We put an offer on a house | Ep. 73

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
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    ‪@MattandAbby‬ discuss their new house offer, share insights from their journey with online fame, and reflect on Matt's experience auditioning for 'The Voice.'
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    Chapters:
    00:00 - Episode 73
    09:26 - Finding my identity outside motherhood
    14:54 - What it means to be a girl’s girl
    20:55 - The reality of moving
    34:25 - Our real estate nightmare
    38:15 - Getting rejected on our house offer
    40:39 - Getting rejected from "The Voice"
    43:46 - How I felt after blowing up on TikTok
    49:43 - Why I'll never trust a chimpanzee
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    53:43 - People don't talk enough about the Salem Witch Trials
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Комментарии • 501

  • @carmensamone
    @carmensamone 4 дня назад +255

    17:03 "and if you hate on my man, you don't actually like me... I DON'T CLAIM YOU!" 😂😂😂 YES, ABBY! YOU BETTER SAY IT!

  • @Smallb55
    @Smallb55 2 дня назад +11

    I don't understand the hate they get. We're all human and I think these two are some of the better people out there!!! It's so obvious they have so much love for each other and their family. It breaks my heart to see someone publicly be so rude about someone

    • @flowingleaf1677
      @flowingleaf1677 18 часов назад +4

      Matt threw a fit, and complained about his wife for combining fathers day and his birthday together while she was pregnant. They also had gotten back from a trip that day even, and she was pregnant. No shit she didn't throw two seperate parties for that man child because she was probably exhausted. But now his birthday and anniversary was combined, and that man child didn't have an issue?

  • @angelriddle8184
    @angelriddle8184 4 дня назад +69

    Hi Matt and Abby! Correctional Officer here in a women’s prison. I work with HUNDREDS of female offenders with violent and sexual crimes against children. People’s mother’s, babysitters, grandmothers, and family friends. Please help break the stigma and bring awareness that men are not the only predators.

    • @AshleysPZ
      @AshleysPZ 3 дня назад +4

      👏 EXACTLY!!!!!

    • @angelicarosas5758
      @angelicarosas5758 3 дня назад +3

      Yes! Thank you!

    • @Just-wiggling-thru-life
      @Just-wiggling-thru-life День назад

      Sooooo true! Woman here but I have 4 sons…and hubs with experience too unfortunately…and I’ve had to teach them even just the knowledge of being careful about the situations they can get into without even thinking for even false allegations. So sad we have to think about any of it but also the “other side” often times with primarily woman being the false accusers. Man the world is dark and scary sometimes.

  • @englarian1017
    @englarian1017 5 дней назад +75

    I love how many times Matt's mom's frugalness played into this conversation but also, how sweet that she would also be willing to sacrifice time and gas to drive him everywhere to support his dreams as a kid. Moms are awesome! 💕

  • @Light-tc8xc
    @Light-tc8xc 4 дня назад +98

    So I see Matt lost the house argument completely lol. And he was the sensible one!

    • @Black_cat_27
      @Black_cat_27 4 дня назад +10

      For real lol. You’d think they’d make big decisions like that together

    • @Light-tc8xc
      @Light-tc8xc 4 дня назад +17

      @@Black_cat_27 I think he’s convinced that it’s a team decision if she’s able to squeeze a forced “yes” from him. I don’t think he’s getting enough respect as a husband, tbh.

    • @CP2392
      @CP2392 4 дня назад +3

      @@Light-tc8xcA bad husband… lol.

    • @openlybookish
      @openlybookish 4 дня назад +1

      @@Light-tc8xcI agree.

    • @perle13930
      @perle13930 4 дня назад

      It seems that matt worries more about financials which is not bad for the man of the house ( better safe than sorry) its all going very fast for him and as he’s already said Abby earns more money than him so i get his concerns. They have done so well and have come so far for people of thier age! They will be fine ❤

  • @presleydrewery2729
    @presleydrewery2729 4 дня назад +172

    I do not in any way understand the hate Mart is getting. He is clearly obsessed with Abby, seems like an amazing and involved dad, and is so so kind. Everyone words things at times in ways they didn't mean it, that doesn't make them a bad person. He seems like an awesome dad and husband and i love seeing that for Abby and the boys.

    • @laurahinojosa2716
      @laurahinojosa2716 4 дня назад +10

      People are obsessed with hating on him. They'll go a on whole other content creators videos only to comment "matt could never" this men is living RENT FREE in people's head no problem 😵‍💫

    • @presleydrewery2729
      @presleydrewery2729 4 дня назад +12

      @@laurahinojosa2716 literally!! And there are SO many men that are uninvolved in their child's lives and yet this is who everyone wants to call "the worst husband on the Internet"??? It's insane

    • @somericanfam
      @somericanfam 4 дня назад +6

      He truly seems like the kindest man and best father/husband. Some people just want to tear people down because they wish they had their happiness. Matt and Abby keep telling your truths and sharing your lives because 99% of those who know you love you and love to hear your story!

