Why I had my IUD REMOVED (horror story)

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @ToTheBridge
    @ToTheBridge 3 года назад +4381

    WAITING for the day a male contraceptive appears I tell you

    • @michellebuatois2120
      @michellebuatois2120 3 года назад +172

      Well, I feel like in a way there already are some. A vasectomy is a non-invasive, simple, reversible procedure that no one does. Sadly, I think they feel it is solely the woman's responsibility.

    • @voteforscience
      @voteforscience 3 года назад +98

      It’s called a condom!! (Shade only for those who refuse to use them)

    • @victoriamayrose5219
      @victoriamayrose5219 3 года назад +203

      There was a birth control designed for men but it didn't get approved bc of side effects that were actually less severe than the pills

    • @lenalonu5702
      @lenalonu5702 3 года назад +14

      @@michellebuatois2120 my boyfriend is going to get it done :)

    • @SuchAFolkebrant
      @SuchAFolkebrant 3 года назад +16

      Have you really never heard of condoms?

  • @aice1018
    @aice1018 3 года назад +3148

    Claudia is so transparent and doesn't hide the bad things in her life and actually decided to put it in the video, because it might be useful and it really is.

    • @canaanarcher4709
      @canaanarcher4709 3 года назад

      Sorry to be off topic but does someone know of a tool to get back into an instagram account..?
      I was dumb forgot the login password. I appreciate any tricks you can give me.

    • @adriensonny9741
      @adriensonny9741 3 года назад

      @Canaan Archer instablaster :)

    • @brianwood-pp9iy
      @brianwood-pp9iy 8 месяцев назад

      ​@canaanarcher4709 thanks for sharing your life with us. You are funny, smart and cute. 😊😅😂

  • @bil5627
    @bil5627 3 года назад +2602

    I love that she’s not scared to share anything with us about her life

    • @4keelahszn
      @4keelahszn 3 года назад +15

      I feel like I see you everywhere now

    • @jadetemis8604
      @jadetemis8604 3 года назад +2

      Hope it feel right

    • @kens3527
      @kens3527 3 года назад +2

      Exactly I love he r

    • @Alexaz_Schu
      @Alexaz_Schu 3 года назад +21

      Lmao so untrue that’s definitely what she wants you to think and how she markets herself to get you to be a follower. She’s a normal ass person who definitely doesn’t share everything with the internet. She’s an influencer not someone you personally know.

    • @bil5627
      @bil5627 3 года назад +5

      @@4keelahszn probably lmao that’s what I get a lot 😂 ❤️✨

  • @ashleyanneking
    @ashleyanneking 3 года назад +2839

    FIN AND CLAUDS LITTLE WHISPER CONVERSATION WAS THE CUTEST THING EVERRRRR

  • @1karenLUV
    @1karenLUV 3 года назад +1311

    listening to your story about the iud alone made me want to pass out, looks like i will continue avoiding m*n

  • @eline8109
    @eline8109 3 года назад +1342

    i get so frustrated sometimes because it seems like there isn't one PERFECT option of birth control, all options have cons

    • @mariannap4181
      @mariannap4181 3 года назад +145

      honestly condoms are the easiest, less invasive option and they protect from stds i just hope that guys stop bitching about them

    • @eline8109
      @eline8109 3 года назад +28

      @@mariannap4181 hmm i'm in a relationship so std's aren't a risk for me and i don't really like them

    • @mariannap4181
      @mariannap4181 3 года назад

      @@eline8109 oh okay then i guess it is tricky

    • @dreamcatcherrs
      @dreamcatcherrs 3 года назад +61

      @@mariannap4181 They have the biggest rate of failure and can break :/

    • @mariannap4181
      @mariannap4181 3 года назад +24

      @@dreamcatcherrs yeah they can break for sure but for me its just the best option for now at least. Iud’s really scare me for some reason

  • @capitalr_
    @capitalr_ 3 года назад +180

    As someone who's had several ovarian cysts rupture, I can confirm the level of pain. She is not dramatizing it one bit. It truly feels like someone is taking a knife into your gut. I am so glad the pill is helping you!

    • @alishakellert
      @alishakellert 3 года назад +5

      I had a grapefruit sized cyst rupture and it was awful. She's spot on with the feelings

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 3 года назад

      @@alishakellert is it possible to get regular periods and still have cycts
      I got prescribed DIANE 35, LOCYST , MYOFOLIC SACHET
      I GET REGULAR PERIODS NATURALLY BUT MY ULTRASOUND SHOWED CYCTS ON BOTH OVARY
      RIGHT OVARY HAS MULTIPLE CYCTS
      LEFT OVWRY HEMOGRAPHIC CYSTS
      WILL SKIPPING MEDS BE OKAY FOR ME .?
      Age 20
      Height 5'4
      Weight 61kg
      I get pain from the cysts 😣😣 Mere periods 4 to 5 days hotte hai lekin un hone kaha hai ki 2nd day of periods se lena hai

    • @alishakellert
      @alishakellert 3 года назад

      @@aena5995 yes, it is possible to have a normal cycle with cysts. Continue with the medications your doctor gave.

