t even imagine what life is like for women who go through this. My heart goes out to them. They are very strong for leaving and I know many more wish they could leave
Yesss, love Infidel Noodle!! Great great chat!
So amazed hearing Infidel Noodle's story. Well done on leaving the cult.
So empowering! Thank you for being an inspiration!
Wishing you peace, serenity, hapiness, love, safety, freeeeedommmm!
The simple pleasure of having a dog... congrats on escaping Islam!
You’re a bad ass, noodle! Been a fan since way back. Keep at it girl and love that you were on this show.💜
Please stay safe!! The level of hate out there is real.
Bravo Infidel Noodle! Thanks for the work you and Jasmine do!
Her parents should be proud of raising someone of such strength and independence. They should throw away all their religious petty mindedness and embrace her as she is. 🎉
I'm sure they are proud, at least her mother but with death as a possible outcome to show that to her, I can understand why they don't.
This religion is cult and this cult brainwashed them to love it and more than their own kids.. it's sad how religion takes our humanity and most precious human characteristics 😢
@chrissy138 what is worse is abusers who persecute, are leading themselves into a fiercer destruction and it was warned on several RUclips recent videos
@@chrissy138 exposing the Quran is talking down to their believers, but it is to get them out of misleading others down that path
@@chrissy138 modesty outfits should be regardless, and what is worn is unacceptable
I swear so many people take the “I want to read all the religious texts!” To “ok I don’t believe any of this.” Path.
Even more believe
I am 64. I was adopted as an infant. My adopted parents were Americans, ethnic Germans and Lutheran. We stopped attending church when I was 6. When I was 16 I told them that when I was 18 I intended to convert to Orthodox Judaism and emigrant to Israel. They handed me a suitcase and kicked me out having no idea of where I would go. I could easily have ended up prostituted on the street (we lived just outside New York City).
My point is that you don't need to be in a "cult" to be a horrible parent. The US is full of throwaway kids. "It's my way or the highway."
Wow, wanting to convert to orthodox Judaism by choice. Was that after reading the scripture??
@hocuspocus123 No it was after studying Jewish history more than anything plus living in close proximity to Orthodox communities. There are numerous converts to Orthodox Judaism each year however they are inconspicuous. Also the Orthodox community doesn't believe in doing outreach to gentiles.
By the way, they're all cults, and your chosen is what started it all!
Orthodox Judaism is a cult. Sure it’s good life for men maybe. Not so much for women.
@JacobStein1960 I read the scripture of all three Abrahamic religions and can't think for a moment wanting to be part of any. I found that God they worship is genocidal, misogynistic, homophobic, petty, hateful, and so much more.
So, to me, I find it fascinating and really want to know what makes a person choose a religion over another. Sorry, but I still would say a cult over another.
These issues with parents undermine you at some deep, fundamental level, it's so hard to recover. And it used to be even worse and even more widespread - a doctor 'demanding' that the son becomes a doctor too or else, 'this is MY son' (you own me, do you) etc etc. People can be both so nice and loving and so stupid and narrow-minded it beggars belief.
Let's support this brave woman and others like her!
Here is my question. Why do people flee or escape from oppressive countries and governments (often religion is intermingled with the governmental rules) to a western or secular nation, yet bring the oppression with them and try to make the new place like the old place? (in reference to the guests' parents)
Because religion is a given and separate in their minds from the oppressive government.
Replacemebt, dont be afraid of islamophobia its an reasonable hate
Islam beilives in only 2 lands: land of Peace(islam) or land of war. They beilive that they have to conquer all others land to impose their religion.
As a South African who once lived in Cape Town, I understand what Ayisha has been through.
Merch Alert. ..." Don't worry you're not a delusional synical sinner you're just a critical thinker" LOVE It.....Rabbit holes can lead to awesome insight!!!!
Got to get this on the back of a rainbow coloured shirt 🎽👕😂❤. ...ALL OF IT!!
Great content. Courageous!
*I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him,* $230k every 4weeks! I now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?.. I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
It's Ms. Evelyn Vera doing, she's changed my life.
I started pretty low, though, $5000 thereabouts. The return came massive. Joey is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Evelyn Vera, you're a miracle.
Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in
US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.
I've been agnostic for many years. Weirdly learning more about Islam made me love Jesus more and strengthened my faith.
I'm still not a devout Christian and probably never will be. But I appreciate my religion a lot!
We Must All Help The Women Of Afghanistan!😭 You speak of collective empowerment but why is there not more talk and protesting and fight for the women of Afghanistan? I am not Afghani or Muslim but an oppressed woman anywhere is not ok 😡
Well said!!
Thank you for bringing that up👏🏾
👍👍👍 this is to boost the video so others can see it
as well
Imagine the courage it takes just to say: "It's man made superstition, not real or good, I don't believe in it." under a threat of violence or even sometimes death, as well as the loss of loved ones.
Thank you once again.
Love her I'm glad she's on the channel!
We love you! Survivors have to stick together ❤
BEST "Linda, listen" statement EVER!!!❤❤❤
Watching this after my Muslim girlfriend of 7 years (now ex) gave me the ultimatum to convert to marry or she’s leaving. I wish she had made the decision infidel noodle did, we were so happy together 🥲
Dont ever let those people convert you, its slavery
You marry a whole family, not just that one person. It would have been hell.
You dodged a bulet.
You'll find someone with a better belief and better family. Muslims are stubborn, I know this because I was one and my family members are like that lol
Glad she left lol, this is really stupid
You can't just tell someone to convert their religion like that just to marry them
The whole story was powerful but when she said some of the people who gave her vile hate messages came back to her because they were questioning gave me full body chills. I was just putting away laundry now I’m tearing up
I would love if you could cover the topic FGM please 🥺 female genital mutilation some tribes religions still practice this and I'm sure many women have left because it was forced on them . Thanks for raising awareness ❤
It's very popular in the muslim world. The majority of women in Egypt are having FGM.
My best friend, would leave the house looking like a devout Muslim, get dressed at my place in the sexiest outfits and party like crazy at the discos. She drank alcohol, and even experimented with recreational drugs. When she was with her family, she was a different person. She led a double life.
This should be not the way one should be living, that's just not right!
She is incredibly brave
Brilliant interview! ❤
Incredibly brave. Thank you. You are an inspiration.
What a strong powerful woman! Preach Freedom from oppression!
A very brave and lovely young woman!
I picked your accent immediately! Hi from NZ! ❤
Oh this gonna be good. I will be listening on my work commute tomorrow for sure!😊
Aisha, to noodle is to “do or think about something without giving it full or serious attention”. Sounds like the perfect word for the way your TikTok began!
Thanks for this very articulate discussion. My Christian upbringing in NZ and Australia wasn’t much different to yours so I really loved hearing your story.
"It's not like I was getting anything positive from that community " And that is the truth! And that is why we leave.
❤❤❤ I love the Linda listen 👂 it’s nothing against good men that aren’t super controlling. I feel so blessed to have an amazing husband that respects and loves me unconditionally. This was such an amazing podcast.
You are married Infidel Noodle! I'm proud of you!
I left Islam
Congratulations ! I hope you are safe in your location.
It’s 2024 ffs! How are women still allowed to be controlled in their own homes by their own families?? It’s a form of abuse, simple.
What an angel the guest is, I loved her!! ❤❤❤❤