If you do decide to go natural I think you'll find that you'll still be able to enjoy all the hairstyles you did relaxed. The moment you tell us that you're going natural, know that you'll instantly have tons of support. We'll all be rooting for you! 😊💜
I trained my hair to only need 1 maybe 2 relaxers a year. Try giving yourself a hot oil treatment with coconut oil, it will make your new growth softer and more manageable
Omg Destiny you’re slaying my LIFE !!!! 😩 this video is EVERYTHING ! 😭🙌 im gonna try this. Also i can’t stretch past 3 months bc my new growth is so coarse & thick that it breaks my hair off if i have too much but what i do to detangle is i use Shea Moisture JBCO hair masque as a deep conditioner and it detangles my new growth for me, no matter how much i have !!! It’s ridiculous. 😩🙌 I think you’d like it !
The struggle with new growth is real. I’m going on 6 months this month and my hair is so thick it’s crazy. I also need a trim. I can’t wait until spring so I can slap this relaxer in
Ms. Cee D. I'm 6 months post too🤗 I wanted to take a break from relaxers until I have my baby girl in May. But once she is out a relaxer is getting in ☺
Destiny, honestly felt the struggle with the blow dryer too. It was midnight and I was having a hard time blow drying my hair, it was a day before my 12 months post relaxer. I need to get my hair in a bun because I was dancing a ballet the next day. I was fed up fighting with my hair that 2 days after (a year and a day post) I big chopped. Now it's February and soon I'll be 2 months natural. Also the ends do get thin once more natural hair grows. I had noticed that with stretching relaxers before I transitioned.
She just needed a break from relaxers and to let her hair get stronger - it doesn't mean she's going natural. Nor does she have to. It's ok to take a break between chemical processing and just let your hair get stronger. It doesn't mean you have to give up relaxers.
Girl you took me back to why i started watching you! This 9 months post business is a STRUGGLE. A blow dryer with comb attachment is THE ONLY WAY i can blow dry my hair myself, the Red by Kiss Handleless dryer
Your ends aren't thin because of thick newgrowth. Your ends are thin because you are incorrectly detangling your hair and breaking it off in the process, resulting in thin damaged ends. Also, it is possible to rollerset your hair with so much new growth, but you'd probably need mouse or foaming wrap lotion, and to possibly do a pony tail rollerset instead of a traditional rollerset. Just a suggestion 🙂
Thank you for this video Destiny. I am not relaxed but I have had bad heat damage from a salon that makes it looks relaxed and the ends are stupid thin when straightened so it's cool to see im not alone with this struggle
Can you do an hair update , what your current regimen is and what are your goals for your hair ? I know you stretch out your relaxers but are you transitioning ?
Maybe if you blow dry in smaller sections it wont be as difficult. When I was natural, I would blow dry on 6-12 sections, depending on how patient I was that day. It seems like you're going natural because you don't seem too concerned about the relaxed hair breaking off! I'm excited to find out what you decide!
WOW I like that hairdo, and it sure looks like you have a relaxer. I have not had a relaxer since july and I'm struggling with the decision to continue without one or break down and get one because I am running out of ideas for hairstyles and let's face it...I cannot style my hair with up-to-date hairstyles....HELP!
Destiny please don't let anybody negatively affect you especially the negative and rude people in the comment section. Do whatever you want with your hair. 😁
Wait so does this mean your going natural because if so I’m still all here for it , i support either way and your hair definitely is thicker toward the roots and is growing at a good pace
i felt that apple cider mishap so deeply. the funny thing is that before you posted the apple cider video, i was also planning on doing the same thing to my hair that weekend. your video saved my relaxed hair. but your hair will bounce back in no time. how long are you planning on stretching your relaxer??
I love your eyelash sweatshirt... where did you get it? Also, maybe try the new revlon blow dryer that is a brush. I’m natural and that gets my hair bone straight so it should work on your combo hair well also.
dkny39 She really shouldnt get one tho. She'd be better off going natural, especially now that she's into wigs. But, idk because she doesnt seem to know how to do natural styles, she doesnt even air dry her relaxed hair or do braid outs so i doubt she will know what to do with natural hair other than straightening or blow drying.
Just some you tubers that might be helpful to you for hair.. Janay Mickles has some bomb hair straightening videos!!! Also RelaxwithTi has a great channel for relaxed hair! Would love to see a video with you going to a salon for a whole wash, deep condition, flat iron and cut with a well known stylist. I bet you would have nice results girl! Keep it up!
