Hi Miss Katie, As a recently retired trucker of 25 years, I need to tell you that most of those truck stops you sleep in are not really that safe, there's prostitution, even if you don't see the girls out there, and %99 of those girls are not out there by choice. Human trafficking is everywhere, especially in truckstops and rest areas. It is better in a TS rather than a vacant starbucks lot because of the lights and traffic, but just make sure to stay in the auto areas of the lots and away from the trucks. The truck drivers on the roads nowadays are not the Knights of the highways like they used to be... The guy telling you to move,,, He's just a jerk is all, that's just him. Those Pilot, Flying J, and TA truckstops only have 1 or 2 people working late night and they have to do everything by themselves, so they don't care about no two hrs they just want to get their work done.. I admire your living in your car by choice, it shows courage, and the benefit of it is freedom... Just be wary of everyone and be careful. The Lord Bless you...
People like her are not afraid of danger, it's an adrenaline rush. I am curious to know how you know that 99% of those girls are not out there by choice. Did you interview 99% of the girls? Prostitutes get their courage from alcohol and stimulants, that is a fact. Pimps only manage girls who are already drug addicts and addicts steal; lie; and prostitute themselves to support their daily habit. This is also a fact. I applaud that you are one of many truckers who do not invest in prostitution, however I recommend that you research your assumption a little further than the politically correct understanding you have. I have been a social worker for about the same amount of time you were a trucker and I am aware of the difference between the public persona and the private persona we all possess. All of us have secrets we don't admit publicly. I recommend that you research the definition of narcissist, this will give you insight and help you analyze what you read and hear. Con artists come in every flavor including mine and yours.
MORE people will in fact be living in their cars because the cost of housing, taxes and the ever changing economic environment. Cities should embrace this evolving lifestyle. Your " Roamers" NOT homeless. GOD bless.
@@ribeyeone7092 The people who vandwells, STEALTHILY, are not the problem and should be embraced. But the problem is, if there's no law against sleeping/living in vehicles, then towns & cities will turn into shitholes. So the main blame is on the scumbags who abuses the system by dumping their trash, piss & shit onto the streets, etc. and I hope they don't do this to this stadium.
Living in a car is not a lifestyle. Dont romanticize it. Living in a car or van or at slab city would suck. Some of these that are forced into living in cars are talented videographers and paint a exciting and romantic picture of being nomads but for most people this would suck. You do not want to be known as the man who lives in the van down by the river.
I used to drive a truck for a living, and I tried to avoid staying at truck stops when I could. I really preferred rest stops over truck stops. The reason for this is because there's a lot of criminal activity at truck stops. Drugs, prostitution, human trafficking, people getting robbed... They really aren't that safe. As a woman who has also spent a lot of time traveling alone on the road, I urge you to reconsider staying at truck stops overnight. Since you're in a car, rather than a big rig, you have many other options like hospitals, 24 hour gyms, hotel parking lots, and casinos. Anyway, stay safe.
Do hospitals really let you sleep in their parking lots? I've been going a ways to visit a friend in ICU. I can't afford to sleep in hotels so I sleep in my car. I didn't think a hospital would allow sleeping in their lot. That seems quite safe.
I had to live in my car for 2 years I love how positive you are about it I never had an encounter with police, but now I am a police officer and I have to kick people out of parking lots all the time. I feel bad because I was in the same place as them. Also sleeping in your car in not illegal it is just where you park. I mostly slept at Walmart’s and never got caught.
I don't understand that, truck stops are meant for that are they not? People have to pull over when they are tired.. Kind of seems like thats illegal if you got in an accident that may have been on him.
It's called the truck stop for a reason as in truck stop there you do realize semis by hundreds of dollars worth of fuel that's kind of why they have a spot for them
April_Evelyn truckers pay a fee for overnights and have a paper to place in their window with the date etc unfortunately rest stops aren’t free not even for those working
yeah , i am unstable and live here and there and spend a lot of time in my car (but i don't sleep there) but if i was home more, you would be welcome for a while to get yourself figured out. sure you are strong but you can't do this for much more. shit. you need insulation.
i feel like the way people are to people in their car is similar to how people treat homeless people. it’s so wrong and they should show more compassion to others.
I was once in an empty train carriage. I was moving to Switzerland and I was on a trip to see my son at uni before I left. I was unwell and curled up on both seats. The conductor tried to get me to sit up. Apparently because I had only paid for one ticket I Was not allowed to use two! I told him that if someone wanted the other seat I would sit up. What a jackass some people are
India McMillan-Dickman I was on a plane once that was basically empty there where maybe 25 passengers and it was a huge plane and I had my small dog in her carrier and I put her carrier on the seat next to me so she wld stop crying and whining and the flight attendant made me put back under my seat because I didn't buy her a ticket for the seat next to me, it was a 3 hr flight and my dog cried the whole time and there was no one even sitting anywhere near me....so petty
You are absolutely right when you said living in your car has shown you your own strength! I lived in my car for 6 weeks. I look at it as a badge of honor instead of a low point. Learning I could survive that was empowering! Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
That or go to government funded homeless shelters which are not safe by any means it’s a vicious cycle the government has created its sad as hell, I’ve stayed at a local homeless shelter for one night and would NEVERRRR GO BACK got robbed and creepy drug addicted people EVERYWHERE no wonder they stole from me MY SHOES !!!
Yes! Sometimes the need to sleep will hit me like a brick and I have to pull over and nap, but people are just not cool about it either. During the day, college campuses are my favorite spot. They’re quiet and people just think you’re an exhausted student so they leave you alone. I’m in the city so there’s not really any truck stops.
I know I don't get it either. When you are learning to drive they always say if your tired pull over and sleep or whatever, but then you are not allowed to sleep anywhere... I understand business saying no sleeping or over night parking, but a rest stop is for people who are travelling and need to rest.. I feel like you are no different than a truck driver! Idk just my thoughts
It wasn't a rest stop. It was a truck stop (private property). Those spaces were reserved for 2 hour parking. It wasn't a cop and it wasn't government property.
Probably because they pay property taxes on the buildings and if they're paying the taxes and costs to maintain the facilities and not charging you and he might have figured you didnt buy anything like truckers probably do?
in thailand anyokne can park at a temple safely and there are no good limitations.Apparemrly only in the West are people unable.tok b trusted to act in a way that won't take advantage of people's kindness and of course there are all those liability regulations that stop people helping others more
Depending on where you are in Australia I know in Queensland it's against the law. But if the police do see you they generally just ask you to move on or if you don't then they may fine you.
I use small doctor's office parking lots, the large ones sometimes has security at night, no one shows up till 7am, (cleaning people office itself opens at 9 am ) I flip between a few of them been doing it for months so far so good
ron sylvia yes, so far I guess my secrecy and thinking and feeling out areas and being well concealed in the back have helped. Careful choosing of motel parking lots off the interstate that runs through and knowing the area I've been careful, especially in rotating and not staying in the same place more than a night in a row. Church parking lots here in the South I would have a hard time feeling like a cop wouldn't be knocking on a window at any time, I see many suggest they are legal, the nosiness factor surrounding churches here is very high. Secrecy and safety are my main thoughts, I'm always looking for more.
On private property it has to do with liability. If they let you stay and you, say, get hurt they can be responsible. It's sad, but we are such a sue-happy culture. I don't understand why you're not allowed to sleep in your car on a public street where you're parked legally. There is a couple that lives in a van that they often park across the street from me. I live right in the downtown area of Seattle and you have to move your car every 3 days (every car)...so I say they are my sometimes neighbors. They have a sweet set up and have good jobs and nice bikes...they just live in their van. I don't know if it's a choice or if circumstances dictated it...doesn't matter. Some people don't want people to be able to live in their car and I don't understand what harm it's doing.
@veronica carlson Seattle allows the homeless to hang out anywhere .Homeless encampments are destroying business areas .Typhus has been discovered in San Francisco in homeless encampments .
Dear Heavenly Father I go before you today completely trusting in your goodness and mercy. Appeal to your loving spirit to watch over Katie Carney: To praise you for her life and soul. Look upon her with tenderness and grace. If she hurts bring her healing. If she's afraid, bring her courage. If she's fallen, lift her up in forgiveness. And most of all dear lord, let her know she is loved. And let her heal even the deepest of her wounds. Give her confidence knowing she is your child. Oh heavenly father embrace Katie's heart. Bless her my lord, let her be healthy, free and protected in your loving arms. In Jesus name Amen.💁🙌💕❤
What I'm thinking you should say your traveling and you were falling asleep and rather than get into an accident you pulled over. Most cops I've said this to and they were cool with this. Just giving you ideas. They don't want people annoying abusing it which seems silly to a certain extent.
Good tip! I've also slept with a textbook & notebook in my lap a few times, and told a guard I was taking a driving break and just fell asleep while doing homework
M.A.W. Cleaning & Music i agree and was thinking the same thing. Usually even the police will let it go, no one wants to be liable if you drive away, fall asleep, and have a accident.
Tip: find a hospital parking lot, a 24 hour gym, a 24 hour laundromat, the guest parking area of an apartment complex, hotel parking lots, casino parking lots.
Parking lots of apartments and hotels/motels are not a good idea. Too many snitches. Plus the companies want the parking spaces for the residents and guests. I have been asked to leave every time.
Donde Womack many years ago our famiky drove to New Hampshire in the summer without reservstions. All hotels.motels were booked and we couidbt stat awake. we feel asleep in a parking lot of the last booked hotel abd we had a guy bang on our winfiw telling us we has to leave, that asshole could have caused us to get killed by falling asleep,at the wheel. We explained we couldnt find a place to stay, we pulled into a 24 hr. McDonalds and rested a bit. What a bad memory of New Hamphire.
I'm not super knowledgeable on the laws of this, but I'm fairly certain business owners do not like people sleeping in their parking lot because more often than not they are liable for any injuries you sustain while on their property (parking lot). And since sleeping in your car in an unlit parking lot that is not monitored can be dangerous, they're just making a preemptive strike to cover their butts.
Look up the definition for truckstop truck stops have been around for decades truck stops are for truckers and anyone who needs a place to sleep or a restaurant to go into at 3:00 a.m. OK And truck stops are always synonymous for people resting and taking a few hours sleep at night time especially those on the road so the fact that this employee Or suppose it employee kicked her off the property is stupid it doesn't matter if they had a 2 hour parking area only the fact is it's a truck stop which implies in and being that it is an all night place 24 hours implies Hey we're a truck stop if you're tired lay down take a rest in your vehicle sleep in your vehicle and you know I would be questioning the guy that came to the door of my car whether or not he was actually an employee or just someone that randomly trying to get people leave
My Business Model Idea for $10/night: 1) You pull into a numbered spot that has an HVAC window attachment similar to a modern truck stop. It attaches securely to a window and blows in warmed or cooled air based on your setting. 2) For another $5 you are allowed to use the bathroom & shower facilities. 3) The "rest stop" is fenced and patrolled 24/7 by a security guard. 4) Have some *to-the-point* name like *"Driver's Down Time"* 5) Have a 3-night maximum length of stay so it's not a place for squatters. 6) It's merely the cheapest way for people to travel.
Not a bad idea. What about making it so it is like a garage with a small build in kitchen and bathroom? You could put skylights to let light in during the day and a few lights at night.
you'd need a few up-sell/cross-sell revenue models for supplemental income, not sure this model would even sustain buying a parking lot and paying said security guard, at least some vending machines with expensive over-priced stuff that might be in high demand at a specific time where it's not available especially if you find a location that is in the middle of nowhere it would help a lot, such as food, toothpaste, shower items, underwear, towels.
I bet he could make a fortune just from a vending machine with underwear. The kind of people who would stay at such a place would go bananas over a banana hammock from a vending machine. Great idea!👍😂
Matt. That's a wonderful idea! I don't live in my car, but I travel a lot and usually sleep in my car (mostly in rest areas). I would definitely appreciate the services you mentioned and would gladly pay $15 to $25 for them. I'm a retired teacher with time to travel and being on the road makes me feel free and happy. I couldn't do much of it if I had to stay in motels or hotels. I hope someone (maybe you?) takes the idea seriously and runs with it.
I have slept in my car overnight on a semi-regular basis, & I am a truck driver, so I have slept in trucks as well. Just some food for thought-actively allowing people to stay overnight can not only increase congestion in their parking lots(word of a permissive store will spread quickly), but also lead to "lot lizards" using their cars as brothels. It also exposes the truck stop to liability if someone is robbed/harmed while sleeping there, in addition to the bad publicity generated when those incidents happen. Often, as long as you don't have a vehicle that stands out, the managers won't notice, or care enough to make an effort to remove you. If you politely leave, returning at a later date is usually not a problem.
