Story 1: Girl, RUN! Your husband clearly has no respect for you. Is this really what you want the rest of your life to be filled with? NTA, and divorce this man ASAP
😊 an actual tee-hee! To be fair, a joint Bachelor bachelorette party at a strip club is a next level of stupid idea. I would keep temporary restraining orders on a roll when it comes to these people!
I gotta be honest it sounds like it was one HELL OF A PARTY!🎉🎉🎉🎉Like worthy of the "Hangover" movie saga I may be an aweful person but I couldnt help but laugh too
Story 1: NTA. “How dare you not appreciate that I agreed with my family and planned a fancy dinner behind your back”, oh please. Cry me a river Mr. Sheffield.
3rd Story: NTA x ♾️!!! Stories like this seriously get my goat! (Illustration Major 😅) The niece isn't the problem, it's her tone-deaf parents that's are trying WAY to hard to be "supportive." Op needs to block all those idiots out. If they want their baby to be special, then hang her work up on the fridge like normal parents. Just sit the niece down, have a frank discussion about what it actually means to be a professional artist, and just help mentor her from there so she can actually find her own standing without needing to constantly rely on others. 5th Story: NTA. People that feel the need to constantly play matchmaker for the "lonely hearts" they see around are some of the worst busybodies. Just as there's nothing wrong with finding love again after losing a partner, there's nothing wrong with choosing to remain single after a lose. They were this person's forever and no one else can ever fill that space. (I mean, seriously, how can you think someone that lost their literal soulmate could just pick up with someone else as if nothing ever happened?!)
I grew up with wealthy parents. My first boyfriends were a trust fund kid, a surgeon's son & a rising executive at a company most people have heard of. Nobody I know in that circle would be classless enough to deliberately exclude a spouse of one of their children from a restaurant dinner, no matter the restaurant. A few of them would certainly talk about said spouse behind their backs with their friends if the spouse's behavior raised eyebrows but most would quickly realize that a child's spouse isn't going anywhere for awhile. If said spouse needed a few lessons so they don't stand out as they didn't have debutante or cotillion classes, that's what would be offered before the vacation ever took place. Ignorance is not a character flaw. Rudeness, however, is a big one.
@@bathoryx oh absolutely. My late husband did not go to a fancy private school. He grew up in a house that had a dirt floor until he was 12. He was born in 1974 so that was incredibly uncommon. His father is an alcoholic & his late mother didn't even have a driver's license. They were extremely disadvantaged. My late husband was a veteran turned chef turned RN. I loved everything about him but he didn't have the same social graces that I grew up with. It was my job as his girlfriend, then fiance, then wife to teach him most of these things & my father taught him the rest. None of us wanted him to feel out of place or humiliation. By the time he died, you'd have sworn he had all the same opportunities that my sibs & I had as children. He was a very well loved member of our whole family. My parents & siblings sobbed at the funeral 6 years ago. My dad cried more that day than he did at his own beloved late father's funeral & my little brother spent most of it in the lobby of the funeral home sobbing since he didn't want to disrupt the proceedings. It was absolutely unheard of for either of these men to cry in public, but they did that day. The husband in this story is also a moron because it was & still is his job to prepare her to fit in with his family & he did nothing to facilitate that relationship. If she needs fancy fork lessons to not embarrass your mother, then do that. That is not complicated & is not the huge issue they've all made it. That whole family has way less class & grace than they're trying to convince everyone that they have.
Story 1, I had a similar situation with one of my sisters boyfriends, the fun part was I'm earning more than he does, he is a shop owner and I'm a long haul non standard trucker, basically I wasn't invited because I lack class, I just told him that I come from a long line of political officers, my grandparents and great grandparents were nkvd and kgb officers, I told him as much, when he asked how does that make a difference, I answered that he physically can't have more class than me because my predecessors made sure of that and the walls have the bullet holes to prove it, to say he was mortified and angry was an understatement 😂😂😂😂😂
Too many people are unable to accept it when someone doesn't want to marry - or in this case, remarry. My Dad, at age 95, has been married three times - he's never liked being on his own. On the other hand, I have never married (but did live with a partner for 3½ years once) and am happily single in my 70s. We're all different.
I think I speak for everyone when I ask, can we all agree that whenever the narrator laughs at a story similar to the second one, you know it's got to be funny?
I lost my husband 3 1/2 yr. ago when I was 57. My father in law tried to tell me that I would meet some guy and get remarried. Well, I have some bad news for him. I'm still wearing my wedding ring and have no intent of taking it off any time soon. I'm very happy being alone. I have our adult sons and daughter in laws plus my extended family and then my friends. My life is pretty full.
The Pretty Woman quote was dead on, and it's also one of my favorite movies. My favorite part is when she got kicked out of a high-class store only to return later and say "I was here yesterday, and you kicked me out, BIG MISTAKE" 😆
It always makes me laugh when you, narrator, try not to laugh/ start laughing.... absolutely hilarious! The sister needs new friends. I wouldn’t have laughed outright-- or tried not to. But I would probably have had to put my hand over my mouth or my head on the table to hide that I was trying not to laugh.
@@Nielak-dg8nj *HA!* No kidding. I remember being that age and about as likely to party as a wet blanket, but I'm pretty sure I would've been contributing to the noise and shaking if I *had* ever gotten on a party bus.
Story three: OP is definitely NTA since his family pretty much slapped any income away in order to favor niece. They just showed how little they value what OP does since they appear to think what he does is a hobby.
Story 1: only thing OP might have done differently is ordered epically expensive room service and spread it all over the room, since she’s so unable to eat properly. That, and ignored any contact from the soon-to-be-ex husband unless it was him groveling and telling her he was on his way home, while she was packing up her stuff and moving out.
Story 2: All of those people already had those problems. It might not have been wise to pile them all into a bus and pour alcohol on the fire, but they brought the fire themselves. It's sort of a shame that it happened to her wedding party, but perhaps she'll find more stable friends after this? And not ones that will gladly cheat on their partners with the nearest person in the friend group as soon as they get drunk.
