I'm just 14 and I now know so much about love and marriage. I've decide to follow Jesus Praise God!! Most of the people of my ages are just so not interested on these stuffs.
God Bless you Abhishek. It takes such a lot of courage to follow Jesus and act like Him in Daily life, but God sees you and your heart and He blesses everyone who wants to follow His will. So whatever obstacles you must get through, know that God is closer than you skin and that nothing in the whole creation can seperate you from the Love of God. Be strong and courageous! You are stronger than you think in Christ te Lord😘❤️
@Abhishek Thapa, Dr. Myles has other videos that speaks about time when he was your age and his point of view was as yours be. God bless you on your journey!!!
Lust doesn't make a marriage work which is often called love. It's not love. It's lust. True love chooses to love even if doesn't feel like it. That's unconditional love.
Jesus made the decision to die for us in the garden of Gethsemane. He didn't feel like dying but did it anyway because he loves us. Love is truly a DECISION not a FEELING
Love cannot be a feeling because feeling come and go we have to make the choice to love one another emotions tied to love will not stand we have to learn to love beyond circumstances no matter what. 🤗🤗
I have often found that people who believe love originates as a feeling can rarely if ever define what love is and where it comes from and why it should behave differently than every other emotion.
Everything that feels good doesn't last which is why it's important to be a master of our feelings & never let them control us because that only leads to wrong decision making & regret
So why am I in love with guy for 9 years? I distance myself from him because he is married. It still won’t go away. Love is not a choice. It just happen.
@@freespiritpearl89I have some questions for you. How often do you think about him during the day? Do you find yourself fantasizing about “what if” scenarios? Do you check on him on social media? Our feelings of love are directly controlled by out level of investment into something/someone. That investment can by completely inside our own head, which is the underlying motivation behind those stalkers that are “in love” with someone they have almost no interactions with, they have invested in that person inside their mind.
Or at the very least, have the romance novel/film industry change so that it focuses more on love as a choice instead of a mere feeling, especially in the context of enduring love as opposed to the cliched “falling in love.” There are too many romance stories that focus on the start of love with marriage as the final destination. I want to see more romance plots with marriage as the beginning instead of this idealized final destination/goal.
??? Love is the greatest power in the universe. Love is always an emotion. We are never dead emotionally. We are not robots. Love is our nature. We love because its our nature to love, and to operate in the delight of love. Otherwise we are speaking purely of cold ethics and there is far too much of that today in this materialistic society of ours.
"I wish more women would understand that love is not a feeling" It most certainly IS, and if you don't want to believe me, ask a scientist. It is a human emotion that essentially is a chemical reaction in the brain, and this is evidenced by the fact that we often have deep feelings for people who are not the "best" for us and who have hurt us before. Go ahead, try to love someone you don't or NOT love someone you do? Has anyone ever hurt you emotionally and/or physically? Do you still love them? Tell me, do you have children? Is there anything they could ever do that would cause you to NOT love them? Are there things that you really like that others don't or even find a bit strange? Like maybe you like mustard on your ice cream or something, what if you REALLY LOVED mustard on ice cream...now, would you stop really loving it just because others thought it was weird? Is there a way you could just "shut off" your love of it? Nope, you love it because it tastes good to you. It stimulates your senses, It causes chemical reactions in your body and brain that are pleasurable to you...and guess what? THAT IS LOVE! Because love is not a 'thing' that you can put your finger on and it is different for EVERYONE. It is subjective, it is relative...like "What is beauty? or art? or comedy?" And NO ONE can tell US what that "is" because it's not up to YOU to tell ME what love is to ME...and if you don't get that, go away until you do. Oh...and 1 more tidbit...learn to love yourself FIRST before you attempt to love anyone else, because if you can't learn to love yourself, how can you truly love anyone else?
I believe the role of feelings is to form a connection, that is why it can be so hard to walk away from someone. You become attached. Even if you don't love them.
Right! Feelings is the bonding of flesh. The body was made to be monogamous. That is why those who had different partners can still feel them even though they are not in a relationship anymore, they created soul-tie with the body and mind.
That’s why the Bible says lean not to your own understanding but every word that proceed out of the mouth of God, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will guide your path.
