It is like everything one does. It is moderation in everything you do. Example: TAKE YOUR VITAMINS and Supplements. The more you take the better you will be, right?
@pendafen7405 Uff, i can't really remember if I was referring to anything specific in this video, but the ones that come to mind and are in my kindle from that period😅: - Daring greatly by Brene Brown - Limitless by Jim Kwik - PSI by Eros (no kindle version) - Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver (it is more 'spiritual' if i remember correctly) Let me know if you read any of these and how it went!🤗
As a pro tarot reader. Never, ever, trust a person who tells you about your future as if it is set in stone. You can never know a person's future 100 precent. It changes. Even palm readers can't read your future, as even your palms change . Sigh
The only one that can really know your future is God…our creator! I became addicted to tarot and my life fell apart but I’m slowly ending my tarot addiction and trusting that God has a plan for my life and it will be revealed as he wants me to see it. Tarot will destroy your life!
Telling them anything about the future is just narcissistic usually. Most Tarot card readers are just narcissist who have an opinion on what they think you should do in your life.. and they flip cards sometimes too
@@RandomPerson28337 My future has been predicted about 1,000 times in these readings but ironically, it’s always what happened in the past. I found the readings go on loops and it’s always about the past.
I'm about to burn mine and the rest of the items that were purchased right along with my decks. I don't want to pass off anything to someone else, when i started having bad dreams and other strange occurrences happening in my life.
The funny thing is if a wrong person enters in your life a tarot reading can claim that person as your past life lover, a soul mate, or can claim that we are on a twin flame journey, even when that person is destroying you bit by bit😂
Exactly!! Sometimes shitty people are just that, and we shouldn't be looking for hidden meanings or ulterior reasons. A person treating you poorly should be reason enough to get them out of your life, who cares if in the 5D you're some kind of lovers, here and now is what matters the most. I've learned that the hard way.
RIGHT! I remember this big youtuber who used to be Stargirl the practical witch, but she changed her channel name to anita something. ANYWAY, I remember her saying on 3 different occasions "this is my twin flame" "oh it turns out that wasn't my twin flame I guess, that was a disaster." "oh that was a false twin flame." It was as hilarious as it was catastrophic lmao. Like BRUH! How do you get yourself to that point?!
Hilarious! You nailed it! Online Tarot readings deliver a nonstop, refreshed daily, version of a lottery ticket. Anyone vulnerable and looking for hope and emotional pain relief can fall victim to this parade of entertainment made to keep you watching and believing. Don't waste your time. Use that time for actual self-love, to find new love, a different job, and a hundred other things.
You are giving your power away to someone else when you watch this tarot videos. I was addicted to them, I would watch those videos for hours, during and after work, I was paying no attention to others around me and even to myself, just binge watching it, crying if it said something extremely negative and not quite believing if it said something really positive. I started to limit myself to two videos a day and then I started doing meditation everyday and forgetting about the tarot videos. Last time I did one of those "pick a card" on Instagram it made me angry because it said some person was too proud to talk to me or something 😂 And I was like, why would I give this shite the power again to ruin my day? Yikes.
100%. It was the same for me at one point. It controlled everything. It sounds dramatic, but who has been through ti, knows😁 hopefully more people that feel the same, find ways to get out of it. Thank you for sharing your experience❤
@@insightsbyv What really upsets me about this is that some of them are making so much money that they stop doing personal readings altogether because they live off social media. And they cater to people who are deeply wounded and need actual therapy instead of tarot. For example: If you have an abandonment wound (as in, your mom, dad or a caregiver left you as a child) then a breakup is going to be extremely painful, because it brings back the pain of a loved one leaving you. And then, they promise that your ex is coming back and you get hooked on the videos from several different people saying the exact same thing and keeping yourself in a state of delusion and not really healing or even really processing what has happened. Or, if you have a rejection wound because other children bullied you or your parents were intentionally or unintentionally mean, or simply did not really want a child, you will be interested in people who do not want to be with you and simply prefer other people. But instead of working on that part of yourself that is unhealed, you go watch the fortune tellers that all say the same thing: he/she is with someone else but they love you and they know that they messed up, their partner is karmic, he/she is your soulmate/twin flame and you are "in separation" because part of the "journey" is being ignored and flat out rejected by someone who has undying love for you. Sorry, what?.
@@Fun.in.Bogota right?! I used to have a Clairvoyant friend and she hinted at all of this stuff with my twin rejecting me and said "why do I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me?" 🙄 And when I figured out I was still supposed to end up with him after he leaves the karmic?! I was pissed and yelled at her on the phone. I don't want his ass after he chose another woman over me and rubbed it in my face! I don't care if he loves her or not. And the Clairvoyant's reaction to me on the phone when I yelled at her saying "He expects me to welcome him back with open arms after all of this?! I'm not." And she's like, "Life isn't fair Jenna. Figure it out." And just left the conversation. Like oh hell no! I'm not accepting a narcissist back into my life who was manipulative and chose someone else. I don't care if he comes back 5 years from now. I still hold resentment and have nothing nice to say. I'm not accepting him back and don't care if he's a twin flame. I'm tired of tarot readings and clairvoyants telling me my future. It makes me feel powerless, like I have no choice but to end up with a narcissist who chose another woman, or a soulmate who will cheat on me. It's annoying and would drive anyone into a state of depression.
@@jennaprovenzale254 I think we as an spiritual community need to forget about the concept of twin flames completely. Most people describe different states of pain, attachment, delusion, denial and limerence and it is more like a mental health crisis. Someone not caring about you or your feelings is not okay and it's not like they just can waltz back into your life after not giving a rat's ass for a long time or hurting your feelings on purpose. Life can separate two lovers but love is kind and empathetic. You don't put a person you love in this situation. There are people who are "twin flame coaches" for a living. Really? So they pay their bills by saying that everyone's ex and everyone's crush is a "twin flame"? If your soul is telling you that this person is not for you, please listen to yourself first. Let your intuition be your voice and your guide. And yes, your anger is here for something. It is here to protect you, to demand that you set some boundaries. It is telling you that you are worth the respect, the loyalty, the love. You are worth the guy who will chose you but first, chose yourself. Try to clean your energy from your ex, tarot readers and other sources of negativity.
Don’t forget about the twin flame and soulmate false narrative. Ive been where you’re talking about and it’s taken several years but I’m slowly breaking free from tarot and I’m finally feeling peace without it.
I am obsessed with tarot readings…going crazy over it. It leads to overthinking, it helps you feel good but it also lead you into depression loop. What gonna happen? What is he thinking? All shit..you stray from reality and there you go.. Now, I really want to stop this addiction
I understand. Step by step. And for me the first step was making my day 'busy' in a way by following a routine. Just to help me stay away from it at least one part of the day.. and then i needed it less and less. You can do it❤
Well, these readings did help me a lot. 8 months ago I was watching readings that would tell me that I would have a career as a comedian. And now, I am an actress, I am actually paid to play in movies and commercials in my country. I am so happy about my career. I was unemployed at the time.
To be totally transparent, it did confuse me a lot in my love life. But now I know that at the end of the day, I am in control of my choices and decisions. I believe that I have enough discernment to know when a reading is helpful or not. I don’t take it as the ultimate truth, I am the captain of my ship.
Well said. Congrats on your success🥳 The challenge with readings becomes when you cannot find the trust in your own decisions, and in moments of hurt, you just need someone to help you see the good. And sometimes it turns into dependency on that reassurance. Which then, in my case, I had to work on developing the self trust and to relay on myself again.
@Vanessa Petralito I think the fact that it's a collective reading on RUclips play quite big part in the situation too. I read tarot for myself and my cards actually tell me how things truly are, for example: if I watch a reading and I'm told about some sort of new opportunity or breakthrough or income , because that's how the reader sees the cards, for me it is half " true" because the breakthrough, the change , the " affluence " happens in a different part of my life , such as a new opportunity to join a course and learn something I always wanted, a breakthrough in terms of a mental issue that was bugging me and I didn't understand why, or on a emotional level where I get to heal something from my past. Additionally, I observed that not every reading a reader posts has to resonate and you don't have to watch everything that reader posts.
I found this taro reading in very dark time, I was scared at first then slowly started to watch and believe it gave me the scariest things about the shits going around me for years. It gave me the answer to all my question I had in my mind since my childhood. Things became crystal clear for me and it showed me who are the people I am dealing with. It actually helped me immensely to come out of the darkness. But then later as I know lot of things I started to isolate myself from people. After that I realized too much information about a thing or a person is also makes me confined to my small world and it made me to cut off people and take solo journey for specific time. Gradually I began to addict to this taro reading like I am just bored and couldn't spend an hour without listening to it just like a drug. It made me to create scenarios and compare real life things with what was predicted and felt at a point I am making wrong moves. Later I realized nothing is moving in my life probably because I am constantly getting predictions and expecting them to happen. It made me like I am a loser. So now I am practicing my self to scroll down the taro videos and just reading the title of the video I tell myself something opposite like..”yeah it was said two years ago and still am waiting for that”. I am sure I can eliminate this habit slowly and steadily. 🙏
Looking at tarot videos made me not sleep for days and not knowing what to think or trust I was overthinking and everything it really drained my energy
I went through a really bad phase of RUclips tarot videos. But for me it was mostly the love readings. I was out of my first serious relationship and it was hard and I felt lonely and developed crushes on pretty unsavory people or people who just didn't like me back and of course readers doing general readings on RUclips don't want to tell thousands of people that their love interest doesn't like them back or isn't good for them. They tell people what they want to hear and what if they make someone who's in a healthy relationship second guess themselves? So I kept hearing "oh you found your soul mate and they are SUPER into you. The divine has brought you together and they are gonna tell you how they feel VERY soon!" When in reality all the guys I was crushing on either didn't like me back or weren't good for me. It was an obsession. I'd watch hours of videos a day sometimes. And dream about these unavailable men. It was torture. I broke out of it because I finally got a bf who turned out to be really abusive and I decided RUclips general readings were mostly garbage. And this whole time I had MULTIPLE tarot decks that I just didn't use because it felt like too much of a chore and I think I secretly knew they'd tell me the truth I didn't want to hear. Just do readings for yourself or get a personal reading from a good reader if you can afford it. Or talk to your friends/family. Vent to them. Take their advice if you wish.
