If all you watch is from 13:37 on, you'll get the most important points. 👁 What's your take on it? 🌶 You'll find all the good stuff here: allmylinks.com/creatrixchalice
An astoundingly insightful take on feminization and the healthy and unhealthy aspects of it- kudos! Speaking as a middle-aged man with a lot of life experience- including several serious/semi-serious relationships- I can say without reservation that we’ve been living in very confusing times for at least the past couple of decades and that this confusion affects both genders. Mixed messages are the cultural norm, and many women I’ve encountered- both romantically and platonically- have wanted things “both ways”… meaning that they profess to want a sensitive, creative, and nurturing partner who still possesses/exhibits what we now refer to as “toxic masculinity.” I’m generalizing, of course, and in reality women fall more heavily on one side of the proverbial “gender-expression dividing line” than the other, with some being more appreciative of and feeling more attractive to a somewhat “effeminate” man, while others preferring the a more stereotypically “masculine” partner. But, there’s nearly always been a tendency for my female partners (I’ve never had a male partner and don’t want one, btw) to complain that I’m being “too feminine” (and often unfavorably comparing me to “more macho” dudes they know) whenever I’ve shown “too much” of my sensitive and nurturing side, and then turning around and complaining when I’m more assertive and “crass” (as I admit I can sometimes be when I engage in humor, lol). It seems that many women don’t really know what they want, and for me this has resulted in my partners eventually seeking out a more consistently, stereotypically masculine partner. (This usually results in a failed marriage for them, and they later end up with a more “balanced” guy like me. Oh, the irony! Not to mention the heartbreak and frustration.) I have engaged in fantasies where I’m actually a woman as a result of this phenomenon, as a result of this frustrating and confusing experience with women in a kind of “if-you-can’t-beat-‘em-join-‘em” manner, and I believe this is a psychologically compensatory and ultimately toxic behavior on my part. I guess my main point is that it’s far too easy to turn to toxic expressions of feminization in the wake of such frustrating and confusing experiences and given the cultural climate in which we live, where institutions like Hollywood push the “women-are-superior-to-men” agenda (or even the “all-me-are-toxic” agenda). Much needs to be sorted, with the wheat being eventually and necessarily separated from the chaff before the dust can settle and point the way to a more integrated and evolved expression of humanity for BOTH genders.
What a refreshing view on this subject. I've been into sissification for a long time, even led me to believing I was trans. I took a break from it and found this to be true, it wasn't me being who I really am. Who I really am is a man, that is in touch with the divine feminine. I'm so comfortable/confident in my masculinity, that I'm not afraid to embrace my feminine side when necessary. Not (any longer) as a fetish, but as a tool for navigating life & relationships. It's hard to explain, but this video pretty much sums it all up for me. Thank you 🙏
Agreed, we are who we are no matter what we wear.. Agreed, it must be enjoyable and fun while not creating stress and pain. You really understand people very well. I have incorporated my feminine world into my total world without any issues, thanks for this!
Wow, ok this was beautifully and clearly stated and exactly what I needed to hear and more importantly understand at a fundamental level right now. I really appreciate this message and it serves as an opportunity for me to turn inward and really process my relationship with my own self and what self-actualization looks like for me. I already know what I want to do with the rest of the day and it feels so clear
My masculine side is dominant in my daily life. But, always lurking just underneath is my feminine, sissy side. I like both sides of my personality but, my feminine side is definitely much more intense. I doubt it will ever replace my masculine as the dominant side of my character. But, it certainly is enjoyable. As a example; I enjoy working outside, cutting wood, mowing the lawn, etc. All masculine things. But, I also LOVE having my shoulder length hair done in pretty girly styles. Sitting under the dryer at the salon with my hair in curlers feels so amazing! It's a balancing act really. Sometimes I just need to sweat, get dirty and be a typical guy. Other times, I need to be pretty, girly, submissive and totally sissified. But, good luck finding a woman who understands this duality, let alone encourages it as part of a relationship. I enjoyed your video. You seem very thoughtful and compassionate. Thank you.
But really, as you said, "good luck!" There ARE women that want to support balanced living for the men in their lives, whatever that looks like for them. So truly, all the best (of luck) to you and to all xx
Thank you for making this video. Without Dommes like you, I would have never looked at the unhealthy ways I interacted with feminization. By adjusting my practice from humiliation to self actualization, I feel more whole and confident expressing the feminine side of myself. I realize that the parts of me that are feminine make me strong. I am strong because I am sensitive and empathetic. After I embraced these characteristics I became confident enough in myself to claim my own power. It allowed me to believe in the power of my voice and in my ability to be assertive. It allowed me the self love I needed to achieve goals and be competitive. In whole it allowed me to be comfortable in my masculinity as well, and taught me that even as a cis man both feminine and masculine energies should be embraced to be our fullest selves. Plus, make up and dress up are just fun. I love wearing sensual pretty clothes to the kink clubs and receiving compliments from male subs and female Dommes alike
I was born a male in the heart of the south with a broken body and eventually a broken will. I put alot of effort into trying to "be a man", but I just couldnt. I literally physically couldnt. It didnt help I had terrible role models like my father as well, and as I got older I started having dreams of living my life as a woman. Then I began to desire that more because feminization and the acceptance of a womanly feminine role is what I wanted. I was scorned, mocked, abused for it by my family as well as my peers. No one seemed to understand. Even becoming a young adult i've still struggled to try to be that way. Sometimes I dont feel like I deserve it, or im scared maybe its wrong. I still want it though. Its frustrating feeling so alone and worried about this. I dont know what im doing and sometimes i feel like im faking even when I try my best simply because im so nervous of being attacked or hurt for it. I dont want to be a sissy. I dont really even want the humiliation. I just want to be feminine. I just want to be a woman. Its who I feel and believe myself to be. Your video has made me think alot about what I want. I realize that while I want to be feminine and a woman, I can never fully be a woman, and my pursuit down this hardcore sissification has me abusing myself. Probably because I feel like thats what i deserve. I still wish to be feminine and ultimately do my best to present as a woman but i worry im never going to get there. And yet i cant live with the idea of always only ever being a man. I've tried that path and failed, and I want nothing more to do with it. It is not who I am. Nor does the world want me for that. Its not about my dick size. Ive just never been enough of a man or as a man for those around me. So i reject it because I would rather express myself another way anyways. Everyone not really supporting or trying to help me become a man just made my mind up easier. Im guaranteed to eventually become disabled to the point where I will need help living due to my physical chronic illnesses. So im doomed to never be able to really be independent fully, or able to really do all that much to support others anyways. Its not like i didnt want to. I wanted to be a mother, and to be a wife to another woman, but that will probably never happen either. No one wants to take care of someone else like that anymore. Everything I say may sound grim, and it is, but I can say that for all this the only real masculine thing I can say I am is persistent. I dont truly give up. I may be beaten down for a long time, but I keep trying because what else is there to do except do nothing. All i can really say with certainty is im trying. Im trying to figure it all out. Im trying to be myself, and im trying to make it in this fucked up world. I will however say that it is exhausting, and i wish more then anything to wake up one day a true woman with some friends to go spend time with. To be able to have a normal life, but unfortunately that is seemingly not the fate I have. Which honestly brings me great grief.
Feminization and sissification made me into a stronger person and gave me confidence in myself for the first time in my life. I was trapped in a blue collar job I hated and felt like I was so ugly and such a freak nobody would ever want me. Then I put on makeup and a wig for the first time at the age of 34. I took one look in the mirror and decided I was going to make all my fantasies come true and I did it. I had a fantasy of working at an NYC dungeon as a trans mistress and in just two years I made it a reality.
This is a very good study into the psychology of feminization. It is interesting in that respect. Working on the feminine appearance (to various extents) is one thing, but it does help to understand the psychology behind the feminine appearance.
Lastly...I just watched your video in full and I agree with you. It's a kink for me. How I got there? I dunno. It would have to be explored, but I'm charmed by your mind and evidently your face. so thank you.
