My DREAM Man!🤵🤵(#43)
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- Опубликовано: 13 окт 2024
- Recently a few guys have shown some interest in me and one asked what I would want in a man. So I thought it would be a good topic for a video.
What do you think? Share your thoughts with me down below.
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I'm Divorced, Officially Single, and Virgin:
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your honesty is so refreshing 💓i completely understand what you mean about the hands 😂❤
the virginity test is so dehumanising. Iranian women deserve so much better.
Thank you for your kind words 🌺
Hi again, I am not sure how to say this but I guess relationship and dating are a very complicated thing for me nowadays. Know how you feel and it's okay not to date anyone if you don't find any suitors. Stay happy and contented in singlehood is also a blessing in disguise from more heart-wrenching situation. You have my support here virtually.
Hi there. Understand you.
The problem's not "finding suitors"! There's been guys who were quite interested, but the problem is I don't feel anything, you know. And I've never been like this before.
@@NarsFromMars yes I know that feeling. You don't feel the jive and the attraction. As in there's no eureka moment when you interacted with them. Totally understandable.
@@LiYuan2131 Exactly. I have this unprecedented "I don't give a F" attitude, which I hope I had at some points in the past too .....
@@NarsFromMars Exactly, I understand. Have a blessed weekend.
🤣🤣🤣 Love your counting creativity. You are beautiful inside and out! Im happy you have your channel as an outlet! Hope your twitch goes away😅
I am glad to see a new video of you. I love learning 😁
Hi Nars and thanks for another video. I'm sure all your viewers are whishing you all the best and you are the only one knowing, what is the best for you. I might start to learn a few persien words again. I remember first time I did try, it was not that easy. 😳 All the best to you 🌷
Hello my friend, how are you doing?
Thanks for your kind words.
Yeah, actually I've seen a few German people struggling with Persian gutteral sounds, which was strange, because German has gutteral sounds too....
@@NarsFromMars I have a German last name, but I'm Danish. I do speak German though. I might be going for a walk and talk with a persien women, so I think I should learn a few words. I'm sure it will sound funny, but at least it will bring a smile I think 😊
@@leifbogeisler Danish. The most difficult language! Half of some words was nasal and I couldn't even HEAR what it was pronounced so that I can try and say it!
@@NarsFromMars Danish is easy, kids her speaks it in age 2-3 years, how hard can it be🤣 But your language is really hard, I should have learned it when I was a kid, it is hard now😨
@@leifbogeisler Yeah exactly. But among the languages I've flirted with, Danish was the most difficult. For example Swedish was a piece of cake in comparison 🍰🍰
All valid and important qualities, azizam!👌 Your dream gentleman will wait for you, I am certain!💐
Please don’t worry, the twitch will disappear with calm and rest:)😊🥰❣️
Salam Lana junam, khubi???😘
The twitch. It's been 3 days now😅
@@NarsFromMars Salamat bashi, azizam, merci!🌷😘
Sometimes it could last for a few days, but should disappear on its own. Please try to avoid stress-inducing situations, and sleep more! Our nervous system recuperates during sleep/rest; that’s why it’s so important!😊🥰🌹
@@MonteCrista70 "stress-inducing situations"= my entire life 😅😅
@@NarsFromMars 🙈😂🤣
I know, azizam; I understand you very well, believe me!🙈🙃
@@MonteCrista70 😘😘😘
Nars!!!! welcome back 🙏🌹🙏 your husband's a lucky man , you are gorgeous
Hi there and thank you 😊 At this point in life "husband" sounds like a strange word to my ear....
@@NarsFromMars lol I don't understand what you mean miss
@@jimscycleandautotn8508 I mean with my mood and everything, and that I don't feel like dating anyone, which is unprecedented in my life...
@@NarsFromMars I was under the impression way back when that you were married , am I mistaken?
Hope it gets better for you
@@jimscycleandautotn8508 I WAS married in the first stage (something like the western engagement, but it's registered as marriage) and I got divorced. A divorced virgin, which sounds like an oxymoron 😅
Hi there.I liked and shared but there seems to be a problem with sharing on facebook.
Now I feel like making a video about ny drean woman!! hehehehehe
Keep making videos, I love them!
Thank you so much 🥰 I'd love to watch that video 😍
@@NarsFromMars OK wait for it lalalalala
I'll send you the link.... But I don't put on make-up hehehehehe
Nars you are very beautiful. Don't feel pressured into "finding your other half" if you don't want to. I'm in my 30s, at home with mum and sibling, and actually very happy being unmarried but in a long term relation with my boyfriend who lives in his own flat. It means I can focus on things that are important to me and satisfy my life. I am sure being married would suck the romance out of our lives as we would see each other every waking moment. I am my own person and that's what matters.