Omg same here. I watched tarot for a while and then I met someone. Steangelt enough he had physicial similarities just like tarot told me! Strange. He was a diagnosed sociopath and eventually tried to abuse me. I've heard about opening dark portals or inviting demons so..who knows....😊
@@M0101EPyess when you are open to tarot readings , you make contract with demons that are watching what you doing so the witch or reader gets ur personal informations
I ve been there, since I am young girl , I was doing, tarots never got me anywhere!! but more depression, give you hope and if things does not happen then you become sad, it is hard to stop it , but my friends story helped me to stop... my fiends always paid for tatos and tarot readers always said that her man will come , just wait, be patient, he loves you too etc. evetyhting she wants to hear, after 2 years later another reader said that do not wait, he will not come!! my friend passed out, couldnt believe that he wont be coming.... she was sooo shock.. IT WAS SOO HARSH TO LEARN THAT IT WAS ALL ILLUSION AND WASTED 2 YEARS!!..... her story helped me to stop it too, I had lots of experience anyway , I know that tarots were not fixing things, only gives you hope so you happy after tarot but it is like alchol or drug, keeps you happy for a few hours or day then if nothing change you need to hear again so you can be high!! but I can not waste my beautiful life for illusions...... maybe it is good that he doesnt come back
If it's 'meant', he'll come back. But in the meantime, let's focus on new experiences and learning what we actually want. And what kind of relationships - maybe if he comes back, it's not a good fit for who you became focusing on yourself 😉
So true! It helps until it no longer helps.. I guess that is everything in life, though. Tools to help can be turned into weapons that hurt. Thank you for this video. ❤ beautiful 🤩
I wasted three years stuck on a push and pull relationship with an unavailable man, all because I trusted blindly on the cards instead of looking at was right in front of me. Every reading said we were twin flames and soulmates and stuff, that our distance was a karmic lesson for us to be together and happy, that our union was divinely guided.... That the universe was preparing the perfect time for us to be together, that he was healing his karma and I just needed to be this beam of light to help him.... All I had to do was open myself and raise my vibration to attract our union faster.... I was sure we were soulmates in the multiverse who were preparing to be together and through visualization I could bring that reality from the 5D into this 3D..... Goes without saying that I lived in denial, he never really was that into me and I was just delusional. If I had been strong enough to SEE and ACCEPT what was right in front of me, I would have let go of that situation so much faster, but I was too eager to live in the fantasy, I was addicted to it and Pick a Card tarot readings on youtube only fed that delusion. Through mediation and Yoga I'm now learning to accept and see what is, and to use my own power to act and live according to my power. I'm not denying a spiritual or mystical dimension of things, but I thing "spiritual" people tend to look to eager into that stuff as a way to escape reality, the excuse of being "different" and "spiritual" is just a way to avoid living life responsibly and, most of the time, being a decent human being. Sometimes "spiritual stuff" becomes only just an easy and lazy way out of reality. Right now I'm focusing my energy on practices and philosophies that feed from inner power and action. Huna, Zazen Meditation, Yoga, Ho'oponopono, Estoicism, all aim to accept and act upon your reality through inner power. I mean honestly, who cares if you're a star seed, and indigo child, a 5D being, or Merlin's pupil in the astral realm, if in the here and now you're simply a shitty and dysfunctional human being. Meditations to evolve to the 5D and communicate with arthurian celestial beings are meaningless if you're not acting here and now to be a human being with a practical and realistic sense of morality, duty, brotherhood and love, with actual and tangible actions. The first principle of Huna is what got me out of the hole: "The moment of power is now" No dreaming, no wandering away in fantasies, hopes or longings, no visualizations, no waiting for the right time, just know what is and act according to it with a sense of compassion, love and respect.
ive successfully fucked up many otherwise potentially good days and nights for myself by doing tarot readings on apps on my phone and feaking out about whether i am making the 'right choice'. tonight i drew a card that i took as a confirmation that I 'should' go to this party i was thinking about going to, but felt resistant the whole night in a state of indecision because im actually quite tired and have been enjoying my alone time today, simply put i dont want to go face the music tonight, i didnt feel like it. but i kept pulling cards about it in my lack of self-trust and went into a tail spin - all of a suddent i was believing that it was a destined event and that if i didnt go i was fucking up my destiny, i wouldnt meet my solemate or whoever i was meant to meet tonight and that they would suffer from not having met me when they were meant to. talk about terrible and totally unnecessary suffering, dreadful, and this has happened far too frequently for my liking. im doing a detox and getting rid of all divination tools and getting back to basics.
I have become a tarot addict and in my search to get off my tarot drug, I have found you. I was happier when someone wasn't telling me I just had to open my heart and abundance would come, and when it doesn't come, the only person to blame is ourselves. Great...more guilt and poor self-esteem! What we all forget when we watch a reading is that we all have "free will" which means in the end we all have to make our own choices. So this is my first day without tarot, I wonder how long I will last?!
I ve been there, since I am young girl , I was doing, tarots never got me anywhere!! but more depression, give you hope and if things does not happen then you become sad, it is hard to stop it , but my friends story helped me to stop... my fiends always paid for tatos and tarot readers always said that her man will come , just wait, be patient, he loves you too etc. evetyhting she wants to hear, after 2 years later another reader said that do not wait, he will not come!! my friend passed out, couldnt believe that he wont be coming.... she was sooo shock.. IT WAS SOO HARSH TO LEARN THAT IT WAS ALL ILLUSION AND WASTED 2 YEARS!!..... her story helped me to stop it too, I had lots of experience anyway , I know that tarots were not fixing things, only gives you hope so you happy after tarot but it is like alchol or drug, keeps you happy for a few hours or day then if nothing change you need to hear again so you can be high!! but I can not waste my beautiful life for illusions...... maybe it is good that he doesnt come back
I lost a lot of interest in getting personal readings when a reader told me to break up with someone. I felt like I was being forced to do something I didn't want to do. And those general pick-a-card readings can be so inaccurate. I still love the tarot for the art though. And I try to use the cards for self-development and not for predictions. I've stopped paying for readings now and just follow my heart and what I feel is right. The only way to learn is by experiencing life. I love your message about self-trust!
Tarot card helped me a lot. But I took care of the fact that it does not become an addiction. It actually helped me build trust within me and see the world from a higher perspective. And I'm surely not addicted to it. The only thing I was ever addicted to is reading books.I don't think it's anything alarming though.
That's awesome! Yeah, the problem is when one gets too addicted to it😅 But for sure, it helped me also, and I used it on my own for only that reason (self-growth), but I guess at one point I didn't need that either. Now I try leaning into life and getting lessons from there. Which works for me better😊
Its a fun mental exercise of running scenarios for sure. Its kind of like reading books, but its written out as it goes. I like it for self reflection instead of fortune telling.
😅😅😅 a 1:30 got me. I was addicted to tarot reading. Just recently I stopped cold turkey. I'm getting tempted everyday to click on a video because it shows up on my RUclips feed. Lol it's hard. Now I tell youtube I'm not interested everytime tarot video shows up
That's what i did also. Every time a video would show, I'd click 'not interested' or 'don't recommend channel'. It helped for sure! Then it switched to drama channels, but I managed to pull myself out of that one also (kind of, it's my guilty pleasure)😂
It's kind of a relief to see so many are realizing the truth about Tarot and how destructive in can be to get hooked on it. I still watch but significantly trying to cut back. For the most part it's an ego boost for me to get my day going. But after so long it becomes a distraction for hours of the day just to keep from feeling low or feeling pain.
@@insightsbyv I will say though that I do think there is some truth to tarot though... It's just really strange though. Because the same cards show up for me through various different readers. I just know that nothing will change if I don't change something or make some move that says I want something else. But in general, watching tarot constantly doesn't change anything - that much I know...
Important perspective! I think part of the problem is there are many readers who are manipulative and who do not have the right intentions. Tarot can be addictive even when everyone is in their integrity, but it makes it worse when readers are purposely trying to peddle false hope and click bait. Tarot requires a high level of discernment. It is a tool that can be used to help or to harm. And it's a powerful tool so must be wielded with absolutely wisdom, self awareness, and right intention.
@@sillybean5658 Yes! Many of them also do astrology and aren't strictly tarot, which could be a green flag when considering other readers in the future. @ReydiantReality @Gemstonetarot @WatchNatalee @BOMISpirit @caistrology @Sarah_Vrba
Deleting & Reposting my comment bc a random tarot reader decided to comment under it which is ironic and annoying, almost predatory as this video is about tarot addiction: Thank you. It's not even enjoyable anymore and people don't take this addiction seriously. I really want to stop and create/live my own life. 💔🥺
Tarot reading is not to see what will happen in the future, but to reflect what is currently going on in your life to make a conscious choice with the right will. The act taken with the right intention for the highest good for all will always bring a satisfaction that is filled with a reward. The question is what do you want as a reward for a good deed? Reflect on this too, because the ego wants to possess material or another free spirit as a reward.
Good point. It turns south when one, even when knowing what will be the right action, is not ready to act upon it. Not being ready or having a limiting belief that prevents you to go for it. And then you keep searching for more and more.. But the day comes, when you need to face it and do the work needed to be happy and fulfilled.
But even that is whishy washy and dangerous, because tarot may as well lead you to a completely wrong reading of what's really going on in your life right now. It's an easy and lazy way out, when you should be consciously seeing and paying attention to what is right in front of you, and when in doubt, ask directly, why bother with tarot?
We all have the gift of discernment. Everyone should keep using this wisely for themselves. In some situations you cannot ask directly. Complex situations occur in life. ✨🌏💚
It was the same message from readers over and over "Your ships are coming in"..."that new job opportunity is right around the corner." After a month or so of waiting I realized this is like a carrot on a stick. Instead of watching tarot I could have been working making it all happen. I still use my pendulum at times because I am still learning to trust myself but no more waiting around.
Online it will always be the same message for a few reasons one is they actually are really reading their energy not yours lol other than that it's general and by that I mean it just uses basic information that everyone is going through. Most the time the group in reverse in readings is themselves 😂
I think the tarot side of RUclips can be really dangerous, especially for people who have addictive personalities. RUclips, in general, is already addicting so combining that with something that promises you answers and certainty can result in hours of scrolling/watching content. I am an example of this. In 2019 I was at a low point in my life, I started watching tarot on RUclips and i completely spiraled out of control. I was watching multiple different readings a day as well as looking up my horoscopes online. I felt so out of control and it was terrible.
for me it’s the fact that every reading suggest that things will happen for you without you having to work towards them. i mean it can happen, but constantly hearing that things are gonna just happen, that the person you want to be with will reach out for examples, kinda allows you to be “lazy”, just to sit and wait and most of the time it’s no good. the risk is being stock, doing nothing, hoping everything they said it’s just gonna come to you
Uff, I know the feeling.. It sticks with you for some time even when you stop. But the less you feed your mind with it, the less it controls your life until the day you are not in the grip anymore. And you can breath. But it's a process. Just don't give up.💪
I'm a Tarot reader myself and for me, the goal is to give people a sense of self-confidence. Before I learned how to read tarot, I was also a viewer of tarot readings. I especially watched them when things were going badly in my love life or if I was falling for somebody. I wanted to feel like I was wanted and loved regardless of how the person was acting and the readings provided that for me. Knowing I was loved gave me the self-confidence to walk away from love interests that weren't good for me. That is what a reading should achieve and that is my purpose as a reader. It's not about "predicting the future" and I find that to be somewhat insulting to tarot and its true purpose and beauty. It's there to remind you that you are loved and that you are an amazing person. If you build someone's self esteem they will take themselves out of negative situations. That's my take on it. You're not supposed to listen to a reading taking it as what is actually going to happen and it's not the tarot's fault that you take it that way. It's not the point and anyone who truly understands tarot will get that. I appreciate the video though and for trying to help those who might take it too seriously. In a way though, even the people who turned against tarot because of "things not coming true" have become empowered to make positive choices. Tarot wins in the end because again the goal is to empower you to take control. ;)
Very well said. It did it's job one way or another😁 I do believe that the growth happens when you are able to step away from it and work on further strengheting that confidence from within. The problem is, we always choose the easiest way and just listen to more and more hits of 'everything is OK', doesn't help if you don't build it yourself. For every 'bad situation' than we need reassurence from someone else we can do it. Tarot is a tool, not the solution, and that's what we are probably forgeting, when we get to 'deep'😅. Very much appreciated you're efforts to actually help those who need it and use tarot in a helathy way. Thank you for your comment.