Love and totally relate to everything you are saying. I haven't explore much with anyone. Wish I could. I have deep thoughts abt all this. It be awesome to talk to someone like your self.
I was feeling the same way! I actually just launched a new project, and part of what I'm gearing up to offer is a space for mentorship and training for other women. If you're still interested, drop us a line or sign up for the mailing list so you get notified when we launch the trainings or start our women's circle. femdomrevolution.com
What's your views on how this ties into the whole transgender scene? Is it a positive tool or as you say, something that people are getting lost in? Curious to see what thoughts and experiences you have in this department as quite a lot of transgender people use feminizisation, both willingly and 'forced' at some point or another with transitioning. Hope your well!
I love when my girlfriend feminizes me and forces me to do things to please her because I see how much she gets into it as well. She has said she had guys in the past only care if they get off or be fulfilled, I feel like that is why she enjoys it because I like to help make her feel good.
We are both into trying anything, one thing we both really love is anal play. She loves pegging and sometimes when the mood strikes it she really gets into anal on her. I feel it does have a lot of communication involved which makes us closer together.
One component of feminization I find uniquely therapeutic is releasing emotions I otherwise bottle up-it’s an opportunity, like you said, to temporarily unburden myself with the perceived necessity to manifest perpetual strength. But it’s a give and take-I never want to be the only individual capitalizing in any capacity from the exchange. With the right partner, not only is the power exchange and feminization component of the intimacy profoundly therapeutic, but the aftercare is a powerful bonding agent. The feminized release I experience during play allows for a more functional masculinity the rest of the time. Helpful and reassuring video. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this video. I also am one who has been a sissy and tried to go deeper and deeper into it, so much so that I am in danger of commiting something shameful. I would be devastated if my wife ever found out this is what I’ve been doing. I need to snap out of it if it is still possible and wake up from this illusion. I have never considered myself an alpha male and I could never hang out with the men and carry manly conversations or behavior but I have to be whoever I really am. I get along more with women as a friend than with guys, I don’t know if that means anything I just haven’t been a masculine guy but I must try to stop the sissy life and try to be the man I am supposed to be.
I can relate to what your saying about your wife I'm curious if you want to be treated like a girl when you are dressed too or just like being feminine I would like to know how far you would take it if you don't mind me asking ?
Thank You for the post Creatrix. Feminization is not for me .. I enjoy being " forced " to wear pink panties but this is to reinforce my inadequacy with my little " manhood " & keeps me from falsely representing myself to any unsuspecting ladies. That & my chastity 🔐 . Excellent tutorial Goddess.
I need escape from my stressful work life. That's why I have a Domme who owns me. They enjoy subs who are into feminization and I usually let them decide the topic of the sessions we have. Our first session IRL was feminization combined with spanking. They got to choose my clothes and they did my makeup. Probably the best day of my life!
I always hear people talk about this topic in such a degrading manner. This video needs to reach more people. Hell, it highlighted the fact that I'm running from my responsibilities. As I've taken on more responsibility I've shied away from the fetish. I do however express my feminine side as a separate part of me online, under a different name with different people. A nice way of honoring that side of me without letting myself be consumed by my own desires. Currently, I don't have the confidence to fully explore the kink beyond some minor DIY.
Share the video then so it does reach more people :) Very interesting to hear that as you've taken more responsibility you've shied away from the fetish. It sounds like you have a place to embrace your femininity though. Next step, at least as I see it, would be to integrate these parts of yourself so they dont need to be so isolated or separate
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When I was feminized I felt totally embarrassed and humiliated, But the smile the laugh and the pleasure I saw on her face. I will never forget. Thank you for your time.
I'm a straight guy, played drums all my life, etc. I two sisters babysit as a kid, talked them into tying me up. Later, about 13, a pretty friend took me to her room, gave me cacaine and did my hair (long)and makeup. I loved it! I now have a mesh mini dress i want to wear outside. Can you give me some ideas?
Since I'm older I realize that being feminine is really who I am!! I'm more calm, more relaxed. The stereotypes are so toxic!! Like for example I'm into wearing Satin!! It calms me and I'm so confident wearing out in public now as compared to how I used to be embarrassed! Confidence is Sexy!! To me feminism is a Great thing!! Love Your videos!! 🩷🩷
I have had so many problems with my feeling since I was a child like my mother's dress or underwear and get into so much trouble so many times by ignoring myself and try to find people who understood me but I think all was a failure all people think just about themselves and people like you are so rare people who dig and care about others feelings and can understand them better than themselves
Being feminized either by myself or by a woman just makes me feel good, I mean I'm kinda at the point where I feminize myself daily and it isn't a fetish at least not anymore. 😊
Oh so Beautiful Goddess CreatrixChalice,very great and very thought provoking video for those listening,wish i had a friend like You growing up,wish the internet was around when i was growing up, i've always had and loved(still do) my feminine side more than the other side and no matter how i looked and depending who i was with i felt as i needed to protect and keep from harm those more susceptible to harm,, being forced was fun as well as the humiliation of the small penis,some called me a grower, anyways it's 6a.m. in L.A. and past my bedtime and per my suggestion,You have an Awesome and Wonderful day.., Sincerely, jennifur e.zoe💜
First of all, I think you should make either a video, or a series of videos of the history of how you started feminizing I your friends. Also each in depth story, I think all your subscribers would love it.i have the avg size Johnson, so I'm not sure this sti applies to me.For me if it's toxic or healthy is kind of grey right now. I also love my masculine side, but would love to be feminized by you.Also be taught healthy behavior by you if there's toxicity. Make your feminizing your friends a script
My sister and her friends dressed me up with makeup when I was like 8 or so and I definitely "resisted" because I didn't want them to know I wanted it. I thought It was awesome, but they took pictures which later on my sister used to blackmail mail in middle school and that was kind of humiliating. I kinda never felt good about that sort of thing for a long time. I've experimented lately again. I have a long history of wanting to do "girl things" but "not able to" bevause I was a boy. Eventually that just becomes second nature to not even consider doing a thing that would be considered feminine. But I can do whatever I want now so I have fun wearing comfy clothes :) you are so pretty, I wish I was you. P.S bras are the devil, can't believe women handle that stuff regularly. Awful.
I’m late to the party but I have to agree that the best experiences of sissification are the ones where you can pretend to put up a fight but you secretly want it though.
A "state of grace" has been a surprise benefit of moving farther from the masculine emotional drives, closer to the feminine moving emotions. Hormones evoke emotions that mediate behavior. Shifting on the T to E spectrum I found a sweet spot. Not a big move for me. Cross dressing and diet suffice me to discover a realm of positive productive creative pleasurable emotions recognizable as the "state of grace" ascribed to a certain female figure of religious mythology. Not a passive state of Nervana; But a connected active one mediated by very positive pleasurable feelings and productive creative value-adding behaviors.
you have a lovely smile. I wish I knew you years ago when you were first starting, I've been cross dressing since I was 10or 12. I still do but I have wanted to do more with my feminine self then just enjoy the clothes. Have tried smoe feminization hypnosis, but i think that I am unable to relax for that to have any effect. I like to cross dress because that makes me feel at peace with my self. Have very briefly looked inte a mistress. but I don't want to go there. from listening to you, I don't think I would get into being a sissy, though it looks like it would be fun, but not the fun that i would want to do. again, thanks for the Video. Good advice... Are you on Tumbler ?
Interesting point that you make when you said if feminization is helping you become a better and more authentic version of oneself. I really liked that point. That is exactly how I feel about it and why I enjoy it. What would it be like to work with you? Please let me know. Thank you.