Thank you for sharing this I recently have started living in my car myself I had to leave an abusive relationship I have no parents to help and I just turned 30 sure I could sleep at friends houses however being an attractive woman doing that everyone always expects you to sleep with them and then the guilt trip start because they helped you so I refused all help insist on being alone so that I do not owe anyone anything ever I was crying myself to sleep tonight and came across your video I just want to truly thank you 💖
God bless you I’m about to start this lifestyle once my lease is up in 13 days. I’m doing it because it seems like the best option for me while I figure things out in my life and I’m afraid of those down low moments that may come. I hope you’re okay and feeling better 💕
@@itsyagirlashleytv I am ok I got myself a decent job that I enjoy.. It is still hard finding a place of my own.. Ive noticed when youre a young attractive woman nobody truly wants you to be able to hold yourself up.. People will sabotage just to make sure you still need them smh i just keep on pushing on and make sure im doing whats right and good in my heart and hope that comes back around someday.. I wish you love, wellness, and happiness... Hang in there love!
Find a small garage to rent every month clean up and out the garage once garage door can lock garage don't leak clean out get a air mattress to use or small cot to sleep on go surgical supply store and get a commode use as a portable toilet clean out in mornings or after using rinse it out broom dust pan to sweep dust out the garage and keep it clean and organize take out your garbage every day mornings dump it out when you leave for the day need a small storage unit to rent a gym membership to go.take a shower every day. Baby wipes rubbing alcohol toilet paper find a small garage to rent ]
defo. that guy is either super angry at life or has the crappiest job ever that he has to count down two hours and then come knock on windows waking people up. grace for him that he gets something less terrible to do to earn a paycheck
She says that it's posted 2 hour parking, maybe some truck drivers mentioned the people sleeping overnight to the manager or the manager saw them when arriving for dayshift and said that the rule has to be enforced.
Yes join a 24 hour fitness place everyone can benefit from a 30 minute workout. Also the plus is they have showers/bathrooms. I also slept in Wal-Mart parking lots. I figured out where the employee's parked and they won't bother you.
It’s kind of scary to me that you did sleep in the place that you discussed going to with the guy at the truck stop. It makes me think that he could have been setting you up. Especially since truck stops are generally ok. Glad it worked out.
Sometimes traveling people need to stop and sleep because they didn't make their destination, so they would rather you get in a accident or kill someone then sleep, it's not like you had a tent set up barbecuing.
SandaBoxing that’s called homeless druggies ...it’s not the same at all & most homeless can’t afford to drive all over the country by any means and even more don’t have vehicles ..she’s not sleeping there every single night making a life at 1 location like almost all homeless people
@@ethan3942 she admitted she had stayed there more than 20X in the last few weeks and had even become familiar with another car dweller. Obviously this business had taken note that they were developing a collection of nightly regulars. That is not what they are in business for and there are liability and zoning/legal issues/consequences. Anyone using these facilities should go inside and ask the manager for permission to park overnight. If there is a reason to need more than one day...ask! They are real humans. In our 4 years of living on the road most have been very accomodating...especially when given the courtesy of asking. May I park over night? Is there an area of the lot you,prefer me to park? we have had to wait for an important package to arrive general delivery in an area....asked at the local market explaining the situation. They were able to accomodate. These people dont owe us parking! We are guests. So we cannot just roll in and assume we can stay.
Stef C that's for trucks, if cars take up the spots where do you think trucks will park. but I don't think she was parked on the truck side, she was parked on the car side and they have limited parking, so they probably asked her to move
Lush Fanatic , rest areas and truck stops , most all of the have a truck side and a car side. the truck side is for commercial vehicles and large vehicles like buses, motor homes, semis, etc. they usually always have another side that has gas and a convenience store for cars. now this side usually has limited parking and I'm sure that's where she was parked. if she parked there enough were someone saw her they probably complained. where most truck stops are free to park, a lot of truck stops in big cities like Chicago, Los Angeles and so on now have to charge for overnight parking because the property is worth more then the truck stop can afford to pay in taxxes. typical story everyone wants there food, gas, clothes and no body wants to wait for it but no body wants trucks on the highway or parked anywhere near them.
This comment section is so sad. In many places it is illegal to sleep in your car and to dumpster dive. So what are homeless people left with? It is a matter of caring about fellow humans. Yes, the parking lot could become a homeless camp, but at the same time, if everyone had a little more empathy and treated others as they would want to be treated, they would not kick people out or send a homeless person to jail or fine them for searching a garbage can for food. At the end of the day we are all humans on a ball. Just because it's culturally unacceptable, doesn't mean it is wrong. It just means it is hard for people to understand.
probably because you didn't research or know anything about homelessness. for example, around 44% of homeless people HAVE JOBS. Veterans make up around 11.3% of the homeless population. For women, the leading cause of homelessness is domestic violence. But go ahead and tell the single mother w/children and no one to watch them while she works(childcare costs around $300 a week at a regular facility per child) who just left her husband who was beating them to "get a job". 20-25% of homeless people have a severe mental illness as well, which highly affects their ability to get a job and keep a job. Put yourself in their shoes. Understand the true problem is not always their willingness to work, but rather their capability of working, or even the fact they are working.
FALSE, you ignorant dullard. That incorrect 44% claim comes from a statistic from 1996 by a Washington homeless advocacy group called the National Coalition Against Homelessness, and it was debunked years ago. Per the Bureau of Labor Statistics the amount of homeless with regular employment as 0f the most recent data collected (2015) is estimated to be between 9-14%. I'm not surprised you went with a fake number considering you aren't educated and simply rely on memes from the "occupy democrats" FB page for your stats LMFAO
"Josh Leopold, a researcher at the Urban Institute, estimated that about 25 percent of the homeless population is employed, while Megan Hustings, director of the National Coalition for the Homeless, told Axios that between 40 and 60 percent of the homeless population floats in and out of full-time and part-time work." That's not full time regular employment, it's just employment. The bureau of labor stats also doesn't have an efficient way of collecting data on the homeless if you research how they go about collecting their data on their page, you will see there are some major flaws when it comes to homeless population statistics. I also explained why most homeless don't have regular employment. I don't see how you assume I am a democrat for having empathy and understanding when it comes to homelessness. As for Babe, I never said they shouldn't have to pay to park. I just mentioned how it really is sad that we live in a world where you can't live off the land- it's literally illegal to go off the grid almost everywhere in the USA. There are so many ways that the laws target the homeless. I also said it is sad we live in a world where we don't have much empathy for homeless people. In many situations where something isn't hurting anyone, such as someone parking in a walmart parking lot, pulling food out of the trash, etc, our society doesn't show very much empathy. It's also fun to note that walmart punches holes in their clothes and throws them away. They punch the holes so poor people can't wear their clothes even if dug out of the trash, and they dont donate them. That's the evil I am talking about. A lack of empathy in place of greed.
@@RottenEyeBro you are right. she did choose that route, she did she did. wel lessons learned, we all had to go to the school of hard knocks. i hoope the best for he thanks for the reply.;0
@@sofronia44 how is it 'lessons learned' if it's what she chose to do? You learn lessons when you make the wrong choices. You don't seem to be following. It's not like she's homeless because she was evicted or something. She chooses to travel and live in her car. Not sure what about 'the school of hard knocks' applies to a choice such as that.
It should be illegal for the government to not have enough affordable housing and safe places for the homeless to live !!!!!!! Makes me sick how they criminalize the poor & downtrodden...THAT should be ILLEGAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow it's not illegal being homeless yet living in Your car is? Crazyness! I pay Alot for my car payment and car insurance so if I want to live in it why can't I? Upstate NY here 🤸 💞✌️.
Beverly: Because you're parking on private property. How would you feel about someone who's living in their car pulling into your drive-way and parking overnight there? They're not really BOTHERING you, are they? And, NONE of your car payment or insurance goes towards a private property owner, so what does the fact that you pay two OTHER companies money have to do with you being able to park on private property? They're paying PROPERTY TAXES which gives them the right to say who gets to use their property and who doesn't. They owe you NOTHING.
@@wednesdaysdoll you took the words out of my mouth. Thank you!!!! God is still good. A month before my baby was born I was blessed with a 2bed 2bath townhouse and I am a strong mother, an assistant director of a school, and I was blessed with a new car. Just know my cup runneth over.
@@victoriamonroe3191 so it's god and not your hard work? I don't get how or why people feel bad for taking credit for their own hard work and what they accomplish, what they went through and survived, sad really. Always plenty of excuses why it was god but it feels looks more like an abusive relationship to me. Also facinating how he doesn't care about the hungry dying kids but "blesses" people like you with a new car, house, a school degree etc. He is so great after making you suffer as a child. #blessed
It's okay for truckers and RVers but not you? Thats discrimination. When I was living in my car, I found motel parking lots were good. Plus most have wifi with no password. Some of the higher end hotels have assigned parking so watch out for that.
Hannah Banana - truckers are obvious exceptions. Come on...that is a no brainer. The RVs are ok as long as you move it along. Her only real problem was that she was there multiple nights.
Corey H that's not the problem because if that guy had seen her there other days he would've told her the same thing as he did when he told her she had to leave
Jenny - it can take awhile for something to register as a pattern. Or the guy wasnt there for a few nights or not the same shift. See the point is you don't want to become a recognized pattern. Best to change the spot you are in.... change the location... etc. All very important. Don't become a pattern. This time it was a parking lot manager/ walker next time could be something much worse. I didn't think Katie was staying in the same places multiple nights in a row. Not a good idea. Anyone in this life especially females... should be changing it up. That's all I'm saying. Be safe.
I've never heard of truckers paying to park at a 24 hour truck stop. I frequently sleep in my car at a Love's (thanks for the recommendation Katie!) during road trips and there is a mix of everything from semis to cars stopping for 5 minutes or having dinner, sleeping all night showering, and having breakfast. If it is a smaller/indie stop, I will casually let the attendant know how long I'm going to sleep there. It gives them the opportunity to tell me if there is a time limit or a certain part of the lot they want me to park in, but also gives me a small bit of safety if they are aware of my presence in case something goes wonky.
I don't understand sleeping in a car why is it illegal but there are lots of people who are homeless and sleeping everywhere and that seems to be fine in the streets??
I think he was just being rude but girl maybe God was trying to protect you from something in that spot it stinks but stay safe and do whats best for you ❤ nothing wrong with sleeping in your car one day we all may not be able to afford our own homes
Katie, As a truck driver, I sleep in truck stops as a matter of course. I see people sleeping in their cars quite often. I don't have a problem with it as long as you're in a car spot and not taking up a truck stall. I've spoken offhandedly with a couple of truck stop managers and for the most part they're ok with it as long as they don't get the impression you're hooking or dealing. In a financial sense, you're probably gonna wake up in the morning and buy breakfast or at least a coffee, fuel your car, maybe take a shower, so they're happy to take your money for a few hours parking in an unused spot. I think in this case somebody got the idea you were working and complained...
so essentially in this country everyone is required to have a stationary home and it is illegal to not have one. That is pretty sad. I don't understand this either. It is a "free" country and we should have the freedom to live where we choose.
You do have the freedom to live where you choose...as long as you purchase the property. lol You don’t get to just pick a spot that someone else owns and decide you get to stay there. It’s not illegal to not have a stationary home, it’s illegal to trespass where you are told not to. Pretty simple.
Been living in my car for over 4 months. Usually stay at truck stops and rest areas. Got woken up at 1 am once by a cop. In a church parking lot. That's the only time.
I am 66 years old, making plans to live in my car because it is inevitable. With no retirement savings and SS that pays me less than 200 a week, it’s only a matter of time when I am unemployed and can no longer make rent. That’s just the way this country is for many, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Worked hard all my life, but as with many; misfortune comes and leaves you vulnerable. That it is illegal to live in your car is just validation of my theory: In the US, we are food. We are here to generate fuel/profit for the rich. When we live in our cars, they can’t “consume” us in that way. Wishing you stay safe and strong.
There are so many people who abuse this (living in their cars). We have people who park along our street and will stay here for weeks, defecating outside of their vehicles on our sidewalks and grass areas, leaving trash including needles. I think it's truly about respect. I wouldn't mind if they were clean about it.
I was going to say something along the lines of taxes too. I honestly think that they just don't want anyone living outside the bounds of "normal" society. They see it as just gaming the system, because they can basically hold people hostage with mortgages and rent and bills, and you've found a way around that (to an extent). Shame on you! Haha but I really believe that's why, because otherwise who cares? You're literally not hurting anyone. Imagine how our wild distant ancestors would feel about someone telling them where and how they're allowed to live. They would be horrified. Our society is bonkers.
Think about who "they" is. It's not a group of people that indescrminately don't like homeless people. You can't group every cop, business man, gas station owner, or neighbor into one category. Each is looking out for the well- being of property intrusted to their care. They don't want insurance problems or the cleanup that a lot of people cause.
I meant the institutions that govern us, not so much individual people, but I wasn't sure how to label that other than they. My point still stands, and I don't agree with your take on it. It's much, much more complicated than that.
