Marriage & Money Ep. 3: Drs. Contessa & Scott Metcalfe: Doctors Need Healing Too

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • In a touching and honest sit down, "Married To Medicine" Drs. Contessa and Scott Metcalfe discuss therapy, separation, and maintaining a marriage when the reality TV cameras are off.
    On the heels of all their success on HGTV's "Married To Real Estate," fans have requested more access and knowledge to the two as it pertains to their lessons on marriage and relationships as well as wealth-building strategies, catalyzing the Marriage & Money Podcast. The weekly podcast is full of humorous stories, valuable life hacks, honest & meaty marriage dilemmas, wealth & legacy-building knowledge, and special guests. Also available on iHeart Radio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

Комментарии • 195

  • @lawestphilly
    @lawestphilly Год назад +59

    Dr Contessa is the total package brains beauty and financially responsible. My kinda role model 💯🖐

  • @vintagelove7702
    @vintagelove7702 Год назад +11

    Wow, when Egypt and Mike explained the "Manish" part, she hit the nail on the head. I found myself being masculine because I didn't feel safe. I always felt that way but never could put that into words. She and Mike explained it perfectly, so thank you for that truth that so many couples experience. #thatpart

    • @sandragibson4173
      @sandragibson4173 Год назад

      I agree. Wish I had understood that earlier in my life.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад +4

      Yes every action stems from something... an emotion. If we can learn to articulate the emotion versus acting it out, we can communicate our needs better and in a way that can be reciprocated.

  • @elainepalmer7979
    @elainepalmer7979 Год назад +10

    Egypt and Mike, this podcast is so rich and important to family. Keep up the great work.

  • @karenplater6350
    @karenplater6350 Год назад +8

    I'm so happy that Contessa and Scott went to counseling and is working things out in their marriage.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад +1

      Yes the big "T" has proven to work.

  • @Mochadee2003
    @Mochadee2003 Год назад +7

    ❤ The Metcalfes I’m so glad that they did the work on rebuilding their marriage. I ❤ the show. The hosts are so transparent

  • @madameclark3453
    @madameclark3453 Год назад +9

    I’ve been stressing about being homeless since I was 4 years old. I get it. I did become homeless in my youth. Today, I’m going to retire with a warm and safe place to lay my head and a meal in my tummy.

    • @thebattlesbelieversgroup7951
      @thebattlesbelieversgroup7951 Год назад +1

      Wow!! Thank you for sharing. This gives me insight to my own children’s lives, and memories. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @FloJoBum
      @FloJoBum Месяц назад

      @@madameclark3453 happy for you and God’s blessings upon your retirement life!👏🏼😊

  • @QueenC89
    @QueenC89 Год назад +4

    Married to Medicine has done this couple an injustice. They are engaging and I have truly enjoyed this segment. ❤

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад

      Yes on reality tv you only get a snapshot.

  • @Kedia12
    @Kedia12 Год назад +6

    So Contessa speaks so much better here than she did or what was shown on married to medicine.

  • @Konkretelotus
    @Konkretelotus Год назад +6

    I love it here! This is so needed even for us “SINGLE INDIVIDUALS”

  • @danielleh4998
    @danielleh4998 Год назад +4

    Dr. Contessa and Dr. Scott are amazing! I’m so happy that they chose go to therapy and make their marriage work. They dropped some 💎

  • @rai55
    @rai55 Год назад +9

    When I tell you I’m OBSESSED with this podcast since discovering it 4 days ago!✨❤️ Keep dropping those jewels 💞

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад +2

      That is such a compliment we don't take lightly. Thank you for being a part of our tribe!

  • @MrsDMG2024
    @MrsDMG2024 Год назад +6

    QUICKLY becoming one of my favorite podcasts.
    Thank you for your transparency!

  • @moormorebooks5103
    @moormorebooks5103 Год назад +2

    Just subbed. Didn’t know they had a podcast. I think a great unspoken takeaway from this….you first have to have a good foundation in a relationship. Dr Contessa and Dr Scott were very compatible. My husband and I both come from previous marriages. We were living the ideal life just a few days ago and I got some really bad news. Because we have a good foundation, I’m surprisingly not devastated. I actually said today, “When we get through this it will be a testimony”. I think in our community many couples come from dysfunction and bring that into a marriage. And one thing that’s certain is challenges, crisis will come. If you’re already on shaky ground (marrying someone whom you’re not equally yoked or not compatible) it will be almost impossible to stand.

