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  • Опубликовано: 23 фев 2023
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  • @maiphammy
    @maiphammy  Год назад +1244

    i really just brain dump and talk non-stop this whole video lmao

    • @fatimaalhatab9796
      @fatimaalhatab9796 Год назад +18

      it’s so entertaining tho 😭🫶🫶🫶

    • @hisokastitch718
      @hisokastitch718 Год назад +6

      I feel like we are besties

    • @xjoliexx2
      @xjoliexx2 Год назад +7

      honestly thats all we need we ain’t complaining 😂❤

    • @bobbypearce1278
      @bobbypearce1278 Год назад +4

      Is it only me but if mai sat in front a camera and said nothing it would be entertaining 😭😭

    • @looser620
      @looser620 Год назад +2

      Lol😆😆😆

  • @dariaro10
    @dariaro10 Год назад +763

    Who else agrees that Mai is basically our virtual big sis?🙋🏻‍♀️ She keeps it real with us!❤️

  • @jaliestevez4166
    @jaliestevez4166 Год назад +106

    mai is basically the only person who can make me get my life together i SWEAR

  • @joye7074
    @joye7074 Год назад +61

    you talking about how feeling lazy, grades, etc. not being what defines you really hit home for me,, it's so refreshing to hear that other ppl, especially youtubers, feel the same things I do

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Год назад +1134

    Who agrees that whenever Mai posts, it makes our day!!😭💓

    • @xjoliexx2
      @xjoliexx2 Год назад +9

      for reals im sick right now and staying in bed bored and i seen her post i got happy 😅❤

    • @mansoor3159
      @mansoor3159 Год назад +3

      ​@@xjoliexx2 okay but I wish you recover soon 🙏🏻

    • @jonrichdeven
      @jonrichdeven Год назад +5

      Yes I agree, but I wish she was more consistent 😭

    • @sarahwithanh8556
      @sarahwithanh8556 Год назад

      Fr

    • @Briizyb
      @Briizyb Год назад

      Fr I got her notifications on and as soon as I get it I watch immediately

  • @poyobink
    @poyobink Год назад +189

    i couldn't relate more to your whole talk about feeling on autopilot with no hobbies and being stuck on my phone ;-; i've been going through a really rough patch of this for a while now, and the negative self-talk hasn't been helping, so thank you mai for being so vulnerable and helping me and so many others feel less alone in our struggles, love u bae

  • @victoriaaikoo
    @victoriaaikoo Год назад +28

    Mai literally helps my mental health. Watching her vids make me feel sm better.

  • @Cheri94
    @Cheri94 Год назад +1

    Every 2 weeks you put out a video, and your videos are SO short? Isn’t your full time job content creation? Just askin,

  • @Poe.thepoe
    @Poe.thepoe Год назад +296

    Does anyone else love how Mai is so real and not afraid to show us who she really is💙💙

  • @kyleighstocks775
    @kyleighstocks775 Год назад +208

    The fact that this is making me get out of bed to do my skincare is astonishing

  • @notshondrella
    @notshondrella Год назад +129

    I love how Mai acts as a big sister for most of us 😍

  • @abbytheredwolf174
    @abbytheredwolf174 Год назад +136

    Watching this while I clean my depression room definitely the boost I need 😂 also I’m feening for summer we need it

  • @LaylaJGoobson
    @LaylaJGoobson Год назад +74

    Mai saying she looks dead literally made my mouth drop…… she looks like an angel no matter what 💗💗💗

  • @angieg7010
    @angieg7010 Год назад +12

    Honestly your words are so relatable. I definitely lack confidence in my work and since I started my stressful job I’ve had no hobbies. I’ll definitely be picking my hobbies back up because the lack of motivation and confidence has but me in place where I just don’t feel like myself.

  • @smellysmo
    @smellysmo Год назад +15

    Everyone thinks the same, but May puts it out there. Which is why people can connect to her. She feels familiar to ourselves, our mind. She mainly thinks out loud, peptalking and giving herself tips. And we can all hear it! I love her for that. Let's grow together to become better.