I mean the idea of having your own private property is great, it's not like someone can come in ur house tell you can't sleep there... when you're homeless you're staying on other people's property so having a place to sleep or park your car is a privilege bc they could tow your car at anytime they want.
Hard believe your really living in your car. Your jyst too happy looking. It's very depressing living in your vehicle. I've done it and don't want to remember the feeling
I guess Katie keeps her You Tube channel as a way to lift her spirits. Denise fitness & Recovery by knowing your that her posts are helping some people , by making the best out of a upsetting situation can bring a positive light to some situations.... So keep your head up. Due to sometimes we just have to find a depressing situation can bring joy to some others. Keep ur head held high no matter how unfortunate a situation may be..peace Katie. Jesus loves all of us.
Well I work at a truck stop. I always have to remind people that our lot is not a public rest stop. It’s for customers. We don’t have signs saying you can’t sleep over because we don’t need them. Just as any other business. My first question to them is, why didn’t you just ask? Because you got away with it 20 times before right? Would have avoided it if you just asked. There would have been zero surprises. Should have just stayed at a star bucks lol. Why is it people think it’s okay because it’s a truck stop that they believe they can use the property at will? Dead ass serious question. Is it because of rest stops that are state owned? Even they often say no overnight parking. Why not just let them stay?
matemahe trucks stops are privately owned. If they allowed opem traffic and parking in their lots then anyone and everyone would stop and use it. That hinders those looking to be a customer. Most rest stops are on state property (actually on the highway) with businesses leased out. Maybe a state troopers barrack on site. Typically they have a ton of parking and open to use because its already paid for by tax payers. At private truck stops they are typically limited parking. Very expensive realestate (prime property of the highway) they require a lot of money to flow through it to pay the bills so they want only customers coming through and using their lot. If she had come to our truck stop, filled her tank and asked to stay. She would have been told stay as long as you want. Actually if she bought all her fuel at my truck stop she bought a permanent place she can always be. We have a few guys who get a free place to keep their truck at. one thing that we can't do absolutely cannot do is take money for parking. our insurance doesn't allow us to do that. if we were to charge specifically for parking then we would have to put up all sorts of signs get better coordinated and actually make a little sub business out of it so it's a lot easier for us to just say there's no parking unless you're a customer. Would I have kicked her out? No i would not have but i only work part time, i can see other associates acting exactly how ahe described. To the T lol. public property is public property and private property is private. If tax payera pay for it you can bet it's public.
Because a truck stop is for motorists AND truckers to rest... BECAUSE you know... Driving for so many hours can make you idk... AN UNSAFE MOTORIST... idiot. AND idk where thr fuck you work at..but in texas... Truck stops are for resting..we also have a thing called REST STOPS for idk.. Resting????? your a dumbfuck dude. And a total douche.
The reason is because it is private property. Taxes do not cover private property, so you can’t say you have a right to stay overnight at a truck stop. The reason that truckers get to stay overnight is they spend an incredible amount of money on fuel, same goes for RV drivers. Most businesses do not want their parking lots to become a place for homeless people to camp out. Sorry if that sounds cruel, but I does affect business when that happens. Just because you choose to live in your car, doesn’t mean anyone has to allow you to park on their property overnight.
Criminals sometimes wait in their cars looking for victims, so store owners do not want people hanging around the property. In 2003, I had my purse cut off me in broad daylight by a young man who had been sitting on a toy horse in front of a large grocery store. According to the news, criminals also drive their cars up beside shoppers putting their kids and/or groceries in their cars and rob the shoppers at gunpoint. Three days ago a young man held a gun to the head of a two-year-old child and robbed the mother while she was trying to unlock her apartment door in Texarkana, twenty miles from where we live. Sometimes criminals car jack the shoppers and/or kidnap them. I was actually kidnapped at gunpoint in 1974. Criminals are the reason why they do not want strange people in cars sleeping on their parking lots.
That's one of the reasons-a very good reason--but not the only one. If there's no rules--word gets out that you can stay there as long as you wish. The place then turns into a "motel on wheels". Truckers need to get in, get fuel/food, and get back on the road. Families on vacation need to stop there also..
I had the same thing but only once they said I couldn't sleep there. 👍🏾I do the same with switching it up every other place. It's been too humid lately so this week I've been staying with family.
As indicated, truck stops are mainly for men and women who need a comfortable place to rest, eat, take a shower, and wash there clothes. By law, truck drivers who are driving long hauls have to obey the down time. Six to eight hours of driving, and eight to ten hours of down time. During the down time, they must rest. You are not a truck driver, therefore; you are taking up a spot that is recommended for truck drivers. The business would not mind if you eat at there restaurant, but as far as sleeping in there area where they are allowed to rest eight to ten hours that is sort of stretching it quite thin. The truck drivers have the right to get mad at you for taking up there spot.
That odd.because it seems normal that people stay over at truck stops. The world doesn't care about your problems or lack of options I think it is illegal because merchants dont want to be bothered by illegal activities like drugs, prostitution, etc. Living in a car is different, cool and resourceful. Btw, don't take it so personal. Good luck. I wish you well.
Park close by a police station or sheriff's station, they usually have an ATM, public bathroom and it's safe, well lit and A.M. Watch coppers are much kinder and compassionate than Day Watch coppers. I'm speaking from experience as one myself.
I've lived in my car on and off for three years because I prefer it. I just discovered your channel, and it's so refreshing to hear someone who feels the same way as me. I relate to you more than any other youtubers who do this sort of thing. People think it's crazy or wrong that I do this, and it has gotten to me sometimes, which led me to stay at people's houses when they insisted, which I nearly always regretted. I've finally accepted myself and what I prefer, and this helps me do so even more. Thanks for sharing Katie! Oh by the way, I've never been kicked out of anywhere. I do the same thing as you and mostly stay at rest areas or truck stops and bounce around. On rare occasion, I've stayed at walmarts and in neighborhoods if I absolutely needed to and felt comfortable doing so. I drive Uber for a living, so I can be anywhere in my state, although I have also bounced around the whole country while driving Lyft. Cops did knock on my window one time at a rest area in Pennsylvania, but it was because I stayed there longer than normal into afternoon hours, and they just wanted to make sure I was alive. They were surprisingly kind and said I can stay there as long as I need to. I have dealt with much harsh judgement, however. Some people really have a tendency to assume the worst about people who live in their car. They consider me homeless, but I sure don't consider myself homeless. The worst experience happened this morning when I was doing my daily morning ruitine at a truck stop I've stayed at plenty of times. I was in the bathroom, spraying my pits with mineral salt deodorant in one of the stalls while my shirt was off. I let them dry before I put my shirt back on, while using the bathroom, and just as I sat down, they told me to step out because they thought I was doing drugs. I told them I had my shirt off because I was waiting for my pits to dry a little more and that I really had to pee, and they said they were going to call the cops if I wasn't out in five minutes. I told them that the stress was making it harder to relax to pee and that they could call the cops because I was innocent, but I ultimately decided to pee somewhere else. When one of the employees (who had talked with me before) found out it was me, she felt really bad and asked if she could make it up to me. I told her it was fine because I understood. It still made be ball my eyes out when I got back to my car. It was so stressful. I'm thankful for every experience, however. I have a close relationship with God, and I know I'm doing what's best for me and facing the challenges I'm meant to face. Nothing has made me grow more than this lifestyle because I'm staying true to my heart. "The will of God will never lead you where the the faith of God cannot protect you."
The whole being illegal to sleep in ur car is unconstitutional. There is no crime if there is no injured party. But not many are willing to stand on that simple fact. The public roads belong to the people at large, you have the right to use them and your car is private property which means the castle doctrine applies to it and you if you choose to stand on it. A parking lot belongs to whatever corporation owns or leases that location at the time. So yeah, you would have to move. But a fine/ticket for being there can be dealt with by facing ur accuser and having them prove you injured or damaged them. Which becomes their burden. Enforce the Constitution and choose trial by jury while making sure the jury is aware of constitutional principals and if they're unfamiliar. Have them removed so that a more competent jury sits in their place. I respect your desire to create and follow your own goals instead of excepting pressure to do what others think is best for your life. My comment is nothing more than shared information not legal advice, so consider me a "next of friend". :)
So this is how I see it. You are getting to stay somewhere rent free. That someone has to pay for. Be it in rent, lease, or just taxes. Therefore it comes down to owners choices. If they want you there fine. If not that is fine as well. Someone crashing in my parking lot. Can't really get pissed or question me as to why. When I ask them to move. What you should do is ask for the manager or owner of the place. Then ask them what the stance is own sleeping in the parking lot. You could ask if they have a program or have thought of starting a program. Where people like yourself can sleep in the parking lots for a small fee. If its a truck stop they have showers so that could be part of the fee.
Learn the difference between rights and permissions. Parking lots are someone's property, even public property (owned by 'the people,' but subject to the rules agreed on by 'the people' and delegated to appointed officers to enforce.) Therefore you have no right to park in any lot, only by someone else's permission and that permission can be rescinded at any time for any or no reason. The property owner doesn't have to explain why you are asked to leave. That said there are a number of reasons why a lot owner would ask you to leave. The one that makes the most sense to me is that if it is a truck stop, the lot was intended to give truckers and mobile homers a place to stay the night. Truckers need lots of space for their rigs. They travel long distances hauling products that lots of people need. They serve a very important function in our economy. So if people like you, who make it a lifestyle choice to live out of your car, want to stop at these places and spend the night, that sends a message to other people that it's okay to do that. So, if more car-dwelling people took up space at these truck stops, then eventually it could reduce the amount of space for truckers. Multiply that by the number of truck stops out there and we have a problem that affects our entire economy. It's the old adage, 'If I let you stay here then I have to let all the others stay here.' One solution would be to set up a network of people willing to share their driveways for people who live out of their cars. They can charge a small fee, maybe in cryptos and let you stay. Another is for lot operators to reserve some space for car dwellers for a small fee, maybe eventually leading to what truckers have, except the space and onsite services cater to the needs of car dwellers.
Flying J’s, Pilot and Love truckstops are all open for all vehicles for overnight parking. Some do have paid parking spots but they are usually for RVs and trucks.
My husband and I were woken up in the middle of the night and kicked out of a 24 hour Safeway parking lot and it was one of the scariest things we had to go through. The cop pounded on the side of the car and pointed his light directly into our eyes.
As a Trucker, those truck stops there because we need them, for short stops(12 hours or less) as is the law. If I stay at a rest stop 2-3 days in a row I will be kicked out. Don't forget if they let you stay there, they have to let everyone. That is a potential crime risk. And it should go without saying that a young pretty girl staying at a truck stop to everyone there they must be thinking a lot lizard. Truck stops were designed to give me a place to stop when the Department of Transportation tells me I'm over my hours and I must take a break, many companies have been smart enough to make them very enjoyable places well-lit and inviting, but they are not meant to be used as a semi-permanent home And ask for the government requiring you to actually have a physical address, and not just allowing you to maintain a post office box that makes no sense. Don't forget you may have a car with Windows and a back door, I've got a large rig with a double sleeper. They will not allow me to consider that to be my home even though I have two twin beds or television set refrigerator microwave and all the amenities, I still have to maintain a crappy apartment with doesn't have half that stuff.
Maybe they just hadn't notice you before.. also the area where you were parked, was it for car parking, or were you in parking spaces intended for trks, maybe bobtails normally parked there, because you can prk almost anywhere, anytime, and trk drivers are running on federally mandated driving schedules and they HAVE to have those parking spaces to get rest so they can do their jobs safely. They're already short on parking spaces even counting r4est areas, for their legally required 10 hr breaks. They only have so many places big enough for them to park in, .. ergo the purpose of trk stops.. to the point that now a days, there are programs run by some trk stops where a driver can call ahead and reserve a spot if he/she knows they will be there, to make sure they have parking available for the night. So they may have told you to leave for that purpose, because the smaller spaces are used by bobtail trks, in order to leave the full size ones for trks with trailers. On top of the reasons listed, I hate to say it, but if that guard had not noticed you all before, he may have thought you were lot lizards, which are a big problem in trk stops. Unlike what people think, most drivers are not on drugs, and 99/100 drivers do not want some woman knocking on their door waking them up from a sound sleep, asking them if they want a "date"! So especially if he was a new guard he might not have saw you before and new what was up. As for explaining, you would not BELIEVE some of the excuses they give! I always love the looks on their faces when I get up instead of my husband, roll the window down and holler back into the sleeper. "Babe, it's for you!" and go back to the sleeper! LoL I Finally started tossing my red lace bra over the steering wheel and dash area so they knew this trk was already occupied by a female. Anyway, just giving you some possible reasons why the guard was obviously clearing out all the traffic that wasn't in and out customers or trks parked for their 10 hr breaks..