I love that you're receiving the benefits of feminization! Thats my wish for all who participate :) Hard to say what it would be like for you to work with me as every single relationship and dynamic is unique. Submit your application to find out! start here: creatrixchalice.me
I left a message on your feminization video but after listening to this i realize that I’ve been going about this all wrong and would love to talk with you and Elaine who i truly am and who i need to help me get there
This young women seems very sweet and sincere. It makes men think about what constitutes true manhood, and true womanhood. I have found that clothing alone or make up don’t change the way a person thinks or his identity.-
@@CreatrixChalice Adressing to point of @Leggs013, For so many of "sissies/subs" is not only a sexual fantasie. Is our true disire to be seen and treated and live like females...very submissive ones ( why we are so submissive is an interesting subject). Living the most time we can has our true self and be accepted, even if it is only indoors, is our biggest wish. Maybe we are the weak ones ( maybe is here that lies the reason of being submissive), thoses that were not strong enough to transition or confront the social norms. Trans, new gen. femboys and "switchs" are more inpowered and i don´t see trans being sissies, unless they are acting for some professional/recreacional reason. I´m sure that i was born this away cuz in the early 80´s there was nothing to see or hear about this subject. I´ve look up to very feminine girls/women (like you) all my life. Tryed many times to find commun ground and be accepted, but many times ended up in tears, when young parents of the few girls that were friends as soon as they notice what i was would "politly" take me out of their lifes. Others only got close to me in planned pranks with other girls to make fun of me at some point. In my teens started to find some more open minded but i was mantally afraid by that point and shy. Let those how only wanted to advantage of me ( girls and boys) get closer cuz they were the only ones that would not make fun of me in public, instead they would just break up the relationship when ever they were sastifyied. This brings me to the subject of your vid...For me being around a very feminine and inpowered Woman like you is no more than a way to deal with the trauma of not being accepted as a Woman ( cuz i was not born like one) but Women like you have the mind set to accept us....even if it is a shallow thing like "dominatrix", but, again like you, i´ve found some dominatrix/Mistress that are selective and know there are fetish and the heart felted sissies. Is like the "daddy issues" i prefer to have a strong dominat men, and submit every thing i can so that he take me under his wing. So many words to say that i like being a sissy but i know realise that that came from the trauma of not be a FEMALE. So I´m not Man for sure!....not running away from it, i never felt like a man, and i´m not a woman...i´m in the middle. out in the world presenting like a male and in my private life living has a woman, trying to make it thru life and make some sense out of this mess. I found a balance. I´m happy and a have feminine mind, No matter if i´m dressed male in the streeet or work i always think like a woman! but i´m really frustrated. And I, like many others, over compensate that frustration searching for open minded persons like you ☺. Xoxo 😚
I like being a man alot and will always be I just also love being pretty and crossdressing doesn't make me any less of a man. Even though my ya know is average the idea that people would think it's a gift to the world is crazy 🤣. I don't identify with most these labels but I think this was a really interesting video. You seem cool
Odd concept of using a fetish to help reinforce ultra Masculine stereotypes. Have you ever thought of this in reverse? A woman playing dominant only temporarily in order to remember her “true role” as a submissive? … Clearly there’s a real flaw in your concept. Honestly, I think your aversion has more to do with what turns you on. Personally, I think some men who explore these things simply want to connect with a different experience of reality in general. And not just because they’re “running from the their responsibilities” but because their so-called responsibilities are an abusive social construct forced on to them from birth by people who have no issues fulfilling their own stereotypical roles. In my opinion, being forced to be a “provider” for people who get to do what you wish you got to do with your own life is not fun or fulfilling. And, as far as I’m concerned, not wanting to be indentured is not “running away” it’s wanting to say “no” to a forced experience of reality that is potentially making a person completely miserable.
Accepting the feminine side of a man not necessarily needs he wears female clothes, or have bisexual entercourse, or doesn’t have sex with women. It’s exactly the same for women.
In my honest opinion, IF both partners involved are both consenting adults who take safety & precautions while also understanding eachothers boundaries, wants, desires, etc. and have safe words who cares if it is male dominated or female dominated or male submissive or female submissive DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPIEST / Your Partner Too. P.S. I’m a man who prefers to be dominant over a woman in the bedroom. That is my choice, she gives me trust and that is the sweetest way of showing her love. Then I dominate her which is her receiving my love(just my perspective) Stay safe out there, consent is key & boundaries are a must.
I love your video, great subject matter. I kinda wish that you had expounded a bit more on a few of your statements. I think if we were having a conversation about this we would agree on a lot. I want to comment a bit on your summation statement you make at the end. I would argue that that whole fun house of getting lost is a more or less essential part of the journey to fully embracing and going deeper with sissification for those born in a male body, but have a female spirit. With all the social engineering that these types of male bodies individuals go through in the formative years of childhood into adulthood and being forced to hide and shelter that feminine spirit in an effort to survive childhood and embrace the stereotypical male persona they often need to lose themselves in that wild and crazy fun house, so that they are able to leave all the fake socially engineered maleness from their childhood behind and come out the other side free of that fake masculinity and much more themselves, or at least true to their spirit. So that fun house can serve a purpose, but that purpose is probably better utilized by a strong female Mistress/Dom kind of calling the shots and acting as the guide through the fun house to help shed the masculine and know when the female spirit is free enough to come out of the fun house. Does that make sense?
Hi again Creatrix Chalice. IMO You have earned the absolute right to be selective with whom you let into your "Inner Circle." I don't believe that anyone could conjure any realistic or plausible reason(s) to the contrary. One thing that I had a knee jerk reaction to was when you took aim at men, saying that we had somehow messed up. Initially I became defensive against this, as every problem that a woman has in her life, has been somehow caused by men, which is complete and utter nonsense. When you discuss that some of the individual men, that you've dealt with need to take responsibility for and own the appropriate portions of the dilemma that they now find themselves in. I recognized & understood your point but, in dealing with most women today, it is they that are lacking any type of personal responsibility for anything in their lives. I mean all of you Women live in a "Man Made World" all day, every day, but you don't credit Men for creating every building that you see and work in, nor the flushing toilets that you use, the roads that you drive upon, the vehicles you drive, etc., etc. Men have done a much better job of holding up our end of the bargain, than you Women have. Think about this, throughout your day and with everything that you do, use, etc. and then ask yourself if you have a Man or a Woman to thank for that. I will say that 99.9% of these things are attributable to Men. Any bets? IRL there is a lot more to being a successful Man, than meets the eye. It is next to impossible to take your place as a Man in society, while delving deep into self exploration. As a Man that has owned three companies of my own, it is important to one's success, that many, deemed superficial attributes be upheld, on the daily. Example: I have often had meetings with the upper echelon, within the Financial Industry and had them sitting across from me, apologizing to me because they only had assets of five hundred million dollars. Well, let me tell you this about that: If you don't think that EVERY nuance is important at this point, you are sadly mistaken. The company that I'm dealing with is scrutinizing everything about me. From my shoes to the watch that I wear, does my staff have their shit together and respond smoothly to our needs during our meeting. They will analyze my Suit, Tie, the Cologne I wear to the car that I drive, ad infinitum. Do you think that they would take me seriously if they saw that I owned an old Toyota, or something like that? No, they would not! So in business dealings one's facade is the difference between failure and success. I'm sorry for writing a book here. I have so much that I would like to explain, but this is not the appropriate forum, in which to have a true discussion, is it. Creatrix Chalice, please know that I wish for you all of the very best that Life has to offer, along with continued Good Health and reasonable Happiness. Until our paths cross again, be blessed. Cheers...
I'm not going to get too into it here, but I do think we would have a lot to talk about. You dont need to submit an application if you want to book a call to chat :)
@@CreatrixChalice Woe, well hello there, Creatrix Chalice. After my lengthy rant, I didn't expect to be deemed worth your while, which is why you surprised me with your response. Please allow me now, to apologize for that Rant. I really need to learn when to keep my mouth shut. I'd had more than enough, by that point, and never should have Commented, while in that state of mind. I don't know why I'm still surprised by the things that you do, because you've surprised me at every turn. I'll look into what it takes to book a call with you to chat. I'd like that. Thank You for the invite. Keep Smiling... Ciao... 😇 (see the Halo?)
I'm sooooooo confused, are you saying that sissies shouldn't run away from being a responsible man or are you saying that sissies should embrace their true self of being a feminine submissive sissy (especially when you said: if you are really a man you would still be just as much of a man no matter how you dress)? I looked at this video several times and I can't tell what you specifically mean, please explain further.