I started noticing they all, basically, gave me the same reading - over and over and over. Didn’t matter what reader. It became so repetitive and redundant. However, it was a great way for me to developed an understanding of the different ways to read different cards, for my own personal learning (I like tarot for entertainment; though, whenever I read or even buy cards for friends, I always emphasize they are for entertainment and inspiration, ONLY; their own intuition ALWAYS needs to come first. Though, it’s always fun whenever I do a reading, how the cards consistently reflect what is going on in the life of whomever I am reading for, reflecting their own intuition. It can be a great way for people to learn to come to trust their own intuition. Which, is why I don’t watch readings or read for myself, hardly ever, anymore).
tarot was my last ray of hope but after realizing what a scam it was, i gave up. I gave up once and for all on my future and my dreams. I wish better luck to everyone else
@@DBrown-vg1fi i have seen some stuff about manifestation but i haven't tried anything. Is there a specific technique or something you would recommend?
@@mammonsama2113 for me writing down the things I want to manifest down under my notes on the phone under the word manifestations has worked for me or just saying in my head I want to manifest …..fill in blank
Tarot readers told me I’d finally have friends and be happy and that I’d have the best summer ever in 2022. They got new enough details right abt my past and current life so I believed it and was let down soooo badly. Nothing good ever happens and they’re just tricking
I never take them seriously anyway. I still watch them on occasion for entertaining purposes only. I never get carried away with it, like you did.. I read my own cards and ofcourse that’s more accurate and insightful than a generic one on RUclips. You need to use your own discernment, so it’s a good video for people who struggle with this and are giving away their own power! That’s not what tarot is meant for!
I agree fully! The experience I had doesn't mean that's how it is for everyone. Tarot can be very helpful, but for some (like me) it can be used as a tool to avoid showing up for yourself when you need to. And kind of just 'lean on tarot'.😅
I haven't watched the videos but reading the comments I very much agree. I found myself binge watching pick a card reading at the moments in my life when I felt the most hopeless. It made me feel like I was still in control because I now had an idea of what was gonna happen or how my life taking form. I was feeling so lost thatvI needed to belive those statements were true. Now I'm in a better place and I can be honest to myself. Most of the things I wanted to belive aren't more real than a fairytale. They can't set a destiny I haven't decided on. And if I decide my destiny, why do I need to hear it from someone else? I know who I am and where I'm going.
Tarot videos are for entertainment. I’s very easy to adapt our life circumstances to what the reader is saying because, since they’re doing a general reading, they mention general situations and concepts that we can relate to, so we have to be careful and evaluate if the reading is actually resonating with us.
I've read titles to readings saying someone close to you is dying someone hid a camera in your home, loads that are just around negativity and conflict it's shocking that there are people further along in a spiritual journey that have no care for anyone new to tarot who it would likely cause harm too, anything for more views or likes it seems. Tarot readings have become toxic to my being. And for a while harmed me in the sense that I was just reading negative nonsense by having a look at some readings. I totally agree with you.
It's rarely about what it does to you and always about what you do with it. You decide what you take from these readings and how much you trust your own judgement. There are also plenty of readers and not everyone is for you. 🙏
You know it’s all about perspective, from my own experience tarot has been one of the best tools for me to finally step into my power and to get me out of very dark times, giving me hope for the future in every reading that I watched. Of course if I am not aware that this is not reality and to get to that promising future I got to do the work myself, then in that way it can become counterproductive. Seeing this in a spiritual perspective, tarot is a prediction of the current energy I am in, the only person with the ability to shape and create current reality is oneself. Tarot is just a tool in order for me to manifest consciously what I want to bring into existence, If I am not aware of how manifestations works, first of all everything happens when is meant to happen not when I want it to, patience is key, if I am watching tarot readings and in the reading they keep telling me that certain things will happen but because I have not practiced enough faith and patience, i will get frustrated that they are not happening right now, then of course it can throw me into a dark place, but if I learn that thoughts and desires are powerful then I learn to have faith and get the inner knowing that eventually all of those things will happen. Once again tarot is just a tool, planting a seed in the subconscious maybe, but we are the ones creating reality.
Tarot can read your recent past or somewhat current energies which can be used as a direction moving forward but the cons are much more disastrous and dangerous. It addicting like a black hole . After watching for like 2 years in a hope of new beginnings, tarot always pointed out my narcissistic ex who i dont even want to think about and as per the tarot we have mutual love and i am waiting and praying for his comeback. Hell no.. not even in my distant dream i would ever want to re-live that nightmare which left me broken and took so much of hardwork to get passed that phase. As per tarot he has changed and realised my worth and his mistakes. But it never pointed that Meantime i have also realised my worth and want to move on with these past energies. Its triggering to the point of anger, frustration and disappointment as long as you keep watching. One more thing i have realised overtime that tarot tags all of the past exs as either soulmate or twinflame which go back to karmic and then catalyst. Its a vicious cycle.
Exactly that! And then you also get the black magic being done on you type of readings 😂 bc you moved on.. lol but have moved on in life regardless of tarot telling us we are moving on. It's a mind trap to keep viewers stuck forever feeding these readers our time and energy.. if past people 💯 don't affect you, then surely repeated reports of offences will. Or perhaps fear, last resort. If nothing works then let's tell them what these demons will do to them!
They have come true though so long as you’re actually grounded and allowing things to come in. Some readings did warn me about the signs or gave me confirmations from the signs I was seeing which was crazy
This was so well said! It is so easy to get lost in the wormhole. Thank you for sharing your perspective. You’re beautiful, this is funny, and helpful 💞
Wow thank you so much for this explanation! It has really blessed me. No wonder Gds word commands to stay away from it, I thought it was just innocent entertainment because “I knew it wasn’t real” but now I understand what’s actually going on and how damaging it is. Wow Praise Gd! No more tarot Ill take my reality raw thank you!
I like watching the Twin Flame tarot reading by one particular reader on RUclips because my Twin Flame is deceased and I like to get communication confirmations. I don’t watch tarot for my future or for decisions. I also pray for confirmations from Heaven. I love your tactics! You’re freaking HILARIOUS 😂🙌🏻
I think tarot is good to sift through unclear thoughts and help you identify how you feel about what is being said so you start to feel more clear on what you feel. Watch less of readings that are purely predictive and focused on the other person. If you watch a reading and something triggers or resonates it's good to look at that to know yourself more. And when you are ready build your own mindfulness practice which could be with your own tarot deck or other non tarot means.
I've been watching tarot readings on and off for a few years now and at some point even I felt so addicted to watching them. But later i learnt how to do tarot for myself, and currently I'm in the process of creating healthy boundaries, how much is okay to rely on the messages, not putting out a picture that would get people addicted lol. I mostly just drop some general readings here and there and trying to see how can I help my community by putting out non-addictive, helping and healing form of content. Maybe I can bring some change in the community but it's a long way to go and me figuring out how exactly will I help people with tarot 😂 here's hoping for the best 🤞💜 great insight!!! 💛💛
That is amazing ❤ And yes, if there is a way to share talent and gifts in a way that doesn't contribute to becoming even more destructive, tarot can be very helpful. Thank you🤗
woah i loved the way you explained everything: this felt like a crisp fresh new perspective on a VERY real problem alot of us spiritual people have on this journey
Doing your own readings >>>> It's like connecting with your subconscious. I feel like the meaning you draw for each card and what it means on connection to your situation says alot about what you're thinking and feeling in that moment. I still do my own readings and it's like a guide to get the right answers from my subconscious and to my conscious mind. That's how I see it anyway.
I’m currently in a shit situation so tarot actually helps, because even if it’s a lie, they tell me the things I can’t say to myself. It feels comfortable to have a little hope 😌
100%, it was the same for me. In case you haven't watched part 2, I go deeper into some 'traps' that happened to me and maybe could support you in not going in the same direction (when it's not helpful anymore). Good luck!🤗
@@user-os5xg2co8u Part two explains a bit better, if you're interested, but in short how I see it is..when you hear a reader saying things will get better (you'll have a good job or relationship etc,) it's not a lie. Things in 90% get better, tarot or no tarot, specially if you want it to. You find a way. Tarot can help you see that specially if you struggle to believe it yourself. The challenge becomes, when you relay on tarot, that things will get better and not on yourself. Instead of knowing and trusting yourself you can move forward, you need confirmation from tarot, that what you're doing is right. Which can be damaging, as you are building trust outside yourself. Hope it gives some more calrity. Good luck with everything!
These tarot readings video's appeared. And after a week or so my algorithm was full with it. I watched them sometimes when I was bored. And they are always the same. Always. I'm gonna be verry rich, and I'm a chosen one, a demon slayer. And people are getting there karma. Even secret organisations are watching me because I'm gonna change the world. Yes I'm not getting a good job. No I'm gonna change the whole world. I even have a twin flame who's madly in love with me but can't come because of a third party. If you are reading this and are just as special as me, let me know. We will save the world togheter. The Annunaki will be verry proud of us. 🤣😂😁
Thank you for this… i was literally here in bed sulking because i thought that all the hard work im putting into my caree isnt going to happen until way later on in life because of a few readings i’d just done… i felt sad because i felt like i still had no control of my life no matter what i do. Coming from a very toxic household and never have had a successful relationship in my life or any at all for that matter I’d look towards these readings as a way to feel reassured that my life “will get better” and yet nothing happens, no love interest, no job opportunities. I was starting to feel like I’m just doomed for life… so thank you for reminding me that I just need to build the trust within and I have control over my own life and what I do with it. I can achieve success, no matter how ridiculously successful i want to become, it can and will happen with my own willingness. Damn this video was a good wakeup call
THIS! You put it so well! The belief of things only happening in the future and you not having control of today. I love this. Thank you for your comment❤ You got this!💪
@@insightsbyv no, Thank YOU for making something click within me, making me realize I’m not the only person who got stuck in this cycle! And for that I’m forever grateful ♥️
I’m glad I stumbled upon this video, I really needed to hear this. I try to be present, but I have become obsessed with the videos, from two readers in particular. I don’t admonish those readers (they seem like great people who genuinely want to help) or any readers in general, but I can’t let go of outcomes, unless I literally let go of their outcomes if that makes sense. I still believe in spirituality with the angel numbers I keep seeing, but its a path only I can walk, and individual thing. The TF readings were driving me crazy.