What stood out for me is if God could treat me based on His feelings about all the junk I did to Him. If not for His unconditional love, mankind would be toast!
Love is fears...we get scared thinking we are doing the best. But we don't know we are chasing the ones we love by fearing to lose. Over protections are wrongs. Thank you sir for new knowledge.
I'm so glad, I found these videos, I enjoy his take on the knowledge, this is why I truly believe, a mind is a terrible thing to waste. We as people, waste too much time on the things that don't matter.
So true.... This would mean more men love their wife than the wife loving the man. Many women say they love their kids more than their husband. So they choose to pay more attentions to the kids than the man. They relate it not to the law of love but how their chemistry works when thinking about the children. In the end when they grown and gone its supposed to be the man and with still standing.
.love is felt first expressed later not the other way.don't put God in the situation becoz then you act a certain way due to your love towards God not to your spouse and that's big difference
Feelings are the driving force. They can help you easily cling to a choice or discourage it. Some feeling are hidden inside another. Thats why conscious effort is needed to find certain valuable feelings.
Twenty years ago I had a chat with a First Nations elder. The subject was love. I started the chat by pointing out that in English, the word love can be applied to my spouse, my child, my car, my morning coffee, my dog, and so on. Then I asked him if his native tongue had the same 'problem'. He thought about it for a minute then said "in my language we have three words for love. There's a word for what one feels for one's spouse. There's another word for what a mother feels for her child. And there's a third word for the love of neighbour." Then I asked him if he meant a parent's love for their child. He replied "No. The word represents a mother's love." There was a bit of silence between us then I asked him "Does your language have a word for Creator's love for humanity?" He pondered for a moment then looked up and said with more than just a bit of surprise "It's the same as a mother's love for her child." I'll have more to say about this video in the next few days.
Shalom brother. I do appreciate you. Your way of preaching shows that Jesus-Christ is really the bread of life. His words imbedded in the bible when revealed opens man's mind and help him to be succesful in any domain. God bless you!
The apostle Paul said the kingdom of God doesn't come in words only, but in demonstration of the power of His words. Dr Munroe did vindicate that quote of the bible. I want to be coached in line of his understanding of the bible. He passed away nearly three years ago, I know. But if you're one of his students, will you agree to coach me?
As much as I'd like to agree with the video, the problem with love is that people can't agree on what love is. Some will say it's a feeling, others will say it's a choice. In fact, I used to be on the side of choice because I felt capable of keeping relationships intact, but the things is, love doesn't manifest itself the same way for all. Everything regarding love depends on how the other sees love. If they think it's a feeling, either get into the relationship expecting eventual relationship dissolution or find someone else. That is all. Good luck on finding, or making, your love.
Yes,i agree...why God says love your God with all your heart,with all your soul,with all your mind......IN WITH ALL YOUR STRENGHT....even you dont like to stand up in the Middle of the night you must because you love God
Thanks be to God for Dr Myle Munroes' ministry. It is really a blessing to me and many others. My God bless the family as they continue to carry his vision and the good news of the kingdom. Grateful
I’m going a step further, love is God, every human being have a spirit that comes from God, so the man have the capacity to love and he chose to love or not
Very interesting that's why God say love is a principle not a feeling yet for us to love our enemy its only when we experience the love of God for ourself that we cant love others specially our enemy.Only Jesus living in us the hope of glory can make us love that way...
Thank you for this great discussion about love and feelings. Today I'm in a crucial situation that to choose only one women to live with me at rest of life. And by this video helps me alot.
Really enjoying your work. I'm happy that as a bible student and teacher, me and Myles agree alike. Very good messenger and man. Keep up the great work. Very good job you doing. I wish I had this talent somewhat. Amen.
"Fantastic Marriage Teaching!!!!" ... " This message is only & truly for the: ("Serious & God joined Couples" - " A Man & A Woman Only") , and this message will truly help you understand Gods expectations & standards for Marriage " ... " Dr. Munroe, was truly " Gifted" in biblical teachings & its standards, indeed " ... " Listen carefully, & truly Learn, and please share this " very important" ( Marriage Message) with others, and help save our communities, as well! " ... Blessings always, Ms. Deborah J. Steele - 5/12/22
In case of Jesus, the feeling of Love was ever present but the feeling of not going through with the burden sat on it. He had to choose, finding that feeling of Love. It was where he drew strenght to go on. When one abandon that feeling or if it wasn't there: You can't even tolerate the person.
