Howard Hewett- "It's Never Too Late To Say I'm Sorry. 40 Years Is Long Enough!"

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2022
  • Howard Hewett apologizes to his former Shalamar bandmate, Jody Watley, after 40 years of disconnect. Taken from Howard's Facebook Live (FACC), on January 21, 2022.
    Howard Hewett is a Grammy Award-winning singer-songwriter, considered one of the most gifted vocalists of our time. He is best known as the lead singer of Shalamar, and for his esteemed solo recordings.
    Stay in touch with Howard:
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    Twitter: / justavocalist
    Booking information for Howard Hewett:
    Manager: Michael Gardner
    e-mail: MichaelGardnerM@gmail.com
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    Shana@ShanaMangatal.com

Комментарии • 1,9 тыс.

  •  2 года назад +180

    I would DEFINITELY go see a Jeffrey, Jody, and Howard Shalamar concert!!! That would be 💪🏽🔥😍🤩!!!!!!

    • @nanof3593
      @nanof3593 6 месяцев назад +6

      Me too.

    • @youmatter3035
      @youmatter3035 6 месяцев назад +3

      I hear you about the sunglasses and I thought the same thing but the fact that he's doing this at all speaks volumes and we at least need to give him credit for that. Amen 🙏🙏🏿

  • @yvonnewilliams8800
    @yvonnewilliams8800 2 года назад +92

    It’s never too late to say you’re sorry. This is beautiful!

    • @Yenchantress1isaStarr
      @Yenchantress1isaStarr 6 месяцев назад

      Sometimes it is too late. I would love to see how Jody receives this apology.
      I love me some Shalimar music. My adult daughter often gets told that she looks like a young Jody.🥰

  • @Kay-fv7cw
    @Kay-fv7cw 6 месяцев назад +48

    It's good to see and hear him apologize. He also needs to recognize that someone can accept an apology, but that doesn't mean that person is going to go back. Apologize and move on!

    • @gloriathompson6606
      @gloriathompson6606 6 месяцев назад +6

      Amen.

    • @troybutler3055
      @troybutler3055 5 месяцев назад +1

      He actually said he was good but he felt it necessary to do it publicly.

    • @InglewoodsFinest71
      @InglewoodsFinest71 3 месяца назад

      @@troybutler3055 Bro did this for internet clout to validate his own false narrative against Jody wake up. He could have called her although she forgave him, JD, Griffey,there producer decades ago. She addressed this in depth with receipts long ago

  • @dirtybirdytweettweet
    @dirtybirdytweettweet 2 года назад +120

    It takes a real man to publicly admit fault and sincerely apologize. Time heals wounds. I hope they can collectively patch things up.

    • @fromstockton11
      @fromstockton11 9 месяцев назад +11

      Does this mean you will now give Jody her share of the money you stole from her? You asked the CEO of your record label, Dick Griffey, for a $1 million dollar advance for the group and when you did in fact get it, you accidentally forgot to give Jody Watley her share, right? I'm sure it was just an oversight on your behalf, so when can Jody's fans expect for you to make good on that royalty oh "man of gawd"?

    • @user-hx7mi7ml8u
      @user-hx7mi7ml8u 6 месяцев назад +9

      “Time” doesn’t “heal all wounds.” Some are just covered with scars. ☹️

    • @adelehewitt1961
      @adelehewitt1961 6 месяцев назад +1

      Is that howard hewett, looks so different

    • @adelehewitt1961
      @adelehewitt1961 6 месяцев назад

      Ps love shalamar ❤( original)

  • @aviewer2871
    @aviewer2871 2 года назад +119

    Howard, Jody and Jeff spread happiness all over the world in a very difficult business. The three of them bought light to people's lives through song. NO small feat for someone to do.

    • @bossteamentertainment6836
      @bossteamentertainment6836 6 месяцев назад +1

      They STILL bring light. I'm 43 and have always enjoyed them collectively and individually. Not happy to know they never resolved their issue all this time yet now I personally know how misunderstandings can occur and how people can take a long time to get things sorted out.

  • @User-uk6rk
    @User-uk6rk 2 года назад +168

    Owning your wrongs and apologizing is how adults should handle issues.
    *Thank you for being an example to us all.*

    • @joannehines7806
      @joannehines7806 Год назад +5

      Real Talk!! Real Man Stuff!! 💘 🙏 ✌

    • @dotsan8543
      @dotsan8543 6 месяцев назад

      Took a Long time to apologize ! You ment what you said. I believe you were competing with her. She was a senior in the group when you started . She probably will except your apology . You sound as adore you are Blaming her for being hurt . You are saying You don't know what You said . GOD Forbid!!! YOUR Purpose was to Belittle Her with your words. You are still in the flesh man of GOD not in the Spirit !!! MY GODLY OPINION ...

  • @iluvmyboba
    @iluvmyboba 2 года назад +102

    Shalamar had an album entitled "Friends" and it was a gatefold LP. When you opened the album there's a large picture of Jeff, Jody and Howard all smiles with interlocking hands. That's how I always viewed them. And no matter what transpired after that it never tarnished my memory of that image of them smiling and holding hands. I've always loved Shalamar.

    • @MCharlerySmith
      @MCharlerySmith Год назад +5

      I was thinking about that today. It's a shame they made such a great album titled the very opposite of their reality.

    • @leeshepherd5669
      @leeshepherd5669 6 месяцев назад +3

      "Friends is my favorite song by Shalamar... It's a song that lights my heart up !

