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  • @queencoraflora
    @queencoraflora Год назад +13

    Happy Birthday, Queen!! I've been very interested in Kink / my Domme parts for years and have been exploring in my own Way... Honestly when I found your videos, I was like "THIS.... THIS WOMAN has the GODDESS DOMME VIBES." I've appreciated Soul many of your Videos. Thanks for being Authentic, Courageous, You. You've changed my Life and I'm sure many Others too. Rock ON Beautiful Soul!!!! Wishing you your Most Delicious, Exciting, and Empowering Heaven on Earth Birthday!! ✨

  • @mikedollinger1437
    @mikedollinger1437 Год назад +5

    Listening to You is listening to female expression on it`s highest and most developed level, full of self confidence and self awareness😍. It is pure beauty ❤. The Subs who are under Your lead really get the best guidance and teachings. And I hope that many others, both men and women, listen to you as well in order to get new insights.
    Happy birthday Queen of Femdoms ❤

  • @nanipanini
    @nanipanini Год назад +14

    to me you're the general ambassador of findom. happy birthday alla!🖤

  • @noitnettaattention
    @noitnettaattention Год назад +3

    There is so much LOVE in her whatever she says❤❤❤

  • @lucaslesley7314
    @lucaslesley7314 Год назад +3

    Love You, Ms Alla. You are the most unique Dom ever. You are different than all the others. You are everything I needed. You complete my nature.

  • @wolfgang548
    @wolfgang548 Год назад +4

    Happy Birthday Alla. 🎂 You don't look a day over 25.
    I would like to say we hear it often, "Toxic Masculinity," however masculinity is not toxic. The reality is there are some men who behave in such a way that makes them toxic people in general. Toxic people are in every country, every culture, every race and gender alike. It's up to the rest of us to weed them out and drop them like a hot potato. Eventually they self destruct.
    Enjoy the rest of your day beautiful.

  • @ahnagrace
    @ahnagrace Год назад +8

    I LOVE your videos! You help me become more confident as a woman. Thank you for always speaking the hard truth so bravely. Kinda cool, we share the same birthday! Happiest bday wishes to you, beautiful dear!! 🎈 ✨💕

  • @mikestrong4686
    @mikestrong4686 Год назад

    Thank you Miss Alla for this sharing of yourself. I appreciate that your are naturally dominant and not just play acting for financial gain. I am part of your captive audience. I am so sorry about the abusive environment that you grew up in. Happy Birthday Alla!

  • @tedpecoraro1405
    @tedpecoraro1405 Год назад +1

    Wonderful discussion and thank you for sharing your personal experiences. I'm into sissification which I know you oppose and frankly I've never considered nor have I yet to hear a perspective like yours which makes eminent good sense. I would also like to say I've lived my life as what's considered to be a (married) an "alpha male" by society. That said, I've always elevated my wife and honored her. Call it chivalry but I've always believed women are to be treasured and honored. Perhaps because my father abused my mother. At any rate, I honor you and respect you not because you're a Domme but because as a woman you are worthy of my respect and honor. I wish I could have a conversation with you. That said I intend to listen to all your videos and learn from you. By the way, your English is impeccable. Yours very very respectfully, Ted.
    PS: I've raised 5 sons to respect and cherish women and they do.

  • @alikansevgili4118
    @alikansevgili4118 Год назад +1

    Happy birthday goddes i love you❤

  • @di0gene
    @di0gene Год назад +3

    11:50 it's crazy how your voice changes when you talk about what motivates you.
    I believe what you are asking for is just natural, evident in a relationship with healthy love. When we really love someone, we take care of them, we are eager to learn how to help them flourish. I love like this and I would like to be loved like this too.
    only, I have to pay the price of other vicious men. It's normal for women to ask that we prove to them that we can love them like this before they in turn love like this. Because they have already suffered too much from being seen as resources.
    I would have preferred to be seen as the benevolent person that I am but I have to pay the price of patriarchy. I must first reassure of my ability to love before being loved in return.
    The worst thing is that in vanilla relationships women no longer demand such this love or even sometimes find it weak to be so caring and devoted. So this love so beautiful, cannot even exist.