Katie I'm learning english as a second language, and I subscribe and watch your video, because even you talking so faster, you talk clearly, and that's helps me a lot listening a native speaking without trying to pause or speak in slow motion to me
Congratulations on learning English. I doubt I could master a second language and English is tough. I would suggest changing your sentence to read "...because even though you are talking very fast...".
You can actually adjust the speed of videos if you want to watch more and practice. If u click the 3 doors in the top right corner, a the bottom it says playback speed, you can increase to speed up and decrease to slow it down. I didn’t know this trick until recently and figured it was worth sharing especially to someone trying to learn another language. Hope it helps.
The casinos in my area are not hip about people living in their cars. RVs are only good for a couple of days, PARKED ONLY, no other activity, for a couple of days in the designated parking area. Otherwise, they will have the local law enforcement remove you.
You will be monitored by casino security .You'll be escorted out on the second day unless you can prove you have been gambling for hours and plan to continue to gamble .
I slept in a Vegas parking garage for like 2 nights in a row..nobody told me to leave..I thought Wow u could really save a lot of money when in Vegas..just sleeping in your car oppose to sleeping at a high priced hotel on the strip!!!
I’m not an expert in this particular area of law but I am a sociology PhD student and one of my areas of expertise is law and society. My educated guess is that laws about living in your car are similar to vagrancy laws, many of which were created and continue to exist to criminalize people of color, poor people, and the mentally ill. We don’t like to admit that we want to punish people who don’t align with what society expects from us, but that’s essentially what happens.
I use to work in Retail my mom was one of the managers and they always had to have the police come and kick people who were camping out in there RV’s or have random cars towed. And I asked why can’t they just sleep there? And she explains it makes it look bad for the business. Just like some homeless people aren’t allowed to lounge around the building outside because it makes people uncomfortable.
Arissa Anneheim Yes and it also attracts others who will do the same. Have the same issue where I work. One homeless person hanging out front quickly turns in to two and three. Gotta get them moving fast before they intimidate customers.
Sorry this happened to you. Maybe the guy was new and was just throwing his weight around, so to say. But it’s just ridiculous that some people chose not to show compassion but be such a stickler for such an inconsequential rule..... So where to next sine you said you were only going to be there for a couple more days?
I love your videos, I only found you a few days ago but you've become one of my new favourite youtubers. You're so pretty and funny. You have such a resemblance to Emmy Rossum. I love how you show people how living in your car isn't a bad thing, and that they shouldn't view it like it is.
It's not illegal to live in your car. Where you park is what the issue is. In some areas there is a homeless problem and you can imagine the encampments that would pop up on residential streets if cities didn't have certain ordinances restricting this. I worked at Home Depot for some years and we always had sleepers pull in for a night or 2 and that went pretty much unnoticed. But when 4 or 5 motor homes pull in with boat trailers loaded with junk covered with tarps and extra vehicles and they start making a certain section of the lot look like there camp ground ,,,they would force them out. You would also start having vehicles broken into and the bathrooms in the store would be filled in the am with people bathing in the sink etc. soap dispensers torn off the wall so they could get enough to do the cloths in the sink. Get the picture ? It's not the many struggling in their life that are a problem. We all understand this and wish there were answers to all the problems. It is the few that trash everything that ruin it for the innocent. AND there are those people out there that are intolerant of anything that doesn't meet their standards. ***butt heads****
illegal to stay in your car is only for USA... most other countries do not give a damn if you live in your car.. so sad actually.. leave us alone in our cars... 😴
Reading through the comment section it is really sad because here in LA area you are not allowed to sleep in your car now passed the law that homless people can not sleep anywhere public which is so ridiculous and sad.
The sad part is the ignorance and lack of education as to what is under the jurisdiction of cops and people that work for the cities, counties, States and United States. The Constitution for the United States clearly states in Article I section 8 clause 17, "To exercise exclusive Legislation in all Cases whatsoever, over such District (not exceeding ten Miles square) as may, by Cession of particular States, and the Acceptance of Congress, become the Seat of the Government of the United States, and to exercise like Authority over all Places purchased by the Consent of the Legislature of the State in which the Same shall be, for the Erection of Forts, Magazines, Arsenals, dock-Yards, and other needful Buildings;- and:" Article IV section 3 clause 2, that "The Congress shall have Power to dispose of and make all needful Rules and Regulations respecting the Territory or other Property belonging to the United States;..." That means they can only make rules, regs, statutes, codes, public policies on "Territory or other property owned by the United States" That does not include any of the land that is privately owned, or on public easements. The State of California's legislators are totally aware of these sections and even mention Article I section 8 clause 17 in their code 126(b) According to their codes @ 110-127 in their government codes Labeled "Territorial Jurisdiction" if one is on land within the exterior boundaries of California, and the land that you are on is not on the lists of 111-127 then one is not in the "State of California. I understand that what I just wrote will be very confusing for most of the people that went to indoctrination centers(euphemistically called the public school(fool) system. But all one needs to do is actually read the codes. And learn how to read their terms as they have defined them. The way they define their terms are mostly different than the colloquial way you read the definitions as they are diction in a dictionary. leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displayText.xhtml?lawCode=GOV&division=1.&title=1.&part=&chapter=1.&article=2.
It's also illegal in some states to collect rainwater from the sky for personal use and to live off grid. It lt definitely is about them wanting you to pay as much money as they can force you to
my CBD life I get frustrated when people get judged for saving money getting rid of things they don't need or want to do what they ultimately want to do. Why isn't the tons of unhappy average 9-5 worker who has many physical and mental health problems seen as a problem? So many people view luxury as more important than health even if they don't realize it. I'm happy that you all are living the life that adds value to your lives. I hope to one day travel and start a family and do likewise.
The reason is bc most homeless people are seen as potentially dangerous to the public, or at the least a nuisance. Its a fear and safety issue, not for you, for people who may need to stop there for gas or whatever. The sad fact is most people are homeless due to mental health and or addiction issues. Plus, (im a social worker, i deal with this all the time) they tend to act like the world owes them something bc of the predicament theyre in when its usually their own doing theyre in that predicament. Yes there are the few who are temporarily down on their luck, but thats not the norm. The majority are homeless by choice or by mistakes they made.
How do you deal with sleeping in your car in a hot climate like California in the summer? I imagine keeping your air conditioning on would drain your battery.
nickkingofearth I think she said she uses ice packs . But I still wouldn’t be able to manage . Its about to be triple digits here in SoCal this weekend
Her number one tip is to just stay in cooler places in the summer and warmer places in the winter. Since she doesn't have to be any specific place, it makes sense for her to just go where she'll be most comfortable. But she also has a 20 degree sleeping bag and a portable fan I think.
@@margomazzeo1680 i didn't mean it like that, at all. I was thinking that she looks like a combo of them put together, and sounds like miley. My comment wasn't poking fun of, or mean. Just an observation.
I get where you're coming from with the overnight parking, but I've also seen people take advantage of it at places like Walmart. leaving trash, I've even seen people set up their campers outdoor furniture and all.
Honestly it has nothing to do with compassion. It is about safety. They are responsible for people who aren't permitted to be there like non truck drivers. I've managed those stations before and they are hard on staff about enforcing that. Sucks but true.
@@TheConsciousCougar In many states it is illegal to have your windows tinted so that a cop or emergency personnel can not look in. They do not know if you are holding a gun or what the situation is in the car.
Hi Miss Katie, As a recently retired trucker of 25 years, I need to tell you that most of those truck stops you sleep in are not really that safe, there's prostitution, even if you don't see the girls out there, and %99 of those girls are not out there by choice. Human trafficking is everywhere, especially in truckstops and rest areas. It is better in a TS rather than a vacant starbucks lot because of the lights and traffic, but just make sure to stay in the auto areas of the lots and away from the trucks. The truck drivers on the roads nowadays are not the Knights of the highways like they used to be... The guy telling you to move,,, He's just a jerk is all, that's just him. Those Pilot, Flying J, and TA truckstops only have 1 or 2 people working late night and they have to do everything by themselves, so they don't care about no two hrs they just want to get their work done.. I admire your living in your car by choice, it shows courage, and the benefit of it is freedom... Just be wary of everyone and be careful. The Lord Bless you...
Jim Hatch I agree! Too scary!
People like her are not afraid of danger, it's an adrenaline rush. I am curious to know how you know that 99% of those girls are not out there by choice. Did you interview 99% of the girls? Prostitutes get their courage from alcohol and stimulants, that is a fact. Pimps only manage girls who are already drug addicts and addicts steal; lie; and prostitute themselves to support their daily habit. This is also a fact. I applaud that you are one of many truckers who do not invest in prostitution, however I recommend that you research your assumption a little further than the politically correct understanding you have. I have been a social worker for about the same amount of time you were a trucker and I am aware of the difference between the public persona and the private persona we all possess. All of us have secrets we don't admit publicly. I recommend that you research the definition of narcissist, this will give you insight and help you analyze what you read and hear. Con artists come in every flavor including mine and yours.
Thanks for that Jim
Jim Hatch Good man. Thank u for taking the time to warn her. Not everyone takes the time to care like this.
Jim Hatch that was such a sweet message
I thought she was gonna explain how her boyfriend kicked her out of his house😂
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Same here.
Me too
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me too. lol
There is a high probability that they had a problem recently. So Management or the city told them they had to follow the rules/laws.
Exactly. He wasnt doing that on his own.
Maybe attempting to curtail prostitution on the lot
It was probably cause of that lady that was there almost 2 weeks
MORE people will in fact be living in their cars because the cost of housing, taxes and the ever changing economic environment. Cities should embrace this evolving lifestyle. Your " Roamers" NOT homeless. GOD bless.
The Law is there to prevent people's neighborhoods from turning into shanty towns and Skid Row of Los Angeles.
Gil Wheeler II San Diego turned the stadium parking lot into a safe parking space. Good use since the Chargers left.
@@ribeyeone7092 The people who vandwells, STEALTHILY, are not the problem and should be embraced. But the problem is, if there's no law against sleeping/living in vehicles, then towns & cities will turn into shitholes. So the main blame is on the scumbags who abuses the system by dumping their trash, piss & shit onto the streets, etc. and I hope they don't do this to this stadium.
Living in a car is not a lifestyle. Dont romanticize it. Living in a car or van or at slab city would suck. Some of these that are forced into living in cars are talented videographers and paint a exciting and romantic picture of being nomads but for most people this would suck. You do not want to be known as the man who lives in the van down by the river.
SandaBoxing yeah... they need to make laws to make sure rent is capped so that people aren’t homeless smh
I used to drive a truck for a living, and I tried to avoid staying at truck stops when I could. I really preferred rest stops over truck stops. The reason for this is because there's a lot of criminal activity at truck stops. Drugs, prostitution, human trafficking, people getting robbed... They really aren't that safe. As a woman who has also spent a lot of time traveling alone on the road, I urge you to reconsider staying at truck stops overnight. Since you're in a car, rather than a big rig, you have many other options like hospitals, 24 hour gyms, hotel parking lots, and casinos. Anyway, stay safe.
Do hospitals really let you sleep in their parking lots?
I've been going a ways to visit a friend in ICU. I can't afford to sleep in hotels so I sleep in my car. I didn't think a hospital would allow sleeping in their lot. That seems quite safe.
I had to live in my car for 2 years I love how positive you are about it I never had an encounter with police, but now I am a police officer and I have to kick people out of parking lots all the time. I feel bad because I was in the same place as them. Also sleeping in your car in not illegal it is just where you park. I mostly slept at Walmart’s and never got caught.
FreeCamp.org says no more over nights at Walmarts
It’s not a tax thing but a liability thing. If something happens to you the property owner is liable.
That can happen when you’re shopping. Your not exempt because you’re shopping lol
I don't understand that, truck stops are meant for that are they not? People have to pull over when they are tired.. Kind of seems like thats illegal if you got in an accident that may have been on him.
April_Evelyn ...truckers pay for their spots. It isn't a rest area for the population, it's a TRUCK STOP.
It's called the truck stop for a reason as in truck stop there you do realize semis by hundreds of dollars worth of fuel that's kind of why they have a spot for them
April_Evelyn truckers pay a fee for overnights and have a paper to place in their window with the date etc unfortunately rest stops aren’t free not even for those working
James Leathers true n if it was about the money ask her n the others to pay the overnight fee
joshua nicely Not all truck stops charge truck drivers to park.
If you're ever in Hadley, Ma you're more than Welcome to sleep in the Pride Stores parking lot. Please come in and say Hello
Sarah Perkins that is very nice of you
yeah , i am unstable and live here and there and spend a lot of time in my car (but i don't sleep there) but if i was home more, you would be welcome for a while to get yourself figured out. sure you are strong but you can't do this for much more. shit. you need insulation.
Very cool of u
@@nonebusiness4488 she wants to live in her car.
