@ this is WB from the DMV and dead wrong if you got to find a white guy on Christian mingle and you had him sign in NDA contract no he he is my love gigolo remember what Steve Harvey said women should be the prize but not the catcher now she's so miserable she'll love this guy and you know it 🤥
My heart is beating so fast ❤️❤️❤️ I am so happy for Loni and this actually made me remember seasons ago when she would talk about her relationships I am not a very emotional person and I cried when she cried because it’s so good to see how happy she is God bless this man and this relationship
I feel like Loni’s heart has been badly broken before and now she is scared to open up. This is why she hates to feel vulnerable and to get her feelings involved. It’s so beautiful that she finally found someone worth it so that she can show them that side to her
That's why I don't believe looks can be affective it's the personality and good heart that makes people fall in love you with you. But I know that now because to many guys fall for hot chicks but man hot chicks are more crazy and lazy to. So I'm glad there are guys like that who doesnt see dating a fat person a crime.
@ Hahaha Mike your so funny 😂🤣 comments to every post that supports loni 🙄🙄 You are very unworthy of Love until you grow up if that happens!!!!! Good luck you Need it HATER.........
I feel Loni when she started crying tears of happiness! It’s SO HARD to find a man that you let your guard down around and when you do, it’s such an amazing feeling! So happy for you, Loni! 🤗🤗🤗
I'm so happy loni is opening herself up. Before she didn't offer herself much to the viewers as she was closed up. It's nice to see her walls come down. I'm glad she is happy.
I concur with that. I hated when she use to pretend that she was out here doing all these hookups with numerous youngster that she would meet online. It just never seemed genuine it seemed like she was lying to us. Now, this seems like the real Loni and I 😍 it!
@@meekyw.4010 thats the same thing i was thinking. I remember when she would joke about not getting in a relationship and just have aimless sex like it was nothing. Now shes so emotional and i love it. Love can change anybody, and make them soft.
God is GREAT Happy for you Loni soooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂You are a great women of God , down to earth and you keep it real. I'm really praying you and him go all the way. It's a shame to have lived and never loved to the fullest. I wish You the best. (Thank you for sharing that was big)
you could tell Loni’s always wanted love and God gave it to her in time. After all, good things come to those who wait. I’m so happy for her, God Bless😇💞
Awww so happy for her! I’ll never forget when my husband asked me to be his girl. ❤️ went to dinner, drove to the mountain top and watched the city lights.
Melanie Salazar That's soooooo sweeeeeeet. I recently started dating my friend of 7 years and he's honestly the only guy who has ever had me dying to ask me to be his girl but I think he's too scared to cause I turned him down before years ago when he asked me cause I was scared it would ruin our friendship but I'm ready now lmao.
@@omphilemoerane2569 omg this is me, a very close friend of mine of 6 years told me a couple of years ago that he liked me and like you I didn't want to ruine the friendschip plus I wasn't ready so I turned it down. I opened up to him 3 months back but he had a girlfriend and then completely ignored me now they've broken up but I don't know what to do I mean it took me a long time to get over him plus he ignored me and now he said he liked me back... I just dont feel the same... life is hard
The way Loni is responding to James makes me feel like her behavior before him was a defense mechanism. The whole “I don’t need a man/marriage is unnecessary” thing before. I think she was just lacking true love, and I’m glad that she found it. 😊
James please take care of Our Girl Loni She is a Sweet, Beautiful, Intelligent Woman Please Continue to be Good to Her and Loni The Same Blessings Everyone 😍🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I honestly am so happy to see her with somebody she actually likes and isn’t so much focused on the Love part! Love comes and goes... but that liking your partner has to be there no matter what and stay there
Love is not something hollywood portrays it to be. They confuse it with lust. Lust comes and goes. Love is an action. Love is patient, love is kind, love endures everything. Etc. Even when we dont have those giddy feelings all the time we should strive to do those things because thats what love should look like.
@ this is WB from the DMV as about lying love you can't pay somebody to stay with you if you treat him like a gigolo and unfortunately my love is a black face for white supremacist oh like Billy Bob Thornton and Halle Berry in monsters ball and Halle Berry X-Men along with Lee Daniels
Awwww Loni, those tears speak a million words. We are all so happily for you and with you. We always knew that your candid speech and comments came from a place that was waiting on a deserving man to fill it. We are praying for you, praying that James treat you with tenderness, love, honor, respect and pride because you are deserving of all those things and so much more. IT IS YOUR TIME, MAY YOUR JOY ABOUND MORE AND MORE AND LAST FOREVER.
