my best friend dedicated this song to me when we were in high school but since english wasn't our first language i didnt understand the meaning behind it.. now almost 10 years later and im crying in my college room.. i wish i could thank her for seeing beauty in me even when i didnt.. i miss her and love her a lot.
When I was younger I used to be so in love with Taylor’s music and I can see why looking back on it. It’s so insane how you remember the lyrics to songs you haven’t listened to in well over 7 years.
This song reminds me of a friend. She is that girl in school that all the guys want and all the girls wanna be. Only a few of us actually know that she has depression and bulimia.
“Seems the only one who doesn’t see your beauty, is the face in the mirror looking back at you!” Omg that’s so true this song is so inspirational and relatable💗💗💗💗
I cried yesterday listening to this song for the first time.......you know how other people assume that you have everything and you are happy....when you are struggling and battling with your own reflection.... Even though she wrote the song for her friend who was bulimic.....it's also applicable to her when people were left and right body shaming her ......and it's also applicable to you when you have low self esteem... The song is written and sang in the language of love ,hurt , and concern...
you should have brought a baseball bat and hit your bully hard in the head. i was planning to do that when i was being bullied during highschool. I'm a boy though.
I'm that person whose tied together with a smile but it's coming undone Major edit+update: When I wrote this, my depression and anxiety were at their peak. I didn’t want to live any more, I hated myself. But I want you to know something. it gets better. it gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. two years ago, I wanted to die. I didn’t want to be alive any more. But if I had killed myself two years ago, I wouldn’t have met one of my best friends. I wouldn’t have reconnected with my cousin. I wouldn’t have seen the Percy Jackson musical or found out about the tv show. I know it’s hard, it’s so hard sometimes, but it will get better. It gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. I started medication and therapy, and they’re so helpful. When I first started, I cried. I was happy again, I’m happier and motivated and I don’t want to die any more. Life gets better, I don’t want to say this will pass because sometimes it lurks in the background, but you’re going to be okay. Please, trust me. I highly suggest talking to your doctor about medication and telling your parents how you’re feeling (write it down, send a text, doesn’t have to be in person). I still have bad days. I still have days when I don’t want to get out of bed. But it’s so much better than it was. Unfollow the people/things on social media that make you unhappy. Don’t read stories that are darker even if you don’t think it’ll affect you or your mindset. It helps so much. I promise, the pain will ease and things will get better. When I wrote this comment, I was in an incredibly dark place, but now, I’m okay. I’m happy again. I promise, it will be okay
Eliana Valenzuela hey, I want you to know something. it gets better. it gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. two years ago, I wanted to die. I didn’t want to be alive any more. But if I had killed myself two years ago, I wouldn’t have met one of my best friends. I wouldn’t have reconnected with my cousin. I wouldn’t have seen the Percy Jackson musical or found out about the tv show. I know it’s hard, it’s so hard sometimes, but it will get better. It gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. I started medication and therapy, and they’re so helpful. When I first started, I cried. I was happy again, I’m happier and motivated and I don’t want to die any more. Life gets better, I don’t want to say this will pass because sometimes it lurks in the background, but you’re going to be okay. Please, trust me. I highly suggest talking to your doctor about medication and telling your parents how you’re feeling (write it down, send a text, doesn’t have to be in person). I still have bad days. I still have days when I don’t want to get out of bed. But it’s so much better than it was. Unfollow the people/things on social media that make you unhappy. Don’t read stories that are darker even if you don’t think it’ll affect you or your mindset. It helps so much. I promise, the pain will ease and things will get better. When I wrote this comment, my depression and anxiety were at their peak. And now, I’m okay. It will be okay
I'm so glad you're doing better! I'm in a dark place myself, but, I'm not giving up. Also like, the Percy Jackson musical is the shit so honestly like, taste.
I first discovered her when You Belong With Me was played during a commercial break on a show I was watching, and she's been one of my favorite artists ever since. I can't say with absolute certainty that she's number one, but definitely top 5, along with Cash and LeDoux.
This is so me, except that no one has been able to see through this mask yet. "Hold on, baby; you're losing it / The water's high, you're jumping into it / And letting go, and no one knows / That you cry; but you don't tell anyone"
I will forever love Taylor swift, she is my inspiration and is the reason I am the way I am today, she has always been my idol since she started out with her first song, i have and always will love Taylor since 2006😍😢😭😭💙
Yeah, you can miss her old songs and style, but not 'THIS' Taylor Swift. There is only one Taylor Swift you're talking about, and she went through what everyone went through. She grew up, and became more mature. People change, and she decided to try a different style of music.