I bet"....
i feel like the way people are to people in their car is similar to how people treat homeless people. it’s so wrong and they should show more compassion to others.
they are homeless lol
I was once in an empty train carriage. I was moving to Switzerland and I was on a trip to see my son at uni before I left. I was unwell and curled up on both seats. The conductor tried to get me to sit up. Apparently because I had only paid for one ticket I
Was not allowed to use two! I told him that if someone wanted the other seat I would sit up. What a jackass some people are
India McMillan-Dickman yea I know what you mean they almost act like it’s coming out of their pay checks or something.
Dallas 2018 you don't say
India McMillan-Dickman I was on a plane once that was basically empty there where maybe 25 passengers and it was a huge plane and I had my small dog in her carrier and I put her carrier on the seat next to me so she wld stop crying and whining and the flight attendant made me put back under my seat because I didn't buy her a ticket for the seat next to me, it was a 3 hr flight and my dog cried the whole time and there was no one even sitting anywhere near me....so petty
You are absolutely right when you said living in your car has shown you your own strength! I lived in my car for 6 weeks. I look at it as a badge of honor instead of a low point. Learning I could survive that was empowering!
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
Don't know how often you get this but the fact that you live in your car and your last name is Carney is wild
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LoL...clever observation.
Omg lmao
smiller2323 Lol!
Making it illegal to live in your car is ridiculous. What do they want people to do? Go sleep on the street?
Check out blind justice in Facebook. That's illegal too in Auberdeen.
That or go to government funded homeless shelters which are not safe by any means it’s a vicious cycle the government has created its sad as hell, I’ve stayed at a local homeless shelter for one night and would NEVERRRR GO BACK got robbed and creepy drug addicted people EVERYWHERE no wonder they stole from me MY SHOES !!!
Jay Adams they want you to buy houses.. bay taxes on that.. or rent .. and pay money. it's one and onlky reason
They want you to kindly step out of your vehicle, and lay on the ground to sleep.
But if you have an RV, you’re technically not paying the same if you were in a house?
I personally think it’s better to sleep in parking lot then to drive being sleepy less accidents in my opinion
Yes! Sometimes the need to sleep will hit me like a brick and I have to pull over and nap, but people are just not cool about it either. During the day, college campuses are my favorite spot. They’re quiet and people just think you’re an exhausted student so they leave you alone. I’m in the city so there’s not really any truck stops.
Courtney Burns Valid point, of course. But for her, I don’t think the issue is about driving. She lives in her car, so she is sleeping for the night.
I know I don't get it either. When you are learning to drive they always say if your tired pull over and sleep or whatever, but then you are not allowed to sleep anywhere... I understand business saying no sleeping or over night parking, but a rest stop is for people who are travelling and need to rest.. I feel like you are no different than a truck driver! Idk just my thoughts
It wasn't a rest stop. It was a truck stop (private property). Those spaces were reserved for 2 hour parking. It wasn't a cop and it wasn't government property.
Probably because they pay property taxes on the buildings and if they're paying the taxes and costs to maintain the facilities and not charging you and he might have figured you didnt buy anything like truckers probably do?
truck stops are for trucks and she has been doing this for 6 years, this is a growing problem
in thailand anyokne can park at a temple safely and there are no good limitations.Apparemrly only in the West are people unable.tok b trusted to act in a way that won't take advantage of people's kindness and of course there are all those liability regulations that stop people helping others more
its not about helping some one, living in your car has started to become a way of life here, 6 years for her
Girl, 24hr fitness parking lots. You’re welcome.
Or Wal-Mart, they're known to be RV friendly
And most Cracker Barrel
only1pinuchi thank you
Andi H thank you
Yes. Planet Fitness has always been accomdating to us; we're members. Worth the $20 a month.
Move to Australia. You can live in your car here just about anywhere. Beach, city, bush....doesnt matter. Nobody hassles you here xoxo
And it's warmer ;)
Depending on where you are in Australia I know in Queensland it's against the law. But if the police do see you they generally just ask you to move on or if you don't then they may fine you.
Alana Maree
You just can’t MOVE to Australia. They have a Strict immigration policy.
@@deezlpwer07 DUH! Most countries do 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah...Australia. ..it's the safest. ..ever heard of wolf creek pal?
I use small doctor's office parking lots, the large ones sometimes has security at night, no one shows up till 7am, (cleaning people office itself opens at 9 am ) I flip between a few of them been doing it for months so far so good
ron sylvia I hope things get better for you x
claire Woods yeah I'm nomad by choice, I refuse to make landlords or banks wealthy, (mortgage) if I'm going to make anyone wealthy it's going to be me
That's a good idea thank you I hadn't thought of that, I get lost in the crowd of cars in busy parking lots and stay low key when I do this
problem is it takes just one asshole to call the cops on you if it's not legal for you to sleep where your at
ron sylvia yes, so far I guess my secrecy and thinking and feeling out areas and being well concealed in the back have helped. Careful choosing of motel parking lots off the interstate that runs through and knowing the area I've been careful, especially in rotating and not staying in the same place more than a night in a row. Church parking lots here in the South I would have a hard time feeling like a cop wouldn't be knocking on a window at any time, I see many suggest they are legal, the nosiness factor surrounding churches here is very high. Secrecy and safety are my main thoughts, I'm always looking for more.
On private property it has to do with liability. If they let you stay and you, say, get hurt they can be responsible. It's sad, but we are such a sue-happy culture. I don't understand why you're not allowed to sleep in your car on a public street where you're parked legally. There is a couple that lives in a van that they often park across the street from me. I live right in the downtown area of Seattle and you have to move your car every 3 days (every car)...so I say they are my sometimes neighbors. They have a sweet set up and have good jobs and nice bikes...they just live in their van. I don't know if it's a choice or if circumstances dictated it...doesn't matter. Some people don't want people to be able to live in their car and I don't understand what harm it's doing.
Erica Gamet mam it comes down to scum bags and money.
@veronica carlson Seattle allows the homeless to hang out anywhere .Homeless encampments are destroying business areas .Typhus has been discovered in San Francisco in homeless encampments .
Dear Heavenly Father I go before you today completely trusting in your goodness and mercy. Appeal to your loving spirit to watch over Katie Carney: To praise you for her life and soul. Look upon her with tenderness and grace. If she hurts bring her healing. If she's afraid, bring her courage. If she's fallen, lift her up in forgiveness. And most of all dear lord, let her know she is loved. And let her heal even the deepest of her wounds. Give her confidence knowing she is your child. Oh heavenly father embrace Katie's heart. Bless her my lord, let her be healthy, free and protected in your loving arms. In Jesus name Amen.💁🙌💕❤
Amen
That's beautiful. God bless!!
Beautiful prayer....Amen....Yes Lord, take care and bless Katie.
Amen!
In Jesus' name, Amen
I can’t believe you’ve been sleeping in parking lots for six years with no issues 😮 I would definitely be worried about safety
raincitykittyy hopefully like me she has front and back cameras
What I'm thinking you should say your traveling and you were falling asleep and rather than get into an accident you pulled over. Most cops I've said this to and they were cool with this. Just giving you ideas. They don't want people annoying abusing it which seems silly to a certain extent.
Good tip! I've also slept with a textbook & notebook in my lap a few times, and told a guard I was taking a driving break and just fell asleep while doing homework
M.A.W. Cleaning & Music i agree and was thinking the same thing. Usually even the police will let it go, no one wants to be liable if you drive away, fall asleep, and have a accident.
M.A.W. lll)0to 0
Good idea
Paula Munroe Again the answer is I'm traveling
Tip: find a hospital parking lot, a 24 hour gym, a 24 hour laundromat, the guest parking area of an apartment complex, hotel parking lots, casino parking lots.
Parking lots of apartments and hotels/motels are not a good idea. Too many snitches. Plus the companies want the parking spaces for the residents and guests. I have been asked to leave every time.
Donde Womack hotel parking lots can be problematic
Donde Womack many years ago our famiky drove to New Hampshire in the summer without reservstions. All hotels.motels were booked and we couidbt stat awake. we feel asleep in a parking lot of the last booked hotel abd we had a guy bang on our winfiw telling us we has to leave, that asshole could have caused us to get killed by falling asleep,at the wheel. We explained we couldnt find a place to stay, we pulled into a 24 hr. McDonalds and rested a bit. What a bad memory of New Hamphire.
Hotels are the first place to run you off. The sell lodging , why would they let you camp on their property for free?
@@tw.theresawarren6325 yes you are right
I'm not super knowledgeable on the laws of this, but I'm fairly certain business owners do not like people sleeping in their parking lot because more often than not they are liable for any injuries you sustain while on their property (parking lot). And since sleeping in your car in an unlit parking lot that is not monitored can be dangerous, they're just making a preemptive strike to cover their butts.
Look up the definition for truckstop truck stops have been around for decades truck stops are for truckers and anyone who needs a place to sleep or a restaurant to go into at 3:00 a.m. OK And truck stops are always synonymous for people resting and taking a few hours sleep at night time especially those on the road so the fact that this employee Or suppose it employee kicked her off the property is stupid it doesn't matter if they had a 2 hour parking area only the fact is it's a truck stop which implies in and being that it is an all night place 24 hours implies Hey we're a truck stop if you're tired lay down take a rest in your vehicle sleep in your vehicle and you know I would be questioning the guy that came to the door of my car whether or not he was actually an employee or just someone that randomly trying to get people leave
Mike Denune I was referring more to store parking lots. I agree that truck stops are essentially for sleeping.
My Business Model Idea for $10/night:
1) You pull into a numbered spot that has an HVAC window attachment similar to a modern truck stop. It attaches securely to a window and blows in warmed or cooled air based on your setting.
2) For another $5 you are allowed to use the bathroom & shower facilities.
3) The "rest stop" is fenced and patrolled 24/7 by a security guard.
4) Have some *to-the-point* name like *"Driver's Down Time"*
5) Have a 3-night maximum length of stay so it's not a place for squatters.
6) It's merely the cheapest way for people to travel.
Paul Keefer .. a great business idea to imbecile fucktards like you, Paul
Not a bad idea. What about making it so it is like a garage with a small build in kitchen and bathroom? You could put skylights to let light in during the day and a few lights at night.
you'd need a few up-sell/cross-sell revenue models for supplemental income, not sure this model would even sustain buying a parking lot and paying said security guard, at least some vending machines with expensive over-priced stuff that might be in high demand at a specific time where it's not available especially if you find a location that is in the middle of nowhere it would help a lot, such as food, toothpaste, shower items, underwear, towels.
I bet he could make a fortune just from a vending machine with underwear. The kind of people who would stay at such a place would go bananas over a banana hammock from a vending machine. Great idea!👍😂
Matt. That's a wonderful idea! I don't live in my car, but I travel a lot and usually sleep in my car (mostly in rest areas). I would definitely appreciate the services you mentioned and would gladly pay $15 to $25 for them. I'm a retired teacher with time to travel and being on the road makes me feel free and happy. I couldn't do much of it if I had to stay in motels or hotels. I hope someone (maybe you?) takes the idea seriously and runs with it.
God Bless you, Dear Katie with new mercies from the Lord God daily! Love, Grace, and the Peace of our Lord Jesus be with you today and everyday !
We have some fire crackers popping off in the comments. Jesus. If you don't like her or this particular video- turn it off. She was just venting.
Or how about people posting whatever they want, since RUclips is a public forum and not your personal playground.
I have slept in my car overnight on a semi-regular basis, & I am a truck driver, so I have slept in trucks as well. Just some food for thought-actively allowing people to stay overnight can not only increase congestion in their parking lots(word of a permissive store will spread quickly), but also lead to "lot lizards" using their cars as brothels. It also exposes the truck stop to liability if someone is robbed/harmed while sleeping there, in addition to the bad publicity generated when those incidents happen. Often, as long as you don't have a vehicle that stands out, the managers won't notice, or care enough to make an effort to remove you. If you politely leave, returning at a later date is usually not a problem.
Thank you for sharing this I recently have started living in my car myself I had to leave an abusive relationship I have no parents to help and I just turned 30 sure I could sleep at friends houses however being an attractive woman doing that everyone always expects you to sleep with them and then the guilt trip start because they helped you so I refused all help insist on being alone so that I do not owe anyone anything ever I was crying myself to sleep tonight and came across your video I just want to truly thank you 💖
God bless you I’m about to start this lifestyle once my lease is up in 13 days. I’m doing it because it seems like the best option for me while I figure things out in my life and I’m afraid of those down low moments that may come. I hope you’re okay and feeling better 💕
@@itsyagirlashleytv I am ok I got myself a decent job that I enjoy.. It is still hard finding a place of my own.. Ive noticed when youre a young attractive woman nobody truly wants you to be able to hold yourself up.. People will sabotage just to make sure you still need them smh i just keep on pushing on and make sure im doing whats right and good in my heart and hope that comes back around someday.. I wish you love, wellness, and happiness... Hang in there love!