I respect but it's not for me. My girlfriend tried to convince me into feminization she even bought some girly outfits, i tried once but it felt awkward i didn't like it, so i told her that it wasn't for me, i could see that it is a fantasy/fetish of her. She is a Really cool girl and very pretty too i Really like her but she is pressing me into this and every time i refuse she calls me a toxic Male. Opinions? What should I do?
As a submissive male whom loves being sissified for my Mistress. That doesn't take away from me being a man tho, I not only am willing to live life on my knees at Her feet. But I am also Her protector, confidant, provider and housekeeper.
Honestly, not for me, but in part, I have people like you to thank for helping me realise that I am not a crossdresser, or a femboy, or a sissy, or have a kink, but am actually a woman. So I appreciate what you’re doing.💖
I think I'm too early to explore this as a viewer but I respect your opinion alot just knowing that there are girls like you I want to be a man that you can be peoud of ❤
I’m trying to explore my feminine side a little more. Do you think I should shave my legs and paint my toes a cute color? I also want to wear some cute thongs from pink and wear some makeup. Maybe some cute cat ears ☺️☺️💅🏻
I thought feminization was a fetish for me for a while. Then I discovered being a woman didn't turn me on, it set me free. Thus, I discovered I'm a trans woman. Being accepted as a woman in the bedroom opened me up to being accepted as a woman in real life.
Yes..Hello, I'm disgusted, I made a message to transcribe my journey, but it doesn't meet RUclips standards. It took me half an hour to write it, they could give me the opportunity to correct it I think. so I will simply tell you that I actually listened to the fake sissy and that being a sissy is in us or not.. I wasn't at the beginning of my life. but I had so much sensitivity...empathy...that by dint of looking I found him, and it all started because of hair removal.buying a simple fabric thong, well once out of the shower, shaving and this little thing on me. I felt like me...really me. I loved the softness. the emotion I was experiencing, and a form of excitement unknown until then.. 😅 This was my secret garden for a long time, I had to know who I was. today I have friends who know yes. but I would have liked to be helped and guided at the time, then with all that came the appointments with the beautician, and then I was surprised when I wasn't at all. the envy of a boy, oh my, a boy, all I could think about was that, but it took me a while to take action. It was also a (girlfriend ) who pushed me needless to say that obviously in sissy fany mode sissy fany.. That was actually what I wanted. that a sister helps me do. also a way of clearly asserting my condition to this friend. wanted to try it. from then on I was never the same time again it was magic.. of course we're not all bi, but personally I sign everywhere...I check all the boxes. I'm a sissy through and through...but as I have a non-binary side I alternate between David and Fany..but my friends, especially my sisters, see it pretty quickly who they have in front of them.. I have to thank them because they are exceptional sisters.. ❤I live my sissy life mostly alone. but once home I take care of myself and I dress to stay in a skirt, low heel shoes or leggings according to my desires of the moment. and on the small side, personal degradation. he arrived to open the door to the neighbor who had come to ask for sugar like I was...or to the pizza delivery man, 😅too bad I'm not interested... in short, all that to say that it's in us. or not, but some believe they are passive. but in the end they take back their patriarchy quite quickly... I shout loud and clear that girls are above it and know what is good for us. I recognize their superiority. I yes I am sissy , naughty yes, girly yes, who has little manners yes.. who loves heels and little skirts yes. but not only that, makeup accessories, body lotion, nightie for the night yes. . I claim itand yet despite all of this, I only see my love life with one woman. just.. boys are just bonuses.
Ok sew i went camping and it got late, and real scary, and there was a man outside!’!!! I had to pee and i was so scaired,(, sew i had a gator ade bottle, an i just fit in oooh Pee yah, an then it got real warm inside an i couldmt get the bottle off my body, an i was yanking on it,,!’n then that man started talking to me i was so scaired,, omg!’n
If you were I’d probably have to count myself a lucky man. You seem to be growing and evolving in your thoughts about the kink world and I like that. Looking forward to more content from you.
Watched this video 4 times already. I'm know I'm lost in that 'house of mirrors' and I think this fetish has stunted my development into becoming a powerful man. It's been a damn hard time trying to snap out of it and regain any control. I don't definitively know if this fetish is bad for me i.e., it sounds like your lifestyle subs are suposedly able to handle it but I question that becauase as a dom you just can't be sure, subs are less likely to share the real costs if it means they lose your sevices as a result. As for me, I havent seen postiives in my results after the way I have addictively interacted with these fetishes for the past 10 years. But to your point this is perhaps because I haven't been integrating these fetishes properly. I wish everyone love and light on their journey. God bless.
Hey, thank you so much for this comment, and for being real about where you are at with this. The way you are talking about it as being lost in a hall of mirrors, or needing to stap out of it to regain control, it sounds like you *do* definitely know if its unhealthy for you. Even if it weren't "bad", it still wouldnt hurt to take a break from it and check-in a week, month, etc. As for me, I am not attached to my subs having or liking any fetish or kink. I take care of them as myself and as my own... They know it is their *responsibility* to communicate and be open and honest.
Do you help transgender women feminize? That’s something I could use a lot of help with manorisms or gestures. I have ed and have talented fingers and tongue to satisfy a woman. Yes I’m a trans woman who is still attracted to women. I love feeling like a woman in every sense of the term.
I'm not into any make-up or wearing lingerie, I like serving and worshiping my fiance, and being humiliated too, and worshipping her and her black lover in however she wants me to, like getting him ready for her. That's a real short version of my own fetish, oh and the SPH humiliation too.😊❤️
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An astoundingly insightful take on feminization and the healthy and unhealthy aspects of it- kudos! Speaking as a middle-aged man with a lot of life experience- including several serious/semi-serious relationships- I can say without reservation that we’ve been living in very confusing times for at least the past couple of decades and that this confusion affects both genders. Mixed messages are the cultural norm, and many women I’ve encountered- both romantically and platonically- have wanted things “both ways”… meaning that they profess to want a sensitive, creative, and nurturing partner who still possesses/exhibits what we now refer to as “toxic masculinity.” I’m generalizing, of course, and in reality women fall more heavily on one side of the proverbial “gender-expression dividing line” than the other, with some being more appreciative of and feeling more attractive to a somewhat “effeminate” man, while others preferring the a more stereotypically “masculine” partner. But, there’s nearly always been a tendency for my female partners (I’ve never had a male partner and don’t want one, btw) to complain that I’m being “too feminine” (and often unfavorably comparing me to “more macho” dudes they know) whenever I’ve shown “too much” of my sensitive and nurturing side, and then turning around and complaining when I’m more assertive and “crass” (as I admit I can sometimes be when I engage in humor, lol). It seems that many women don’t really know what they want, and for me this has resulted in my partners eventually seeking out a more consistently, stereotypically masculine partner. (This usually results in a failed marriage for them, and they later end up with a more “balanced” guy like me. Oh, the irony! Not to mention the heartbreak and frustration.) I have engaged in fantasies where I’m actually a woman as a result of this phenomenon, as a result of this frustrating and confusing experience with women in a kind of “if-you-can’t-beat-‘em-join-‘em” manner, and I believe this is a psychologically compensatory and ultimately toxic behavior on my part. I guess my main point is that it’s far too easy to turn to toxic expressions of feminization in the wake of such frustrating and confusing experiences and given the cultural climate in which we live, where institutions like Hollywood push the “women-are-superior-to-men” agenda (or even the “all-me-are-toxic” agenda). Much needs to be sorted, with the wheat being eventually and necessarily separated from the chaff before the dust can settle and point the way to a more integrated and evolved expression of humanity for BOTH genders.
What a refreshing view on this subject. I've been into sissification for a long time, even led me to believing I was trans. I took a break from it and found this to be true, it wasn't me being who I really am. Who I really am is a man, that is in touch with the divine feminine. I'm so comfortable/confident in my masculinity, that I'm not afraid to embrace my feminine side when necessary. Not (any longer) as a fetish, but as a tool for navigating life & relationships.