  • @jacquih8804
    @jacquih8804 Год назад +5

    This episode was "soooo" GOOD!

  • @chanreka
    @chanreka Год назад +5

    Such a beautiful conversation!!!

  • @FloJoBum
    @FloJoBum 4 месяца назад +1

    This is a great wonderful show that young singles should listen to to learn how to become husbands and wives. It really prepares you for a relationship and not blindly enter a marriage and learn from the school of hard knocks.

  • @jantoles
    @jantoles Год назад +6

    You guys just keep getting "gooder and gooder"!!! 🙂I LOVE IT!!!! So far, ALL of your guests gonna have to come back!!!

    • @toniwilson5832
      @toniwilson5832 Год назад +1

      I love gooder too lol! I usually say more gooder from the commercial 🤣

  • @delorisnixon444
    @delorisnixon444 Год назад +6

    I'm not really a fan of podcasts, but I'm hooked! Glad I stumbled upon this. Your genuineness and transparency with your guests and audience, as well as the guests transparency, has destined this to be a success. PLUS, I love everything that you guys do. Good people. ❤

  • @robinchism8704
    @robinchism8704 Год назад +4

    I am loving this podcast I was married to my husband 18 years got divorced for 7 and remarried him again now we have been married since 2011 I agree with most of what you are saying I like and love my husband now more than ever we pretty much grew up together and learned a lot about each other

    • @sandragibson4173
      @sandragibson4173 Год назад +1

      That part! You can love your spouse but not like them!

  • @elles.6768
    @elles.6768 Год назад +12

    I love the show, the episodes are never long enough! Please invite Kandi and Todd.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад +3

      Noted and thank you!

    • @delorisnixon444
      @delorisnixon444 Год назад

      That would be interesting. I might be a little nervous about that one.

  • @diquecannon
    @diquecannon Год назад +3

    So happy to see Black ⚫️ Excellence in love from both couples, thank you kindly 🙏

  • @Justnik05
    @Justnik05 Год назад +7

    Wow! I'm really enjoying these. Love you two! I've followed Egypt since (for me) her early days on HGTV. So glad Mike had the idea. Blessings on both for keeping God and true-to-life decisions in the conversations.

  • @sigma_man886
    @sigma_man886 Год назад +3

    I really enjoyed hearing the husband perspective. What I got from this was don't be stuck in it but grow from it ... powerful episode!!!

  • @Finishedin52Insurance
    @Finishedin52Insurance Год назад +5

    Thank you for your transparency. I pray many blessings over everyones marriage and family in Jesus Name.🙏🙏🙏

  • @stacyo.1080
    @stacyo.1080 Год назад +3

    That happened to me also. Citibank was waiting for me freshman year in the student union and I had no money or clue about money management because my parents didn’t talk to me about money . I didn’t get on track until my late 20s and fast forward many years, my credit score is excellent and I have been able to show my daughter the road to money management and 2 years after college, her score is fantastic. I just love your show and the topics you bring to surface.

  • @diquecannon
    @diquecannon Год назад +3

    Men we Ladies don't want to be mannish, we want to be soft, as long as you prepare for the leadership ❤

  • @jerralynh7335
    @jerralynh7335 Год назад +5

    Love this episode and the transparency!❤

    • @lindak3545
      @lindak3545 Год назад

      Yes!! They all kept it REAL real!! ❤👍🏽

  • @RobynHeliece
    @RobynHeliece Год назад +3

    Great episode. This is what we want to see on black reality shows. Contessa looks gorgeous!!!

  • @jessicam7872
    @jessicam7872 Год назад +6

    This is why my husband and I have separate bathrooms. Lol

  • @cynthiajackson3038
    @cynthiajackson3038 Год назад +3

    Thanks Mike and Egypt for having my two favorite doctors on. Keep it Real!

  • @cherylwalker7923
    @cherylwalker7923 Год назад +4

    This was such a great interview. Giving thanks to both couples for your transparency.