Find a small garage to rent every month clean up and out the garage once garage door can lock garage don't leak clean out get a air mattress to use or small cot to sleep on go surgical supply store and get a commode use as a portable toilet clean out in mornings or after using rinse it out broom dust pan to sweep dust out the garage and keep it clean and organize take out your garbage every day mornings dump it out when you leave for the day need a small storage unit to rent a gym membership to go.take a shower every day. Baby wipes rubbing alcohol toilet paper find a small garage to rent ]
What does looks have to do with it?
Wow. That employee just sounded like he didn’t like it personally and decided to be a jerk about it regardless of the actual rules of the truck stop.
Bailey Winter that may very well be the truth.
defo. that guy is either super angry at life or has the crappiest job ever that he has to count down two hours and then come knock on windows waking people up. grace for him that he gets something less terrible to do to earn a paycheck
She says that it's posted 2 hour parking, maybe some truck drivers mentioned the people sleeping overnight to the manager or the manager saw them when arriving for dayshift and said that the rule has to be enforced.
the way she said he went to every car sounds like he got a call from the boss that people were sleeping there and he got told to kick them out
Bailey Winter m
He thought you were a lot lizard
Lot lizards are never this attractive
Michael Moore go to Connecticut
Michael Moore Nope.
Beverly Balius
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha
If she where a lot lizard she would not have been kicked out. Lot lizards pay for play.
Yes join a 24 hour fitness place everyone can benefit from a 30 minute workout. Also the plus is they have showers/bathrooms. I also slept in Wal-Mart parking lots. I figured out where the employee's parked and they won't bother you.
It’s kind of scary to me that you did sleep in the place that you discussed going to with the guy at the truck stop. It makes me think that he could have been setting you up. Especially since truck stops are generally ok. Glad it worked out.
kendrak129 thought the same thing
Yes! Id be in the opposite direction!
Sounds like someone was on a power trip.
Yup
Sometimes traveling people need to stop and sleep because they didn't make their destination, so they would rather you get in a accident or kill someone then sleep, it's not like you had a tent set up barbecuing.
But w/o Laws and enforcement, it will lead to people setting up tents, ie. Skid Row, Los Angeles.
SandaBoxing that’s called homeless druggies ...it’s not the same at all & most homeless can’t afford to drive all over the country by any means and even more don’t have vehicles ..she’s not sleeping there every single night making a life at 1 location like almost all homeless people
@@ethan3942 Yea I know that, but it can lead to her camping there for a long time if there's no Law to stop her from the get-go.
I remember in the 60's on TV public service if you get sleepy driving pull over and rest to prevent a accidents.
@@ethan3942 she admitted she had stayed there more than 20X in the last few weeks and had even become familiar with another car dweller. Obviously this business had taken note that they were developing a collection of nightly regulars. That is not what they are in business for and there are liability and zoning/legal issues/consequences. Anyone using these facilities should go inside and ask the manager for permission to park overnight. If there is a reason to need more than one day...ask! They are real humans. In our 4 years of living on the road most have been very accomodating...especially when given the courtesy of asking. May I park over night? Is there an area of the lot you,prefer me to park? we have had to wait for an important package to arrive general delivery in an area....asked at the local market explaining the situation. They were able to accomodate. These people dont owe us parking! We are guests. So we cannot just roll in and assume we can stay.
Isn’t the point of truck stops for long haul drivers to sleep at?? Maybe he was new 🤷🏼♀️
Sorry that happened to you.
Stef C that's for trucks, if cars take up the spots where do you think trucks will park. but I don't think she was parked on the truck side, she was parked on the car side and they have limited parking, so they
probably asked her to move
They PAYYYYYY to park there .
No truck stops are for 18 Wheelers. Rest areas are for cars, etc.
Lush Fanatic , rest areas and truck stops , most all of the have a truck side and a car side. the truck side is for commercial vehicles and large vehicles like buses, motor homes, semis, etc. they usually always have another side that has gas and a convenience store for cars. now this side usually has limited parking and I'm sure that's where she was parked. if she parked there enough were someone saw her they probably complained. where most truck stops are free to park, a lot of truck stops in big cities like Chicago, Los Angeles and so on now have to charge for overnight parking because the property is worth more then the truck stop can afford to pay in taxxes. typical story everyone wants there food, gas, clothes and no body wants to wait for it but no body wants trucks on the highway or parked anywhere near them.
This comment section is so sad. In many places it is illegal to sleep in your car and to dumpster dive. So what are homeless people left with? It is a matter of caring about fellow humans. Yes, the parking lot could become a homeless camp, but at the same time, if everyone had a little more empathy and treated others as they would want to be treated, they would not kick people out or send a homeless person to jail or fine them for searching a garbage can for food. At the end of the day we are all humans on a ball. Just because it's culturally unacceptable, doesn't mean it is wrong. It just means it is hard for people to understand.
Who cares? #GasTheHomeless
the two comments here just show how ignorant they are.
probably because you didn't research or know anything about homelessness. for example, around 44% of homeless people HAVE JOBS. Veterans make up around 11.3% of the homeless population. For women, the leading cause of homelessness is domestic violence. But go ahead and tell the single mother w/children and no one to watch them while she works(childcare costs around $300 a week at a regular facility per child) who just left her husband who was beating them to "get a job". 20-25% of homeless people have a severe mental illness as well, which highly affects their ability to get a job and keep a job. Put yourself in their shoes. Understand the true problem is not always their willingness to work, but rather their capability of working, or even the fact they are working.
FALSE, you ignorant dullard. That incorrect 44% claim comes from a statistic from 1996 by a Washington homeless advocacy group called the National Coalition Against Homelessness, and it was debunked years ago. Per the Bureau of Labor Statistics the amount of homeless with regular employment as 0f the most recent data collected (2015) is estimated to be between 9-14%. I'm not surprised you went with a fake number considering you aren't educated and simply rely on memes from the "occupy democrats" FB page for your stats LMFAO
"Josh Leopold, a researcher at the Urban Institute, estimated that about 25 percent of the homeless population is employed, while Megan Hustings, director of the National Coalition for the Homeless, told Axios that between 40 and 60 percent of the homeless population floats in and out of full-time and part-time work." That's not full time regular employment, it's just employment. The bureau of labor stats also doesn't have an efficient way of collecting data on the homeless if you research how they go about collecting their data on their page, you will see there are some major flaws when it comes to homeless population statistics. I also explained why most homeless don't have regular employment. I don't see how you assume I am a democrat for having empathy and understanding when it comes to homelessness. As for Babe, I never said they shouldn't have to pay to park. I just mentioned how it really is sad that we live in a world where you can't live off the land- it's literally illegal to go off the grid almost everywhere in the USA. There are so many ways that the laws target the homeless. I also said it is sad we live in a world where we don't have much empathy for homeless people. In many situations where something isn't hurting anyone, such as someone parking in a walmart parking lot, pulling food out of the trash, etc, our society doesn't show very much empathy. It's also fun to note that walmart punches holes in their clothes and throws them away. They punch the holes so poor people can't wear their clothes even if dug out of the trash, and they dont donate them. That's the evil I am talking about. A lack of empathy in place of greed.
I have a lot of respect for this girl she is strong.
GOT TO BE, SHE GOT NO CHOICE;(
@@sofronia44 she absolutely has a choice. What? She lives in her car because she wants to.
@@RottenEyeBro you are right. she did choose that route, she did she did. wel lessons learned, we all had to go to the school of hard knocks. i hoope the best for he thanks for the reply.;0
@@sofronia44 how is it 'lessons learned' if it's what she chose to do? You learn lessons when you make the wrong choices. You don't seem to be following. It's not like she's homeless because she was evicted or something. She chooses to travel and live in her car. Not sure what about 'the school of hard knocks' applies to a choice such as that.
Or crazy. That is so dangerous , you are so pretty I fear for you
I go in to 24 Hour gas stations and just let the clerk know I’m traveling and I’m going to park for a bit to get some rest. Never had any issues.
Rent a garage in someone private house
It should be illegal for the government to not have enough affordable housing and safe places for the homeless to live !!!!!!! Makes me sick how they criminalize the poor & downtrodden...THAT should be ILLEGAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow it's not illegal being homeless yet living in Your car is? Crazyness! I pay Alot for my car payment and car insurance so if I want to live in it why can't I? Upstate NY here 🤸 💞✌️.
You can't just park anywhere and call it home .
Beverly: Because you're parking on private property. How would you feel about someone who's living in their car pulling into your drive-way and parking overnight there? They're not really BOTHERING you, are they? And, NONE of your car payment or insurance goes towards a private property owner, so what does the fact that you pay two OTHER companies money have to do with you being able to park on private property? They're paying PROPERTY TAXES which gives them the right to say who gets to use their property and who doesn't. They owe you NOTHING.
Most laws are made because of money
quinn allen precisely this
bingo
nikkinikkinik 12345 but it's ok for them to RIP into our pockets
Bumble Bee they are not protecting us, they are protecting their bank accounts
quinn allen no.... It's not okay? I never said it was numb nuts.
As a child I felt unwanted, so by sleeping in my car I learned how to depend on God for everything, and how to "want my myself" I learned me!!!!
Victoria Monroe - Could you explain, " how to "want my myself" I learned me!!!!"?
😇🤗
@@wednesdaysdoll you took the words out of my mouth. Thank you!!!! God is still good. A month before my baby was born I was blessed with a 2bed 2bath townhouse and I am a strong mother, an assistant director of a school, and I was blessed with a new car. Just know my cup runneth over.
@@victoriamonroe3191 so it's god and not your hard work? I don't get how or why people feel bad for taking credit for their own hard work and what they accomplish, what they went through and survived, sad really. Always plenty of excuses why it was god but it feels looks more like an abusive relationship to me. Also facinating how he doesn't care about the hungry dying kids but "blesses" people like you with a new car, house, a school degree etc. He is so great after making you suffer as a child. #blessed
You had a car when you were a kid wow
It's okay for truckers and RVers but not you? Thats discrimination. When I was living in my car, I found motel parking lots were good. Plus most have wifi with no password. Some of the higher end hotels have assigned parking so watch out for that.
Hannah Banana - truckers are obvious exceptions. Come on...that is a no brainer. The RVs are ok as long as you move it along. Her only real problem was that she was there multiple nights.
Corey H that's not the problem because if that guy had seen her there other days he would've told her the same thing as he did when he told her she had to leave
Jenny - it can take awhile for something to register as a pattern. Or the guy wasnt there for a few nights or not the same shift. See the point is you don't want to become a recognized pattern. Best to change the spot you are in.... change the location... etc. All very important. Don't become a pattern. This time it was a parking lot manager/ walker next time could be something much worse. I didn't think Katie was staying in the same places multiple nights in a row. Not a good idea. Anyone in this life especially females... should be changing it up. That's all I'm saying. Be safe.
Hannah Banana ..also most truck stops require a fee to be paid for overnight parking. It's a TRUCK STOP not a rest area, Those are free.
I've never heard of truckers paying to park at a 24 hour truck stop. I frequently sleep in my car at a Love's (thanks for the recommendation Katie!) during road trips and there is a mix of everything from semis to cars stopping for 5 minutes or having dinner, sleeping all night showering, and having breakfast. If it is a smaller/indie stop, I will casually let the attendant know how long I'm going to sleep there. It gives them the opportunity to tell me if there is a time limit or a certain part of the lot they want me to park in, but also gives me a small bit of safety if they are aware of my presence in case something goes wonky.
I don't understand sleeping in a car why is it illegal but there are lots of people who are homeless and sleeping everywhere and that seems to be fine in the streets??
I TOTALLY AGREE with u!!!! I dont UNDERSTAND Y u cant live in ur car wen people are allowed 2 live on the street?!?!?!?
I think he was just being rude but girl maybe God was trying to protect you from something in that spot it stinks but stay safe and do whats best for you ❤ nothing wrong with sleeping in your car one day we all may not be able to afford our own homes
Monica Reyna god doesnt exist
Stanley Chaney mmkay
There’s always a reason for everything.
Katie,
As a truck driver, I sleep in truck stops as a matter of course. I see people sleeping in their cars quite often. I don't have a problem with it as long as you're in a car spot and not taking up a truck stall. I've spoken offhandedly with a couple of truck stop managers and for the most part they're ok with it as long as they don't get the impression you're hooking or dealing. In a financial sense, you're probably gonna wake up in the morning and buy breakfast or at least a coffee, fuel your car, maybe take a shower, so they're happy to take your money for a few hours parking in an unused spot.
I think in this case somebody got the idea you were working and complained...
We need more people with your general attitude, that's the most respectable comment here.
Some People that live in cars perhaps leave garbage and maybe potential to be assaulted.please be careful.not everyone is nice and honest.
She seems very capable; not going to let people intimidate her.
so essentially in this country everyone is required to have a stationary home and it is illegal to not have one. That is pretty sad. I don't understand this either. It is a "free" country and we should have the freedom to live where we choose.