Crying and throwing up over the last story, I’m glad Lana got the chance to have true love with OP before her life was so unfairly ended. And I’m really hoping she got a chance to hold the baby
Story 1: Great first step in leaving when you were insulted by your in-laws and husband. Don’t stop there. See a divorce lawyer as soon as possible. Your husband is willing to allow his family to mistreat you. You can do much better🙁 Story 2: I think that this couple needs to reconsider getting married until they both grow up😒 Story 3: It’s great that you want to help your niece develop as an artist, but this shouldn’t be done at your expense🙁 Story 4: Since the ex isn’t paying child support, he can afford to buy his son new clothes which can be kept at his house😒 Story 5: People grieve in their own way. It’s wrong to try and push someone into a relationship that they don’t want😢
The ART SHOW story (forgot the number) really hit home for me. I am a board game designer and nothing like that story ever happened to me but I can identify because I tried to imagine being at a BOARD GAME CONVENTION showing my newest games to potential buyers and some bratty kid distracting them and costing me potential sales. No way in hell I would have put up with it the way the spineless wimp in that story did.
@@M0nst3r0711 why pay when they can steamroll over op to pay for it, use their contacts and destroy their life for their precious spawn. Op really needs to get as far away from them as possible. Blocking them and anyone who sides with them. Or they'll suffer for sure. Greedy people like that don't take no for an answer easily.
The bachelorette party story is crazy and people are 100% wrong to say OP was an AH or anything. OP is not obliged to make the sis feel better or to ensure she doesn’t feel embarrassed. OP could’ve even teased her about it a bit and still not be AH.
It doesn’t sound like they planned anything crazy. It sounds like a party were people got out of control. Not sure where ops having a party caused the issue mentally comes in. Where they not supposed to have a bachelorette party?
@@tracim3080 There´s party, and there´s disaster. As OP said, a group of peoples with sexual history + unlimited booze + heavily sexual atmosphere is a recipe for disaster. They can plan as they wished, but considering those factor, don´t be surprised if it´s backfired.
Story 3: that last comment is absolutely right, you know you're not the bad guy, you're not insulting your niece you're giving her an ego check, to become a professional artist it takes training and skill, things that someone who's only been drawing anime characters for a couple of months does not have. It's the reason she can't get a table on her own, you can tell them know and they can't force you to do anything. Tell you're sister if she wants to support her daughter passion garant arts school.
Story four: this reminds me of another story where an ex was selling the kids clothes so she bought cheap outfits that they tie dyed to deter him from selling. I think OP should bring him over in clothes with his name boldly on them. Considering if the child is young and doesn’t have to go to school that day.
Had similar issue with one of my grandsons. the father picked him up from preschool every other Friday. He went to preschool in nice clothes but was wearing old, dirty, stained and torn clothes when we picked him up on Sunday evenings. So every other Friday we started sending him to preschool in those clothes he came home in. I explained to the teacher why he was wearing crappy clothes and she understood. (Don't worry he never got teased, all the kids loved him. He was the peacemaker. No one wanted to hurt his feelings.) The father, got mad and called me saying that I needed to send him to school in nice clothes because they like to stop for dinner at nice places on the way home. So I told him, they had all his nice clothes. This was the outfit they send him home in. I will continue to send him back in their clothes so they need to start sending him home in our clothes. They went and bought him nice new brand name outfits. And yes, he went back in the clothes they sent him in. We didn't keep any of them. They sent a bag of his old clothes but of course they didn't fit him any more. 😐
Be careful not to have a child's name anywhere visible on clothing -- while Stranger Danger isn't nearly as bad as was once thought, it's still a way to make a kid think the stranger knows them, and have them let their guard down.
OMG! I can't imagine a wedding party falling to pieces because a group of adults throw back a few drinks and suddenly reverting to behavior that would make even the wildest teenagers scold them for acting like fools.
I have created and sold art before and let me say that almost nobody thinks of your art as a serious profession. Similarly they think that they are entitled to your spaces and entitled to examples of your work for nothing or next to it. I have also been to conventions as an attendee and yes, people will often avoid large knots of other attendees at vendor tables. NTA but your family collectively are, (except for your niece who doesn't know that the world isn't the carefree, always well provided for environment that she has so far experienced.)
On the custody story. NTA. I have more than one friend who went through this with an ex and step-parent. Kids would come back without shoes, socks, & the clothes would be in tatters (not the ones they were sent in). The exes refused to give the clothes and shoes back. At least one of the friends could not afford to buy new shoes for her kids bc her ex didn't pay child support (even though he was supposed to). She started having them take their shoes and socks off when dropping them off & told them to get their shoes & socks from their dad. The dad was super pissed-- nevermind he returned them without shoes and socks. But at least the kids could put on shoes and socks in her vehicle once they were returned. He eventually kidnapped them and took them out of state & she couldn't afford an attorney to get them back. He's poisoned them against her so they won't even speak to her on the phone anymore. The other friend threatened to report the mom to cps if she kept returning the kids without shoes and socks & she eventually started returning stuff, but he only sent the clothes that were in worse condition bc she would steal the good clothes.
Story one why are married to man who treats you like a second class citizen? Divorce him…no trip is worth of lifetime of foul treatment. This story is disturbing……please get out, you deserve love and respect. Your mother in law is trash.
I wonder how this would play out when they have kids? The in-laws will make sure the kids aren't low class despite their mother's influence and then they too can go on family vacations and out to eat while OP stays at home?
Anime Con Story: I would have been FURIOUS! 🤬 The niece and her parents were WAY out of line! I would have shut that crap down ASAP after losing sales! You need to stand up for yourself, OP! You lost out on quite a bit of profit due to their overbearing behavior. Tell them the cost of the booth/table space that you had to pay; and tell them how much you made in years past compared with this year. Make it clear that they cost you quite a bit of your yearly income. Also, tell them that if niece wants to attend the next one, they will have to try and get the niece her own table (if she even makes the cut). Also, let them know that them ACCOSTING people is turning people away! If sellers are obnoxious/overzealous, I immediately recoil and get turned off from buying anything from them.
Funny that those who care most about manners and etiquette are the rudest. OP is in for years of hurt if she stays with this guy. Story 3: Sister and her husband can pay up, either to reimburse OP, pay for a table for their daughter, or pay for art lessons so she can eventually get her own table. Story 4: "This isn't what your family wants for you"?!?!?!? Tough! It's not their decision!
Story 3: I can totally understand OP's plight in this one. Depending on how old the niece is it could prove a problem. Imagine a grown up telling a kid to stop poaching customers or drawing attention to her stuff. That would give negative views and possible make potential customers avoid OP because they would think OP "hates kids". So it's understandable why OP couldn't grow a backbone because appearances and public opinion can dissuade people from buying OP's stuff no matter how good it was.
Tis a catch 22, get steamrolled and you'll be labeled a doormat, stand up for youself, get perceived as a bully/AH, there was literally no winning for OP especially since his sister sounds like your textbook entitled parent and more than likely the golden child.