  • @susancastro2261
    @susancastro2261 Год назад +2

    Dr Contessa is a great communicator I love that she worked at her marriage and loves her husband. Egypt & Mike are so wonderful love watching them keep God in the center 👏🏼🥰👏🏼🙏🏼

  • @bobbie4165
    @bobbie4165 Год назад +5

    My new therapy session. Love this my husband is really getting Into this so thankful he's talking about his childhood through this podcast.

  • @ADivaAlways
    @ADivaAlways Год назад +6

    Keep this up please! I loved the one to go on and grow on tips at the end. I wholeheartedly agree with both of you. This podcast gives me that warm cozy feeling you have when you’re in a spiritually sound environment. ❤

  • @latashawesley2198
    @latashawesley2198 Год назад +5

    This is so on point. I totally love this episode. The viewers need more of this ❤😊

  • @stylesbyp9137
    @stylesbyp9137 Год назад +4

    True words at the end Mike! You must love and like the person who you are married to.

  • @becausewesaidyesmrs.wilson984
    @becausewesaidyesmrs.wilson984 Год назад +4

    I LOVE THIS PODCAST… I am Relationship Coach and I am always searching for content, resources, and other materials that are thought provoking. It has also helped me understand and find some new tools for my own marriage! Thank you!!!

  • @darlenewilliams-moore9569
    @darlenewilliams-moore9569 Год назад +4

    Hello Mike & Egypt: You guys are so down to earth and keep it real and in perspective, most definitely your the (Power Couple)❤💯, Luv your podcast, Good Luck, Luv this Session with the Doctor’s ( Black Love)❤

  • @Tgallager2742
    @Tgallager2742 2 месяца назад

    I love Contessa she's my favorite on 'Married to Medicine' love her

  • @lashaundadiaz7453
    @lashaundadiaz7453 Год назад +3

    I have always loved and admired Dr. Contessa. I am inspired by her the most out of all of the women on M2M!

  • @kellyguy7990
    @kellyguy7990 Год назад +4

    Yes!!
    Mike and Egypt, thank you.
    I'm loving this

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 Год назад +3

    Really like to see shows like this! It put light on family issues and how to reprogram ourselves to do better!!

  • @MsMekia-yy9qb
    @MsMekia-yy9qb Год назад +4

    I loved everything about this episode. 💜

  • @ThePhoenix-me5ni
    @ThePhoenix-me5ni Год назад +4

    I’m really enjoying this series!

  • @Msgroovystyle
    @Msgroovystyle Год назад +2

    Such good honest and open dialog. I have been married 25 years and I'm learning some jewels from your podcast🥰🥰🥰

  • @c.r.1940
    @c.r.1940 Год назад +3

    I always loved them! Thank you for being so transparent. I love to see our beautiful black queens not only mothers, but successful, brilliant, courageous, and willing to not assist with bringing their kings to the top with them. Teamwork makes the dream work. Keep doing phenomenal things. Much love and respect ❤❤

  • @crystalharris-thomas1939
    @crystalharris-thomas1939 Год назад +3

    Dr. Scott that was beautiful. Go get your wife. Don't ever let her get away.. That's right she is a queen and your her king. I love you two ❤️ All four of you are awesome ❤️

  • @sugraliaferrell9030
    @sugraliaferrell9030 Год назад +3

    I love me some Dr. Contessa

  • @tonyatalented4275
    @tonyatalented4275 Год назад +3

    God bless their marriages!!

  • @marywilson7651
    @marywilson7651 Год назад +3

    Love the show. So heartfelt and informative. Keep it coming.

  • @julielove8932
    @julielove8932 Год назад +3

    After watching this today, hmmmmm....i pray for this union. 🙏🏾

  • @richardgreen8950
    @richardgreen8950 Год назад +3

    OMGoodness I absolutely love you two..

  • @anniehall1919
    @anniehall1919 Год назад +4

    Beautiful couple the Scotts💕

  • @princessbc9791
    @princessbc9791 Год назад +2

    I agree w/Contessa on a lot of things, especially money. Most of my friends know if you ask me for money and I don't see you that day to return it, I will be calling you the next day. So, when I've given money, they call me immediately if they can't pay it back. And when they find out I move that way, they always stop asking.

  • @deeCheeBee5
    @deeCheeBee5 Год назад +1

    This one made me smile the whole time! Thank Scott and Contessa. I used to watch the show. I stopped watching for my own personal reasons! I appreciate your honesty and growth! Keeps shining. Mike and Egypt we adore you!