Thank you for your kindness and care, Susanna🥰❤️
Do you practice meditation?
I guess it can help against anxiety and panic attacks
I have started taking a course
I do sometimes. Guided meditation. Probably good for preventing anxiety a bit, but when it hits me meditation doesn't work either
@@NarsFromMars
Right
I guess it will be effective once we start practicing it with a proper schedule and dedication
Along with the treatment we undergo
But the problem is I can't bring myself into a discipline,
Some sort of distraction or disorderliness in daily lifestyle can break this habit apart and it will take a while to bring myself back to it
@@navinasimoes The trick is don't be perfectionistic with it, if you're late, just do it and don't nag yourself
Hi Nas, I I love your sarcastic sense of humor.You are so beautiful and smart.You will feet well with a man that has a critical thinking just like you. When you find him you both can explore the world and stimulate each others brain with ideas, arts , music and all the free knowledge that is out there to be discovered.You are so smart and have so much to offer, it will be great to have someone to share , when you feel that you are ready.
Thank you so much for your kind words 🥰🌷
Whoa!!! No way! Nars, you just described me! 😂 (I'm kidding.) I am rooting for ya, though. 👉🏼
😅😅 Hi Will, how have you been?
Heya, Nars! 😊 I've been karazy busy, but, ya know, karazy happy too. I'm in Arizona. In June... My mind's just like, "Well, dude, make the most of what time you have left cuz if the heat doesn't getcha a snake probably will." jk! 😄But never mind me. How are *you* doing?!
If you don't have time or want to reply here, that's fine. Really. You go out of your way to talk to people & I think that's awesome. I get to be your friend for a couple minutes; that's good enough for me. 👍🏼
@@WillHawkinsRock Hi Will 🙋🌺 Oh I can imagine the heat from oceans away, because Esfahan is practically a desert too, minus the awesome Saguaros😅
I enjoy talking to people here, and thank you for taking the time to write to me.
Fun fact: saguaro is actually pronounced suh-wa-row. (If you ever run into a situation where you need to pronounce it correctly. 😄) I've got cacti; you've got sweet architecture; we've both got sand. 👍🏼Hell yeah. Take care until your next vid, NarsFromMars.
@@WillHawkinsRock interesting, didn't know the correct pronunciation.
Thank you, you too😊☘️ 🌵🌵🌵
I am very impressed with you you are very articulate , I almost passed did not the test, barely, my mother has already passed.
Thanks for your kind words 🌺
@@NarsFromMars , I have a favor to ask of you , I am not shy but I am an evangelical Christian and an American, I would like to reach Muslims with the gospel. I have been reading about Islam but it is hard to talk to one, Since you are more familiar with the Islamic culture .I know you are Iranian (better Persian ,right?) and all Muslims are not the same , if I were ask you general questions would you mind answering them?.
@@markrenton1093 Not a fan of religionS, man.
Plus, Iranian and non-Iranian Muslims would attack me here AGAIN.
Everything bad I've been through in life had at least something to do with religion or religious people, and I just want to be left alone in this regard.
@@NarsFromMars , sorry to hear that you have been treated that way , it makes me sad that it struck a nerve with you. People use religion as a weapon to demoralize others , that is not how the true God is , He is loving , it is people who use the name of god to harm people.
@@markrenton1093 Geeeee, what a surprise, I've never heard these words before!!!!!!!!!
LITERALLY, every religious person's justification for what anyone goes through BECAUSE OF religion!! like "JUST A FEW BAD APPLES, HONEY".
I can't pour my heart out, I'm not safe, I don't have freedom of speech here, otherwise I'd say more.
You could basically date anyone you want...your one of those rare females. embrace it and let yourself be surprised by someone great
Hi there🙋
Thank you so much🙈🌷
Well, kind of difficult even when one's not idealistic......
Since you are a good-natured and beautiful lady, I am sure that you will meet the man of your dreams!😍🥺❤🌺
Oh it's very kind of you to say that 🥰
@@NarsFromMars But you are very kind🥺😍❤
Haha, you Just described my brother! 😂🤪
😅😅 Congrats on having a fantastic brother, then
@@NarsFromMars lol 😂. My brother is a sweetheart.
What's your relationship status? I'm just curious about your ring.