It's hard to explain, but this video pretty much sums it all up for me. Thank you 🙏
Agreed, we are who we are no matter what we wear.. Agreed, it must be enjoyable and fun while not creating stress and pain. You really understand people very well. I have incorporated my feminine world into my total world without any issues, thanks for this!
Wow, ok this was beautifully and clearly stated and exactly what I needed to hear and more importantly understand at a fundamental level right now. I really appreciate this message and it serves as an opportunity for me to turn inward and really process my relationship with my own self and what self-actualization looks like for me. I already know what I want to do with the rest of the day and it feels so clear
My masculine side is dominant in my daily life. But, always lurking just underneath is my feminine, sissy side. I like both sides of my personality but, my feminine side is definitely much more intense. I doubt it will ever replace my masculine as the dominant side of my character. But, it certainly is enjoyable. As a example; I enjoy working outside, cutting wood, mowing the lawn, etc. All masculine things. But, I also LOVE having my shoulder length hair done in pretty girly styles. Sitting under the dryer at the salon with my hair in curlers feels so amazing!
It's a balancing act really. Sometimes I just need to sweat, get dirty and be a typical guy. Other times, I need to be pretty, girly, submissive and totally sissified. But, good luck finding a woman who understands this duality, let alone encourages it as part of a relationship.
I enjoyed your video. You seem very thoughtful and compassionate. Thank you.
But really, as you said, "good luck!"
There ARE women that want to support balanced living for the men in their lives, whatever that looks like for them.
So truly, all the best (of luck) to you and to all xx
There are empathetic women in this world and you'll find one! Although, I took one for the rest of my live, oops, sorry :) I wish you luck!
Such a refreshing breath of air, extremely rare to see doms speak(value) the truth above money & success!
Thank you for making this video. Without Dommes like you, I would have never looked at the unhealthy ways I interacted with feminization. By adjusting my practice from humiliation to self actualization, I feel more whole and confident expressing the feminine side of myself. I realize that the parts of me that are feminine make me strong. I am strong because I am sensitive and empathetic. After I embraced these characteristics I became confident enough in myself to claim my own power. It allowed me to believe in the power of my voice and in my ability to be assertive. It allowed me the self love I needed to achieve goals and be competitive. In whole it allowed me to be comfortable in my masculinity as well, and taught me that even as a cis man both feminine and masculine energies should be embraced to be our fullest selves. Plus, make up and dress up are just fun. I love wearing sensual pretty clothes to the kink clubs and receiving compliments from male subs and female Dommes alike
I am not yet a subscriber, but I really liked this video. I feel like the idea of feminization is leading me to embracing who I truly am. Thank you.
I was born a male in the heart of the south with a broken body and eventually a broken will. I put alot of effort into trying to "be a man", but I just couldnt. I literally physically couldnt. It didnt help I had terrible role models like my father as well, and as I got older I started having dreams of living my life as a woman. Then I began to desire that more because feminization and the acceptance of a womanly feminine role is what I wanted. I was scorned, mocked, abused for it by my family as well as my peers. No one seemed to understand. Even becoming a young adult i've still struggled to try to be that way. Sometimes I dont feel like I deserve it, or im scared maybe its wrong. I still want it though. Its frustrating feeling so alone and worried about this. I dont know what im doing and sometimes i feel like im faking even when I try my best simply because im so nervous of being attacked or hurt for it. I dont want to be a sissy. I dont really even want the humiliation. I just want to be feminine. I just want to be a woman. Its who I feel and believe myself to be.
Your video has made me think alot about what I want. I realize that while I want to be feminine and a woman, I can never fully be a woman, and my pursuit down this hardcore sissification has me abusing myself. Probably because I feel like thats what i deserve. I still wish to be feminine and ultimately do my best to present as a woman but i worry im never going to get there. And yet i cant live with the idea of always only ever being a man. I've tried that path and failed, and I want nothing more to do with it. It is not who I am. Nor does the world want me for that. Its not about my dick size. Ive just never been enough of a man or as a man for those around me. So i reject it because I would rather express myself another way anyways. Everyone not really supporting or trying to help me become a man just made my mind up easier. Im guaranteed to eventually become disabled to the point where I will need help living due to my physical chronic illnesses. So im doomed to never be able to really be independent fully, or able to really do all that much to support others anyways. Its not like i didnt want to. I wanted to be a mother, and to be a wife to another woman, but that will probably never happen either. No one wants to take care of someone else like that anymore.
Everything I say may sound grim, and it is, but I can say that for all this the only real masculine thing I can say I am is persistent. I dont truly give up. I may be beaten down for a long time, but I keep trying because what else is there to do except do nothing. All i can really say with certainty is im trying. Im trying to figure it all out. Im trying to be myself, and im trying to make it in this fucked up world. I will however say that it is exhausting, and i wish more then anything to wake up one day a true woman with some friends to go spend time with. To be able to have a normal life, but unfortunately that is seemingly not the fate I have. Which honestly brings me great grief.
I really appreciate your view of this topic. I see it also as a way to explore and experiment.
Amazing. I love the way you talk and explain. So much positive energy you have. It's so great to hear what you say. Thank you. 😊
Feminization and sissification made me into a stronger person and gave me confidence in myself for the first time in my life. I was trapped in a blue collar job I hated and felt like I was so ugly and such a freak nobody would ever want me. Then I put on makeup and a wig for the first time at the age of 34. I took one look in the mirror and decided I was going to make all my fantasies come true and I did it. I had a fantasy of working at an NYC dungeon as a trans mistress and in just two years I made it a reality.
Excellent advice! I love speaking out these truths. Great job!
This is a very good study into the psychology of feminization. It is interesting in that respect. Working on the feminine appearance (to various extents) is one thing, but it does help to understand the psychology behind the feminine appearance.
Lastly...I just watched your video in full and I agree with you. It's a kink for me. How I got there? I dunno. It would have to be explored, but I'm charmed by your mind and evidently your face. so thank you.
Love and totally relate to everything you are saying. I haven't explore much with anyone. Wish I could. I have deep thoughts abt all this. It be awesome to talk to someone like your self.
I was feeling the same way! I actually just launched a new project, and part of what I'm gearing up to offer is a space for mentorship and training for other women. If you're still interested, drop us a line or sign up for the mailing list so you get notified when we launch the trainings or start our women's circle.
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What's your views on how this ties into the whole transgender scene? Is it a positive tool or as you say, something that people are getting lost in? Curious to see what thoughts and experiences you have in this department as quite a lot of transgender people use feminizisation, both willingly and 'forced' at some point or another with transitioning. Hope your well!
I love when my girlfriend feminizes me and forces me to do things to please her because I see how much she gets into it as well. She has said she had guys in the past only care if they get off or be fulfilled, I feel like that is why she enjoys it because I like to help make her feel good.
That is def an element that comes into play. It can be comforting to be around men that aren't just thinking about/trying to get in your pants ;)
We are both into trying anything, one thing we both really love is anal play. She loves pegging and sometimes when the mood strikes it she really gets into anal on her. I feel it does have a lot of communication involved which makes us closer together.
@@CreatrixChalice Be nice if u got into my pants! 😂
Gurl, you have the perfect Goddess Girlfriend! Envy...
One component of feminization I find uniquely therapeutic is releasing emotions I otherwise bottle up-it’s an opportunity, like you said, to temporarily unburden myself with the perceived necessity to manifest perpetual strength. But it’s a give and take-I never want to be the only individual capitalizing in any capacity from the exchange.
With the right partner, not only is the power exchange and feminization component of the intimacy profoundly therapeutic, but the aftercare is a powerful bonding agent. The feminized release I experience during play allows for a more functional masculinity the rest of the time. Helpful and reassuring video. Thank you.
Beautiful! That's pretty close to what I'd call ideal
Thank you so much for this video. I also am one who has been a sissy and tried to go deeper and deeper into it, so much so that I am in danger of commiting something shameful. I would be devastated if my wife ever found out this is what I’ve been doing. I need to snap out of it if it is still possible and wake up from this illusion. I have never considered myself an alpha male and I could never hang out with the men and carry manly conversations or behavior but I have to be whoever I really am. I get along more with women as a friend than with guys, I don’t know if that means anything I just haven’t been a masculine guy but I must try to stop the sissy life and try to be the man I am supposed to be.