    • @tracilord4854
      @tracilord4854 4 дня назад +4

      Haters are just Jeleous. It actually says more about them having to twist shit & bad mouth someone they don't even know personally

    • @Black_cat_27
      @Black_cat_27 4 дня назад +6

      I literally saw one RUclipsr make a 40 min video hating on him. Granted her whole channel was just a hate channel, it was really dumb tho, cuz she has 500k subscribers. You’d think people have better things to do in their life than creating hate channels and calling themselves influencers 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @LisaMLombard
    @LisaMLombard 5 дней назад +144

    Abby……. You should open a book shop attached to a coffee shop 😊 Then you can have a reading corner for kids where you can read to them.
    All your dreams in one! ❤

  • @Elizabeth-lj1vm
    @Elizabeth-lj1vm 5 дней назад +128

    Not at all surprised they put an offer on a house. From a previous podcast it was obvious Abby wanted a new house and Abby gets what Abby wants!

    • @Gina-ur9wt
      @Gina-ur9wt 4 дня назад +9

      As she should 💅🏼

    • @Elizabeth-lj1vm
      @Elizabeth-lj1vm 4 дня назад +44

      @@Gina-ur9wt Huh? In a marriage there is compromise. She should not always get her way. Sorry.

    • @maryjaneferguson9432
      @maryjaneferguson9432 4 дня назад +31

      ​@Gina-ur9wt that's not how a adult relationship goes. Abby has some hard lessons to learn.

    • @pamthompson3812
      @pamthompson3812 4 дня назад +16

      Finally someone said it!

    • @Light-tc8xc
      @Light-tc8xc 4 дня назад +18

      @@Gina-ur9wtWhy should she? Matt was right, and Abby is impulsive.

  • @rebekahgeorge2773
    @rebekahgeorge2773 5 дней назад +147

    Hi Matt and Abby, I love your podcast. Im 36 weeks and 6 days pregnant and my water broke last night but because my baby is breach I’m having a c-section in about 2 hours. So now I’m watching your podcast as I’m waiting to have my baby.

  • @morganward8853
    @morganward8853 4 дня назад +39

    Abby please please drop your Goodreads!!🥰🫶

  • @user-db5wn4ni6x
    @user-db5wn4ni6x 4 дня назад +11

    Y’all need to have Elise Myers on the podcast!!!!!! she’s also a music artist and ADHD lol she reminds me a lot of y’all!!!

  • @TheSwillis17
    @TheSwillis17 3 дня назад +7

    Pro moving tips:
    -go to liquor stores and ask if they have any boxes you can take. They’re not as big as moving boxes, but they’re perfect for books, kitchen stuff, baby stuff, or whatever else will fit! Plus they’re FREE!!
    -LABEL EVERYTHING😅 We used notecards and a Sharpie on the liquor boxes since they have stuff printed on them
    -We used big plastic tote/tubs as moving boxes. It is kinda pricy, but so convenient and reusable. I labeled them with sharpie and then wiped it off with lemon essential oil after we unpacked them
    -You can pay extra for movers to pack up your stuff for you if you get to the point where you’re too overwhelmed or tired to pack. I would still pack up any valuables, sentimentals, and some fragile things just to be safe.
    -pack a bag with a few outfits, toiletries, chargers, etc so it doesn’t get lost in all the boxes and it’s easy to grab until you can unpack everything

  • @kk1742
    @kk1742 5 дней назад +473

    these two are handling the hate so well. Matt has been receiving so much hate I even see hate comments(to Matt) on other content creator's videos. Its sad. Dont mind the comments Matt.

    • @hannav6989
      @hannav6989 5 дней назад +37

      Exactly.. I really like these people, they are open and honest and learning life as they go.

    • @JordyB652
      @JordyB652 5 дней назад +9

      I think it’s bc Matt said they cannot afford another house. It’s not in the budget

    • @karenkingrey6142
      @karenkingrey6142 5 дней назад +20

      I do not understand hateful comments on anyone’s videos! It’s ludacris to me. And these two are just adorable, if people were held accountable for comments, I think a whole lot of them would stop. Y’all just keep going and doing your thing and we will pray to God that these people’s hate filled hearts chill out! lol ❤