Story 2: I REALLY wish OP would’ve updated us on the ENTIRE party! They gave us only a snippet of what happened, and the night sounded more scandalous than anything on reality TV!
Out of all the videos I've watched here, this is by far the most entertaining first paragraph. Love it to pieces. And what is up with people thinking that a person is an asshole *purely* for feeling vindicated over having common sense? I think strip club bachelor/bachelorette parties are pretty iffy to begin with, but trying to combine the two parties takes it up a notch, adding drugs takes it up another notch, doing it in your early twenties reduces the likelihood of mature behavior from the group... and if you happen to have the kind of friends who can't act mature regarding alcohol then you damn well know that *before* you go and hire a limo. The magnitude of the fallout might've been a shock, but not the fact that this was a going to be a disaster, and the person who saw it coming isn't an asshole for reveling a bit.
Story 2: love the commenter who somehow absolutely knew that OP didn’t try to avoid snorting, and was just waiting to call the bride out. I think we found the biggest AH. Wouldn’t want to be that persons friend, or even acquaintance, since they so easily can decide what other people think and feel.
Artist booth story/ Nta. Straight up tell them, “my hobby pays all my bills. You want her to come then you get her her own booth. That’s it.” Keep the attention hogs away from your booth and get security involved if they have a tantrum. They can and will be removed
Story 3: NTA. You can be a role model, but that comes with a reality check on how your perspective field works. I’d say “I’m not even going to consider it unless you pay ME in advance and give me a cut of the sales”. Ultimately speaking this is your livelihood on the line.
This is really common actually. People commenting saying they keep the clothes so the child looks nice in their care, no. They give the nice clothes to the step son and yr kid has to wear the old ratty clothes.
Story #1: LEAVE HIS ASS!! His balls and his brother's balls are clearly in his mom's pocket along with their spines!! He doesn't love or respect you. He's using the silent treatment to guilt trip you!!
Story 3: I love the audacity of these entitled family members. They want to piggyback off of Op’s success…while also telling her to get a real job. Op i really dont know why you keep in contact with these toxic people, they don’t respect you or your skills.
Now, I grew up poor, but I have dined nationally known fine dining restaurants. I've dined with famous people, too. My upbringing in the deep South has never been a hindrance because my old money friends are not so unkind as to ever make anyone feel unwelcome. It simply isn't done. If you pay attention to your host, the social etiquette cues will carry you through! The OP has apparently run afoul of the classless new money family that she foolishly married into. She should tell her gaping AH inlaws and husband that she is no longer interested in their trash with cash family of boors. She's too good for that sort of people!
On the artist story: show them the event contract--nearly all big shows say you cannot bring items not approved/juried, or share a table without the other party being approved & also signing a contract. OP may not only have lost business at the show, but jeopardized their chance for future shows & business for violating the event contract. Help the niece, but she needs to learn how to become a good vendor--starting small, as OP had to do, to build a 'resume' to get accepted into big events! (Judging is not just on the art, but the table/booth appearance, too). She'll only fail if her parents refuse to let her learn!
Story 2: NTA. Look, those kind of things CAN get wild. But I was thinking “Whoa” from minute one. Did I hear that right? A JOINT Bachelor and Bachelorette party? That alone sounds like a bad idea.
Story 3: OP NEEDS to grow a spine and tell her family to FO. Niece: Auntie I want to be a brain surgeon too, I’m going to work with you today and performing a couple surgeries myself. OP: Well I can take you to do an appendectomy first. JUST NO! It’s your job, not a day at the park.
I love my siblings and would take a bullet for anyone of them but at hearing or seeing this situation id be rolling on the floor laughing struggling to breathe! Lmao 😂😂😂😂
My sister had to do the same thing with her kid's clothes! Except her deadbeat ex wouldn't dress anyone else in the nice clothes. He literally stashed them into a cardboard box in storage until my sister said she was going to start charging him for keeping those clothes. When he finally gave the clothes back, she had outgrown a lot of them years ago, and ended up giving me the clothes for my daughter. A lot of these clothes hadn't even been worn! Some still had tags, too.
After the bs of hubby and his dearest mommy in the first post, if I were op, hubby gives me silent treatment, I give him divorce papers and walk away from that trash family. Nta and maybe save the bil who is also excluded while you're at it.
That’s bachelor story is the best Reddit story ever, I here for all of the messy shit 😂 everything that happened was going to happen at some point, sis just decided to be the catalyst for it; knowing there was some past history too. It’s a bad decision equinox 😂🤦🏾♂️
Story 2: after staying sober to protect the sister during the drunken evening I also would find it hard to keep a snort in while she moans she doesn’t understand the fallout.
Last story: did she mean well? Because if you have to lie (which she did) to help someone you're probably not doing it right, if at all. You consider yourself still married to your wife so you are, whatever you decide to date or not it's completely up to you. And you would think after going no contact for years would drive the message into their heads but apparently it doesn't. When was your sister even going to tell you about this date? Tell her husband your sister is full of it and you didn't ask for anyone's help, you're not apologizing for not going along with your sister's ambush, and no one cares what your family thinks.
@@YvaanAvesnaYou're EXACTLY the kind of asshole who needs to leave OP (and anyone else who willingly remains single) alone. It's no one's business but OP's. If he feels he's still married, he's still married, period. And no one gets to tell him when to "move on".
@@YvaanAvesna Because OP says he's married to his only wife, he's an AH? Be for real. I hope OP is in therapy to help him with his grief. With that being said, he's made it *crystal clear* he doesn't want to date or marry. That's his choice, and his family needs to respect that.
I’d make sure your will specifically leaves your whole family out-- except, of course, your son-- with a letter explaining that it’s because they kept trying to pimp you out to various women. I hope none of them have keys to your home. If they do, change the locks & don’t tell them.
Story 2: "We want you to take her to the next event". "You still owe me 3 months rent from the last one". The issue here is that the parents want to start her off at the top, rather than have to work her way up to it as, no doubt, OP had to. It's like taking a talented 8yo footballer and expecting them to excel in the Superbowl. Even with talent; it takes hard work, determination and... most of all... TIME!!! There is no shortcut - but that's something that our "want it now, can't afford it, well my favourite influencer says you can do it" society seems to be forgetting. It's like the current craze to get tattoos - everybody is desperate to look like an individual... by behaving like everybody else and ending up looking like everybody else. I don't get it, I really don't!