I can relate to what your saying about your wife I'm curious if you want to be treated like a girl when you are dressed too or just like being feminine I would like to know how far you would take it if you don't mind me asking ?
Thank You for the post Creatrix. Feminization is not for me .. I enjoy being " forced " to wear pink panties but this is to reinforce my inadequacy with my little " manhood " & keeps me from falsely representing myself to any unsuspecting ladies. That & my chastity 🔐 . Excellent tutorial Goddess.
Wow, all these things you are talking about: true-self, ego-exercise, vocation, remembering who you are.
This all interests me do much. Incredible
I need escape from my stressful work life. That's why I have a Domme who owns me. They enjoy subs who are into feminization and I usually let them decide the topic of the sessions we have. Our first session IRL was feminization combined with spanking. They got to choose my clothes and they did my makeup. Probably the best day of my life!
I always hear people talk about this topic in such a degrading manner. This video needs to reach more people.
Hell, it highlighted the fact that I'm running from my responsibilities. As I've taken on more responsibility I've shied away from the fetish.
I do however express my feminine side as a separate part of me online, under a different name with different people. A nice way of honoring that side of me without letting myself be consumed by my own desires. Currently, I don't have the confidence to fully explore the kink beyond some minor DIY.
Share the video then so it does reach more people :)
Very interesting to hear that as you've taken more responsibility you've shied away from the fetish. It sounds like you have a place to embrace your femininity though. Next step, at least as I see it, would be to integrate these parts of yourself so they dont need to be so isolated or separate
@@CreatrixChalice unfortunately I don’t have the slightest idea on how to do that. But I’m definitely sharing the video.
Creatrix Chalice, it is so enlightening for me to hear your thoughts and feelings regarding the almost endless opportunities to Play with your multi variants of Submissive males. Thankfully you show that there are many more facets to Consider and Cultivate than one can gather at First Blush. I cherish the fact that you Recognize & Understand now that so much of this does Not reside in the Superfluous. This is exciting to read, because it is Contra to much of the B.S. being taught to so many unwitting participants. This is one of the Many things that I Love about you and your Foundation. You are respectable and I fully expect to thoroughly enjoy getting to know you and what you hold as your Fundamental Foundation.
Please be good to yourself as well as to your Submissive Participants. Keep Smiling... Ciao...
Very good deep delve into the psyche of this subject. Probably the realest I've heard
Thank you, Miss Creatrix. ❤
Con Amor :)
Thankyou so much lovely lady friend and I love beauty facials and hairstyles and fashion styles too glam lady friend 💐🌹💆
hi creatrix chalice...i am trying to understand all of this...but i feel you are WAY too smart for me lol :) but thx i loved it :*
When I was feminized I felt totally embarrassed and humiliated,
But the smile the laugh and the pleasure I saw on her face.
I will never forget.
Thank you for your time.
Dude, get some help! You do not deserve this type of abuse and getting gratified by lowering yourself.
I'm a straight guy, played drums all my life, etc.
I two sisters babysit as a kid, talked them into tying me up.
Later, about 13, a pretty friend took me to her room, gave me cacaine and did my hair (long)and makeup. I loved it!
I now have a mesh mini dress i want to wear outside.
Can you give me some ideas?
Since I'm older I realize that being feminine is really who I am!! I'm more calm, more relaxed. The stereotypes
are so toxic!! Like for example I'm into wearing Satin!! It calms me and I'm so confident wearing out in public now as compared to how I used to be embarrassed! Confidence is Sexy!! To me feminism is a Great thing!! Love Your videos!! 🩷🩷
Wow, I love it, what an original voice, thankyou!!!
And thank you for having an open mind and heart :)
I have had so many problems with my feeling since I was a child like my mother's dress or underwear and get into so much trouble so many times by ignoring myself and try to find people who understood me but I think all was a failure all people think just about themselves and people like you are so rare people who dig and care about others feelings and can understand them better than themselves
Being feminized either by myself or by a woman just makes me feel good, I mean I'm kinda at the point where I feminize myself daily and it isn't a fetish at least not anymore. 😊
Oh so Beautiful Goddess CreatrixChalice,very great and very thought provoking video for those listening,wish i had a friend like You growing up,wish the internet was around when i was growing up, i've always had and loved(still do) my feminine side more than the other side and no matter how i looked and depending who i was with i felt as i needed to protect and keep from harm those more susceptible to harm,, being forced was fun as well as the humiliation of the small penis,some called me a grower, anyways it's 6a.m. in L.A. and past my bedtime and per my suggestion,You have an Awesome and Wonderful day..,
Sincerely, jennifur e.zoe💜
Hi! That was 👍 I would like to reach out for a little experiment. Tell me please what is the next step mistress?
First of all, I think you should make either a video, or a series of videos of the history of how you started feminizing I your friends. Also each in depth story, I think all your subscribers would love it.i have the avg size Johnson, so I'm not sure this sti applies to me.For me if it's toxic or healthy is kind of grey right now. I also love my masculine side, but would love to be feminized by you.Also be taught healthy behavior by you if there's toxicity. Make your feminizing your friends a script
I know why your not playing with me 😂 but I still love ya creatrix
My sister and her friends dressed me up with makeup when I was like 8 or so and I definitely "resisted" because I didn't want them to know I wanted it. I thought It was awesome, but they took pictures which later on my sister used to blackmail mail in middle school and that was kind of humiliating. I kinda never felt good about that sort of thing for a long time.
I've experimented lately again. I have a long history of wanting to do "girl things" but "not able to" bevause I was a boy. Eventually that just becomes second nature to not even consider doing a thing that would be considered feminine. But I can do whatever I want now so I have fun wearing comfy clothes :) you are so pretty, I wish I was you.
P.S bras are the devil, can't believe women handle that stuff regularly. Awful.
I’m late to the party but I have to agree that the best experiences of sissification are the ones where you can pretend to put up a fight but you secretly want it though.
A "state of grace" has been a surprise benefit of moving farther from the masculine emotional drives, closer to the feminine moving emotions. Hormones evoke emotions that mediate behavior. Shifting on the T to E spectrum I found a sweet spot. Not a big move for me. Cross dressing and diet suffice me to discover a realm of positive productive creative pleasurable emotions recognizable as the "state of grace" ascribed to a certain female figure of religious mythology. Not a passive state of Nervana; But a connected active one mediated by very positive pleasurable feelings and productive creative value-adding behaviors.
I need beauty facials And love dressing
Great job and well said! {:~{) All the long term subs wondering if it's them you're talking about after watching this video, haha.
Thanks! :D Ah, theres not much need for them to wonder though-- they know where they stand. Esp if they're still serving Me xx
you have a lovely smile. I wish I knew you years ago when you were first starting, I've been cross dressing since I was 10or 12. I still do but I have wanted to do more with my feminine self then just enjoy the clothes. Have tried smoe feminization hypnosis, but i think that I am unable to relax for that to have any effect. I like to cross dress because that makes me feel at peace with my self. Have very briefly looked inte a mistress. but I don't want to go there. from listening to you, I don't think I would get into being a sissy, though it looks like it would be fun, but not the fun that i would want to do. again, thanks for the Video. Good advice... Are you on Tumbler ?
Interesting point that you make when you said if feminization is helping you become a better and more authentic version of oneself. I really liked that point. That is exactly how I feel about it and why I enjoy it. What would it be like to work with you? Please let me know. Thank you.
I love that you're receiving the benefits of feminization! Thats my wish for all who participate :) Hard to say what it would be like for you to work with me as every single relationship and dynamic is unique. Submit your application to find out! start here: creatrixchalice.me
I left a message on your feminization video but after listening to this i realize that I’ve been going about this all wrong and would love to talk with you and Elaine who i truly am and who i need to help me get there
I would be happy to connect with you on this. Book a call or write me on my panther site ;)
creatrixchalice.me/protocol
Thnx
I’m pretty sure I met you at Envision Festival in CR
Love the blouse - is it new? As always, you look amazing.
