Dating Etiquette: how to choose the right place, what to wear and how to behave on a date

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  • Опубликовано: 12 фев 2024
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    Dating Etiquette: how to choose the right place, what to wear and how to behave on a date | In this video, I will tell you everything you need to know about getting ready for the first date starting from choosing the right venue, what to wear and how to behave. The first date is about expressing yourself authentically and getting to know the other person. This video will help you best prepare for your first date.
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  • @myriamolortegui2441
    @myriamolortegui2441 3 месяца назад +144

    Meet a stranger in a public place only. Safety first. Great point, Jamila. Specially for your young public. I would add: trust your guts. If it does not feel right, better go away.

    • @panache1127
      @panache1127 3 месяца назад +14

      And don't leave your drink unattended.

    • @walkerskii
      @walkerskii 3 месяца назад +5

      No one's ever been kidnapped from a Starbucks, it's not that big of a deal to meet the person for the first time, as long as it is in a safe public place during daytime hours & make sure the man drives away before you do. If you can see his car, snap a picture of the license plate just in case, then relax.

    • @inezy6329
      @inezy6329 2 месяца назад

      ​@@panache1127Exactly, I was just about to write about it but you have said it already..

  • @ssa2517
    @ssa2517 3 месяца назад +277

    Thank you Ms.Museyva. I just need the man now🥲

    • @kiravampira1456
      @kiravampira1456 3 месяца назад +18

      Same thoughts. It's far less challenging to learn a *completely* different language than to find a considerate man in this era (at least in my country).

    • @Krystalmch
      @Krystalmch 3 месяца назад +2

      Where are you from ?

    • @ananya4303
      @ananya4303 3 месяца назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @PrincessJuah
      @PrincessJuah 3 месяца назад +1

      Same 😅

    • @ssa2517
      @ssa2517 3 месяца назад +4

      @@Krystalmch my roots are in The Comoros ( an Archipelago of island in the Indian Ocean) but I was born in France and you ?

  • @ashleyjay56
    @ashleyjay56 3 месяца назад +32

    Great tips and you look beautiful! I am sure though that you don’t believe the woman should ever be expected to pay or split it. You are a feminine and seem like you have basic traditional values so I’m confident that if you were dating, and the man expected you to pay, you would be immediately turned off. No self-respecting gentlemen would ever do that.

  • @cindylemaitre9488
    @cindylemaitre9488 3 месяца назад +22

    Lovely dress but it would "ride up" when seated and might be hard to keep closed for modesty. I've also worn the wrong shoes before and my date wanted to take a walk when I had uncomfortable shoes. It was so awkward.

  • @ayoutubeaccount8629
    @ayoutubeaccount8629 3 месяца назад +5

    She's one of the rare gems that teach etiquette in a way that's approachable. Some people tend to have this air of superiority around themselves which is very off-putting. I appreciate that she approaches etiquette related to different settings rather than just the usual table manner discussion.

  • @nar7278
    @nar7278 3 месяца назад +21

    How alluring and intoxicating you are Jamila! All while being so decent n elegant to the core...! Thank you, I'm learning so so much from you. ❤😊🙏

  • @kiravampira1456
    @kiravampira1456 3 месяца назад +25

    This dress makes me see you as a gorgeous mermaid 🩵🐚🦢🐚🩵

  • @Rooooxy
    @Rooooxy 3 месяца назад +20

    I need you to do some etiquette videos targeting men.

    • @kiravampira1456
      @kiravampira1456 3 месяца назад +1

      I second this. Their less or more intentional cluelessness is beyond frustrating.

  • @zabavnaya-xt8tb
    @zabavnaya-xt8tb 3 месяца назад +24

    20:30 is such an important point, I can't stand when people do that, as a woman myself this is such a shitty behavior and red flag 🚩🚩🚩
    Don't order something much more expensive than the person that's covering the expense

  • @walkerskii
    @walkerskii 3 месяца назад +8

    The first time you meet a person, it should not be considered a first date, unless you have had a video chat. It takes so much pressure off the situation to meet for a cup of tea, to make sure you both feel comfortable with the other person, then you can look forward to the first date with someone you've met before.