  • @PatriciaShortsColbert
    @PatriciaShortsColbert Год назад +3

    Thank you for this yall real and raw .

  • @buhakeg
    @buhakeg Год назад +3

    This is so good and revealing of so much for me in my past and current relationship. Thanks Egypt, mike and Drs Contessa and Scott!

  • @teridavis5050
    @teridavis5050 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this information. Transparency is important for financial stability in marriage. Secondly, the humbleness from this successful couple is important. They could have hidden their financial information.

  • @denital7666
    @denital7666 Год назад +2

    This is great! It goes to show if you are willing do the work to be a better you as an individual and couple with the understanding that holding yourself accountable via the lens of transparency built on a strong foundation of faith will grow that union. When you two agree that ignorance within your marriage is not an option, marriages can grow. I will be subscribing to this channel.👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏

  • @teresacathey8189
    @teresacathey8189 Год назад +3

    Hello. This was a very good episode. Enjoyed your guest. Young people should be listening to this because nowadays people don’t put in the work to try and stay together, they get mad, and want to break up at the least little thing. Another words, they don’t want to listen or communicate with one another to try and solve the issues. 🥰🥰🥰

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад

      Yes that's why we started this podcast, to build community and show people LOVE and MARRIAGE can work.

  • @jhurbon12
    @jhurbon12 Год назад +3

    I am really enjoying your podcast Egypt & Mike!!!❤❤❤❤❤😊

  • @jerlynnghee207
    @jerlynnghee207 Год назад +2

    Love the transparency in this episode. I am the overly communicative, and my husband internalize. This helped me see how my childhood affects how I am in my marriage. Thank you!!

  • @kayl7189
    @kayl7189 Год назад +5

    Awesome awesome awesome!! Please rehearse the “femininity” part again women need to hear that. I can tell when my husband is turned off with me so I know when to back down but my sisters don’t and their husbands “do the most” 😳🙁

  • @realtalkwithtammycooper2318
    @realtalkwithtammycooper2318 Год назад +3

    Truly a fantastic inspiring transparent show. Thank you, I pray your platform and reach of influence will experience abundant growth.

  • @HealthPursuits
    @HealthPursuits Год назад +1

    Thank you for the refreshing transparency and laughter!!

  • @lolitaforest6197
    @lolitaforest6197 Год назад +3

    Congratulations on this show I'm enjoying it. I'm not married but, it's giving everything.....

    • @lizt.3176
      @lizt.3176 Год назад +1

      Me either sis. However, I really enjoy the topics and open conversations between the hosts and the guests.

  • @juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080
    @juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080 Год назад +2

    OMG...This was Extraordinary!! I sent it to my husband, friends, clients, children. There is soo much in here for everybody. Especially if we choose to do the hard work, after acknowledging the fact that there is indeed a problem...Thank you!!

  • @Sojournerofhope
    @Sojournerofhope Год назад +2

    Love the transparency

  • @TOMMYBITESHOMESTEAD
    @TOMMYBITESHOMESTEAD Год назад +3

    My husband and I both had bad credit for the same reasons. Well my husband first started building his back better and placed me on his and now mine is almost
    Better then his. We aren’t really taught about credit like that.

  • @SeyoDeline
    @SeyoDeline Год назад +1

    This was the best! When you hear people that make you realise you're not crazy. I was on their wavelength even as a teenager! 🦉

  • @dlfaulkner1
    @dlfaulkner1 Год назад +2

    Ya'll are funny. Sounds like my hubby and I. We work together everyday too. I'll finish looking at this tonight. Have a blessed day,

  • @deborahwhaley6395
    @deborahwhaley6395 Год назад +2

    I love you guys, Egypt and Mike! ❤️❤️

  • @AllOfKee
    @AllOfKee Год назад +2

    Luv Dr. Contessa

  • @log...
    @log... Год назад +3

    Love your segment! I'm learning so much! Awesome interview

  • @tanishalavernegrant9774
    @tanishalavernegrant9774 Год назад +2

    Wow! Just Wow! Whew! Another great show!

  • @tonyatalented4275
    @tonyatalented4275 Год назад +2

    That's was Fire Scott!!