Thanks, My boy! I've had this top for ages just never really wore it. So... not new, but new to you :P
As a young woman, how does it feel to be the one BOTH desired AND desired to be like?
Very wise observations
This young women seems very sweet and sincere. It makes men think about what constitutes true manhood, and true womanhood. I have found that clothing alone or make up don’t change the way a person thinks or his identity.-
I would love to be a FEMALE
I can't blame you, its pretty great
@@CreatrixChalice Adressing to point of @Leggs013, For so many of "sissies/subs" is not only a sexual fantasie. Is our true disire to be seen and treated and live like females...very submissive ones ( why we are so submissive is an interesting subject). Living the most time we can has our true self and be accepted, even if it is only indoors, is our biggest wish. Maybe we are the weak ones ( maybe is here that lies the reason of being submissive), thoses that were not strong enough to transition or confront the social norms. Trans, new gen. femboys and "switchs" are more inpowered and i don´t see trans being sissies, unless they are acting for some professional/recreacional reason. I´m sure that i was born this away cuz in the early 80´s there was nothing to see or hear about this subject. I´ve look up to very feminine girls/women (like you) all my life. Tryed many times to find commun ground and be accepted, but many times ended up in tears, when young parents of the few girls that were friends as soon as they notice what i was would "politly" take me out of their lifes. Others only got close to me in planned pranks with other girls to make fun of me at some point. In my teens started to find some more open minded but i was mantally afraid by that point and shy. Let those how only wanted to advantage of me ( girls and boys) get closer cuz they were the only ones that would not make fun of me in public, instead they would just break up the relationship when ever they were sastifyied. This brings me to the subject of your vid...For me being around a very feminine and inpowered Woman like you is no more than a way to deal with the trauma of not being accepted as a Woman ( cuz i was not born like one) but Women like you have the mind set to accept us....even if it is a shallow thing like "dominatrix", but, again like you, i´ve found some dominatrix/Mistress that are selective and know there are fetish and the heart felted sissies. Is like the "daddy issues" i prefer to have a strong dominat men, and submit every thing i can so that he take me under his wing. So many words to say that i like being a sissy but i know realise that that came from the trauma of not be a FEMALE. So I´m not Man for sure!....not running away from it, i never felt like a man, and i´m not a woman...i´m in the middle. out in the world presenting like a male and in my private life living has a woman, trying to make it thru life and make some sense out of this mess. I found a balance. I´m happy and a have feminine mind, No matter if i´m dressed male in the streeet or work i always think like a woman! but i´m really frustrated. And I, like many others, over compensate that frustration searching for open minded persons like you ☺. Xoxo 😚
I like your consideration and giggles x
I like being a man alot and will always be I just also love being pretty and crossdressing doesn't make me any less of a man. Even though my ya know is average the idea that people would think it's a gift to the world is crazy 🤣. I don't identify with most these labels but I think this was a really interesting video. You seem cool
Odd concept of using a fetish to help reinforce ultra Masculine stereotypes. Have you ever thought of this in reverse? A woman playing dominant only temporarily in order to remember her “true role” as a submissive? … Clearly there’s a real flaw in your concept. Honestly, I think your aversion has more to do with what turns you on.
Personally, I think some men who explore these things simply want to connect with a different experience of reality in general. And not just because they’re “running from the their responsibilities” but because their so-called responsibilities are an abusive social construct forced on to them from birth by people who have no issues fulfilling their own stereotypical roles.
In my opinion, being forced to be a “provider” for people who get to do what you wish you got to do with your own life is not fun or fulfilling. And, as far as I’m concerned, not wanting to be indentured is not “running away” it’s wanting to say “no” to a forced experience of reality that is potentially making a person completely miserable.
Accepting the feminine side of a man not necessarily needs he wears female clothes, or have bisexual entercourse, or doesn’t have sex with women. It’s exactly the same for women.
Please make more content the world needs you.
In my honest opinion, IF both partners involved are both consenting adults who take safety & precautions while also understanding eachothers boundaries, wants, desires, etc. and have safe words who cares if it is male dominated or female dominated or male submissive or female submissive DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPIEST / Your Partner Too.
P.S. I’m a man who prefers to be dominant over a woman in the bedroom. That is my choice, she gives me trust and that is the sweetest way of showing her love. Then I dominate her which is her receiving my love(just my perspective)
Stay safe out there, consent is key & boundaries are a must.
Smart lady.
Great video!
I love your video, great subject matter. I kinda wish that you had expounded a bit more on a few of your statements. I think if we were having a conversation about this we would agree on a lot. I want to comment a bit on your summation statement you make at the end. I would argue that that whole fun house of getting lost is a more or less essential part of the journey to fully embracing and going deeper with sissification for those born in a male body, but have a female spirit. With all the social engineering that these types of male bodies individuals go through in the formative years of childhood into adulthood and being forced to hide and shelter that feminine spirit in an effort to survive childhood and embrace the stereotypical male persona they often need to lose themselves in that wild and crazy fun house, so that they are able to leave all the fake socially engineered maleness from their childhood behind and come out the other side free of that fake masculinity and much more themselves, or at least true to their spirit. So that fun house can serve a purpose, but that purpose is probably better utilized by a strong female Mistress/Dom kind of calling the shots and acting as the guide through the fun house to help shed the masculine and know when the female spirit is free enough to come out of the fun house. Does that make sense?
Hi again Creatrix Chalice. IMO You have earned the absolute right to be selective with whom you let into your "Inner Circle." I don't believe that anyone could conjure any realistic or plausible reason(s) to the contrary. One thing that I had a knee jerk reaction to was when you took aim at men, saying that we had somehow messed up. Initially I became defensive against this, as every problem that a woman has in her life, has been somehow caused by men, which is complete and utter nonsense. When you discuss that some of the individual men, that you've dealt with need to take responsibility for and own the appropriate portions of the dilemma that they now find themselves in. I recognized & understood your point but, in dealing with most women today, it is they that are lacking any type of personal responsibility for anything in their lives. I mean all of you Women live in a "Man Made World" all day, every day, but you don't credit Men for creating every building that you see and work in, nor the flushing toilets that you use, the roads that you drive upon, the vehicles you drive, etc., etc. Men have done a much better job of holding up our end of the bargain, than you Women have. Think about this, throughout your day and with everything that you do, use, etc. and then ask yourself if you have a Man or a Woman to thank for that.
I will say that 99.9% of these things are attributable to Men. Any bets?
IRL there is a lot more to being a successful Man, than meets the eye. It is next to impossible to take your place as a Man in society, while delving deep into self exploration. As a Man that has owned three companies of my own, it is important to one's success, that many, deemed superficial attributes be upheld, on the daily. Example: I have often had meetings with the upper echelon, within the Financial Industry and had them sitting across from me, apologizing to me because they only had assets of five hundred million dollars. Well, let me tell you this about that: If you don't think that EVERY nuance is important at this point, you are sadly mistaken. The company that I'm dealing with is scrutinizing everything about me. From my shoes to the watch that I wear, does my staff have their shit together and respond smoothly to our needs during our meeting. They will analyze my Suit, Tie, the Cologne I wear to the car that I drive, ad infinitum. Do you think that they would take me seriously if they saw that I owned an old Toyota, or something like that? No, they would not! So in business dealings one's facade is the difference between failure and success.
I'm sorry for writing a book here. I have so much that I would like to explain, but this is not the appropriate forum, in which to have a true discussion, is it. Creatrix Chalice, please know that I wish for you all of the very best that Life has to offer, along with continued Good Health and reasonable Happiness. Until our paths cross again, be blessed. Cheers...