I think deep inside she always really wanted someone who loved her and she loved back (a more serious relationship). Sometimes we put up some barriers for other people, just so they stop asking "why are you single", "when are you getting married", etc. We prefer to tell them "Oh Im fine, enjoying life", "I prefer to be single", even though we would like someone. May not be her case, though (IDK) but I always got that vibe since previous seasons.
Congrats, Loni! I love U! He better come correct or he’ll have the D gang after him.😊💕Tamera & Jennie at the end dancing. Hilarious!😂 I cannot believe Tam said, “hit it twice”. WTH.😂😂😂
This is sooo cute! The right person will truly bring out the best in you, and it really shows for Loni. I love LOVE and I'm praying for that good man and potential husband in the near future. Putting it out into the universe and in God's hands, amen.
Awww seeing her cry, made me cry because I finally know what it’s like to find the one that brings you tears of joy instead of sadness. I’m rooting for you Loni. God bless you both 💯😘🙏🏽
All the tough women just have not been loved properly. I remember when she would say it's healthy to drink and have so many bf...I was like poor woman. Don't take advice from hurting people. Now look at her, she is losing weight, drinking less and in a commited relationship and not acting tough and shut down. We women are created to be loved. U water us with your love and we will bear fruits of love. 💕💕💕💕. Wishing loni and James happily ever after.
She was probably just trying to close herself off of fear. But the beautiful thing about love is it’s a connection/feeling not a skin color or race :)))))))
Loni made fun of Tamera being with a white man so much, and now she is with a white man. I wish she didn't tease Tamera so much but now hopefully she learns. This is coming from a nigerian-american girl with a white boyfriend
Nah she makes fun herself of being with a white man like it’s just jokes she doesn’t mean any harm by it at the end of the day love is love doesn’t matter what colour
so happy for Lonnie. all her tough girl role was such an act and i couldn't wwait for her to find her happiness. yayyyyy. god bless them both. love you Loni!
See Black women...you might have to have some *White* crème in your coffee if you want love. Never think that your love has to be of the same racial background.
so the only man she takes serious and is exclusive with and gets emotional for is a white man hmmmm she wanted what tamera had all along always making jokes about Adam when she dated black men it was only sexual and brown liquor self hate
Yeah I think she did want what Tamera had all long I think she was jealous...but at the same time she couldn't go exclusive with previous men because what's the point if it's one sided, the man has to want to claim you and be official as well or else you will look desperate if he is not making you official publicly but you are announcing it opening by yourself
If he breaks Loni's heart we all coming for him!
AGREED AGREED.
Definitely!
IKR if he messes up, he will need the witness protection program! (If the government finally opens...)
What if she messes up?
@@dumpd6227 we attack her then
This shows how much deep down, she really wanted it too❤️
100%
Ikr... But to those ( single people) reading this comment, love your self first... But I'm happy for my girl.
Absolutely!
Right!
That was so obvious though.
GOD BLESS THAT MAN FOR MAKING YOU THAT HAPPY LONI 🤗 I WISH THE BESTIEST
😊🤗
Mike Carter
Shut up 🙂
Gods time its the perfect time
Yes everybody deserves love. There’s somebody for everybody
bro i’m so happy for her!! talk about character development 😭💖
Right!
@ this is WB from the DMV and dead wrong if you got to find a white guy on Christian mingle and you had him sign in NDA contract no he he is my love gigolo remember what Steve Harvey said women should be the prize but not the catcher now she's so miserable she'll love this guy and you know it 🤥
they need to make tamara swaying and jeannie pumping that heart a gif 😂
Yess!! 😂😂😂
Imma do it just wait right here
Yessss
Faith Anne Richardson yes 🤣🤣
@@britbritnicole I did the Gif does anybody know how to share it on youtube?