  • @leavinforadream
    @leavinforadream Год назад

    Thank You, Goddess Alla Mephistopheles, for sharing a little of Yourself and Your Vast Knowledge! You are so Very Wise beyond YourYears! I will be sending You a gift from Your Wishtender tomorrow for Your Birthday! Happy Birthday!!

  • @darkdesire4425
    @darkdesire4425 Год назад +6

    As an INTJ dominant woman, I absolutely relate with your views regarding DS and everything. Love your perspective on it. By the way, Happy birthday beautiful queen 🎂

    • @hv3115
      @hv3115 Год назад +2

      Hello.. nice to see there are dominant women out there. As a submissive man, i find it very difficult to find a dominant women.

    • @nanipanini
      @nanipanini Год назад +2

      @@hv3115 we're millions

    • @hv3115
      @hv3115 Год назад

      @@nanipanini i highly doubt it. Most wom en want an alpha guy and look down on submissive men.
      There are very few wo men who are truly dominant and truly interested in having a dom/sub relationship with a submissive man but they are few and far between and for all intents and purposes, impossible for a submissive man to meet.
      Most of the wo men online who claim to be dominant are just scammers looking to squeeze men for their money..like the woman on this channel. She is not in any real, actual relationship with a submissive man. She uses and exploits submissive men to subsidize and pay for her life of sleeping with multiple alpha Chads.

    • @takeiteasy1133
      @takeiteasy1133 Месяц назад +1

      @@hv3115 Same

  • @Tamponijntje
    @Tamponijntje Месяц назад

    I can relate a lot to your revenge story, I am currently starting with my first clients as we speak. You're gorgeous and so is your dress! Love from Belgium ❤

  • @daniellebarker9363
    @daniellebarker9363 Месяц назад +2

    I know you probably don’t have the time. But I’m Fiona, I’m am new as a dom, but have been wanting to do it since I was younger. Having similar experience as you. I thought you might be a perfect mentor. Some other doms online have a little different ways of thinking about it or doing things. I also don’t know how w use the platforms to the best of my ability. I need this sort of control. I have a situation now with a potential sub, been taking 2 years and he’s not understanding what I’m needing. Like for example he wants to lead me through the session, everything he wants. I said that is not the way this is going to go. If I am dom, we will have boundaries set before hand but during, I don’t want you coaching me at all! That is defeating the purpose. I know what he wants, he wants trample, kicked and so on. And I’m willing to do that. But I want to be in charge and have him submit and not coaching, him saying, oh kick me now in my balls. No no, that would be him getting everything he wants and me getting no power. He also try’s to make it sound like he’s doing me a huge favour letting me do this. So @I can get a free exercise and I can learn from him. I think he is using this as a manipulation to have me not charge anything. Which I am charging, just not in monetary form. Wendy do you think of the situation? Anyone reply please.

  • @Patrick10274
    @Patrick10274 Год назад +2

    May You always be pleased and worshipped

  • @Mel1175
    @Mel1175 Год назад +1

    Wishing you all the very best on your birthday Alla ❤ thank you for all your sharing and true information about kinky and all involved with ❤I have learned so much from you and the incident with my fake online mistress has now been resolved a huge big thank you to you with your video of. Thank you hope you have a wonderful lovely birthday ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @Damon-p9u
    @Damon-p9u 7 месяцев назад +1

    So well said, my Lady. I think it's OK using the Dom/Sub scene as a revenge upon men, WOMAN needs to be avenged for what men have done to her. But the main purpose of FemDom should be the training of men to serve women, to submit to female authority, female wisdom, and female guidance. This is what the Divine Power, The Goddess wants. The bondage and the leather, the whips and chains is just a vehicle to achieve this, and at the end of the day it isn't what it's all about. To worship, to love, and to serve Woman, that's what it's really about.