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 3 года назад

      @@alishakellert this is random af but if my period comes at 8pm on 30th april does tht mean 30th april was the first day of my period? Or from 8pm 30th april to 8pm 1st may is my full first day ? and i am supposed to start the pill on the 2nd day of my period then is it alright if i take it on 1pm on 2nd may ? Apparently my doc said i have pcos cuz i have multiple cysts but my periods have always been regular while ppl with pcos have irregular periods 😞😞

    • @alishakellert
      @alishakellert 3 года назад +1

      @@aena5995 april 30 would be day one, so start pills may 2

  • @Pizzagurl24283
    @Pizzagurl24283 3 года назад +163

    Finneas reminds me so much of my bf. So mushy, so supportive, so expressive about his feelings, my best buddy 🥺❤️

  • @iloveavocados2168
    @iloveavocados2168 3 года назад +981

    I feel like Finneas is the most supportive boyfriend ever

    • @issyg5404
      @issyg5404 3 года назад +16

      ur pfp has me dead DGFSIEHSKVH

    • @groundedzaijah
      @groundedzaijah 3 года назад +8

      Your pfp 😂 I cant with you

    • @LL-wu5ui
      @LL-wu5ui 3 года назад +27

      No, that's how a good bf acts in general.

    • @minaminnie
      @minaminnie 3 года назад +6

      and brother too!!! :)

    • @whatthehellisagrape4496
      @whatthehellisagrape4496 3 года назад +5

      Yes he's so awesome he's a great brother too.
      Dude I'm dying you PFP

  • @amia7588
    @amia7588 3 года назад +611

    I love how Claudia is so real and doesn’t click bait, and she and fin are so cute I love them!!🥰🥰

    • @annam-ck2ux
      @annam-ck2ux 3 года назад +50

      her last video had a clickbait title and thumbnail 😅 no hating i love her but still

    • @yesi07
      @yesi07 3 года назад +19

      She knowingly posts misleading titles , she even said it in her last podcast. But they aren’t too far fetched so ultimately ppl aren’t being duped. Strategies.

    • @musclecars60
      @musclecars60 3 года назад

      @@sweetener1427 She said she's good at doing it without making it seem like clickbait. I think she was referring to one of her recent videos where she made the caption about painting a room pink and she said she did it for clickbait so people would think she was pregnant and want to watch the video. But really, Finneas just thought pink would look cute in that room.
      And also, the thumbnail for this very video. Maybe I missed it, but was there any point in the video where she teared up or started crying? Because it clearly shows it in the thumbnail.

  • @AnaSilvia897
    @AnaSilvia897 3 года назад +108

    Girls GO TO THE DOCTOR, this is her personal experience and a lot of the info depends on every woman’s body. :) glad you are safe claudia

  • @avamaitland911
    @avamaitland911 3 года назад +663

    They need to tell us these things in school like damn 🤧

    • @amartyaprakash897
      @amartyaprakash897 3 года назад +3

      I think they should teach in school about noy having sex before marriage

    • @avamaitland911
      @avamaitland911 3 года назад +23

      @@amartyaprakash897 um ok , well not everyone believes in waiting for marriage so those people need to know about things like the pros and cons of birth control and how to have safe sex 😊👍🏼

    • @angelicalicari8355
      @angelicalicari8355 2 года назад +1

      @@amartyaprakash897 1) Being married doesn't mean you necessarily want to have kids
      2) Birth Control is used to space out pregnancies WITHIN marriage, so that even when you do want multiple kids, you don't have them too close together for your own comfort
      3) Some kinds of Birth Control are used to treat painful uterine or menstrual conditions that have nothing to do with sex
      4) Who are you to decide what information people get about the medical options available for their own bodies?

    • @eleasy1976
      @eleasy1976 2 года назад

      @@amartyaprakash897 AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @eleasy1976
      @eleasy1976 2 года назад

      @@angelicalicari8355 you know something that you can do to replace everything you just said? Self control.
      Who woulda thunk.

  • @beccan14201
    @beccan14201 3 года назад +70

    the fact he still makes you blush.. my entire heart.

  • @FreshStart10310
    @FreshStart10310 3 года назад +212

    I was put on the pill when I was 16 because of ovarian cysts. They naturally prevent/cure the cysts so that’s why they stopped happening when you went back on the pill.

    • @mys8091
      @mys8091 3 года назад +2

      Do you have polycystic ovary syndrome?

    • @shelbynorthrup5535
      @shelbynorthrup5535 3 года назад +7

      not naturally because the pill is a medication, but yes!! I'm so happy its an option too

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 3 года назад

      @@mys8091 yeah i was told to take the pill to cure my cycts which r on BOTH THE FREAKING OVAIRES despite me having regular painfree periods yet my cycts hurt bruh😑😐

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 3 года назад

      @@mys8091 omg she said being on the pill caused it for her , is tht possible?? I was told to take it for 3 months tho for the multiple cycts and hemographich one my heart dropped when she said tht 😢😢 itd getting common young ppl with health issues just last week i got diagnosed with pcos 😭😭 is it possible to get regular periods and still have cycts
      I got prescribed DIANE 35, LOCYST , MYOFOLIC SACHET
      I GET REGULAR PERIODS NATURALLY BUT MY ULTRASOUND SHOWED CYCTS ON BOTH OVARY
      RIGHT OVARY HAS MULTIPLE CYCTS
      LEFT OVARY HEMOGRAPHIC CYSTS 2.6 X 3.2
      WILL SKIPPING MEDS BE OKAY FOR ME .?
      Age 20
      Height 5'4
      Weight 61kg
      I get pain from the cysts 😣😣 can pills shrink these cycts or is surgery necessary

  • @thalyawarthland9209
    @thalyawarthland9209 3 года назад +125

    it s so nice to see your messy house, i feel like it makes us feel a lot better. thank you

  • @natya3121
    @natya3121 3 года назад +149

    The IUD gave me chronic bacterial vaginosis , which is something I RARELY ever get. I was on antibiotics for about two months straight and I couldn’t do it anymore. I told the gyno why I wanted it out & she told me that I was wrong and that the IUD doesn’t do that. She literally made me feel bad bc I wanted it out of my body. I can’t stand when dr’s invalidate your experience.
    The IUD does work for ppl but there’s also ppl who have a bad reaction to it.
    I’m so happy you’re okay & I hope more ppl advocate for themselves when it comes to birth control.