    • @DorcasDiaries
      @DorcasDiaries 4 дня назад +15

      They just want to hate on men. This guy hasn't hurt anyone

    • @JordyB652
      @JordyB652 4 дня назад +2

      @@DorcasDiaries no he hasn’t

  • @Meekavintage
    @Meekavintage 4 дня назад +11

    "ill never trust a chimp" i NEED THAT ON A T SHIRT ...abby is so funny

  • @shenysalgado7098
    @shenysalgado7098 4 дня назад +21

    Who sees the Father’s Day balloons in the back 😂

  • @katetomlinson1638
    @katetomlinson1638 4 дня назад +64

    I just think matt is an easy target, not because he’s dumb of anything like that, because he’s sweet, he cares about different things but fronts like he’s got everything figured out, making him an easy target, I personally love watching both of em! And yes he says BAD THINGS AT BAD TIMES LOL, but that’s life dudes give them grace

    • @yvonne8786
      @yvonne8786 4 дня назад +6

      I honestly think he's on the autism spectrum. My daughter is autistic too and they have very very similar qualities. She has ADHD too like Matt does

    • @JesusLovinMama
      @JesusLovinMama 4 дня назад +2

      @@yvonne8786I think he’s autistic as well. My husband is and they act soooo similar

    • @jessicawamsley1652
      @jessicawamsley1652 3 дня назад +2

      Umm or he’s getting hate for the terrible things he says/ how he treats his wife on camera. If he treats her like crap when the cameras on.. can’t imagine how it is when the cameras off. Dude literally admitted to giving her the silent treatment after she just gave BIRTH. He makes her feel like crap about herself all the time ON CAMERA. So do t be so shocked why people dislike him.

    • @yvonne8786
      @yvonne8786 3 дня назад +3

      @@jessicawamsley1652 he's always telling her how beautiful she is and complimenting her. Plus he gave her the silent treatment because she refused to give the baby formula when the baby wouldn't eat. He was worried about their child and she was hell bent on doing things her way! He obviously loves her and is always doing things with his kids. The women always putting him down are jealous or just hate men in general because he's not a bad guy. A little immature yes, but he's still a good guy

  • @Holdeenio
    @Holdeenio 4 дня назад +222

    I cannot understand any hate for Matt, he’s genuinely nice and so patient.

    • @Danversdiary
      @Danversdiary 4 дня назад +22

      Most of the hate is from their earlier content. And yes i am talking about the podcast content. There were just some instances where Matt's social cue for Abby's emotions and feelings were just... off. And because of that it seemed really inconsiderate on his part towards her.
      I'm not saying that this is true or the actual case regarding them, I'm only speaking from the comments I've seen (I'm only on episode 32 now or somewhere there and that's when most of the hate started)

    • @brandeerodriguez8536
      @brandeerodriguez8536 4 дня назад +15

      I don’t either. I think people forget that he’s still young and learning. But I’ve seen so much growth in him from first watching. I think he’s a patient guy, a good communicator and a good Dad and Husband

    • @laurahinojosa2716
      @laurahinojosa2716 4 дня назад +7

      ​@@Danversdiaryhe recently got diagnosed with ADHD soooo, things like that happen. Even in "normal people" get a grip!!! No one is perfect, NEITHER ARE U 🫶🏼 or anyone else leaving hate comments

    • @Danversdiary
      @Danversdiary 4 дня назад +1

      @@laurahinojosa2716 but i wasn't leaving a hate comment... I was just explaining where the hate has come from regarding OTHER people

    • @anahism2311
      @anahism2311 4 дня назад +3

      @@laurahinojosa2716also having a wife who literally said she wanted to make fun of him for having it cant be good for you either.

  • @erinbailey7278
    @erinbailey7278 4 дня назад +24

    You Dear young whippersnappers :) The Bodyguard is a movie with Whitney Houston and Kevin Costner. It is from 1992, but if you haven't watched it, you should. Whitney is Awesome in it.

    • @CP2392
      @CP2392 4 дня назад

      Anyone cultured knows this but they’re religious…. They don’t like culture.

    • @karenkoroscil9568
      @karenkoroscil9568 4 дня назад

      One of the best movies of all time in my opinion!

  • @juliagaas8562
    @juliagaas8562 4 дня назад +5

    Abby, my husband and I are moving from Texas to upstate New York, and we just signed our lease last night. I'm totally feeling the same doubts after getting something I really wanted. I hope it's the right decision! We've decided to make the best choice with the information we have now, and if it doesn't work out, we can always move again. Good luck with moving and buying a new house, Abby!

  • @rachelkessinger2295
    @rachelkessinger2295 3 дня назад +13

    As someone who thrives in unorganized chaos, I’m loving the emotional whiplash yall give us with your life updates😂😂
    A month ago: “we aren’t going to move for 2 more years” now: “we put an offer on a house”

  • @leslychavez211
    @leslychavez211 4 дня назад +9

    I get the temporary high aspect, I used to try and seek some sort of outings or fillers to fill the void in my life but let me tell you the day God revealed himself to me, I never had that longing feeling ever again. ❤
    God bless you both!

