The Beeston Fam OFFICAL HOUSE TOUR
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What’s up with Sunny being in the basement? The office should be her room until she gets older. Strange arrangement.
A lot of people commented to not put her downstairs when they were first showing how the house was coming along. If nothing else, they could put her crib in Jack's room for now and wait until both kids are a lot older before one goes down to the basement. They treat Sunny so much different than Jack.
@marytoles6257 Yes, the favoritism is obvious
@@marytoles6257true.
Kind of sad Sunny's room is so isolated and her special space is basically a storage closet for your excess clothes. You treat her different than Jack who has his own space and he's upstairs with you guys with LIGHT.
Also if someone breaks into your house they know perfectly where everyone is. This is so dangerous!
Jack slept in a tiny closet when he was about Sunnys age.
They were going to have jack in the basement then idk what happened an now sunny is downstairs… 😢 very odd. Most of the views don’t like it. Doesn’t make sense in anyway shape or form! I don’t think they could explain to any of us why they did… they could use 1000 reasons why they did that but it still makes no sense!! My mom would say something before my viewers ever did.. my own mother would be so upset with me that by the time this house tour came out it would have been changed…. But honestly my mom wouldn’t have had to be made because I would never ever do this!!! If a creeper gets into that basement no one will hear them and they will take sunny and run and you won’t know for hours!!! That’s so so so scary!!
@@malinpehright next to his parents. It was a tiny apt.
Love the tour & your precious family🥰 As a Mom for 40 years & Grandmother for 19
Years, I agree with the majority about our recommendation to relocate Sunny’s room closer to the rest of you’ll upstairs. You can always let the kiddos play together downstairs while you work from your office where Sunny’s room is now. She will appreciate the privacy more later on when she’s a teen-but not now. Safety is paramount & I know you being the parents will make a wise decision. Blessings!🙏🏻💕
Yes Yes Yes
I like how respectful you have been with your message. I think the overall consensus has been the room needs to be re-located but some comments are a bit rude! I do remember them asking in a previous video about having the kids in the basement, but I can’t remember the reasoning for it. Personally it would stress me out having my babies so far away from me especially at night!
A little girl alone in the basement next to the guest room?? Freaking dangerous even if you only have people you trust down there.
Most SA are within the family and friends circle.
SO UNTHOUGHTFUL.
You just said the office has the same amount of space as Jack’s room, why don’t you switch the office for Sunny’s room?
Sunny won’t appreciate a walking wardrobe for another 15 years, why the need to keep her separated and not putting the effort you clearly did with Jack?
I’ve been part of the “left aside female descendants” in my family, and I can tell you, kids notice it and it scars you for life. Always feeling you are not good enough (not just in relationships but in life, career, everything affects it!!!).
Also you are not contemplating Sunny is a girl, she needs better protection than for Jack in general.
This is very disappointing and I’m just scared for beautiful baby Sunny.
She will def have issues with you all (Jack included because he will treat her as you do, not as you tell him to treat her) directly once she’s able to speak and observe the family dynamic better.
Really really sad this can be preventable but you are just so set on Jack alone 😢
For many families, the value of daughters is only in appearance and they are never as important as sons. So Sunny's dark hair color has let them down.
@@KC-ez6yvI think Sunny is the cutest kid.
I feel bad for Sunny. Jacks room is all decorated and nice. They even make a comment how they love to hang out in there with the kids. Sunny’s room is in a basement and not even decorated. Her room looks like a storage for baby items. Something seems off about this.
Watched vid before commenting..I have to agree with others. Seems like sunny is on the back burner . It's all about you two and your convenience. Poor little sunny, I hope these choices for you and jack would be reconsidered. I would never put my youngest and still so small on a different floor away from the rest of the family. Maybe mom subconsciously is jealous of not being the only girl in the house? Out of sight out of mind. Office downstairs, sunny upstairs with the rest of you. How will you hear her cry in the middle of the night, oh, technology yea right. All this time I have watched you, you've never put jack away from you like that, with him that small. Hope you reconsider your choices
Thats terrible to suggest Sarah likes being the only girl in the house. Very uncalled for. Sarah and Derek love their children. The only problem is the children are on a different level and with a baby so young I just wouldn't do it. It looked like they were closed in unsupervised. They are way too young. Keeping the house clean or more peace for mom and dad wont matter if something happens to one of the kids. You can never go back. Please reconsider you all being on the same floor. An open toilet is an accident waiting to happen. You should have a baby lock on it even if its inconvenient for Jack. He of course needs to be able to let you know he needs to go. I love your channel and want only good things for you. We would all like out of sight and a break from kids sometimes, but it just cant happen while we are parents (or they are several years older) except for the breaks with Grandparents. Please get on the same floor till they are older.❤
Also, they lived in a different house when Jack was that small. They love BOTH their kids. To imply otherwise is so wrong. They are young parents. Lets encourage them and suggest the same floor, but to think there are other motives, well, you just dont know them at all.