  • @Omargustaf_
    @Omargustaf_ 3 месяца назад +20

    Hello, i liked your video. But in my opinion in the dating world nowadays, especially in the nordic countries, people do not go on dinner dates in the first date. Nowadays people like to go on more casual dates i.e. coffee, evening walk or for a glass of wine instead of going to a dinner. I have a lot of friends (males and females) who would never go on a dinner date as a first date here in Finland since it is not a custom to do so. I want to get to know the person in a casual setting and there is a high probability that if we are not matching, I would not see them again. A dinner date would be better after the third or fourth date when you have started to get to know the person better. I do not know how it works in other countries with each of their own cultures, but in Finland it wouldn't work. But I liked your video and the advice that came with it and it will be useful when going on dinner dates and/or generally going to dinner with friends. :)

  • @rupachemudupathi9569
    @rupachemudupathi9569 2 месяца назад +3

    I loved how you said to carry ourselves and also the way of rejection wow

  • @inezy6329
    @inezy6329 2 месяца назад +5

    Please teach on etiquette on how to handle heartbreak elegantly..tq

  • @yehehehaw
    @yehehehaw 3 месяца назад +7

    Yay I've been waiting for this! Thank you so much ❤

  • @julieb750
    @julieb750 3 месяца назад +6

    Lovely and informative video. I really like how you explained.

  • @lithishaislam234
    @lithishaislam234 3 месяца назад +12

    You uploaded this before.By the way, I love this ❤❤❤.

  • @ellielondor5740
    @ellielondor5740 3 месяца назад +7

    thank you for such a useful tips!

  • @MotherlyEssence
    @MotherlyEssence 3 месяца назад +9

    I loved going to a new place we both haven't tried. It was fun for both of us! And definitely being yourself was more enjoyable than trying too hard to impress someone. Good tips though!! In the future i would love to be taken on a really fancy date that requires a dinner jacket! Never heard of such a thing lol. And yes we definitely look at everything including manners and clothes.

  • @walkerskii
    @walkerskii 3 месяца назад +4

    Restaurants that require a dinner jacket and or a tie, always have loaners, so your date does not need to go shopping

  • @breakergirl47
    @breakergirl47 3 месяца назад +8

    Be modest and put on well arranged clothes on your first date.

  • @TheRedRoom-ew4mt
    @TheRedRoom-ew4mt 3 месяца назад +6

    Perrfect timing as I sip my coffee

  • @gihanzohdy3284
    @gihanzohdy3284 3 месяца назад +4

    Excellent video Jamila, thank you.

  • @aramalikvlogs
    @aramalikvlogs 3 месяца назад +1

    Needed this video...❤

  • @laladoingwhatiwanna9489
    @laladoingwhatiwanna9489 3 месяца назад +26

    ohh it's a reapload isn't it? i remember the video

    • @obsidianbutterfly2099
      @obsidianbutterfly2099 3 месяца назад +1

      yeah i thought it was new at first too. Its the same video from over a year ago

  • @a71012
    @a71012 3 месяца назад +6

    Is this an old video you reposted?

  • @zabavnaya-xt8tb
    @zabavnaya-xt8tb 3 месяца назад +8

    Wow loving your dress 👗 ⭐️

  • @AnikaAmlani7
    @AnikaAmlani7 3 месяца назад +5

    Enjoyed the video! I would love to know which lipstick you are wearing 😍

  • @shivangimukherjee5526
    @shivangimukherjee5526 Месяц назад +1

    love this video, would like more such videos. A video on touch would be really helpful.

  • @Jessicaaljp
    @Jessicaaljp 3 месяца назад +21

    Is this a re-upload? I feel like I’ve watched this before.

  • @12-OneTwo
    @12-OneTwo 3 месяца назад +5

    What would be the best topics beyond the typical small talks?
    Can you talk about History or Sciences?

  • @MariTWC
    @MariTWC 3 месяца назад +2

    Excellent video

  • @sorka2309
    @sorka2309 3 месяца назад +5

    Hi! Can you make a video about dining etiquette in a high end japanese restaurant?Thank you

  • @suzanadsuza4819
    @suzanadsuza4819 3 месяца назад

    Thank You !

  • @Lovejoypeace69
    @Lovejoypeace69 3 месяца назад +2

    Love the video so much. I would love to know for example when you drop your napkin, you drop your glass, you spill your water, something happens. Maybe you spill something on your date. I’m just talking about some of the simple things that could possibly go wrong how to react and how to handle it?