*Desires to find a pick a card reading... and finds this instead* ... just the message I needed to hear. Haha 🙃 It's time to build that self trust, to self reassure through difficult times, instead of seeking someone else to do it for me
no lie, the tarot readings helped me so much. what i couldnt provide for myself, the readings and the readers did. but as i went down that path, I also would find videos such as these and I watched one first thing, before I even got into the tarot readings. I believe there is huge value in both. At the time, the readings were so helpful to me. and as i built myself up, videos much like this one, would be the next gateway to pass through, the next step towards even more self growth….and when you get here….you’ll soon start to provide for yourself what the tarot readings gave you.
delays with having breakthroughs because of tarot card additiction, it happened to me. You still can get addicted pulling cards for yourself, I know personally. I only allow myself to use ang kind of cards once a week, to protect my faith in my natural psychic abilities and faith in God.
Try to limit it to like, two videos per day, read, do yoga, meditation, affirmations, shadow work, walk barefoot on grass, hug trees, burn incense and other spiritual practices instead of tarot and rituals. In my experience, neither is good for mental health
I don't have this problem with the videos. I used them for confirmation from the universe just to show me that I'm not alone and to help me with my skepticism. But you just help me understand something very important about why I don't read for myself and now I'm going to start reading for myself
Tarot is addictive i guess becoz it gives comfort and gives purpose to unexplainable situations in life. I got into Tarot because church or religious ideas were not working in life. Thanks for sharing your story and testimony to get free from tarot by just start living, making friends and enjoy life!
i am so sick of watching tarot readings now its taking me nowehere so i have finally decided to stop watching reading n wat is meant for me will happen naturally all they say is oh love is blocked coz ur not healed focus on yourself i know one thing if a person likes u will show intrest if they dont they will not its either yes or no but tarot reader are like oh the love is so deep that they ran away 😅
I went to a tarot reader around 12 years ago...who told me that my cards were all over the place, as I had had a mental breakdown at that time ..she said that the reading could be very different in a weeks time...or even tomorrow...funnily enough part of the reason for my breakdown was that I had been looking up tarot online and from a friend.. and it really messed with my thinking...I felt so powerless...these things should be handled with extreme caution...they take away your power.Full stop.🚫
Balance. I've been where you've been and I balanced it out with work and pleasure without the cards. My advice for people who want to dive in tarot is always to read them yourselves! There is no wrong or right way to read the cards, trust your intuition and read for, to yourself, that's an amazing way to train listening to your intuition. When someone else reads the cards for you, you guessed it, it's just not the same. Nice video!
I love putting them on in the background while i sleep it started with me being obsessed but through wisdom and a reading or two telling me to read my own cards i now only really put them on to see peoples clairvoyant gifts and just having something relaxing to help me sleep
Tarots cards reading are misleading majority of that time, I am tarot enthusiast, Tarot is the tool I use when I am feeling energy on a high vibrational level. As an empath Tarot cards is all based on energies and current energies not for predictioning the future. Please don't rely on them for future readings, it's not meant for predictions and that is where you should be aware of psychic dependency that leads to trouble. Psychic readings maybe fun for it's time, but it leads to psychic addictions. Nothing is set in stone in life, as a warning be aware of your own energies and those around you. The art of divination takes work and discernment is need. Please dont work with divination if you become dependent on it for consistent readings, it's not healthy.
Thankyou you gave me an idea of living the life at full potential, by breaking the tarot illusion. I suffered a lot by seeing tarot videos. Your each and every statement is true. I lost last love of my life. I couldn't say her anything because tarot suggested me to do some inner work and healing. She left and I stood there crying and regrating.
Tarot readers always have assumptions about your life, how and who you are, who you are meant to be, what your true self or selves look like and what not true selves are... and on the basis of their own beliefs about that, which are different from tarot reader to tarot reader, they suck you into a loophole, they begin to preach through reading tarot cards to you about your life situations, that they begin to talk in the readings, is like you are troubled or something because you don't think certain way or do things per this new age agenda, instead of simply just telling you what the situation is and you do it how you know the best is and what your desires are, not what they assume or believe your true self and desires are and how otherwise you get everything bad coming to you, is a subtle manipulation. And this made me dislike tarot very much, tarot was made to make your life better, you feel better and see how to improve situation, and not to make you feel bad due to bad perspective tarot readers have about you and how you need to heal something that you don't need to, they just do that for attention and views... If you watch it, watch it detached or with a pinch of salt because you have this pseudo spiritual christian people, who know what God and cards want for you in life but God already gave you in life what you need to make somethign out of it. Is like tarot readers are not two faced but three faced, is a shady business really.
Its not just tarot. Also all the self help videos can mix you up and the law of attraction. You need to have your own opinion. We are still too new to managing youtube access.
Yess!! Very true. I had my ups and downs also with self-help. But like you said, having our own opinion has to be the lead. A pool of information we are getting, while being 'wired to have instructions' is a tricky combination.
First accept the situation you are in and the fact that there are many struggling in the same way - there is nothing wrong with you; it's easy to become dependent on guidance and reassurance by others. Then accept that you need to work on your self-trust and that it starts one day, or one hour at a time. Decide you want better for yourself and develop the skills to get there - for example, journaling (what are you afraid off, what is keeping you stuck) and replace watching or seeking tarot guidance with something else (reading, learning about the things you are struggling with, talk to someone, do some activity and maybe listen to something else; podcasts, story times etc). You'll get through this. It will take a little bit of effort at the beginning, but you'll get there, look back and feel like that was just "an experience at one point of your life" 😉 You got this🤗
@@insightsbyv thank you so much you guide me so beautifully ❤️i will follow you and your guidance from today and will work on myself I will listen on my intuition and gut feeling instead of tarot ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I will greatful for you ma'am ❤️ ❤️ tnx a lot for your valuable guidance lots of love from india ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Paranoia is the exact word!!!!! Without letting go of a sense of the spiritual, I acknowledge that things like tarot leave you in a state of constant paranoia about everything. Sometimes, most of the times, things don't have a hidden ulterior meaning. Sometimes, shit is just shit and it's up to you to move away from it.
I am into tarot from past 10 years and i have read tons of books on these as well. Tarot is a tool for guidance not for prediction this is said by various top notch tarotists around the globe. You have every right to express your opinion but the truth is you don't know anything about tarot. Instead of blaming cards why don't you blame your own behaviour issues and patterns. I know a lot of fake tarot readers are out there who wants us to depend on them for juicy details. But be clear in this tarot works on the concept ofenergy. If you are meant to have greatness and you ain't putting effort you won't get anything. These cards are so relatable to Cabala,psychology,numerology,astrology and all the religious teachings across the world. I am a counselling psychologist too so i can assure that these cards can hel you alot only if you know how to use them. I am sorry you met crappy readers and you never learnt the truth about tarot and how our mind works.
Thank you for your comment, and I actually don't disagree. Maybe it wasn't clear in the video, but I most definitely know my responsibility in the matter and do not blame the cards. As you said, there might be readers out there that don't have good intentions, but at the end, in my personal opinion, it comes down to the relationship and trust we have within ourselves. I've actually made a follow up video (it's being uploaded as I comment), where I go deeper into the potential reasons why one can get addicted to tarot; It gives a bit more perspective on the responsibility we have.
And the winner for who gut butt hurt is.... Pooja Sharma. You really got so offended that needed to attack the youtuber, I wouldn't trust your counseling for a bit if you are so quick at pointing fingers just to defend your point of view. I wonder if you don't do more harm than good to your patients XD
You are absolutely correct Can you give me some guidance how to use u tube tarot readings , general reading of u tube vedios , how to take advantage from this u tube tarots vedios in our life please help me guide me
Hi there! Part 2: Who's to blame? (the why behind tarot addiction) ruclips.net/video/ZZxID9l1hU0/видео.html
It is like everything one does. It is moderation in everything you do.
Example: TAKE YOUR VITAMINS and Supplements.
The more you take the better you will be, right?
The books you mentioned on vulnerability and self-trust--could you please share the titles/authors?🙏
@pendafen7405 Uff, i can't really remember if I was referring to anything specific in this video, but the ones that come to mind and are in my kindle from that period😅:
- Daring greatly by Brene Brown
- Limitless by Jim Kwik
- PSI by Eros (no kindle version)
- Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver (it is more 'spiritual' if i remember correctly)
Let me know if you read any of these and how it went!🤗
@@insightsbyv thank you so much Queen, I really appreciate the time you took to look that up🤩and yes I will read and report back if they work out!🤗
As a pro tarot reader. Never, ever, trust a person who tells you about your future as if it is set in stone. You can never know a person's future 100 precent. It changes. Even palm readers can't read your future, as even your palms change . Sigh
The only one that can really know your future is God…our creator! I became addicted to tarot and my life fell apart but I’m slowly ending my tarot addiction and trusting that God has a plan for my life and it will be revealed as he wants me to see it. Tarot will destroy your life!
So what's the point of being a reader if you can't predict the future with 100% accuracy?
Telling them anything about the future is just narcissistic usually. Most Tarot card readers are just narcissist who have an opinion on what they think you should do in your life.. and they flip cards sometimes too
@@RandomPerson28337 My future has been predicted about 1,000 times in these readings but ironically, it’s always what happened in the past. I found the readings go on loops and it’s always about the past.
@@Tarotainment some of them think they’re God. I especially love the karmic readers and The DF and DM and all that crap!
I'm selling all of my cards and never going back to reading again❤
I'm about to burn mine and the rest of the items that were purchased right along with my decks. I don't want to pass off anything to someone else, when i started having bad dreams and other strange occurrences happening in my life.
The funny thing is if a wrong person enters in your life a tarot reading can claim that person as your past life lover, a soul mate, or can claim that we are on a twin flame journey, even when that person is destroying you bit by bit😂
Awful ❤
Exactly
Exactly!! Sometimes shitty people are just that, and we shouldn't be looking for hidden meanings or ulterior reasons. A person treating you poorly should be reason enough to get them out of your life, who cares if in the 5D you're some kind of lovers, here and now is what matters the most. I've learned that the hard way.
RIGHT! I remember this big youtuber who used to be Stargirl the practical witch, but she changed her channel name to anita something. ANYWAY, I remember her saying on 3 different occasions "this is my twin flame" "oh it turns out that wasn't my twin flame I guess, that was a disaster." "oh that was a false twin flame." It was as hilarious as it was catastrophic lmao. Like BRUH! How do you get yourself to that point?!
Lol
Hilarious! You nailed it! Online Tarot readings deliver a nonstop, refreshed daily, version of a lottery ticket. Anyone vulnerable and looking for hope and emotional pain relief can fall victim to this parade of entertainment made to keep you watching and believing. Don't waste your time. Use that time for actual self-love, to find new love, a different job, and a hundred other things.
@m7035as he said people who are not doing emotionally well, not everyone, not you.