Thank you for your house tour. Very different with completed fixtures and with furnishings. Before very huge when empty, but just enough now with furnitures. I prefer not to knockout just to make door because it's fine now. Love the huge sofa at the basement with the huge space it made the room comfy and just rightly filled. So Sunny's room is really at the basement? Especially now she's on exploring stage! Always put the lid on your toilet seats down and buy a stopper so it wouldn't open quickly. Also put covers on your electrical outlets to avoid electrocution. There are safety procedures to be done, it's hard to be injured while young (well even as adults like Derrik- no offense). Is she not lonely there? Hope you have her with you for now? Or put your office down. Not right to have a baby alone AND AT THE BASEMENT? WHY???
Favoritism. Even Derek looked embarrassed about where they stuck that beautiful little baby. He tried to make up for it by saying the living area bathroom was hers. It’s not even decorated for a little girl. At least he has the decency to be ashamed about it.
I love the house a lot. But I don’t like Sunny downstairs away from everybody. That scares me so much. She’s so little and alone down there.
Beautiful ohana and hale! I wondered why Sunny is so far away. When you lived in Hawai’i, you were like in arms reach of Jack, very nurturing!!! Children always notice the differences and compare. I was 1 of 10 and I know the differences of how i was treated. My parents loved me as you do Sunny, but in her eyes she may feel like she is second to Jack. As a nanny, mother of three…. Your baby needs to be near you♥️Skin to skin….just as you did with Jack! I dont mean any of this as judgement as we all have things to learn. You both are 🤩 beautiful parents!
She clearly is second to jack. It's been noticeable since day 1 that Jack is their fav
WHY IS THE BABY IN THE BASEMENT N NOT YOUR OFFIC , YOU SHOULD ALL BE ON THE SAME LEVEL INCASE SOMETHING HAPPENS
During this time of lack of love ...it is sad to hear that Sunny is downstairs. PLEASE for all that is needed bring Sunny back upstairs. To have one child closer to you than the other creates emotional issues. Come on guys really. ? Poor Sunny.
I’m just flabbergasted that you have your baby’s room on another floor. By herself. ??? The space you have for your office would make a nice nursery for her. Also the fact that your toilets aren’t closed with baby proof latches on them is surprising, especially since you said she can often be found by the toilet. Really puzzled by your choices, and have to say kinda concerned. Nice house though.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DONT LET SUNNY NEAR A TOILET SHE CAN FLIP OVER INTO IT AND DROWN. THIS HAPPENED TO MY FRIENDA BABY.. PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!
‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ yesssss please guys be safe ❤
its very evident to me that jack is the parents favourite, jacks room is finished and sunnys room isnt even ready
both kids should be sleeping on the same floor of the house
I was waiting for Sunnys room to be on the same floor as yours. I was actually shocked she is by herself. Please move her into the office space until she is much older like 10, then she can maybe be in the basement. It is a MAJOR safety issue. God forbid there is a fire and you can't get to her in the basement.
You’re right but 10 years old? I feel like 7
Congratulations on your beautiful home! When my babies became toddlers, they would literally jump out of their crib and go looking for us and we were literally down the hall. Please keep this in mind while Sunny is alone in the basement. It may also be more difficult to reach her during an emergency..Just a suggestion. God bless!❣️
These guys were to young for kids.
People are giving you advice out of LOVE! Please listen to it. You need safety locks on all toilets. Sunny can fall in head first. Look it up! Make a video showing all the safety latches on everything. It would help spread awareness to the need, save lives, and protect your precious children!!!!
Love your message to everyone that has children and to those who do not have children that are getting ready to have them thank you for your Caring Heart
So true, Years ago a family down the street was having a pool party, a toddler flipped upside-down in a bucket. Sadly it was a fatal outcome. It's no joke if she likes the toilet water, they need to get a grip on that behavior. I'm sickend that she is downstairs alone at this point of her life.
These people don’t care about the safety of their children! Are you kidding me right now they exploit them online for money!
Oh wow, why is Sunny's room in the basement??????? That is unexpected and I'm actually shocked. Does she sleep with you guys at night? There doesn't seem to be anywhere for her to sleep at all upstairs. I'm trying to understand why she would sleep down there. Do you have a night nanny who stays down there with her? Why would Sunny WANT to be separated from her whole family??? I can't believe the last upstairs bedroom is your office- are you serious? Even with a baby monitor, in an emergency you are so far from her! This is breaking my heart.
Yep.. if you notice, even the first bedroom downstairs is closer than Sunny's bedroom.
They resent her for not sleeping the first 6mos of her life.
I agree with so many others in the comments about the location of Sunnys room while she is still so young. It can always be changed back to downstairs when she is older.
Oh yeah, let’s put off shunning the child until she’s older.
@@User14816no cause when she’s older she might prefer to have her own space. But I agree that since she is still a baby she should not be alone in the basement
@@User14816You definitely are a "user"....😜
I went back to empty house tour in July 22 vlog and everyone was upset about Sunny's room in the basement . I still don't like baby Sunny in the basement. She should not be so far away and isolated. Unless there is someone in the guest room all the time. Put the office in the basement. If/when you have more kids, you can relocate the kids when they are older.
Obvious who is the 'Golden' child. Look at Jacks room all turned out with his special bed and lots of sunlight. Sarah says its her favorite room in house. Derik says its so open and bright they all spend lot of time there. Sunnys room in the basement looks like a junk room.
Why are you guys and Jack up stairs and Sunny in the basement by herself.?
He’s apparently a favored blonder child😢.