    • @ratherbenapping10
      @ratherbenapping10 3 года назад +16

      Doctors truly can make a patient feel terrible and ignore their concerns

    • @FlyingWithKam
      @FlyingWithKam 3 года назад +4

      Same thing happened to me!
      My gynecologist actually told me that my body hated the IUD and was trying to reject it and immediately took it out.

    • @Bellarriina
      @Bellarriina 3 года назад

      SAME HAPPENED TO ME WITH NY DOCTOR! horrible !!

    • @honey6216
      @honey6216 3 года назад

      How long have u had the IUD before ur pain?

    • @umnia4316
      @umnia4316 3 года назад +6

      Okay super tmi comment, but I’ve heard semen can actually cause bacterial vaginosis because it throws off your vag’s PH, especially if your having sex frequently, like daily. So if you weren’t using condoms/pull out in conjunction with your IUD, that could have been the problem, not just the IUD. But it still sucks that your gyno invalidated your experience like that! Everyones body reacts differently and they shouldn’t use generalizations like that to invalidate your experience.

  • @miehiiep
    @miehiiep 3 года назад +100

    Gurl STAHP with your editing I'm dying it's too GOOD.
    The colours? The timing? The circle you put yourself in for the sponsor? The way the letters fly in?

  • @Prescribedwithlove
    @Prescribedwithlove 3 года назад +76

    she is literally the bigger sister i never had , ly claudia hope your doing amazing ryt now:)

  • @monicalianna3621
    @monicalianna3621 3 года назад +243

    You said as big as a lemon, but my sister's friend had an ovarian cyst the size of a grapefruit! Thankfully she had it removed, but I can't imagine how painful the whole ordeal was.

    • @JackieTalbott
      @JackieTalbott 3 года назад +3

      same (ish) - came here to see if anyone said grapefruit

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 3 года назад

      @@JackieTalbott omg she said being on the pill caused it for her , is tht possible?? I was told to take it for 3 months tho for the multiple cycts and hemographich one my heart dropped when she said tht 😢😢 itd getting common young ppl with health issues just last week i got diagnosed with pcos 😭😭 is it possible to get regular periods and still have cycts
      I got prescribed DIANE 35, LOCYST , MYOFOLIC SACHET
      I GET REGULAR PERIODS NATURALLY BUT MY ULTRASOUND SHOWED CYCTS ON BOTH OVARY
      RIGHT OVARY HAS MULTIPLE CYCTS
      LEFT OVARY HEMOGRAPHIC CYSTS 2.6 X 3.2
      WILL SKIPPING MEDS BE OKAY FOR ME .?
      Age 20
      Height 5'4
      Weight 61kg
      I get pain from the cysts 😣😣 can pills shrink these cycts or is surgery necessary

    • @mizzwanned
      @mizzwanned 3 года назад

      my mom too

  • @HelenMason463
    @HelenMason463 3 года назад +219

    All this makes me think of how sad it is for women who can't afford to have a Gyno on call :( glad you're feeling better Claudia x

    • @ccap3211
      @ccap3211 3 года назад +5

      Usually women with extremely low incomes can get free healthcare through Medicaid. Most women have health insurance through their jobs though.

    • @erinbrooksj
      @erinbrooksj 3 года назад +25

      @@ccap3211 Undocumented folx don't qualify for Medicaid :(

    • @esthekatie
      @esthekatie 3 года назад +5

      Planned parenthood!!

    • @ccap3211
      @ccap3211 3 года назад +1

      @@esthekatie planned parenthood cost money

    • @ccap3211
      @ccap3211 3 года назад +2

      @@erinbrooksj when you say undocumented you mean illegal aliens?

  • @editsbytori
    @editsbytori 3 года назад +246

    “I’ll be down in like 10 minutes”
    “Ok, 10?”
    “Probably 25...”
    So relatable 😭😂

  • @ErinDevon
    @ErinDevon 3 года назад +92

    i could listen to claudia talk FOREVER!! your videos are so good!

    • @baileeehenderson
      @baileeehenderson 3 года назад +1

      Same! Luv how real she is!! Hey!🎄Please subscribe to my RUclips!🎁Doing a huge giveaway if I hit 500 SUBS by the end of December! New VIDEO comes out at 2:30!

    • @404cunt
      @404cunt 3 года назад +2

      @@baileeehenderson stfu

    • @baileeehenderson
      @baileeehenderson 3 года назад

      @@404cunt okay well happy Holidays🎄have a great Friday!

    • @issyg5404
      @issyg5404 3 года назад +1

      GURL I C U EVERYWHERE LMAO

    • @baileeehenderson
      @baileeehenderson 3 года назад

      @@issyg5404 hi queen💖👯‍♀️💓

  • @quinnmcdonald3763
    @quinnmcdonald3763 3 года назад +116

    Claudia's cuteness is what all humans should aspire to be.

  • @stephanieroque5393
    @stephanieroque5393 3 года назад +14

    i’m 13 rn but i’m so thankful claudia shares this type of stuff with us because she’s like our older sister :,)

  • @LexieLombard
    @LexieLombard 3 года назад +2333

    fine FINE i'll do pilates at home ok stop asking

    • @hamsterduh
      @hamsterduh 3 года назад +60

      She makes it look so effortless lol

  • @NonsenseNetwork
    @NonsenseNetwork 3 года назад +34

    Hey Claudia! I’m a physician assistant and I specialize in gynecology. Just wanted to let you know that you did a great job explaining everything! Fainting is actually pretty common when you get an IUD. Uterine manipulation can often cause a vasovagal reaction that leads to fainting. Doesn’t happen to everyone, but it’s definitely a thing!