  • @Addisonfaith1222
    @Addisonfaith1222 4 дня назад +22

    to see how far abby has come is INSANE!!! she’s came soooo far from the early postpartum stage to being emotional, sensitive, etc to now being so bubbly and happy is actually crazy.

  • @ricandreamer23
    @ricandreamer23 4 дня назад +22

    The lost colony of Roanoke 😂 I’m glad I’m not the only one who will randomly think about that. School brought it up and had no clarification or closure to the story soooo I’ve also been affected by this mystery 😅.

    • @Light-tc8xc
      @Light-tc8xc 4 дня назад

      They put on a play about it in the outer banks. It’s great!

    • @savannahhead1041
      @savannahhead1041 4 дня назад

      Yes! I did so many papers over this!!

    • @brigettemarie6971
      @brigettemarie6971 4 дня назад

      No honestly lmaooo supernatural also had an episode and it messed me up lol

  • @SageRosemary
    @SageRosemary 3 дня назад +7

    30 minutes away is NOT far at all. LOL

  • @maryjaneferguson9432
    @maryjaneferguson9432 4 дня назад +13

    Abby all happy, got her way with a house. The difference.

  • @gracegarrett9877
    @gracegarrett9877 4 дня назад +15

    Y’all should have Chip and Joanna on the podcast!

  • @sierrayoung6271
    @sierrayoung6271 4 дня назад +14

    After watching your debate on buying a house as soon as this fall, I chuckled seeing the title of this video 😂

  • @NeverSaidIWasAGenius
    @NeverSaidIWasAGenius 4 дня назад +38

    Matt, love you but I wanted to share some advice.
    I think you should focus on things like getting vocal coach to help produce your songs! Your voice is great but you need some confidence and guidance. I worry your music will fall flat once your fans are saturated and start wanting higher quality music.
    You have everything going for you BUT I worry that with a limited voice the long term isn’t being considered.
    Your songs are doing good so far but you need to keep making mini hits. Music videos do not have a great ROI in general, busy especially not for a smaller artist.
    I’d suggest focusing on your socials (which you already are which is great) and really refining your sound and writing. Your lyrics need some polishing as well. So spend he time between releases practicing and collaborating on/ tweaking lyrics.
    I think you have a lot of potential but it’s easy to be distracted by doing the fun stuff. Focus on your development, and everything else will just happen and make sense!
    I highly recommend NOT putting chunks of your own money in to music videos at this time. Low budget, sure. But if you’re trying to go high production value, retelling a story already perfectly portrayed by the movie, hoping it will “launch” your career, you’re going to be disappointed. You can only go viral for the same thing so many times. There is always an expiration on that stuff, so make sure your talent and art is undeniable.

  • @rachelpeugh82
    @rachelpeugh82 3 дня назад +3

    Most people make emotional decisions, even if they don’t realize they are doing it. Sending a letter and family photo is always a great option to get someone to connect to you over summering else. Don’t feel weird about it ❤

  • @wendiconrad9836
    @wendiconrad9836 5 дней назад +39

    It helps to be content. After you move, will you find another dream house a year later?

  • @bolivia.j
    @bolivia.j 2 дня назад +1

    It seems like you guys are doing so much better. As a married woman myself I’ve been praying for you guys and your family, and your marriage counseling. I also grew up homeschooled and am planning on homeschooling our baby who arrives in December. It’s so cool to see that you enjoy reading. I’m also a big reader. I’d be curious to know who ur favorite booktoubers are

  • @MissGlamTV
    @MissGlamTV 4 дня назад +4

    Something my real estate mentioned a few weeks ago when I was selling my house is that he usually tries to get within 3% of asking. Just something to consider when putting an offer in a new house. The right one will come along soon. Good luck!

  • @ashleyp4513
    @ashleyp4513 4 дня назад +6

    Our realtor highly recommended us to write a letter and send a photo of our family. The owners absolutely loved it and even brought it up at the closing how they thought that was so sweet.

    • @michellegamiz9549
      @michellegamiz9549 4 дня назад +1

      That’s actually a great idea !

    • @thegrahamericandream531
      @thegrahamericandream531 4 дня назад +1

      I think it’s a great idea! & def good business & personal move. , if they say no, they’re going to feel so bad knowing they turned down such a wholesome family 😊

    • @baileymaier4115
      @baileymaier4115 4 дня назад +2

      My best friend just got her dream home by doing this, and the sellers had 10+ offers, one of which was $20k over asking!!

    • @lisamiller3053
      @lisamiller3053 4 дня назад

      When we recently sold our home, everyone wrote a letter. In the end it was the offer that mattered.

    • @Sunflowers36
      @Sunflowers36 4 дня назад +1

      We got a house based upon my letter, even beat out a higher bidder.