You have a very nice house but I have to ask why you put Sunny's room in the basement instead of on the main floor with everyone else? Your office should of been in the basement so you could of worked undisturbed. Just wondering 🤔
Hopefully they see all the comments on this video about Sunny’s room and will address it on the next video! It just doesn’t seem right that sunny is all the way down in the basement! Especially with no one down there with her! She needs to be on the same floor as the rest of the family!! Poor baby 😢
If you ever had a fire, how are you going to get Sunny in a hurry? Just something to think about. Love your family. I look forward to you every single day. 🩷🩷🩷
TRUE COMENT
Beautiful home. I agree with the majority of the comments: why is Sunny's room downstairs? 😮😮😮
They don't love Sunny
@kmedat8476 they do love Sunny. That's stupid for you to even say!! Yes it's wrong for her to be in the basement but to say they don't love her is ridiculous.
You explain to me then, why is she in the basement?@@joymorrison6614
@kmedat8476 um yes they do they love both of their kids equally
They could get her hair frosted blonde.
She's such a cutie, I feel awful about her living in the basement 😪
I love how almost all the comments are calling them out on putting their baby in the basement away from the rest of the family. I was typing this as she was mentioning taking the clothes she don't need downstairs and the ones that she does upstairs. Kind of ironic considering where they decided to put sunny. I know a lot of us said something about it not being right that sunny is alone in the basement when they we're planning their rooms out. They just don't care. They put her down there anyway. I could never. What if there was a fire? They paid to have a house built and CHOSE to put their baby in the basement. Wtf. But I will say the people complaining about the bumpers on thee crib is forgetting that she is almost a year old. SIDS is like nonexistent after around 8 months
Your comment made me think. They store out of season clothing in the basement. They store their out of favor child in the basement.
@@KC3P00 that was the first thing I thought of when she was talking about taking the summer clothes that they don't need down stairs so they could keep the ones that they do want upstairs, upstairs. I don't think it is a coincidence. We all brought this up when they was planning rooms and they still chose to put their baa y in the basement, alone. I don't know how you can pay to have a house built and then turn around and put your baby in the basement where they could die in a fire.
I’m also wondering why that absolutely beautiful little girl named Sunny, is so far away from the rest of you. That video was great but the thing I first thought was where’s Sunny??? Seeing Sunny’s beautiful face bathed in sunshine like the rest of you, would be so good for her and for everyone else. I grew up on the outside of my family for some (my step-brother was born when I was 8) and that was it. Even though my mother tried her best when it came to fairness but I always knew I was on the outside. I grew up thinking that and here I am at 69, still feeling the same way. My mum died in 2007 but I still miss her every day. You guys probably don’t notice, but it seems like, sometimes, that Jack gets more attention because he is first-born and he’s amazing fun to be with, and Sunny was smaller, with dark hair….which surprised everyone, but her smile and the sparkle in her gorgeous eyes are so breathtaking…..I’d LOVE to see her more often. Please don’t take this as criticism in any way. You guys are awesome parents already! I watch your videos and smile constantly while doing so. Lots of love to all of you, from Toronto, Canada. Do you guys ever come up here……I think you’d like it!
This comment nearly made me cry. I hope you heal from your wounds eventually. Sometimes we aren’t given the closure or confirmations we need. I’ve felt some things that have stuck with me from my own childhood that I wish to protect my own daughter from now that I am a mother myself. Sending you hugs. May your inner child heal. And I hope beautiful Sunny never feels this way.
Are you comfortable with Sunny so far away? It feels like an odd energetic having parents and small children so far apart. Maybe pay attention to how integrated she feels into the family as time goes on. We recently put our grandkids (2 & 3) in the same room and they love it. We got a twin bed for our grandson and will put in bunk beds when our granddaughter grows out of her crib (soon). They love waking up in the morning and chatting with each other. And they sing to each other at night. Or maybe just a crib in your office for now.
Boys and girls should always have separate rooms. Once they're walking and talking, they need their own rooms. I don't know how to say this, but brother-sister incest is a real thing, and it happens WAY more than most people realize, and can start at a really young age. DCF will tell you that they each need their own room for this exact reason.
As someone who was sexually abused from the age of 4 by my cousin that lived with us(age 6), I can tell you that it will haunt you for the rest of your life. It's a very confusing and embarrassing situation to deal with.
very odd
@@PositiveVibesOnly37 Did your cousin sleep in the same room with you?
They don't love Sunny as much as jack...it shows Call DCF
@PositiveVibesOnly37 no they don't. My daughters psychologist recommended she share a bed at 7 when I was having her leave my bed. They now have bunk beds. Don't make things that are innocent be sexual.
I love the house but why would you have an “office” on the main floor and Sunny’s room downstairs??? Seriously she is a baby still and I’ve never seen anyone not have their kids close to ear shot when sleeping. Put her in the room that is an office and put your office downstairs. She can use that basement room when she is a lot older.
Woah...they CHOSE to put their baby in the basement and keep the office upstairs?? 😳😬😬😬 Priorities 💯 Can't wait for Dad Challenge Podcast to cover this one.
Sunny shouldn't be alone in the basement. Don't hesitate, changed the nursery to upstairs at once. Should take more care of her every moment because she is too little. Child safety is a top priority.