You do have the freedom to live where you choose...as long as you purchase the property. lol You don’t get to just pick a spot that someone else owns and decide you get to stay there. It’s not illegal to not have a stationary home, it’s illegal to trespass where you are told not to. Pretty simple.
Been living in my car for over 4 months. Usually stay at truck stops and rest areas. Got woken up at 1 am once by a cop. In a church parking lot. That's the only time.
I am 66 years old, making plans to live in my car because it is inevitable. With no retirement savings and SS that pays me less than 200 a week, it’s only a matter of time when I am unemployed and can no longer make rent. That’s just the way this country is for many, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Worked hard all my life, but as with many; misfortune comes and leaves you vulnerable. That it is illegal to live in your car is just validation of my theory: In the US, we are food. We are here to generate fuel/profit for the rich. When we live in our cars, they can’t “consume” us in that way. Wishing you stay safe and strong.
There are so many people who abuse this (living in their cars). We have people who park along our street and will stay here for weeks, defecating outside of their vehicles on our sidewalks and grass areas, leaving trash including needles. I think it's truly about respect. I wouldn't mind if they were clean about it.
I was going to say something along the lines of taxes too. I honestly think that they just don't want anyone living outside the bounds of "normal" society. They see it as just gaming the system, because they can basically hold people hostage with mortgages and rent and bills, and you've found a way around that (to an extent). Shame on you! Haha but I really believe that's why, because otherwise who cares? You're literally not hurting anyone. Imagine how our wild distant ancestors would feel about someone telling them where and how they're allowed to live. They would be horrified. Our society is bonkers.
Patty Arenson exactly 💓
Don't let people know. I will never be able to sell my house.
Think about who "they" is. It's not a group of people that indescrminately don't like homeless people. You can't group every cop, business man, gas station owner, or neighbor into one category. Each is looking out for the well- being of property intrusted to their care. They don't want insurance problems or the cleanup that a lot of people cause.
I meant the institutions that govern us, not so much individual people, but I wasn't sure how to label that other than they. My point still stands, and I don't agree with your take on it. It's much, much more complicated than that.
I mean the idea of having your own private property is great, it's not like someone can come in ur house tell you can't sleep there... when you're homeless you're staying on other people's property so having a place to sleep or park your car is a privilege bc they could tow your car at anytime they want.
Hard believe your really living in your car. Your jyst too happy looking. It's very depressing living in your vehicle. I've done it and don't want to remember the feeling
I guess Katie keeps her You Tube channel as a way to lift her spirits. Denise fitness & Recovery by knowing your that her posts are helping some people , by making the best out of a upsetting situation can bring a positive light to some situations.... So keep your head up. Due to sometimes we just have to find a depressing situation can bring joy to some others. Keep ur head held high no matter how unfortunate a situation may be..peace Katie. Jesus loves all of us.
she doesnt really live in her car its just for youtube
Well I work at a truck stop. I always have to remind people that our lot is not a public rest stop. It’s for customers. We don’t have signs saying you can’t sleep over because we don’t need them. Just as any other business. My first question to them is, why didn’t you just ask? Because you got away with it 20 times before right? Would have avoided it if you just asked. There would have been zero surprises. Should have just stayed at a star bucks lol. Why is it people think it’s okay because it’s a truck stop that they believe they can use the property at will? Dead ass serious question. Is it because of rest stops that are state owned? Even they often say no overnight parking. Why not just let them stay?
Joe Kyser I don't know what's the difference?
matemahe trucks stops are privately owned. If they allowed opem traffic and parking in their lots then anyone and everyone would stop and use it. That hinders those looking to be a customer. Most rest stops are on state property (actually on the highway) with businesses leased out. Maybe a state troopers barrack on site. Typically they have a ton of parking and open to use because its already paid for by tax payers. At private truck stops they are typically limited parking. Very expensive realestate (prime property of the highway) they require a lot of money to flow through it to pay the bills so they want only customers coming through and using their lot. If she had come to our truck stop, filled her tank and asked to stay. She would have been told stay as long as you want. Actually if she bought all her fuel at my truck stop she bought a permanent place she can always be. We have a few guys who get a free place to keep their truck at. one thing that we can't do absolutely cannot do is take money for parking. our insurance doesn't allow us to do that. if we were to charge specifically for parking then we would have to put up all sorts of signs get better coordinated and actually make a little sub business out of it so it's a lot easier for us to just say there's no parking unless you're a customer. Would I have kicked her out? No i would not have but i only work part time, i can see other associates acting exactly how ahe described. To the T lol. public property is public property and private property is private. If tax payera pay for it you can bet it's public.
Because a truck stop is for motorists AND truckers to rest... BECAUSE you know... Driving for so many hours can make you idk... AN UNSAFE MOTORIST... idiot. AND idk where thr fuck you work at..but in texas... Truck stops are for resting..we also have a thing called REST STOPS for idk.. Resting????? your a dumbfuck dude. And a total douche.
Limitless C Aw triggered boo boo. Then go stop and sleep boo bear. You will be fine
The reason is because it is private property. Taxes do not cover private property, so you can’t say you have a right to stay overnight at a truck stop. The reason that truckers get to stay overnight is they spend an incredible amount of money on fuel, same goes for RV drivers. Most businesses do not want their parking lots to become a place for homeless people to camp out. Sorry if that sounds cruel, but I does affect business when that happens. Just because you choose to live in your car, doesn’t mean anyone has to allow you to park on their property overnight.
It’s health and safety rules and legislation. Cars don’t meet the minimum requirements for sanitation, heat, minimum space per person, etc.
People just love to be mean. Good luck wherever you go.❤️🏳️🌈❤️
Tabi Mora the guy wasn’t being mean..
Criminals sometimes wait in their cars looking for victims, so store owners do not want people hanging around the property. In 2003, I had my purse cut off me in broad daylight by a young man who had been sitting on a toy horse in front of a large grocery store. According to the news, criminals also drive their cars up beside shoppers putting their kids and/or groceries in their cars and rob the shoppers at gunpoint. Three days ago a young man held a gun to the head of a two-year-old child and robbed the mother while she was trying to unlock her apartment door in Texarkana, twenty miles from where we live. Sometimes criminals car jack the shoppers and/or kidnap them. I was actually kidnapped at gunpoint in 1974. Criminals are the reason why they do not want strange people in cars sleeping on their parking lots.
That's one of the reasons-a very good reason--but not the only one. If there's no rules--word gets out that you can stay there as long as you wish. The place then turns into a "motel on
wheels". Truckers need to get in, get fuel/food, and get back on the road. Families on vacation need to stop there also..
New employee that was a little over zealous. Was probably once the nerdy kid who was always hall monitor that all the other kids hated.
I had the same thing but only once they said I couldn't sleep there. 👍🏾I do the same with switching it up every other place. It's been too humid lately so this week I've been staying with family.
Love that bright red lipstick. It brings out your looks. 👍🏾
M.A.W. Cleaning & Music right? She's beautiful with or without makeup today she's like stunning well in this video....I'm watching it today LOL...
Robyn Ragone Yes, flawless for sure.
her looks? she looks like harry potter in drag
Ieatpeople365 But she looks fabulous I think.
chris mike Wow, really. LMFAO 🤣😆 But it sure looks good in her. I think she is eye catching.
As indicated, truck stops are mainly for men and women who need a comfortable place to rest, eat, take a shower, and wash there clothes. By law, truck drivers who are driving long hauls have to obey the down time. Six to eight hours of driving, and eight to ten hours of down time. During the down time, they must rest. You are not a truck driver, therefore; you are taking up a spot that is recommended for truck drivers. The business would not mind if you eat at there restaurant, but as far as sleeping in there area where they are allowed to rest eight to ten hours that is sort of stretching it quite thin. The truck drivers have the right to get mad at you for taking up there spot.
That odd.because it seems normal that people stay over at truck stops.
The world doesn't care about your problems or lack of options
I think it is illegal because merchants dont want to be bothered by illegal activities like drugs, prostitution, etc.
Living in a car is different, cool and resourceful. Btw, don't take it so personal. Good luck. I wish you well.
Park close by a police station or sheriff's station, they usually have an ATM, public bathroom and it's safe, well lit and A.M. Watch coppers are much kinder and compassionate than Day Watch coppers. I'm speaking from experience as one myself.
I've lived in my car on and off for three years because I prefer it. I just discovered your channel, and it's so refreshing to hear someone who feels the same way as me. I relate to you more than any other youtubers who do this sort of thing. People think it's crazy or wrong that I do this, and it has gotten to me sometimes, which led me to stay at people's houses when they insisted, which I nearly always regretted. I've finally accepted myself and what I prefer, and this helps me do so even more. Thanks for sharing Katie!
Oh by the way, I've never been kicked out of anywhere. I do the same thing as you and mostly stay at rest areas or truck stops and bounce around. On rare occasion, I've stayed at walmarts and in neighborhoods if I absolutely needed to and felt comfortable doing so. I drive Uber for a living, so I can be anywhere in my state, although I have also bounced around the whole country while driving Lyft. Cops did knock on my window one time at a rest area in Pennsylvania, but it was because I stayed there longer than normal into afternoon hours, and they just wanted to make sure I was alive. They were surprisingly kind and said I can stay there as long as I need to. I have dealt with much harsh judgement, however. Some people really have a tendency to assume the worst about people who live in their car. They consider me homeless, but I sure don't consider myself homeless. The worst experience happened this morning when I was doing my daily morning ruitine at a truck stop I've stayed at plenty of times. I was in the bathroom, spraying my pits with mineral salt deodorant in one of the stalls while my shirt was off. I let them dry before I put my shirt back on, while using the bathroom, and just as I sat down, they told me to step out because they thought I was doing drugs. I told them I had my shirt off because I was waiting for my pits to dry a little more and that I really had to pee, and they said they were going to call the cops if I wasn't out in five minutes. I told them that the stress was making it harder to relax to pee and that they could call the cops because I was innocent, but I ultimately decided to pee somewhere else. When one of the employees (who had talked with me before) found out it was me, she felt really bad and asked if she could make it up to me. I told her it was fine because I understood. It still made be ball my eyes out when I got back to my car. It was so stressful.
I'm thankful for every experience, however. I have a close relationship with God, and I know I'm doing what's best for me and facing the challenges I'm meant to face. Nothing has made me grow more than this lifestyle because I'm staying true to my heart.
"The will of God will never lead you where the the faith of God cannot protect you."
The whole being illegal to sleep in ur car is unconstitutional. There is no crime if there is no injured party.
But not many are willing to stand on that simple fact. The public roads belong to the people at large, you have the right to use them and your car is private property which means the castle doctrine applies to it and you if you choose to stand on it.
A parking lot belongs to whatever corporation owns or leases that location at the time. So yeah, you would have to move. But a fine/ticket for being there can be dealt with by facing ur accuser and having them prove you injured or damaged them. Which becomes their burden.
Enforce the Constitution and choose trial by jury while making sure the jury is aware of constitutional principals and if they're unfamiliar. Have them removed so that a more competent jury sits in their place.
I respect your desire to create and follow your own goals instead of excepting pressure to do what others think is best for your life.
My comment is nothing more than shared information not legal advice, so consider me a "next of friend". :)
Sometimes with everything being so expensive I would just like to live in my car
Me also, and I'm going to as soon as this lease is up, I'm out. Can't save a dime.
Things often happen for a reason. Sometimes that rejection is protection.
So this is how I see it. You are getting to stay somewhere rent free. That someone has to pay for. Be it in rent, lease, or just taxes. Therefore it comes down to owners choices. If they want you there fine. If not that is fine as well. Someone crashing in my parking lot. Can't really get pissed or question me as to why. When I ask them to move. What you should do is ask for the manager or owner of the place. Then ask them what the stance is own sleeping in the parking lot. You could ask if they have a program or have thought of starting a program. Where people like yourself can sleep in the parking lots for a small fee. If its a truck stop they have showers so that could be part of the fee.
Learn the difference between rights and permissions. Parking lots are someone's property, even public property (owned by 'the people,' but subject to the rules agreed on by 'the people' and delegated to appointed officers to enforce.) Therefore you have no right to park in any lot, only by someone else's permission and that permission can be rescinded at any time for any or no reason. The property owner doesn't have to explain why you are asked to leave.
That said there are a number of reasons why a lot owner would ask you to leave. The one that makes the most sense to me is that if it is a truck stop, the lot was intended to give truckers and mobile homers a place to stay the night. Truckers need lots of space for their rigs. They travel long distances hauling products that lots of people need. They serve a very important function in our economy. So if people like you, who make it a lifestyle choice to live out of your car, want to stop at these places and spend the night, that sends a message to other people that it's okay to do that. So, if more car-dwelling people took up space at these truck stops, then eventually it could reduce the amount of space for truckers. Multiply that by the number of truck stops out there and we have a problem that affects our entire economy.
