Let me break it down further: I say take some time off and work on yourself. Meaning work on YOUR MIND. Your mindset, HOW YOU TALK TO YOURSELF. Most of you don’t even like yourselves. How do I know? Bc you are chasing a man who is unsure of you. The way you talk to yourself is REFLECTED in your life. People can see it even if you can’t. Take a friend who can’t keep a man, can you imagine her daily inner-dialogue? It’s prolly along the lines of “Oh he’s gonna leave me like every guy does”, “women like me can never find a good man”, etc. Same when you can’t keep a job, make rent, get out of debt. It’s the same story (inner dialogue you repeat to yourself daily. Maybe even every minute.) Change your story and you change your life. Once you become your own best friend and you are kind to yourself it will cause a ripple effect in every aspect of your life. You will treat yourself better, start eating healthier, dressing better, etc. people will notice the new energy you radiate. You will attract new people in your life that match your energy. And 9 times out of 10 that dude that wasn’t “calling you back” will start to be so beneath you. This is what the gurus mean when they say “IT ALL STARTS WITHIN”. It’s true. This is why when people get plastic surgery and they actually look better BUT they are still miserable/attracting the same type of partners. It’s bc they need to change their story.
This isn’t true. I know too many women who are needy af and controlling af and still get what they want. I know plenty of men who love controlling or needy women.
@@missym877 EX 👏🏽 ACT 👏🏽 LY 👏🏽 you said it yourself, “they still get what they want”. They get what they want bc that’s their STORY. That’s what they BELIEVE. Ever seen an “ugly” chick who pulls more guys than a hot girl? Bc the “ugly” chick’s story is prolly “I look good no matter what anyone says. I get guys all the time. Men obsess over me.” Your life is a reflection of your story. Whether you look the part or not - if you believe it your life will reflect it.
@@missym877 That doesnt mean their relationships are loving or fulfilling though, a person who puts up with a lot of bs from their partner has a bunch of issues themselves. No one is thriving in these relationships
I knew that he would say give them space.. I watched the video anyway.. at the end of the day that’s solid advice.. as much as it gives your heart an attack to cut off an artery you must sometimes cut off the blood supply to certain situations.
i’m doing attention withdrawal and not watching her insta stories, we are cool with each other but it’s just to seed a little unpredictability and make my attention scarce
Father Alex always knows what kind of help we need right now. I've seen 50 of his vids in a row. Aside from the topics, his hair transformation had me hooked.
doing this rn father Alex! kinda messed up with this one girl the last time we spoke but we re cool with each other, so i’m doing my attention withdrawal with her, while doing good in life myself and she watches it. manipulating timing and attention is one of the strongest form of power
Would this really work on men?? Because this DEFINITELY wouldn't work on women.... the more space given, and absence the more grudge I hold and then with more time I don't wanna bother with you anymore and I just think they are low value
Love your vids. I was wondering if you could do one regarding ADHD and time blindness/object permanence? I think most of the people i've dated have ADHD and it seems like they can be harder to read because they may really like you and still not reply back or notice your absence/distance. One person I dated was clearly devoted to me for years but still had this problem. What would you recommend for people like that?
@@louiseevans3510 she clearly considers me an option for now, so i guessing if i just inject a little unpredictability into my actions it would make her think more. don’t want to make her my gf now however, but a date in autumn would be lovely
Sometimes yes. If she likes you. Like Alex says, the person has to at least LIKE you. You can give space for her to come to you. Just dont go ghost completely. If she reaches out, respond at some point or she'll lose interest.
He will only value you when you will get up and leave
Agreed
Sadly
This.
That’s what I found out.
He will never value you. That’s the answer.
😂
as lyrics said: "If the boy dont love you by now, he will never ever love you"
@@fantasiazplatkami that can change
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@omg😂itsmadisonb
Let me break it down further:
I say take some time off and work on yourself. Meaning work on YOUR MIND. Your mindset, HOW YOU TALK TO YOURSELF.
Most of you don’t even like yourselves. How do I know? Bc you are chasing a man who is unsure of you. The way you talk to yourself is REFLECTED in your life. People can see it even if you can’t. Take a friend who can’t keep a man, can you imagine her daily inner-dialogue? It’s prolly along the lines of “Oh he’s gonna leave me like every guy does”, “women like me can never find a good man”, etc.
Same when you can’t keep a job, make rent, get out of debt. It’s the same story (inner dialogue you repeat to yourself daily. Maybe even every minute.)
Change your story and you change your life.
Once you become your own best friend and you are kind to yourself it will cause a ripple effect in every aspect of your life. You will treat yourself better, start eating healthier, dressing better, etc. people will notice the new energy you radiate. You will attract new people in your life that match your energy. And 9 times out of 10 that dude that wasn’t “calling you back” will start to be so beneath you.
This is what the gurus mean when they say “IT ALL STARTS WITHIN”. It’s true. This is why when people get plastic surgery and they actually look better BUT they are still miserable/attracting the same type of partners. It’s bc they need to change their story.
Spot on! Thank you!
🗣 say it louder for the people in the back ❤💯
This isn’t true. I know too many women who are needy af and controlling af and still get what they want. I know plenty of men who love controlling or needy women.