Single as F😅 Right hand ✋
@@NarsFromMars I like that 😋
Would you consider a good, useful, and fun guy (not fungi)? :P
@@numb20072007 Fungi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you Nargis, I am a follower of your respectable channel and I benefited from you to learn a lot about the English language as well as the content you provide.. but you often use the word heck, I'm afraid it may not be commonly used by native speakers or I hardly hear it when they speak
،best regard
Thank you so much.
Well it's a euphemism for 'hell'
that was deep
keep making videos nice accent i really enjoyed watching your content.
You're already in your 30s and life is quite short. We're not here forever.
Stop wasting your time giving up on pursuing your happiness due to the wrong people who've disappointed you.
If you let their disappointing behavior leave a mark on you which in turn halts you from being happy, then you're basically allowing them to win over you in a negative way.
Are you gonna let that happen?
In absolutely no way should you ever give people such power. Specially to those who've let you down.
Thank you for your kind words 😊
@@NarsFromMars :)
She has to meet my brother. 😌😊♥️😉😉😉😉😉😉😉🤪
Saw your post earlier.. I k is your going to be censored.. just want to say your a beautiful woman.. be safe!!!!!
Yes.... crappy access these days, even with VPNs....
Thank you 🌺
I'm sure you break a lot of men's necks with your beauty. Hang in there and the right man will be there for you
🙈🙈🙈🍀🍀🍀 Thank you for your kind words🥰 Apparently I'm an expert in attracting a couple of guys and then having them mistreat me for some reason, then leave me, and then regret it and try to take me back when it's too late..... Is there a diagnosis for my disease??🤓
@@NarsFromMars You're welcome 🙏🏻! It sounds as if you are attracting the guys that are immature and they are probably not ready to fully commit to you. If the guy mistreats you, you don't need the person, you find yourself another person who will be more compatible and values you because you deserve to have happiness. Immaturity can go both ways for both men and women where they have a certain type but it doesn't go anywhere between them and they stay single not ever finding a serious partner. Relationships are complicated nowadays. In time, you will find the guy who is compatible with you, you just have to be patient and I'm sure that guy will appreciate you for who you are and not what you are
@@johngonzalez4298 Thank you for your comment. I agree.... And things get even more complicated when you have an anxious attachment style and can't let go even when you know they're not that good for you ........
@@NarsFromMars We all have flaws and no of us are perfect. I would say it's best to speak about your flaws with the person who you are with early on so that way they know what they're getting into and see if it's something that they will support you through. The last thing you want to come across is clingy but at the same time, you have to fight your flaws to help you mentally, emotionally, and physically. The person just has to be someone patient
@@johngonzalez4298 Thank you, John🍀 You're right. I hope things go well IF I'm going to date ever again🤓
Hey 👋🏻 great video.. you look alot different in the picture you showed (alot younger)
Thanks Bryan, yeah without makeup everyone looks younger and more innocent
@@NarsFromMars btw I'm sure you would make a great mom 👍🏻 even with your anxiety. Though if you do think that you shouldn't have kids till you're ready and know you can take care of a child.
@@bryanbradley6871 What about the 60-70% chance of the kid inheriting the anxiety??
@@NarsFromMars it depends on if the male has it... Also depending on who you get it from it might be a 25% chance.
Idk if anxiety is hereditary because if kids grow up in a good family and wealthy they're ALOT less likely NOT to have it, compared to people who had a rough up bringing. So i think its based on social experiences, self confidence and how a person is raised. (Mostly how a person is raised, because people who grew up less wealth, but had been raised better are less likely to have it than a person who grew up very wealthy, but had alot on their plate from parents)
Insightful and nice to know more about you.. 😁😍😉
Good that u shared what type of dream man u like hahahha...
For some points, yes agree with u.
1. I can't be with a man that shorter than me well ya as u said at least visible tall like me. Bcuse then it's weird feeling around him hahah i got fiance before and he's short guy but insulted me a lot think like iam his ugliest lady
2. I really don't like mommy's boy. I was regret i had engaged before with mommy's boy and ya hahaha he end up and leave disrespectfully same his parents behavior and all his family member
3. I don't like stinky man and dirty man. If he's good looking (for me) but he smells uncomfortable then it will bad feel for me
4. I don't like too religious person
5. I hope he can understand my disease (my weakness) if i can't born a baby or get pregnant
I hope you find your dream man 🥰🌷
It is possible to fail a virginity test while being a virgin (i.e. someone who has never had sex before). Therefore these tests make very little sense.
I had a virginity test once. Well, not really. We don't have them in Europe. It was a full medical check-up. I was very young and got a job. It was obligatory to see all kinds of doctors before. That one and intimate check-up is still a small trauma for me. And it happened many decades ago.