I think most people can relate to this song, and it really is amazing. On a different note, Taylor released her debut album when she was 16, meaning that the songs on the album were written in her years of high school... *and then there's me in my 20's, what am I doing?*
Amber Reeves she still the same tay but people made her stronger but i really enjoy more her country songs i really admit that but i still lover her to the moon and back and her new songs too tho but as everyone says old is gold
What do you mean what happen to Taylor? She’s still the same sweet girl we know. Just listen to songs like Soon You’ll Get Better, evermore, and The Archer, she still talks about deep topics. Or the song Lover which is a lot like Our Song but country pop instead of pure country. Or New Year’s Day, Cornelia Street, Getaway Car and Cruel Summer cause she has some amazing pop songs! Pay extra attention to the lyrics. In fact listen to both her albums Folklore and Evermore, and then listen to her album Lover. She still has talent and gotten better. And she still makes country songs (Lover, Soon You’ll Get Better, No Body No Crime, Cowboy Like Me, Betty, etc)
@@captainayaaya28 hi hi hi, I wanna say that I absolutely LOVE taylor in every Era. this comment is 4 years old and my mindset is completely different now. folklore is my 2nd favorite album and I have spent way more money than I should've on her merch these past couple of years. I think I was just scared of change and ignorant to her talents back then. but she is my favorite musician and holds a very special place in my heart. I listen to her every single day. so I completely agree with everything you said, just 14 year old me didn't know what they were talking about.
To bad, she’s doing better than she ever was making pop, folk, and indie songs and now re-recordeding everything. Shame on you for not giving “new” Taylor a chance.
Imagine your sister taking photos of you when you aren't paying attention then edits them to make you look like some type of monster then she blast them all over every social media she has. Then you go to school the next day and every is talking about them and bullying you about it even your crush. I already hate myself and my appearance. She really didn't make it any better.
I was rereading my favorite book and looked at the authors soundtrack of songs that inspired the book and saw this song and freaked out because one of my favorite songs by my favorite artist inspired my favorite book by my favorite author
I guess it's true that love was all you wanted cause you're giving it away like it's extra change hoping it will end up in his pocket but he leaves you out like a penny in the rain,oh cause it's not his price to pay, it's not his price to pay.
This was written about her friend who had had an eating disorder.
Hits differently after knowing about her own eating disorder.
true
Damn Taylor had a eating disorder too?
@@Thuggin_On_ElmST yeah during the time of her album 1989 she wasn't eating if you watch her documentary Miss Americana on netflix she speaks about it
Alanna Fallon oh wow I I would have to check that out , never know what someone’s going through
@@Thuggin_On_ElmST have u watched it now?
my best friend dedicated this song to me when we were in high school but since english wasn't our first language i didnt understand the meaning behind it.. now almost 10 years later and im crying in my college room.. i wish i could thank her for seeing beauty in me even when i didnt.. i miss her and love her a lot.
Omg same... I listened to it with real attention and I started to cry. Very special song
Was your first language spanish ?
Btw I speak Spanish too 😊
Such a beautiful story sending u love💕💕💕
aww that's so beautiful. she's a real one
So cute, thx um crying now❤😭❤
There's not a old taylor or a new taylor there is just taylor and Taylor's songs will always be amazing
please tell me not I'm not the Only one who loved old taylor and new taylor:)
No you’re not alone.
Anna Pittman me
I loved both her old songs and her current ones.
Mee
When I was younger I used to be so in love with Taylor’s music and I can see why looking back on it. It’s so insane how you remember the lyrics to songs you haven’t listened to in well over 7 years.
I still love her music
@@keyasultana3063same
This song reminds me of a friend. She is that girl in school that all the guys want and all the girls wanna be. Only a few of us actually know that she has depression and bulimia.
Fr💯😬
You don’t know how much this comment hit me
Same...
After hearing her reveal she dealt with an eating disorder during the 1989 era, this song took an extra meaning
I see you everywhere
It wasn’t just the 1989 era
here lies my reputation it wasn’t just 1989 it was basically from
When she started singing to reputation
She did??
@@elizabethrose644 watch her documentary
“Seems the only one who doesn’t see your beauty, is the face in the mirror looking back at you!”