@@missym877 EX 👏🏽 ACT 👏🏽 LY 👏🏽 you said it yourself, “they still get what they want”. They get what they want bc that’s their STORY. That’s what they BELIEVE. Ever seen an “ugly” chick who pulls more guys than a hot girl? Bc the “ugly” chick’s story is prolly “I look good no matter what anyone says. I get guys all the time. Men obsess over me.” Your life is a reflection of your story. Whether you look the part or not - if you believe it your life will reflect it.
@@missym877 That doesnt mean their relationships are loving or fulfilling though, a person who puts up with a lot of bs from their partner has a bunch of issues themselves. No one is thriving in these relationships
I knew that he would say give them space.. I watched the video anyway.. at the end of the day that’s solid advice.. as much as it gives your heart an attack to cut off an artery you must sometimes cut off the blood supply to certain situations.
“No one-sided relationships, otherwise I’m closing my channel!!!”😂🤣😂
lol
😂 😂
My first thought, leave. 🚪
Works like a charm! 😂
i’m doing attention withdrawal and not watching her insta stories, we are cool with each other but it’s just to seed a little unpredictability and make my attention scarce
“… maybe you creeped them out because you’re a psycho…” 😂
Got me like why are you teaching psychos?
Father Alex always knows what kind of help we need right now. I've seen 50 of his vids in a row. Aside from the topics, his hair transformation had me hooked.
50 vids of alex? ohh yeah inject that toxic dark tactics !!
like Lana Del Rey song - dark but just a game 😅
Titles getting crazier by the day
I like watching you draw while your talking. I think it's going to also help with memory like play kids doodling in church
I’m like this with everyone and ppl like to be around me especially bc I choose not to be around all the time
Exactly.
This video is relaxing. Love the drawing and tone of voice.
doing this rn father Alex!
kinda messed up with this one girl the last time we spoke but we re cool with each other, so i’m doing my attention withdrawal with her, while doing good in life myself and she watches it.
manipulating timing and attention is one of the strongest form of power
Thanks man, but you always advice us to walk away when a man doesnt value you. That is already inculcated in ma head.
Would this really work on men?? Because this DEFINITELY wouldn't work on women.... the more space given, and absence the more grudge I hold and then with more time I don't wanna bother with you anymore and I just think they are low value
Absolutely. If you give a woman too much space, she's gonna lose interest.
I'm laughing all the way through this. Thinking of myself and my unintended creepazoid behaviours 😂
Self respect is necessary ❤
Father Alex always speak gold!
“No one smokes crack one day, and then the next day they’re Tyrone Biggums” 😂😂😂 that must be where you got the name Tyrone from 🤣
I love the crack analogies. 😂
Look people Father Alex used to be for the streets!! 😈 (sorry Father Alex) 👀. He was not always love and light and stoic. 😂
Love your vids. I was wondering if you could do one regarding ADHD and time blindness/object permanence? I think most of the people i've dated have ADHD and it seems like they can be harder to read because they may really like you and still not reply back or notice your absence/distance. One person I dated was clearly devoted to me for years but still had this problem. What would you recommend for people like that?
"...you creeped them out with your creepizoid energy." 😂🙈🫣 Dying!
Woww I love your drawings technique
Bruhhh this happened to me I creeped them out bc I have too much energy 😭😭
If he don’t value you from first day he will never. That’s all
How abt how to charge or make them pay after disappearing 😂
Drawing looks like father and daughter to me.
10:34 hahaha true😅
gotta love Alex
Thank you!
What if they have elephant memory + never forget the flaws?
Do nothing😂
What’s that pen that you are using father Alex? Nice drawing
Have you ever read the book, The Jewel In The Lotus by Sunyata Saraswati? I think you might like it.
Father Alex, now why would we wanna do that?
😂😂 I love everything on this video hahahaha
Creepazoid energy 😂😂😂
You are a master!!
Yo father alex please start a drawing channel👌🏾👊🏾
i love your drawings
What if both of us watch you 🤔
By walking away
What is Alex zodiac sign?
Virgo
lmfaooo DEFINITELY redeemable!
True ❤
Wheeew this is me
4:49 😂😂😂😂😂 lmfaooooo
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But why would we want to make a man who doesn’t value us obsessed? Serious question. That sounds dangerous.
Maybe you messed up because you were too overzealous and pushed him away?
it's just the title of the video andrea lol father alex gotta come up with topics
Thanks god someone talk about this topic. Please make more similar videos❤@@MindfulAttraction2.0
Great title Alex😊
Click bait. When you're done your done. You're honestly grossed out at by that point..
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I like tha fact that you draw but dont start doing it in every single video come on. Ya es mucho.
does these principles work on woman?
i’m not watching her stories, she finds me as an option rn but i’m a high quality dude
ladies does this work on you?
If she's not attracted to you that won't change.
@@louiseevans3510 she clearly considers me an option for now, so i guessing if i just inject a little unpredictability into my actions it would make her think more.
don’t want to make her my gf now however, but a date in autumn would be lovely
Never be someone's option. People will only respect you as much as you respect yourself.
Sometimes yes. If she likes you. Like Alex says, the person has to at least LIKE you. You can give space for her to come to you. Just dont go ghost completely. If she reaches out, respond at some point or she'll lose interest.
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thankyou for showing us your creative side, also makes it easier to focus on what your saying 🫶🏾❕
It makes me smile to see you promoting your art more and more. Such a beautiful thing. ✨🪗
Thanks!
You bet!