I watched Tarot so much to to the point the reads all seemed repetitive as if other readers were repeating other readers 😂
You are giving your power away to someone else when you watch this tarot videos. I was addicted to them, I would watch those videos for hours, during and after work, I was paying no attention to others around me and even to myself, just binge watching it, crying if it said something extremely negative and not quite believing if it said something really positive. I started to limit myself to two videos a day and then I started doing meditation everyday and forgetting about the tarot videos. Last time I did one of those "pick a card" on Instagram it made me angry because it said some person was too proud to talk to me or something 😂 And I was like, why would I give this shite the power again to ruin my day? Yikes.
100%. It was the same for me at one point. It controlled everything. It sounds dramatic, but who has been through ti, knows😁 hopefully more people that feel the same, find ways to get out of it. Thank you for sharing your experience❤
@@insightsbyv What really upsets me about this is that some of them are making so much money that they stop doing personal readings altogether because they live off social media. And they cater to people who are deeply wounded and need actual therapy instead of tarot. For example: If you have an abandonment wound (as in, your mom, dad or a caregiver left you as a child) then a breakup is going to be extremely painful, because it brings back the pain of a loved one leaving you. And then, they promise that your ex is coming back and you get hooked on the videos from several different people saying the exact same thing and keeping yourself in a state of delusion and not really healing or even really processing what has happened. Or, if you have a rejection wound because other children bullied you or your parents were intentionally or unintentionally mean, or simply did not really want a child, you will be interested in people who do not want to be with you and simply prefer other people. But instead of working on that part of yourself that is unhealed, you go watch the fortune tellers that all say the same thing: he/she is with someone else but they love you and they know that they messed up, their partner is karmic, he/she is your soulmate/twin flame and you are "in separation" because part of the "journey" is being ignored and flat out rejected by someone who has undying love for you. Sorry, what?.
@@Fun.in.Bogota right?! I used to have a Clairvoyant friend and she hinted at all of this stuff with my twin rejecting me and said "why do I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me?" 🙄 And when I figured out I was still supposed to end up with him after he leaves the karmic?! I was pissed and yelled at her on the phone. I don't want his ass after he chose another woman over me and rubbed it in my face! I don't care if he loves her or not. And the Clairvoyant's reaction to me on the phone when I yelled at her saying "He expects me to welcome him back with open arms after all of this?! I'm not." And she's like, "Life isn't fair Jenna. Figure it out." And just left the conversation. Like oh hell no! I'm not accepting a narcissist back into my life who was manipulative and chose someone else. I don't care if he comes back 5 years from now. I still hold resentment and have nothing nice to say. I'm not accepting him back and don't care if he's a twin flame. I'm tired of tarot readings and clairvoyants telling me my future. It makes me feel powerless, like I have no choice but to end up with a narcissist who chose another woman, or a soulmate who will cheat on me. It's annoying and would drive anyone into a state of depression.
@@jennaprovenzale254 I think we as an spiritual community need to forget about the concept of twin flames completely. Most people describe different states of pain, attachment, delusion, denial and limerence and it is more like a mental health crisis. Someone not caring about you or your feelings is not okay and it's not like they just can waltz back into your life after not giving a rat's ass for a long time or hurting your feelings on purpose. Life can separate two lovers but love is kind and empathetic. You don't put a person you love in this situation. There are people who are "twin flame coaches" for a living. Really? So they pay their bills by saying that everyone's ex and everyone's crush is a "twin flame"? If your soul is telling you that this person is not for you, please listen to yourself first. Let your intuition be your voice and your guide. And yes, your anger is here for something. It is here to protect you, to demand that you set some boundaries. It is telling you that you are worth the respect, the loyalty, the love. You are worth the guy who will chose you but first, chose yourself. Try to clean your energy from your ex, tarot readers and other sources of negativity.
@@jennaprovenzale254 Good for you!!!
Don’t forget about the twin flame and soulmate false narrative. Ive been where you’re talking about and it’s taken several years but I’m slowly breaking free from tarot and I’m finally feeling peace without it.
yup, that one gets you fast! 😀
For sure, just past the twin flame one. My god how these things suck you in. All a growing experience, part of life. We get wiser 😉
It was the only counseling i got after the passing of my wife.
It gives false hope. I’m really struggling to stop. It’s an addiction.
You got this❤
Intentionally preys on vulnerable humans
I am obsessed with tarot readings…going crazy over it. It leads to overthinking, it helps you feel good but it also lead you into depression loop. What gonna happen? What is he thinking? All shit..you stray from reality and there you go..
Now, I really want to stop this addiction
I understand. Step by step. And for me the first step was making my day 'busy' in a way by following a routine. Just to help me stay away from it at least one part of the day.. and then i needed it less and less. You can do it❤
Well, these readings did help me a lot. 8 months ago I was watching readings that would tell me that I would have a career as a comedian. And now, I am an actress, I am actually paid to play in movies and commercials in my country. I am so happy about my career. I was unemployed at the time.
To be totally transparent, it did confuse me a lot in my love life. But now I know that at the end of the day, I am in control of my choices and decisions. I believe that I have enough discernment to know when a reading is helpful or not. I don’t take it as the ultimate truth, I am the captain of my ship.
Well said. Congrats on your success🥳 The challenge with readings becomes when you cannot find the trust in your own decisions, and in moments of hurt, you just need someone to help you see the good. And sometimes it turns into dependency on that reassurance. Which then, in my case, I had to work on developing the self trust and to relay on myself again.
@@insightsbyv surprising that the cards did not reveal that for you, because they sure did for me shrug 🤷🏿♂️
@@joycelesly1446 Aye, Captain!! 😀 good to hear that you have taken your power back👍
@Vanessa Petralito I think the fact that it's a collective reading on RUclips play quite big part in the situation too.
I read tarot for myself and my cards actually tell me how things truly are, for example: if I watch a reading and I'm told about some sort of new opportunity or breakthrough or income , because that's how the reader sees the cards, for me it is half " true" because the breakthrough, the change , the " affluence " happens in a different part of my life , such as a new opportunity to join a course and learn something I always wanted, a breakthrough in terms of a mental issue that was bugging me and I didn't understand why, or on a emotional level where I get to heal something from my past.
Additionally, I observed that not every reading a reader posts has to resonate and you don't have to watch everything that reader posts.
I found this taro reading in very dark time, I was scared at first then slowly started to watch and believe it gave me the scariest things about the shits going around me for years. It gave me the answer to all my question I had in my mind since my childhood. Things became crystal clear for me and it showed me who are the people I am dealing with. It actually helped me immensely to come out of the darkness. But then later as I know lot of things I started to isolate myself from people. After that I realized too much information about a thing or a person is also makes me confined to my small world and it made me to cut off people and take solo journey for specific time. Gradually I began to addict to this taro reading like I am just bored and couldn't spend an hour without listening to it just like a drug. It made me to create scenarios and compare real life things with what was predicted and felt at a point I am making wrong moves. Later I realized nothing is moving in my life probably because I am constantly getting predictions and expecting them to happen. It made me like I am a loser. So now I am practicing my self to scroll down the taro videos and just reading the title of the video I tell myself something opposite like..”yeah it was said two years ago and still am waiting for that”. I am sure I can eliminate this habit slowly and steadily. 🙏
I get it. Habits are a b. 😅 You got this!💪
Looking at tarot videos made me not sleep for days and not knowing what to think or trust I was overthinking and everything it really drained my energy
Yeah, it was the highs ad lows for me - feeling excited to then just feel worse.. it drained me completely.
I went through a really bad phase of RUclips tarot videos. But for me it was mostly the love readings. I was out of my first serious relationship and it was hard and I felt lonely and developed crushes on pretty unsavory people or people who just didn't like me back and of course readers doing general readings on RUclips don't want to tell thousands of people that their love interest doesn't like them back or isn't good for them. They tell people what they want to hear and what if they make someone who's in a healthy relationship second guess themselves? So I kept hearing "oh you found your soul mate and they are SUPER into you. The divine has brought you together and they are gonna tell you how they feel VERY soon!" When in reality all the guys I was crushing on either didn't like me back or weren't good for me. It was an obsession. I'd watch hours of videos a day sometimes. And dream about these unavailable men. It was torture. I broke out of it because I finally got a bf who turned out to be really abusive and I decided RUclips general readings were mostly garbage. And this whole time I had MULTIPLE tarot decks that I just didn't use because it felt like too much of a chore and I think I secretly knew they'd tell me the truth I didn't want to hear. Just do readings for yourself or get a personal reading from a good reader if you can afford it. Or talk to your friends/family. Vent to them. Take their advice if you wish.
Uff, I totally understand. Happy that you got out of it - and you showed yourself how powerful you actually are on your own😉
Omg same here. I watched tarot for a while and then I met someone. Steangelt enough he had physicial similarities just like tarot told me! Strange. He was a diagnosed sociopath and eventually tried to abuse me.
I've heard about opening dark portals or inviting demons so..who knows....😊
@@M0101EPyess when you are open to tarot readings , you make contract with demons that are watching what you doing so the witch or reader gets ur personal informations
I ve been there, since I am young girl , I was doing, tarots never got me anywhere!! but more depression, give you hope and if things does not happen then you become sad,
it is hard to stop it , but my friends story helped me to stop... my fiends always paid for tatos and tarot readers always said that her man will come , just wait, be patient, he loves you too etc. evetyhting she wants to hear, after 2 years later another reader said that do not wait, he will not come!! my friend passed out, couldnt believe that he wont be coming.... she was sooo shock.. IT WAS SOO HARSH TO LEARN THAT IT WAS ALL ILLUSION AND WASTED 2 YEARS!!.....
her story helped me to stop it too, I had lots of experience anyway , I know that tarots were not fixing things, only gives you hope so you happy after tarot but it is like alchol or drug, keeps you happy for a few hours or day then if nothing change you need to hear again so you can be high!!
but I can not waste my beautiful life for illusions......
maybe it is good that he doesnt come back
If it's 'meant', he'll come back. But in the meantime, let's focus on new experiences and learning what we actually want. And what kind of relationships - maybe if he comes back, it's not a good fit for who you became focusing on yourself 😉
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So true! It helps until it no longer helps.. I guess that is everything in life, though. Tools to help can be turned into weapons that hurt. Thank you for this video. ❤ beautiful 🤩
You nailed it. It helps, until it doesn't. Thank you!🤗
I wasted three years stuck on a push and pull relationship with an unavailable man, all because I trusted blindly on the cards instead of looking at was right in front of me. Every reading said we were twin flames and soulmates and stuff, that our distance was a karmic lesson for us to be together and happy, that our union was divinely guided.... That the universe was preparing the perfect time for us to be together, that he was healing his karma and I just needed to be this beam of light to help him.... All I had to do was open myself and raise my vibration to attract our union faster.... I was sure we were soulmates in the multiverse who were preparing to be together and through visualization I could bring that reality from the 5D into this 3D..... Goes without saying that I lived in denial, he never really was that into me and I was just delusional. If I had been strong enough to SEE and ACCEPT what was right in front of me, I would have let go of that situation so much faster, but I was too eager to live in the fantasy, I was addicted to it and Pick a Card tarot readings on youtube only fed that delusion.