  • @maegonzales1563
    @maegonzales1563 6 месяцев назад +10

    This is the year of truth and restoration let it begin within ourselves

  • @bieddruhuggyfalsaperla5447
    @bieddruhuggyfalsaperla5447 2 года назад +40

    Shalamar's hits are still golden.

  • @ywoodsmall
    @ywoodsmall 2 года назад +237

    That was beautifully said from the heart. And that's all you can do. Apologize and ask for forgiveness. ❤🙏🏾

    • @christinewomack8999
      @christinewomack8999 2 года назад +2

      Yes, he did his part and that makes GOD happy, what the other people do with that is up to them.

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад +9

      Amen you feel that he truly sorry from his heart

    • @taraMimi717
      @taraMimi717 2 года назад +4

      Amen 🙏🏼

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 2 года назад +3

      @@fredajohnson506
      Precisely I can tell when someone gives a genuine apology vs B.S. lip service

    • @globalismoblackman
      @globalismoblackman 2 года назад +1

      @@sophisticatedmm3632 so which one you think it is ?

  • @BIGGEOFF40
    @BIGGEOFF40 6 месяцев назад +66

    A good man knows when he's wrong but a solid man apologizes for his wrong doing.

  • @francislester6327
    @francislester6327 Год назад +27

    Being a white working class man from Scotland , you Howard, Jody and Jeffrey were my lifeline from the drab day to day drag of life. Me and my friend would let each other know when you were appearing on tv whether that was Top if the pops or the Tube on which you done a fantastic live performance by the way back then, we were mesmerised by Jeffrey’s high vocals and his moon walk, your and Jody’s vocals which were so complimentary to each other . I still find your music relevant here in 2023, it took me through relationship break ups and good times in the 80’s. I’m 63 now and Howard we all make mistakes and I tip my hat to you making this apology and I feel your hurt in looking back as I have done this very much to my my own detriment. We can only say sorry and grow as a person not to take what we done when we were younger into our final years. Regret is a terrible thing Howard , god bless you and I hope to get ticket to come and see you in Glasgow this year . 👍🏻🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @pauldeveaux1517
      @pauldeveaux1517 6 месяцев назад +6

      Scotland! Wow, Shalamar really was a global sensation!

  • @valeriefullilove5198
    @valeriefullilove5198 2 года назад +163

    I pray Jody gets to speak on her version from her heart and is heard, validated, and understood.

    • @tara3870
      @tara3870 2 года назад +34

      She already did. Read her open letter!

    • @JLPerryTV
      @JLPerryTV 2 года назад +58

      She did it years ago when she posted receipts. She proved that she wasn’t bitter anymore, she forgave them, and she had moved on. But it doesn’t mean she has to work with them again.

    • @edwardjones717
      @edwardjones717 2 года назад +13

      @@tara3870 If she actually did then why does Howard act like he doesn't know anything about it. Maybe he needs to read this open letter you are talking about or did he and he's still not satisfied?

    • @edwardjones717
      @edwardjones717 2 года назад +9

      @@JLPerryTV Did Howard not get this information? And if he did then why is he continuing to drag this out?

    • @lynx70123
      @lynx70123 2 года назад +26

      His apology sounded a little gaslighter-ish to me. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @MrHebrew1974
    @MrHebrew1974 2 года назад +121

    Well said mr. Howard some people don’t live 40 years it’s time to apologize and bring healing and closure!!!!!

  • @tanfel4
    @tanfel4 2 года назад +95

    OMG! Your apology lifted my spirit. This apology is so long over-due, but right on time. The fact that God touch your heart to finally be the person to say sorry is so monumental. I believe your apology is sincere. You should start to feel better physically and spiritually by offering this apology to Jody. Praise God! This is how God works by offering us Grace and Mercy when we mess-up but asked for forgiveness. Jody, if you are watching, please don't let another day pass and not let your long-lost group mate, brother, friend know that you forgive him. You guys are so great together, all 3 of you. Your fans want to know that you love and respect each other. Jody, forgiveness is for you too.

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад +5

      Amen more people need be like Howard maybe not be utube apologize but go to that person in private

    • @Raggio4036
      @Raggio4036 2 года назад +2

      AMEN 🙏 NO PROMISED DAYS

    • @LOla-ig1kv
      @LOla-ig1kv 6 месяцев назад +1

      Please
      Give her Time.
      All these years and them deep wounds aren't just gon fade.
      God can do All things, but we are not Jody who endured without our input
      So....
      Let her B. She has Time.❤

    • @LOla-ig1kv
      @LOla-ig1kv 6 месяцев назад

      @@user-fs3ut4vz5t who you talking to Willis?

    • @LOla-ig1kv
      @LOla-ig1kv 6 месяцев назад

      @@user-fs3ut4vz5t Read. Reading Is FundaMental.

  • @lamontconyers1715
    @lamontconyers1715 6 месяцев назад +19

    Much respect to Howard for apologizing! That is maturity!

  • @ChristopherX30
    @ChristopherX30 2 года назад +46

    That's all she ever needed from you. A simple apology goes a long way.

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 2 года назад +1

      A genuine apology, which he gave

    • @aj25055
      @aj25055 2 года назад

      Hopefully. Let’s see if she accepts it.