They are punishing sunny b/c she doesn't have blond hair
@@kmedat8476how stupid!
@@kmedat8476Neither do any of them without the bleach. Watch, Sunny's hair will "turn blonde" at some point soon.
The house is beautiful, but it’s really sad that you have your baby alone in the basement.
She’s too little to be that far away. What if there is a fire or an emergency?
The office should absolutely be in the basement, not the baby.
Yes, Please put sunny's nursery up stairs and the office in the basement.
Why would you even consider having the baby's room on another floor...that's just insane!
Let them do what they want girl
Right! Especially since they just shared with the entire world the layout of their home. That was stupid!
IMHO: We didn’t want a furnace or a hot water heater or a staircase to be in between us and our kids in case of an emergency such as fire. should Everybody on one floor is best.
@@paigeolson6858 that’s not what you do to your baby
I’ll never understand why your office can’t go downstairs and Sunny be upstairs with you guys ….
In just a year and a half when Sunny’s out of a crib and in a bed she’s going to wake up and get out of bed downstairs in the basement all by herself. Not only is this super dangerous in case of a fire but what a sad and lonely way to wake up. She should be upstairs with the rest of the family. And yes, I’m a parent of two, and this breaks my heart.
Mine,too😢
She’s going to grow up wondering why she’s separated from the family this way. This sucks.
When they are 12 they are going to fight over that basement bedroom. 🙄
@@yomama5304true, but the kids could switch rooms when they are teens.
Exactly this is soo stupid, I don’t think they would change it tho sadly
What if there's an emergency during the night ..fire, earthquake...the two adults, Derrick and Sarah can quickly get to Jack, who's bedroom is just across the hall from where you all sleep upstairs. Your baby, Sunny who's bedroom is located downstairs , tucked back in the rear araa, beyond the guest room( that's another issue to consider...), beyond the huge family room. Then you reach Sunny's bedroom , which is close to the unfinished portions of your downstairs area of your home. Your sweet baby girl is not set up in the safest way in your home. I speak out of a Caring Heart for you Beautiful family.
* ..your Beautiful family.
I totally agree! Office should be in basement, not your child all alone!
This family prefer sons over daughters. Poor Sunny.
@@leepingtan7443 I kinda always thought sunny didn't get a much attention as Jack. I don't think I've ever seen a video except for one that they actually put Sunny in clothes other than Jammies. Now her bedroom is away from everyone else! Yeah, this is sad!
@@amycastillo1333from what I have seen, I've also thought they were all about Jack. I think he's a spoiled brat. Jumping on furniture. Throwing/kicking things inside. Just giving an opinion. It's not his fault he acts like a feral child.
It's really sad that the baby you named "Sunny" is in the dreary, dark basement when everyone else has sunny bedrooms upstairs......🤷🙄
Complete inversion
It is a beautiful home!! The kids are too adorable ♥️♥️
Does Sunny actually sleep downstairs? I would be scared to have my baby downstairs by herself. I will add, that is just my opinion though. You both are wonderful people and parents, you know what makes you comfortable. Definitely not judging you! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Me too
Baby monitors???
@@kirstyevans5482not good enough!! I’m hoping sunny sleeps with them and that room isn’t used for sleeping!
I know my preference would be to have the office downstairs and Sunny up with the rest of the family.
Passive aggressive judgment
Sunny shouldn’t be downstairs she is too little and active❤️
Please family please change the baby to upstairs.
I've seen a few other RUclipsrs with big new houses put babies as young as newborns on completely different floors than the parents and it's often on the other side of the house as well as a different floor. To me that makes as much sense as the social media trend to dump clean clothes on the floor to fold them. I must have reached old age sooner than expected. I hope they have a nanny sleeping in that guest room.
The house is really cool! Love all the windows so you have such nice natal light. Here’s the major problem!! A 1 year old should never be sleeping alone downstairs( unless you have a full time Nanny sleeping down there) think about if she needs you at night. Bye the time the monitor ( which you better have) goes off and you wake up go downstairs she could be in real danger. Also I noticed you have bumpers in the crib!!! They have suppose to stop selling them because babies can suffocate under them. In that big a house Sunny should have a room near you. How you ever came up with that Idea is beyond this great grandmas mind. Why is Jack near you?? Think about this problem quick. Can even put Jack down there and Sunny in his room?? But neither child should be isolated down in the basement.also please cut Jacks hair already. He his constantly moving it off his face. Sorry you might think I am being mean but this is really coming from love . ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Bumpers def a bad idea. Not advised here in the UK
@@Rosette-zr5ghshe is almost a year old. The bumpers are not going to hurt her. But no need to worry because I'm sure they are making her sleep in that play pen. Idk why else they would have a bed and a play pen down in the basement. I always feel bad for babies that only sleep in play pens. They make baby beds for a reason
There is a good article on cot bumpers by The Lullaby Trust for anyone who is interested.
You may love them as a family, but your message is full of you thinking you know better and that your ways are better than theirs. I appreciate you likely have a lot of wisdom to share, but give them the benefit of the doubt-they will do what is best for their family.
