This songs shows what a real man is. A REAL man will keep trying and keep trying even though the girl keeps acting like she's not interested. He puts some EFFORT into it. Guys could learn a few things from this song.
Girl, don't explain yourself to these people! Be proud that as a woman you appreciate and treasure your femininity. Don't lose that as you get older! It will keep you from a mountain of disrespect and help you to continue to LOVE yourself as a woman!
Ok, honestly? I wrote this over a year and a half ago and I'm STILL getting replies of people that disagree with me. I was 17 at the time, my outlook on relationships was COMPLETELY different. I was speaking out of hurt, because I've been hurt by too many guys that didn't see the value in me and just passed me over because I valued myself too much to date a guy that didn't prove he wanted to be in my life.
@ruhhshelle Born In LA, and have Lived in nearly every state in this little country we call USA. So.. who knows where I am from? Not I haha!!... Madam, Where are you from that you detest TN residents so readily? ... Heaven I presume... ;)
@Goffeth312 if you feel that way, i wonder WHY you're listening to this song. What you have just said is the exact opposite of what this song is saying.
Though I wouldn't necessarily agree with my original comment anymore, the sentiment that girls like to be pursued still stands. Not all girls, obviously. That would be a ridiculous generalization, but there are DEFINITELY girls that would rather wait for a guy that sees value in her over picking one that has a here today/ gone tomorrow attitude. Honestly, I don't think that is so wrong.
Have to agrgree with ruhhshelle :) some girls dont like being chased or worked for and thats their preference, but some of us old fashioned girls still like the whole idea of it :) it shows us that the guy is willing to put out engergy to win us over, and true test is that a real man in love will never stop trying to win a girls heart even tho he might already "have" her as his own :) To every guy , good luck and please know that every girl is different :)
i agree that a real man should try hard. but that real man deserves a real girl, and real girls shouldn't have to play hard! if the connection's real it's real. no need to pretend, just let it be!
Maybe girls could learn a few things from this song too...LIKE FREAKING DATING THE GOOD GUY SO THEY DON'T END UP WITH A DOUCHE. You don't have to play "hard to get" all the time...
@ruhhshelle 1) work it out with ur ex cuz you clearly have some problems with a past relationship 2) why is the girl acting like she's not interested? either she's not or she's being stupid and the guy shouldnt bother with her
Woman could also learn something from this song... Every time he gives her effort, time, anything, she just walks away and acts like its nothing? That aint cool lol. "I don't think it's funny that she keeps walking away." It's not funny.. it's discouraging when you try and try and try and they don't react or give you anything back. A relationship is two part :)
JESUS CHRIST IS LORD JESUS CHRIST is the Light of the world. Whoever follows Him will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life. Open your heart to Jesus Christ !
why doesn't this have millions of views
Nabil Nazri That is an amazing question
such a fun upbeat song and totally fits the fun summery vibe of young love :))) i love it!!
I. Love. This. SONG!!! :) It puts me in such a great mood!!
Love this song so much. Totally asking for this CD for Christmas. This is such a good album
This songs shows what a real man is. A REAL man will keep trying and keep trying even though the girl keeps acting like she's not interested. He puts some EFFORT into it. Guys could learn a few things from this song.
Just bought this CD for 10 dollars on ebay today, I feel awesome :)
I'm the seventieth liker and I will say: Mat Kearney is what the world needs.
I'm Cockykid1234, and I approve this song.
This song is so awesome.
This song makes me happy. :)
I've been looking for this song! Thank you!:)
anyone else think this song is like a mix between "Hooch" by everything, and "say hey (i love you)" by michael franti?
I love this song it is the best one on the album :) -3
0 dislikes. just how it should be!!!
Girl, don't explain yourself to these people! Be proud that as a woman you appreciate and treasure your femininity. Don't lose that as you get older! It will keep you from a mountain of disrespect and help you to continue to LOVE yourself as a woman!
I honestly think she's not playing hard to get. She may just be shy about it. "Turns red as she's turning away." :)
MAT. KEARNEY.