I found the second story on reddit and here is more of what OP said about what happened! "Fine. The maid of honor and her boyfriend did not break up. The other bridesmaid who is married was in an Eiffel Tower with two of the groomsmen. One groomsman has dropped out along with the bridesmaid. Her husband has left her because I guess this isn't the first time. The other groomsman in that group has no fucks to give and will be attending. We are lucky that by the time the cops showed up everything illegal had bed taken, eaten, ingested, or swallowed. I stayed mostly sober and stayed with my sister all night so she could party and not do anything too stupid. My husband also attended and I had tasked him with keeping an eye on the groom. He decided the best way to keep the groom out of trouble was to get his pants shitting drunk. Which he accomplished with the only casualty being some underwear, a sock and a pair of Levi's. The bus/limo came out as the worst victim in this whole debacle. It needs a biohazard cleanup and maybe some upholstery replaced. My dad is pissed. After reading the comments I went to see my sister this morning and gave a more sincere apology. She asked me to be the matron of honor and I accepted. If anyone here is free Saturday we still need someone to sing The Rose during the ceremony since my cousin is currently persona non grata. I only know about the breakups from hearsay but suffice it to say that getting a group of friends who have a lot of sexual history together and giving them drugs and alcohol then taking them out to see naked people is a terrific idea IF YOU ARE NOT GETTING MARRIED IN A WEEK."
Have a friend who’s bachelor party was more tame but similar in hookups part including the best man discovering he was bi which became the thing that happened at his bachelor party. The groom did nothing because he was passed out drunk on his hotel bed. We held it over him for 6 years threatening to tell his wife what happened at his bachelor party. After the first year the best man and I told his wife what happened and her being awesome played along.
What @standinthegsp6858 said! I LOVE when you start laughing! This combo party sounds like most of our high school parties back in the 70s! Thank God, there was no social media back then!!😆😆😆
A good husband would have taught his wife what all the pieces of the fancy table setting were for instead of excluding her. She could have stuck with a dish she was familiar with, like salmon or steak. He has abolutely no respect for his wife.
Last story: I have been a widow much longer than I was married. I never wanted anyone else and I live a comfortable life. OP needs to go NC with his disgusting family and probably advise his son to do the same.
My great great grandma became a widow at 39. She tried dating once a few years after her husband died but her kids made a stink and she never tried again. Her daughter told me she regretted it, because her mom deserved to have happiness. Her mother died at 99.
Do you really want to deal with this the rest of your life. I think you need to seriously consider this relationship. Because if it was me I wouldn't just left the hotel I would have left the man. No man or woman really has any respect for their spouse would allow this to happen. If he cannot respect your words he's not worth having in your life. Temper tantrum or anything it's about he will never respect you worth neither will his family.
1st Story: I'd have him read the post, lol. Then look at him and go, "maybe the next time your family refuses to ignore me, I should go looking for a new husband. It's not like you would view that as being more disrespectful than letting your family treat me this way" smile and walk out the room. EDIT: I am sad there was no update. Does anyone have updates??? lol
Story 1: Girl, RUN! Your husband clearly has no respect for you. Is this really what you want the rest of your life to be filled with? NTA, and divorce this man ASAP
You can’t really run but you can slap upside the head.
Can you imagine how they would treat her kids
Divorce and tell them to just inbreed. That way they get their kind and everyone else doesn't have to deal with them. Win win.
Story 1 he only thinks you are good for one thing to him. It isn’t as a life partner. It is a different kind of partner.
@@romonagauthier2611 I hope she divorce the creep and told his family to go to hell.
The way XO started laughing at the absolute absurdity on the 2nd story. 🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🏆🏆
He just couldn't hold it together - he was cracking up almost the whole time. XD
😊 an actual tee-hee! To be fair, a joint Bachelor bachelorette party at a strip club is a next level of stupid idea. I would keep temporary restraining orders on a roll when it comes to these people!
Sounds like a fantastic plot for a bad HBO sitcom. Kudos to XO for mostly keeping a straight face while reading the story.
His rare little chuckles while reading are legitimately my favorite part of this channel. It’s almost like breaking character lol
I gotta be honest it sounds like it was one HELL OF A PARTY!🎉🎉🎉🎉Like worthy of the "Hangover" movie saga
I may be an aweful person but I couldnt help but laugh too
Story 1: NTA. “How dare you not appreciate that I agreed with my family and planned a fancy dinner behind your back”, oh please. Cry me a river Mr. Sheffield.
3rd Story: NTA x ♾️!!! Stories like this seriously get my goat! (Illustration Major 😅) The niece isn't the problem, it's her tone-deaf parents that's are trying WAY to hard to be "supportive." Op needs to block all those idiots out. If they want their baby to be special, then hang her work up on the fridge like normal parents. Just sit the niece down, have a frank discussion about what it actually means to be a professional artist, and just help mentor her from there so she can actually find her own standing without needing to constantly rely on others.
5th Story: NTA. People that feel the need to constantly play matchmaker for the "lonely hearts" they see around are some of the worst busybodies. Just as there's nothing wrong with finding love again after losing a partner, there's nothing wrong with choosing to remain single after a lose. They were this person's forever and no one else can ever fill that space. (I mean, seriously, how can you think someone that lost their literal soulmate could just pick up with someone else as if nothing ever happened?!)
I grew up with wealthy parents. My first boyfriends were a trust fund kid, a surgeon's son & a rising executive at a company most people have heard of. Nobody I know in that circle would be classless enough to deliberately exclude a spouse of one of their children from a restaurant dinner, no matter the restaurant. A few of them would certainly talk about said spouse behind their backs with their friends if the spouse's behavior raised eyebrows but most would quickly realize that a child's spouse isn't going anywhere for awhile. If said spouse needed a few lessons so they don't stand out as they didn't have debutante or cotillion classes, that's what would be offered before the vacation ever took place.
Ignorance is not a character flaw. Rudeness, however, is a big one.
@@bathoryx oh absolutely. My late husband did not go to a fancy private school. He grew up in a house that had a dirt floor until he was 12. He was born in 1974 so that was incredibly uncommon. His father is an alcoholic & his late mother didn't even have a driver's license. They were extremely disadvantaged. My late husband was a veteran turned chef turned RN. I loved everything about him but he didn't have the same social graces that I grew up with.