I'm not going to get too into it here, but I do think we would have a lot to talk about. You dont need to submit an application if you want to book a call to chat :)
@@CreatrixChalice Woe, well hello there, Creatrix Chalice. After my lengthy rant, I didn't expect to be deemed worth your while, which is why you surprised me with your response. Please allow me now, to apologize for that Rant. I really need to learn when to keep my mouth shut. I'd had more than enough, by that point, and never should have Commented, while in that state of mind.
I don't know why I'm still surprised by the things that you do, because you've surprised me at every turn. I'll look into what it takes to book a call with you to chat. I'd like that. Thank You for the invite. Keep Smiling... Ciao... 😇 (see the Halo?)
You have a nice beautiful relaxing voice…
Thanks :)
Thankyou for this vudeo. You look nice.Creatrix Chalice
I have found that most men you work on them enough you can feminize them. I actually find gay men harder or impossible to feminize, the irony.
thank you. it makes a lot of sense. i just want to explore the female side of me
I'm sooooooo confused, are you saying that sissies shouldn't run away from being a responsible man or are you saying that sissies should embrace their true self of being a feminine submissive sissy (especially when you said: if you are really a man you would still be just as much of a man no matter how you dress)? I looked at this video several times and I can't tell what you specifically mean, please explain further.
I respect but it's not for me. My girlfriend tried to convince me into feminization she even bought some girly outfits, i tried once but it felt awkward i didn't like it, so i told her that it wasn't for me, i could see that it is a fantasy/fetish of her. She is a Really cool girl and very pretty too i Really like her but she is pressing me into this and every time i refuse she calls me a toxic Male. Opinions? What should I do?
Dumb her ass lol.
She'll leave you as soon as you submits for a masculine man 💀
As a submissive male whom loves being sissified for my Mistress. That doesn't take away from me being a man tho, I not only am willing to live life on my knees at Her feet. But I am also Her protector, confidant, provider and housekeeper.
Sounds full spectrum and beautiful
@@CreatrixChalicei want
Please post more often queen
maybeeee ;)
Down astronomical 💀
I like to be a man but forced feminization intrigues me and I wonder what about myself I would find out
Honestly, not for me, but in part, I have people like you to thank for helping me realise that I am not a crossdresser, or a femboy, or a sissy, or have a kink, but am actually a woman. So I appreciate what you’re doing.💖
Strangely I have no ambition to be feminized. I am male, submissive to female, I do not see the purpose of trying to be what I am not.
I think I'm too early to explore this as a viewer but I respect your opinion alot just knowing that there are girls like you I want to be a man that you can be peoud of ❤
Proud*
I want you be a man I would be proud of too :)
I’m trying to explore my feminine side a little more. Do you think I should shave my legs and paint my toes a cute color? I also want to wear some cute thongs from pink and wear some makeup. Maybe some cute cat ears ☺️☺️💅🏻
I respect you! I agree with you! Hugs 🌹🤗
Hugga muggas!
Wishing you and yours a Happy Thanksgiving! 🌹
I loved your words.. Thank you! 🌹🤗
Toxic. But I love feminization ♀️😍
I’m just here for the intro :p.
Kidding, like ur style :)
Great video love being sissy 💓
I thought feminization was a fetish for me for a while. Then I discovered being a woman didn't turn me on, it set me free. Thus, I discovered I'm a trans woman. Being accepted as a woman in the bedroom opened me up to being accepted as a woman in real life.
I LOVE SISSIES!!
what's the different between femboy and sissies ???
I like the girls but they don't like me , why ? I'm looking nice and attractive..can you answer ?
What if they are a man who has more feminine energy, but do take responsibility.
Yes..Hello, I'm disgusted, I made a message to transcribe my journey, but it doesn't meet RUclips standards. It took me half an hour to write it, they could give me the opportunity to correct it I think. so I will simply tell you that I actually listened to the fake sissy and that being a sissy is in us or not.. I wasn't at the beginning of my life. but I had so much sensitivity...empathy...that by dint of looking I found him, and it all started because of hair removal.buying a simple fabric thong, well once out of the shower, shaving and this little thing on me. I felt like me...really me. I loved the softness. the emotion I was experiencing, and a form of excitement unknown until then.. 😅
This was my secret garden for a long time, I had to know who I was. today I have friends who know yes. but I would have liked to be helped and guided at the time, then with all that came the appointments with the beautician, and then I was surprised when I wasn't at all. the envy of a boy, oh my, a boy, all I could think about was that, but it took me a while to take action. It was also a (girlfriend ) who pushed me needless to say that obviously in sissy fany mode sissy fany.. That was actually what I wanted. that a sister helps me do. also a way of clearly asserting my condition to this friend. wanted to try it. from then on I was never the same time again it was magic.. of course we're not all bi, but personally I sign everywhere...I check all the boxes. I'm a sissy through and through...but as I have a non-binary side I alternate between David and Fany..but my friends, especially my sisters, see it pretty quickly who they have in front of them.. I have to thank them because they are exceptional sisters.. ❤I live my sissy life mostly alone. but once home I take care of myself and I dress to stay in a skirt, low heel shoes or leggings according to my desires of the moment. and on the small side, personal degradation. he arrived to open the door to the neighbor who had come to ask for sugar like I was...or to the pizza delivery man, 😅too bad I'm not interested... in short, all that to say that it's in us. or not, but some believe they are passive. but in the end they take back their patriarchy quite quickly... I shout loud and clear that girls are above it and know what is good for us. I recognize their superiority. I yes I am sissy , naughty yes, girly yes, who has little manners yes.. who loves heels and little skirts yes. but not only that, makeup accessories, body lotion, nightie for the night yes. . I claim itand yet despite all of this, I only see my love life with one woman. just.. boys are just bonuses.
Ok sew i went camping and it got late, and real scary, and there was a man outside!’!!!
I had to pee and i was so scaired,(, sew i had a gator ade bottle, an i just fit in oooh
Pee yah, an then it got real warm inside an i couldmt get the bottle off my body, an i was yanking on it,,!’n then that man started talking to me i was so scaired,, omg!’n
Thanks beautiful
Sometimes it feels as if your speaking directly to me haha
what if I am?
If you were I’d probably have to count myself a lucky man. You seem to be growing and evolving in your thoughts about the kink world and I like that. Looking forward to more content from you.
Watched this video 4 times already. I'm know I'm lost in that 'house of mirrors' and I think this fetish has stunted my development into becoming a powerful man. It's been a damn hard time trying to snap out of it and regain any control. I don't definitively know if this fetish is bad for me i.e., it sounds like your lifestyle subs are suposedly able to handle it but I question that becauase as a dom you just can't be sure, subs are less likely to share the real costs if it means they lose your sevices as a result. As for me, I havent seen postiives in my results after the way I have addictively interacted with these fetishes for the past 10 years. But to your point this is perhaps because I haven't been integrating these fetishes properly. I wish everyone love and light on their journey. God bless.
Hey, thank you so much for this comment, and for being real about where you are at with this.
The way you are talking about it as being lost in a hall of mirrors, or needing to stap out of it to regain control, it sounds like you *do* definitely know if its unhealthy for you.
Even if it weren't "bad", it still wouldnt hurt to take a break from it and check-in a week, month, etc.
As for me, I am not attached to my subs having or liking any fetish or kink. I take care of them as myself and as my own... They know it is their *responsibility* to communicate and be open and honest.
You are gorgeous
Remove the barrier (aka shame)
Do you help transgender women feminize? That’s something I could use a lot of help with manorisms or gestures. I have ed and have talented fingers and tongue to satisfy a woman. Yes I’m a trans woman who is still attracted to women. I love feeling like a woman in every sense of the term.
Why would you sexualize and educational video that's creepy. You want to be a woman yet you talk like a horny college guy
I like the idea, and I dig women being feminine, but it's not for me. A fan, but not involved. Btw, she's pretty!
I'm not into any make-up or wearing lingerie, I like serving and worshiping my fiance, and being humiliated too, and worshipping her and her black lover in however she wants me to, like getting him ready for her. That's a real short version of my own fetish, oh and the SPH humiliation too.😊❤️
Without sex life is useless
Happy to be first
You weeeen!
Вы правы во многом 💞💞💞
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