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +290

    agh birth control is another one of those things we have to go through that most guys wouldnt understand!!!

    • @ratherbenapping10
      @ratherbenapping10 3 года назад +33

      Most? You mean none!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад +8

      @@ratherbenapping10 LOL yea you’re right hahahaha

    • @LL-wu5ui
      @LL-wu5ui 3 года назад +20

      No you don't HAVE to go through it. You CHOOSE to go through it. Some women don't.

    • @LL-wu5ui
      @LL-wu5ui 3 года назад +9

      @@lucindanukari Umm they are clearly talking about pill/IUD etc. You dont have to get those. Condoms exist thank god.

    • @ellcally508
      @ellcally508 3 года назад +6

      @@lucindanukari the anti birth control agenda in these comments is laughable. Omg.

  • @emmapauline7370
    @emmapauline7370 3 года назад +7

    I also fainted getting my IUD in!! It really is a shocking experience and more women need to talk about this. Thanks for being so open & honest.

    • @cmela-v
      @cmela-v 2 года назад

      Omg I feel you.... I almost fainted, I puked 4 times after the insertion. It was just horrible.

  • @ulasonal
    @ulasonal 3 года назад +657

    other people's bucket lists: Climb Everest!!!
    my bucket list: light a candle and do something productive

    • @ulasonal
      @ulasonal 3 года назад

      @@silacakmak8631 ben başka benim adımda biri tanımıyorum... seni tanıyosam da unuttum ğpaosıpğxcğpboxp kusura bakma

    • @ulasonal
      @ulasonal 3 года назад

      @@silacakmak8631 nerden tanışıyoruz ki

    • @ulasonal
      @ulasonal 3 года назад

      @@silacakmak8631 yoo önemli değil burda türk biri olduğunu öğrenmiş oldum ben de... hiç claudiayı takip eden türk görmemiştim benden başka

  • @tomorrowtoday4839
    @tomorrowtoday4839 3 года назад +17

    I’m an ob gyn. It’s called Lo Estrin “eff ee” not “fay.” The Fe stands for the element symbol for iron. Some of the pills contain ferrous fumarate. You took/take 10 micrograms of estrogen in the form of ethinyl estradiol, not 10 milligrams. You probably had corpus luteum cysts; wise to switch back to pills. Try taking an NSAID like Motrin before a procedure, it can reduce cramping and might prevent what sounds like vasovagal syncope. Thanks for sharing this with your audience. Sorry for your scary experiences...

  • @katerpillar3184
    @katerpillar3184 3 года назад +125

    when you were showing the fabletics stuff and kinda swaying back n forth u reminded me of a video game character in the waiting room lmaoooooo

  • @emmapauline7370
    @emmapauline7370 3 года назад +8

    I just got my IUD removed yesterday! Wanted to give my body a break from birth control & I have no regrets. Excited to see if I notice any positive changes 😊

  • @sallysmith5027
    @sallysmith5027 3 года назад +278

    This is why I feel condoms are one of the best contraceptive methods- no hormonal changes to the woman, protects against STDs/STIs, and one of the most affordable & accessible forms of contraception.

    • @dreamcatcherrs
      @dreamcatcherrs 3 года назад +59

      Condoms have the biggest rate of failure so it’s often not an option for everyone as the only contraception

    • @hayleyprice1615
      @hayleyprice1615 3 года назад +45

      @@dreamcatcherrs i swear thats only due to incorrect usage though and that if used correctly theyre essentially faultless

    • @sallysmith5027
      @sallysmith5027 3 года назад +29

      @@dreamcatcherrs that is mostly due to user error such as using it after the expiration date or improper application

    • @dreamcatcherrs
      @dreamcatcherrs 3 года назад +7

      @@hayleyprice1615 yeah but that’s the thing it’s so hard to only rely on that especially if people aren’t using them properly😟

    • @hayleyprice1615
      @hayleyprice1615 3 года назад +10

      @@dreamcatcherrs so true - the education system really needs to be updated especially in terms of sex ed, if people got taught how to use it correctly etc it would be faultless

  • @NicoleKoch
    @NicoleKoch 3 года назад +24

    Wow I didn’t realize the ovarian cysts were so common. I love that you talked about this!!!

  • @aniahacker8767
    @aniahacker8767 3 года назад +28

    all of Claudias videos feel like a warm hug

  • @norway1426
    @norway1426 3 года назад +3

    thank you so much for talking about this and being transparent, I have PCOS and ovarian cysts are no joke, it's so common yet people don't talk about it enough thank you !!!!

  • @cynthialeaf8358
    @cynthialeaf8358 3 года назад +71

    please keep in mind for every publicized monetized “IUD horror story” there are many many IUDs placed and used without incident.

    • @ellcally508
      @ellcally508 3 года назад +8

      Yup. The literature says that the IUD is the BEST form of contraceptive/pregnancy prevention. It produces the least amount of adverse symptoms.

    • @nowayjose2001
      @nowayjose2001 3 года назад +1

      Do you know much about IUDs? I am curious to know from people who have actually used it, I've only been finding medical research

    • @cynthialeaf8358
      @cynthialeaf8358 3 года назад +4

      @@nowayjose2001 yes I do, I’m a physician. Medical research would be the most relevant thing to look at not one off anecdotes or testimonials. So you’re on the right track!