    • @kllwc7772
      @kllwc7772 6 месяцев назад +1

      This apology is a year ago and since then Jeffrey has been untruthful about Jody during a live concert and she clapped back with receipts.All Jody wants is to move on with her life and not be involved in any unnecessary drama 😊

  • @KLBanks
    @KLBanks 2 года назад +12

    Mr. Hewett, I had the opportunity... the privilege... to sing backup for you a few years ago at Morgan State, in Baltimore, MD. I told you then how much I have always respected you as a vocalist and performer. Today, I would like to express my appreciation for you as a man and a Child of God. I pray that you and your Sister in Song can break bread; one day soon and reflect on the positive contributions that each and everyone of you have made to music and to life. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing. God bless you.

  • @prettynikki3667
    @prettynikki3667 2 года назад +51

    I would still go see them in concert tomorrow if I could, it's never to late to heal& be free it's what life is about , learning, teaching, encouraging & going back home to our creater 💜

  • @christinewest6480
    @christinewest6480 6 месяцев назад +17

    How beautiful Howard. You're on my playlist and one of my favorite artists. It takes a real man to publicly apologize for whatever occurred. God bless you & may those old wounds heal themselves. Love ❤️

  • @davidgrant6263
    @davidgrant6263 2 года назад +62

    It took a hell of a man to apologize this way. Much respect. I hope Jody accepts his apology and they can move on and possibly create more music together. It was special... It was Magic!

    • @gabeeskridge8291
      @gabeeskridge8291 2 года назад +6

      Facts obviously he didn't want to move forward without getting it off his chest. No matter how it's received , much respect to the guy.

    • @InglewoodsFinest71
      @InglewoodsFinest71 2 года назад +1

      A real G would have got at her in private, jmo

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад

      But if have good heart and do what right no what happens God honor that

    • @ellenjones7819
      @ellenjones7819 2 года назад +1

      He should have done it privately. If she refused to take his call or speak face to face, then write her letter and then let it go.

  • @preciousone9377
    @preciousone9377 2 года назад +135

    I felt this and I’m so proud of you for doing this! I pray that your message finds that place in Jody’s heart that frees her from this thing that has kept y’all apart all of these years. I literally cried when Shalimar broke up! Please please find your way back to each other and to US your unwavering fans! We love & miss y’all’s magic together!!!!🎶💜🎶💜

    • @cmclayton1986
      @cmclayton1986 2 года назад +7

      I felt it too and I think this is what she needs. A sincere apology

    • @jessicawright9434
      @jessicawright9434 2 года назад +1

      He apologized before to her.

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад +2

      Amen we all fall short of God glory but one thing God do love when person admit their wrong because it's says in his word if you have wrong a brother sister go to them get it right now on them rather they expect your forgiveness but as long as you know it's was from the heart let God deal with that person

  • @GiGi-wm9ec
    @GiGi-wm9ec 2 года назад +84

    Words cut deep but a heartfelt acknowledgment of ones shortcomings can break the chains. I hope this message reaches Jody and you all can meet soon. Peace and Blessings!!

    • @sonyamims5600
      @sonyamims5600 Год назад +1

      Mr. Howard. God bless you! Thank you for being an example for others to follow. Blessings!

    • @fromstockton11
      @fromstockton11 9 месяцев назад +7

      Does this mean you will now give Jody her share of the money you stole from her? You asked the CEO of your record label, Dick Griffey, for a $1 million dollar advance for the group and when you did in fact get it, you accidentally forgot to give Jody Watley her share, right? I'm sure it was just an oversight on your behalf, so when can Jody's fans expect for you to make good on that royalty oh "man of gawd"?

    • @amirjahleelbaniephraim4435
      @amirjahleelbaniephraim4435 7 месяцев назад

      @@fromstockton11Not true. None of them got what they were supposed to receive. What’s it to you? Person of ha satan.

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 6 месяцев назад

      @@fromstockton11 Anytime I hear a mofo start quoting: "the bible said", "I'm a man of Gawd", "I'm not perfect"....n***a please! Shalamar is NOTHING without Jody. She is forever "traumatized" by what happened. The record label's daughter could NEVER reach Jody's plateau, and she can't sing.
      Period! The music business is tough, a lot of times "EGOS", drugs, infidelity, MONEY, etc. ruins these groups. 40 years is a loooong time. KARMA will always level the playing field. "DO NOT be deceived. GOD is not mocked. For whatsoever a man soweth, so shall he reap." (Galatians 6:7)
      Now Howard, "Take THAT to the bank!"

  • @tinytowz4471
    @tinytowz4471 2 года назад +12

    This is so beautiful to see. Another great example is what's finally been healed between Janet Hubert & Will Smith.

  • @trudycurney4492
    @trudycurney4492 2 года назад +75

    You’ve done the right thing in asking for forgiveness to the one who was deeply offended. Prayerfully, your apology will be received in the loving spirit it was given. May God have His way in both of your hearts and spirits & you both will find peace with yourselves and the Lord. May goodness and mercy follow you all the days of your lives. Continue to be blessed!

    • @chesterjade7630
      @chesterjade7630 2 года назад +2

      As long as you ask for forgiveness you can heal. If the other person doesn't accept your asking for forgiveness then it becomes their problem.
      As we get older we learn and grow hopefully.
      With God all things are possible.

  • @17LeeLee
    @17LeeLee 2 года назад +108

    Amazing that you are doing this in a public "forum". This speaks to the Man you are. You guys brought me so much joy in my teenage years. I hope she receives this with the love that you delivered it.