To fail?! I don't know, I've heard some people are born without a hymen.
Trauma. Exactly. And sorry to hear you had to go through a similar procedure.
@@rezamo.2005 Some conservative son of a bacon wrote me here: these tests are honours for you
@@rezamo.2005 S/he wasn't even an Iranian.
My close relatives are religious and pro-regime. Imagine the heaven I live in......
@@rezamo.2005 exactly. Everyone shoving stress up your entirety on a daily basis
So I am 100.4 cms tall, very ugly and always drunk, I lost my right leg while chasing porcupines, I'm very stupid, I'm blind in my ears, when someone speaks to me I start screaming and shouting for the goats to help me, I constantly urinate on myself, I have no consideration for anyone else unless they give me money (because I'm a beggar) and I haven't changed my clothes in 74 years. I'm not a dream man?
😅😅😅 That was a good one
Everyone's someone's dream man/woman, anyway
@@NarsFromMars You are awesome!!
@@farrobraun8843 🌺🙈🌺🙈
@@NarsFromMars I really appreciate your videos! I'm going to Iran soon and learning basic Persian.
@@farrobraun8843 Thank you so much 😊
In all honesty and under present circumstances I don't recommend anyone to visit my country, but if you ARE going to, I hope you have a great time here🙋🌺
Lol you just described me!! Funny you mentioned hands:) here in Canada, woman look at hands 1st. I look at a woman’s hair 1st and that usually answers a lot of other questions.
🤓🤓🤓
If this man exist, I think I will fall for him too, and im a man.
No one would blame you then😅
Omg, what the heck is a virginity test? Whatever that is, I am so sorry you had to go through this absurdity😱😱 Btw, all your videos are soooo interesting and giving me a great deal of insights on Iranian culture and society. I can hardly stop watching them now!!
It's a nightmare. You're in the forensic place, you lay down, the GYN tells you "open wide and push" and checks your.....inside to see whether your hymen is broken or not😖
Thank you so much dear.
@@NarsFromMars It is ridiculous that you have to do this in the first place! I wish there were a virginity test for men as well, then.
@@NarsFromMars did you hear about a political figure passing away ?
@@Somue_in_Iceland Life isn't fair, especially when you live in 3rd world, particularly in a theocracy.....
@@NarsFromMars those people will get what they deserve for all the damage they’ve done
You look beautiful Nars. 🤩
Can I ask how old are you? 😅
Thank you. I'm 35.
@@SajanSingh-mj8eh Thank you, but I'm afraid I don't connect with people on any other platform☘️
@@NarsFromMars okay, I understand 😁
Thank you for all your videos. I love them!! 😇🤩
We shall find you the perfect guy, preferably before ppl start calling you Haj Khanoom.
By the way the twitch might be a sign of caffeine poisoning.
Haj khanoom😅😅 Religious guys sometimes do, to which I reply:
من هنوز مشرف نشدم😁😁😁
Caffeine poisoning. I don't think so, I only have one cup a day.
بقول شاعر
دوباره پلک دلم میپرد نشانه چیست
شنیده ام که میآید کسی به مهمانی
هیچکسم نیومد😅
@@NarsFromMars ایشالا که یا عربستان بطلبه شما هم مشرف بشید مکه یا گزینه بعدی: آمریکا. بطلبه لاتاری گرین کارت برنده بشید.
@@hamedmanoochehri5136 😅😅😅
HII ARE YOU STILL ALIVE??? i hope ur doing good.. if ur there respond
Alive🙋
right then ... i'll let myself out.
😅😅☘️☘️☘️
We talked about ideals, IF they ever existed
Long aristocratic fingers: that's a great idiosyncratic choice, but I thought women liked men who wear suits everywhere. A virginity certificate? Wow, what the hell kind of test do you have to take to get that? The sound of it makes me want to smack a doctor for indecency. Two of these were just basic health and hygiene. I don't think that's too much to ask. Persian men sound like they need help in the romance department, but this American is too far away to coach them.
Hi Alexander, and I hope you're not sleepless actually.
Virginity check. Holy mother of dragons. You go there, lie down, the Gyn tells you to "open wide and push". And she checks your hymen, thereby testifying to your virginity on paper 😭😭😭😭
@@NarsFromMars You Persian girls go through a lot. That is definitely not how you woo a woman. The weirdest part was that his mother wanted the test. You should have told her, "You first lady".
@@alexanderthesleepless4350 Exactly, at least man up and say "it's ME who wants the certificate" not your bloody mum.