My heart is beating so fast ❤️❤️❤️
I am so happy for Loni and this actually made me remember seasons ago when she would talk about her relationships
I am not a very emotional person and I cried when she cried because it’s so good to see how happy she is
God bless this man and this relationship
Good to see her haappy
I feel like Loni’s heart has been badly broken before and now she is scared to open up. This is why she hates to feel vulnerable and to get her feelings involved. It’s so beautiful that she finally found someone worth it so that she can show them that side to her
badly broken by who? a kit kat bar? lmao
@ you need some help she is in love
@@DavidLee-vp3nr a boy fool
@ wtf its not her fault black men have done her dirty soo many times
Introducing Auntie Loni and Uncle James! | Edit: WOW! Thanks for the 1.2k likes!!
love that
I had that on my mind. I love it. 👍🏾
lol that was cute of you
@@omayrabisdom7397 me to Omaya
Justin Mitchell 😂
SoOo happy Loni has found true LOVE💛
That's why I don't believe looks can be affective it's the personality and good heart that makes people fall in love you with you. But I know that now because to many guys fall for hot chicks but man hot chicks are more crazy and lazy to. So I'm glad there are guys like that who doesnt see dating a fat person a crime.
Aaaaaaaaand that's what happens when black woman start dating out, they find true love and happiness. I'm so happy for her I can literally cry
@ Why are you comment on all the posts who are happy for loni. You need to get a life Stop being a hater.
I almost cried with her wth
me too
Me too but i think ifs mostly cus im single.
I shed a few tears to
@@jewell4332 lol😊
Craaazy Gyal girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg ! This is a first time in 5 years that sheis actually talking about a relashionship ! I'm so happy for her !God bless them ❤😊
She was happily single. She said there was no point in talking about a guys she was chilling with.
As a black woman, it’s hard out here in these dating streets. So when you find true love, it means a lot.
@ Hahaha Mike your so funny 😂🤣 comments to every post that supports loni 🙄🙄 You are very unworthy of Love until you grow up if that happens!!!!! Good luck you Need it HATER.........
@ Everyone loves everyone apart from you.
@JamericanDC1 True. Especially if more black women explore and expand their dating options.
Honestly its hard for any woman because alot of boys out there not many men
Imagine trying to make this a racial topic. I’m so sick of people bringing up race ALL THE TIME.
I feel Loni when she started crying tears of happiness! It’s SO HARD to find a man that you let your guard down around and when you do, it’s such an amazing feeling! So happy for you, Loni! 🤗🤗🤗
This guy sounds like a gem
AHHHH Im so happy for you Loni!!! Love is amazing ❤
I'm so happy loni is opening herself up. Before she didn't offer herself much to the viewers as she was closed up. It's nice to see her walls come down. I'm glad she is happy.
I concur with that. I hated when she use to pretend that she was out here doing all these hookups with numerous youngster that she would meet online. It just never seemed genuine it seemed like she was lying to us. Now, this seems like the real Loni and I 😍 it!
@@meekyw.4010 thats the same thing i was thinking. I remember when she would joke about not getting in a relationship and just have aimless sex like it was nothing. Now shes so emotional and i love it. Love can change anybody, and make them soft.
@@meekyw.4010 ikr so true Ikr... But to those ( single people) reading this comment, love your self first... But I'm happy for my girl.
Hope they stay together 5ever.
Edit girl😂❤
AMEN 🙏🏾
God is GREAT Happy for you Loni soooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂You are a great women of God , down to earth and you keep it real. I'm really praying you and him go all the way. It's a shame to have lived and never loved to the fullest. I wish You the best. (Thank you for sharing that was big)
Me Two girl 😂😂
EverlastingPeace:👸😍!!
*~"MastaDTheOne 💖🍫
Loni u betta stop 😭😭😭 my heart 😭🥺💓
Aww Loni this made me so happy .. glad to see u happy and in love
Loni is still looking cool when she cries!!!
Zero Energy I know, so composed!!!
you could tell Loni’s always wanted love and God gave it to her in time. After all, good things come to those who wait. I’m so happy for her, God Bless😇💞
Ikr... But to those ( single people) reading this comment, love your self first... But I'm happy for my girl.
What you were thinking this is why I stated “in time”
i literally teared up - it s genuine and real love it
Me too!! Omg
People like to act like being single is everything (I deffo think it is at times) but when you meet someone special it's just different.
Natasha N I agree I’d rather be single than be with someone that’s not for me
this is so true. Hopefully, I get there
But to those ( single people) reading this comment, love your self first... But I'm happy for my girl.
CUE MUSIC....”Loni’s got a man, at home.” 😂
aat home🖐🏾👌🏾👏🏿💃🏽🕺🏽😊
jpinx22 And he's so good to her 😊
jpinx22 he he he’s waiting on her.
jpinx22 how he loves her... love that song
ONE BAD APPLE DON'T SPOIL THE WHOLE BUNCH, GIRRRLLL!!! LOL
Loniii..awww...no wonder Loni and Tamera get along so well, they're both criers
So D'Vine lmaoo hell yea..Tamera might has cried more on the show but I could always tell Loni is sensitive and is emotional just like Tam.
