She Says She’s Run Background Checks on Her Daughter’s Adoptive Mother

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
  • In 2008, Julia was a single mom, homeless, and living in a car with her 15-year-old daughter, Olivia, her 12-year-old daughter Phoebe, and Olivia’s newborn daughter. Julia claims that when authorities found her homeless, they placed her children in foster care. Julia and Olivia say that within 6 months, Olivia’s daughter was adopted. She and her family are seeking Dr. Phil’s advice on how to keep fighting for her little girl. (2214061RR)
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Комментарии • 82

  • @CrustyUgg
    @CrustyUgg 2 месяца назад +40

    These people are mad at the wrong person. The mom is an enabler.

  • @Masuba
    @Masuba 2 месяца назад +44

    Also, just because Mom doesn't post photos all over social media with her kids doesn't mean she doesn't spend time with them. She probably doesn't want these psychos to take them off her page

    • @CrustyUgg
      @CrustyUgg 2 месяца назад +7

      Isn't it weird that ppl think no photos = no love. Putting your kid all over social media is the norm so if you don't do it... it means she doesn't spend time with them 😂

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 2 месяца назад +3

      @@CrustyUggI don’t put my children on social media. In my opinion, they should be the ones to decide whether or they want to be on social media when they’re old enough.

    • @NH-tb2sm
      @NH-tb2sm 2 месяца назад +4

      Responsible adults don't post their children on social media.

    • @bobrange4773
      @bobrange4773 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@StealthMode3924I don't even put myself on social media . . . my name's not Bob, I'm not even a man.

    • @nikirrae8495
      @nikirrae8495 2 месяца назад +2

      If anything is actually kind of a good thing that she doesn’t post the kid all over the Internet. There’s an insane amount of predators out there. She’s kind of doing the right parenting move with that one.

  • @Michaelcombrink
    @Michaelcombrink 2 месяца назад +12

    Unfortunately this lady is not emotionally stable to be raising a kid. If she is on edge like that she can't have a kid in her company.

  • @princessjagdeeppanesar5283
    @princessjagdeeppanesar5283 2 месяца назад +27

    I have watched this episode so many times, and olivia, her mother, and her sister still make me really angry. They are so annoying
    They dont know what they are talking about.They are putting the blame on the wrong person. Gillien doesn't need/ have to put her daughter's picture online if she doesn't want to. She's protecting her child. She is allowed to go on a holiday. That's her decision. That doesn't mean that she's a bad person or mother or that she doesn't spend time with her daughter. These people are entitled, horrible, and have a big attitude, problem, and much more. Jilian is the mother now. I dont know what else to say.

  • @CrustyUgg
    @CrustyUgg 2 месяца назад +16

    I'm a recovering heroin, fentanyl and crack addict. Just celebrated 5 years sober. I went to prison in 2019 and found out I was pregnant when I got there. I got sober immediately. Bc I was in jail AND bc I made the choice. I haven't done drugs since that day and my son is beautiful! Thriving.. almost 5 years old. You know what I do? I smoke cigarettes still. I don't post my son all over the place. These ppl are weird...

    • @educostanzo
      @educostanzo 2 месяца назад +3

      Good for you, that's really awesome!

    • @mammadingo9165
      @mammadingo9165 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your truths. Wishing you many happy 😊 joys

    • @carolsoal8061
      @carolsoal8061 2 месяца назад +1

      What an incredible person you are!

  • @kevinjones5715
    @kevinjones5715 2 месяца назад +41

    These two have spent hours and hours and hours rehearsing their victimhood.

    • @nikirrae8495
      @nikirrae8495 2 месяца назад +1

      I literally was thinking that as the daughter was speaking… I was like this sounds insanely scripted like she’s been practicing it all night

    • @CONCRETE_ROSE7
      @CONCRETE_ROSE7 2 месяца назад +2

      @@nikirrae8495 I get that, especially when they got quiet when Dr. Phil said the audience would be reacting differently if he crossed examined them and mentioned the grandmothers past. Something isn't adding up. He also told the grandmother she was never barred from court and she did not argue??? So he read the case and knows more. I feel bad for the biological mother. But her own mother is likely the main reason her daughter isn't in her life. IMO, the grandmother is pointing fingers at the adoptive mother to take the heat off herself.

  • @203-g7w
    @203-g7w 2 месяца назад +7

    like a pair of hens cackling…

  • @royh2618
    @royh2618 2 месяца назад +2

    People of poor character accusing someone else of...poor character.

  • @janelindros3416
    @janelindros3416 2 месяца назад +5

    Why is everyone made at the adoptive parents?they should be so lucky.maybe she shouldn't have screwed up so much

  • @Masuba
    @Masuba 2 месяца назад +38

    She literally said "I'm trying to get my life together!" So she admits she doesn't have her life together

    • @Undomaranel
      @Undomaranel 2 месяца назад +4

      Perspective. If your child was ripped from you would you say your life was put together, or would you constantly feel like a piece was missing and throwing every accomplishment and stability out of whack?
      Edited because autocorrect autofailed.