    • @frederickbradford7799
      @frederickbradford7799 2 года назад

      @Ja Ron 1417 as a fan u gotta be aware that THE jody watley we been gettin in most dated convo bout the group suggest she may not take 2 kindly hearin apology with all of us

    • @griffmustard
      @griffmustard 2 года назад +7

      Unless he has tried to contact her every other way possible, and got no response, and this is a last resort, then OK, but I hope this PUBLIC plea is not his first attempt, because now the public knows that Howard has reached out, and now Jody is ON THE SPOT to respond, and if she doesn't, the Court of Public Opinion might have something unfavorable to say about her not responding.

    • @mustafahajj
      @mustafahajj 2 года назад +5

      Kudos because he's utilizing public forum? Suppose this is nothing more than a business move?
      Why must the apology be made public? I would like to see them all at concert, however, if the others doesn't buy into this 40yr late apology then I support that as well.

    • @davincibarnette
      @davincibarnette 2 года назад +1

      @@mustafahajj Thank you.

    • @mikeomolt4485
      @mikeomolt4485 2 года назад +3

      @@griffmustard Public opinion is irrelevant. What ever was said is a private issue between the two of them. An apology, if intended to be sincere, should be in private as well. Attempting to force a public response from a RUclips video is more of a publicity stunt than an apology. Howard hasn't told the 'Court of Public Opinion" precisely what he said to Jody that was so offensive, so we can't judge him, but 'Court of Public Opinion' is to judge Jody for not responding. Jody's public acceptance of Howard's public apology would be what . . . . Ah yes, the Shalimar reunion tour.

  • @monique0096
    @monique0096 2 года назад +31

    EPIC! Howard, Jodi, Jeffrey: That’s the only SHALAMAR! Thank you for extending the Olive Branch! HalleluYah! All Praise to The Most High!

  • @pekingz9136
    @pekingz9136 2 года назад +21

    You’ve earned my deepest respect Sir. May God bless you.

  • @joanholley8547
    @joanholley8547 2 года назад +172

    Wow... Howard it's hard to say those magic words (I'm sorry) sometimes, and it takes a BIG person to do it, especially after all those years. But, you did it!!! ... God bless you my brother, and may Divine Peace fill you up. God will take care of the rest. 😘💕💕

    • @rubyjones9951
      @rubyjones9951 2 года назад

      Absolutely

    • @mustafahajj
      @mustafahajj 2 года назад +5

      Imagine had those words were said sooner?

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад

      Amen

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 2 года назад

      Amen some people can't apologize or say I'm sorry. They have too much pride/ ego.

    • @InglewoodsFinest71
      @InglewoodsFinest71 2 года назад +3

      Why he go public and not send her a DM!? 😎 What’s so big about this?

  • @corettarobinson5846
    @corettarobinson5846 2 года назад +24

    It takes a real person to say I'm sorry. I commend you Howard

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад +2

      Amen because so many people are full of.pride

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 2 года назад

      @@fredajohnson506
      Amen I just mentioned this in another comment. Full of pride & ego.

  • @Wilson632
    @Wilson632 6 месяцев назад +18

    Thank you Howard for giving your sister her flowers while she's alive. with all God's love hope she'll accept.

  • @mrogers7110
    @mrogers7110 2 года назад +13

    I loved the fact that you apologized and asked for her forgiveness. We have no problem with all the hurtful words spoken with no regard but often struggle with just two. That was so touching and real. Thank you! I love your thoughtfulness and your spirit!!!

  • @BillieSlum
    @BillieSlum 2 года назад +7

    Here after VladTV....triple salute OG! Takes a real one to say I'm sorry on a public platform

  • @mrkellycottle4592
    @mrkellycottle4592 2 года назад +305

    Shalamar to me will always be Howard , Jody and Jeffery. I was a big fan for many reasons. No disrespect to the former members. But you guys were part of the soundtrack of my youth. However when fame and attention is thrown at most of us it creates a opportunity for the adversary to capitalize. I’m so glad Howard Hewitt did this. You guys together are apart of Black American culture. From the vocals to the Pop. I was a popper myself back then and I hope there’s a second time around because it better then the first time. So There it is😉

    • @donalddavis6689
      @donalddavis6689 2 года назад

      Oh My Gosh!! Such Words Of Wisdom 🙏 🙏.. All I Can Preach.

    • @astinmartin413
      @astinmartin413 2 года назад +3

      Well, you learn something new every day 😬😅🤦🏾‍♀️ I thought they were the originals.

    • @mrkellycottle4592
      @mrkellycottle4592 2 года назад

      Is Micki Free a former member or not. I named the original member did I or did I not🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @vernelllevingston1800
      @vernelllevingston1800 2 года назад +4

      Well Said No point left undone

    • @mrkellycottle4592
      @mrkellycottle4592 2 года назад

      @@mustafahajj I repeat. Howard, Jody and Jeffery. Did you read my statement or are you looking for a argument?

  • @keisha4620
    @keisha4620 8 месяцев назад +2

    40 years in the wilderness...thanks for making it out. Thanks for humbly waking in forgiveness.

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 2 года назад +8

    One of the best groups of all time. With Jody being the “IT” girl.

  • @darendee5682
    @darendee5682 2 года назад +118

    This was awesome Howard, I hope this helps heal the spirit to all that are involved.

    • @justsaved3876
      @justsaved3876 2 года назад +7

      Amen, I hope do as well

    • @ericragland1733
      @ericragland1733 2 года назад +1

      It didn’t seem sincere to me.🤷🏾‍♂️ He wants a tour.

  • @honeylove7678
    @honeylove7678 2 года назад +50

    Howard Hewett you are the man. To take the time to express your heart asking forgiveness is so touching beyond words. I know your prayer will get delivered and answered and thankyou for showing us how important forgiveness is.