Both Cancers I think..
Almost every show
They are both Cancer's I checked I am to and hella Emo
Same astrology sign
Please don’t turn out to be a jerk please don’t turn out to be a jerk I want loni to be happy she’s finally opened up no more defense mechanism
Mike Carter how?!
@ really Mike really????
I literally cried with her. She deserves the world and more and so happy James can be apart of that and share a journey together. Love you loni
Awww so happy for her!
I’ll never forget when my husband asked me to be his girl. ❤️ went to dinner, drove to the mountain top and watched the city lights.
Melanie Salazar awwwww
Melanie Salazar That's soooooo sweeeeeeet. I recently started dating my friend of 7 years and he's honestly the only guy who has ever had me dying to ask me to be his girl but I think he's too scared to cause I turned him down before years ago when he asked me cause I was scared it would ruin our friendship but I'm ready now lmao.
Omphile Moerane I think you should ask him ❤️, he probably is scared and it would make his day if you actually wanted to be with him
@@omphilemoerane2569 omg this is me, a very close friend of mine of 6 years told me a couple of years ago that he liked me and like you I didn't want to ruine the friendschip plus I wasn't ready so I turned it down. I opened up to him 3 months back but he had a girlfriend and then completely ignored me now they've broken up but I don't know what to do I mean it took me a long time to get over him plus he ignored me and now he said he liked me back... I just dont feel the same... life is hard
crazyanimeloveable if you don’t feel the same be strong and keep going forward ignore him like he did. U will find somebody fresh and good luck sista!
The way Loni is responding to James makes me feel like her behavior before him was a defense mechanism. The whole “I don’t need a man/marriage is unnecessary” thing before. I think she was just lacking true love, and I’m glad that she found it. 😊
Mike Carter stfu bastard many black men date outside the race and don’t get that hate
Me too!!!
James please take care of Our Girl Loni She is a Sweet, Beautiful, Intelligent Woman Please Continue to be Good to Her and Loni The Same Blessings Everyone 😍🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I honestly am so happy to see her with somebody she actually likes and isn’t so much focused on the Love part! Love comes and goes... but that liking your partner has to be there no matter what and stay there
Love is not something hollywood portrays it to be. They confuse it with lust. Lust comes and goes. Love is an action. Love is patient, love is kind, love endures everything. Etc. Even when we dont have those giddy feelings all the time we should strive to do those things because thats what love should look like.
Agree 100%%%!!!!
@ this is WB from the DMV as about lying love you can't pay somebody to stay with you if you treat him like a gigolo and unfortunately my love is a black face for white supremacist oh like Billy Bob Thornton and Halle Berry in monsters ball and Halle Berry X-Men along with Lee Daniels
Awwww Loni, those tears speak a million words. We are all so happily for you and with you. We always knew that your candid speech and comments came from a place that was waiting on a deserving man to fill it. We are praying for you, praying that James treat you with tenderness, love, honor, respect and pride because you are deserving of all those things and so much more.
IT IS YOUR TIME, MAY YOUR JOY ABOUND MORE AND MORE AND LAST FOREVER.
Awww smiled the whole way through this. Bless you and your relationship Loni 💕
Slendergirl89 i did not realize I was smiling until I came across your comment and realized I was smiling
Aww Loni! My face hurts from getting teary eyed & smiling! You deserve love! Real love! Loni all in her FEELS 🤗❤️❤️❤️
Oh my God I can't wait to Cry tears of joy again I pray for myself because it's nothing like When a Man Loves a Woman
Lillian Walton praying for you, girl. It will happen!! He’s worth the wait!! 🙌🏼❤️
K de la Cruz thank you wish you the best as well🤗🤗🤗
Ikr... But to those ( single people) reading this comment, love your self first... But I'm happy for my girl.
I love how y’all are over Loni...it’s so sweet. Y’all are so protective and nosey over her lol. It’s so special and I love you ladies.
