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  • @CalebHammer
    @CalebHammer  5 месяцев назад +202

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    • @diegorios3661
      @diegorios3661 5 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@imacarguy4065womp womp

    • @justinleonard6183
      @justinleonard6183 5 месяцев назад

      @@diegorios3661gay

    • @rebashhhh3448
      @rebashhhh3448 5 месяцев назад +9

      its engagement bait and you've been caught dawg

    • @justinleonard6183
      @justinleonard6183 5 месяцев назад +2

      Uh oh RUclips police in the comments

    • @6ix_Strings
      @6ix_Strings 5 месяцев назад +5

      Caleb, these irresponsible people should not have their student loans forgiven. They don't deserve any handouts. You as a tax payer should tell these "adults" NO, pay your own loans, I don't want to participate in your stupidity. You signed up for it, not the taxpayers.

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 5 месяцев назад +1177

    They make $131,000 together and they have no mortgage! And they cannot live within their means?!!! 😭

    • @HazelnutDolphin
      @HazelnutDolphin 5 месяцев назад +89

      It’s crazy seeing how much they’re absolutely squandering their golden ticket to financial freedom.

    • @MimiRAM0NE
      @MimiRAM0NE 5 месяцев назад +41

      They'd be the first people to say they don't make a living wage.
      (Many people don't, but many people are also just like these people)

    • @angelasepi657
      @angelasepi657 5 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@HazelnutDolphinSmirking the whole time.

    • @rip_cayde6247
      @rip_cayde6247 5 месяцев назад +3

      That’s scary

    • @chaschuky999
      @chaschuky999 4 месяца назад +20

      @@MimiRAM0NEyeah 131k is 100% a living wage currently lmao. With children costs go up but they seem to just be extremely financially irresponsible

  • @Fierriel
    @Fierriel 5 месяцев назад +3423

    When Caleb says don’t eat out… and guests equate that to they’re not allowed to eat… AT ALL is strange to me.

    • @MissMosierable
      @MissMosierable 5 месяцев назад +272

      Especially since this lady can cook and there are 9 people in their house where 6 of them are ADULTS. The living there free without a job brother should be cooking up a storm all the time as a way to say thanks for keeping him not homeless.

    • @TheZanReviews
      @TheZanReviews 5 месяцев назад +62

      I think it’s deflection

    • @Fierriel
      @Fierriel 5 месяцев назад +99

      @@TheZanReviewsDEFINITELY! Then they get 300 for groceries in the budget portion and say they never spend that much in groceries 😂

    • @nomadic_orthodox
      @nomadic_orthodox 5 месяцев назад +63

      I don’t understand the American obsession with eating out. Hundreds or even thousands of $ for unhealthy snacks and fast food?!

    • @oliwri
      @oliwri 5 месяцев назад +38

      I have a decent pay and etill consider eating out a luxury

  • @QuickSiR
    @QuickSiR 5 месяцев назад +1668

    Making $128k/years with no rent or mortgage and not being able to live a great life without accumulating debt is insane to me.

    • @romeysiamese6662
      @romeysiamese6662 5 месяцев назад +98

      And his parents live with them. Thats live in babysitters. Also, his parents can help with utility bills, insurance & real estate taxes. No reason to be so broke. But if you spend, spend, spend …….🙄 should be socking money away for retirement.

    • @cesarordaz139
      @cesarordaz139 5 месяцев назад +27

      And they live with leeches.

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 5 месяцев назад +24

      You can't out-earn stupidity. Stupidity is too powerful and will always win the math equation.

    • @DABK2024
      @DABK2024 5 месяцев назад

      Because they're greedy Americans

    • @pookycdm
      @pookycdm 5 месяцев назад +3

      I would be mad couponing like crazy

  • @ashleyandrade2375
    @ashleyandrade2375 5 месяцев назад +527

    She’s a married single mom and doesn’t even know it 😢

    • @thedmdidit9842
      @thedmdidit9842 3 месяца назад +32

      yee, this dude seems so checked out. He would live in a gutter and let his neighbor manage his empty bottles. But hey, its about experiences.🤦‍♂

    • @rebeccaradbourne5651
      @rebeccaradbourne5651 3 месяца назад +20

      ​@@thedmdidit9842 literally id rather half the household income than have 3 kids and a man child

    • @Nico6th
      @Nico6th 3 месяца назад +12

      And now she is tied to his parents' house too. Notice, how HE is on the deed? What about her? If they carry the risk together (plus they are married), they should both be on the deed - or he gets to carry the risk of the mortgage alone.

    • @rebeccaradbourne5651
      @rebeccaradbourne5651 3 месяца назад +4

      @@Nico6th this is why respectfully my partner wasnt on our tenancy for 8yrs as i couldn't risk him signing up and leaving, its my kids home before ours. Thankfully he didn't leave or anything. Been together 12yrs now. Shared tenancy expecting 3rd now.

    • @tgasbarro
      @tgasbarro Месяц назад +1

      This is so true!!!!!

  • @ralph7463
    @ralph7463 5 месяцев назад +2670

    He looks like the kind of teacher when you ask “can I go to the bathroom?”, he responds with “I don’t know, can you?”

    • @WF4lyfe2386O
      @WF4lyfe2386O 5 месяцев назад +130

      “It depends on how you define ______ “… so childish. King of excuses and deflections.

    • @NotYomama13
      @NotYomama13 5 месяцев назад +10

      😂

    • @jamrock_shuffle
      @jamrock_shuffle 5 месяцев назад +61

      I used to always say "not unless you let me" lol.

    • @ex0ticx0x
      @ex0ticx0x 5 месяцев назад +22

      Teacher that has never been punched in the face before

    • @BblastedD
      @BblastedD 5 месяцев назад +12

      More like , can i watch?

  • @Sam_lee13
    @Sam_lee13 5 месяцев назад +1771

    A house with 9 people and 5 dogs… that sounds like literal hell.

    • @Gee_MoneyzGee_Moneyz
      @Gee_MoneyzGee_Moneyz 5 месяцев назад +69

      My next door neighbor has about 8 people and about ten dogs inside. You can imagine when all the dogs are barking inside. Im Sure, it smells amazing

    • @bc9554
      @bc9554 5 месяцев назад +21

      I wonder if they’re pitbulls

    • @LawrenceTimme
      @LawrenceTimme 5 месяцев назад +27

      @@bc9554 given none of her children have been eaten I doubt it

    • @Mightyhero777
      @Mightyhero777 5 месяцев назад +39

      Sounds like a house full of people who are incapable of making *good* decisions.

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 5 месяцев назад +21

      ​@@LawrenceTimmedon't be dog racist

  • @fayealbertson265
    @fayealbertson265 5 месяцев назад +2668

    "so you're implying we shouldn't... Eat?" bro is financially and emotionally COOKED oh my GOD

    • @AnalyticalMenace
      @AnalyticalMenace 5 месяцев назад +43

      Like a well done omelet.

    • @Alanreyes-jm1pn
      @Alanreyes-jm1pn 5 месяцев назад +54

      Bro is acoustic🎉🎉😂

    • @adamlee2550
      @adamlee2550 5 месяцев назад +43

      If he's cooked he can eat himself to save money.

    • @carmenreggediesch4556
      @carmenreggediesch4556 5 месяцев назад +9

      Financially and emotionally, but sadly not culinaricly

    • @sophiaalvarez6137
      @sophiaalvarez6137 5 месяцев назад +22

      I like how he also grabbed his moobs when Caleb did 😂

  • @jennimilindi6414
    @jennimilindi6414 5 месяцев назад +317

    The way Caleb showed self discipline by refusing the cookies set perfect example how to refuse WANTS. Way to go 🎉

    • @fatabbot6
      @fatabbot6 2 месяца назад +6

      You know he ate those after they left 🤣

    • @rainyreyes1010
      @rainyreyes1010 29 дней назад +2

      Totally agree...I always support anyone who says"no", never pressure to eat sugary foods, not trying to sabotage progress "just one won't hurt"-ugh...❤

    • @dangercovey
      @dangercovey 28 дней назад

      You can do it Caleb, cut the carbs to less than 25 per day and get plenty of protein. I've lost 75lbs saying no to delicious treats.

  • @hannahl3891
    @hannahl3891 5 месяцев назад +785

    “I’m more valuable than the debt that’s there”
    *makes wife be the one who has to stress about it.*

    • @bc9554
      @bc9554 5 месяцев назад +22

      He’s the prize sister 💅

    • @armandovela4415
      @armandovela4415 5 месяцев назад +9

      and doordash 😂

    • @Draggonny
      @Draggonny 5 месяцев назад

      I think that what he was trying to express is that he keeps himself in the dark because otherwise he'd worry himself sick and not be able to work. He's keeping his head in the sand as a survival strategy. The problem is that it isn't working because they're getting further and further into the hole with their credit card debt.

    • @James-n6o9e
      @James-n6o9e 4 месяца назад +2

      They're a lesbian couple

    • @granitemoss1451
      @granitemoss1451 2 месяца назад

      D-bag extraordinaire.

  • @ricks4740
    @ricks4740 5 месяцев назад +2673

    Dude should switch from teaching social studies to teaching P.E. with these mental gymnastics he’s performing

  • @ngb4726
    @ngb4726 5 месяцев назад +1783

    "Sometimes I have to be in debt to do the things I wanna do"
    Caleb, please educate this man. Holy shit.

    • @lot2196
      @lot2196 5 месяцев назад +95

      That's not a man. A man sacrifices his wants to support his family.