Your hair is gonna be longer when you get a relaxed. Even though you straighten it it doesn't give the full length as with a relaxer. And that's why the relax end look a little damage but when it all comes together you gonna see that growth. Speaking from experience. I've been braiding my hair since October and my las relaxer was September and when I got my relaxer a fe days ago honey growth was real.
Thanks for the video sis. This is why I'm a new subscriber, you are so hilarious but still so chill at the same time. I feel like I could watch you do a video about dog food and be entertained, lol. And I looooove that southern accent.
Wow. I didnt know you had the apple cider "tragedy".. I just watched that video. Now this explains so much why you are on the journey of growing it back. And getting it healthy. Thanks for the update! ❤❤
Toyr hair is beautiful. I wish I can go that long w/O a relaxed. Mine broke off so I'm trying to get it back strong and long. I've been using biosil and I can see a big difference.
Stretching your relaxer for that long will cause breakage like what you’re experiencing. The same thing happened to me when I was transitioning. It got to the point where I was over it and chopped it off. And my hair FLOURISHED immediately. I’m all natural now and style my hair in a number of ways and I noticed that I prefer my natural hair flat ironed MUCH more than my relaxed straight hair. Never would have thought that in a million years.
Thanks for the video. Your hair is beautiful and looks healthier. And longer. What can say I'm currently trying to grow my hair out now . But your so pretty. And team relaxed hair girlllll.😍😍😍💖
You can definitely see where the hair is getting healthier...btw what product do you use to slay those edges girl it looks soooo good p.s love the white shirt.
Girl, you might as well come on over with us and go natural., lol. Your hair is beautiful. It's good you know how to style your hair. Super cute style. You laid them edges.
For all those questioning if she's actually transitioning,she doesn't need to be relaxed when she's wearing wigs and trying not to manipulate her hair so as to let it grow back to it's previous and even beyond that lenght. Girl you slayed those edges
Damn girl your hair has grown so much!! Looks healthy too! Do you plan on cutting the straight ends off? If so please film & make it into a video lol love your channel btw 💕
Your hair is so pretty..looks like you going natural..I'm 9 month natural..did the big chop on 1/25/18 I love it..cut off 6 inches..your natural looks healthy
Don't tell her what she should do. I'm so stick of natural girls trying to bully relaxed her ladies into going Natural. If Destiny wants to go natural it should be her choice not social medias.
ROSAURA Rosa hahaha! You cant suggest natural hair without being a "bully". 😁 it literally grows out ya head but they act like you telling em to sacrifice they 1st born😄
TheBiancawonka omg YESS and it's crazy cuz the non relaxed part obviously look thicker, healthier and shinier than the relaxed ends, soooo obviously it's doing her some good keeping herself outta those relaxers.
ROSAURA Rosa I remember when the woman who used to do my blowouts told me she would “heat train” my hair, it sounded tempting because my hair would be straight wet or nah. Thankful, I got out of that trap
Just tell us you’re going natural already lol, seems like everyone is that’s why i subscribed because you were the only one relaxed but i still will support and check back on your channel for your makeup tutorials/hauls and vlogs... but always love no matter what it’s your hair your choice at the end of the day 😘
If you do decide to go natural I think you'll find that you'll still be able to enjoy all the hairstyles you did relaxed. The moment you tell us that you're going natural, know that you'll instantly have tons of support. We'll all be rooting for you! 😊💜
Your like the only relax person on RUclips thats actually interesting to watch ❤️❤️ I wish your journey well !!
so trueeee !!! fav relaxed youtuber by far !
SHaiLuVsTaCos fr every other relax hair channel is boring or went natural, hopefully she grows her relax hair long af! and not get scissors happy 😂
haha yesss ! she can do whatever she wants with her hair of course but she gives me so much life with her relaxed hair !! its growing so much !!!
I love "unedited" Destiny 😂😍😂
This video is so real! Lol a lot of these RUclipsrs be making it look easy, but a lot of times it’s struggle bus sis
And Destiny I like when your videos aren't over edited . And the bun in the first part in the video is so cute .
Girl all that new growth! But you worked it out though
Love the realness in this video that’s how I be feeling doing my hair! Glad to see I’m not only one! 😊
Super cute hairstyle! Yass to that new growth. No matter how you wear your hair IM HERE FOR IT ❤❤❤
Destiny, I been watching your channel for about two years now. This is the cutest style today. I love it!