It's the old adage, 'If I let you stay here then I have to let all the others stay here.'
One solution would be to set up a network of people willing to share their driveways for people who live out of their cars. They can charge a small fee, maybe in cryptos and let you stay. Another is for lot operators to reserve some space for car dwellers for a small fee, maybe eventually leading to what truckers have, except the space and onsite services cater to the needs of car dwellers.
Flying J’s, Pilot and Love truckstops are all open for all vehicles for overnight parking. Some do have paid parking spots but they are usually for RVs and trucks.
Obviously he has no concern for a girls safety
My husband and I were woken up in the middle of the night and kicked out of a 24 hour Safeway parking lot and it was one of the scariest things we had to go through. The cop pounded on the side of the car and pointed his light directly into our eyes.
As a Trucker, those truck stops there because we need them, for short stops(12 hours or less) as is the law.
If I stay at a rest stop 2-3 days in a row I will be kicked out.
Don't forget if they let you stay there, they have to let everyone. That is a potential crime risk. And it should go without saying that a young pretty girl staying at a truck stop to everyone there they must be thinking a lot lizard.
Truck stops were designed to give me a place to stop when the Department of Transportation tells me I'm over my hours and I must take a break, many companies have been smart enough to make them very enjoyable places well-lit and inviting, but they are not meant to be used as a semi-permanent home
And ask for the government requiring you to actually have a physical address, and not just allowing you to maintain a post office box that makes no sense. Don't forget you may have a car with Windows and a back door, I've got a large rig with a double sleeper. They will not allow me to consider that to be my home even though I have two twin beds or television set refrigerator microwave and all the amenities, I still have to maintain a crappy apartment with doesn't have half that stuff.
Maybe they just hadn't notice you before.. also the area where you were parked, was it for car parking, or were you in parking spaces intended for trks, maybe bobtails normally parked there, because you can prk almost anywhere, anytime, and trk drivers are running on federally mandated driving schedules and they HAVE to have those parking spaces to get rest so they can do their jobs safely.
They're already short on parking spaces even counting r4est areas, for their legally required 10 hr breaks. They only have so many places big enough for them to park in, .. ergo the purpose of trk stops.. to the point that now a days, there are programs run by some trk stops where a driver can call ahead and reserve a spot if he/she knows they will be there, to make sure they have parking available for the night.
So they may have told you to leave for that purpose, because the smaller spaces are used by bobtail trks, in order to leave the full size ones for trks with trailers.
On top of the reasons listed, I hate to say it, but if that guard had not noticed you all before, he may have thought you were lot lizards, which are a big problem in trk stops. Unlike what people think, most drivers are not on drugs, and 99/100 drivers do not want some woman knocking on their door waking them up from a sound sleep, asking them if they want a "date"! So especially if he was a new guard he might not have saw you before and new what was up. As for explaining, you would not BELIEVE some of the excuses they give! I always love the looks on their faces when I get up instead of my husband, roll the window down and holler back into the sleeper. "Babe, it's for you!" and go back to the sleeper! LoL
I Finally started tossing my red lace bra over the steering wheel and dash area so they knew this trk was already occupied by a female.
Anyway, just giving you some possible reasons why the guard was obviously clearing out all the traffic that wasn't in and out customers or trks parked for their 10 hr breaks..
If you're in the LA area they just passed a law making it illegal for people to sleep in their cars or even RVs, that may be the thing.
Indeed. Guess we'll all have to be super duper stealthy...
Katie I'm learning english as a second language, and I subscribe and watch your video, because even you talking so faster, you talk clearly, and that's helps me a lot listening a native speaking without trying to pause or speak in slow motion to me
Congratulations on learning English. I doubt I could master a second language and English is tough. I would suggest changing your sentence to read "...because even though you are talking very fast...".
You can actually adjust the speed of videos if you want to watch more and practice. If u click the 3 doors in the top right corner, a the bottom it says playback speed, you can increase to speed up and decrease to slow it down. I didn’t know this trick until recently and figured it was worth sharing especially to someone trying to learn another language. Hope it helps.
Park at any casino... Open 24/hrs
The casinos in my area are not hip about people living in their cars. RVs are only good for a couple of days, PARKED ONLY, no other activity, for a couple of days in the designated parking area. Otherwise, they will have the local law enforcement remove you.
As long as you lose hundreds of dollars every day,and stay quiet,and dont stay more then 4 to 5 days straight,most casinos today,could care less.
Security will be on your ass lol
You will be monitored by casino security .You'll be escorted out on the second day unless you can prove you have been gambling for hours and plan to continue to gamble .
I slept in a Vegas parking garage for like 2 nights in a row..nobody told me to leave..I thought Wow u could really save a lot of money when in Vegas..just sleeping in your car oppose to sleeping at a high priced hotel on the strip!!!
I’m not an expert in this particular area of law but I am a sociology PhD student and one of my areas of expertise is law and society. My educated guess is that laws about living in your car are similar to vagrancy laws, many of which were created and continue to exist to criminalize people of color, poor people, and the mentally ill. We don’t like to admit that we want to punish people who don’t align with what society expects from us, but that’s essentially what happens.
Kristin ,you are so right;
Have you ever tried sleeping in a 24-hour fitness type place’s parking lot?
I think it might be they don't want anything happen to you, on their property!
It would be bad for business & media for them!
I use to work in Retail my mom was one of the managers and they always had to have the police come and kick people who were camping out in there RV’s or have random cars towed. And I asked why can’t they just sleep there? And she explains it makes it look bad for the business. Just like some homeless people aren’t allowed to lounge around the building outside because it makes people uncomfortable.
Arissa Anneheim Yes and it also attracts others who will do the same. Have the same issue where I work. One homeless person hanging out front quickly turns in to two and three. Gotta get them moving fast before they intimidate customers.
Sorry this happened to you. Maybe the guy was new and was just throwing his weight around, so to say. But it’s just ridiculous that some people chose not to show compassion but be such a stickler for such an inconsequential rule..... So where to next sine you said you were only going to be there for a couple more days?
Goodness girl, Be careful out there. Your pretty, be aware of your surroundings. 😦🤤
She s hoping someone will take her in looking decent
I love your videos, I only found you a few days ago but you've become one of my new favourite youtubers. You're so pretty and funny. You have such a resemblance to Emmy Rossum. I love how you show people how living in your car isn't a bad thing, and that they shouldn't view it like it is.
It's not illegal to live in your car. Where you park is what the issue is. In some areas there is a homeless problem and you can imagine the encampments that would pop up on residential streets if cities didn't have certain ordinances restricting this. I worked at Home Depot for some years and we always had sleepers pull in for a night or 2 and that went pretty much unnoticed. But when 4 or 5 motor homes pull in with boat trailers loaded with junk covered with tarps and extra vehicles and they start making a certain section of the lot look like there camp ground ,,,they would force them out. You would also start having vehicles broken into and the bathrooms in the store would be filled in the am with people bathing in the sink etc. soap dispensers torn off the wall so they could get enough to do the cloths in the sink. Get the picture ? It's not the many struggling in their life that are a problem. We all understand this and wish there were answers to all the problems. It is the few that trash everything that ruin it for the innocent. AND there are those people out there that are intolerant of anything that doesn't meet their standards. ***butt heads****
illegal to stay in your car is only for USA... most other countries do not give a damn if you live in your car.. so sad actually.. leave us alone in our cars... 😴
Most other Countries are not as safe as the USA ethier.
Reading through the comment section it is really sad because here in LA area you are not allowed to sleep in your car now passed the law that homless people can not sleep anywhere public which is so ridiculous and sad.
Stephanie Ortega Well I guess the jails are going to fill up with all the homeless then aren't they?
The sad part is the ignorance and lack of education as to what is under the jurisdiction of cops and people that work for the cities, counties, States and United States.
The Constitution for the United States clearly states in Article I section 8 clause 17,
"To exercise exclusive Legislation in all Cases
whatsoever, over such District (not exceeding
ten Miles square) as may, by Cession of particular
States, and the Acceptance of Congress, become
the Seat of the Government of the United
States, and to exercise like Authority over all
Places purchased by the Consent of the Legislature
of the State in which the Same shall be, for
the Erection of Forts, Magazines, Arsenals,
dock-Yards, and other needful Buildings;- and:"
Article IV section 3 clause 2, that
"The Congress shall have Power to dispose of
and make all needful Rules and Regulations respecting
the Territory or other Property belonging
to the United States;..."
That means they can only make rules, regs, statutes, codes, public policies on "Territory or other property owned by the United States"
That does not include any of the land that is privately owned, or on public easements.
The State of California's legislators are totally aware of these sections and even mention Article I section 8 clause 17 in their code 126(b)
According to their codes @ 110-127 in their government codes Labeled "Territorial Jurisdiction" if one is on land within the exterior boundaries of California, and the land that you are on is not on the lists of 111-127 then one is not in the "State of California.
I understand that what I just wrote will be very confusing for most of the people that went to indoctrination centers(euphemistically called the public school(fool) system.
But all one needs to do is actually read the codes.
And learn how to read their terms as they have defined them.
The way they define their terms are mostly different than the colloquial way you read the definitions as they are diction in a dictionary.
leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displayText.xhtml?lawCode=GOV&division=1.&title=1.&part=&chapter=1.&article=2.
I've also heard that its illegal to live in a tiny house full time; which is weird, I don't understand the government...
Because you wouldn't be paying as much as people who live in regular homes. Because all we are are sources of income for the feds.
It's also illegal in some states to collect rainwater from the sky for personal use and to live off grid. It lt definitely is about them wanting you to pay as much money as they can force you to
Absolutely bonkers. YOU CAN'T HAVE RAIN. Fuck that.
my CBD life I get frustrated when people get judged for saving money getting rid of things they don't need or want to do what they ultimately want to do. Why isn't the tons of unhappy average 9-5 worker who has many physical and mental health problems seen as a problem? So many people view luxury as more important than health even if they don't realize it.
I'm happy that you all are living the life that adds value to your lives. I hope to one day travel and start a family and do likewise.
The reason is bc most homeless people are seen as potentially dangerous to the public, or at the least a nuisance. Its a fear and safety issue, not for you, for people who may need to stop there for gas or whatever. The sad fact is most people are homeless due to mental health and or addiction issues. Plus, (im a social worker, i deal with this all the time) they tend to act like the world owes them something bc of the predicament theyre in when its usually their own doing theyre in that predicament. Yes there are the few who are temporarily down on their luck, but thats not the norm. The majority are homeless by choice or by mistakes they made.
How do you deal with sleeping in your car in a hot climate like California in the summer? I imagine keeping your air conditioning on would drain your battery.
nickkingofearth I think she said she uses ice packs . But I still wouldn’t be able to manage . Its about to be triple digits here in SoCal this weekend
nickkingofearth i know u didnt ask me sir but i personally use battery fans for cheap
Her number one tip is to just stay in cooler places in the summer and warmer places in the winter. Since she doesn't have to be any specific place, it makes sense for her to just go where she'll be most comfortable. But she also has a 20 degree sleeping bag and a portable fan I think.
Her windows are not even tinted.......
It’s not too bad at night, it gets really cool. During he day you can always hang out at a mall or library
Btw, if Mary Louise Parker and Miley Cyrus made a baby, it'd be you!!!😄👍😊
Ha ha ha
Yeah..Crazy + Crazy = Crazy..I see that..
Her voice sounds so much like miley cyrus though
@@margomazzeo1680 i didn't mean it like that, at all. I was thinking that she looks like a combo of them put together, and sounds like miley. My comment wasn't poking fun of, or mean. Just an observation.
@@jennilang721 I agree with you, she is charismatic as they both are. :)
I get where you're coming from with the overnight parking, but I've also seen people take advantage of it at places like Walmart. leaving trash, I've even seen people set up their campers outdoor furniture and all.
Lol tacky
Honestly it has nothing to do with compassion. It is about safety. They are responsible for people who aren't permitted to be there like non truck drivers. I've managed those stations before and they are hard on staff about enforcing that. Sucks but true.
6 years in that car? Oh my god imagine when you get youself a van or box truck, you will be so greatful.
Opening your door at 1 AM is WILD.
Dear get your windows tinted at night your not so noticeable
She covers her windows in a way that no one would be able to see her. Tinting wouldn't give her the kind of privacy she has with her current set up.
@@LAMcMac Seems like the tint would prevent easy view from whatever she uses to block the windows if someone walks up. Thanx for sharing Katie!
@@TheConsciousCougar In many states it is illegal to have your windows tinted so that a cop or emergency personnel can not look in. They do not know if you are holding a gun or what the situation is in the car.
@@TheConsciousCougar I agree , If you get a dark tint you probably don't need coverings on the windows which just invite people to peek in.
Tinting is not a good idea, it usually leads to you being targeted and harrassed by law enforcement.