  • @sadev101
    @sadev101 Год назад

    happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you. happy birthday dear Mephistopheles happy birthday to you (i will spare you my singing voice lol)

  • @gabrielletessier
    @gabrielletessier Месяц назад

    I love your approach. You say you grew in Russia? Happy birthday and take care.

  • @viharchampa8829
    @viharchampa8829 Год назад +2

    *Happy birthday !*

  • @Tianamischelle
    @Tianamischelle Год назад

    Happy belated birthday, almost time for it again🎉

  • @SaberFate
    @SaberFate Год назад +3

    Wow it is really horrible, that would go on in Russia sexual harassment is not ok at all. I can't understand being anything other than a gentlemen towards another person and i was raised that way before I even knew i was submissive. Toxic masculinity makes me sick and i bet most of them are compensating for something lol. Thank you for telling us about your backstory it was interesting to listen to!

  • @Dats_Lyfe
    @Dats_Lyfe Год назад

    Happy birthday, young Lady!!

  • @AngelCoyoteMusic
    @AngelCoyoteMusic 6 месяцев назад

    I love your dress! Looks beautiful on you!

  • @amlanyt2917
    @amlanyt2917 Год назад

    Happy birthday princess👸🎉

  • @chiamamialex
    @chiamamialex Год назад

    You so beautiful ❤️ i like listen Ur voice 😚Happy birthday then...and Happy new year too ❤️🙋🏼‍♂️😘

  • @nunogrilo8494
    @nunogrilo8494 Год назад

    Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and wisdom! It was very interesting!

  • @acpote
    @acpote 3 месяца назад

    Love this outfit.

  • @KaiiWinter-nw4vi
    @KaiiWinter-nw4vi 7 месяцев назад

    God bless yr heart , dearie .

  • @arque2
    @arque2 Год назад

    thank you Goddess, respect for You. congratulations from spain Goddess. thank you soo much

  • @Nike-sx4hf
    @Nike-sx4hf Год назад

    Oh my gosh you’re so pretty:) you are so cool and I love your videos:)

  • @rabit4me
    @rabit4me Год назад +1

    It would be nice to serve Goddess in long term relationship, grow as slave, be dedicated to fulfil her desires, have biggest joy when I am able to overcome myself for her satisfaction. Love her unconditionally.

  • @jeffmann9009
    @jeffmann9009 Год назад

    Happy Birthday. Have you ever considered writing a book. Many subs would by it.

  • @Thomas-sj6pm
    @Thomas-sj6pm Год назад

    Your beautiful an a great teacher

  • @TampaJohn
    @TampaJohn Год назад

    Great video Ma’am.

  • @ObsidianLisaRose
    @ObsidianLisaRose 10 месяцев назад

    I got my Schizotypal diagnosis in 2020 :)
    Also just got into Findom this past week lol.

  • @bumblebee9337
    @bumblebee9337 Год назад +2

    Capricorn 🦄

  • @timnussey8702
    @timnussey8702 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing. I am doing my best to learn, and I have not in the BDSM world, but i think it is important to know.

    • @johnwilson6913
      @johnwilson6913 11 месяцев назад

      Yo my girlfriend is a super nice and cute person. She actually didn’t want to do any femdom. Welp she does dominate me now from time to time, she is a switch, but best tip, go slow with your partner.

  • @Dmtmindset222
    @Dmtmindset222 Год назад +1

    I'm number 222 ❤

  • @obscur61
    @obscur61 Год назад

    Please, Ma'am, activate automatic subtitle in vids.....

  • @davidmulhern5877
    @davidmulhern5877 Месяц назад

    I am sorry that men treated you and your friends so badly when you were a kid. That’s terrible. No one should touch you let alone rape you. That is absolutely horrible and never your fault. I don’t know how things are in Russia but if it’s that way, it shouldn’t be.