I trained my hair to only need 1 maybe 2 relaxers a year. Try giving yourself a hot oil treatment with coconut oil, it will make your new growth softer and more manageable
Hey Destiny..How long do you plan on stretching your relaxer??
goldmouth100 She said until it becomes unmanageable so that can mean until this weekend or she can stretch until she's fully natural
Are you transitioning or just stretching your relaxer? Your hair looks healthier and it's growing in thicker.
I'm loving this rawness...less edited videos 🙌🏽🙌🏽
First of all thank u for listening us, is good to see how ur hair is flourishing, coming out thicker and healthier... 😊😊
Your hair looks great! I've been using crochet braids off and on since October, so I finally had to deal with my real hair..hot comb did the trick😎
Omg Destiny you’re slaying my LIFE !!!! 😩 this video is EVERYTHING ! 😭🙌 im gonna try this. Also i can’t stretch past 3 months bc my new growth is so coarse & thick that it breaks my hair off if i have too much but what i do to detangle is i use Shea Moisture JBCO hair masque as a deep conditioner and it detangles my new growth for me, no matter how much i have !!! It’s ridiculous. 😩🙌 I think you’d like it !
The struggle with new growth is real. I’m going on 6 months this month and my hair is so thick it’s crazy. I also need a trim. I can’t wait until spring so I can slap this relaxer in
Ms. Cee D. I'm 6 months post too🤗 I wanted to take a break from relaxers until I have my baby girl in May. But once she is out a relaxer is getting in ☺
terrornika savell congratz girly 🤗
You had me rolling on the floor at 130 in the am. 342 in the am. To funny !!!
Love it.
Don’t over edit, we like the real ness of the videos lol
shanta glass frfr 😭💯
The realness in this video. I love it!!!!
Destiny, honestly felt the struggle with the blow dryer too. It was midnight and I was having a hard time blow drying my hair, it was a day before my 12 months post relaxer. I need to get my hair in a bun because I was dancing a ballet the next day. I was fed up fighting with my hair that 2 days after (a year and a day post) I big chopped. Now it's February and soon I'll be 2 months natural.
Also the ends do get thin once more natural hair grows. I had noticed that with stretching relaxers before I transitioned.
She just needed a break from relaxers and to let her hair get stronger - it doesn't mean she's going natural. Nor does she have to. It's ok to take a break between chemical processing and just let your hair get stronger. It doesn't mean you have to give up relaxers.
I Love the unedited footage! And YES PLEASE SHOW WHAT YOU GOT FROM DOLLAR GENERAL!! Love you and your channel 💖💖😍💖💖
Girl you took me back to why i started watching you! This 9 months post business is a STRUGGLE. A blow dryer with comb attachment is THE ONLY WAY i can blow dry my hair myself, the Red by Kiss Handleless dryer
Your ends aren't thin because of thick newgrowth. Your ends are thin because you are incorrectly detangling your hair and breaking it off in the process, resulting in thin damaged ends.
Also, it is possible to rollerset your hair with so much new growth, but you'd probably need mouse or foaming wrap lotion, and to possibly do a pony tail rollerset instead of a traditional rollerset. Just a suggestion 🙂
Thank you for this video Destiny. I am not relaxed but I have had bad heat damage from a salon that makes it looks relaxed and the ends are stupid thin when straightened so it's cool to see im not alone with this struggle
I love all ur vids especially when ur jus being u and doing ur thing. Love the hair looks really thick.
Plus I love the footage that you kept that you said you would probably edit it out! You show us the real deal lol! 😩❤️
You're the cutest. S/o to you for being committed to giving what your supporters wanted.
Hey Destiny. . . Can you do a perfume collection or favorite perfume video?? I'm squinting trying to see the perfumes in the back LOL
I like it. Question please let me know what you think please I have not relaxed my hair for 7 month should I go to the salon or do it myself
yes please just be yourself! Need more youtubers that are real and true
Can you do an hair update , what your current regimen is and what are your goals for your hair ? I know you stretch out your relaxers but are you transitioning ?
Maybe if you blow dry in smaller sections it wont be as difficult. When I was natural, I would blow dry on 6-12 sections, depending on how patient I was that day. It seems like you're going natural because you don't seem too concerned about the relaxed hair breaking off! I'm excited to find out what you decide!