  • @karli4074
    @karli4074 Год назад +5

    ur right there’s definitely something about keeping promises you make to yourself. it makes you feel super empowered when you tell yourself you’re gonna do something and u do it. like if you can’t trust yourself who can you trust 🤔 but i’m the same way that i’ve noticed myself not doing that so much lately, tryna get back to it

  • @alessia344
    @alessia344 Год назад +30

    Let's appreciate the fact that she can shave her eyebrows and have a whole conversation with us at the same time 🙌🙌

  • @diana-jb3jv
    @diana-jb3jv Год назад +12

    I cant lie I’ve had the worst like 5 months and since I discovered your channel during these months I felt better watching you just being yourself

  • @trynafind_anaya
    @trynafind_anaya Год назад +10

    mai is honestly such a queen, she makes me feel literally so good abt myself bc of how open she is to everyone. a true queen

  • @chloecrosby8273
    @chloecrosby8273 Год назад +22

    I love your videos so much Mai.
    Can we just appreciate her motivation to get her life together? These videos help me get motivated thank you Mai 💗💗💗

  • @dalmery10
    @dalmery10 Год назад +10

    Girl you need to start a podcast! Every thing you say is so relatable. I feel the same exact way right now about my life. I feel like I have no good things happening and I feel so negative all the time it's depressing. Loved your videos! Your always such a great spirited person to watch! 💓💓

  • @Someones_life2
    @Someones_life2 Год назад +5

    I love this video. I sadly relate to so much of the stuff about insecurity. I definitely have so much trouble giving myself slack and not picking apart every part of me and everything about me. I feel so insecure and worthless (I also get sucked into scrolling through shorts) and I feel so alone in my feelings thank you for making me feel less alone and more human. Also I'm here for all of you who are struggling with insecurities and feeling like your not pretty enough, skinny enough, or good enough. You got this!

  • @Lilahleigh
    @Lilahleigh Год назад +14

    The fact that I literally can relate to you on this level is 😂
    I mean it’s winter and I feel crusty and now you’ve motivated me to try and make it better ❤

  • @dahabo-pr2ou
    @dahabo-pr2ou Год назад +4

    The amount of sense you were making in this video is ASTOUNDING!! you’re so smart, this made me realise a LOT. ♥️

  • @shernique9329
    @shernique9329 Год назад +27

    Mai never fails to put a smile on my face

  • @ellacasey10
    @ellacasey10 Год назад +7

    Mai you are literally so relatable but funny but inspirational at the same time!!

  • @EllaxLouisa
    @EllaxLouisa Год назад +4

    Love how real u are gurl it motivates me to feel so much better 🤍

  • @danicapenner33
    @danicapenner33 Год назад +26

    my day is 100x better when Mai posts

  • @von2265
    @von2265 Год назад +4

    So relatable when you talked about needing to find hobbies and sense of fulfillment..I’ve been feeling that way as well and it’s been affecting my mood lately. Anyways always love these chit chat videos and your ability to be so open with us. Much love ❤

  • @Latisha.B
    @Latisha.B Год назад +4

    no because mai, i feel we all needed to watch this 😭 WE LOVE YOUUU

  • @thestoryofaugust
    @thestoryofaugust Год назад +11

    i love listening to mai talk about her problematic life ☺️

  • @alenaschmidt4000
    @alenaschmidt4000 Год назад +3

    I was feeling like this for the last whole year! I read the Book "The 5 AM Club" two weeks ago and now I feel my whole life changed in a week. I'm also so excited about working on myself and taking control. So big recommendation.

  • @patriciaangelafantilagan3832
    @patriciaangelafantilagan3832 Год назад +8

    Mai should make a podcast I’d be cleaning,doing chores,cooking, laundry or studying I can listen to her for HOURS 😭🥰 she makes me motivated and feel inspired everytime she uploads a video ☺️💕

  • @Alia2341-K2e
    @Alia2341-K2e Год назад +10

    am i the only one that enjoys listening to her anywhere and everywhere. u SHOULD start a podcast please, love you

  • @marina_kimphat
    @marina_kimphat Год назад +5

    Girl, you’re the only RUclipsr that I can listen to the whole video without being bored. I’m really easily bored what people say. You have flow, we can really relate to you! Love your videos ❤️🫶🏼

  • @ShutterMariposa746
    @ShutterMariposa746 Год назад +10

    This is perfect timing I really needed a mood booster today, thank you so much. Can’t wait to work on my homework while listening to you! Wow, first time I’m excited to do math 😂

  • @bprovvisoriomarconidelpino2772
    @bprovvisoriomarconidelpino2772 Год назад +2

    I spent something like 2 hours crying with a mental breakdown, but when i opened yt and i saw your video my day took a better turn, i love youuuu💕

  • @Chaiwithkaur
    @Chaiwithkaur Год назад +6

    So true everyday things are important and you just said straight facts about confidence… yes appearance is important for self esteem but hobbies can help with confidence too and I am just now getting rid of dating apps and focusing on myself so I am just now starting my self love journey thank you for the advice 💛💛✨✨✨

  • @najaeriggs
    @najaeriggs Год назад +17

    it's okay to just talk on camera to us, we're so happy you did! 💛

  • @Alohaxmiah
    @Alohaxmiah Год назад +3

    I love your personality, your so kind, and just an amazing perfect inside, out. Please never stop posting you make my days so much better!