Through mediation and Yoga I'm now learning to accept and see what is, and to use my own power to act and live according to my power.
I'm not denying a spiritual or mystical dimension of things, but I thing "spiritual" people tend to look to eager into that stuff as a way to escape reality, the excuse of being "different" and "spiritual" is just a way to avoid living life responsibly and, most of the time, being a decent human being. Sometimes "spiritual stuff" becomes only just an easy and lazy way out of reality.
Right now I'm focusing my energy on practices and philosophies that feed from inner power and action. Huna, Zazen Meditation, Yoga, Ho'oponopono, Estoicism, all aim to accept and act upon your reality through inner power. I mean honestly, who cares if you're a star seed, and indigo child, a 5D being, or Merlin's pupil in the astral realm, if in the here and now you're simply a shitty and dysfunctional human being. Meditations to evolve to the 5D and communicate with arthurian celestial beings are meaningless if you're not acting here and now to be a human being with a practical and realistic sense of morality, duty, brotherhood and love, with actual and tangible actions.
The first principle of Huna is what got me out of the hole: "The moment of power is now" No dreaming, no wandering away in fantasies, hopes or longings, no visualizations, no waiting for the right time, just know what is and act according to it with a sense of compassion, love and respect.
Uff, yess - the twin flame and soulmates thing.. a story in itself 😅 Thank you for sharing your experience, great tips for others also.
Same here. My story.
ive successfully fucked up many otherwise potentially good days and nights for myself by doing tarot readings on apps on my phone and feaking out about whether i am making the 'right choice'. tonight i drew a card that i took as a confirmation that I 'should' go to this party i was thinking about going to, but felt resistant the whole night in a state of indecision because im actually quite tired and have been enjoying my alone time today, simply put i dont want to go face the music tonight, i didnt feel like it. but i kept pulling cards about it in my lack of self-trust and went into a tail spin - all of a suddent i was believing that it was a destined event and that if i didnt go i was fucking up my destiny, i wouldnt meet my solemate or whoever i was meant to meet tonight and that they would suffer from not having met me when they were meant to. talk about terrible and totally unnecessary suffering, dreadful, and this has happened far too frequently for my liking. im doing a detox and getting rid of all divination tools and getting back to basics.
this is so true
i hate hearing “don’t worry he’s coming back” meanwhile he doesn’t give AF about me LOL let’s take off the fantasy glasses 🫣😂😂
yup, just take them off!😀
Loool this gives me no hope 😂😅
Lol
Same here girl, laughing it off right now 😂😂😂🙏
This!
I have become a tarot addict and in my search to get off my tarot drug, I have found you. I was happier when someone wasn't telling me I just had to open my heart and abundance would come, and when it doesn't come, the only person to blame is ourselves. Great...more guilt and poor self-esteem! What we all forget when we watch a reading is that we all have "free will" which means in the end we all have to make our own choices. So this is my first day without tarot, I wonder how long I will last?!
It’s going to be a process and you’ll go back and forth with it. I still do but I’m watching less and less.
Like M C said, it's a process - but it's worth it! You can do it!💪🤗
I ve been there, since I am young girl , I was doing, tarots never got me anywhere!! but more depression, give you hope and if things does not happen then you become sad,
it is hard to stop it , but my friends story helped me to stop... my fiends always paid for tatos and tarot readers always said that her man will come , just wait, be patient, he loves you too etc. evetyhting she wants to hear, after 2 years later another reader said that do not wait, he will not come!! my friend passed out, couldnt believe that he wont be coming.... she was sooo shock.. IT WAS SOO HARSH TO LEARN THAT IT WAS ALL ILLUSION AND WASTED 2 YEARS!!.....
her story helped me to stop it too, I had lots of experience anyway , I know that tarots were not fixing things, only gives you hope so you happy after tarot but it is like alchol or drug, keeps you happy for a few hours or day then if nothing change you need to hear again so you can be high!!
but I can not waste my beautiful life for illusions......
maybe it is good that he doesnt come back
Create a new RUclips channel and NEVER click on one. Once you do they will infect your RUclips forever.
@@moonmaiden4197 That is a great idea! Thank you.
I lost a lot of interest in getting personal readings when a reader told me to break up with someone. I felt like I was being forced to do something I didn't want to do. And those general pick-a-card readings can be so inaccurate. I still love the tarot for the art though. And I try to use the cards for self-development and not for predictions. I've stopped paying for readings now and just follow my heart and what I feel is right. The only way to learn is by experiencing life. I love your message about self-trust!
Exactly, as long as we take our own decisions, develop strong self-trust and trust in life. Then we good😀
Readers should never tell you to make a decision period that's not good
Tarot card helped me a lot. But I took care of the fact that it does not become an addiction. It actually helped me build trust within me and see the world from a higher perspective. And I'm surely not addicted to it. The only thing I was ever addicted to is reading books.I don't think it's anything alarming though.
That's awesome! Yeah, the problem is when one gets too addicted to it😅 But for sure, it helped me also, and I used it on my own for only that reason (self-growth), but I guess at one point I didn't need that either. Now I try leaning into life and getting lessons from there. Which works for me better😊
Its a fun mental exercise of running scenarios for sure. Its kind of like reading books, but its written out as it goes. I like it for self reflection instead of fortune telling.
😅😅😅 a 1:30 got me. I was addicted to tarot reading. Just recently I stopped cold turkey. I'm getting tempted everyday to click on a video because it shows up on my RUclips feed. Lol it's hard. Now I tell youtube I'm not interested everytime tarot video shows up
That's what i did also. Every time a video would show, I'd click 'not interested' or 'don't recommend channel'. It helped for sure! Then it switched to drama channels, but I managed to pull myself out of that one also (kind of, it's my guilty pleasure)😂
It's kind of a relief to see so many are realizing the truth about Tarot and how destructive in can be to get hooked on it.
I still watch but significantly trying to cut back.
For the most part it's an ego boost for me to get my day going.
But after so long it becomes a distraction for hours of the day just to keep from feeling low or feeling pain.
Well said - first serving as an ego bust and then as distraction😅
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I will say though that I do think there is some truth to tarot though...
It's just really strange though.
Because the same cards show up for me through various different readers.
I just know that nothing will change if I don't change something or make some move that says I want something else.
But in general, watching tarot constantly doesn't change anything - that much I know...
Important perspective! I think part of the problem is there are many readers who are manipulative and who do not have the right intentions. Tarot can be addictive even when everyone is in their integrity, but it makes it worse when readers are purposely trying to peddle false hope and click bait. Tarot requires a high level of discernment. It is a tool that can be used to help or to harm. And it's a powerful tool so must be wielded with absolutely wisdom, self awareness, and right intention.
100%
Does anyone have suggestions for non-manipulative readers?
@@sillybean5658 Yes! Many of them also do astrology and aren't strictly tarot, which could be a green flag when considering other readers in the future. @ReydiantReality @Gemstonetarot @WatchNatalee @BOMISpirit @caistrology @Sarah_Vrba
@@SarahLWebb Bless. Thank you!
Deleting & Reposting my comment bc a random tarot reader decided to comment under it which is ironic and annoying, almost predatory as this video is about tarot addiction:
Thank you. It's not even enjoyable anymore and people don't take this addiction seriously. I really want to stop and create/live my own life. 💔🥺
I agree. You feel almost trapped. But it's not set in stone. Just start climbing out and it will happen.❤
Tarot reading is not to see what will happen in the future, but to reflect what is currently going on in your life to make a conscious choice with the right will. The act taken with the right intention for the highest good for all will always bring a satisfaction that is filled with a reward. The question is what do you want as a reward for a good deed? Reflect on this too, because the ego wants to possess material or another free spirit as a reward.
Good point. It turns south when one, even when knowing what will be the right action, is not ready to act upon it. Not being ready or having a limiting belief that prevents you to go for it. And then you keep searching for more and more.. But the day comes, when you need to face it and do the work needed to be happy and fulfilled.
But even that is whishy washy and dangerous, because tarot may as well lead you to a completely wrong reading of what's really going on in your life right now. It's an easy and lazy way out, when you should be consciously seeing and paying attention to what is right in front of you, and when in doubt, ask directly, why bother with tarot?
We all have the gift of discernment. Everyone should keep using this wisely for themselves. In some situations you cannot ask directly. Complex situations occur in life. ✨🌏💚
It was the same message from readers over and over "Your ships are coming in"..."that new job opportunity is right around the corner." After a month or so of waiting I realized this is like a carrot on a stick. Instead of watching tarot I could have been working making it all happen. I still use my pendulum at times because I am still learning to trust myself but no more waiting around.
Online it will always be the same message for a few reasons one is they actually are really reading their energy not yours lol other than that it's general and by that I mean it just uses basic information that everyone is going through. Most the time the group in reverse in readings is themselves 😂
I didn’t realise how addicted I am to tarot until I saw this- thank you for this video ❤ I was meant to see it x
I'm happy it came your way❤ You got this!💪
I think the tarot side of RUclips can be really dangerous, especially for people who have addictive personalities. RUclips, in general, is already addicting so combining that with something that promises you answers and certainty can result in hours of scrolling/watching content.
I am an example of this. In 2019 I was at a low point in my life, I started watching tarot on RUclips and i completely spiraled out of control. I was watching multiple different readings a day as well as looking up my horoscopes online. I felt so out of control and it was terrible.
for me it’s the fact that every reading suggest that things will happen for you without you having to work towards them. i mean it can happen, but constantly hearing that things are gonna just happen, that the person you want to be with will reach out for examples, kinda allows you to be “lazy”, just to sit and wait and most of the time it’s no good. the risk is being stock, doing nothing, hoping everything they said it’s just gonna come to you
I needed this thank you. It just made me anxious, overthinking every single thing. Ugh
Uff, I know the feeling.. It sticks with you for some time even when you stop. But the less you feed your mind with it, the less it controls your life until the day you are not in the grip anymore. And you can breath. But it's a process. Just don't give up.💪
I'm a Tarot reader myself and for me, the goal is to give people a sense of self-confidence. Before I learned how to read tarot, I was also a viewer of tarot readings. I especially watched them when things were going badly in my love life or if I was falling for somebody. I wanted to feel like I was wanted and loved regardless of how the person was acting and the readings provided that for me. Knowing I was loved gave me the self-confidence to walk away from love interests that weren't good for me. That is what a reading should achieve and that is my purpose as a reader.
It's not about "predicting the future" and I find that to be somewhat insulting to tarot and its true purpose and beauty. It's there to remind you that you are loved and that you are an amazing person.
If you build someone's self esteem they will take themselves out of negative situations. That's my take on it. You're not supposed to listen to a reading taking it as what is actually going to happen and it's not the tarot's fault that you take it that way.
It's not the point and anyone who truly understands tarot will get that. I appreciate the video though and for trying to help those who might take it too seriously.