WOW I like that hairdo, and it sure looks like you have a relaxer. I have not had a relaxer since july and I'm struggling with the decision to continue without one or break down and get one because I am running out of ideas for hairstyles and let's face it...I cannot style my hair with up-to-date hairstyles....HELP!
I hear Pastor Chalmers in the background in the beginning "The Lord is my Light and Salvation, whom shall I fear"...yessss Sirrr!!
Destiny please don't let anybody negatively affect you especially the negative and rude people in the comment section. Do whatever you want with your hair. 😁
Wait so does this mean your going natural because if so I’m still all here for it , i support either way and your hair definitely is thicker toward the roots and is growing at a good pace
i felt that apple cider mishap so deeply. the funny thing is that before you posted the apple cider video, i was also planning on doing the same thing to my hair that weekend. your video saved my relaxed hair. but your hair will bounce back in no time.
how long are you planning on stretching your relaxer??
I love your eyelash sweatshirt... where did you get it? Also, maybe try the new revlon blow dryer that is a brush. I’m natural and that gets my hair bone straight so it should work on your combo hair well also.
Be prepared for her song:
Bout to get that relaxer girl yeahh
They thought I was going natural girl No! 🎶🎶
dkny39 She really shouldnt get one tho. She'd be better off going natural, especially now that she's into wigs. But, idk because she doesnt seem to know how to do natural styles, she doesnt even air dry her relaxed hair or do braid outs so i doubt she will know what to do with natural hair other than straightening or blow drying.
I was really going to tweet her that! She's either gonna come with a vid singing that song or shock us with a TWA
AnimalLover2400 That's what stylists are for. 🤷🏾I'm going natural and can't even get my hair into a ponytail unless it is super bone straight.
The revlon brush blowdryer is everything!!!!
Love how you style your hair especially the edges 😍
Any hairstyle your wear is pretty. A cute blunt cut bob will be so gorgeous on you!
Yes I live for your videos! Edges laid are Edges slayed!!
Destiny, I have that blow dryer and you can just buy the comb attachment at the BSS for like 3-4 dollars.
Just some you tubers that might be helpful to you for hair.. Janay Mickles has some bomb hair straightening videos!!! Also RelaxwithTi has a great channel for relaxed hair! Would love to see a video with you going to a salon for a whole wash, deep condition, flat iron and cut with a well known stylist. I bet you would have nice results girl! Keep it up!
Gimme that shirt. I luv that wit the eye lashes😍
Your hair is gonna be longer when you get a relaxed. Even though you straighten it it doesn't give the full length as with a relaxer. And that's why the relax end look a little damage but when it all comes together you gonna see that growth. Speaking from experience. I've been braiding my hair since October and my las relaxer was September and when I got my relaxer a fe days ago honey growth was real.
Destiny have you tried using a round brush? it works wonders for new growth!
I love your natural hair videos !
Your hair is so pretty sis!!! 😍😍😍 please keep the random parts in from now on!!!!!
I feel the same way when I do my hair Destiny. I like the extra footage because it's realistic.
Are ypu using some type of transitioning product on your hair. Like that transitioning kit they sell at beauty supply stores.
Thanks for the video sis. This is why I'm a new subscriber, you are so hilarious but still so chill at the same time. I feel like I could watch you do a video about dog food and be entertained, lol. And I looooove that southern accent.
Hiii! What did you use to hold your pin curls in place? I am trying to buy them
This style is sooo cute on you 😭💕Love it
The final outcome hairstyle😍😍😍
Dollar general haul, please!
Dang Destiny. Your new growth is the truth!
Wow. I didnt know you had the apple cider "tragedy".. I just watched that video. Now this explains so much why you are on the journey of growing it back. And getting it healthy. Thanks for the update! ❤❤
I had to come back and get some inspiration for my continence of stretching/struggle hair growth system I'm working on lmbo
thanks for the video ♥ Are you transitioning with your hair?
Yes!! Love the end results. I like the unedited parts kept in the video. I love the twins too.
Toyr hair is beautiful. I wish I can go that long w/O a relaxed. Mine broke off so I'm trying to get it back strong and long. I've been using biosil and I can see a big difference.
Stretching your relaxer for that long will cause breakage like what you’re experiencing. The same thing happened to me when I was transitioning. It got to the point where I was over it and chopped it off. And my hair FLOURISHED immediately. I’m all natural now and style my hair in a number of ways and I noticed that I prefer my natural hair flat ironed MUCH more than my relaxed straight hair. Never would have thought that in a million years.