Omg that’s so true this song is so inspirational and relatable💗💗💗💗
She's not a snake.
Snakes don't write songs for their friend battling MAJOR depression.
She's a ☆
Truth
I cried yesterday listening to this song for the first time.......you know how other people assume that you have everything and you are happy....when you are struggling and battling with your own reflection....
Even though she wrote the song for her friend who was bulimic.....it's also applicable to her when people were left and right body shaming her ......and it's also applicable to you when you have low self esteem...
The song is written and sang in the language of love ,hurt , and concern...
her voice is so good so beautiful, and her songs explain our feelings !! Love you Taylor !
One of the most relatable songs I've ever heard...
it really is relatable
Hold on. Please.
This song makes me cry
Same with me. Balling my eyes out right now.
Nostalgia....
Gwyneth Cross same
My best friend died 4 years ago and this was our song i miss her so much
You will see her again. Don't worry.
So sorry it's ok just remember you'll see her again
Really sorry for your loss.. you'll meet her again
I’m sorry for your loss 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
This was today's surprise song in the rep tour 😭❤😭❤ september 1st 2018
Azul Swift 11 years later.... omg 😭❤️
Im literally crying
16 year old me used to cry to this song during my dark high school days. Now at 30 I still shed a tear. Taylor’s music just ages like wine ❤️
I love how this song was written about her friend with an eating disorder
Where did you find out about that omg, I would love to hear the story behind this song but I can’t find it anywhere :(
It'zHolly Xoxo if you look up taylor swift tied together meaning you can find everything
@@hollyxx8152look up tied together with a smile commentary
@@hollyxx8152probably in a deleted interview, I feel like all of have heard that but no one has any idea where she said that lol
My favorite song by her, it's so perfect and meaningful and it's not about guys. Take that haters.
MELANIE
Miss Jackson Is Nasty At The Phandom
PHANDOM
"And you're tied together with a smile but your coming undone"
It's the early Scars To Your Beautiful. I love both songs equally though!
i was bullied so much in elementary school i wanted to kill myself but these songs helped me get through it
So glad you made it through =)
you should have brought a baseball bat and hit your bully hard in the head. i was planning to do that when i was being bullied during highschool. I'm a boy though.
Just live better than those dickheads who bullied you,. :) You are much stronger than them.
Res Nope the best way is ignore them.
Res what does you being a boy have to do with it???
OMG. This is the first time I heard this song. The Intro gives me goosebumps
Is it just me or can anyone else relate to this song ??
Trust me... Ur not the only one
Great song
Starting right now :(
I've been relating to this song a lot :(
Yep
I'm that person whose tied together with a smile but it's coming undone
Major edit+update:
When I wrote this, my depression and anxiety were at their peak. I didn’t want to live any more, I hated myself. But I want you to know something. it gets better. it gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. two years ago, I wanted to die. I didn’t want to be alive any more. But if I had killed myself two years ago, I wouldn’t have met one of my best friends. I wouldn’t have reconnected with my cousin. I wouldn’t have seen the Percy Jackson musical or found out about the tv show. I know it’s hard, it’s so hard sometimes, but it will get better. It gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. I started medication and therapy, and they’re so helpful. When I first started, I cried. I was happy again, I’m happier and motivated and I don’t want to die any more. Life gets better, I don’t want to say this will pass because sometimes it lurks in the background, but you’re going to be okay. Please, trust me. I highly suggest talking to your doctor about medication and telling your parents how you’re feeling (write it down, send a text, doesn’t have to be in person). I still have bad days. I still have days when I don’t want to get out of bed. But it’s so much better than it was. Unfollow the people/things on social media that make you unhappy. Don’t read stories that are darker even if you don’t think it’ll affect you or your mindset. It helps so much. I promise, the pain will ease and things will get better. When I wrote this comment, I was in an incredibly dark place, but now, I’m okay. I’m happy again. I promise, it will be okay
...same...