  • @ellafowler985
    @ellafowler985 3 года назад +2

    I love how claudia is not scared to share things and she is comfortable to speak to us❤

  • @badnut
    @badnut 3 года назад +3

    What a vivid storytelling 🥺 I can literally imagine the pain

  • @garymarshstein8992
    @garymarshstein8992 3 года назад +1

    I found you a week ago while in a state of severe disorientation in which I was beginning to recognize I've been in denial of much of my identity for my entire life. I had by far the most unusual week of my life last week. It was dominated from the moment I woke up by an almost nauseous awareness of the presence of a kind of split in my identity. One half of me was the person I always remembered, the other half this new person trying to take over and seemingly in a rush to do so. I had stopped the fighting the new person and was now even in some type of sadomasochistic relationship with them. There were many moments I questioned my sanity, but it wouldn't track very far.
    There was a physical sensation of being completely overwhelmed, in a far more expansive way than I had ever conceived possible over a far shorter period of time. I found myself feeling appreciative for my experience with psychedelics, in a raw psychological sense. I would find myself repeating "this is too much" at various times throughout the day as I felt like I was navigating emotional rapids in real time unlike anything I'd experienced before. A rush of consciousness.
    There was a manic element, but it was offset by the far more concerning feeling of tectonic plates shifting underfoot. Completely destabilizing. A kind of unique exhaustion that comes from having carried unconscious stress for years in your body finally being released, even though I wasn't tired. You would not be out of your rights to question my mental health given this description of symptomology, I certainly did. I've believed I'm bipolar for the better part of a year now and was convinced I've been experiencing delusions of grandeur. Delusions of grandeur were my old identity's last ditch effort to continue to be in denial. The reality appears far more terrifying, which is why I think my mind has been fighting it so hard. Turns out my mind is pathologically resistant to accepting responsibility and there's been a lot of unconscious intelligence at work trying to avoid it.
    After the first four or five days in this state I got to where I wanted to be able to observe the response of someone else who has been subject to a major psychological shock of this nature in an effort to orient myself. I was mistakenly dismissive of the value of fame because of my own value judgment, but it functions more organically with my attention now. I wanted as large a shock as possible and at as young an age as possible because I figured that would yield the most meaningful parasocial feedback.
    I never thought to consider the role the actual subject would have on the process because I didn't expect an outlier. I have been feeling very scared there aren't as many out there as I recently believed. I keep hoping I'm underestimating the number of people, but everything seems to have moved in the other direction and I start to feel like I'm negotiating with myself again. Hopefully I'm being narcissistic, I'm still very much in flux. There is real existential disappointment in the implication I'm anything special. That's probably been the hardest part to process, emotionally. Super isolating and worrying.
    When I was able to rationalize your success, it helped me process my ego dislocation without feeling as insecure about things that had hammered my self-esteem previously. More self-accepting. I'm still feeling insecure about feeling disrespected, which is my old ego trying to hold on. I'm grateful for how you've helped me to understand myself. A moral philosopher before all else. I always underestimated the role of hypersensitivity and viewed it as my own unique weakness.
    Anyway, I hoped my experience might hold some comedic value for you, specifically, and figured it was an appropriate way to say thank you. My intellectual hero is uninterested in such details, even though he draws on a vast ocean of empathy.
    I've been trying to think of ways to make it sufficiently anonymous to send publicly as I am intensely private as you might have guessed. The best analogy I've been able to come up with for how I've felt over the last week is that of a spy having their cover blown. Been rewatching The Americans.

  • @lailahharrison5350
    @lailahharrison5350 3 года назад +20

    omg that finneas and claudia moment was so cute 🥺✨

  • @belamagalhaes7325
    @belamagalhaes7325 3 года назад +2

    Ok I literally LOVE when Claudia does sitting down videos it feels like she’s really talking to you about her stories is SOOO amazing... Claudia if you see this please do more of those!

  • @flamcrit
    @flamcrit 3 года назад +6

    Omg Claudia painting her nails really took me back to those DIY nail art videos she used to make back in the day!! Anyone else? I’m pretty sure I did 4th of July nails inspired by her artistry 😂😂😂

  • @annakap97
    @annakap97 3 года назад +1

    thanks so much for opening up, claudia! when you were talking about the ovarian cyst pain and how scary it is, I 100% understood. it's nice to know other people experience this, even though it's so awful

  • @krelmc
    @krelmc 3 года назад +7

    Ugh this sort of scares me because I’ve had a Mirena for over two years now without any major issues so you’d think you’re in the clear from any of the more severe complications - yikes! I’ve had some weird things happen with mine too (one of the strings just completely fell off one day, which my OB/GYN said they’d never seen happen haha). I know ovarian cysts can be a side effect of Mirena unfortunately. I don’t want to scare people off from IUDs, especially since the internet is flooded with horror stories - they’re a great and uncomplicated option for a lot of women, hopefully myself included! Thanks for sharing your story, though.

  • @hafiymusyrif2368
    @hafiymusyrif2368 3 года назад

    Only brave and strong woman who can be open up about this and reveal it... you’re the most brave woman we’ve ever seen... love youuuuu❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻

  • @MarinaRinaQwerty
    @MarinaRinaQwerty 3 года назад +8

    The only time I’ve had ovarian cyst rupture was after getting my IUD. It can happen due to the increase of adrenaline in your system I’ve read. The doctors don’t tell you but I’ve looked up on online forums and tons of women report the same experience. Doctors don’t always keep up with patient symptoms which is definitely the case in the OBGYN arena.

  • @maggiedonahue8355
    @maggiedonahue8355 3 года назад +6

    I have had the same EXACT experience as you with the same IUD! It feels so good to hear someone else’s poor experience because I feel like all my friends have amazing experiences but I have had the most painful year because of my life and my gyno keeps telling me it’s not the IUD

    • @Bellarriina
      @Bellarriina 3 года назад

      Girl take it out ! My gyn told me the same ! Listen to YOUr Gut ! It’s your body not hers !