You are so naturally pretty!
Yes. Please do a dollar store haul. I knew I was forgetting something 🙂
Sonja Covington she has one, but it's from years ago
Have u tried the lotta body blow out lotion? I purchased mines from Walmart it does wonders!!!
Thanks for the video. Your hair is beautiful and looks healthier. And longer. What can say I'm currently trying to grow my hair out now . But your so pretty. And team relaxed hair girlllll.😍😍😍💖
So cute 😍. And what color lip gloss do you have on? Its so pretty
I love the random moments lol.
Gurl, that bun is POPPIN
You can definitely see where the hair is getting healthier...btw what product do you use to slay those edges girl it looks soooo good p.s love the white shirt.
Chanelle Ravello thank you.💖 24 Hour Edge tamer. All products I used are in de description box
allofdestiny aww thank you for the reply it's only after I commented I checked the description box for details..but thank you so much again.
Girl, you might as well come on over with us and go natural., lol. Your hair is beautiful. It's good you know how to style your hair. Super cute style. You laid them edges.
Omg your hair looks so good!!
Please please pleaseeeee tell us where you got that white long sleeve from!!! it’s soooo cute.
Yasss to the real hair videos (lol I voted) & I love the hairstyle so cute & your hair is doing good 💁🏽💁🏽& girl 9 months I could not 😂🤣
Hey can you do an updated skin care routine? Your Skin looks awesome!
Girl!!! Your hair is growing back!😄 N it'll look more awesome when you get a trim. Nothing can stop your hair.
For all those questioning if she's actually transitioning,she doesn't need to be relaxed when she's wearing wigs and trying not to manipulate her hair so as to let it grow back to it's previous and even beyond that lenght.
Girl you slayed those edges
Damn girl your hair has grown so much!! Looks healthy too! Do you plan on cutting the straight ends off? If so please film & make it into a video lol love your channel btw 💕
She is so adorable. Gotta love her
When you say you're going natural I'm going to have to scream 😍😍
look at the cheap denman brush, yow destiny you a real one😭❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes I would love to see what you bought from Dollar General ☺
Your natural hair is beautiful 💗
Where did you get that sweater that has the eyelashes on it? So cute!
What made you want to stretch your relaxers ?
Hair growing back healthy!! 💕💕
Lol I’m 3 and a half months post relaxer. I know the struggle. Loved the video girl
You should try a T3 flat iron....life changing
Your hair is so pretty..looks like you going natural..I'm 9 month natural..did the big chop on 1/25/18 I love it..cut off 6 inches..your natural looks healthy
You should go natural and heat train your hair cuz the new growth looks gorgeously thick when straight!!!
Don't tell her what she should do. I'm so stick of natural girls trying to bully relaxed her ladies into going Natural. If Destiny wants to go natural it should be her choice not social medias.
AbsoluteMdot "bully"???? Lmaoo 😂😂😂😂😂😂bruh y'all don't jump to conclusions anymore, y'all just dive tf in!!😭😂
ROSAURA Rosa hahaha! You cant suggest natural hair without being a "bully". 😁 it literally grows out ya head but they act like you telling em to sacrifice they 1st born😄
TheBiancawonka omg YESS and it's crazy cuz the non relaxed part obviously look thicker, healthier and shinier than the relaxed ends, soooo obviously it's doing her some good keeping herself outta those relaxers.
ROSAURA Rosa I remember when the woman who used to do my blowouts told me she would “heat train” my hair, it sounded tempting because my hair would be straight wet or nah. Thankful, I got out of that trap
I like how u did ur hair!! Really cute!! Tfs
"she so ratchet" 😂 we love you ♥️♥️♥️
You have pretty hair you slayed that hairstyle girl!
Love this hair style and I like the un-edited parts
Ur 2 beautiful 😍. I luv that luk!!!! Grl u doin it. Growth is amazing 🙌😘
I miss videos like this 😍😍
You need to get a comb attachment it make the process way more simple!!! I have the same blow dryer...and I got a universal attachment from Sally’s
Just tell us you’re going natural already lol, seems like everyone is that’s why i subscribed because you were the only one relaxed but i still will support and check back on your channel for your makeup tutorials/hauls and vlogs... but always love no matter what it’s your hair your choice at the end of the day 😘