  • @hillayaniv
    @hillayaniv Год назад +5

    We missed you so much 🥺you seriously motivate me to keep my stuff clean even when I feel off so thank you for literally existing

  • @a13xandraa
    @a13xandraa Год назад +3

    WE NEED A PODCAST FROM YOU you would literally kill it!! Your soo inspirational I LOVE you Mai ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ashiyahigh
    @Ashiyahigh Год назад +3

    Mai is literally my comfort RUclipsr whenever I need some motivation I just come and watch her videos. I really love you Mai ❤❤

  • @naquasiapurvis3052
    @naquasiapurvis3052 Год назад +3

    Who else just loves Mai vlogs she’s so cute enjoying your self care and chit chat with us

  • @starfire7430
    @starfire7430 Год назад +30

    Guys, can we just appreciate how much Mai does for us? We love youuu!! 💞

  • @tuvarastam1828
    @tuvarastam1828 Год назад +6

    Baby you don’t need to do anything, it’s okay to take a break when you’re struggling❤️

  • @emabode3423
    @emabode3423 Год назад +3

    you’re such a inspiration, i relate to your vlogs so much keep it upp

  • @avaclark9620
    @avaclark9620 Год назад +4

    I feel this was a sign to get my life together. You always make my day when you post! :)

  • @emilylope
    @emilylope Год назад +3

    I honestly love this channel your so relatable and I love you so much

  • @ellabrierley6660
    @ellabrierley6660 Год назад +8

    You always know how to make our days that much better! Xx

  • @LindaThao
    @LindaThao Год назад +7

    WAIT I’M HERE FOR THESE FACETIME VIDEOS, MAI! 💗😭💗

  • @logiccloud9373
    @logiccloud9373 Год назад +4

    Mai posting makes my day 1000000 times better srsly she’s everyone’s goal🤭

  • @_tokki__
    @_tokki__ Год назад +2

    Mai always makes my days better. Love you Mai!!!!

  • @Zyaire-Young
    @Zyaire-Young Год назад +4

    I love you mai! Thank you for being with us! ❤

  • @SophieLouise-lv9vb
    @SophieLouise-lv9vb Год назад +2

    she literally makes my dayyyyyyy like bro I was Hella upset then she posted now I'm happy like thank you girlll :)

  • @zuleika06
    @zuleika06 Год назад +25

    Girl, I look as crusty musty and dusty as you right know and I don’t feel bad about it! We will get thru this. You just made my weekend ❤️

    • @enydee
      @enydee Год назад +1

      Y'all look beautiful regardless

  • @jennaaaxoxo
    @jennaaaxoxo Год назад +3

    Mai always makes my day better with her videos.

  • @phoebe_jacobsen
    @phoebe_jacobsen Год назад +21

    The fact that she lives in a NY penthouse and is still relatable

  • @ItsSweetAltMisa
    @ItsSweetAltMisa Год назад +1

    Mai is fr that big sister and like that ray of sunshine in our days, like sis u be popping off EVERY SINGLE DAYYYY♡like girl we aspire to be you and hav your life, sis u living in a Y/N life and Wattpad oof sisssss u is perfect, freaking amazinggg ~love someone from the spamily

  • @Bict0riaa
    @Bict0riaa Год назад +4

    Damn really feeling the same on this one! Life just hasn’t been as exciting as I had hoped for Feb. I been feeling meh for a minute and then we’ve had really bad weather here, flooding and cyclones. There was just so much devastation and destruction, our home got damaged. It’s just been a struggle to stay positive lately 😢 not to mention the guilt of feeling sad for my situation but also knowing it could be way worse like many others and trying to remind myself that my experience is still valid. At least I stuck to going to the gym and working, it’s the only stability I have right now. So I defs get you on the having hobbies! I’m gonna find some hobbies to add into my life this coming week and get outside more cause I’ve defs been on my phone 90% of the time too! I can’t wait to see you get back into your groove playing your guitar and singing again, if that’s a hobby you go back to but let’s all start living more and creating more moments of bliss throughout our days pham ❤❤

  • @alisabebko2753
    @alisabebko2753 Год назад +3

    YAS MAI WE LOVE A NEW SELF CARE VIDEO!