  • @KristenLynn
    @KristenLynn 3 дня назад +3

    My friend and her husband wrote a letter to the home owner when buying their first home, and even though there were multiple offers and theirs was not the highest, the home owner chose them over the others because of the letter and picture they sent in. They said they chose them because they wanted a nice family to buy their home! So I think it’s always a great idea to at least try sending in a letter/picture because it makes you stand out over others 😊

    • @HandleToWatch
      @HandleToWatch 2 дня назад

      It’s illegal to do that in some states

    • @KristenLynn
      @KristenLynn 2 дня назад

      @@HandleToWatch oh that’s interesting, I wonder what the reasoning is for making it illegal? I’m from Canada and I don’t think it is illegal here, but I guess it’s always good to check with your realtor before doing so :)

  • @Sarah-sr8zw
    @Sarah-sr8zw 3 дня назад +1

    I’m so proud of you, Abby, for saying no to the audition because of your values! It’s so important to not compromise and I know that will be honored!❤

  • @michellegamiz9549
    @michellegamiz9549 4 дня назад +8

    @44:57 omg poor Matt . Abby always looks bored when Matt talks about himself or his interests. Like her views on his ideas and goals is one of a politician? Just very vague/safe/ insincere validation Idk. I think Abby would be happier doing something else, I don’t think social media is her passion (which she’s stated multiple times) sometimes these podcasts feel forced by Abby. I feel bad for her honestly, she doesn’t seem to enjoy it the way Matt does.

  • @soapiesoap5649
    @soapiesoap5649 5 дней назад +31

    Widow = woman loses spouse
    Widower = man looses spouse

  • @angelasurratt5908
    @angelasurratt5908 4 дня назад

    I’m from Jacksonville, IL…I love that your values and aren’t willing to compromise. The right part will come along when it’s the right time.

  • @AlaskanClaire
    @AlaskanClaire 5 дней назад +28

    While it is interesting that all of the sudden they might move somewhere, it seems wrong to judge their whole marriage by this. While they seem to disagree a lot, one thing to keep in mind is that they really put themselves out here on the internet. They get vulnerable and share a lot of things in the moment that most people wouldn’t share or show about their own life or especially their marriage. So while they may seem to disagree as a married couple more than the average couple would, also good to keep in mind they show much more than the average couple would.

    • @SillySally2
      @SillySally2 4 дня назад +7

      The more they share the more money they make. These two know what sells and doesn’t and use it to monetize from it. Abby is a business women and it show. No hate for that but it’s a struggle watching them lately.

    • @Jess-sx9nz
      @Jess-sx9nz 4 дня назад

      say this LOUDER!!!!!

  • @Sunflowers36
    @Sunflowers36 4 дня назад +2

    We just sold our house and had 5 offers in 3 days ranging from asking price to 30k over asking (8%). We took the highest offer, with no inspection and our choice of closing date. MInnesota. It’s still a sellers market.

  • @lauragift1020
    @lauragift1020 3 дня назад +1

    Two things!
    1. YES, ABBY! Stand up for your man anytime, anywhere. He is a good man who clearly loves you and your kids and he (and you) get entirely too much hate. I read comments here and on instagram sometimes and it just blows my mind that people can be so negative.
    2. I LOVE BOOK CORNER! Please continue telling us about your books. I'm an avid reader and I love listening to people talk about their recent reads.

  • @KristasVlogs
    @KristasVlogs 4 дня назад +5

    I’m with Matt, I wanna flip a house into an Airbnb or something so bad but they look like a lot of work and money, but it’s also something I really wanna do

  • @nicolel4439
    @nicolel4439 3 дня назад +1

    SOCIAL MEDIA IS SO CUTTHROAT...for real I absolutely LOVE you guys...NOBODY IS PERFECT...SHAME ON OTHER INFLUENCERS FOR NOT SUPPORTING EACH OTHER...they could use their platform to support you guys!!

  • @orangejmoothies
    @orangejmoothies День назад +1

    32:00 you know what's funny tho? as a 1st grader, i had a SUPER OLD teacher and she didnt have a lot of crazy energy but she taught well and i loved listening to her storytelling even if it wasn't like...super energetic. i think if kids get into the story, it doesnt matter that much how the story is told, theyll be all ears :)

  • @Melissa-or3qp
    @Melissa-or3qp 4 дня назад +6

    Hush abby you’ve been dying to move 😂

  • @bristevens.
    @bristevens. 4 дня назад +2

    You guys inspired me to make my own family vlogs, I love these videos so much 🥹💞💞

    • @Micah98134
      @Micah98134 День назад

      Family blogging is such a joke

  • @tashabowley8549
    @tashabowley8549 5 дней назад +6

    I love the new segment - Abby's book corner!