For me feelings are important in a relationship.How can I decide to love someone without being attracted to this person.Feelings create bonds with the one you love. But its not enough to build a relationship
Your are right, the same applies for me. If there aren't any feelings involved you are free to love any women equally but we all know this is not the case. It is all about that connection,frequency,good vibe and with all of these and character and mutual hobbies you can get through all trials and misunderstanding. My opinion is that you cannot love or choose love if you are not attracted by that person at first time. You must love with your heart too not only with your rational brain.
This definition of love isn’t meant to negate the need for mutual attraction in a relationship. Physical attraction is important and you should seek out romantic partners whom you’re attracted to. However, the feeling of attraction, though important, should not be the driving force in a healthy, Christ-centered relationship. It is unwise to build a relationship primarily on this. God’s Love, that pure, unconditional love it what will last.
I think, feelings comes when u've chosen the person to direct them to, they don't just happen. Thats why we can love and unlove(hate) someone because it is a decison.
This narrative is the reason why Biblical Doctrine is to be studied every day. When we get discouraged and confused we always have a reference point; God's word. On the other hand if we allow the world (friends, marriage counselor, random people) to dictate our reference point we'll always be unhappy or divorced, or both!
I'm just 14 and I now know so much about love and marriage. I've decide to follow Jesus Praise God!!
Most of the people of my ages are just so not interested on these stuffs.
Keep it up till the end for the reward in time saved and years of pain averted is so worth it.
God Bless you Abhishek. It takes such a lot of courage to follow Jesus and act like Him in Daily life, but God sees you and your heart and He blesses everyone who wants to follow His will. So whatever obstacles you must get through, know that God is closer than you skin and that nothing in the whole creation can seperate you from the Love of God. Be strong and courageous! You are stronger than you think in Christ te Lord😘❤️
@Abhishek Thapa, Dr. Myles has other videos that speaks about time when he was your age and his point of view was as yours be. God bless you on your journey!!!
Lust doesn't make a marriage work which is often called love. It's not love. It's lust. True love chooses to love even if doesn't feel like it. That's unconditional love.
YES!!!!!🙏🇿🇦🇿🇦
Then there is no such thing as "unconditional love" since love is dispite the condition
I love this man's ministry. We lost a General when we lost you Dr. Myles Munroe. We accept the torch!
Didn't know that
Me too
Jesus made the decision to die for us in the garden of Gethsemane. He didn't feel like dying but did it anyway because he loves us. Love is truly a DECISION not a FEELING
The most inane religion ever contrived besides islam
I have tried to explain this to my husband soooo many times. May God touches.
Love cannot be a feeling because feeling come and go we have to make the choice to love one another emotions tied to love will not stand we have to learn to love beyond circumstances no matter what. 🤗🤗
I have often found that people who believe love originates as a feeling can rarely if ever define what love is and where it comes from and why it should behave differently than every other emotion.
Love is Always an Act of your Free Will.
Everything that feels good doesn't last which is why it's important to be a master of our feelings & never let them control us because that only leads to wrong decision making & regret
So why am I in love with guy for 9 years? I distance myself from him because he is married. It still won’t go away. Love is not a choice. It just happen.
@@freespiritpearl89I have some questions for you. How often do you think about him during the day? Do you find yourself fantasizing about “what if” scenarios? Do you check on him on social media?
Our feelings of love are directly controlled by out level of investment into something/someone. That investment can by completely inside our own head, which is the underlying motivation behind those stalkers that are “in love” with someone they have almost no interactions with, they have invested in that person inside their mind.
I wish more women would understand that love is not a feeling. Romantic Novels and chick flicks is destroying what love really is...
Or at the very least, have the romance novel/film industry change so that it focuses more on love as a choice instead of a mere feeling, especially in the context of enduring love as opposed to the cliched “falling in love.” There are too many romance stories that focus on the start of love with marriage as the final destination. I want to see more romance plots with marriage as the beginning instead of this idealized final destination/goal.