@@ashleygill7018 hi don’t know why you are upset with me. These 2 kids are doing a wonderful job as parents and the love they show between them. I am just a concerned watcher of their lives. If you take the time to read other comments there are lots of followers concerned about the house set up. My way might be all wrong for their way of life but I was just making a comment like other followers. Just keep on following them they are adorable with great family values. For goodness sake it is just a house in progress. Like their lives.
Put Sunny upstairs and your office in basement please.
Beautiful home! Congrats!! I do agree with the other comments. Please reconsider swapping the office and Sunny’s room. She will love her basement room as a teen. But as a youngster, it’s very isolating. You never know how a kids brain will process that she sleeps away from the rest of the family 😢
Heartbreaking but spot on point.
@@leepingtan7443 they never loved her since she has dark hair...they made kazillions of videos about it. What the hell is up?
@@bonnieplattner3094right? And the big closet??? Saying she’ll love it as she gets older. No she won’t. Because they’ve already turned the 1 plus side of her room…into THEIR storage closet. They will only add more and more things into “Sunny’s” closet until it turns into a catch all. By the time Sunny is old enough to enjoy a large closet, she will only have a small fraction and she will loose her privacy of her closet, because it’s a shared family closet.
The poor girl’s space just seems like an after thought on where to put her 😢😢😢
Nancy ....even more depressing - but what you said.
@@kmedat8476Why don't they just dye it like they did to the older kid? I mean 2 parents with naturally dark hair who dye their own hair aren't going to have blonde babies.
its so weird that the baby is shunned to the basement dungeon... lol
That’s what I called it. And trying to say the adult bathroom was Sunny’s. Lol
Genuine question. Why isnt Sunny in the office and the office where Sunny is?
Because Sarah wants her down there away from the supposedly natural blondes.
@@User14816I don't think they know that bleached hair with dark roots isn't "natural". These two make me feel ick. I unsubscribed. I can't support a couple that banishes a baby to the basement.
Trolling I see. lol @@User14816
Okay... @@KC3P00
Oh man. I don’t ever comment on other parents choices, but I have actual concern for Sunny being down in the basement. All I can think of is God forbid someone breaking in and now knowing she’s down there by herself since this is on the internet for anyone to see. And gosh she’s just so tiny… she needs to be in close range to you for so many other reasons. This is coming from a good place. I really love your family and I love your updates. This just didn’t sit well with me 😢
Exactly!! It looked like the stairs for the basement are literally at the entry door, while Jack and them are at the other "end" of the house.
Same, but I had to comment as well, and I feel icky doing it. However, I feel like this is such a strange decision that could end terribly
Until Sunny’s older, she sleeps upstairs with Sarah & Derik as well as Jack!
As far back as I can remember, (as a little girl) I didn't like my parents putting me in a room too far from theirs... I had nightmares... It's been a very very long time now but the child that I was still remembers it...
I can't even imagine this poor little Sunny exiled in the immense basement. it’s better to be close to the parents and in a cramped place.
I agree! It’s been Jack over Sunny from day 1. Don’t you remember they’re immense disappointment in her dark hair? But, Jacks hair is dark at the roots and if they cut it ,it won’t be blonde anymore. I and others would love to see channels exploiting their children shut down.
@@User14816obviously you don't want the channels shut down or else you wouldn't be giving them views and comments. All that equals money in their pockets. You know that right?
Sandik heartbreaking (so sorry) but spoton point.
@@User14816Ikr? It was the first time I saw a parent letting a baby sleep in the basement by herself, as if she were a teenager.
@@kimberlyhemminger3822 for your information,RUclips only pays money for subscriptions and watching ads. I know, because I checked. I also,asked a friend who has a channel. You’re probably one of her relatives,even though you look don’t look nothing like them. 😂
Would you please do a video telling us the mindset 🤔 behind Sunny being away from the family and put in the basement??? You are such clever people just let us know please 🙏 ❤
Thank you. We all want to know. Perfect age for two kids together in Jacks room. Heard talk of her poor sleeping habits woke him up.
Their mindset is they don't want to deal with her crying at night so they have her shunned to the basement. She will cry and they won't hear it. They want to sleep instead
@@krazyworld6433 well, maybe she needs love? needs a diaper change, has had a nightmare...and they don't want to hear it. Better Call DCF
it's because she's a brunette and that's all
I was thinking it could be Sunny’s sleep habits. They mentioned she wakes up every hour. I hope they are not getting advice to ignore Sunny’s cries from parenting “gurus” who recommend that. I believe it is dangerous to the child’s development. The most important thing to do for infants is to meet their basic needs. Otherwise, they can develop deep feelings of rejection and abandonment. Putting everyone else’s need to sleep is sad. Sunny is a baby. It’s not like these young parents are working regular jobs? They can and should adjust as family. #teamsunny if sunny ever reads this in the future I want her to know a lot of people advocated for her.
Why is Sunny so far away
Sunny should be upstairs with the rest of the family until she wants to go downstairs. The office can easily go downstairs. A family’s safety comes first.
You can see they favor Jack by his nice, sunny, close bedroom.
I know, I just keep thinking about JonBenet Ramsey and the basement. But I’m guessing they will leave the rooms as is, bc they gave a tour while things were under construction and sunny in the basement has been the plan all along.😢
@@nancyb7495 They don't love Sunny...it shows
@@nancyb7495bro that is so rude
@@kmedat8476You’re absolutely nutso!