Ok, honestly? I wrote this over a year and a half ago and I'm STILL getting replies of people that disagree with me. I was 17 at the time, my outlook on relationships was COMPLETELY different. I was speaking out of hurt, because I've been hurt by too many guys that didn't see the value in me and just passed me over because I valued myself too much to date a guy that didn't prove he wanted to be in my life.
awesome
SHE GOT THE HONEY AND I GOT THE MONEY
and women have to learn that you can't expect us to try forever. Both parties have to give equal parts love
@ruhhshelle Born In LA, and have Lived in nearly every state in this little country we call USA. So.. who knows where I am from? Not I haha!!... Madam, Where are you from that you detest TN residents so readily? ... Heaven I presume... ;)
@PERPETUALEMPTY The area code doesn't lie. If you aren't from Tennessee, then where are you from sir?
@Goffeth312 if you feel that way, i wonder WHY you're listening to this song. What you have just said is the exact opposite of what this song is saying.
i got the honey
@PERPETUALEMPTY not quite.. but close. I'm from Texas.... so that makes sense as to my aversion of Tennessee.
nice,
how did it happen
Though I wouldn't necessarily agree with my original comment anymore, the sentiment that girls like to be pursued still stands. Not all girls, obviously. That would be a ridiculous generalization, but there are DEFINITELY girls that would rather wait for a guy that sees value in her over picking one that has a here today/ gone tomorrow attitude. Honestly, I don't think that is so wrong.
Have to agrgree with ruhhshelle :) some girls dont like being chased or worked for and thats their preference, but some of us old fashioned girls still like the whole idea of it :) it shows us that the guy is willing to put out engergy to win us over, and true test is that a real man in love will never stop trying to win a girls heart even tho he might already "have" her as his own :) To every guy , good luck and please know that every girl is different :)
@superhawkfan13 I feel even more awesome that I bought the new Kutless Christmas CD :D
i agree that a real man should try hard. but that real man deserves a real girl, and real girls shouldn't have to play hard! if the connection's real it's real. no need to pretend, just let it be!
@ruhhshelle ... NOT from tennessee
I fucking love this albuuuummm!!!!!
me toooo xD
@PERPETUALEMPTY ... you would know.
@BeccaP91-said it all :) exactly whaaat i thought!!
@ruhhshelle Word.
Aw c'mon! We'd be so boring if we weren't nice n' complicated right?! ;D
@ruhhshelle
well.. most of the time.. unless you REALLY aren't interested and they keep bugging you :(
AWESOME song though :)
The thing is, in this song, she is interested, it's just that she's shy (probably scared to fall, believe I've been there).
I'd beg, steal, and borrow if tomorrow he'd stay.
what's up with him and purple boots
Purple's his favorite color, evidently.
Maybe girls could learn a few things from this song too...LIKE FREAKING DATING THE GOOD GUY SO THEY DON'T END UP WITH A DOUCHE. You don't have to play "hard to get" all the time...
@ruhhshelle 1) work it out with ur ex cuz you clearly have some problems with a past relationship 2) why is the girl acting like she's not interested? either she's not or she's being stupid and the guy shouldnt bother with her
@ruhhshelle .... You are such a Sweetheart... :-/
maybe she is really not interested. and I think she should make an effort also to show that she is.
I feel like this could lead to many restraining orders
If you don't want to put any effort into pursuing a relationship, then you're lazy and want everything handed to you.
I filled a restraining order against a "real" man then,
Woman could also learn something from this song... Every time he gives her effort, time, anything, she just walks away and acts like its nothing? That aint cool lol. "I don't think it's funny that she keeps walking away." It's not funny.. it's discouraging when you try and try and try and they don't react or give you anything back. A relationship is two part :)
And she's clearly falling for him but is afraid to let herself fall in love.
Becca, i might annoy the HELL out of you because i'm surprised i found this.........
get yer mood on.
JESUS CHRIST IS LORD
JESUS CHRIST is the Light of the world. Whoever follows Him will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life. Open your heart to Jesus Christ !
you expect all men to try for a women? who doesn't show interest. #Logic
@PERPETUALEMPTY wow. no wonder I can't stand you. You're from Tennessee....