  • @sailing.alinaa
    @sailing.alinaa Год назад +2

    i live on a sailboat and mai really brings me up sometimes. i don’t always have friends around to hang out with and it’s like we rly are on facetime. you say things taht are so true like you need to find hobbies and moving has rly helped me find what i like to do. i hope you can find the hobbies that make you, you! love you mai❤ may God bless you 🤍🫶🏻

  • @katya2672
    @katya2672 Год назад +1

    i love these talking videos so much, this video helped me alot bc i relate so much. recently i’ve been feeling exactly the same way as you described and now i have a more clearer understanding as to what i need to change to feel better ab my life and all. thankyou mai for being so authentic ily

  • @jediermias4366
    @jediermias4366 Год назад +4

    Watching Mia’s videos just makes my days better 😂

  • @__supraja
    @__supraja Год назад +4

    I’m just waiting for my semester end exams to be over and I can indulge in self care 😢 Mai honestly feels like a big sister ❤

  • @Osveliaalvarado02
    @Osveliaalvarado02 Год назад +1

    I love how I can always relate to you Mai, I struggle with the feeling that “I’m not doing Enough” a lot and I also seem to space out/overthink about it a lot to the where it’s becoming a daily thing to do in my life style but just hearing to what you had to say that us waking up, looking for forward to reading, listening to music or just even go to school and see friends is more than enough, I love you for that

  • @naniwani8996
    @naniwani8996 Год назад +2

    I love when you do these videos because sis, it’s the same for me. I’m so uninteresting and I don’t do anything but work. I’m trying to be in my villain era, not in the same way but just focusing only on building myself which will bring me happiness and new people with the same energy in my life. Most of us are in the exact same “everyday haze” as you are and it doesn’t last forever, love you mai❤️‍🔥

  • @swaggerthanjomama3424
    @swaggerthanjomama3424 Год назад +4

    this felt so good to watch just mai speaking to us ❤️and it would be a hobby for her to do a podcast, right?

  • @rachelcody4630
    @rachelcody4630 Год назад +3

    Side note- that Vaseline stick is amazing! I use it on my collarbones, lips, as a highlighter on no makeup days, AND as a base on my neck to layer perfume over (makes it last way longer).

  • @motcha834
    @motcha834 Год назад +1

    I've been watching Mai for nearly two years and I genuinely love Mai's personality and energy unlike any other youtuber like the fact that she likes every comment just shows 💗💗💗

  • @smrbabe
    @smrbabe Год назад +9

    i love how she brain dumps and everything,it feels like im actually talking to her. im actually talking with her 😭

  • @paisley_june3085
    @paisley_june3085 Год назад +3

    I love these videos so much, it feels like calling my best friend! I had a terrible day yesterday and it makes me feel better for some reason. Btw we have the same water bottle 😂❤

  • @amyjones4744
    @amyjones4744 Год назад

    mai I totally get you about the feeling insecure about your working - im in my final year of med school and I've been revising for finals with a subconscious voice saying 'you haven't worked enough, you could've worked harder today' etc. I've really been trying to ignore that voice + focus on rewarding myself for meeting goals I've set for myself rather than always pushing for more! trying to learn to be happy and proud of myself for what I've achieved and being grateful for where I am right now rather than always comparing myself to others is my big 2023 goal :) xx

  • @leasb1-ds
    @leasb1-ds Год назад +5

    Can we just talk about how mai is our comfort ytuber? Likeee i be having the worst week and then she just comes and make all my problems go away
    Mai i just love you

  • @DailyKay
    @DailyKay Год назад +3

    the coochie waxing part where the lady starts trying to distract you from stressing out but mai stressing out anyway IS SO FUNNY TO ME HAHAH

  • @kiaracarter3093
    @kiaracarter3093 Год назад +1

    I love this reminder to live in the present and not letting the negative habits in your mind keep you down! 💚💚💚

  • @Itskenzz2
    @Itskenzz2 Год назад +1

    Even the videos where u talk about how you want to be better are so SO helpful. I struggle with being in the moment rather than constantly thinking about my future. As soon as you started talking about it I felt like u were speaking to me. Idk if that sounds weird but it hit DEEP. Just know that not only are you changing and bettering your life you are also helping other as well. Keep doing what your doing girlie 🤎

  • @avachristenbury1158
    @avachristenbury1158 Год назад +4

    This is gonna sound so stupid but she literally saved my life…i was very depressed and had high anxiety (still do but i’m working on it) and she has made me realize that is okay and little things are big accomplishments. So thank you mai pham ❤️

  • @haileyalexis00
    @haileyalexis00 Год назад +5

    Not the ogx 😂 get the bag girl !! But that is bad for your hair 😭unless they have changed the formula 😅

  • @AmberlysMain
    @AmberlysMain Год назад +1

    Girl I have been in a meh mood all this year so far and couldn’t figure out why but omg after hearing you about this literally cleared my head I just want to say you have changed my life in so many ways and that I appreciate you💕💕

  • @KaydenDove
    @KaydenDove Год назад +1

    this video made me feel so much less alone in my problems in the best way possible, love you girl.