Eliana Valenzuela hey, I want you to know something. it gets better. it gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. two years ago, I wanted to die. I didn’t want to be alive any more. But if I had killed myself two years ago, I wouldn’t have met one of my best friends. I wouldn’t have reconnected with my cousin. I wouldn’t have seen the Percy Jackson musical or found out about the tv show. I know it’s hard, it’s so hard sometimes, but it will get better. It gets so much better, and you need to make sure you’re alive to see it. I started medication and therapy, and they’re so helpful. When I first started, I cried. I was happy again, I’m happier and motivated and I don’t want to die any more. Life gets better, I don’t want to say this will pass because sometimes it lurks in the background, but you’re going to be okay. Please, trust me. I highly suggest talking to your doctor about medication and telling your parents how you’re feeling (write it down, send a text, doesn’t have to be in person). I still have bad days. I still have days when I don’t want to get out of bed. But it’s so much better than it was. Unfollow the people/things on social media that make you unhappy. Don’t read stories that are darker even if you don’t think it’ll affect you or your mindset. It helps so much. I promise, the pain will ease and things will get better. When I wrote this comment, my depression and anxiety were at their peak. And now, I’m okay. It will be okay
Savannah Sorenson that’s so good love!!💖
❤️❤️❤️
I'm so glad you're doing better! I'm in a dark place myself, but, I'm not giving up. Also like, the Percy Jackson musical is the shit so honestly like, taste.
Whenever I'm sad I always come here to listen this song.
Underrated song and only solid Taylor fans knew it.
I first discovered her when You Belong With Me was played during a commercial break on a show I was watching, and she's been one of my favorite artists ever since. I can't say with absolute certainty that she's number one, but definitely top 5, along with Cash and LeDoux.
10/10 don't recommend listening to this when your boyfriend leaves you for someone else. Otherwise an awesome song
yeah. try having him ask out ur best friend then come back when she says no
@@lmflife2861 at least be happy your best friend said no unlike mine
These lyrics really speak to my soul as I have to pretend that I’m doing better than I am. Also I think this is Taylor’s most underrated song ever 🧡
When i felt alone and abandoned and felt like ending it this song kept me going
Sounds like Taylor is singing from her Heart
this relates so much to me at this point in my life and its making me cry😢😭😭
this song represents me in so many ways
I forgot all about this song...and now I'm listening to it again. I'm bawling
This is so me, except that no one has been able to see through this mask yet.
"Hold on, baby; you're losing it / The water's high, you're jumping into it / And letting go, and no one knows / That you cry; but you don't tell anyone"
Jada Lee here for you hun x
I love her whole first album. It will always be my favorite!....
omg this song give me so many vibes and feels. relate to it so much.
I will forever love Taylor swift, she is my inspiration and is the reason I am the way I am today, she has always been my idol since she started out with her first song, i have and always will love Taylor since 2006😍😢😭😭💙
do you still love her ? 💓
haven’t heard this in a while ❤️
This is the theme song to my life
I struggle with ana and s/h and I fight against panic attacks constantly.
This is now my go-to song to calm myself down.
I miss THIS Taylor Swift...
Yeah, you can miss her old songs and style, but not 'THIS' Taylor Swift. There is only one Taylor Swift you're talking about, and she went through what everyone went through. She grew up, and became more mature. People change, and she decided to try a different style of music.
I think you meant, you miss her country songs which is understandable though. I miss these kind of songs too which she used to compose.
Same...cause like LISTEN TO HEAR NEW STUFF. I MEAN THIS IS LIKE AWESOME AND THEN THERE'S STUFF LIKE:
oOh LoOk WhAt YoU mAdE mE dO
She is still there, she just grew up
@@Jojo-ov7bl exactly. Over a ten year are difference
This song is so sweet!
+Katniss Everdeen ya got that right!!!
I know Katniss it reminds you of me
my middle school and high school year's i always was the boy with the smile on his face but never really ment it
Goodbye baby. With a smile oh baby baby.
Goodbye baby. With a smile oh baby baby.
I'm sorry about that. Just know I love you :)
i can relate
unclecode3 I am the girl who smiles her pain too but I am a female
this song is about her friend with an eating disorder
did she look in my future and right a song about it now I'm listening to it?
Katie Griffin she wrote it about her friend who was liek popular and Taylor found out she had an eating disorder and Taylor wrote this song about it
She's so talented
Forever gonna have a special place in my heart for this song♥️
Still in love with Taylor swifts music ❤️ 10/10/17
All her songs are mind blowing !
this song... wow
I forgot about this song...I love it!
In tears
This is my favourite song
I love you Taylor Swift!!!!
I can't wait for bestie to re-record this😭
I used to listen to this when I was small. Had no idea it was about eating disorders o.O
this is so nostalgic girl bye
this song describes me so much
I really love this song, this is masterpiece!