  • @diquecannon
    @diquecannon Год назад +4

    Joint account for bills and separate accounts for personal purposes ❤

  • @natashawashington7834
    @natashawashington7834 Год назад +2

    I really enjoyed this episode. 🎉❤ I enjoy them all immensely.

  • @thisisHowHedidit
    @thisisHowHedidit Год назад +3

    FANTASTIC EPISODE ONCE AGAIN!! I JUST LOVE YOU TWO!! AND YES, SHOUT OUT TO THE SCORPIO GANG!! 11/10 🦂♏ #SCORPIOSARENOTCRAZY LOL

  • @ladonnaspencer340
    @ladonnaspencer340 Год назад +1

    One my favorite relationship podcast now!! I love Mike & Egypt and all of the beautiful couples that come on the show to share their stories…💕

  • @Sandra-ly1ss
    @Sandra-ly1ss Год назад +2

    This was such a great video/discussion! Thank you for sharing these dynamics, these are real issues in marriage. ❤

  • @roxannewilliams7913
    @roxannewilliams7913 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love watching these videos. You guys give great marital advice.

  • @kimbranch4242
    @kimbranch4242 Год назад +3

    This was amazing I learned a lot

  • @deyaonsotti9594
    @deyaonsotti9594 Год назад +1

    Excellent episode! Grateful for their transparency.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад +1

      They indeed brought it all to the table!

  • @lynnettereid424
    @lynnettereid424 Год назад +3

    This was excellent!

  • @ayannagrant3668
    @ayannagrant3668 Год назад +2

    This episode resonates with me. Being married 23 years. Counseloring was very important to us before we got married. Also couples marriage retreats helps as well. I look forward to more episodes. My Take away on finances . We are stronger when our strategy of savings are together.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад

      That seems to be the strategy working for many of the couples.

  • @ylondascott6789
    @ylondascott6789 Год назад +2

    I respect and love them both even more❤

  • @FYIRFILLED
    @FYIRFILLED 3 месяца назад

    Awesome one to grow on, Egypt. Amen 🙏🏽

  • @rosaborian
    @rosaborian Год назад +2

    Thank you coz Man always say am menish but now i realise that i have never had someone to lean on

  • @sentherengmotshwaiwa813
    @sentherengmotshwaiwa813 6 месяцев назад

    I'm really enjoying your podcasts. Dr Contessa is my girl, I think I'm more like her when it comes to life and money. Thank you, we are learning all the time 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @jenniferu5955
    @jenniferu5955 Год назад +2

    Love this show !!!!

  • @cjbfire95
    @cjbfire95 Год назад +4

    Mike is definitely handsome!

  • @nakitapurrher
    @nakitapurrher Год назад +1

    Great platinum. Thanks for the time and transparency.

  • @hellenstrong8628
    @hellenstrong8628 Год назад +3

    Loving the shows and Your guests 🙏🏾♥️💯🌹💯♥️🙏🏾👍🏽🤟👌👋🖐🏾👀👊🏻🙏🏾

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Год назад

      Thank you! We love them too.

    • @avisrobinson1150
      @avisrobinson1150 Год назад

      @@egyptandmike I am truly enjoying your podcast, I am so thankful you both decided to do this. I would love to see Samuel L. Jackson & LaTanya Richardson. Denzel & Pauletta Pearson-Washington, Cameron & Lauren Hamilton from Love is Blind. Just a few for now🤣.. Seriously this is the best Podcast on RUclips for me. Congratulations and keep up the great work!!

  • @nahomieriche4827
    @nahomieriche4827 Год назад +2

    I so enjoy you guys podcast Mike and Egypt😊

  • @shonbond8074
    @shonbond8074 Год назад +3

    I am in marriage counseling before I get remarried again thru this podcast. I guess my husband to be need to show up.

  • @rubyredd6366
    @rubyredd6366 Год назад +1

    Enlightening interview!
    Liked them on Married to Medicine! Very profound and lovely business educated loving couple! ✨️✨️

  • @candidbutsweet9613
    @candidbutsweet9613 Год назад +1

    This was really a 👍🏽 conversation.

  • @Beautifullymade13
    @Beautifullymade13 Год назад +3

    Awesome episode 😊

  • @jackiemary1000
    @jackiemary1000 Год назад +1

    you guys are great you should have your own tv show