    • @juliogranados1077
      @juliogranados1077 5 месяцев назад +4

      Great timing 🙃 just got on lunch 😉

    • @modernNeanderthal800
      @modernNeanderthal800 5 месяцев назад

      Inflation got worse because people subsidized life style inflation at 20 before having an income to support the debt.
      Basically the people crying created their own inflation and their own problems.
      No one wants to suffer through work for 10 years and they want all the toys right away

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 5 месяцев назад +6

      lot2196 I agree but I don’t think the semantics really matter here

    • @PANIC_aka_PinD
      @PANIC_aka_PinD 5 месяцев назад +19

      @@lot2196 Actually, a man gets his stuff together before making the life-altering decision to have a family.

  • @angielafranchi3727
    @angielafranchi3727 5 месяцев назад +569

    “But they’re matcha, they’re healthy!” Is so incredibly telling. Major props to Caleb for his self control. Hopefully they’ll take a lesson from him.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад +16

      Definitely not sugar free 😂 she reassured him

    • @graceclover8697
      @graceclover8697 5 месяцев назад +10

      lmao depends on how she made it, most people put hella sugar in their matcha so it doesn’t takes like grass

    • @pippetandpossum
      @pippetandpossum 4 месяца назад +24

      She was joking, obviously.

    • @James-n6o9e
      @James-n6o9e 4 месяца назад +1

      She's the same person to drink 12 doet cokes and say it's healthy no sugar

    • @RaroHi
      @RaroHi 3 месяца назад +5

      Can we not be weird about people eating food

  • @Undefined14
    @Undefined14 5 месяцев назад +1014

    "we got hit by an 18 wheeler"
    "we were deemed at fault"
    As a trucker myself, there is a 0% chance you weren't fucking around if you were deemed at fault. Your language tells us you have trouble taking responsibility.

    • @Ljsthoughts
      @Ljsthoughts 5 месяцев назад +89

      I follow a trucker here on youtube who posts clip after clip of people like them almost causing accidents. People assume just because a semi is a bigger vehicle the person is more aggressive in driving and has worse driving skills.
      As far as I understand, you guys have to rely more on *us* being good drivers because it takes a lot longer for the trucks to come to a stop/be maneuvered in general.
      I wish you safe travels!

    • @jacobrheaume1
      @jacobrheaume1 5 месяцев назад +11

      Wait…can you please explain this? I’ve always wanted to know what the truckers on 95 think of and how they see other motorists. I’d honestly want to see an AMA w a CDL truck driver

    • @teagues6660
      @teagues6660 5 месяцев назад +68

      Thank you!!! I drive a truck too and that was making me crazy. every time they talked about it, you can tell they still don't believe they were at fault. Like I'm sorry but your driving has to be pretty god damn egregious to be found 100% at fault in a truck accident.
      They don't need a safer car, they need to be safer drivers.

    • @SpoonHurler
      @SpoonHurler 5 месяцев назад +32

      All the highly affordable camera set ups have really helped truckers and the industry... back 20 years ago you just paid out cause "You're the truck, you have to be better" but these people cannot drive in a manner to let a truck physically (like actual physics) fuction on a road. They were 1000% at fault and got given evidence as such or they'd still be trying to sue definitely.

    • @WilC379
      @WilC379 5 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@SpoonHurlerYup. I am positive that law enforcement and insurance companies coined the term "professional driver" for the sole purpose of making their jobs easier and to generate more revenue from truckers. If they ever viewed us as "professionals" they would extend some level of professional courtesy or at least interact with us in a professional manner.

  • @thesweetest_
    @thesweetest_ 5 месяцев назад +3206

    Who tf takes a women that's 8 months pregnant camping and has them sleep in a car and then complains that they dont like camping?! Dude is crazy selfish.
    Edit: People, my comment doesn't say she didn't have a choice. My comment is about him complaining and acting like a whiny baby about his pregnant wife not enjoying camping while close to giving birth.

    • @kayleespeirs
      @kayleespeirs 5 месяцев назад +192

      I was looking for a comment saying this!! This guy is ridiculous, no wonder she didn’t have fun, that whole experience sounds awful!

    • @thesweetest_
      @thesweetest_ 5 месяцев назад +126

      @@kayleespeirs Right?! I would've refused to go if I were her. Won't catch me sleeping in a car a few weeks away from giving birth.

    • @MissMosierable
      @MissMosierable 5 месяцев назад +121

      In Texas no less. We aren't even talking like in Michigan where it isn't as hot at night. Nope. In the easy bake oven of Texas. Lawd.

    • @Lancelot0311
      @Lancelot0311 5 месяцев назад +16

      She should be lucky a man is even willing to take her and her kid in. Single moms should lower their standards and be appreciative

    • @eherman419
      @eherman419 5 месяцев назад +54

      At 38 weeks I was miserable just existing. I would have lost my mind if someone even suggested going camping. The sweat, pain, swelling, and braxton hicks contractions would have ended me.

  • @Irisbluered
    @Irisbluered 5 месяцев назад +867

    Tell your kids no…it’s a lesson on consumerism vs spending time w them

    • @MissMosierable
      @MissMosierable 5 месяцев назад +22

      Also, tell them no, and then help them figure out how to get there on their own (for their 11yo child).

    • @TwattWaffleWhitney
      @TwattWaffleWhitney 5 месяцев назад +18

      Definitely. We grew up with thrifted clothes and toys. We didn't have our own phones or tablets. And we didn't get vacation. But we felt loved and like we had so much.

    • @PomsNTomsMom92
      @PomsNTomsMom92 5 месяцев назад +14

      One of the best things my parents ever told us was NO. 💯 I'm thankful for them not spoiling us.

    • @SpoonHurler
      @SpoonHurler 5 месяцев назад +4

      You gotta tell em noooo... You got to tell em No! Cause -Diddy- Kids like to party.

    • @ish80572
      @ish80572 5 месяцев назад +20

      5’3” 11 year old at 160 pounds needs “no” before he becomes diabetic. A two year old in a 4T is headed that way. A five year old with special needs will need extra help throughout school. They are not considering their children’s futures (financial and otherwise).

  • @BlakLotus
    @BlakLotus 5 месяцев назад +273

    “When a wife has a loving husband. She is relaxed”
    SHES ABSORBING ALL THE STRESS.
    A math teacher? A mother of three? And she lives with her in-laws? Of course she’d feel alone!
    My heart and soul goes out to her. She deserves better♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад

      What about her snide remarks about her children, her son's dangerous obesity, her refusal to take responsibility for anything ... tells you she deserves a better husband than the cuddle pillow next to her?

    • @trish1344
      @trish1344 5 месяцев назад +33

      I was thinking the same thing. She married a man who not only ended up just becoming another child for her to care for but possibly added two more by expecting her to take on caring for his parents. And now his brothers too? I would be an absolute wreck. I don’t blame her for being a bit in denial. Even just criticizing her for “not liking camping” when she’s EIGHT months pregnant is insane.

    • @deirdrekiely6187
      @deirdrekiely6187 5 месяцев назад +14

      ​@@trish1344No one forced her to marry him!!!

    • @MimiRAM0NE
      @MimiRAM0NE 5 месяцев назад +16

      She's not a mail order bride, she picked him. She's also Miss I forgot my debit card, matcha cookies are healthy, my child can't fit in a sedan because I've fed him to severe obesity and don't care about it. People tend to partner at their level.

    • @sam-ky9sj
      @sam-ky9sj 4 месяца назад +10

      "She does DoorDash because she likes sitting in the car in silence" is telling me all I need to know about this situation. Even her free time is spent bringing money in, just for her husband to buy bullcrap. She's also probably not left alone for a single second. Just a married single mother lmao.

  • @sarahporter806
    @sarahporter806 5 месяцев назад +376

    Who leaves their debit card at home but has their credit card? Someone who knows the debit card would be declined

    • @Santa1936
      @Santa1936 5 месяцев назад +24

      I leave my debit card at home and only use credit because a stolen credit card won’t end up costing me my actual money

    • @ambie920
      @ambie920 5 месяцев назад +14

      @@Santa1936 Totally understand that, but that doesn't seem to be the logic this lady is operating on. It sounds like she's just...forgetting it??

    • @KrystalAri
      @KrystalAri 5 месяцев назад +9

      Some people convince themselves that CCs offer them more protection. Meanwhile both their cards are issued by the same company 😂 Mental gymnastics to stay in debt

    • @philiam0420
      @philiam0420 5 месяцев назад +7

      @@KrystalAriif someone steals your credit card and goes on a spending spree, that’s the banks problem. You aren’t on the hook for any of it. In a debit card you are.

    • @Mizelei2012
      @Mizelei2012 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@philiam0420 but a Debit card requires them to know your PIN code.

  • @brittanywelty566
    @brittanywelty566 5 месяцев назад +409

    My dad had the same mindset as this dad and was super lax about finances, didn’t want to stress over things, wanted to buy his children great memories. We had great Christmas and birthdays, but I also watched our family car get repoed from our driveway, watched him sell trucks and motorcycles after money fights with my mom, and experienced our family getting kicked out of our foreclosed home after they filed bankruptcy. Those moments were traumatizing. This dad doesn’t realize what harm he could put his kids through.

    • @lizard2222
      @lizard2222 5 месяцев назад +16

      You literally described my childhood. It was very unstable, damn near homeless, and traumatic. As a child you feel powerless.

    • @SixthSenseSynesthete
      @SixthSenseSynesthete 5 месяцев назад +16

      One of my good friends had a similar situation growing up...had all the latest toys and gadgets for Christmas but then didn't have any money for college and had to send money to her parents to survive as an adult. It's sad how some parents don't see the long term impact of those decisions.