I agree.. I'm relearning now myself..
???
Love is the greatest power in the universe. Love is always an emotion. We are never dead emotionally. We are not robots. Love is our nature. We love because its our nature to love, and to operate in the delight of love. Otherwise we are speaking purely of cold ethics and there is far too much of that today in this materialistic society of ours.
Love is nothing love is useless
"I wish more women would understand that love is not a feeling"
It most certainly IS, and if you don't want to believe me, ask a scientist. It is a human emotion that essentially is a chemical reaction in the brain, and this is evidenced by the fact that we often have deep feelings for people who are not the "best" for us and who have hurt us before. Go ahead, try to love someone you don't or NOT love someone you do? Has anyone ever hurt you emotionally and/or physically? Do you still love them? Tell me, do you have children? Is there anything they could ever do that would cause you to NOT love them? Are there things that you really like that others don't or even find a bit strange? Like maybe you like mustard on your ice cream or something, what if you REALLY LOVED mustard on ice cream...now, would you stop really loving it just because others thought it was weird? Is there a way you could just "shut off" your love of it? Nope, you love it because it tastes good to you. It stimulates your senses, It causes chemical reactions in your body and brain that are pleasurable to you...and guess what? THAT IS LOVE!
Because love is not a 'thing' that you can put your finger on and it is different for EVERYONE. It is subjective, it is relative...like "What is beauty? or art? or comedy?"
And NO ONE can tell US what that "is" because it's not up to YOU to tell ME what love is to ME...and if you don't get that, go away until you do.
Oh...and 1 more tidbit...learn to love yourself FIRST before you attempt to love anyone else, because if you can't learn to love yourself, how can you truly love anyone else?
This drawings help so much to visualize and really get an understanding of what he’s talking about.
I believe the role of feelings is to form a connection, that is why it can be so hard to walk away from someone. You become attached. Even if you don't love them.
Right! Feelings is the bonding of flesh. The body was made to be monogamous. That is why those who had different partners can still feel them even though they are not in a relationship anymore, they created soul-tie with the body and mind.
That’s why the Bible says lean not to your own understanding but every word that proceed out of the mouth of God, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will guide your path.
What stood out for me is if God could treat me based on His feelings about all the junk I did to Him. If not for His unconditional love, mankind would be toast!
i shockingly agree
“Sex is not love “.
I hope every woman is listening, and letting the young girls in their life know that.
Neither are feelings love
And letting the boys know to right?
Sex is what devils do
sex is what dummies do
In my crazy world anime gurls are devils
As long as the GUYS understand that sex is not love, then there is no problem.
@@whyareyourunninga6782 "Sex is what devils do"
Nonsense, and cut it out, it's as natural as breathing.
Love conquers all. It is a choice. Our feelings will always fail us
Even though you are not present phycally but your words of GOD still exits in our daily life...Thank you LORD for that gift
Love is fears...we get scared thinking we are doing the best. But we don't know we are chasing the ones we love by fearing to lose. Over protections are wrongs.
Thank you sir for new knowledge.
I am a man i needed this message .
MY MIND HAS BEEN BLOWN APART BY THIS MESSAGE! I SO see the errors of my ways.
Love is not feeling,love is making decision. Love is not a gift,it's a fruit.
Love is a force generated by a decision love has not feelings
Love is an act of the will
Love is a debt you owe
I'm so glad, I found these videos, I enjoy his take on the knowledge, this is why I truly believe, a mind is a terrible thing to waste. We as people, waste too much time on the things that don't matter.
Love means care and sacrifice to me coz for God so loved the world meaning he cared to sacrifice .....
So true....
This would mean more men love their wife than the wife loving the man. Many women say they love their kids more than their husband. So they choose to pay more attentions to the kids than the man.
They relate it not to the law of love but how their chemistry works when thinking about the children.
In the end when they grown and gone its supposed to be the man and with still standing.
Love Is an Act of The WILL
You Can Decide To Love Your Enemies Like JESUS Command Because Your Spouse Will Be Your Enemy Once or 2 Times a Week!!!!
Sis Donnice. I like how you put that.