  • @cams3387
    @cams3387 3 года назад +3

    Claudia's skin is soooo clear 🥺✨

  • @aleksandraspycha4509
    @aleksandraspycha4509 3 года назад +1

    I rarely write comments but i think have to this time. GIRL YOU OPENED MY EYES. I used to feel this awful pain in my pelvis area from time to time (like few times a year) like a week before period should start and i didn't know what was going on but since my mom had told me that her periods were so so bad i just thought well that's just who i am. The pain was agonizing and i had to take strong pain killers to let it go. And the shivers were very strong and i couldn't have stop them. And then i had the worst pain in my life. Long story short i had a cyst that broke and it started bleeding. So i was rushed to hospital and had surgery and lost almost 2 litres of blood. From that moment i take birth control and never had that again. But was i was trying to say is YOU made me realise what was going on in my body for years. And i am so thankful you're open about this topic and can help educate people. Sorry for my english btw

  • @AishyKrazyKandy88
    @AishyKrazyKandy88 3 года назад +3

    Oh my god, I had an ovarian cyst that ruptured after sex and it was the WORST pain I've had in my entire life. I know EXACTLY how you feel! I had to have three rounds of pain killers just so the pain would lessen enough that I could lie down without crying. My OBGYN also put me on the pill to prevent the formation of anymore too! Thank you for talking about this! I know it's so much more common than people realize and I honestly was never educated on it till it happened to me.

  • @taylormiller4726
    @taylormiller4726 3 года назад

    I love when youtubers talk about real shit like Claudia does. Like some people just pretend like they don’t go through the shit that everyone goes through

  • @ulasonal
    @ulasonal 3 года назад +70

    oldies know what the story is actually about before they watch. i didn't know you had to have it removed tho

  • @miamibeach8814
    @miamibeach8814 3 года назад

    I love how transparent and honest Claudia is

  • @shelbynorthrup5535
    @shelbynorthrup5535 3 года назад +5

    I use the Daysy and LOOOVE it, its similar to natural cycles, I've been using that method (symptothermal) for years and 1100% recommend

  • @madisonperry9928
    @madisonperry9928 3 года назад

    I totally appreciate that this is your job and that you love finding new pieces of clothing, but I think it would be really great to see some transparency from you on what you do with old clothes, any research you have done into slow fashion brands, etc. When promoting brands like Fabletics that normalizes buying new clothes every month, I think it would be great if you could help the other side and at least tell us what you do with the old clothes you don’t wear anymore! I feel like you’ve always been open to learning new things about health and products you use, so I’d love to see you use your platform to talk about this issue and what steps you are taking personally to learn more about it. Thank you and keep up the great work!

  • @lola93652
    @lola93652 3 года назад +206

    You lost me at ‘I bled everyday for 3-4 months’

    • @melmaymom929
      @melmaymom929 3 года назад +3

      I spotted for a month and a half, but the dr tells you to expect 2 months b4 your body gets back in sync.

    • @lola93652
      @lola93652 3 года назад +6

      @@melmaymom929 I wouldn’t be able to handle that mentally

    • @CathrynDianne
      @CathrynDianne 3 года назад +1

      God that would suck. I only spotted for 2 days after getting one and it’s been fine ever since 😊 crazy how people’s experiences are so different

    • @princessmines2716
      @princessmines2716 3 года назад +1

      Amanibs it can happen with pills, i had the arm implant and had spotting till i took it out. bled for 7 months until i took it out and bled an additional month after taking it out

    • @ilygxli
      @ilygxli 3 года назад +1

      lol i bled for a year straight w mine & they kept telling me nothing was wrong. The only reason my bleeding stopped was they FINALLY AFTER A YEAR gave me these patches elderly people use that they told me to barely use bc they are kinda dangerous for younger ppl

  • @nisstomeetya
    @nisstomeetya 3 года назад

    you're really good at storytelling! comprehensive and thorough, detailed yet to the point! loved this whole vlog! just the right amount of talking and montage clips!

  • @carleighalyssa
    @carleighalyssa 3 года назад +411

    Your gyno saying the IUD had nothing to do with the cysts is like my dermatologist telling me diet doesn’t affect my skin lol. Western medicine is backwards

    • @ElizabethSustar
      @ElizabethSustar 3 года назад +8

      ^^^^ this.

    • @agatakaliska4306
      @agatakaliska4306 3 года назад +26

      Agree. Mirena side effects list lists that some women can develop painful ovarian cyct.

    • @LL-wu5ui
      @LL-wu5ui 3 года назад +49

      It didnt have anything to do with it. She would have cysts even if she didnt get IUD. The pill just has the property of PREVENTING cysts and removing them. IUD doesnt do that, but it doesnt make the cysts either.

    • @Bulllski
      @Bulllski 3 года назад

      Amen to that

    • @Elizabethx15
      @Elizabethx15 3 года назад +4

      okay than I am rare because the healthier I eat my skin gets super dry and acne appears. when I eat junk my skin looks better 😬

  • @deannaelaine8769
    @deannaelaine8769 3 года назад +3

    CLAUDIA, HOMEGIRL! I’ve been reconsidering getting an IUD.. the f*ck I am now.. there’s no way. I mean everyone’s experience is different but this confirms it just ain’t for me. I just don’t love the idea of having something in there for years, glad you’re feeling better so far.