In a way though, even the people who turned against tarot because of "things not coming true" have become empowered to make positive choices. Tarot wins in the end because again the goal is to empower you to take control. ;)
Very well said. It did it's job one way or another😁 I do believe that the growth happens when you are able to step away from it and work on further strengheting that confidence from within. The problem is, we always choose the easiest way and just listen to more and more hits of 'everything is OK', doesn't help if you don't build it yourself. For every 'bad situation' than we need reassurence from someone else we can do it. Tarot is a tool, not the solution, and that's what we are probably forgeting, when we get to 'deep'😅. Very much appreciated you're efforts to actually help those who need it and use tarot in a helathy way. Thank you for your comment.
I'm on my way to stop watching it I'm starting to trust that I created my own reality, also meditating everyday is great too
Whoop whoop! I'm also working on that meditation consistency💪
I started noticing they all, basically, gave me the same reading - over and over and over. Didn’t matter what reader. It became so repetitive and redundant.
However, it was a great way for me to developed an understanding of the different ways to read different cards, for my own personal learning (I like tarot for entertainment; though, whenever I read or even buy cards for friends, I always emphasize they are for entertainment and inspiration, ONLY; their own intuition ALWAYS needs to come first. Though, it’s always fun whenever I do a reading, how the cards consistently reflect what is going on in the life of whomever I am reading for, reflecting their own intuition. It can be a great way for people to learn to come to trust their own intuition. Which, is why I don’t watch readings or read for myself, hardly ever, anymore).
tarot was my last ray of hope but after realizing what a scam it was, i gave up. I gave up once and for all on my future and my dreams. I wish better luck to everyone else
Have you ever looked into manifestation…you may actually be great at that and not realize it
@@DBrown-vg1fi i have seen some stuff about manifestation but i haven't tried anything. Is there a specific technique or something you would recommend?
@@mammonsama2113 for me writing down the things I want to manifest down under my notes on the phone under the word manifestations has worked for me or just saying in my head I want to manifest …..fill in blank
Tarot readers told me I’d finally have friends and be happy and that I’d have the best summer ever in 2022. They got new enough details right abt my past and current life so I believed it and was let down soooo badly. Nothing good ever happens and they’re just tricking
You can get readings on other ppl energy also
I never take them seriously anyway. I still watch them on occasion for entertaining purposes only. I never get carried away with it, like you did..
I read my own cards and ofcourse that’s more accurate and insightful than a generic one on RUclips. You need to use your own discernment, so it’s a good video for people who struggle with this and are giving away their own power! That’s not what tarot is meant for!
I agree fully! The experience I had doesn't mean that's how it is for everyone. Tarot can be very helpful, but for some (like me) it can be used as a tool to avoid showing up for yourself when you need to. And kind of just 'lean on tarot'.😅
I haven't watched the videos but reading the comments I very much agree.
I found myself binge watching pick a card reading at the moments in my life when I felt the most hopeless. It made me feel like I was still in control because I now had an idea of what was gonna happen or how my life taking form.
I was feeling so lost thatvI needed to belive those statements were true.
Now I'm in a better place and I can be honest to myself. Most of the things I wanted to belive aren't more real than a fairytale. They can't set a destiny I haven't decided on. And if I decide my destiny, why do I need to hear it from someone else? I know who I am and where I'm going.
Tarot videos are for entertainment. I’s very easy to adapt our life circumstances to what the reader is saying because, since they’re doing a general reading, they mention general situations and concepts that we can relate to, so we have to be careful and evaluate if the reading is actually resonating with us.
I've read titles to readings saying someone close to you is dying someone hid a camera in your home, loads that are just around negativity and conflict it's shocking that there are people further along in a spiritual journey that have no care for anyone new to tarot who it would likely cause harm too, anything for more views or likes it seems.
Tarot readings have become toxic to my being. And for a while harmed me in the sense that I was just reading negative nonsense by having a look at some readings.
I totally agree with you.
It's rarely about what it does to you and always about what you do with it.
You decide what you take from these readings and how much you trust your own judgement. There are also plenty of readers and not everyone is for you. 🙏
You know it’s all about perspective, from my own experience tarot has been one of the best tools for me to finally step into my power and to get me out of very dark times, giving me hope for the future in every reading that I watched. Of course if I am not aware that this is not reality and to get to that promising future I got to do the work myself, then in that way it can become counterproductive. Seeing this in a spiritual perspective, tarot is a prediction of the current energy I am in, the only person with the ability to shape and create current reality is oneself. Tarot is just a tool in order for me to manifest consciously what I want to bring into existence, If I am not aware of how manifestations works, first of all everything happens when is meant to happen not when I want it to, patience is key, if I am watching tarot readings and in the reading they keep telling me that certain things will happen but because I have not practiced enough faith and patience, i will get frustrated that they are not happening right now, then of course it can throw me into a dark place, but if I learn that thoughts and desires are powerful then I learn to have faith and get the inner knowing that eventually all of those things will happen. Once again tarot is just a tool, planting a seed in the subconscious maybe, but we are the ones creating reality.
Tarot can read your recent past or somewhat current energies which can be used as a direction moving forward but the cons are much more disastrous and dangerous. It addicting like a black hole . After watching for like 2 years in a hope of new beginnings, tarot always pointed out my narcissistic ex who i dont even want to think about and as per the tarot we have mutual love and i am waiting and praying for his comeback. Hell no.. not even in my distant dream i would ever want to re-live that nightmare which left me broken and took so much of hardwork to get passed that phase. As per tarot he has changed and realised my worth and his mistakes. But it never pointed that Meantime i have also realised my worth and want to move on with these past energies. Its triggering to the point of anger, frustration and disappointment as long as you keep watching. One more thing i have realised overtime that tarot tags all of the past exs as either soulmate or twinflame which go back to karmic and then catalyst. Its a vicious cycle.
Exactly that! And then you also get the black magic being done on you type of readings 😂
bc you moved on.. lol but have moved on in life regardless of tarot telling us we are moving on. It's a mind trap to keep viewers stuck forever feeding these readers our time and energy.. if past people 💯 don't affect you, then surely repeated reports of offences will. Or perhaps fear, last resort. If nothing works then let's tell them what these demons will do to them!
They have come true though so long as you’re actually grounded and allowing things to come in. Some readings did warn me about the signs or gave me confirmations from the signs I was seeing which was crazy
This was so well said! It is so easy to get lost in the wormhole. Thank you for sharing your perspective. You’re beautiful, this is funny, and helpful 💞
I can totally relate, I recently got over a 3month tarot addiction 😂
Whoop whoop!💪
Wow thank you so much for this explanation! It has really blessed me. No wonder Gds word commands to stay away from it, I thought it was just innocent entertainment because “I knew it wasn’t real” but now I understand what’s actually going on and how damaging it is. Wow Praise Gd! No more tarot Ill take my reality raw thank you!
There is the good and the challenging in everything 🤓 Thank you🤗
I like watching the Twin Flame tarot reading by one particular reader on RUclips because my Twin Flame is deceased and I like to get communication confirmations. I don’t watch tarot for my future or for decisions. I also pray for confirmations from Heaven. I love your tactics! You’re freaking HILARIOUS 😂🙌🏻
Thank you!!😁
I think tarot is good to sift through unclear thoughts and help you identify how you feel about what is being said so you start to feel more clear on what you feel. Watch less of readings that are purely predictive and focused on the other person. If you watch a reading and something triggers or resonates it's good to look at that to know yourself more. And when you are ready build your own mindfulness practice which could be with your own tarot deck or other non tarot means.
great vid. my new year’s resolution is to quit tarot.
You got this!💪
I've been watching tarot readings on and off for a few years now and at some point even I felt so addicted to watching them. But later i learnt how to do tarot for myself, and currently I'm in the process of creating healthy boundaries, how much is okay to rely on the messages, not putting out a picture that would get people addicted lol. I mostly just drop some general readings here and there and trying to see how can I help my community by putting out non-addictive, helping and healing form of content. Maybe I can bring some change in the community but it's a long way to go and me figuring out how exactly will I help people with tarot 😂 here's hoping for the best 🤞💜 great insight!!! 💛💛
That is amazing ❤ And yes, if there is a way to share talent and gifts in a way that doesn't contribute to becoming even more destructive, tarot can be very helpful. Thank you🤗
woah i loved the way you explained everything: this felt like a crisp fresh new perspective on a VERY real problem alot of us spiritual
people have on this journey
Thank you🤗
Lovely video. I found your video because I felt that tarot was just a coping mechanism. I like the hope it gives. You're an awesome and lovely person.
Your quality is amazing and you're great!
Thank you!!
Doing your own readings >>>>
It's like connecting with your subconscious. I feel like the meaning you draw for each card and what it means on connection to your situation says alot about what you're thinking and feeling in that moment.
I still do my own readings and it's like a guide to get the right answers from my subconscious and to my conscious mind. That's how I see it anyway.
My addiction of tarot is 3 yrs and not get of it😢😢
Wow thank you for the message that what I need to do to stop with the terot reading.I no it fear for me.
Well done! Great content and point of view
Believe it or not, as a reader myself, I go through periods where I need to take a step back 😏
Step back for what
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I loved this video.
I look forward to my morning routine changing 🙂.
I have had someone coming in quickly for almost 3 years now. Guess its a long trip.
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These damn tarot videos are the reason why gave chances to people who were so manipulative. They ruined my life
I’m currently in a shit situation so tarot actually helps, because even if it’s a lie, they tell me the things I can’t say to myself.
It feels comfortable to have a little hope 😌
100%, it was the same for me. In case you haven't watched part 2, I go deeper into some 'traps' that happened to me and maybe could support you in not going in the same direction (when it's not helpful anymore). Good luck!🤗
Yes it's so true i was so negative before tarot world but i became some positive after listening this
@@insightsbyv so what u r trying to say that this tarot giving me positivity ,hopes etc is wrrong toatly fake 🙄
Its okay but also take the advices the readers give you don't just be happy with the positive readings
@@user-os5xg2co8u Part two explains a bit better, if you're interested, but in short how I see it is..when you hear a reader saying things will get better (you'll have a good job or relationship etc,) it's not a lie. Things in 90% get better, tarot or no tarot, specially if you want it to. You find a way. Tarot can help you see that specially if you struggle to believe it yourself. The challenge becomes, when you relay on tarot, that things will get better and not on yourself. Instead of knowing and trusting yourself you can move forward, you need confirmation from tarot, that what you're doing is right. Which can be damaging, as you are building trust outside yourself. Hope it gives some more calrity. Good luck with everything!
After 5 years of “they’re going to reach out soon” and “it’s finally time for you to shine” I unsubscribed and stopped engaging with them 🎉
Very good content. You have a clever way with words. Thank you. It made my day.
Thank you!