  • @honestmama4722
    @honestmama4722 5 дней назад +18

    Matt's reassurance about figuring out the house thing was so precious. 🥹

  • @carmensamone
    @carmensamone 4 дня назад +2

    I love y'all so much! I, a stranger, will always defend y'all against other strangers. 😂

  • @edonahaxholli9565
    @edonahaxholli9565 5 дней назад +6

    Hi Matt and Abby u guys are so amazingg !!!!! ❤💕

    • @Micah98134
      @Micah98134 День назад

      Explain in detail what is so amazing about this couple. It drives me crazy when people say shit like that because they don’t know their real lives. These comments are just sucking up.

  • @chadrilcon1024
    @chadrilcon1024 5 дней назад +26

    Ahh Matthew, there is no way you will be in that new house for 20 years, the lead prosecutor will do anything to cut a deal now because it is the number 1 thing in their life.

  • @annelisenash1260
    @annelisenash1260 4 дня назад +2

    Love you guys! So wholesome and your family is beautiful. May God continue to grant you a beautiful life. Stay positive and genuine guys! ❤

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je 5 дней назад +13

    Just think about it this way, when you sell your home, would you accept 10% below asking?

    • @maryjaneferguson9432
      @maryjaneferguson9432 4 дня назад +1

      It sometimes is a lot awhole lot more than 10%. 10% in real estate is really nothing.

    • @Sunflowers36
      @Sunflowers36 4 дня назад +1

      They will find out that they will need to bid above asking price quite a bit in order to have their offer accepted. Sellers market.

  • @CourtneyZoeysMommy
    @CourtneyZoeysMommy 4 дня назад +1

    I love Matt and Abby they are soo true and real I just love their wholesome conversations 💕 and love stories and take on life. I especially love the way they hype each other up and compliment one another. You guys keep being you because we love yah!!! Much love from😊 Illinois

    • @Micah98134
      @Micah98134 День назад

      This is laughable. They only show you what they want you to see about them. It’s a form of gaslighting.

  • @Livixxxxxxxxx
    @Livixxxxxxxxx 4 дня назад +2

    Interesting they allowed you to submit a letter and photo with your offer for the house. Here in St. Louis, our realtor this past month actually said they have passed laws you can no longer do that because it opens up the possibility for discrimination…. Idk if this was an addition to the fair housing act or something.

  • @marshasmirh3976
    @marshasmirh3976 4 дня назад +4

    Matt, the Body Guard was the Whitney Houston movie with Kevin Costner as her body guard. It's a great movie.

  • @philliphensarling2114
    @philliphensarling2114 4 дня назад +4

    Abby my theory is the they almost all died but the ones that were left integrated into a Native American tribe. I have not evidence of this but it makes the most sense to me. 😅

  • @henryvondra6143
    @henryvondra6143 5 дней назад +1

    staying up late cleaning DUB i get to see the brand new episode keep going guy we love yall

  • @LauraShanee
    @LauraShanee 4 дня назад +2

    Abby! I am a member of the Lumbee Tribe out of North Carolina. I do believe that our tribe was formed from The Lost Colony! It’s really interesting to research. Hope this helps your curious mind lol

  • @jerzic488
    @jerzic488 2 дня назад +1

    Matt and Abby get so much hate but I really do see how much Matt compliments Abby in a deep genuine way every episode. I think sometimes his words come out the wrong way that he doesn’t mean. They couldn’t make me hate you guys. Lots of love here!! ❤

  • @bintlooda
    @bintlooda 5 дней назад +24

    Matt is torn between Abby’s desires and her family it seems lol I was surprised when he mentioned how her mom didn’t like the idea of them supposedly moving to Nashville to peruse His dreams 😢

    • @dianacooper-havlik4115
      @dianacooper-havlik4115 4 дня назад +10

      Probably because her parents moved to Arizona to help them & be around the grandkids.

  • @reagansams7491
    @reagansams7491 4 дня назад +3

    I’m a teacher in NC and I had to teach about the lost colony of roanoke for the first time this year and I was so confused and haven’t stopped thinking about it since either lol.

    • @amietedeschi3203
      @amietedeschi3203 4 дня назад

      Fellow fourth grade teacher in NC here! I've found some great Lost Colony resources that might help. My students especially love Roanoke: The Lost Colony - An Unsolved Mystery from History by Jane Yolen. It's out of print, but I bet you can find it through a library or used book sale. There's an interesting History Comic on it, and a good background book by Jean Fritz. There's lots of video options out there. I like the one from the History Channel best. There's also a good video from PBS SciTech about recent archaeological findings.

  • @marvaSunshine
    @marvaSunshine 4 дня назад +1

    You can go to safari parks in USA too. They are not that huge, but it’s a blast. Even before having kids we enjoyed driving in our car through the park, meeting and feeding animals, it was a wonderful experience.