  • @Mia-rv6yz
    @Mia-rv6yz 3 года назад +8

    please i can never get enough of her stories

  • @dettymakesart
    @dettymakesart 3 года назад +4

    When I've taken birth control pills (belara) it made me CRAZY. I didn't realised it was because of the pill, I was moody, irritated all the time, jumpy, my depression came back, anxiety, you name it. I stopped taking it because it also made me hungry all the time and I was good with only eating when I was hungry before the pill, but while taking it I found myself constantly snacking and I've gained quite a lot of weight. Stopping was the best decision is my life.

  • @TheHawkerbee
    @TheHawkerbee 3 года назад +109

    Claudia this is so scary 🥺 literally why I’m staying with the pill forever omg

    • @lenalonu5702
      @lenalonu5702 3 года назад +13

      the pill is extremly onhealthy for your body

    • @KayraR1221
      @KayraR1221 3 года назад +14

      I think the pill is worse though, especially when you try to get off it....I just think condoms are the way to go, and after you've ovulated by checking the 3 signs of it (cervical mucus, cervical height, and temperature) then you can go without a condom until your next period

    • @victoriamayrose5219
      @victoriamayrose5219 3 года назад +10

      I have taken the pill but now I have an iud. Its painful to get but in my opinion it was worth it. Everybody is different though. Regardless I would recommend looking into a non estrogen pill since the pill longterm can be somewhat dangerous

    • @alyssabender855
      @alyssabender855 3 года назад +7

      I have had a paragard for almost 6 years now and have had zeroo problems and I highly recommend! Don’t let this video freak you out haha Claudia’s body is already prone to having ovarian cysts.

    • @scortina11
      @scortina11 3 года назад +1

      @@alyssabender855 I have Pargard too!! Best decision of my life so far. Everyone's body is different and the best thing about IUD's is if it doesn't work out you can just have it removed(-:

  • @timirragaither8807
    @timirragaither8807 3 года назад +1

    SOOO glad you shared this! i had an IUD (Skyla) for about two years & it caused me horrid acne even though i didn’t have a period for about 18 months! how i take the pill (Apri) and love it!! it’s really what works with your body!

  • @Celinee55533
    @Celinee55533 3 года назад +12

    The IUD talk was so good to hear, thank you for the info!

    • @ellcally508
      @ellcally508 3 года назад

      Please go to more reputable sources than one anecdote.

    • @Celinee55533
      @Celinee55533 3 года назад

      @@ellcally508 I will be doing that too for sure, thanks :))

  • @juliethonnel9466
    @juliethonnel9466 3 года назад

    Mann ovarian cysts rupturing are not fun!!! I had one episode a few years ago and I fainted, so painful. But apparently they are really common most women have at least one in their life. I love how open you are about it!!! Let’s empower each other because we are absolutely not taught this things in school and there is so much to learn. Thanks Claudia for opening the conversation ⚡️

  • @yane8803
    @yane8803 3 года назад +224

    I had a mini heart attack when I read the title

  • @amynicole8167
    @amynicole8167 3 года назад

    i’m feel like you can talk about anything and i THANK you so much because watching these is so much easier than talking to my mom

  • @amethystzonruiter5454
    @amethystzonruiter5454 3 года назад +16

    I recently had an ovarian cyst rupture that was literally 10cm BIG. Like bigger than a lemon... the day I went to get it surgically removed was the day it ruptured, , absolute HELL. I feel your pain Claudia 🧢

  • @groundedzaijah
    @groundedzaijah 3 года назад +2

    Omggg the editing skills are on another level
    RUclipsr of the decade

  • @Grace-hv2gw
    @Grace-hv2gw 3 года назад +16

    I have a 6cm cyst right now and It’s one cm less before they have to do surgery so I’m just praying that it doesn’t burst or twist on itself 😅

  • @___ray.__1260
    @___ray.__1260 3 года назад +2

    I love her Presents and aura so she just seems so real and sweet - also I’m loving has the nail polish matches her eye color

  • @cookie52700
    @cookie52700 3 года назад +4

    For those of you interested in an IUD there’s an obgyn with a RUclips channel (her name’s Dr. Kristina Dervaitis) and she has SOOO many videos about IUDs answering every question imaginable!!💖

  • @catnus
    @catnus 3 года назад

    I just want to say that this video resonated with me so much. I am someone who suffers with endometriosis and have had 4 ruptured cysts in the past year due to what I have suspected to be the Mirena. It was fine for a year and then I started getting cysts. I fainted and vomited and just worst pain of my life. My doctor said no way could the Mirena cause this since it worked for a while. I’m calling my OBGYN to talk about this. THANK YOU, CLAUDIA FOR BEING SO INFORMATIVE AND AMAZING. You just helped me in so many ways.

  • @alanabraga4413
    @alanabraga4413 3 года назад +6

    And I keep being amazed by Claudia’s editing🥺🤍

  • @ciaraputnam129
    @ciaraputnam129 3 года назад

    Omg Claudia!! My ovarian cysts ruptured back in 2015 and was indeed the worst pain of my life and needed surgery to remove them, and oddly enough I started birth control for the first time after to help avoid the pain and so far so good, but thank you for sharing your story! I thought I was the only one who experienced such a terrible pain 🥲

  • @brandonnkwanzi6730
    @brandonnkwanzi6730 3 года назад +5

    I love Claudia’s editing. So relaxing

  • @blabhblaja
    @blabhblaja 3 года назад +2

    3:15 they all looked so good together!! You should try them all at the same time 🥰 I love to mix and match colours on my nails.
    I tend to get bored faster with only one colour.

  • @maxblack7778
    @maxblack7778 3 года назад +4

    damn by the sound of it i think i may have experienced/am experiencing cysts - that shit is horrible and makes me feel so low and incapable. thank you for sharing i never thought of that

  • @Shannonheg
    @Shannonheg 3 года назад +7

    Sounds nearly identical to my experience with endometriosis! The pill can feel like a lifesaver.