It was my job as his girlfriend, then fiance, then wife to teach him most of these things & my father taught him the rest. None of us wanted him to feel out of place or humiliation. By the time he died, you'd have sworn he had all the same opportunities that my sibs & I had as children. He was a very well loved member of our whole family. My parents & siblings sobbed at the funeral 6 years ago. My dad cried more that day than he did at his own beloved late father's funeral & my little brother spent most of it in the lobby of the funeral home sobbing since he didn't want to disrupt the proceedings. It was absolutely unheard of for either of these men to cry in public, but they did that day.
The husband in this story is also a moron because it was & still is his job to prepare her to fit in with his family & he did nothing to facilitate that relationship. If she needs fancy fork lessons to not embarrass your mother, then do that. That is not complicated & is not the huge issue they've all made it. That whole family has way less class & grace than they're trying to convince everyone that they have.
Story 1, I had a similar situation with one of my sisters boyfriends, the fun part was I'm earning more than he does, he is a shop owner and I'm a long haul non standard trucker, basically I wasn't invited because I lack class, I just told him that I come from a long line of political officers, my grandparents and great grandparents were nkvd and kgb officers, I told him as much, when he asked how does that make a difference, I answered that he physically can't have more class than me because my predecessors made sure of that and the walls have the bullet holes to prove it, to say he was mortified and angry was an understatement 😂😂😂😂😂
Too many people are unable to accept it when someone doesn't want to marry - or in this case, remarry. My Dad, at age 95, has been married three times - he's never liked being on his own. On the other hand, I have never married (but did live with a partner for 3½ years once) and am happily single in my 70s. We're all different.
Art show story:
Tell all the busybodies to pay your rent if they want a say. And definitely charge your sister half for the table.
I think I speak for everyone when I ask, can we all agree that whenever the narrator laughs at a story similar to the second one, you know it's got to be funny?
I lost my husband 3 1/2 yr. ago when I was 57. My father in law tried to tell me that I would meet some guy and get remarried. Well, I have some bad news for him. I'm still wearing my wedding ring and have no intent of taking it off any time soon. I'm very happy being alone. I have our adult sons and daughter in laws plus my extended family and then my friends. My life is pretty full.
I'm glad your happy staying single now afterward, but I'm very sorry you lost the one true love of your life.
The Pretty Woman quote was dead on, and it's also one of my favorite movies. My favorite part is when she got kicked out of a high-class store only to return later and say
"I was here yesterday, and you kicked me out, BIG MISTAKE" 😆
That's a good-one. But, I do 💕 how understanding the rich 🚢 builder was that she was out of her depths. I starting routing for him then.
Story 1: OP is not the A-hole. She should get a divorce lawyer unless this is what she wants her life to be.
It always makes me laugh when you, narrator, try not to laugh/ start laughing.... absolutely hilarious!
The sister needs new friends.
I wouldn’t have laughed outright-- or tried not to. But I would probably have had to put my hand over my mouth or my head on the table to hide that I was trying not to laugh.
Yeah. The folks saying that OP *deliberately* laughed at her sister's plight must not have a sense of humor. Or be *extremely* anal retentive.
@@brigidtheirish Ya and I'm sorry, I've never heard of a bunch of 24-25 yr olds getting into a party bus and it being a chill night.
@@Nielak-dg8nj *HA!* No kidding. I remember being that age and about as likely to party as a wet blanket, but I'm pretty sure I would've been contributing to the noise and shaking if I *had* ever gotten on a party bus.
"You're judging me!" No, I'm judging the outcome. NTA. Couldn't have been more disastrous if they were dipped in gasoline and lighting sparklers.
Yep, and not only would I have been laughing, my sister would have joined me. I don't care who you are, that's funny!
Story three: OP is definitely NTA since his family pretty much slapped any income away in order to favor niece. They just showed how little they value what OP does since they appear to think what he does is a hobby.
Story 1: only thing OP might have done differently is ordered epically expensive room service and spread it all over the room, since she’s so unable to eat properly.
That, and ignored any contact from the soon-to-be-ex husband unless it was him groveling and telling her he was on his way home, while she was packing up her stuff and moving out.
Story 2: All of those people already had those problems. It might not have been wise to pile them all into a bus and pour alcohol on the fire, but they brought the fire themselves. It's sort of a shame that it happened to her wedding party, but perhaps she'll find more stable friends after this? And not ones that will gladly cheat on their partners with the nearest person in the friend group as soon as they get drunk.
Crying and throwing up over the last story, I’m glad Lana got the chance to have true love with OP before her life was so unfairly ended. And I’m really hoping she got a chance to hold the baby
OP3: That's your work FFS. Screw them for interfering in your income.
I can’t even imagine how hard I would scoff at my mom if she said something like that about my partner. I wouldn’t have gone to eat dinner without her
Story 1: Great first step in leaving when you were insulted by your in-laws and husband. Don’t stop there. See a divorce lawyer as soon as possible. Your husband is willing to allow his family to mistreat you. You can do much better🙁
Story 2: I think that this couple needs to reconsider getting married until they both grow up😒
Story 3: It’s great that you want to help your niece develop as an artist, but this shouldn’t be done at your expense🙁
Story 4: Since the ex isn’t paying child support, he can afford to buy his son new clothes which can be kept at his house😒
Story 5: People grieve in their own way. It’s wrong to try and push someone into a relationship that they don’t want😢
The ART SHOW story (forgot the number) really hit home for me. I am a board game designer and nothing like that story ever happened to me but I can identify because I tried to imagine being at a BOARD GAME CONVENTION showing my newest games to potential buyers and some bratty kid distracting them and costing me potential sales. No way in hell I would have put up with it the way the spineless wimp in that story did.
It was Comic Con🎉
I feel like the parents should have paid towards the table. If they want to sell her art, they need to take responsibility of being a seller.
@@M0nst3r0711 why pay when they can steamroll over op to pay for it, use their contacts and destroy their life for their precious spawn. Op really needs to get as far away from them as possible. Blocking them and anyone who sides with them. Or they'll suffer for sure. Greedy people like that don't take no for an answer easily.
@@M0nst3r0711But that would require integrity.
The bachelorette party story is crazy and people are 100% wrong to say OP was an AH or anything.
OP is not obliged to make the sis feel better or to ensure she doesn’t feel embarrassed.
OP could’ve even teased her about it a bit and still not be AH.
i would have tessed if it had been one of my sisters and they would expect it!
It doesn’t sound like they planned anything crazy. It sounds like a party were people got out of control. Not sure where ops having a party caused the issue mentally comes in.
Where they not supposed to have a bachelorette party?
@@tracim3080 There´s party, and there´s disaster. As OP said, a group of peoples with sexual history + unlimited booze + heavily sexual atmosphere is a recipe for disaster. They can plan as they wished, but considering those factor, don´t be surprised if it´s backfired.