  • @alikansevgili4118
    @alikansevgili4118 Год назад

    It s an honor to be under your feet goddes

  • @arygawel7627
    @arygawel7627 Год назад +3

    I really hate those times when women was attacked
    without consequences and every1 just laughed. I'm really sorry to hear that. That is why I'm happy to be part of western culture. But You forgot about one thing. These days are similar but exactly the opposite. Today women in pubs can grab men's balls or spank ass and every1 arround just laugh. If u are a man and some1 hurt u can't do nothing. How many times we all hear at the police station "man can not be rape" ? So if u know feelings from the past why don't want to sympathize men now ? They got the same situation like u before.

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles Год назад +7

      In order to experience sexual harassment you have to get it from men. Preferably bigger than you are.
      It’s not just unwanted sexual attention but also a fear of possible violence when you can’t protect yourself physically. Men don’t fear women. Men fear men.

    • @sadev101
      @sadev101 Год назад +2

      someone is living in a fantasyland.

    • @arygawel7627
      @arygawel7627 Год назад +2

      Tbh I disagree with u. I gave u example how modern women behavior in pubs, especially when they are drunk. There is general agreement for women to behavior like this but always "no" means "no". Of course I agree with u about obscene behavior men and I always protect women when they are in danger. Everything I want is take a look at nowadays, becouse many men are in trouble and it is not true that men are not afraid of women (findom for example). Still I'm looking for answer to understand it but u banned me o twitter so now google is my uncle. Anyway, happy birthday tomorrow.

    • @bumblebee9337
      @bumblebee9337 Год назад

      Anyone who puts their hands on you without your permission is guilty of common assault.

    • @sadev101
      @sadev101 Год назад

      @@arygawel7627 maybe in your country. isnt happening in mine. (or do you go to wrong pubs.) 2 a man gets outraged if that happens. but does not feel threatened or ashamed ,, ther is a difference in perceivement depending on your sex (that comes with size and social riules)
      of course there are exceptions . but dont make it sound like men are left and right being groped and need therapy so now we should set up hep groups

  • @jad6400
    @jad6400 Год назад

    What's your goal from refining your man, making him a better person, can't this be achieved by love??

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles Год назад +3

      Yes. My love is tough.

    • @jad6400
      @jad6400 Год назад

      @@alla_mephistopheles how can a person make someone he loves suffer? How can I be happy if I whipped my girl and made her scream from pain? I really don't understand fr

    • @nanipanini
      @nanipanini Год назад

      @@jad6400 you can try to understand when you think of something that makes you seem to suffer but actually you enjoy it, for example being squeezed very tight, like in a very tight hug that makes the rips hurt. yes it hurts but god the feeling is beautiful.

  • @bazbouz85
    @bazbouz85 Год назад

    Hello, Madam. Sorry if this seems off topic, but where is it possible to pay you money or contact you about this? Your Twitter account is nowhere to be found... thank you very much.

  • @Joseph-w3z
    @Joseph-w3z 3 месяца назад

    I like dominatrix 😊

  • @jamesmatlock879
    @jamesmatlock879 6 месяцев назад

    I'm a pay piggy

  • @immattm2481
    @immattm2481 Год назад

    I LIKE YOU... ❤️

  • @iscreamfitness
    @iscreamfitness 6 месяцев назад

    You are like a cat

  • @timnussey8702
    @timnussey8702 Год назад

    I would like to be a sub. And kindness and understanding is the best.

  • @Nike-sx4hf
    @Nike-sx4hf Год назад

    Can I send u a gift?:)

  • @raygordonteacheschess5501
    @raygordonteacheschess5501 Год назад

    You gotta figure men will wake up one day and just stop giving women money since they aren't getting anything for what they spend. I'm usually 5-10 years ahead of the curve and I stopped spending a while ago.