These tests are the certificates of honor and purity for girls who feel lranic. They are worth more than any Ph.D. degrees taken from a western university. The tests are performed by female doctors. Without them, an long-lasting relationship can not be established. In western
According to UNICEF In Denmark, Finland, Germany, Iceland, Norway, the United Kingdom, and the United States over 80% of girls lose their virginity before the marriage. So it must be an ordinary thing for you. You have lost your family morality, you are in complete dirt and darkness, your men and women sleep with hundreds. But relationships among lranic people are made of steel. They last lifetime and if they are broken they will hurt more than a broken bone, this is why lranzamin is the land of poetry and civilization
@@dailamitezaza9948 Oh my goodness, you're gradually getting yourself blocked🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
Hi Nars I meet all your requirements 😊
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For getting dream man you have to become dream woman 😅
Why did you delete my comment?
Which comment?
@@NarsFromMars Actually this is common in some countries to use marriage bureau , or marrige website to find a life partner ,I just asked you about that if you ever thought about that. And I can't find my comment.
@@junaidahmad4122 I didn't delete such a comment
@@NarsFromMars Sorry, then my mistake 😥
@@junaidahmad4122 Sometimes I see notifications for a comment, then I click on them to read and reply, but the comment's not there. Sometimes the person or RUclips delete some comments
I'm sorry but I failed at the first hurdle. Beer gut. I'm an atheist that drinks haram alcohol too.
Seriously though, I am actually upset that a very intelligent young lady has had her wings clipped and deliberately crippled by the state and family rather than let her go free.
We had 2 years of hell under covid nonsense in the west, but in the middle east that has been life for all women for decades.
I will say that there are plenty of highly intelligent Iranians who have escaped, most will be working in industry or science, but some youtubers stand out:
Top of my head for a famous male and female:
Mehdi Sadaghdar (Electroboom - say FULL BRIDGE RECTIFIER!)
Leila Gharani (Microsoft Excel genius. She is beautiful too.)
It's not my battle, but I haven't found a single instance of a Saudi that is of a near intelligence to any Persian and I want to be proved wrong.
Thank you for your comment 🌷🌺
I wanna marry with irani girl , how can I do? Any one interested so reply plz
This is the 100th time I'm asked this question. Well like any other nation. How can I marry a Japanese girl? Well you travel to Japan, meet someone, and see how things go. Or you meet a Japanese girl online and see how things go.
The same applies to Iran too🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Two out of ten ain't bad, right?...
😅 Bravo
I have thin hands and long fingers lol.
Well I'm religious so...
dear Nars forget about guys , get a job and marry when you're over 45
Did you hear my opening line?
I am guessing he would have to be an Iranian and a nominal muslim.
Well I talked about 'ideals' that I have in mind, but as I said I HAVE dated guys who were not like this🤷♀️
Iranian and 'nominal Muslim'. I don't care and I'm not religious, but honestly these 2 would make things easier with my family....
@@NarsFromMars I have a friend that dated a Jewish women. She broke off the relationship because her family was against her marrying outside the "tride". Staying with your own is always easier and to each his own I always say. I would be curious if your typical Persian takes issue with their women marrying Arabs even if they are Muslim. I know Persians always make the point to the rest of the world that they are not Arabs despite the fact that Persians have a lot in common with Arabs. My experience is that Persians are always on a high horse with regards to Arabs but I have to wonder if marrying an Arab would cause trouble.
@@felixyusupov7299 Well, Iran is diverse and opinions might vary depending on the family, but in most cases you're right, it wouldn't work.
Would you consider an Indian man?
@@truthseeker9522 If someone's attractive to me I think I wouldn't care about the ethnicity, but in general I don't think my family would like the idea of me being with a foreigner....
When next video?
Did upload it
@@NarsFromMars I think I have ugly fingers and also I am not very athletic … I also hate contemporary fashion
@@NarsFromMars So I am not a dream man
@@yogatonga7529 Every person is the dream man/woman for someone.
That person I'm that someone for has been lazy and that's why I'm single😅
@@NarsFromMars howzit going?
Try to be laila, a majnoon will be found ))
If we survive the Armageddon....
#mahsaamini
@@NarsFromMars wish you best dear nars.
You are not serious 😂
I am😎
Well you will need to inspect my hands 😉
@@angellowagz2207 😅😅
You ok? Hope you are having a great weekend marsbar...
@@angellowagz2207 1. Hi there☘️
2. Weekend is Thursday and Friday, which of course doesn't matter for an unemployed person....
3. Horrible days with another bout of anxiety.