Seriously, I don't even have words. I would NEVER put my baby alone in the basement. Never. Especially when the older kid is upstairs near the parents. And the freaking OFFICE. They don't realize the long-term damage this can cause... Poor baby.
They don't care. Jack is their fav. They don't want to deal with sunny. Idk y they even had another kid
To be fair, they seem pretty self absorbed. Seemed to worry about their big new house that their subscribers got them via support; yet it's been 2 months and the place is trashed. Lazy.
It's a temptation to call CFS for the baby's welfare. It's not like they'd save her in an emergency.
Seriously, I don’t have words. These kids are growing up with loving parents in a large luxurious home. Millions of large families in America are having to raise their kids in a one bedroom apartment or in a homeless shelter. I don’t think there is anything to criticize them about, and find us all to be so frivolous
@@originaloldfashionedtarot I just can’t believe it when I read these frivolous comments. These children are growing up with loving parents in a large luxurious home. These children are extremely blessed. Millions of families in America are living in a cramped one bedroom house or apartment and some in homeless shelters. I can’t believe you have the audacity to leave a comment like that. I was the youngest of three and the only one to have a bedroom in the basement and I loved it. To each their own.
Please put Sunny upstairs with you. Very real safety hazard for her.
Your house 🏠 is beautiful! I agree with everyone else that Sunny needs to have a bedroom where your office is. Also, when you were showing your downstairs the big room that you still need to remodel had another door. Does that door go outside? Very dangerous for a baby. Where I live a baby got burned up because the parents couldn’t get to it fast enough because fire spread to fast. You definitely need to think about that being upstairs. Young parents usually don’t think about things like that and baby monitor didn’t help!!
Please take sunny and put her upstairs, there's no good explanation for her to be down in the basement she's just a babe your office needs to be down there I'm crying over this!!!
They don't care. They r a typical vlogger family. Using their kids for views but not treating then like humans. Jack is their fav. They dint want to deal with sunny.
@@krazyworld6433 Typical overreactor. "not treating them like humans", they have treated their children better than your parents did to you, that's for sure.
@@krazyworld6433i don't think Jack Is the fav... He Is a strange baby. I'd be so much worried for him...
I am getting JonBenét Ramsey vibes over that poor baby in the basement by herself.
Frightening!!
I see a lot of comments expressing concerns for a child being in the basement and i do agree, however it feels odd to me. Children on family vlogging channels is dangerous, predeters, stalkers, parasocial relationships to name but a few. People still support by watching i guess what im trying to say is, why are people rightly concerned about a child be in a basement but less concerned about children being in front of potential danger when they appear in videos?.
I agree and they showed all the entrances including windows in their children’s room. Do people not have any concerns about safety today?
House is gorgeous and massive..lots to clean. Poor Sunny banished all alone to the gymormous basement. Yes she will love the privacy as a teen but as a baby she needs to be with the family. She and Jack will be missing out on their bedtime bonding sneaking into each others rooms to play..i cant imagine either of them roaming around in the dark to see each other as they get older😮
Lots to clean??? Oh MY WORD. Guyyyyyys. Be real and be nice. Not a cool or even accurate comment. :/
@a_mother_in_law sorry I don't understand your reply. I am be real, the house is very large and it is alot to clean. I didn't mean it in bad way it's a fact. As someone who lives in a very small house and has a hard time keeping up with my kids I can't imagine something that large with 2 floors. Didn't mean to offend. To each is own.
@@adnyl6288 that makes more sense. I guess I just saw so many comments of people saying their house was messy. Good to know! :)
I watch all y'alls friends and family videos but I always look forward to y'alls videos the most. You two are the coolest of them all. I love your family dynamic and y'all are the realest most relatable couple and parents. Also I adore that the brothers are so close. Y'alls kids will grow up with cousins as best friends. My cousin were my first friends too... I love how the wives are best buds too. God bless y'all.
Just wondering why u didn't put the office downstairs and the baby upstairs...i couldn't have my baby that far away from me...just kinda strange...
Agreed and a safety concern!
I'm sure they have a baby monitor 🙄
@@kirstyevans5482 a baby monitor doesn’t get you down the stairs past nothing an emergency and God forbid if there’s a break in or something
Shhh!
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All of you are a joy to watch. Happy you got your house looks beautiful.
Loved the house tour. Thank you for sharing. You both are amazing and I really enjoy your videos.❤
I don't understand buying a custom built home and not having at least four bedrooms on the same floor? That makes no sense. Especially when it was custom built.
Could Sunny's bedroom be further away from the rest of the family?
Hopefully she sleeps with you guys amd that's just an assigned place for her clothes.
That's ridiculous to put a baby to sleep so far away. I mean didn't either of your parents tell you that that was a dumb idea!! You have a bunch of strangers more concerned about your baby than you are.
Please tell us that she doesn't sleep in that room.
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Beautiful Home...😢😢Sunny in the basement alone made me cry..very heartbreaking..Anything could happen to her....but im not her parent..so to each their own.
im so happy for you BOTHHH omg been following you since your studio house in hawaii and this makes me emotional
So your bedroom, Jack's bedroom, and your home office are all on the main floor with massive beautiful windows to let natural light in and to see how beautiful it is outside, and than Sunny's room downstairs, around the corner and down a hallway, stuffed in the back corner of the smallest room in the house with the tiniest window. I don't get it. Truly i don't.