    • @kaptynssirensong2357
      @kaptynssirensong2357 5 месяцев назад +3

      My goodness…

    • @theneonpython
      @theneonpython 5 месяцев назад +3

      ​@SixthSenseSynesthete literally my situation. I love my parents to death but i send them a lot of money now

  • @kylehenkel
    @kylehenkel 5 месяцев назад +886

    I remember when these shows were 45 minutes. And a 1 hour was a sweet treat.
    But these 1h 30m videos… damn near feels like a golden ticket to the sweet treat factory every MWF

    • @Idontwanttochangeitlater
      @Idontwanttochangeitlater 5 месяцев назад +33

      I checked the length too. The longer it is the more unhinged it's guaranteed to be😂

    • @Pleiades721
      @Pleiades721 5 месяцев назад +4

      Lmao. Glad to hear I'm not the only one.

    • @kylehill4437
      @kylehill4437 5 месяцев назад +2

      Agree

  • @mayahdoss7050
    @mayahdoss7050 5 месяцев назад +365

    As a truck driver, what happened is that she changed lanes without looking. Terrifying position to put that trucker in not to mention it impacted their career. And then not own up to it. SMH

    • @lynn_guini
      @lynn_guini 5 месяцев назад +45

      It's people like this that make me glad I drive a rig with an inward camera as well as an outward. My company has been faced with claims from insurance-frauding 4 wheelers, and the cases were open-shut--we have proof that you hit the vehicle AND that the driver wasn't distracted (usually their whole argument).

    • @evilbong182
      @evilbong182 5 месяцев назад +25

      Commercial insurance adjuster here, if you’re owner/operator, get a dash cam. If you work for a company that doesn’t supply them, find a new employer. So many rear end accidents caused by ppl that don’t look and change lanes and the only saving grace is the dash cam because tractor/trailers cannot stop.

    • @angelasepi657
      @angelasepi657 5 месяцев назад +5

      She feels safer in this current automobile in case she decides to share a lane with another semi.

    • @PurpleHazeVanNederlands
      @PurpleHazeVanNederlands 4 месяца назад +3

      I could tell it was their fault

    • @James-n6o9e
      @James-n6o9e 4 месяца назад

      The reason is she's a women terrible driver s

  • @olivetaylor4514
    @olivetaylor4514 5 месяцев назад +642

    6 figures, no housing payments, living paycheck to paycheck…… GOODNESS GRACIOUS

    • @James-n6o9e
      @James-n6o9e 4 месяца назад +9

      Like Caleb said it doesn't matter how much you make but how much you spend is the key

    • @michaelbowers7870
      @michaelbowers7870 2 месяца назад

      And they want their student loans paid for by tax payers.

    • @Lamentlogic
      @Lamentlogic 24 дня назад

      You can't out earn a bad spending habit.

  • @codycannon1049
    @codycannon1049 5 месяцев назад +1109

    These two are teaching children? A math teacher who doesn’t know her numbers and a social studies teacher who is oblivious to his own situation. Yikes

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 5 месяцев назад +85

      And you wonder why education is in the state that it’s in.
      To be fair, the old saying is “those who can’t do, teach”

    • @ericthornberg9377
      @ericthornberg9377 5 месяцев назад +46

      She didn't know that a Prius would struggle to fit her three growing children in the backseat. I'm still stuck on that

    • @6ix_Strings
      @6ix_Strings 5 месяцев назад +28

      And they want their student loans forgiven by the tax payers 😂

    • @TacticalCactusMedia
      @TacticalCactusMedia 5 месяцев назад

      @@hornetguy9063the only people who have ever said that with any semblance of seriousness are the ones completely oblivious to what it’s like being an educator. Just like most other trades, we ignore all the education, certifications, technical skills and knowledge needed. For example, when most go to a five star meal, we think “yum that was amazing”, and not all the years of training, crazy hours, and sacrifice needed to make it to that level. It’s easy to scoff about things we have little understanding of.

    • @basednwhitepilld
      @basednwhitepilld 5 месяцев назад +14

      Homeschool your kids

  • @aledzeppelin
    @aledzeppelin 5 месяцев назад +1388

    It’s so appalling how many couples with literal CHILDREN can be so irresponsible. If they had a 6 month emergency fund they could have survived the 4 months she was out of work.

    • @lot2196
      @lot2196 5 месяцев назад +85

      Especially with a paid off home. If I understood that correctly. I missed a year of work battling cancer, spent four weeks in a coma. We came out fine.

    • @averyward7520
      @averyward7520 5 месяцев назад +44

      @@lot2196 God damn that sucks. I hope you are feeling well best wishes to you!

    • @seantookit
      @seantookit 5 месяцев назад

      @@lot2196hell yeah! You made cancer your bitch!

    • @K1llMongerz
      @K1llMongerz 5 месяцев назад +2

      YUP

    • @LilyEvans1996
      @LilyEvans1996 5 месяцев назад +5

      It’s why I can’t have kids lol I am barely responsible enough for me 😂

  • @janeandrews1790
    @janeandrews1790 5 месяцев назад +199

    He is so insecure. If he were a secure adult he’d realize that making memories with your kids requires time , attention, and imagination. It does NOT depend on going into enormous debt.
    Do you want your kids’ memories to be of your ignorance and irresponsibility?

    • @James-n6o9e
      @James-n6o9e 4 месяца назад +1

      Mature is the word your looking for ..the wife in the blue shirt is immature

  • @MirandaSinistra
    @MirandaSinistra 5 месяцев назад +472

    How is it she never forgets her credit cards but manages to always 'forget' her debit card?

    • @2tired2sleep2
      @2tired2sleep2 5 месяцев назад +2

      !!!!

    • @Opaheke1
      @Opaheke1 5 месяцев назад +5

      100% this

    • @mithicash1444
      @mithicash1444 5 месяцев назад +10

      They are probably hooked up to her apple pay. I would bet money on it.

    • @Quantris
      @Quantris 5 месяцев назад

      @@mithicash1444 can you not put debit cards on apple pay? (honest q: I have Android and my bank card is on it)

    • @RomvnlyPlays
      @RomvnlyPlays 5 месяцев назад

      @@mithicash1444so my debit card

  • @Bk-mm5vb
    @Bk-mm5vb 5 месяцев назад +588

    I’d rather be single than have a husband like this. He’s so passive

    • @applefarm6126
      @applefarm6126 5 месяцев назад +4

      Yea

    • @kittenwu8527
      @kittenwu8527 5 месяцев назад +18

      Smarmy 😢too

    • @connor4392
      @connor4392 5 месяцев назад

      or her, self diagnoised autism lol they should both do each other a favor and find someone else

    • @ChipmunkDesu
      @ChipmunkDesu 5 месяцев назад

      @@sdm1568what are you the woman in the video covering for your shitty husband 🙄

    • @courtneya2207
      @courtneya2207 5 месяцев назад +50

      He’s worse than passive, he’s causing problems and then stepping back and making it her problem

  • @chucknv5482
    @chucknv5482 5 месяцев назад +752

    Caleb has definitively proven to me that managing finances is behavioral and not about numbers until you fix the behavior and rationalization problems. “So you are saying because we have debt that we can’t eat out?” Dude yes, eating out is like 5x as expensive. That’s a luxury if you care about not working till you are 75.

    • @fredfinger7092
      @fredfinger7092 5 месяцев назад +11

      This is part of Dave Ramsey's philosophy as well; that's why they use "snowball" to get some small wins instead of the mathematically better "avalanche" method.

    • @lot2196
      @lot2196 5 месяцев назад +8

      Absolutely. 99% of financial problems are self-inflicted.

    • @skullfullofbooks7398
      @skullfullofbooks7398 5 месяцев назад +3

      I've been eating out a bit more because of moving and woo boy even subs are a little too expensive! 😅 Now I remember why I spend the money on groceries instead and cook.

    • @AFG1381
      @AFG1381 5 месяцев назад +4

      @FreePigeonIf true, then, most ppl aren’t planning and sacrificing enough.

    • @dnllamb
      @dnllamb 5 месяцев назад +8

      @fredfinger7092 also like Dave's saying "personal finance is 20% knowledge and 80% behaviour"

  • @caseyd3664
    @caseyd3664 4 месяца назад +46

    She can start selling her coffee and cookies at events with just a 6 foot table and a pop up. Vendor fees are usually fairly low for local markets, and food vendors (especially desserts) sell really well. Most of the dessert vendors I’ve worked with even sell out before the event is over. A food truck isn’t needed. Invest in branding and packaging instead.

  • @jamie.h5850
    @jamie.h5850 5 месяцев назад +3064

    Did he just say, "My emotional state is more important," implying that THAT is more important than his kids' future? 💀 I'd divorce him so fast.

    • @CalebHammer
      @CalebHammer  5 месяцев назад +492

      Rip

    • @Sniperboy5551
      @Sniperboy5551 5 месяцев назад +111

      To be fair, I could never be a teacher. Kids are awful these days.

    • @Sketchy--
      @Sketchy-- 5 месяцев назад +124

      Please don't get married then. If you think a bit of a mental barrier or simple ignorance when it comes to self-desires and the family unit is the cause for "DIVORCE HIM SO FAST" don't get married.
      People are not perfect, people show their shortcomings in many ways, at many different times in life. It's YOUR JOB as a PARTNER to assist them with learning and developing to be better. It isn't just "WHY ARENT THEY GOOD NOW!!!!!!!" Pretending that you NEVER said anything rash, ridiculous, or off the wall, is absurd and lucky for you it wasn't on a RUclips channel millions watch. Have some perspective.
      If you aren't ready for that responsibility to yourself and your partner, it's not time to get married. And sure, if they don't want to listen or make any efforts towards progress, then speak to them about how that is having negative outcomes on your family, you, and themselves. Which, if not addressed, will start feelings of you wanting to move away from the marriage.

    • @modernNeanderthal800
      @modernNeanderthal800 5 месяцев назад +61

      Lol I put my wife and myself over our.... Children -- lol that's why we don't have any. We prefer us!!