    • @Masuba
      @Masuba 2 месяца назад +4

      @@Undomaranel no, but I also wouldn't go on national TV to trash talk the adoptive mom about stupid stuff

    • @Undomaranel
      @Undomaranel 2 месяца назад

      @@Masuba Way to deflect from your original insult...

    • @Masuba
      @Masuba 2 месяца назад +3

      @@Undomaranel the girl is a spoiled brat who is mad her baby got taken away for a reason. Then she gets mad at the adoptive mom acting like she was the one who made that legal decision. Daughter and so is the grandma

    • @Undomaranel
      @Undomaranel 2 месяца назад

      @@Masuba You're still deflecting, giving opinions and throwing insults rather than sticking to facts of the matter... let alone your original point.

  • @Sophie2570
    @Sophie2570 2 месяца назад +5

    Stay at home moms (and any type of moms) are allowed to go out and have fun. Life doesn't end when you have kids, and it's healthy (and very much needed) to focus on yourself too. Her thinking that the adoptive mom shouldn't be able to go out and enjoy herself just shows how immature she still is and how little she knows about life and parenting.

  • @juliebaker2306
    @juliebaker2306 2 месяца назад +6

    These two are crazy. They are also stalking this woman who legally adopted the child. The various systems do not lightly take a child away from the birth mother; and if the grandmother had been mentally stable and financially able to care for her grandchild, the system would rather leave a child with family.
    This family does not deserve to be in this child’s life, and the adoptive mother needs to get a restraining order.

  • @johnmcconnell8151
    @johnmcconnell8151 2 месяца назад +2

    Dollar Store Kelly Clarkson is a terrible mother!

  • @jessica8471
    @jessica8471 2 месяца назад +2

    “She’s with multiple different men” uhm girl you got pregnant twice before 18…

  • @sherryleigh1966
    @sherryleigh1966 2 месяца назад +2

    They do not need her signature on a document "giving away" the baby. You are only hearing one side of the story. Simply by watching the biological mother (and her mother) in this video, you can tell something is NOT right with this woman. BPD is VERY difficult to treat long term, and they are both in very deep denial. I am not the least bit surprised her rights were terminated. Ranting and raving, the deep hatred of a woman they dont even know, the need to have someone as their "enemy", the assertion that the state "wanted her child" without showing the documentation of why her rights were terminated - classic. Shame on Dr. Phil for giving these people a platform to spew their hatred of a woman who had NOTHING to do with the rights of the biological mother being terminated!

  • @educostanzo
    @educostanzo 2 месяца назад +6

    She's so jealous that the other is partying and she is not, that's the real deal. And the audience clapping lol

    • @sassiiness5208
      @sassiiness5208 2 месяца назад

      I'm getting the feeling from all the clapping the family has hired a bunch of people 😂

  • @AnimatedBlast
    @AnimatedBlast 2 месяца назад +12

    Why did Olivia get pregnant again?

    • @jamijenkins3507
      @jamijenkins3507 2 месяца назад +7

      Wouldn't be surprised if she also lost custody of her son.

    • @pamclarke6785
      @pamclarke6785 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@jamijenkins3507agree

    • @ashleymarks3726
      @ashleymarks3726 2 месяца назад

      cause she's stupid 🤣

    • @Masuba
      @Masuba 2 месяца назад +4

      @@AnimatedBlast she has like 3 more kids now too

    • @AnimatedBlast
      @AnimatedBlast 2 месяца назад +3

      @@jamijenkins3507She shouldn’t have gotten pregnant at 15 in the first place! Her mom should’ve told her to get an abortion.

  • @tinajoerossignol
    @tinajoerossignol 2 месяца назад +2

    I've never done drugs and I don't drink. I also don't post pictures of my kids on social media. The sister is very jealous that she isn't thin and beautiful and partying, going to Vegas. She thinks she has to suffer like she is too be a good person/mother. Her mother and their friends are fueling the hate and drama.

  • @tracym6652
    @tracym6652 2 месяца назад +1

    I cannot believe the audience applauded at the 'trophy' comment

  • @hokiesuz
    @hokiesuz 2 месяца назад +9

    Twice she was a pregnant, unmarried teen. Hmm.

  • @gingerkat74
    @gingerkat74 2 месяца назад +4

    My God she's so dramatic 🙄

  • @spudnut00
    @spudnut00 2 месяца назад +1

    I was a highly responsible, single mother of six kids. Two of them, special needs and two of them, adopted when they were toddlers. A judge had to (legally) take away the bio mother's parental rights and I too lived in fear of her kidnapping my adopted children. Single and/or adoptive mothers are not one dimensional nor are we all alike. I dated a *lot' a guys who treated me and my children very well. I didn't drink at the time but I did smoke and my girlfriends and I would dress up a few times a month and go out, dancing. Which, frankly, made us better parents because we were enjoying life in all spheres. As a Mom and as a 'woman'. The grandmother in this picture has some gall to criticize another mother's parenting, considering how inept *she* was at the job.