😢😢 me either😢😢
2 minutes in, Jack got his favourite toy and Sunny has been addressed as "hey! _you_ " about 5 times. Clear to see who gets to sleep upstairs 😒😔
@@leannsfearcocktail9420 I'm only giving MY OPINION on information that they make public. I only pointed out events that actually happened in their video (minus the "5 times" -that was hyperbole on my part). Idk about you, Leann, but I feel genuinely sad about the sweet baby girl being put downstairs in a corner. Don't mistake genuine, valid critique for jusr "being a hater". M
Hey you and playing in the toilet
they have been disappointed since sunny came out with dark hair. it was so obvious and still is. just weird vibes.
@easton1354 100%. I literally said that too. It's weird af and not a reason to shun your infant daughter. I think they need help but instead they're gonna have another one. Poor Sunny will then be the "awful middle child." 😢
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I noticed that too, they were shocked and disappointed that the baby had dark hair.
I absolutely agree with most of your viewers. A small child should be sleeping as close to their parents as possible. I am mother to 5 and could not image having to run all the way down stairs and down to the end of the hall to get to my child. Especially when the house was built with three bedrooms upstairs. Honestly having your office in the room where Sunny's room is would be smartest since when working you should want privacy and an ability to have uninterrupted work time. Then later when the kids are teens, you let them have the two basement rooms and then have your precious office in that room that you have it now and the guest room in Jack's current room. Honestly the thought that you really put your not even one year old in the corner basement room concerns me and makes me doubt that you are making the best choice for everyone in your home. I think that it just about has me so disappointed and disgusted that I may unsubscribe. I hope you truly take all these caring parents opinions to heart for Sunny's sake.
And I think it’s concerning that they know Sunny’s leg is turning in drastically and she won’t even sit on her butt ever and they just say yeah we need to make an appt for that. I would have made the appt the day I noticed it because if she needs braces on her legs like Sara’s sister had to have when she was younger, time is of the essence. Love their sweet family I just worry about little sunny 😢
U know they aren't running to her when she cries. They have her down there so they can ignore her and sleep
@@Kchance1220 yes, especially in the basement b/c they don't want to hear her crying at night
This really made me feel feelings I’ve never felt for this family myself. I REALLY adore them but this is just not setting well with me. I’m a new mother of a 3 month old girl and my husband and I couldn’t imagine even putting her in her own room yet, even though she has a whole beautiful nursery set up in the room next to ours. We would never want our babies on a different floor. When they’re teens, it’s much different. But not a precious, helpless little baby. I feel sick in my heart over this.
@@Kchance1220maybe they resent her for being dark headed with abnormalities? 🤔
Well I’ve thought about it- I can see that as a family you favor the upstairs. That’s the used areas. It’s not ok for your youngest to be in the basement while everyone else is upstairs. I know you probably think she wants the big closet and all of that space, but she’s a baby. She will not want to be alone downstairs until she’s an older teenager so if I was you Sarah, as a mother, switch the office space and Sunny’s room for now. All the adult things and hangouts can be hosted downstairs and keep the upstairs private for your family. It’s a huge safety issue as well. If the house burns, Sunny cannot escape on her own yet. Jack is right beside your room. It’s just odd that’s she’s down there while everyone else is upstairs. Maybe when she’s older and appreciates the big closet and privacy, but not now when she’s too young to defend herself if something God forbid happens
It’s truly amazing how people can support themselves by posting videos! I love watching your videos though and truly hope by watching that it helps y’all continue on your journey! Your family is beautiful ❤
In my household I have my toddler room and baby room upstairs where I am. I don’t understand the point of putting your baby downstairs. I’m not hating just confused.
So beautiful- congrats you guys! Sarah, can you please make a sit down video about endometriosis? I’m really interested in hearing your story, as so many struggle with this horrible disease! Lots a love x
I always look forward to y’all’s videos! Yayy! 😁🤗
Seriously, I am totally stymied by why you’d put one of your children downstairs and one upstairs the office belongs downstairs children belong upstairs with you.
To each their own, but I could never put my baby away from my room and then in the basement at that
It’s a half decorated little dungeon. Poor baby.
@@User14816 I worry most about kidnappers. Just not safe in so many different ways. I think the parents need to reconsider. Everyone makes mistakes
The J A C K pumpkin looks good. You're all a fun family. Your house is huge. Looks great 😊
Yeah, let all the perverts in the neighborhood know there is a kid named Jack in the house. Brilliant~
What is wrong with you, are you the pervert you speak about ?
The house is perfect- it’s going to be so fun to see it evolve but more than that the people in it💜 that fireplace is super cool! Love the roundabout and all the nooks and crannies and different areas to do things in. So happy for you! You are blessed!
Congratulations to you both!! Best for you and your family!! Thank you for the awesome vlog!! Have a nice day!!
Thank you for the tour, lovely house and family. Please move Sunny upstairs, it is worrisome that she is downstairs. She could even share a room with Jack, they are still little.