    • @serendipityhere2029
      @serendipityhere2029 5 месяцев назад +46

      TBF, a parent's emotional state will directly impact their ability to be a good parent. What I think is wrong is the way that his kid's future overlapping with his poor decisions should affect his mental state as well.
      There are a lot of ways to improve your emotional and overall mental well-being without jeopardizing your family's future and stability.

  • @jaked9538
    @jaked9538 5 месяцев назад +534

    The dude is the most insufferable partner ive ever seen, literally could not care less about his family

    • @I_NoahGuy
      @I_NoahGuy 5 месяцев назад +14

      Could not care less*

    • @AWM42389
      @AWM42389 5 месяцев назад +28

      Feel like every guy that is a s/o the last month or so has been terrible. The one guy not willing to compromise or sell his toys. The other one blaming his 37 year old wife when he is a giant man child.

    • @khuranapriyanka
      @khuranapriyanka 5 месяцев назад +1

      Couldn’t *** care less

    • @AndrewDobbsTX
      @AndrewDobbsTX 5 месяцев назад +30

      In Buddhism we're taught that equanimity is one of the highest mental states we can achieve, but there is a "near enemy" of equanimity -- something that LOOKS like it but which is actually its opposite: indifference. This guy is very unwise and has fallen into the trap of thinking that saying "fuck it" is the same as transcending normal worldly concerns. He's indulging all of his desires and expecting other people to do both the emotional and the literal labor necessary to pay for it all. What a fool.

    • @SyKnife
      @SyKnife 5 месяцев назад

      @@AndrewDobbsTXFool is such the perfect word for this guy.

  • @darbydeford6270
    @darbydeford6270 5 месяцев назад +542

    “Duck genocide, it was incredible memories” 💀

    • @michaelgonzalez8958
      @michaelgonzalez8958 5 месяцев назад +12

      I was looking for this comment. Had me dead.😂
      My dad would take us to do the same thing. Great memories.

    • @karingarrett7862
      @karingarrett7862 5 месяцев назад +7

      "The math isn't mathin"...to a math teacher😅

    • @nadiavanrensburg4604
      @nadiavanrensburg4604 5 месяцев назад +2

      We go for breakfast once a month so our son can play in the kids area. Before this we hadn’t gone out for more than two years. We also have 5 cats and 5 dogs so we make the decision not to eat out. We have the animals instead

    • @pensandshakers
      @pensandshakers 17 дней назад

      We loved the ducks at our university. RIP babies, we were stupid teens.

  • @izzyduffy760
    @izzyduffy760 5 месяцев назад +127

    All three sons still live with their parents, that says everything you need to know.

    • @izzyduffy760
      @izzyduffy760 5 месяцев назад +14

      No wonder their own kid doesn’t want to move out of his grandparents house lol

    • @imageisn0thing
      @imageisn0thing 3 месяца назад +6

      Yes the lack of financial literacy is generational

  • @MirandaSinistra
    @MirandaSinistra 5 месяцев назад +913

    131k combined income, and they own the house outright.
    These are gonna be some expensive asf taquitos.
    Edit: Further in the episode they clarify that husband is only partial owner with his parents.
    Even still they're not paying for the mortgage so they're living without a house payment/rent and still this much in debt with a 6 figure income.

    • @kylebanks13
      @kylebanks13 5 месяцев назад +55

      And they have 4 people living with them that could all pay like 300$ in rent.

    • @joan1609
      @joan1609 5 месяцев назад +28

      ​@@kylebanks13 His parents own the home and his brothers aren't any less of their children than he is to be demanding rent.

    • @kylebanks13
      @kylebanks13 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@joan1609 ahh sorry I misunderstood I guess

    • @serendipityhere2029
      @serendipityhere2029 5 месяцев назад +22

      my jaw actually dropped when they said they own their home. My husband extensively have talked over how much you gain living in a home that's paid off, like holy shit.

    • @kellebelle
      @kellebelle 5 месяцев назад +23

      @@serendipityhere2029 Yeeeeeah but just wait, they don't actually own the home, it's his PARENTS' home.

  • @FabiWann
    @FabiWann 5 месяцев назад +787

    She's gifting diabetes to her kid. 160 Lbs at 11 is mad.

    • @mellowbirddreamer77
      @mellowbirddreamer77 5 месяцев назад +90

      That's almost as heavy as my 27 yr old 6 foot husband. That's very bad

    • @coltonkay9000
      @coltonkay9000 5 месяцев назад +48

      Think she said he was 5'3" too...
      :/

    • @chester5324
      @chester5324 5 месяцев назад +24

      I'm 40 and only 135 pounds :O

    • @squaaa7082
      @squaaa7082 5 месяцев назад +16

      Im 23, shredded, 5'10, 146.......

    • @The_Man_Welding
      @The_Man_Welding 5 месяцев назад +30

      They’ve ruined that kids life already

  • @greatestofalltime123
    @greatestofalltime123 5 месяцев назад +566

    They live in a 5 bedroom house with 9 people and have the nerve to say it's claustrophobic living in the suburbs. These people are delusional

    • @TonyBologna805
      @TonyBologna805 5 месяцев назад +27

      Ha! My exact thought. The acreage can’t make up for the insanely tight living conditions

    • @YourRump
      @YourRump 5 месяцев назад +25

      With 5 dogs.

    • @rorycolgan
      @rorycolgan 5 месяцев назад +18

      Have any of you lived in the country? I lived with 5 people in a 5 bedroom house in the country and an apartment with one person in a city. The city was suffocating. I understand their situation

    • @rest0re871
      @rest0re871 5 месяцев назад +12

      @@rorycolgan Thankfully not

    • @vectoon3739
      @vectoon3739 5 месяцев назад

      don't forget the 5 dogs

  • @ch1cksng3r
    @ch1cksng3r 5 месяцев назад +238

    She “forgets” her debit card A LOT!! Mine kinda lives with my drivers license.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад +14

      She remembers that there's nothing in the account

    • @The92Waffles
      @The92Waffles 5 месяцев назад +8

      in this thing called a wallet lol

    • @ch1cksng3r
      @ch1cksng3r 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@The92Waffles well, mine just go into a pocket because I don’t do a purse or wallet/billfold (I USED to be addicted to purses). But they sit together and go into the pocket together. But, yeah, if I had no money in the bank, that would probably not be the case 🤣😂

    • @Karen.c.h
      @Karen.c.h 5 месяцев назад +3

      The only thing I use my debit card for is the ATM.

    • @therealmolldoll8605
      @therealmolldoll8605 5 месяцев назад +6

      I don't understand why it would have to leave her purse or wallet to begin with. That makes zero sense to me.

  • @3pointstance484
    @3pointstance484 5 месяцев назад +119

    I am a Middle school teacher in Tx as well. The moment the STAAR test is done it’s typically “fill in” time the last month of school. I Taught my students about bank accounts, proper credit card usage, and getting more background info on the jobs they’re interested in via salary deep dives, possible federal taxes, etc. Shout out to Caleb😂

    • @ArmstrongMixture
      @ArmstrongMixture 5 месяцев назад +16

      You're doing more for those kids than most parents will and will forever be remembered as a favorite teacher for doing so.

    • @yyyeseniaa
      @yyyeseniaa 5 месяцев назад +8

      Thank you for what you do!!!

  • @DDEHoodStarz
    @DDEHoodStarz 5 месяцев назад +374

    Made an $11k payment to pay off my Honda CRV! Now just have $6k in student loans left! 🎉

    • @Inumiru
      @Inumiru 5 месяцев назад +13

      Hell yeah! You got this!

    • @ashleykathryn9038
      @ashleykathryn9038 5 месяцев назад +7

      Awesome job! You got this 💪

    • @kes9171
      @kes9171 5 месяцев назад +5

      Great moves being made on a great car!!

    • @jakeschubert5430
      @jakeschubert5430 5 месяцев назад +5

      Keep it up! 🎉

    • @baitroyale6070
      @baitroyale6070 5 месяцев назад +3

      Awesome excited for you!

  • @gorgly123
    @gorgly123 5 месяцев назад +554

    I get 5% cash back. The interest rate is 27%. This is why the country is doomed with people like this teaching math to our kids.

    • @ericthornberg9377
      @ericthornberg9377 5 месяцев назад +39

      The credit card companies are laughing their asses off at that comment

    • @6ix_Strings
      @6ix_Strings 5 месяцев назад

      And they want their student loans forgiven by the tax payers. So they can do more stupid things because they were given hand outs in life.

    • @nwinsto602
      @nwinsto602 5 месяцев назад +14

      She's teaching math not finances 😂 and yes I know there's math in finance but I didn't learn shit about what a good or bad interest rate was in grades k-12

    • @AbruptAvalanche
      @AbruptAvalanche 5 месяцев назад +18

      That's 27% interest after a year, whereas the 5% back is immediate, so it's not really apples to apples. Mathematically, it is better to use that card for the cash back compared to a debit card with zero cash back, as long as you pay it off quickly. Obviously, the issue is that they're not paying off their cards quickly, so they shouldn't be using credit cards at all.
      The cash back can be a psychological trick to get people to spend more and go deeper into credit card debt. When used responsibly though, it can be a positive thing, regardless of the interest rate on the card.

    • @T03L3G
      @T03L3G 5 месяцев назад

      Big number big rate bro 😂​@@nwinsto602

  • @sunshine4ndrainbows397
    @sunshine4ndrainbows397 5 месяцев назад +58

    Caleb with that cookie refusal modeling good behavior by flexing that willpower muscle he is always telling others to work on 👏👏👏

  • @brittneyHunt-ft2xy
    @brittneyHunt-ft2xy 5 месяцев назад +361

    He looks like he’s wondering where they should stop to eat after this.