@@tracim3080Mate the friends got drunk as fack on top of getting high from substances in an enclosed space, something was bound to happen
@@bamban_garcia5562 what?
Story 3: that last comment is absolutely right, you know you're not the bad guy, you're not insulting your niece you're giving her an ego check, to become a professional artist it takes training and skill, things that someone who's only been drawing anime characters for a couple of months does not have. It's the reason she can't get a table on her own, you can tell them know and they can't force you to do anything. Tell you're sister if she wants to support her daughter passion garant arts school.
I would have demanded sister pay for the lost sales. That would shut her up.
Story four: this reminds me of another story where an ex was selling the kids clothes so she bought cheap outfits that they tie dyed to deter him from selling. I think OP should bring him over in clothes with his name boldly on them. Considering if the child is young and doesn’t have to go to school that day.
I was about to bring that very story up but it appears you have beat me to the punch. :P
Had similar issue with one of my grandsons. the father picked him up from preschool every other Friday. He went to preschool in nice clothes but was wearing old, dirty, stained and torn clothes when we picked him up on Sunday evenings. So every other Friday we started sending him to preschool in those clothes he came home in. I explained to the teacher why he was wearing crappy clothes and she understood. (Don't worry he never got teased, all the kids loved him. He was the peacemaker. No one wanted to hurt his feelings.) The father, got mad and called me saying that I needed to send him to school in nice clothes because they like to stop for dinner at nice places on the way home. So I told him, they had all his nice clothes. This was the outfit they send him home in. I will continue to send him back in their clothes so they need to start sending him home in our clothes. They went and bought him nice new brand name outfits. And yes, he went back in the clothes they sent him in. We didn't keep any of them. They sent a bag of his old clothes but of course they didn't fit him any more. 😐
Be careful not to have a child's name anywhere visible on clothing -- while Stranger Danger isn't nearly as bad as was once thought, it's still a way to make a kid think the stranger knows them, and have them let their guard down.
OMG! I can't imagine a wedding party falling to pieces because a group of adults throw back a few drinks and suddenly reverting to behavior that would make even the wildest teenagers scold them for acting like fools.
Story 1: thats the most hilarious story. Personally, I would've said ok, you enjoy dinner & the rest of your life. Goodbye.
"If I'm not classy enough to have dinner with your family, then I guess I'm not classy enough to be married to you, either, right?"
I have created and sold art before and let me say that almost nobody thinks of your art as a serious profession. Similarly they think that they are entitled to your spaces and entitled to examples of your work for nothing or next to it. I have also been to conventions as an attendee and yes, people will often avoid large knots of other attendees at vendor tables. NTA but your family collectively are, (except for your niece who doesn't know that the world isn't the carefree, always well provided for environment that she has so far experienced.)
On the custody story. NTA. I have more than one friend who went through this with an ex and step-parent. Kids would come back without shoes, socks, & the clothes would be in tatters (not the ones they were sent in). The exes refused to give the clothes and shoes back. At least one of the friends could not afford to buy new shoes for her kids bc her ex didn't pay child support (even though he was supposed to). She started having them take their shoes and socks off when dropping them off & told them to get their shoes & socks from their dad. The dad was super pissed-- nevermind he returned them without shoes and socks. But at least the kids could put on shoes and socks in her vehicle once they were returned. He eventually kidnapped them and took them out of state & she couldn't afford an attorney to get them back. He's poisoned them against her so they won't even speak to her on the phone anymore. The other friend threatened to report the mom to cps if she kept returning the kids without shoes and socks & she eventually started returning stuff, but he only sent the clothes that were in worse condition bc she would steal the good clothes.
Story one why are married to man who treats you like a second class citizen? Divorce him…no trip is worth of lifetime of foul treatment. This story is disturbing……please get out, you deserve love and respect. Your mother in law is trash.
Story 2 update: Ok, I chuckled at the part where the Dad was ticked off about paying for the bus.
4:55 I adore when XO laughs as he narrates. It’s so great. That whole 2nd story was a dumpster fire. 😂😂
XO, I loved your obvious enjoyment in reading Story 2! Please keep on being you!
Me too.
Well obviously as another poor person we are supposed to be left to eat in the woods with our hands. No one taught us how to use cutlery
What's cutlery? 🤔
I wonder how this would play out when they have kids? The in-laws will make sure the kids aren't low class despite their mother's influence and then they too can go on family vacations and out to eat while OP stays at home?
Anime Con Story: I would have been FURIOUS! 🤬 The niece and her parents were WAY out of line! I would have shut that crap down ASAP after losing sales! You need to stand up for yourself, OP! You lost out on quite a bit of profit due to their overbearing behavior. Tell them the cost of the booth/table space that you had to pay; and tell them how much you made in years past compared with this year. Make it clear that they cost you quite a bit of your yearly income. Also, tell them that if niece wants to attend the next one, they will have to try and get the niece her own table (if she even makes the cut). Also, let them know that them ACCOSTING people is turning people away! If sellers are obnoxious/overzealous, I immediately recoil and get turned off from buying anything from them.
I had to stop the video for a bit during story #2. I was laughing so hard I was missing some of the dialog. Geez, that was funny!
Story 3: NTA op isn’t at fault . Op did try to stand up for herself .
I CAN'T GET OVER XO'S LAUGHTER AT 4:55 OH MY GOD I'M DYING
Funny that those who care most about manners and etiquette are the rudest.
OP is in for years of hurt if she stays with this guy.
Story 3: Sister and her husband can pay up, either to reimburse OP, pay for a table for their daughter, or pay for art lessons so she can eventually get her own table.
Story 4: "This isn't what your family wants for you"?!?!?!? Tough! It's not their decision!
Story 3: I can totally understand OP's plight in this one. Depending on how old the niece is it could prove a problem. Imagine a grown up telling a kid to stop poaching customers or drawing attention to her stuff. That would give negative views and possible make potential customers avoid OP because they would think OP "hates kids". So it's understandable why OP couldn't grow a backbone because appearances and public opinion can dissuade people from buying OP's stuff no matter how good it was.
Yep, & family knew this.
Tis a catch 22, get steamrolled and you'll be labeled a doormat, stand up for youself, get perceived as a bully/AH, there was literally no winning for OP especially since his sister sounds like your textbook entitled parent and more than likely the golden child.
Story 2 sounds like a party to go down for the ages 😂
I soooo what to hear all the Tea about this party!!!