That statement is sooo powerful! 🤗
.love is felt first expressed later not the other way.don't put God in the situation becoz then you act a certain way due to your love towards God not to your spouse and that's big difference
"Love Is an Act of The WILL "
Really? Then try loving a pile of shit and see if you can?
@@atheistangel007 love is for Human
Feelings are the driving force. They can help you easily cling to a choice or discourage it. Some feeling are hidden inside another. Thats why conscious effort is needed to find certain valuable feelings.
That was really deep...just had this revelation the other day...wonderful teaching...God bless you
Myles munroe still lives
Men! Dis is BIG. Well said. LOVE IS A DECISION. Dis changes EVERYTHING
Life has put me through a lot! This video, helps put a lot of it in perspective!
Love is respect
It is not a feeling it is a choice and is not something to get emotional about you just choose to be like that period
Dr Myles is an amazing Man of God, and this word is powerful ❤️
Twenty years ago I had a chat with a First Nations elder. The subject was love. I started the chat by pointing out that in English, the word love can be applied to my spouse, my child, my car, my morning coffee, my dog, and so on. Then I asked him if his native tongue had the same 'problem'. He thought about it for a minute then said "in my language we have three words for love. There's a word for what one feels for one's spouse. There's another word for what a mother feels for her child. And there's a third word for the love of neighbour." Then I asked him if he meant a parent's love for their child. He replied "No. The word represents a mother's love." There was a bit of silence between us then I asked him "Does your language have a word for Creator's love for humanity?" He pondered for a moment then looked up and said with more than just a bit of surprise "It's the same as a mother's love for her child."
I'll have more to say about this video in the next few days.
Shalom brother. I do appreciate you. Your way of preaching shows that Jesus-Christ is really the bread of life. His words imbedded in the bible when revealed opens man's mind and help him to be succesful in any domain. God bless you!
The apostle Paul said the kingdom of God doesn't come in words only, but in demonstration of the power of His words. Dr Munroe did vindicate that quote of the bible. I want to be coached in line of his understanding of the bible. He passed away nearly three years ago, I know. But if you're one of his students, will you agree to coach me?
As much as I'd like to agree with the video, the problem with love is that people can't agree on what love is. Some will say it's a feeling, others will say it's a choice. In fact, I used to be on the side of choice because I felt capable of keeping relationships intact, but the things is, love doesn't manifest itself the same way for all. Everything regarding love depends on how the other sees love. If they think it's a feeling, either get into the relationship expecting eventual relationship dissolution or find someone else. That is all. Good luck on finding, or making, your love.
WONDERFUL. Wish I had time for my full input. Such a wonderful video
This is so deep!!!
Speechless, what an eye opening. Thank You Jesus for loving us willfully💕
This still lives in my heart❤️
Thank you so much Dr. Myles. Your wisdom comes from God, to Him be all the glory.
May God increase his blessings on you for the good work you do. We need great messages like this. Thank you so much.
Wisdom for Dominion
He really has impacted my life, my progress. I owe him so much.
Wisdom for Dominion I have some audio files from my church, can you please help me make videos like yours
Love is a choice. This is deep
Yes,i agree...why God says love your God with all your heart,with all your soul,with all your mind......IN WITH ALL YOUR STRENGHT....even you dont like to stand up in the Middle of the night you must because you love God
AGREED 200% Miss you dearly Dr. Myles... 💞💞💞💞💞
Thanks be to God for Dr Myle Munroes' ministry. It is really a blessing to me and many others. My God bless the family as they continue to carry his vision and the good news of the kingdom. Grateful
I needed to hear this, thank you .
Thanks for letting me know!
Unconditional love should bevour daily obligation. So we choose to love. Love is not a feeling if we have to please our God.
I’m going a step further, love is God, every human being have a spirit that comes from God, so the man have the capacity to love and he chose to love or not
In the human spirit are 3 main capacities, the capacity to love, the capacity to believe and the capacity to worship
yes love is not emotion it is reason
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a (ESV) Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.
I'm learning alot. Thank You ♥️
Very interesting that's why God say love is a principle not a feeling yet for us to love our enemy its only when we experience the love of God for ourself that we cant love others specially our enemy.Only Jesus living in us the hope of glory can make us love that way...