Thank you very much for this video 😢
These tarot readings video's appeared. And after a week or so my algorithm was full with it. I watched them sometimes when I was bored. And they are always the same. Always. I'm gonna be verry rich, and I'm a chosen one, a demon slayer. And people are getting there karma. Even secret organisations are watching me because I'm gonna change the world. Yes I'm not getting a good job. No I'm gonna change the whole world. I even have a twin flame who's madly in love with me but can't come because of a third party. If you are reading this and are just as special as me, let me know. We will save the world togheter. The Annunaki will be verry proud of us. 🤣😂😁
I hate it when they give a deadline. Like "oh by the end of this month you will get abundance" and shit is the same or WORSE
😁😁 I know! it shouldn't be funny.. but it's funny.
The green flowers 😊 are very nice 🙂.
Thank you for this… i was literally here in bed sulking because i thought that all the hard work im putting into my caree isnt going to happen until way later on in life because of a few readings i’d just done… i felt sad because i felt like i still had no control of my life no matter what i do. Coming from a very toxic household and never have had a successful relationship in my life or any at all for that matter I’d look towards these readings as a way to feel reassured that my life “will get better” and yet nothing happens, no love interest, no job opportunities. I was starting to feel like I’m just doomed for life… so thank you for reminding me that I just need to build the trust within and I have control over my own life and what I do with it. I can achieve success, no matter how ridiculously successful i want to become, it can and will happen with my own willingness. Damn this video was a good wakeup call
THIS! You put it so well! The belief of things only happening in the future and you not having control of today. I love this. Thank you for your comment❤ You got this!💪
@@insightsbyv no, Thank YOU for making something click within me, making me realize I’m not the only person who got stuck in this cycle! And for that I’m forever grateful ♥️
And the “great things “ never come
I’m glad I stumbled upon this video, I really needed to hear this. I try to be present, but I have become obsessed with the videos, from two readers in particular. I don’t admonish those readers (they seem like great people who genuinely want to help) or any readers in general, but I can’t let go of outcomes, unless I literally let go of their outcomes if that makes sense. I still believe in spirituality with the angel numbers I keep seeing, but its a path only I can walk, and individual thing. The TF readings were driving me crazy.
*Desires to find a pick a card reading... and finds this instead*
... just the message I needed to hear. Haha 🙃
It's time to build that self trust, to self reassure through difficult times, instead of seeking someone else to do it for me
ahahaha - is it magic or the algorithm? 😆 You got this!💪
You can ask God
no lie, the tarot readings helped me so much. what i couldnt provide for myself, the readings and the readers did. but as i went down that path, I also would find videos such as these and I watched one first thing, before I even got into the tarot readings. I believe there is huge value in both. At the time, the readings were so helpful to me. and as i built myself up, videos much like this one, would be the next gateway to pass through, the next step towards even more self growth….and when you get here….you’ll soon start to provide for yourself what the tarot readings gave you.
Yess!
delays with having breakthroughs because of tarot card additiction, it happened to me. You still can get addicted pulling cards for yourself, I know personally. I only allow myself to use ang kind of cards once a week, to protect my faith in my natural psychic abilities and faith in God.
You are such a sassy beautiful charming soul! I love your sense of humor and how you explained everything! Thank you and plz keep being you❤️
Ooh thank you!🤗❤
Finally, a decent video in english language about tarots being a scam and bullshit
I'm going through this.
It will pass💪
Try to limit it to like, two videos per day, read, do yoga, meditation, affirmations, shadow work, walk barefoot on grass, hug trees, burn incense and other spiritual practices instead of tarot and rituals. In my experience, neither is good for mental health
Yeah i need to admit its an addiction and it destroys future with false hope
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I don't have this problem with the videos. I used them for confirmation from the universe just to show me that I'm not alone and to help me with my skepticism. But you just help me understand something very important about why I don't read for myself and now I'm going to start reading for myself
Tarot is addictive i guess becoz it gives comfort and gives purpose to unexplainable situations in life. I got into Tarot because church or religious ideas were not working in life. Thanks for sharing your story and testimony to get free from tarot by just start living, making friends and enjoy life!
Exactly..Thank you🤗You got this!💪
Great feedback. Thank you.🙏🌹
Thank you!🤗
I needed to watch this video, thank you
Thank you!🤗
@@insightsbyv almost a week without watching any video!
@@cacobapt whoop whoop!😁
i am so sick of watching tarot readings now its taking me nowehere so i have finally decided to stop
watching reading n wat is meant for me will happen naturally all they say is oh love is blocked coz ur not healed focus on yourself i know one thing if a person likes u will show intrest if they dont they will not its either yes or no but tarot reader are like oh the love is so deep that they ran away 😅
ahahah 😆 Yeah, those love readings are tricky! Good luck on your journey of letting it go🤗
I went to a tarot reader around 12 years ago...who told me that my cards were all over the place, as I had had a mental breakdown at that time ..she said that the reading could be very different in a weeks time...or even tomorrow...funnily enough part of the reason for my breakdown was that I had been looking up tarot online and from a friend.. and it really messed with my thinking...I felt so powerless...these things should be handled with extreme caution...they take away your power.Full stop.🚫
Balance. I've been where you've been and I balanced it out with work and pleasure without the cards.
My advice for people who want to dive in tarot is always to read them yourselves! There is no wrong or right way to read the cards, trust your intuition and read for, to yourself, that's an amazing way to train listening to your intuition. When someone else reads the cards for you, you guessed it, it's just not the same. Nice video!
I love putting them on in the background while i sleep it started with me being obsessed but through wisdom and a reading or two telling me to read my own cards i now only really put them on to see peoples clairvoyant gifts and just having something relaxing to help me sleep
Tarots cards reading are misleading majority of that time, I am tarot enthusiast, Tarot is the tool I use when I am feeling energy on a high vibrational level. As an empath Tarot cards is all based on energies and current energies not for predictioning the future. Please don't rely on them for future readings, it's not meant for predictions and that is where you should be aware of psychic dependency that leads to trouble. Psychic readings maybe fun for it's time, but it leads to psychic addictions. Nothing is set in stone in life, as a warning be aware of your own energies and those around you. The art of divination takes work and discernment is need. Please dont work with divination if you become dependent on it for consistent readings, it's not healthy.
I appreciate this content
Thankyou you gave me an idea of living the life at full potential, by breaking the tarot illusion. I suffered a lot by seeing tarot videos. Your each and every statement is true.
I lost last love of my life. I couldn't say her anything because tarot suggested me to do some inner work and healing. She left and I stood there crying and regrating.
I'm sorry you experienced that. It's not easy, but the more we bet on ourselves and have self-trust, the closer we are to true happiness. Thank you🤗
Tarot readers always have assumptions about your life, how and who you are, who you are meant to be, what your true self or selves look like and what not true selves are... and on the basis of their own beliefs about that, which are different from tarot reader to tarot reader, they suck you into a loophole, they begin to preach through reading tarot cards to you about your life situations, that they begin to talk in the readings, is like you are troubled or something because you don't think certain way or do things per this new age agenda, instead of simply just telling you what the situation is and you do it how you know the best is and what your desires are, not what they assume or believe your true self and desires are and how otherwise you get everything bad coming to you, is a subtle manipulation. And this made me dislike tarot very much, tarot was made to make your life better, you feel better and see how to improve situation, and not to make you feel bad due to bad perspective tarot readers have about you and how you need to heal something that you don't need to, they just do that for attention and views... If you watch it, watch it detached or with a pinch of salt because you have this pseudo spiritual christian people, who know what God and cards want for you in life but God already gave you in life what you need to make somethign out of it. Is like tarot readers are not two faced but three faced, is a shady business really.
I took a tarot reading recently i and im in depression now😢.. she said very negative about my partner 😢
Its not just tarot. Also all the self help videos can mix you up and the law of attraction. You need to have your own opinion. We are still too new to managing youtube access.
Yess!! Very true. I had my ups and downs also with self-help. But like you said, having our own opinion has to be the lead. A pool of information we are getting, while being 'wired to have instructions' is a tricky combination.
@@insightsbyv absolutely
Thank you ❤️ Love your personality !
Thank you!🤗❤
Yep, i just read this book called Tarot Aint It, Sis...i had to release my dependency of the cards 4real
Am addicted to paid tarot reader and spend my a lot hard work money please help how i overcome from this
First accept the situation you are in and the fact that there are many struggling in the same way - there is nothing wrong with you; it's easy to become dependent on guidance and reassurance by others.
Then accept that you need to work on your self-trust and that it starts one day, or one hour at a time. Decide you want better for yourself and develop the skills to get there - for example, journaling (what are you afraid off, what is keeping you stuck) and replace watching or seeking tarot guidance with something else (reading, learning about the things you are struggling with, talk to someone, do some activity and maybe listen to something else; podcasts, story times etc).
You'll get through this. It will take a little bit of effort at the beginning, but you'll get there, look back and feel like that was just "an experience at one point of your life" 😉 You got this🤗
@@insightsbyv thank you so much you guide me so beautifully ❤️i will follow you and your guidance from today and will work on myself I will listen on my intuition and gut feeling instead of tarot ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I will greatful for you ma'am ❤️ ❤️ tnx a lot for your valuable guidance lots of love from india ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
thank you
Paranoia is the exact word!!!!! Without letting go of a sense of the spiritual, I acknowledge that things like tarot leave you in a state of constant paranoia about everything. Sometimes, most of the times, things don't have a hidden ulterior meaning. Sometimes, shit is just shit and it's up to you to move away from it.
Yess, and it's funny how we think 'being constantly alert' is helpful.. it just takes you away from actually living.
😂😂😂 you are awesome, hilarious even. Thank you for this perspective, it’s spot on. ❤
Thank you!😁❤
I am into tarot from past 10 years and i have read tons of books on these as well. Tarot is a tool for guidance not for prediction this is said by various top notch tarotists around the globe. You have every right to express your opinion but the truth is you don't know anything about tarot. Instead of blaming cards why don't you blame your own behaviour issues and patterns. I know a lot of fake tarot readers are out there who wants us to depend on them for juicy details. But be clear in this tarot works on the concept ofenergy. If you are meant to have greatness and you ain't putting effort you won't get anything. These cards are so relatable to Cabala,psychology,numerology,astrology and all the religious teachings across the world. I am a counselling psychologist too so i can assure that these cards can hel you alot only if you know how to use them. I am sorry you met crappy readers and you never learnt the truth about tarot and how our mind works.
Thank you for your comment, and I actually don't disagree. Maybe it wasn't clear in the video, but I most definitely know my responsibility in the matter and do not blame the cards.
As you said, there might be readers out there that don't have good intentions, but at the end, in my personal opinion, it comes down to the relationship and trust we have within ourselves. I've actually made a follow up video (it's being uploaded as I comment), where I go deeper into the potential reasons why one can get addicted to tarot; It gives a bit more perspective on the responsibility we have.
And the winner for who gut butt hurt is.... Pooja Sharma. You really got so offended that needed to attack the youtuber, I wouldn't trust your counseling for a bit if you are so quick at pointing fingers just to defend your point of view. I wonder if you don't do more harm than good to your patients XD
You are absolutely correct
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