  • @emmashuffle6457
    @emmashuffle6457 2 месяца назад +6

    If she truly cared about her grand daughters well being she would stop making herself a victim, own up to her side of things that got her daughter in this place, and handle things much differently.
    This woman dosnt care about her grandchild. She cares about being right and being in control.
    And both the bio grandmother and mother are incapable of having any insight into their own short comings and want to be victims and put blame and guilt on everyone except themselves.
    And she’s basing everything off of Facebook…

    • @fluffypotato-n8g
      @fluffypotato-n8g 2 месяца назад

      Yes like moving across country with two kids and only$750.

    • @elliebellie7816
      @elliebellie7816 2 месяца назад

      ...and one of them a pregnant teen.

  • @spiritsofthegalaxy6395
    @spiritsofthegalaxy6395 2 месяца назад

    Poor kid needs to be in foster care all these ppl are crazy....

  • @Joyful_Smiles
    @Joyful_Smiles 2 месяца назад +1

    The mother, daughter, and aunt's behaviors are excellent examples of why women get a bad reputation in the workplace. They are practically violent that's how intense their h*atred is.
    The jealousy, the insecurities, and blaming others for their choices are all represented in this video. Lucky for the mom that Dr. Phil is level headed and sees them for what they are. What's upsetting is HR is usually not like Dr. Phil and the toxic work environment grows.
    Also, I imagine this is how the Salem witch trials started.

  • @Bunny-fv3fl
    @Bunny-fv3fl 2 месяца назад

    This episode was so crazy!

  • @StealthMode3924
    @StealthMode3924 2 месяца назад +5

    This episode is…a tough one. I can see it from all sides. But I’ll just repeat what Dr. Phil said, this family got a very unfair treatment from CPS and the system.

  • @jwaddell318
    @jwaddell318 2 месяца назад +1

    Something odd and a little theatrical about this Julia.

  • @sassiiness5208
    @sassiiness5208 2 месяца назад

    The judgement from these people is unbelievable... 😂 She fell pregnant twice as a teen but focus' on a grown woman living a grown woman's life, doing adult things 😂 INSANE

  • @generalvictoriouskilljoy8146
    @generalvictoriouskilljoy8146 2 месяца назад

    Bottom line; parent's that keep their kids pic offline are rising to their importance to protect the safety of children, and their rights to privacy and protections therein. Parents who understand this are delivering greater care in the raising of them; not less; Olivia is just mad she can't online stalk the child as well.

  • @Knotted321
    @Knotted321 2 месяца назад

    Why were the courts involved? Ps I was the kid, they don't get involved for no reason?

  • @cf3443
    @cf3443 2 месяца назад +1

    The daughter keeps looking to the side .... she's histrionic a lousy actor as well.

  • @Sainbury
    @Sainbury 2 месяца назад +2

    This girl is 16 and has already had 2 children???

  • @elliebellie7816
    @elliebellie7816 2 месяца назад +2

    Nobody is required to provide visitation of any kind to the bio mom. It is a closed adoption not an open adoption. She should be grateful someone is caring for her daughter.

  • @buzzzzzz69
    @buzzzzzz69 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow! Such nasty comments.
    Obviously none of these people have ever been subjected to an injustice themselves.
    Of course they're going to go after the character of the person the baby was given to- they need to prove that the system did the wrong thing by placing the child in a situation that is not better than what the real Mother can provide.

    • @Masuba
      @Masuba 2 месяца назад +2

      @@buzzzzzz69 except it doesn't prove anything. The adoptive mom took a photo in a dress that's it. She wasn't underage, homeless, living in a car, and then left the baby to go get cigarettes.

    • @elizabethmccormack2276
      @elizabethmccormack2276 2 месяца назад +1

      So sad for this poor child maybe not now but as she grows she will have to deal with it all ,what a shame..

  • @syndicatednews
    @syndicatednews 2 месяца назад +6

    It is not only wrong, but also illegal, unfortunately, the family court systems have been doing this for decades.

  • @soulquesthealingmusic2307
    @soulquesthealingmusic2307 2 месяца назад +1

    2 kids by 2 different guys at 17. A real catch.

  • @soniasinclair1903
    @soniasinclair1903 2 месяца назад +1

    D.Phil., the only thing that matters is she didn't sign a paper to give away her daughter away. Help those women get their granddaughter and daughter back. What was done is done get that child back to her mother and family.

    • @Masuba
      @Masuba 2 месяца назад +3

      @@soniasinclair1903 the state made that decision. The choice is done. Undoing an adoption 6 years after the fact will just traumatize the child

    • @soniasinclair1903
      @soniasinclair1903 2 месяца назад

      @@Masuba That is tough, but if something happens to that child, who is better to have around. The real blood mother or some woman who doesn't share blood?

    • @Masuba
      @Masuba 2 месяца назад

      @@soniasinclair1903 the state took the kid away for a reason. Who do I want to have around the kid if something happens? The person the kid knows and has lived with for 6 years not a stranger