Very true! It takes the love of God being shed abroad in our hearts to overflow to those around us including our enemies.
Inspirational, I will use this analogy
Thank you. I am going to share this with my family.
what I was told when my children were taken I didn't need to be told that I already knew what counted unfeeling wise.
Thank you for this great discussion about love and feelings. Today I'm in a crucial situation that to choose only one women to live with me at rest of life. And by this video helps me alot.
Word Dr Munroe he was a man filled with wisdom .
This is great love is a choice,love is a law,WOW.
I love what u put in to prepare these messages.
Im in love with your public speaking skills.
Thank you for sharing.
Really enjoying your work. I'm happy that as a bible student and teacher, me and Myles agree alike. Very good messenger and man. Keep up the great work. Very good job you doing. I wish I had this talent somewhat. Amen.
Motivation of one another and make relax of each of you maybe that is what feelings do
This is the best film on yt.
Literally blown away
That's a powerful speech ! Thks God
great man of God true to the heart
Thank you Papa
I found this out the day I fell in love
"Fantastic Marriage Teaching!!!!" ... " This message is only & truly for the: ("Serious & God joined Couples" - " A Man & A Woman Only") , and this message will truly help you understand Gods expectations & standards for Marriage " ... " Dr. Munroe, was truly " Gifted" in biblical teachings & its standards, indeed " ... " Listen carefully, & truly Learn, and please share this " very important" ( Marriage Message) with others, and help save our communities, as well! " ... Blessings always, Ms. Deborah J. Steele - 5/12/22
@Deborah Steele, a person said on another of his videos, "marriage a ministry " scripturally I agree. God bless!!!
Very helpful. Thanks
L.O.V.E!!
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Energy ❤
I love the legend Dr. myles.
Thank you I needed this.
Am blessed with this message👐
Love us only words....thru Action is the ILLUSTRATION OF YOUR LOVE...
Awesome video and content. Can you just keep the background piano to a whisper?
In case of Jesus, the feeling of Love was ever present but the feeling of not going through with the burden sat on it. He had to choose, finding that feeling of Love. It was where he drew strenght to go on. When one abandon that feeling or if it wasn't there: You can't even tolerate the person.
I like the teaching much better 💖❤❤
Thank you God♥️
For me feelings are important in a relationship.How can I decide to love someone without being attracted to this person.Feelings create bonds with the one you love. But its not enough to build a relationship
Your are right, the same applies for me. If there aren't any feelings involved you are free to love any women equally but we all know this is not the case. It is all about that connection,frequency,good vibe and with all of these and character and mutual hobbies you can get through all trials and misunderstanding. My opinion is that you cannot love or choose love if you are not attracted by that person at first time. You must love with your heart too not only with your rational brain.
This definition of love isn’t meant to negate the need for mutual attraction in a relationship. Physical attraction is important and you should seek out romantic partners whom you’re attracted to. However, the feeling of attraction, though important, should not be the driving force in a healthy, Christ-centered relationship. It is unwise to build a relationship primarily on this. God’s Love, that pure, unconditional love it what will last.
I think, feelings comes when u've chosen the person to direct them to, they don't just happen. Thats why we can love and unlove(hate) someone because it is a decison.
extremely helpful
This narrative is the reason why Biblical Doctrine is to be studied every day. When we get discouraged and confused we always have a reference point; God's word. On the other hand if we allow the world (friends, marriage counselor, random people) to dictate our reference point we'll always be unhappy or divorced, or both!
Hi Good people where can I get the full video of this, please help.
Deep insight.very helpful.
Dr. Myles Munroe....still being a blessing. 💖 #GodlyWisdom #KingdomPrincipals
Very true Amen to that!
Amen Dr. Munroe.....
Over 100 people chose not to love I guess ☹️... oh well I love you! 🥰
That's why I am asking for me my daughter and my son.
Turn the background sound down and we have something here
Why does this make so much sense to me right now...😓
What is the title of the message. I need the full version
Love is a decision
Indeed love is a decision
Deep stuff Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Lust is not love my brothers. Remember this to all my men and raise your sons the same way.