    • @TonT12345
      @TonT12345 5 месяцев назад +12

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jennameyer5988
      @jennameyer5988 5 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂100% truth😂😂😂😂

  • @AngelaValentine
    @AngelaValentine 5 месяцев назад +191

    Dude is so weak and nonchalant. I could never have respect for a husband who acted that way. He couldn’t care less.

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 5 месяцев назад +26

      Literally. How did he even have the energy to make any children? He probably just sat there while the wife did all the work. He's like a dead battery.

    • @magicdragon9621
      @magicdragon9621 5 месяцев назад +28

      His cockiness is what kills me. He's so uninformed yet thinks he has it figured out by choosing to not care. And he doesn't even recognize that he's pushing the boulder of debt the entire time.
      He doesn't want to hear any of it either. He doesn't even seem like a likable person. Atleast the wife is friendly and willing to listen, and is the one who's actually aware of all their finances. Isn't like she works less and has more time to be taking on the stress by herself. Guarantee he's one of those guys who does the bare minimum of childcare responsibilities too.

    • @rgomoffat
      @rgomoffat 3 месяца назад

      EXACTLY

  • @tamikens
    @tamikens 5 месяцев назад +440

    I want to give this guy some context on why not getting ahold of his debt is a bad thing. My dad was terrible with money. A couple of years ago, he passed away suddenly. Even though my parents had been separated for a decade, they were still legally married, and suddenly, my father's debts became my mom's responsibility. He lived his life perpetually in the red for the things he wanted, and now his wife and children have to deal with the consequences of that selfishness. I've never fully grieved the loss of my father because I am constantly angry about the position he left our family in out of his own irresponsibility.
    When you leave your family saddled with debt either due to death or disability, your kids will not care that you went into debt so they could eat out all the time and take vacations when they were younger. All they will see is the fact that you were too irresponsible to do the bare minimum of making sure your ducks were in a row just in case. Maybe you can handle the dollar amount, but that pales in comparison to the lack of respect that your family suddenly has for you when they are stuck filling the hole you dug for them.

    • @MPPG663
      @MPPG663 5 месяцев назад +34

      This. ALL of this. 🙌💯

    • @gamblewithchica
      @gamblewithchica 5 месяцев назад +16

      Thank you for sharing your experience! I hope he sees this!!!

    • @rebeccazeman9309
      @rebeccazeman9309 5 месяцев назад +26

      Hard agree! My mom is the one who has been terrible with money and she became disabled and had to move in with me and my husband. She still couldn't get a handle on her finances with no rent or utilities to pay so she spent what retirement she had and is now in assisted living on Medicaid. She still cannot get a hang of finances and is having my sister buy groceries(she's fed 3 meals by the assisted living facility so I'm refusing to do this for her as I've helped her enough). It's beyond frustrating

    • @popyNcorny
      @popyNcorny 5 месяцев назад +11

      Caleb should pin this comment. It is so valuable to hear this

    • @Livetoread1979
      @Livetoread1979 5 месяцев назад

      @@MPPG663❤

  • @dmak90
    @dmak90 5 месяцев назад +44

    This show has REALLY opened my eyes. I now know I am not a “credit card person”, and I had my horrible past with credit cards - currently finishing a consumer proposal. Seeing how others justify stupid spending is like looking in a mirror and seeing a person I never ever want to be again.

  • @kadestewart577
    @kadestewart577 5 месяцев назад +200

    This infuriates me people have no clue how good they have it. 100k household! And they can’t figure it out?? I’m figuring it out on 40k with twins in a one income household. Jeez

    • @MirandaSinistra
      @MirandaSinistra 5 месяцев назад +13

      Same here, 50k with 4 kids.
      They've got 100k and don't have to pay rent/mortgage.
      They're so much better off than most households and they're just blowing all their money.

    • @spotek275
      @spotek275 5 месяцев назад +5

      its actually a 131k income household which is insane

  • @Sarah_C68
    @Sarah_C68 5 месяцев назад +312

    The fact that most of the people on here cant grasp that eating and going OUT to eat are 2 different entities is mind boggling to me .

    • @philwill0123
      @philwill0123 5 месяцев назад +13

      Exactly. Go out to eat once a week? Doable.
      Buying door dash and buying crap 5-6 days a week? No.

    • @anniedinh3908
      @anniedinh3908 5 месяцев назад

      First world country problem. Then they all complain about being broke and eat the rich

    • @bunniesandbeauty700
      @bunniesandbeauty700 2 месяца назад

      Because they be doopid

  • @rodrigoc.974
    @rodrigoc.974 5 месяцев назад +140

    from the heart. I was awful with money and I still struggle, in one video, someone's situation was so similar to mine that every single one of Caleb's arguments felt directly targeted at me. (Not trying to be self-centered here) but a few days later, I started studying different kinds of budgets, created a budget plan and the momentary relief of years of stress just evaporated from the single fact that I KNEW where my money was and where I was in life.
    I have now almost repaid ALL of my debt and can, after 6 months, finally say, I'm doing good.
    Big man himself prolly won't read this but still - thank you Caleb. My life and my perspective on it, most literally took an entire turn for the better because of your videos and your incredible, INCREDIBLE ability to be honest and real with people regardlesss of how they might perceive you.
    Thanks.

    • @triswilsful
      @triswilsful 5 месяцев назад +6

      Congratulations! This is amazing

    • @TonT12345
      @TonT12345 5 месяцев назад +3

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @sarahsmith3682
      @sarahsmith3682 5 месяцев назад +4

      That's awesome! Good for you!

    • @Snowwhitetrash
      @Snowwhitetrash 24 дня назад

      Yay!!!!! And same. Found him last week and feel so much better with a plan and an end of debt in sight!

  • @Pustul
    @Pustul 5 месяцев назад +217

    All those “good for you” matcha cookies got their son to 160 pounds at 11…

    • @Pustul
      @Pustul 5 месяцев назад +29

      I actually really like matcha and an unsweetened matcha tea is certainly good for you. But just adding some matcha powder to sugary+fatty foods don’t magically turn them into healthy foods.

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 5 месяцев назад +9

      They're unhealthy in so many ways. In mind, body, and spirit.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@Pustulyou haven't tried the green crystal m3th

    • @claireshields4079
      @claireshields4079 5 месяцев назад +10

      nobody is commenting on the 2 yr old being in 4T clothing… holy shit

    • @jvall5879
      @jvall5879 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@claireshields4079that part was insane

  • @Caffeinatedwife
    @Caffeinatedwife 5 месяцев назад +87

    Every single couple audit makes me remember to appreciate my husband

  • @andipearl15
    @andipearl15 5 месяцев назад +269

    One of my mottos is “You get what you tolerate.” How on EARTH does she deal with this man?!?

    • @canileaveitblank1476
      @canileaveitblank1476 5 месяцев назад +37

      She was just happy that someone would take a single mother.

    • @NapoleonicWargaming
      @NapoleonicWargaming 5 месяцев назад +10

      ...man?

    • @ll2323
      @ll2323 5 месяцев назад +25

      @@canileaveitblank1476bro he may as well also be a single mom with moving in his entire adult family and not having them help with the bills.

    • @NotYomama13
      @NotYomama13 5 месяцев назад +6

      she picked him, says a lot about her.

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@ll2323lol pretty much. This is just what you have to choose from when you have another man’s child and expect the next guy to be replacement dad. Here’s the next guy

  • @jzmina
    @jzmina 5 месяцев назад +969

    “Why did they never teach us XYZ in high school?”
    Because these are the teachers, babes… it’s the blind leading the blind out there

    • @jacksonsmith5490
      @jacksonsmith5490 5 месяцев назад +10

      On average, teachers are more likely to be millionaires than attorneys. The only jobs that beat them are engineers and accountants.

    • @Kyal-
      @Kyal- 5 месяцев назад +56

      @@jacksonsmith5490in one single Dave Ramsey “study”

    • @catherinemiron6559
      @catherinemiron6559 5 месяцев назад +39

      @@jacksonsmith5490 That's only because teachers are forced to contribute to a pension for their retirement; not because they actually have the financial discipline to save and invest. Only financially disciplined and savvy teachers will have a pension plus other investments in retirement.

    • @skinnychicken99
      @skinnychicken99 5 месяцев назад +13

      don't make this about teachers

    • @jzmina
      @jzmina 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@churrosquirrel im pretty sure about half the states in the country don’t require a personal finance course to graduate. This is ain’t about forcing the horse to drink, this is about the creek running bone dry💀

  • @AbruptAvalanche
    @AbruptAvalanche 5 месяцев назад +176

    The size of their oldest kid is alarming. A 5'-3" 11 year old weighing 160 lbs is in the "severe obesity" category according to the CDC. It's much easier to deal with this by building healthy habits early on, rather than trying to lose the weight later in life. Please do what you can to set your kid on a good path.

    • @EveaGornall
      @EveaGornall 5 месяцев назад +19

      and the two year old wearing 4T is WILD

    • @foreverskye4683
      @foreverskye4683 5 месяцев назад

      This disgusted me more than their financial situation, taking their obese child to Chili’s instead of encouraging a healthier lifestyle. Such shitty parenting, it’s infuriating. She was concerned about not giving their children enough, so you make them sick by overfeeding them? Way to go.

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 5 месяцев назад +17

      The mom is large & makes cookies. The dad is lazy minded and doesn't care.

    • @ladyluna3236
      @ladyluna3236 5 месяцев назад +5

      I'm a 5'4 30 year old woman and even I'm only 130lbs

    • @amyfaris1688
      @amyfaris1688 5 месяцев назад +9

      I came to the comments looking for someone commenting on this. This is the saddest part of this whole video. Ruining your kid's financial future is one thing but also ruining their health is abusive.