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад

      Amen God will deal with her heart because they were best of friends once

  • @Tfolife528
    @Tfolife528 2 года назад +4

    One of the most humble men alive! Got to meet him at Mableton House here in Atlanta! He’s fine as wine too!

  • @DameyunHenry-fr7jl
    @DameyunHenry-fr7jl 6 месяцев назад +13

    GOD BLESS THIS MAN FOR WHAT HE IS DOING WE ALL NEED FORGIVENESS AMEN and AMEN

  • @junebugg1927
    @junebugg1927 2 года назад +18

    Wow, that's huge. God sees you Howard, and God knows your heart. I believe you. God bless.

  • @adrienneallen4747
    @adrienneallen4747 2 года назад +183

    I believe this message with bless someone else to forgive and I pray Ms. Jody will receive the message in love. I still play so much of Shalmar because it's the kind of music that is missing today ( in my opinion) but more than that you guys together just made me feel good. God Bless you all

    • @coramosley3881
      @coramosley3881 2 года назад

      Bobby lashley my boyfriend helping me with business in the middle school is the best 👌💕Gertrude heartening in the future now kevinstiblenBillyWilliamsTaylorWilliams the world now

    • @JLPerryTV
      @JLPerryTV 2 года назад +12

      She already forgave him. It doesn’t mean she has to work with him again.

    • @cindythereal547
      @cindythereal547 2 года назад +11

      The sunglasses are giving off negative vibes. There are rules to apologizing and the first is to look the person you're apologizing to in the eyes (when possible...in this case it was possible...even if it was through a lens).

    • @chipnormandy4537
      @chipnormandy4537 2 года назад

      This is so fake and insincere. Those so called "friends" never called you on it before? You said those are friends that will tell you if you're wrong...so they didn't tell you you were wrong for 40 years? Some "friends" those are.
      And, you only "prayed" about this last night? You did not "pray" about this over the past 40 years? You "sat" on this for 40 years, did not "pray" about it then, did not seek advice from your "friends" then - but only in the PAST FEW DAYS? Because in the PAST FEW DAYS , you went on Vladtv and you said you had no idea "what Jody's disagreement was about "to this day!". And then you followed up with saying that the problems were about, "young people growing up". What are you referring to specifically, Howard, when you say the problems were about "young people growing up", because just moments earlier you said you did not know to this day what the "disagreements were about". Make up your mind coward howard what lie your gonna push enough times and hopefully people will believe it.
      Why do cowards always use religion to cover for their inability to man-up and be responsible for their lives?
      If you are "truly, truly, truly sorry" - pay Jody Watley the money you absconded with. If you are truly sorry as you say you are - give Jody Watley the money you owe her. Jody moved on a long time ago so don't make it sound like she's been "sitting on this" like you were. You were the one sitting on this. You just got religious last night? Or, were you religious 10, 15, 25, 35 years ago but still didn't care about apologizing to Jody?
      None of what you just said sounds sincere. You make it sound like Jody was the one who went behind your back and obtained a $1 million dollar ADVANCE and didn't share it with her group. YOU did that! And, you make it sound like she was the villain back then. The one thing that I'm really satisfied about is that over the past 40 years I never purchased any of your music. You are despicable.

    • @nathanielholmes6630
      @nathanielholmes6630 2 года назад +8

      Cindy... I was hoping that Howard would have taken the shades off-even just for a moment💁🏿‍♂️

  • @markgillum5709
    @markgillum5709 2 года назад +22

    Only the three of them know what truly went down and how they feel at this moment. That being said, it takes a lot to apologize and accept responsibility, even all these years later. And I certain;y am not one to judge the depth or sincerity of the apology, but here it is and it was made. As fans, we are greedy for the performance, the possible reunion and the happily ever after. We can only hope that Jody can accept it for what it is worth and the three of them can work things out while they are all still here and able to create magic again, not just for us, but for them as well.

    • @frayedends7291
      @frayedends7291 Год назад +9

      I hear ya....but at the same time sometimes there are wrongs that one can't make right. Bridges get burned with no way to reconnect.

  • @exploregreer1048
    @exploregreer1048 2 года назад +11

    Forgiveness transforms anger and hurt into healing and peace. Praying this group sees God's Grace and Mercy. ❤🦋

  • @yadadoe
    @yadadoe 2 года назад +40

    It's never too late to apologize. I can feel the sincerity here.

    • @DocMatthews0311
      @DocMatthews0311 2 года назад +4

      Let’s ask the person who he’s apologizing to

    • @BrotherJudahisreal
      @BrotherJudahisreal 2 года назад +3

      So true, as long as you're alive it's not too late to apologize. I felt the sincerity in his words myself, they caused me to shed a tear.

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад

      Amen

    • @stepforJesus
      @stepforJesus 2 года назад

      I am glad to hear your message.I am glad you know how to apology. Words stick and hurts.
      I definitely deserve an apology but you are forgiven. God plan.

  • @shednotes3016
    @shednotes3016 2 года назад +19

    I listened to "Right here" soon after listening to this message. "Right here" is the time. So many legends are moving on from this plane of life. Shalamar is legendary and it would be maasive for you and Jody to "talk" live in person. No cameras, mics, or hype. If Will and Janet do it for their souls, this moment can be done for you all as well. Let the true healing begin. We all have an expiration on this plane. May love win beyond the past.