Story 2: I REALLY wish OP would’ve updated us on the ENTIRE party! They gave us only a snippet of what happened, and the night sounded more scandalous than anything on reality TV!
Out of all the videos I've watched here, this is by far the most entertaining first paragraph. Love it to pieces.
And what is up with people thinking that a person is an asshole *purely* for feeling vindicated over having common sense? I think strip club bachelor/bachelorette parties are pretty iffy to begin with, but trying to combine the two parties takes it up a notch, adding drugs takes it up another notch, doing it in your early twenties reduces the likelihood of mature behavior from the group... and if you happen to have the kind of friends who can't act mature regarding alcohol then you damn well know that *before* you go and hire a limo.
The magnitude of the fallout might've been a shock, but not the fact that this was a going to be a disaster, and the person who saw it coming isn't an asshole for reveling a bit.
Art one: She wouldn't be at my table. Let the parents pay thousands.
XO's laugh is legendary
Indeed.
Story 2: love the commenter who somehow absolutely knew that OP didn’t try to avoid snorting, and was just waiting to call the bride out. I think we found the biggest AH. Wouldn’t want to be that persons friend, or even acquaintance, since they so easily can decide what other people think and feel.
I love when xo laugheds like i get he has to be professional but damn that was the funniest story ever
When the narrator starts laughing you know it’s a good one lol
Always so funny when the narrator laughs- story 2 is insane! And story 1 husband is a L.
Me too.
Artist booth story/
Nta. Straight up tell them, “my hobby pays all my bills. You want her to come then you get her her own booth. That’s it.”
Keep the attention hogs away from your booth and get security involved if they have a tantrum. They can and will be removed
Story 2: Sounds like a real classy bunch. 🤣🤣🤣
And those freaking YTA comments. Come on, like anyone _wouldn’t_ be laughing at that clusterf**k. 😂
Ikr I have to put down my water so I don't make a mess while I laugh at this crap show
I probably would have pissed myself laughing. 🤣🤣🤣
@@juliearmfield2634 i would too
Story 4: NTA. Why do people think “Just because their siblings (They aren’t) all their possessions are interchangeable”?
Story 2: That was crazy!!!😅
Story 1. Nta. Well just more proof that money definitely does not by class
My God!!! HE laughed!!!🤩🥰🤩🥰
Story 3: NTA. You can be a role model, but that comes with a reality check on how your perspective field works. I’d say “I’m not even going to consider it unless you pay ME in advance and give me a cut of the sales”. Ultimately speaking this is your livelihood on the line.
This is really common actually. People commenting saying they keep the clothes so the child looks nice in their care, no. They give the nice clothes to the step son and yr kid has to wear the old ratty clothes.
Story 2: I haven't heard a story this hilarious since the art room story.
Final Story: NTA. She is a liar. She told someone you two were going out on a date. She KNEW you weren’t. Some people don’t remarry, and that’s fine.
I love when this narrator laughs at a story, THAT is when you KNOW it is loony tunes!!!!
Story #1: LEAVE HIS ASS!! His balls and his brother's balls are clearly in his mom's pocket along with their spines!! He doesn't love or respect you. He's using the silent treatment to guilt trip you!!
Story 3: I love the audacity of these entitled family members. They want to piggyback off of Op’s success…while also telling her to get a real job.
Op i really dont know why you keep in contact with these toxic people, they don’t respect you or your skills.
Now, I grew up poor, but I have dined nationally known
fine dining restaurants. I've dined with famous people, too. My upbringing in the deep South has never been a hindrance because my old money friends are not so unkind as to ever make anyone feel unwelcome. It simply isn't done. If you pay attention to your host, the social etiquette cues will carry you through!
The OP has apparently run afoul of the classless new money family that she foolishly married into. She should tell her gaping AH inlaws and husband that she is no longer interested in their trash with cash family
of boors. She's too good for that sort of people!
On the artist story: show them the event contract--nearly all big shows say you cannot bring items not approved/juried, or share a table without the other party being approved & also signing a contract. OP may not only have lost business at the show, but jeopardized their chance for future shows & business for violating the event contract. Help the niece, but she needs to learn how to become a good vendor--starting small, as OP had to do, to build a 'resume' to get accepted into big events! (Judging is not just on the art, but the table/booth appearance, too). She'll only fail if her parents refuse to let her learn!
NARRATOR, I LOVE YOU! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Story 2: NTA. Look, those kind of things CAN get wild. But I was thinking “Whoa” from minute one. Did I hear that right? A JOINT Bachelor and Bachelorette party? That alone sounds like a bad idea.
Story 1: Did they think you were going to eat with your feet? WTF!?😮
Dying at story 2, especially with XO's laughter
I'd divorce him and take half his belongings
Wouldn’t be surprised if there was a prenup
There was probably a prenup as a condition by the family
That clothes story made me so happy. 50/50 is 50/50. I see this so much in my profession and I have given similar suggestions.
Story 3: OP NEEDS to grow a spine and tell her family to FO.
Niece: Auntie I want to be a brain surgeon too, I’m going to work with you today and performing a couple surgeries myself.
OP: Well I can take you to do an appendectomy first.
JUST NO! It’s your job, not a day at the park.
S1
"Acted ungratefully?" After being disrespected like that? Lmao, what??
Story 5: NTA and op will never be in the wrong .
I love my siblings and would take a bullet for anyone of them but at hearing or seeing this situation id be rolling on the floor laughing struggling to breathe! Lmao 😂😂😂😂
I love when you laugh on the stories. Makes me feel less crazy for laughing alone in the office. 😂
My sister had to do the same thing with her kid's clothes! Except her deadbeat ex wouldn't dress anyone else in the nice clothes. He literally stashed them into a cardboard box in storage until my sister said she was going to start charging him for keeping those clothes. When he finally gave the clothes back, she had outgrown a lot of them years ago, and ended up giving me the clothes for my daughter. A lot of these clothes hadn't even been worn! Some still had tags, too.
Were I the only one with flashbacks to the Movie "Very Bad Things" from 1998 during story 2?😂
XO's laugh just makes this allll much funnier 😆😆😆
After the bs of hubby and his dearest mommy in the first post, if I were op, hubby gives me silent treatment, I give him divorce papers and walk away from that trash family. Nta and maybe save the bil who is also excluded while you're at it.
That’s bachelor story is the best Reddit story ever, I here for all of the messy shit 😂 everything that happened was going to happen at some point, sis just decided to be the catalyst for it; knowing there was some past history too. It’s a bad decision equinox 😂🤦🏾♂️
Sounded like an episode of "The Jersey Shore"!