  • @ChiblingProps
    @ChiblingProps 5 месяцев назад +230

    I'm always amazed by how many people think that eating out is the only way to eat.

    • @_GhostTea
      @_GhostTea 5 месяцев назад +12

      The idea of getting fast food every day, multiple times a day is just so disgusting to me. Cooking is a life skill everyone should know, even if you cook just basic, basic things. It's crazy how lazy and incompetent some people CHOOSE to be.

    • @purpurina5663
      @purpurina5663 5 месяцев назад +16

      Her "time of the month" excuse is... wow. Yes, lady, I get some cravings too. I also 1) have self control 2) can buy a chocolate bar at the supermarket

    • @loisavci3382
      @loisavci3382 5 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@purpurina5663True. It'd also be weird to have a husband who saw my period as an opportunity to tempt me into going out to eat while broke.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@loisavci3382 Weird to have a wife who claims she can't make decisions while menstruating

  • @musicguy1987
    @musicguy1987 5 месяцев назад +558

    The wildly uncomfortable moment when Caleb clapped back about him having the right to the property only because someone gave it to him. This guy is such a narcissist.

    • @RedBarronST
      @RedBarronST 5 месяцев назад +33

      The way he was talking gave off postmodernism vibes and/or socialist vibes.

    • @NotYomama13
      @NotYomama13 5 месяцев назад +45

      lol, he's a little bit of an idiot, but the term "narcissist" gets thrown around way too much nowadays.

    • @jamielivingston7765
      @jamielivingston7765 5 месяцев назад +3

      I think they didn't mention that he paid something to prevent the foreclosure.

    • @jamielivingston7765
      @jamielivingston7765 5 месяцев назад +33

      ​@@RedBarronSTInheritance is not socialism. Quite the opposite.

    • @RedBarronST
      @RedBarronST 5 месяцев назад +13

      @@jamielivingston7765 I agree with you. His attitudes toward debt and money in general compared to his feelings/happiness were where I caught the post-modernist/socialist vibes.
      His causal nature to his land inheritance (coupled with his seemingly lack of concern for his risk with the property in the current state), was not where I was getting those vibes. Maybe another tact would be him being an MMT guy, but I didnt get that economics was a thing he was interested in.

  • @sethrc1756
    @sethrc1756 5 месяцев назад +450

    Having kids is not an excuse to be financially incompetent for the sake of “gotta make my kids happy”, so tired of hearing this from parents on the show. You know what your kid is also gonna like? having a parent that can support themselves and not leech off of their children when they can’t work anymore because they have no retirement.

    • @NotYomama13
      @NotYomama13 5 месяцев назад +20

      yeah and spoiled kids tend to be more unhappy because instant gratification is actually really unhealthy.

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 5 месяцев назад +9

      “We got to make our kids happy now because they are going to be real unhappy when we move in with them at 65”

    • @diahan9896
      @diahan9896 5 месяцев назад

      Yepm my parents are like this. I am actually planning on leaving them and finally live by myself. Hopefully my guilt wont kill me

    • @sophiaalvarez6137
      @sophiaalvarez6137 5 месяцев назад +1

      This. I get wanting to give them what you didn't have...but I grew up homeless so the bar is on the floor

    • @rebeccashields9626
      @rebeccashields9626 5 месяцев назад +2

      Well and I call bullshit that kids need a ton of money spent to make them happy. You know what makes kids happy? Baking cookies. Playing at the pool. Playing uno. Watching a movie and eating popcorn. Going to the lake and playing in the sand with empty plastic cups. Playing tag on the playground. Kids need your time and attention far more than they need expensive things. They don’t care what car your drive or whether or not their shirt is secondhand or name brand.

  • @chreas7824
    @chreas7824 5 месяцев назад +60

    This show reminds me at 24, I haven’t failed yet.

    • @evanmcauley4788
      @evanmcauley4788 4 месяца назад

      keep working at it and you can fail before you're 30! I believe in you

  • @davidbreuer6449
    @davidbreuer6449 5 месяцев назад +129

    It always really bugs me whenever the father of a house puts on an air of “I’m taking care of my family” and “To me peace and experiences are more important than money” when dealing with horribly irresponsible debt. Like dude, I promise you your children will not see it the same way once they’re of age to understand the situation you’re putting them in

    • @joycef8443
      @joycef8443 5 месяцев назад +3

      His kids will be in the same place he is after bailing out mama.

  • @SanitizeR_OW
    @SanitizeR_OW 5 месяцев назад +331

    NEWS UPDATE: This just in - A San Antonio Man Says that 'Debt is Just A Game You Have to Play to Do the Things You Want in Life'. His Children and Wife Have Left Him, as They Said 'Our Lives Are NOT Games'.

    • @roman7954
      @roman7954 5 месяцев назад +10

      Why Do You Type Like This

    • @gingerleamcwow435
      @gingerleamcwow435 5 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@roman7954 Have you ever tried doing it? It takes FOREVER. I replied to someone who typed like that, and I said, "Never again." 😂

    • @kirstenhouten5524
      @kirstenhouten5524 5 месяцев назад

      @@gingerleamcwow435that’s a you-problem. it takes two seconds if you know how to click a few change-case buttons

    • @kirstenhouten5524
      @kirstenhouten5524 5 месяцев назад +34

      @@roman7954it’s a parody of a headline… which typically have every word starting with a capital

    • @ll2323
      @ll2323 5 месяцев назад +4

      Sums up most people in San Antonio honestly 😂

  • @rockinrolldog
    @rockinrolldog 5 месяцев назад +79

    Parents seem to forget that children are children, not idiots. I knew my mom would say yes to things she couldn't afford for me, so as a child I was put in the position of hiding things from her that I thought we couldnt afford (school yearbook forms, club t-shirts, etc). Parents financial irresponsibility puts stress on their children PERIOD and no amount of saying yes and credit card debt will hide it.

  • @jmck2290
    @jmck2290 5 месяцев назад +31

    I don’t understand why people think you have to go into debt to make memories with your kids.

  • @Azxnrjsle
    @Azxnrjsle 5 месяцев назад +236

    Oh my god. It didn’t click with me that this lady is teaching math to the next generation and she can’t even tell 5% cashback is less than 27% interest. Omggggg

  • @noquarterzz9788
    @noquarterzz9788 5 месяцев назад +154

    These people think they are way smarter than they actually are lol. Caleb humbling them is good stuff.

  • @Corey_Augraph
    @Corey_Augraph 5 месяцев назад +150

    Libraries, city parks, local trails, state campgrounds, kiddie pool in the backyard, beach day trips, picnics, finger painting, city splash pad, local outdoor music, sledding hills, baking, cooking, home movie night
    The list goes on. Kids don’t need expensive activities.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад +5

      Thanks, you reminded me of a lot of good times I had as a child

    • @angelasepi657
      @angelasepi657 5 месяцев назад

      hiking or climbing

  • @mayahdoss7050
    @mayahdoss7050 5 месяцев назад +121

    "The closest [food] to your house is in your refrigerator, [you cant afford to go out to eat]."
    What a fucking slay 😂

  • @paigehenderson3659
    @paigehenderson3659 5 месяцев назад +243

    "I don't want to move out" my guy there is 9 PEOPLE living In this house.

    • @katieweber1109
      @katieweber1109 5 месяцев назад +30

      He’s such a mama’s boy as an adult it’s insane.

    • @David-gr1do
      @David-gr1do 5 месяцев назад +9

      @@katieweber1109and his other brothers seem like they’re the same way.

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 5 месяцев назад +3

      It’s not even just his mama he straight up said he doesn’t want his adult brother to move out of the garage

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 5 месяцев назад +1

      He doesn't want to pay rent again & lose the free babysitters. I can't say I'd blame him for not wanting to move if he can stand it. But I do blame him for everything else he chooses to do.

    • @robh1961
      @robh1961 5 месяцев назад

      @@talyahr3302 I think you're right. He's basically just living at home still as if he was a child. Him and his worthless lazy brothers, just sitting around doing nothing while their disabled senior citizen mother takes care of them. When Caleb asked why the wife was doing Door Dash on the side and not him, the wife said "Oh because he's taking care of the kids at home". Bull-fcking-shite. That lazy bum is sitting at his little gaming computer playing games while the kids sit on the couch staring at iPhones. Guaranteed. Just overall such a sickening episode. Seeing a 40 yr old slob put zero effort towards his own family.

  • @ren-cy1gn
    @ren-cy1gn 5 месяцев назад +428

    People like this have no clue what opening a store is like. Don't do it, you'll never crawl out from under the debt.

    • @MissMosierable
      @MissMosierable 5 месяцев назад +30

      She can't manage money, amass savings to cover the business investments needed, nor amass savings to cover her current salary that she'll lose until the business succeeds. This is bankruptcy waiting to happen. Moreover, there have been at least 5 cafes like the ones she describes near me open and fail in 10 years. The biggest issue I've noted is the business owner doesn't pause to consider why the service industry is such a challenging work environment for folks with ASD-1 and other similar DX's. Being fast, accurate, social, and stereotypically social at that, are not the hallmarks of ASD-1, but they are of every service industry position.
      One café near me used volunteer high school students as free labor to help the paid workers with disabilities. Students have to perform 250 hours of community service between 6-12th grade to graduate. It worked put in paper, but not great in practice. Apparently, having half your staff work for free, and that half also being the quality worker half, builds resentment.

    • @jakemcdonald7748
      @jakemcdonald7748 5 месяцев назад +30

      @@MissMosierable Average coffee shop fails within 5 years.... Which is crazy. I found that out right after i talked with an investor when I went to open my coffee shop.... I decided it wasnt worth the 150k business loan...