  • @beliefsmanifested8408
    @beliefsmanifested8408 Год назад +4

    When we know better, we do better. Our Spiritual walk is for EVERYONE who may find their way in our path while we journey toward TRUTH.

  • @aug29ochi
    @aug29ochi 6 месяцев назад +1

    This apology nearly made me cry
    I really love Shalama living in the UK seeing Shalama as my first concert at Wembley stadium in 1983 was the epitome of style grace and showmanship thank you for the years of entertainment at 56 life moves so fast and one simple word can make a world of difference ❤

  • @nikiaj2390
    @nikiaj2390 2 года назад +17

    Howard, I'm so glad that you choose to finally honor her with an apology. It shows so much growth on your end. No matter how small, it shattered her soul and heart. I pray that she opens her heart and hears your apology. I'm so proud of you for showing us the power of apologizing. I pray that God gets the victory and that you two are able to reconcile- even if you never tour again- that you two can be connected and that a friendship is renewed and restored. God Bless!!!

  • @younique220
    @younique220 2 года назад +45

    I really respect and appreciate this. I hope she find it in her heart to accept your apology Howard ❣

  • @streetgainer
    @streetgainer 2 года назад +7

    This is good, clear your conscience, admit your wrongs, ask for forgiveness and say you’re sorry. You will immediately feel so much better.

  • @twb123
    @twb123 2 года назад +6

    I’m in my 30’s and Howard Hewitt is like my mom’s favorite singer til this day. I surprised her and took her to one of his concerts last year when he came to North Carolina and we had so much fun! My parents turned me on to some of the best music growing up, so I listen to Shalamar literally every time I want to listen to music, or if I’m in the car just driving along. The sound and music is just so amazing and just gives the best feeling inside. To see all the original members reunite would be so very amazing a fan of all of you.

  • @16davelle
    @16davelle 2 года назад +33

    Way to go Mr.Hewett for as long as a person is still breathing ,walking this earth and is in sound mind then saying "i'm sorry " is never too late.It is when a person is no longer amongst the living that saying "i'm sorry" is too late.Better to send a person flowers while they are still here than to send them because or when they left us.

  • @shannonD68
    @shannonD68 Год назад +55

    I swear. If I had 3 million dollars to pay Howard, Jody, and Jeffrey to perform for just 1 hour, I would. I really want to see THIS line up return. They ARE the soundtrack to my childhood and I will always cherish them and the most memorable music they made.

  • @berrysweet2321
    @berrysweet2321 2 года назад +3

    That was some real feel good music back in the day.

  • @clitcarma
    @clitcarma 6 месяцев назад +3

    That was a grown man's words... Love it.

  • @williamratliffe2606
    @williamratliffe2606 2 года назад +6

    I need to see Howard and Jodi hug.

  • @melindamontgomery-jones4371
    @melindamontgomery-jones4371 2 года назад +7

    Such a lovely gesture. No one is promised tomorrow and honestly, it's never too late to apologize. God bless you. I pray that all is or will be resolved.

  • @aconater
    @aconater 2 года назад +7

    I takes an honorable man to recognize his shortcomings and embrace humility, I respect Howard Hewitt that much more I’d love to see the classic 3 of Shalamar regroup and bring good times to us who were raised on their music!!💯❤️

  • @MotivationXcelleration
    @MotivationXcelleration 2 года назад +3

    Forgiveness is a Huge Healer... God Bless you

  • @jayedee4269
    @jayedee4269 2 года назад +16

    Howard, as a man of God. that was big of you to extend the olive branch. God willing, the fence will be mended. Some people willingly carry grudges to their grave. You can only pray that won't be the case. Lastly, I saw you years ago at CCC New Years Eve service in Brooklyn, NY. Thanks for the blessing of your ministry. It was the perfect gift to usher in the new year. I've always enjoyed you and Shalamar. You guys were definitely a big part of the soundtrack to a generation. I see you doing it again.

  • @MzpinkHollywood
    @MzpinkHollywood 2 года назад +27

    I appreciate your transparency and honesty Mr. Howard Hewett, God bless you Man of God 🙏🏾✝️🙌🏾

    • @chipnormandy4537
      @chipnormandy4537 2 года назад

      This is so fake and insincere. Those so called "friends" never called you on it before? You said those are friends that will tell you if you're wrong...so they didn't tell you you were wrong for 40 years? Some "friends" those are. And, you only "prayed" about this last night? You did not "pray" about this over the past 40 years? You "sat" on this for 40 years, did not "pray" about it then, did not seek advice from your "friends" then - but only in the PAST FEW DAYS? Because in the PAST FEW DAYS , you went on Vladtv and you said you had no idea "what Jody's disagreement was about "to this day!". And then you followed up with saying that the problems were about, "young people growing up". What are you referring to specifically, Howard, when you say the problems were about "young people growing up", because just moments earlier you said you "did not know to this day" what the "disagreements were about". Make up your mind what lie your gonna push enough times and hopefully people will believe it.
      Why do cowards always use religion to cover for their inability to man-up and be responsible for their lives? If you are "truly, truly, truly sorry" - pay Jody Watley the money you absconded with. If you are truly sorry as you say you are - give her the money you owe Jody Watley. Jody moved on a long time ago so don't make it sound like she's been "sitting on this" like you were. You were the one sitting on this. You just got religious last night? Or, were you religious 10, 15, 25, 35 years ago but still didn't care about apologizing to Jody? None of what you just said sounds sincere. You make it sound like Jody was the one who went behind your back and obtained a $1 million dollar ADVANCE and didn't share it with her group. YOU did that! In recent days you went on Vladtv and said you really didn't know what the "disagreement" was between you and Jody back then! You said it was " just us all growing up. We were young and just growing up". Now, a few days later you are trying to apologize to Jody? Why? I thought you didn't know what the disagreement was all about? You went on to say that "to this day I don't know what that was all about." But now you're apologizing. Make up your mind what lie you're gonna use. Stick to one lie, dude. And, you make it sound like she was the villain back then. The one thing that I'm really satisfied about is that over the past 40 years I never purchased any of your music.