2019
damn i remember in fourth grade i'd be on the bus & singing the chorus to myself changing 'you' to 'i'm'
I think most people can relate to this song, and it really is amazing.
On a different note, Taylor released her debut album when she was 16, meaning that the songs on the album were written in her years of high school...
*and then there's me in my 20's, what am I doing?*
this song is not about anyone to me... it makes me sad because it’s about me
i used to love comic sans too
Who’s here after Anti Hero, The Archer and Your On You’re Own, Kid? So sad that Taylor had to deal with this
Anyone else watching this in late 2017 and thinking....wow.....wht happened to this Taylor? I miss it
Amber Reeves she still the same tay but people made her stronger but i really enjoy more her country songs i really admit that but i still lover her to the moon and back and her new songs too tho but as everyone says old is gold
What do you mean what happen to Taylor? She’s still the same sweet girl we know. Just listen to songs like Soon You’ll Get Better, evermore, and The Archer, she still talks about deep topics. Or the song Lover which is a lot like Our Song but country pop instead of pure country. Or New Year’s Day, Cornelia Street, Getaway Car and Cruel Summer cause she has some amazing pop songs! Pay extra attention to the lyrics. In fact listen to both her albums Folklore and Evermore, and then listen to her album Lover. She still has talent and gotten better. And she still makes country songs (Lover, Soon You’ll Get Better, No Body No Crime, Cowboy Like Me, Betty, etc)
@@captainayaaya28 hi hi hi, I wanna say that I absolutely LOVE taylor in every Era. this comment is 4 years old and my mindset is completely different now. folklore is my 2nd favorite album and I have spent way more money than I should've on her merch these past couple of years. I think I was just scared of change and ignorant to her talents back then. but she is my favorite musician and holds a very special place in my heart. I listen to her every single day. so I completely agree with everything you said, just 14 year old me didn't know what they were talking about.
i think i broke the replay button
I want this Taylor backkkk😭
To bad, she’s doing better than she ever was making pop, folk, and indie songs and now re-recordeding everything. Shame on you for not giving “new” Taylor a chance.
I love this song
Imagine your sister taking photos of you when you aren't paying attention then edits them to make you look like some type of monster then she blast them all over every social media she has. Then you go to school the next day and every is talking about them and bullying you about it even your crush. I already hate myself and my appearance. She really didn't make it any better.
RyliePaige 1989 did you tell someone you trust about it?
My fav song ever
"But that's not true,cause I know you..."😊
2018.Taylor swift one of her kind.I love her and her songs.
LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO TAYLOR
I love this song..........
Did you know she wrote this song about a friend she had with an eating disorder ? 😢
Sooooo underatted
Beautiful:)
This is about a friend with a eating disorder
We all know.
Abigail?
No
Melanie Herald who? Drew? lol
Melanie Herald drew has an eating disorder?
This is my life a quiz told me so AND ITS SOO TRUE
I relate to this song sm😢😢
I wana chill n relax but your music comes n then make me think too much i wana jus chill n be loud with my hip hop like big n pac lol
makes me cry
Hits different after taylor new documentary☹
This song fits perfectly with the storyline of Louise O' Neill's 'Only Ever Yours.'
❤❤wow
Hi amazing musician
I was rereading my favorite book and looked at the authors soundtrack of songs that inspired the book and saw this song and freaked out because one of my favorite songs by my favorite artist inspired my favorite book by my favorite author
Hey can you tell me the name of the book pls?
@@sohelyhayat5505 in some other life by Jessica Brody
@@Bella-qv8hp omg thanks
@@sohelyhayat5505 no problem 😊
My song..and today's reputationstadiumtour surprise song. (SEPTEMBER 2,2018)
I love this song, it`s so sad and beauty
re recoooord 😌
I just hear it over and over and it reminds me of my crush that he getting bullying every time and he hearing this song and the song Meeks him cried
here after folklore
I guess it's true that love was all you wanted cause you're giving it away like it's extra change hoping it will end up in his pocket but he leaves you out like a penny in the rain,oh cause it's not his price to pay, it's not his price to pay.
Imlosin my mind
Listening to her masters on RUclips where scooter can’t make money from
Omegas ! She sounds like Avril Lavigne here 😍
someone that i used to in love with suggested me this song but i didnt listen regret doesnt a word
How did u know all that I feel Tay??
Still listening 👂 from 2011 to. 18/03/2018 4:00 am uptodate,love this song