  • @rajshreepardeshi_
    @rajshreepardeshi_ 3 года назад

    I LOVE how you’re always soo honest, open and vulnerable about everything in your life!! I’M SOO PROUD OF YOU BABE!! LOVE YOU AND FINNEAS SM !! Sending you both LOADS OF LOVE AND BLESSINGS!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @_sunchildd
    @_sunchildd 3 года назад +5

    its crazy how much her and bil share the same features! either ppl completely agree, or they completelyyyy disagree and will literally attack someone for saying so lol. they have the same nose, smile, lips and face shape it’s nuts. should b illegal for those two women to be so naturally* beautiful 🥺

    • @yzabellekys
      @yzabellekys 11 месяцев назад

      I never saw it but I guess

  • @siobhanm8721
    @siobhanm8721 3 года назад +1

    for anyone who's curious, I have the arm birth control (nexplanon) and it's so great! a short procedure (10 minutes) and the only part that hurt was the numbing. your arm is sore for a few days and then after that it's completely fine. i've had it for a few months and i've had minimal spotting, my period is almost completely gone. 10/10 recommend

  • @rosie983
    @rosie983 3 года назад +25

    I literally died at the fast paced workout part💀💀

  • @karlagomex6045
    @karlagomex6045 3 года назад +2

    The way ive always been scared of planning and that kind of things, now I learned a lot of things and now I’m not that scared(? Even knowing you’re experience with IUD, I just see it with another point of view, Thanks Claudia!

  • @oliviasilarski7107
    @oliviasilarski7107 3 года назад +3

    I’ve had a great experience with I plan on!!! Highly recommend-painless insertion, had wonky periods for a couple months but it balanced out eventually.

  • @EL-ni6cy
    @EL-ni6cy 3 года назад

    THANK U FOR BEING REAL AND HONEST ABOUT LIFE GETTING MESSY and unorganized... ILY

  • @pollytallulah6394
    @pollytallulah6394 3 года назад +22

    ily claudiaaa, i’m so earlyy

  • @BLUBIBA
    @BLUBIBA 3 года назад

    i love the fact that you are so open about some personal and kinda tabu subjets! love!!

  • @vanessagutierrez9651
    @vanessagutierrez9651 3 года назад +30

    this is the big sister talk i needed

  • @kdalfndnfdjsf1702
    @kdalfndnfdjsf1702 3 года назад

    Love that you are being so open about your experience! We need to learn to talk openly about periods & female issues.

  • @lindseytowle122
    @lindseytowle122 3 года назад +5

    I have a Mirena IUD and I had an ovarian cyst. My OBGYN said that the cysts occur in 10% of women with the IUD.

  • @laurengarcia8794
    @laurengarcia8794 3 года назад

    claudia, no joke, I had the exact same experience with ovarian cysts in 2019. the pain is other-worldly and so scary/confusing/difficult to diagnose... I feel your struggles and am glad we both survived! being a girl is fun

  • @nowam9071
    @nowam9071 3 года назад +7

    I heard SO MANY stories like this plus one from a very close person to me it’s so scary😖😖 thanks for sharing!! Love u💜

  • @abbyandbooks
    @abbyandbooks 3 года назад

    Ugh her transparency is always SO refreshing and I just love her videos. Claudia really definitely and truly has to be my favourite youtuber lol

  • @Sarah-qs8og
    @Sarah-qs8og 3 года назад +29

    “Is 11am still morning?” Well, it isn’t after...noon... 😂❤️

  • @melissagon02
    @melissagon02 3 года назад

    Omg FINALLY someone talks about this horrendous experience!
    I had a similar experience with my IUD last summer. I had a ovarian cyst rupture while I was in an Ochem lab! I literally could not feel my legs from how much pain I had in my uterus and back. I wanted to drop on the floor and crawl my way out of lab. I even contemplating calling 911 but instead slowly walked myself out of lab while crying and still wearing my lab coat, googles, and gloves on. My sister had to drive an hour to pick me up from campus and drive me to the ER. All I could do was lay in my back seat. I got to the ER and they gave me two doses of morphine for the amount of pain I was in.

  • @clytxo1317
    @clytxo1317 3 года назад +19

    Anything entering my uterus is a no for me! Just looking at a iud scares me lol

  • @calclipx
    @calclipx 3 года назад

    I had been diagnosed with ovarian cysts from a young age and was prescribed birth control pills to dissolve them. It made my periods weird of course. Later it turned out I actually had endometriosis - a large endo cyst was strangling my ovary. I ended up having surgery that removed my ovary. Good that you know and can talk about your body, Ms. Claudia. Thanks for sharing.

  • @deepdistances
    @deepdistances 3 года назад +5

    I feel your pain about the ovarian cysts. I had one rupture about 2 years ago, I was bleeding internally and it would not stop. I had to be rushed into emergency surgery and the doctor said I was lucky I came in when I did because I lost over a liter of blood and they told me the cyst was the size of a baseball (so yes they can grow to be that big!!) It was the worst pain I have ever experienced!

    • @chrissyosozzy6465
      @chrissyosozzy6465 3 года назад

      Whats a symptom of a cyst if youre bleeding internally

    • @deepdistances
      @deepdistances 3 года назад

      @@chrissyosozzy6465 well I was having terrible stabbing pain on the one side from my ovary to my rib it hurt to use the bathroom like I physically couldn’t go and i know it’s tmi but when I wiped there were like streaks of blood I knew it wasn’t my period though because of the pain I was experiencing

    • @lexyjeangranger
      @lexyjeangranger Год назад

      They hurt so bad