    • @hv3115
      @hv3115 Год назад

      Sadly, that will never happen. There are too many desperate s imps out there willing to pour all their money into the greedy hands of women.

  • @marksawesomeadventures
    @marksawesomeadventures Год назад

    If you want to gain control over your emotions in a Session or to reframe Trauma from the past, instead of thinking like you are a Victim, think of it differently, you can never be powerful thinking like a Victim. It's never going to happen, Victims are always Weak, never Powerful. So you must re-frame your Past to mean something different when you think about situations when you felt like a Victim. You can't change what happened to you, but you CAN change how you think about it. For example a Guy grabbing your Breasts and Laughing, if you think you are the Victim in this Situation, then you are only hurting yourself. It might be better to think of this situation as You were so Outrageously Beautiful that guys just could not keep their hands off you! And when they Touched you it instantly made them feel happy because you have so much Power to give happiness to others. The Fact is they LIKED you, that's why they did what they did, they didn't throw stones at you, they wanted to touch you. If you go to another Country where there is no White People often the Children will act the same way, they are so in Awe of you they just want to touch you. This is not an act of Hate, it is an act of Admiration and in some cases curiosity. A Gopnik might be doing it just to see what you do, a Gopnitza would probably kick him in the balls then they might date later. 😁 So my Point is YOU determine what everything means. Everything. The clothes, the Acts, the way people respond to you, YOU determine what it all means, and that's YOUR POWER. That's where it comes from. If you let everything Bother you,....it WILL, if you let others Control you,....THEY WILL. 🖤

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles Год назад +4

      Such an awful suggestion. Is this what you think of men who grabbed your penis in public? Good it works for you.
      I’m in peace with my past and have transformed the experienced I got.

  • @Nike-sx4hf
    @Nike-sx4hf Год назад

    Can I send u a gift?

  • @rolfmuller6721
    @rolfmuller6721 Год назад

    Thank You for your honest thoughts and insight views You give ti us!
    I am fascinated of femdom and got menber in a lokal dating-platform.
    And I saw how many, very different kinds of "femdom" there are!
    Now I have to find a femdom-queen, who fits into my also very special personality! And for reaching that goal, I started chating with some ladies. Another difficulty lies in the fact, that I'm married.
    My wife is very conservative and traditional. Her kind of matriarchy reigns in the house, that she wants to keep clean and orderly.
    It's a kind of "hygiene-terror", and I have to follow complicated rules and to wash my hands every second minute...
    What I want to say with this. I like the fact, that my wife is dominating me. But I can imagine sexier ways of dominating me.
    And that's what I want to find out there, to develop and experience with a "real femdom"!
    As long as I am not successefull in my search, i have no problems with my wife, because I continue to behave "clean and proper".
    But if one of the femdom-ladies out there really gets interested in me and also gets "hot", I would have to say "B" after "A".
    And this situation wouldn't be comfortable. But I think, that it's unevitable for me, to go for it!
    Allthough I would really get enslaved, I would get my freedom! Very strange, but that's like it is...

  • @rickydaum3818
    @rickydaum3818 Год назад

    You are a beautiful Goddess and I love you 💕

  • @L_Angela
    @L_Angela 23 дня назад

    I'm Polish and a lot of things you said hit deep

  • @akashicrose5551
    @akashicrose5551 8 месяцев назад

    You have two years experience and you only do findomme? That's kind of what I got.. do you have experience in mentorship for a period of time? Ive been a pro domme for five years now and it took me a long time to practice enough to even start taking money from clients. Being a domme isn't just about being confident and knowing what you want. These are people you are influencing on a subconscious level. I would study more, especially about kinks since you seem to not have any experience in knowing about any of them. Alot of your clients will want to talk about these things, especially if you are teaching and training them.

  • @ThePrincessMikiAoki
    @ThePrincessMikiAoki Год назад

    You are very inspirational wow😅😇