    • @jcrazy9008
      @jcrazy9008 5 месяцев назад +7

      Especially with their current behavior

    • @jakemcdonald7748
      @jakemcdonald7748 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@jcrazy9008 for real, but im so happy at the end that the husband seems to change his attitude, even if its just a little change.

    • @LoisoPondohva
      @LoisoPondohva 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@jakemcdonald7748 5 years is longer than I would've guessed.

  • @MarkFirstList
    @MarkFirstList 5 месяцев назад +166

    The debt isn't the problem.
    Their life situation isn't the problem.
    Inflation isn't the problem.
    Their attitude toward and beliefs around money are the problem.
    I guarantee you that if they had all their debt go to zero (let's say by some inheritance), they would just run up more debt over the next ten years.

    • @samanthafreeman4315
      @samanthafreeman4315 5 месяцев назад +8

      They are not going to change after this.

    • @YaYaLynne
      @YaYaLynne 5 месяцев назад +7

      10? I’ll say they will be in worse shape in less than 5

  • @PapiyoneVineland
    @PapiyoneVineland 5 месяцев назад +47

    She's a married single mom. He's like doing 20% of the mental and non-mental load in the house. He's sooo passive.

  • @antimatter2380
    @antimatter2380 5 месяцев назад +191

    How does she forget her debit card but always has a credit card? All my cards are in a wallet. My wife's cards are in a wallet, in her purse. Why are the cards all over the place?

    • @gingerleamcwow435
      @gingerleamcwow435 5 месяцев назад +38

      She doesn't. It was a lie.

    • @zacknelson8918
      @zacknelson8918 5 месяцев назад +18

      A lie or to hide spending from the husband, or not enough money in the account at the time

    • @colind1637
      @colind1637 5 месяцев назад +7

      She’s lying she just grabs whatever card and has no interest in using credit cards properly

    • @Teaorwine
      @Teaorwine 5 месяцев назад +6

      So I did this by accident often, but I've made a point to be better. I would swipe to get gas then put that card in my pants pocket while I pumped. End of the day, pants and card go into the laundry pile. Next time I go to pay, my card isn't in my wallet, but the others are.

    • @brittneyHunt-ft2xy
      @brittneyHunt-ft2xy 5 месяцев назад +9

      “I forgot the card” basically means “I didn’t have the cash on the debit card so I swiped the credit card instead and can’t take accountability because I know that was wrong but don’t admit it because then I would have to change”

  • @anitachin417
    @anitachin417 5 месяцев назад +79

    the dude is giving "Lights are on but no ones home vibes"

  • @morethan1
    @morethan1 5 месяцев назад +191

    "Not as much as you do."
    Imagine some 20-something rando cares more about your family's finances than you do

  • @Cheyemos
    @Cheyemos 5 месяцев назад +65

    For the life of me, I can’t understand how people like this constantly smile and think it’s cute that they’re in loads of debt throughout the entire episode… It literally couldn’t be me, man.

    • @karinagutierrez7134
      @karinagutierrez7134 5 месяцев назад +4

      It’s a defense mechanism. Many people laugh/smile when they’re uncomfortable. If she’s autistic as she said she is, she’s masking a LOT so there are added layers to the discomfort.
      Outside of that, there’s probably a fair amount of cognitive dissonance/denial happening, stopping them from seeing the full picture

  • @jillyhawk_4581
    @jillyhawk_4581 5 месяцев назад +97

    Some of my best childhood memories are playing in the backyard, game nights with my parents, watching movies etc…. You don’t have to spend a lot of money on trips and gifts to make your kids happy.

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад +2

      I hated trips as a kid. My parents stressed. We could only chill at home. The good memories are holiday parties at home, gardening, crafts, singing with mom and sis ...

  • @MaddieW1222
    @MaddieW1222 5 месяцев назад +279

    It's wild that Caleb says take a cheaper trip or wait to travel, and all these parents are like, "dEPRIVE mY kIDS?" Dudes, your kids can make wonderful memories in a free city park.

    • @molly_in_mke
      @molly_in_mke 5 месяцев назад +18

      And there are free things for kids all the time! Libraries have passes. Zoos have free days. Parks are free - fun things don't have to be expensive!

    • @laurendearnley9595
      @laurendearnley9595 5 месяцев назад +9

      My favourite memories with my grandparents were feeding the ducks down at a little park down the street from their house. I used to beg to go and have lunch at "the duck park". I live near it now as an adult and it's literally just a large grass patch that borders on a small bit of bush, with a creek running through it. Absolutely nothing special.
      Edit - sounds like Caleb has very similar memories, ducks and all.

    • @alfsmom8025
      @alfsmom8025 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah and I bet the things they are paying for aren't even good for the kids!! Hyper processed food and mindless entertainment. Thanks for your contributions to society.

    • @vectoon3739
      @vectoon3739 5 месяцев назад +2

      Free museum tickets from the library!

    • @Gxmwp
      @Gxmwp 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@molly_in_mkewhat zoo's have free days? Genuinely asking. Never heard of that.

  • @erick3755
    @erick3755 5 месяцев назад +177

    Family has no mortgage...then proceeds to finance a mini van at essentially the cost of a mortgage.

    • @jacksonsmith5490
      @jacksonsmith5490 5 месяцев назад +28

      “My 11 year old is too obese for a normal car”

    • @erick3755
      @erick3755 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@jacksonsmith5490 the husband drives a Camry, so it feels like an excuse than real reasoning. They also make lower profile car seats so you can fit 3 in a row.

    • @Fishouta
      @Fishouta 5 месяцев назад

      And the 600 dollar payment on the other vehicle they bought for mom.

  • @MrMuzique
    @MrMuzique 5 месяцев назад +52

    "We save money, but we just don't use it to pay down debts." Buddy. If you spend thousands on credit cards and don't pay it off, you ain't savin!

  • @justino5991
    @justino5991 5 месяцев назад +289

    "I have to be in debt to..." has to be the worst way to go on about life

    • @brose.03
      @brose.03 5 месяцев назад +8

      You don’t understand, I NEED to be in debt in order to lose credibility and lower my credit score… how else can I possibly achieve such a thing?

    • @janisir4529
      @janisir4529 5 месяцев назад +2

      House and maybe car or business expenses are exceptions, but damn right.

  • @Am-kinda5501
    @Am-kinda5501 5 месяцев назад +116

    Caleb glossed over the birthday party charge but it’s actually ridiculous. I understand the oldest was invited to the party… so you take him and leave the other 2 at home with the other parent. If for some reason that other parent isn’t available (which shouldn’t be the case for them since they are both teachers and not working on weekends) then ask one of the other 4 adults in the house if they are able to watch them for 2 hours. And even if that’s not an option… then take the 11 year old and drop him off! Parents aren’t required to stay at this age.

    • @triswilsful
      @triswilsful 5 месяцев назад +18

      I caught this too. It sounded like the invited kid was being paid for by the birthday boy, because she said she only had to pay for the other two. LEAVE THEM AT HOME! I never went to my sister's friends birthday parties.

  • @sgc1401
    @sgc1401 5 месяцев назад +283

    $130K income with a paid for house and they can't make ends meet. They are both teachers and one of them teaches math. They seem very irresponsible. This is some serious dysfunction. It sounds like their parents are without a way to support themselves and it is just a big intergenerational mess. Why on earth buy a newer Toyota Highlander? You can get a decent used minivan for $15,000. Their situation is wild.

    • @AnalyticalMenace
      @AnalyticalMenace 5 месяцев назад +9

      I would be leaning heavy into stonks if I were these people (after all the debt was paid off, of course).

    • @Sassydivaa1990
      @Sassydivaa1990 5 месяцев назад +5

      😅 yeah and he didn’t even have to do anything to get the house

    • @rubenmejia942
      @rubenmejia942 5 месяцев назад

      I can see now why the American public school system is fucked up. These are the people teaching the next generation.

    • @LoisoPondohva
      @LoisoPondohva 5 месяцев назад +6

      You can get a 2015+ minivan with under 150k miles in great condition for 7-10k.

    • @LoisoPondohva
      @LoisoPondohva 5 месяцев назад

      @@Dadbeard89 where are you looking for them at? Just a local dealership in person?
      I'm not trying to be sarcastic, just genuinely surprised.
      I scout on big aggregator websites, like CarGurus, Autotrader and like 5 more. Of course you need to be diligent to actually physically inspect the car and all the documentation, but it's legit.
      I've bought 3 cars in the last 5 years using that method, including a 250k miles Civic for $4,500 in 2021. I had to do pretty thorough maintenance myself, but I knew that would be the case beforehand. If you're not someone who can/wants to do that, I was also considering another similar Civic in almost perfect condition but for 7k.
      And to clarify, all the cars run fine and I haven't regretted the purchases, I've bought 3 because one was for my wife and I flipped one. Like sold for a better price flipped, not like an accident flipped.
      So what I did now was set filters and looked at photos/details of the cars. The going rate seems to be around 12-15k for those minivans, true, but a lot of seemingly legit options for 7.5-10k.

  • @mrspoido
    @mrspoido 5 месяцев назад +12

    This guy is emotionally exhausting. How are either of these two teachers? Terrifying.

  • @iamcleaver6854
    @iamcleaver6854 5 месяцев назад +191

    A thought just occured: are these two teachers not afraid of what will inevitably happen when their students get a hold of this video..?

    • @0HxB0Y
      @0HxB0Y 5 месяцев назад +44

      I feel like their colleagues are more likely to stumble on it. They do use fake names tho

    • @iamcleaver6854
      @iamcleaver6854 5 месяцев назад +12

      @@0HxB0Y Whoever stumbles upon it, it would not be a secret for long...