    • @fredajohnson506
      @fredajohnson506 2 года назад +1

      Amen he a real man

  • @superherosoulsinger9041
    @superherosoulsinger9041 2 года назад +3

    Life and Death are in the power of the tongue. Words can crush ones spirit or lift ones soul. Thanks again.

  • @davidmosley6176
    @davidmosley6176 2 года назад +4

    A great Man of God made a statement as such Never hurt someones feelings why because that may be all that they have. Blessing Howard it takes a real man to apologize

  • @janiej1966
    @janiej1966 2 года назад +12

    Howard,
    🙏🙏🙏 to have found this 45min ago.
    THANK YOU Howard..... Keep sharing what YOU do because most of us hear what your saying 🤔.
    We live and we learn. And we must forgive and forget. I Hope Jody will forgive because I'm sure you've forgiven too!
    Decade's ago..... Is deep.
    Let it go Howard and give it to GOD.....
    You've done all you can do

  • @quincywilliams2907
    @quincywilliams2907 2 года назад +3

    I’m so proud of you for stepping up as a real man. God bless you

  • @rightonwithritahamlett439
    @rightonwithritahamlett439 6 месяцев назад +1

    WHAT A BLESSING

  • @tommyjohnson3294
    @tommyjohnson3294 2 года назад +1

    I respect you so much because we all need to be able to say I am sorry. Life is short.

  • @serpentinefire77
    @serpentinefire77 2 года назад +4

    Shalamar as a group bought so much joy to us all. Jody, Jeffrey & Howard, thank you. Kudos to Howard for apologising to Jody for the hurt he caused her.

  • @darrellshaver8801
    @darrellshaver8801 2 года назад +3

    Like Howard sung.My number one saying when I testified every time in church.I wanna thank you God for giving me one more chance to raise my voice and to give you praise.Amen.

  • @shyman99
    @shyman99 2 года назад +2

    I think it s about time for the second time around. God bless you, Howard.

  • @jazzyladyjae7669
    @jazzyladyjae7669 2 года назад +1

    I agree, as long as there's breath in your body, its never too late to say 'Im Sorry' ...

  • @corneliuswhite5139
    @corneliuswhite5139 2 года назад +10

    We all need to heal. Any type of rift within our culture affects us all...especially something that was so beautifully effective as the music of Shalamar. It's an issue that also includes the Griffey family. This is not The Supremes where members are dead and gone. All of you are alive and well. We need to see you exhale, for the culture, for the music, for the legacy. 🙏🏽

  • @cassie101
    @cassie101 2 года назад +68

    Very commendable of you Howard to get to this point!
    We all have to get to that growing point in life to even open up to reach out to the people we have harmed or hurt..Good for you Howard. I just hope Jody is finally open enough to receive it. I would definitely love for you guys to reunite and work together again as a group

  • @darondawson6566
    @darondawson6566 2 года назад +9

    HE DEFINITELY SINCERE, I CAN HEAR THE PAIN/HURT IN HIS VOICE

  • @brendahouse8418
    @brendahouse8418 2 года назад +7

    Owning our actions and acknowledging our part in any wrong doing is the hardest pill to swallow - and even more difficult to admit outload. Your humility and sincerity is inspiring Howard. God bless all involved. Praying for healing and forgiveness. Praying the the next 4o years are renewed!! 🙏🙏

  • @REESCOMUSIC4EVER
    @REESCOMUSIC4EVER 2 года назад +11

    Dear Howard, I truly wish that you could realize the incredible impact that classic Shalamar (Jeffrey, Jody & Howard) had on me personally growing up. Your group represented so many positive things for young black men and women around the world. You created beautiful music, you were beautiful people, you dressed so dope, the image of 3 beautiful black people making beautiful music for the world inspired me to pursue music and songwriting. The sound that Leon Sylvers created around your 3 voices was undeniable and most fans will agree that there is something magical about the blending of Howard's voice with Jody's voice. There is a signature vibe that no other group had at that time. It was spiritual. I remember when Jody Watley accepted the award for Best New Artist at the 1988 Grammy Awards. The tears she cried in that moment were tears of vindication and of a deeper hurt that she was carrying within her for years. Winning that Grammy was a testament to the significant contributions she made to the look, sound, and appeal of Shalamar years earlier. Her voice was the original voice that helped define the Shalamar sound from the very beginning. When Howard joined the group a few years later the group truly became a visual and musical powerhouse. I am a huge fan for life and I pray that Jody receives your message in pure love and it helps to release any lingering pain, hurt, fear, animosity, or doubt that may dwell within her heart. (She is such a beautiful soul). You guys are too dope to be apart anymore. Long Live The Magic & The Music of SHALAMAR. I pray that the three of you will reunite and create something special for your MILLIONS of fans around the world. We are still here awaiting your return to the studio and the stage. Take Care & God Bless.