    • @RumiRose12
      @RumiRose12 2 месяца назад +1

      If you drop something on the floor leave it for the server because it’s unsanitary to put it back on the table. Servers should know to help and give you a new napkin etc

  • @minervag6777
    @minervag6777 3 месяца назад +7

    Pls more of these!!!! maybe what kinda questions to ask

  • @Kpopies_GotNoBrain
    @Kpopies_GotNoBrain 3 месяца назад +3

    Can you please put timestamps too

  • @withloveliahofficial3
    @withloveliahofficial3 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi jamila hope you doing well.
    I am a fan of you since long. Wish to read your books for a long time.good to know that recently you have started international shipping methods which will allow lot of people from around the world to read your books but it would be great if you also keep an option to buy pdf versions of the books. Like obviously nowadays working woman with kids will only have an option to read books in between our breaktime at office. Which will made lot easier if we can read those in laptops.Also the shipping charge is so high. I understand you are not taking the shipping charges but paying shipping charges more than the books make us think twice about it. Readers like me wont mind to pay the same price for the pdf or online .

  • @Missnoemit
    @Missnoemit 3 месяца назад

    Never had a date at a restaurant, that could change, so Im curiously watchinh this. Im also learning more about good modals, because thats something that its becoming rare and I myself was bad at it. And oh dear thats not nice at all😄

  • @Angel-it2nb
    @Angel-it2nb 3 месяца назад +2

    thanks 💓💓💓💓💓

  • @jasppt
    @jasppt 3 месяца назад +7

    Who are the ones who are single and watching this??

  • @priyaa1486
    @priyaa1486 3 месяца назад +12

    Isn't this a Old video?

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 3 месяца назад +3

    Jamila l really really love your recent videos so so much and this video is so so helpful to me in my life and I really missed your videos🥺🥺💫♥️

  • @Framephotogra
    @Framephotogra 3 месяца назад +5

    This is an old video. Why was the old one deleted?

  • @danielmoore9214
    @danielmoore9214 3 месяца назад +3

    What would you talk about on the date 🌹 ?

  • @Ebhaves
    @Ebhaves 3 месяца назад +1

    That’s a very pretty lip color, may I know what brand and shade it is? Please & thank you 💕

  • @sonaxanmcfrova8330
    @sonaxanmcfrova8330 3 месяца назад +3

    I love adore you my dear🙏❤️😇

  • @testing1-2three
    @testing1-2three 3 месяца назад +3

    🙏🏽

  • @RebeccaChen-nk7vm
    @RebeccaChen-nk7vm 3 месяца назад +5

    I wish, more men would watch those videos!

  • @maricelgund
    @maricelgund 3 месяца назад +4

  • @ankitasharma1588
    @ankitasharma1588 3 месяца назад +3

    ❤❤

  • @Yasha-sq9ks
    @Yasha-sq9ks 2 месяца назад

    One gentle note here:
    In China, we don't take pride in leaving unfinished food on the table, at least not anymore. It's not uncommon to see people packing up the leftover and eat it the next day. It's a common practice to order something first, then add-on if more is needed (to avoid wasting food).
    I'd say this "the guest finishes their food = the host doesn't order enough" is a very old-fashion dining culture in business (with superiors) and with family (with seniors) to show that you genuinely want to treat them well.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this. It is important to understand that etiquette changes and evolves reflecting cultural changes.

  • @jishajain7341
    @jishajain7341 3 месяца назад +6

    It's an old video!🤔

  • @milk3o
    @milk3o 3 месяца назад +3

    جميلة الجميلةة💘💘💘💘صدق انكك رهيبه احبجج 🥺🫶🏻

  • @trudatbellyfat7358
    @trudatbellyfat7358 3 месяца назад +8

    Right off the bat, I'd just like to say this: regarding the choice of venue- if you LOVE Japanese food and you happen to know that your date absolutely does not, then that's probably a sign that the relationship won't last long-term imo. It may seem silly, but food is a huge part of life and cutting back on your favorite foods indefinitely will eventually lead to unhappiness

  • @foreverlovehijau4428
    @foreverlovehijau4428 3 месяца назад +2

    I am dating to fill up my stomach. ✌️😊 Joke

  • @aramalikvlogs
    @aramalikvlogs 3 месяца назад

    What to do... While you're waiting for food at a restaurant...??

  • @harika69
    @harika69 3 месяца назад +4

    first comment 🤍🤍

  • @dwayne8273
    @dwayne8273 3 месяца назад +3

    Etiquette for gay dates, that must be very challenging uh