Beautiful house. Your kids are adorable and so fun.
amazing video as usualll, the houseee is great and may i say i love how real you guys are, really enjoy watching you wish u all the best❤
So beautiful!! Great job working on the house y’all!
Obviously it's your home, you can do what you want, but I definitely agree with the rest of the posts. Sunny should really be upstairs. Office is a quiet downstairs area is easier to work anyway.
The children should be on the same floor as the parents. An office is not that important and can be in the basement. Your children as the most valuable things in your life, nothing else should even come close.
I love your new home! Congrats...so happy for you!
Love your house, lm sure you guys will make lots of great memories there . Enjoy your kids while they are little. They grow up so fast . Keep having fun, life is short. Love your videos, keep em comming.
Many years ago, newly widowed, I went on holiday with my neighboours and their three daughters. Halloween was on Friday, so on Monday we bought them a large pumpkin which they called Fred. Every day, they talked to Fred and stroked him. Comes Friday, we asked the girls about carving Fred, thinking that they wouldn't want to do it. They immediately shouted "Great! Chop his head off! Scoop his guts out!" Leaving us adullts open-mouthed. Lovely memory.
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Tell people NONE YO BUSINESS where you have Sunny's room. Your house is lovely.❤
@@gloriasteiner1520 it isn’t safe
Guys, old Mom here. Kids can choose to be in the basement when they’re older. Little kids should be on the level of the Mom. It’s like she’s being separated. I love you guys and want the best for all of you.🩵🩷🩵🩷
Of the PARENTS. There is a father in the house too, you know.
I’m from Brazil and love you all. God blessed you Sarah and Derik and your adorable kids. Congrats, your hause is wonderful. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm lost why both kids aren't upstairs right now and the guest room and office aren't downstairs? Why not keep the kids upstairs until they're 10 and then swap the office / guest room for upstairs and move the kids downstairs? Who puts a baby's room in the very back of a basement away from everyone?
What a beautiful home, so happy for u guys ❤❤❤❤
Please have a rethink of beautiful Sunny’s bedroom....she needs to be closer to her Mom & Dad just like Jack does ❤That basement room will be great when she’s a lot older
Love your house! So excited for you guys
Beautiful home! You will fill it with wonderful memories in the years to come.
Awesome house tour! Understandable about the house being messy, you have 2 gorgeous kids & a busy life guys! When I was younger & married, I had 4 kids. They are all grown up & I now have 7 wonderful grandkids, 4 granddughters & 3 grandsons. Thks for giving us a tour of your house!
Wierd comment about Jack thinks it is "his" bathroom. Most toddlers aren't that possessive of a bathroom unless someone is telling them it's theirs. 🥴
Because he clearly rules the roost.
Why did you put your baby in the basement?🤔It an odd choice?
I love that y’all are so real. No one house is ever perfect. It’s a mess 99.9% of the time. ESPECIALLY having kids. So ty for keeping it real. Every house tour always looks so perfect. Hate that
My mother had a sign in her kitchen that said my house is clean enough to be healthy and dirty enough to be happy.
Way to call yourself out for being a slob!🤔
@@mandypotter3898Sarah also had to move into a new house all by herself as Derik was on crutches so give them a break it’s hard enough with two babies🇬🇧
@@deeelliott1574 - lol! She actually has 3 kids! Time for life training skills! If you get it out - you can put it away! It’s not like they have to go out & go to a real job every day!
The front of that new expensive TV was nasty! Sheesh…
Edit: She had a
ALOT OF HELP MOVING, both sides of family & friends!
@@jayannakelley9051 I agree. They have the money for movers and a maid.
First, your home is beautiful. I feel like you didn’t put enough thought into the bedroom situation. Sunny should absolutely be on the same level with the REST of the family. So unfortunate
So initially you all were going to put Jack in the basement and everyone said no and to put the office down there. But instead, you put Sunny down there? 🤦🏼♀️
Child neglect.
Think most parents on here noticed right away Sunny’s room being in the basement. They must be just as shocked as I was.
She is not blond. Does not fit in the family. The black sheep.
I rarely comment on any videos that I watch on RUclips, but I think the comments about this are ridiculous. These kids are growing up in a large, luxurious, beautiful home. Whether their bedroom is in the basement or attic they are so blessed and lucky. So many large families are living in a cramped one bedroom house or in homeless shelters. I think this is so frivolous to even be talking about.
There going to move jack down there Sunny’s there right now because she barley sleeps in there
It’s the same as being on the first floor in a house!!! Why are people so negative. They literally have such a nice house and they made their basement into a whole other floor of their house. It’s not like in the movies where it’s a basement that is like a garage 🤣🤦🏻♀️if you’re gonna comment, at least watch the full videos!
@@lifewiththelawsons365 I did watch the full video duh. 99.9 % of parent keep their young toddlers within ear shot if needed.
So glad to see you all more often. Hugs and have fun!!
Seriously. Shut that bathroom door until Sunny is big enough she wont drown in the toilet. .... Beautiful home! Congratulatìons!
Maybe Jack keeps opening the door? I know I had my daughter's cousins over almost everyday because we helped take care of them, and they ran around and played all day together. Every door would end up wide open at some point. I had an "idea" of how I wanted things to be but life has a way of showing you how it's gonna be 😊 stop picking on this family because I doubt any of you are perfect 🙄