    • @tprice2296
      @tprice2296 2 года назад +3

      Yesssss too all of this 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @edwardjones717
      @edwardjones717 2 года назад +1

      I'm quite sure that he does know that as he said that Shalamar is a part of all their legacies despite the fact that all 3 of them went their seperate ways and accomplished other things.

  • @rarabarak825
    @rarabarak825 2 года назад +6

    Howard I love you! I've been loving you for over 40 years no lie! I met you so many times over the years, and you were always so humble and gracious with me. Even though that was my experience with you. I do know that you cannot tell someone when and how to get over a wrong that was done to them. I love Jody too, and I have been hoping for a road to reconciliation for you two. You reached out and Jody will respond when she is good and ready. That is all you can ask for. Peace out!

  • @Theennovative1
    @Theennovative1 6 месяцев назад +1

    That is taking accountability for your actions and not minimizing, deflecting or placing blame. Well done.

  • @moo-moo74
    @moo-moo74 6 месяцев назад +2

    Pause 1st but Mr. Hewett, you were hiding your eyes behind those sunglasses/transition lenses throughout this video. Therfore, WE DON'T BELIEVE YOU YOU NEED MORE PEOPLE
    🤣🤣

  • @nighthawk8236
    @nighthawk8236 2 года назад +7

    It takes a man to say I'm sorry, I believe him . Jody please forgive him. 🙏 plus I'm sure alot of fans would love to see a reunion concert 😍

  • @athews1976
    @athews1976 2 года назад +4

    We're not the same people... AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH. *PREACH!!!* 🙏

  • @alexiousthomas
    @alexiousthomas 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for your transparency especially as a man of God their not alot of people who are brave like you

  • @gluvly4u
    @gluvly4u 2 года назад +4

    Shalamar was the 1st wax record I bought! My faavorite group, music, vibe! Ya'll definitely shaped my love for music and I will always remember the loss and regret I felt when ya'll broke up.
    This is epic! Blessings for peace with nothing missing and nothing broken: Shalom.
    My thoughts went to imagine if one of you left us without making that peace. Life and love is too short and precious, but it takes letting go and choosing to move forward. GBU

  • @PontFlair
    @PontFlair 2 года назад +10

    That was GREATNESS!! Way to do that, *@Howard Hewett*

  • @reneerene7842
    @reneerene7842 2 года назад +14

    When you apologize you free yourself to move forward. It takes a Grown Man and Grown Woman to admit when they have made mistakes and says...I'm Sorry. We All Can Learn From This.

    • @gabeeskridge8291
      @gabeeskridge8291 2 года назад +2

      Very true , I've experienced it and it is powerful in healing wounds. The reality is if you don't have love for the person it wouldn't matter. Letting go some the EGO is key to making it happen.

  • @philliphill8985
    @philliphill8985 2 года назад +2

    Thank You Howard as you have reminded myself that we all need forgiveness in time! I know God will answer prayers my brotha! God 🙌

  • @darrellshaver8801
    @darrellshaver8801 2 года назад +1

    They was the very best trios in their time.Volcols superbly unreal.As a D.J.70's-80's.

  • @Only1QueenOfEverything
    @Only1QueenOfEverything 2 года назад +3

    Make that move….second time around!!! Here for it (a reunion) in 2022!!! 🥰😍🙏🏾

  • @sherryhouston6464
    @sherryhouston6464 2 года назад +12

    Hey Howard that’s right it’s never never to late to ask for forgiveness and to forgive each other in the name of the lord always god bless you Howard for sharing this god bless us all and learn to forgive

  • @slab817
    @slab817 2 года назад +20

    That's wassup Mr. Hewett! Takes a big man to do what you've done and now I'm inspired to go do the same with some folks I may have made mad back in the day. You're an inspiration 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @scottt5109
    @scottt5109 2 года назад +1

    In tears

  • @justsaved3876
    @justsaved3876 2 года назад +19

    That's a wonderful thing to see. I know you're really sincere about your apology...God wants us to ask for forgiveness & to forgive others who offend us. God Bless you Both....You Howard & Jodi Whatley...and blessings to Jeffery as well...Love & Appreciate all of you guys ❤

  • @athews1976
    @athews1976 2 года назад +13

    That *IS* some beautiful music y'all created.

  • @Tfolife528
    @Tfolife528 2 года назад +3

    Every time I hear a Shalamar song, it makes me so happy! Forgiveness frees you and your heart!💜♥️♥️

  • @sapphiresbluenotes5540
    @sapphiresbluenotes5540 6 месяцев назад +1

    Peace and blessings goes out to you ❤

  • @staciedavis6800
    @staciedavis6800 2 года назад +9

    Bless your heart and glory to God. When you’re obedient to the spirit of the Most High you are moving in the right place. Words hurt 😢

  • @DeShawnBohannon4Life
    @DeShawnBohannon4Life 2 года назад +22

    Awesome God laid it on your heart to speak these words i am sure your heart, mind, soul & spirit will be lifted going forward. And i pray this message finds Jody so she can have that wound healed this is good Howard
    and like always God will always look out for you.. Sending all my care and support from "Youngstown,Ohio
    🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @tinawilson167
    @tinawilson167 2 года назад +3

    This is beautiful Howard The Lord will honor you in this video. Thank you for helping me lineup in truth 🙏 . I know Jody appreciate you in this message I am should this will bless her 🙏 ❤

  • @adrianbrowne7874
    @adrianbrowne7874 Месяц назад

    Was lucky enough to have met Shalamar a couple of weeks ago, and all of you were incredibly polite! & the concert was outstanding!!😊😊