  • @Lahama27192
    @Lahama27192 4 дня назад +3

    Oh my gosh!! Abby complaining about hate comments BUT I THOUGHT THEY NEVER READ HATE COMMENTS.

  • @shawnvillelife8311
    @shawnvillelife8311 5 дней назад +8

    I can relate to Matt because he tells really good stories about how he loves his family and his wife and kids. I don’t like when people leave their house to move out because Abby needs to be settled down and I don’t like no hate

  • @baileehansen3487
    @baileehansen3487 4 дня назад +8

    Go Abby for supporting her man. Proof you don’t know someone’s life. I was waiting for that defense!!

  • @MScrista24
    @MScrista24 4 дня назад +1

    Love seeing Abby finding herself outside of motherhood again its awesome 🥹

  • @welcomebackpotter722
    @welcomebackpotter722 5 дней назад +15

    The amount of comments warning them about capital gains is so ignorant, in Matt and Abby's case they won't incur capital gains. Please people read up on home selling. Heaven forbid we give up five minutes of insta scrolling every once in awhile smh. Anyways, when you sell a home and you are immediately moving into a new home, capital gains does not take place. Capital gains only happens when you sell a home or property and just bank that money

    • @brat32179
      @brat32179 4 дня назад

      This requires planning ahead to do a 1031 exchange. It’s really not common practice since most average homebuyers don’t know the rules or can’t commit to the timeline requirements, and it’s not something you can take advantage of after the fact.

  • @angelinamccarville
    @angelinamccarville 4 дня назад +6

    Please tell Abby that libraries totally take volunteers!!! We go to story time regularly, and there is a volunteer that helps read the books and basically assists the children’s librarian with story time. Also, I volunteered at the library regularly as a teen and usually helped with the summer reading program.

  • @MegaTelenovela
    @MegaTelenovela 5 дней назад +12

    I can totally envision your vision of your song video Matt.
    I just picture you like Benjamin button older man sitting in your porch reading the paper and reminiscing your younger self grabbing Abby from her waist while she is either cooking or doing dishes and starting to dance together then your boys joining in the dance around your kitchen. Then you pick each of them up and throw them up in the sky as the camera lens go back from outside the window and into your old eyes...
    Lol can't wait to see if our visions align hehe

    • @welcomebackpotter722
      @welcomebackpotter722 5 дней назад +1

      what a great call back with benjamin button such a great movie, so underrated and funny stuff

  • @jaybai8930
    @jaybai8930 5 дней назад +2

    Wishing you and your family the best.

  • @rmartinez5331
    @rmartinez5331 4 дня назад +2

    The perfect marriage is such a good book. You’ll love reading it

  • @magorzataukleja2719
    @magorzataukleja2719 4 дня назад +1

    I see all the animals like a Disney animals too 😂 48:53

  • @lucygarrett9785
    @lucygarrett9785 4 дня назад +6

    7:30
    When a man’s spouse died he is called a widower
    Makes no sense to me because it sounds like he’s the one doing the windowing but whatever

  • @carenfarmer4794
    @carenfarmer4794 3 дня назад

    For those of you not familiar with Phoenix, it sometimes takes 2 hrs from one end to the other depending on if there are accidents, roadwork, vokume, etc.

  • @user-we8kg7ib6i
    @user-we8kg7ib6i 3 дня назад +1

    THE LOST COLONY OF ROANOKE HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😂that had me dead

  • @marvaSunshine
    @marvaSunshine 4 дня назад +1

    I love Nashville. We lived there and in California. Still thinking of coming back to Nashville because of its nature, people, etc.

  • @xenawarriorprincess4411
    @xenawarriorprincess4411 4 дня назад +2

    I love hearing about books Abby and Matt are reading!

  • @aleahwhitt5894
    @aleahwhitt5894 5 дней назад +1

    ❤️❤️ love you guys

  • @SageRosemary
    @SageRosemary 3 дня назад +2

    They've only been in their current house 2 years?

  • @annesnyder3070
    @annesnyder3070 4 дня назад +1

    Abby's on such a high at the beginning here. So cute, so happy for her!

  • @Lexi_mae17
    @Lexi_mae17 4 дня назад

    YES keep Abby’s book corner!!! I’m not even kidding I love her book suggestions!

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je 5 дней назад +6

    No, widower for man that has lost his spouse, widow for woman that has lost her spouse!

  • @jordanfuentes3864
    @jordanfuentes3864 3 дня назад +1

    I LOVED the bodyguard! We read it in our book club and it’s one of my favorite reads!