    • @CamilleMckenna-oq8ie
      @CamilleMckenna-oq8ie 5 месяцев назад +52

      Idk how many 7th graders are watching financial audit lmao but good for them if they are

    • @iamcleaver6854
      @iamcleaver6854 5 месяцев назад +40

      @@CamilleMckenna-oq8ie It takes only one person from their school who knows them for it to spread like wildfire

    • @alanmoote9323
      @alanmoote9323 5 месяцев назад +26

      This is how I feel about everyone who comes on this show. What happens when coworkers and family see your episode?!

  • @quantamuon
    @quantamuon 5 месяцев назад +117

    I love when Caleb digs into him because you can tell no one calls him out on his shit and then he sits there quietly afterwards. What an abhorrent attitude to have about debt.
    “My emotional state is very important.” Give me a break.

    • @e22ddie46
      @e22ddie46 5 месяцев назад +6

      Lol my emotional state is very important. I bought that freedom by being financially smart. They could have that position if they listen to caleb but I don't get that vibe from him

    • @nineteenfortyeight
      @nineteenfortyeight 5 месяцев назад +1

      I think his passivity is what she likes about him

  • @krstylwr7249
    @krstylwr7249 5 месяцев назад +115

    Why do they almost sound proud that their 11 y/o is 160lbs? Not loving that. That’s my height and he weighs over 30lbs more than me. :(

    • @ses-ei7oc
      @ses-ei7oc 5 месяцев назад +9

      Right?! Medical debt will be added next if not careful.

    • @nicklowe3655
      @nicklowe3655 5 месяцев назад +3

      Well on track to play offensive line. Kid will get drafted 1st round and will be able to pay off all their debt

    • @faiora
      @faiora 5 месяцев назад +8

      Sounds like maybe the other kids are overweight too, since the two year old wears a 4T.
      Both of my kids have stayed one year ahead for clothing sizes, but they’re taller for their age and not overweight.
      It’s sad though when you don’t know how to give your kids healthier lives than you have. A lot of people try their best but they try to just restrict eating, or cut out treats.
      Personally I think the best approach is additive; serve more and more vegetables, and focus on having many colours of the rainbow on their plates.
      Not that my family does this perfectly. I grew up surrounded by unhealthy eating habits and it’s hard to get away from.
      But that’s the advice I’d give to families like this. Add more greens - and oranges and purples and reds. The kids won’t eat them at first and that’s okay. Just pack them up as leftovers for your lunch the next day, and try again tomorrow.

    • @rebeccazeman9309
      @rebeccazeman9309 5 месяцев назад +4

      The toddler is overnight as well most likely. My son is in the 90th percentile and he turned 2 in Feb and wears a 2T but 3T in pants bc he's so tall. For her to be a 4T before turning 2 she'd have to be like... around 40 pounds I'm guessing? That's crazy. My son is heavy af. I can't imagine him weighing another 6 pounds.

    • @Honigbiene1
      @Honigbiene1 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah it’s rough to hear that as someone that’s 5’3.

  • @SlowN55F22
    @SlowN55F22 5 месяцев назад +30

    I’m starting a credit card business, really seems like easy money at this point.

  • @annas8540
    @annas8540 5 месяцев назад +188

    Them: We don't want to move to the city where people are so close.
    THEY LIVE IN A HOUSE WITH 9 PEOPLE?

    • @urgamecshk
      @urgamecshk 5 месяцев назад +1

      To be fair it's 4 extras in another part of the house.

    • @beckypetersen2680
      @beckypetersen2680 5 месяцев назад +1

      I think if they would have said from the beginning that THEY MOVED in with his mom/step dad at their request - it would have been way easier on us to understand. 9 people in a house unless they are you and hubby and 7 kids sounds unbearable to me.

    • @vectoon3739
      @vectoon3739 5 месяцев назад

      and 5 dogs

  • @bunkerchester2623
    @bunkerchester2623 5 месяцев назад +374

    You know we love our Couple audits!!!! SWEET TREAT TIME!!

  • @richardeknormis7688
    @richardeknormis7688 5 месяцев назад +182

    $93k in student loans to be a math teacher and wants to open a coffee/cookie shop…. You cannot make this stuff up

    • @barcster2003
      @barcster2003 5 месяцев назад +3

      Shout out to Kevin Samuels. You can't make this **** up.

    • @JazzyCaramelCurlz
      @JazzyCaramelCurlz 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@barcster2003R.I.P. Uncle Kev ❤

    • @Fishouta
      @Fishouta 5 месяцев назад +16

      She also thought they had about 70k in debt, when in fact, it is about double that. Not including student loans.

    • @TA---
      @TA--- 5 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@FishoutaAnd they don't have a mortgage. Absolutely baffled that they spent money so unwisely. "I've been following Dave Ramsey for like ever" and you're a math teacher...and yet...

    • @EllisSmiths
      @EllisSmiths 5 месяцев назад

      @@Fishoutaholy 💩. I haven’t gotten that far yet but 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯. With their income and no mortgage? Shiiiiiiiiiit, I’d be a millionaire in a decade.

  • @irongiant775
    @irongiant775 5 месяцев назад +25

    100% his family def has something to do with his laid back and no care attitude. That's why he doesn't want to move out from them, and you can tell that she's tired of it. I'm fairly certain they're making her do a lot at home. I'm also not excusing her behavior, because wow. Every bad decision making is an excuse.

  • @sharonngongo175
    @sharonngongo175 5 месяцев назад +67

    Why do people in bad financial situations always have 5 dogs

  • @henryhace
    @henryhace 5 месяцев назад +55

    "I can't fix my situation today so why even think about it?" Goodness...

  • @balletwb94
    @balletwb94 5 месяцев назад +41

    Hi, special educator here. I hope she actually reads laws on hiring individuals with disabilities because JUST wanting to hire “high functioning” young adults with ASD could be seen as discriminatory under the Americans with Disabilities Act.

    • @vanessac1721
      @vanessac1721 5 месяцев назад +18

      Don't worry, the pipe dream will never happen

    • @imageisn0thing
      @imageisn0thing 3 месяца назад

      Ugh more government bureaucracy. But good point.

    • @mina0653
      @mina0653 Месяц назад

      I seriously think people with "high functioning" autism already have jobs lol it's the people with more severe conditions that need help. She's not planning to save anyone

  • @laurakeableee
    @laurakeableee 5 месяцев назад +15

    The husband is infuriating. Genuinely don't know how you do this man, this is exhausting

  • @ucaerospace8553
    @ucaerospace8553 5 месяцев назад +117

    Imagine paying $80k in payments for a minivan after 72 months.

    • @joycef8443
      @joycef8443 5 месяцев назад +1

      OWCH!

    • @azures9803
      @azures9803 5 месяцев назад +2

      and whats crazy is they had a camry this whole time

    • @rorycolgan
      @rorycolgan 5 месяцев назад

      Yes!!!

  • @jaked9538
    @jaked9538 5 месяцев назад +49

    How can they not realize that them being in the situation where they had to give their parents a car is the exact same situation they can put their kids in in a couple decades and not care

  • @tiawana420
    @tiawana420 5 месяцев назад +123

    This man is WILDLY immature! I would be so uncomfortable having him teach my children. They are supposed to be on the show to GET HELP and he behaved like a child the entire time!

  • @KameoKit6963
    @KameoKit6963 5 месяцев назад +13

    I just can't handle these two. First I despise people with ZERO food service experience who want to open up a bar/restaurant/cafe and just speak about it like it would be so easy. It's gross, starting ANY business is very hard and has risk, food service is among the hardest and most competitive. These fools can't raise their 3 kids making 6 figures combined without having a mountain of STUPID debt. My husband and I make a combined 58 gross and raise our 3 kids and have less than 1k debt in a major metro area on the east coast. I usually have sympathy, I'm having a hard time finding any for these two. I hope this was a good wakeup call for them. Those kids deserve a future that doesn't involve taking care of their elderly parents

  • @brose.03
    @brose.03 5 месяцев назад +146

    The difference between good finances and poor finances isn’t about the situation, it’s about willpower. Perfect example in this episode, Caleb showing self-control and discipline by repeatedly rejecting even a single cookie to achieve his goal. Meanwhile, the guests continually tempted him saying “You can have just one cookie, it’ll be okay.”

    • @Mrmysterious-dj1ov
      @Mrmysterious-dj1ov 5 месяцев назад +6

      I made mistake the other day 😅but what do we do when we make mistake we say oh ok how can fix this learn from it and move forward I don’t understand how people can just dig the hole 🕳️ bigger then say oh it not so bad the fact that have hole 🕳️ at all bad 😢stop digging and fill that hole 🕳️

    • @tiffanylastinger3925
      @tiffanylastinger3925 5 месяцев назад +5

      100% was going to point out the insane willpower

    • @kellyspaghettti
      @kellyspaghettti 5 месяцев назад +1

      It's also about the situation, but that's typically not the main factor. There are definitely people who simply don't make enough to cover their necessary expenses

    • @brose.03
      @brose.03 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@kellyspaghettti agreed, but also there’s a reason why most people who win the lotto end up blowing it all within a year.

    • @The_Man_Welding
      @The_Man_Welding 5 месяцев назад

      And they’re both fat

  • @bayequine5686
    @bayequine5686 5 месяцев назад +43

    As someone who was in the food truck business DONT DO IT.
    The cost of everything is so high right now, it’s not a huge profit margin even after the first few years. Food businesses are not like they used to be

  • @TylerNieves-ty7ns
    @TylerNieves-ty7ns 5 месяцев назад +31

    My wife and I printed Caleb's face on our joint debit card.. really makes me reconsider my purchases

    • @janeandrews1790
      @janeandrews1790 5 месяцев назад +1

      How? I want to do this?

    • @marthaespinoza626
      @marthaespinoza626 5 месяцев назад +4

      Caleb should sell stickers that we can put on all our cards. Saying "tacitos,tacitos!"