  • @luluk77379
    @luluk77379 Год назад +2

    Can we all agree we were all excited when mai posted today?💗

  • @memeliss
    @memeliss Год назад +3

    maaaaiiiii start a podcast pleaaaaseeee

  • @lilya5070
    @lilya5070 Год назад +2

    honestly girl I love you. literally you help me realize that's its okay to not do something once in a while, but I need to pull my self together !!!!

  • @romeliapc4175
    @romeliapc4175 Год назад +1

    I swear I needed this video to get back on track, life does get boring really easily but feeling like you're in control of your life, mind and body feel so good! I'm so happy you posted, love you!💗😊

  • @TheSuperRaspberry
    @TheSuperRaspberry Год назад +3

    tired of all those comments that just sound the exact same

  • @b.e8598
    @b.e8598 Год назад

    i love how real ur being in this like ur not covering the truth and ur acting like yourself it makes me feel so understood

  • @Niaslife28
    @Niaslife28 Год назад +1

    AAAAA. i love this video sm cause i’ve been procrastinating about doing this for too long- love u mai your vids have helped me sm become the person i am

  • @Bored_asfrn
    @Bored_asfrn Год назад +2

    Mai is so funny. I love her personality she would make an amazing friend to have!! We need more people like her. She never fails to make my day ❤

  • @brianna.ch3n
    @brianna.ch3n Год назад

    I love how you really make us think about our own lives and how to live up to them. Thank you so much! I love how you're so genuine❤

  • @_sophiapeck
    @_sophiapeck Год назад +1

    this video hit DIFFERENT 🥲 needed to hear these things this week. we are in our HOBBY ERA! thank u mai for the encouragement & self love talk always 🫶🏼🕊️

  • @PeaasPod
    @PeaasPod Год назад

    Mai i agree with you having control and discipline over your life you gave me a sense of liberation and exhilaration I’m trying to get back to it again and it feels so good

  • @Hangry_Poltergeist
    @Hangry_Poltergeist Год назад +2

    Ngl, I needed this so much, I have been caught up with trying to set up these objectives/ big goals (which is great) instead of just bing present in the now.
    Sometimes we do forget in order to reach our goals we must undergo the process.
    Thank you Mai, I love you and your videos I can probably say they help so many people not just me. ❤️

  • @hajirabibi1143
    @hajirabibi1143 Год назад +1

    LOVE you mai i relate to you sm and knowing u deal with the same things makes me feel sm better ur so wise everything u say makes sense and im definitely gonna live more in the present now xxx

  • @eleanorhrcka9113
    @eleanorhrcka9113 Год назад

    I love Mai’s genuine honesty on her channel, I feel like some RUclipsrs project a very perfect image and that’s not bad but Mai is so real with us and it’s refreshing. Like her videos bring me so much comfort because they’re not super superficial and she’s vocal about her issues and they help me to realize that it’s okay to not be perfect all the time. Like I love her and her videos so much

  • @amalieskaret7325
    @amalieskaret7325 Год назад

    I feel so with you! I feel like I´m been on autopilot my whole life and never actually been living my life. Thank you so much for sharing these things on RUclips! Makes me feel normal yk❤

  • @aidenlol3422
    @aidenlol3422 Год назад +1

    Love you Mai I appreciate how transparent you are… hope you are doing well just hang in there trust me this is normal to feel like this occasionally

  • @sandysedits5526
    @sandysedits5526 Год назад

    I have been feeling like this too, like realizing I had almost no hobbies but watching videos or spending time on Pinterest (or skipping songs to find some I want to listen to for hours), it didn't make me happy. On the other hand, knowing I can edit videos or pics makes me feel overwhelmed by the amount of ideas I have. I'm working on it right now while also trying to balance it with school and my mental health (because my friends kinda dumped me on prom last week) so these videos are comforting because I feel like we are close friends and actually facetime. I played a couple of them while I was deep cleaning my room yesterday and it made me feel a lot better, so thank you so much Mai!

  • @kimikolamade2484
    @kimikolamade2484 Год назад +1

    I love Mai! ever since i found her channel its literally my favourite thing to watch!!! she is literally the big sister we never had!

  • @user-pe9si4kw6v
    @user-pe9si4kw6v Год назад

    omg.. like actually- like frfr- you’re literally the reason why i’m coping so well… whenever i watch your videos, i just feel so inspired and motivated. idk how to explain it but just wanna let you know that you’re amazing and your content is 💗💗💗💗