  • @genevabontrager9289
    @genevabontrager9289 29 минут назад

    You are in for it on the perfect marriage! My jaw was on the floor.😅 love your content, thank you for all you do ❤️

  • @AmandaReigh
    @AmandaReigh 4 дня назад +9

    People are just jealous and judge of matt. Screw the haters Matt you are awesome person

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je 5 дней назад +6

    Well, Abby is a college graduate! She probably wrote alot of term papers in college!

  • @carlalewis6080
    @carlalewis6080 4 дня назад +1

    I love your podcast !

  • @Immunity7
    @Immunity7 4 дня назад +2

    I had asked what had happened to your Airbnb in a short for this episode. I should have waited to watch this episode.

  • @jennymartinez9538
    @jennymartinez9538 5 дней назад +7

    What is meant to be will be!! Trust the process! Y’all got THIS!!!
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nancykyle9803
    @nancykyle9803 4 дня назад +1

    Matt: maybe those women burned in Salem as witches had a mental illness...
    Abby:...or maybe they were just PMS'ing.
    Abby, that comment made me laugh out loud, but the way you said it made it super funny. I love your sense of humor.

  • @jml79bu
    @jml79bu 3 дня назад +2

    I think y'all would fit well into the Nashville area. Think about it.

  • @JaneAusten-nm6gh
    @JaneAusten-nm6gh 4 дня назад +15

    Yet again, Abby has thrown another tantrum and, once again, gets her way. Observing their relationship, it seems she is the dominant one, while Matt is trying to be kind and patient becsuse he will get attcked regardless weather be at home and online. Although Matt can lose his cool occasionally, he approaches life decisions logically. This was evident in a recent podcast discussing their issues, where Abby was disrespectful to his rational arguments. This behavior shows she isn't considerate of Matt's feelings. I also feel bad for Matt's brother, who moved for them, and now they’ve just bought a house. How messed up is that? Abby should reflect on her actions, feel remorse, and stop justifying her behavior to ease her conscience.

    • @larac.8797
      @larac.8797 4 дня назад

      Well from her story's it would appear that they are actually trying to be closer to them. When they got an apartment they said they were an hour drive from Matt and Abby.

    • @itsjeslyfe
      @itsjeslyfe 4 дня назад

      100% agreed

  • @TateJohnson
    @TateJohnson 4 дня назад +1

    Omg I love the Bodyguard!! I also just finished Five Survive yesterday and I didn’t love it either.

  • @user-wd9ck5ci2f
    @user-wd9ck5ci2f 4 дня назад

    You guys briefly talked about sparatically going on a safari in Africa. I was fortunate enough to go on one in Tanzania through an amazing company in the summer of 2023. A couple things: 1) Animals are often as scared of us as we are of them. They won’t approach your vehicle unless provoked. 2) if an animal does try to come up to your vehicle, your safari guide should be aware enough to drive away fast enough to keep anything from happening. 3) At least where I went, in the Serengeti in Tanzania, rhinos are very rare and endangered. Most people when they go don’t get to see one at all. We were able to see one from afar, and it was amazing. Depending on where you go, rhinos shouldn’t be a problem. 4) Your tour guides should be able to drive away fast enough and keep anything from happening. They are trained and should be able to see what the animals body language is saying, and they’ll know when it’s safe to stay or whether to drive away.
    Dont let those horror stories on the news keep you from doing something like this! Most of the time, it’s people being crazy, (like people that get out to go pet a wild lion) and the animals are gentle and don’t care much for people. If you ever have the chance, I would definitely go.
    Hope this helps!

  • @marybethtaylor8066
    @marybethtaylor8066 5 дней назад +4

    Don’t be embarrassed about writing a letter I knew a couple who got married and they were looking for a home they put in an offer along with another couple……so they decided to write the owner a letter and he let them have the house cause of there letter

  • @ezrayofsunshine
    @ezrayofsunshine 3 дня назад

    49:50 “I’ll never trust a chimp” why did that sound so funny 🤣

  • @Beautybarbie995
    @Beautybarbie995 4 дня назад

    I love Abby’s book corner segment! I read the perfect marriage and loved it! Looks like my next book is the bodyguard since you gave it a 5/5. Also a busy mom that’s trying to squeeze in reading anytime I can, except now when I’m watching the podcast instead haha

  • @user-wd9ck5ci2f
    @user-wd9ck5ci2f 4 дня назад

    I felt the same way about “Five Survive”! I would give it 3/5 too because with a mystery, I want to be able to go back and see what clues I missed. It’s a good book, but I don’t think I would be able to figure it out if I went back and read it again. I liked the plot a lot though.

  • @jenniferantonio6389
    @jenniferantonio6389 5 дней назад +6

    Abby, I agree with you about trusting women more than men. I do believe that you are talking about opinions or advice. Women (who are close to you) will be honest with you and men may just tell you what you want to hear.