Story 2: after staying sober to protect the sister during the drunken evening I also would find it hard to keep a snort in while she moans she doesn’t understand the fallout.
The bachelor/bachelorette party story: yikes! However I love your laugh at the absurdity
Last story: did she mean well? Because if you have to lie (which she did) to help someone you're probably not doing it right, if at all. You consider yourself still married to your wife so you are, whatever you decide to date or not it's completely up to you. And you would think after going no contact for years would drive the message into their heads but apparently it doesn't. When was your sister even going to tell you about this date? Tell her husband your sister is full of it and you didn't ask for anyone's help, you're not apologizing for not going along with your sister's ambush, and no one cares what your family thinks.
@@YvaanAvesna He had his one great love and isn't interested in dating. That doesn't make him an asshole to *anyone.*
@@YvaanAvesnaYou're EXACTLY the kind of asshole who needs to leave OP (and anyone else who willingly remains single) alone.
It's no one's business but OP's. If he feels he's still married, he's still married, period. And no one gets to tell him when to "move on".
@@YvaanAvesna
Because OP says he's married to his only wife, he's an AH? Be for real. I hope OP is in therapy to help him with his grief. With that being said, he's made it *crystal clear* he doesn't want to date or marry. That's his choice, and his family needs to respect that.
@@YvaanAvesna If he still feels married, that's how he feels. There's nothing wrong with that.
@@YvaanAvesna He's still married in his heart. Many people live quite contentedly with that mindset. It nobody else's business.
Ask her parents to reimburse you for the table. Never set yourself on fire to keep others warm.
Ask? Yeah, like these parents will just hand over that money!
I’d make sure your will specifically leaves your whole family out-- except, of course, your son-- with a letter explaining that it’s because they kept trying to pimp you out to various women.
I hope none of them have keys to your home. If they do, change the locks & don’t tell them.
Story 2:
"We want you to take her to the next event".
"You still owe me 3 months rent from the last one".
The issue here is that the parents want to start her off at the top, rather than have to work her way up to it as, no doubt, OP had to. It's like taking a talented 8yo footballer and expecting them to excel in the Superbowl. Even with talent; it takes hard work, determination and... most of all... TIME!!! There is no shortcut - but that's something that our "want it now, can't afford it, well my favourite influencer says you can do it" society seems to be forgetting. It's like the current craze to get tattoos - everybody is desperate to look like an individual... by behaving like everybody else and ending up looking like everybody else. I don't get it, I really don't!
OP1: Good for you not putting up with their abuse.
I found the second story on reddit and here is more of what OP said about what happened!
"Fine.
The maid of honor and her boyfriend did not break up.
The other bridesmaid who is married was in an Eiffel Tower with two of the groomsmen. One groomsman has dropped out along with the bridesmaid. Her husband has left her because I guess this isn't the first time.
The other groomsman in that group has no fucks to give and will be attending.
We are lucky that by the time the cops showed up everything illegal had bed taken, eaten, ingested, or swallowed.
I stayed mostly sober and stayed with my sister all night so she could party and not do anything too stupid.
My husband also attended and I had tasked him with keeping an eye on the groom. He decided the best way to keep the groom out of trouble was to get his pants shitting drunk. Which he accomplished with the only casualty being some underwear, a sock and a pair of Levi's.
The bus/limo came out as the worst victim in this whole debacle. It needs a biohazard cleanup and maybe some upholstery replaced. My dad is pissed.
After reading the comments I went to see my sister this morning and gave a more sincere apology. She asked me to be the matron of honor and I accepted.
If anyone here is free Saturday we still need someone to sing The Rose during the ceremony since my cousin is currently persona non grata.
I only know about the breakups from hearsay but suffice it to say that getting a group of friends who have a lot of sexual history together and giving them drugs and alcohol then taking them out to see naked people is a terrific idea IF YOU ARE NOT GETTING MARRIED IN A WEEK."
Have a friend who’s bachelor party was more tame but similar in hookups part including the best man discovering he was bi which became the thing that happened at his bachelor party. The groom did nothing because he was passed out drunk on his hotel bed.
We held it over him for 6 years threatening to tell his wife what happened at his bachelor party. After the first year the best man and I told his wife what happened and her being awesome played along.
I can't stop giggling about the bachelor/bachelorette party so but it's funny 😂😂😂😂
1) NTA my petty ass would start dressing in rags when visiting the in laws and talk like a hillbilly.
With a long piece of straw (or wheat) sticking out the side of your mouth! 😂 That's the first thing I pictured!
Sounds like the sister might want to look into professional bridesmaids. Their job is to make sure everything goes smoothly and drama free.
What @standinthegsp6858 said! I LOVE when you start laughing! This combo party sounds like most of our high school parties back in the 70s! Thank God, there was no social media back then!!😆😆😆
A good husband would have taught his wife what all the pieces of the fancy table setting were for instead of excluding her. She could have stuck with a dish she was familiar with, like salmon or steak. He has abolutely no respect for his wife.
I can feel a movie moment comming on for the 2nd story hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Proper laugh 🤣🤣🤣
Last story: I have been a widow much longer than I was married. I never wanted anyone else and I live a comfortable life. OP needs to go NC with his disgusting family and probably advise his son to do the same.
My great great grandma became a widow at 39. She tried dating once a few years after her husband died but her kids made a stink and she never tried again.
Her daughter told me she regretted it, because her mom deserved to have happiness. Her mother died at 99.
Op is NOT GIVING ENOUGH INFO! Pleaaassse, I totally agree with the commentor saying they'd watch 2 seasons of this 😂
Do you really want to deal with this the rest of your life. I think you need to seriously consider this relationship. Because if it was me I wouldn't just left the hotel I would have left the man. No man or woman really has any respect for their spouse would allow this to happen. If he cannot respect your words he's not worth having in your life. Temper tantrum or anything it's about he will never respect you worth neither will his family.
Artist story: most places have policies against unauthorised sellers - if they try it again just report them to the event staff.
Wow that second story took a turn.
1st Story: I'd have him read the post, lol. Then look at him and go, "maybe the next time your family refuses to ignore me, I should go looking for a new husband. It's not like you would view that as being more disrespectful than letting your family treat me this way" smile and walk out the room. EDIT: I am sad there was no update. Does anyone have updates??? lol
More laughter is better!
"She told me I'd made her out to be a liar."
Yeah probably because you lied.