That is so cute! I am so happy for her! 😘😘
So very cute. And their reaction to it made it even sweeter
The butterflies is my tummy rn! M so happy for her! 💕💕💕
I think deep inside she always really wanted someone who loved her and she loved back (a more serious relationship). Sometimes we put up some barriers for other people, just so they stop asking "why are you single", "when are you getting married", etc. We prefer to tell them "Oh Im fine, enjoying life", "I prefer to be single", even though we would like someone. May not be her case, though (IDK) but I always got that vibe since previous seasons.
Jani Pocket I did too
So true thoo!!
Yes, I always got that vibe too. I am sooo happy for her and glad she found someone who loves her and who she loves, regardless of what color he is.
Awww! I’m so happy for you, Loni! You deserve it! Also, Jeannie’s heart dance is adorable! 🤗❤️
It is so sweet! I wish you all the happiness, Loni!
There's something about authentic love that vibrates between a couple and touches the lives of those who observe it😍. So happy for you Loni💕💕.
A recent study has found that women who carry a little extra weight live longer than the men who mention it.
lol
I hope it's true 😂
Neon Alpha lmao
Im deceased 😂
Yah, because they sit on them 😂😂😂
Awww.. i am so happy for our Loni love! you deserve all the happiness and the love.
I LOVE YOU LONI!
Aw! My Loni, I’m so happy for you! And I love the ladies, they’re so supportive and they know each other. ♥️♥️♥️
Congrats, Loni! I love U! He better come correct or he’ll have the D gang after him.😊💕Tamera & Jennie at the end dancing. Hilarious!😂 I cannot believe Tam said, “hit it twice”. WTH.😂😂😂
I love that Loni really thinks through things. I wish her so much happiness.
So happy for you babe! You are glowing and you seem so much happier now.💗😘
Loni You Deserve All the JOY in the World!!! 💛💛💛
Why did I just cry with her 😂, I am so happy for you Loni ! 💞
This is sooo cute! The right person will truly bring out the best in you, and it really shows for Loni. I love LOVE and I'm praying for that good man and potential husband in the near future. Putting it out into the universe and in God's hands, amen.
My heart is melting 🥰 so happy for Loni!!
I am so happy for Loni!!! Many blessings to her!!
They look so cute together. He seems like a nice man and Loni deserves that. I hope they get married.
I'm so glad that Loni is happy. She's such a sweet human and I'm happy for her ❤️
So happy for my girl Loni 😭❤️
Awwww I got all teary eyed... I'm so happy for her and pray it works out for the best! God bless you and YOUR mannnnn girl lol
Oh my gosh I'm SOOOOOO happy for her!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💃💃💃 I'M SUCH A STUPID HOPELESS ROMANTIC!!! 😢🧚♀️😍🤩😍🤗💘💖💓💗💝💞❣❣❣
Awww I know Loni hates talking about her love life so thank you for sharing! Extremely happy for you! ❤️
Yay Loni so happy for you! I just hope that if he does propose she’ll say yes.
angelina angel not against it just not something she wants but who knows she might change her mind
Awww seeing her cry, made me cry because I finally know what it’s like to find the one that brings you tears of joy instead of sadness. I’m rooting for you Loni. God bless you both 💯😘🙏🏽
All the tough women just have not been loved properly. I remember when she would say it's healthy to drink and have so many bf...I was like poor woman. Don't take advice from hurting people. Now look at her, she is losing weight, drinking less and in a commited relationship and not acting tough and shut down. We women are created to be loved. U water us with your love and we will bear fruits of love. 💕💕💕💕. Wishing loni and James happily ever after.
Yesss!!! So happy for you Loni. May God bless this union. Yayyyy!!!!
Loni love is in loooove. OMG, so cute
Loni is such a blunt, yet Awesome woman. I truly wish the best for you two!!
I'm soo happy for you. Love you soooooo much Loni xxx
I cried with her ❤️
Im so happy for you Loni, you deserve this love and you deserve to be happy. God bless you & James🙏
Loni the most authentic one on the show. I love her Cool lady
Awww Loni!!! I’m so happy you’re happy! Sending love your way!
Loni you deserve the world.
I love seeing Loni so happy and you can see the other girls feel the same, James you are the best!
Yes loni.. I'm so happy for you!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
So SO Happy for Loni!!! Stay together forever......God bless you both.
Omg im crying with her❤️❤️
Awwww! I'm very happy for her! EVERYBODY deserves to be loved and love. It's what we were placed on earth to do. ❤️
Loni is married y'all , she wears two rings to throw everybody off!
Grace Turner yo mama
Im so happy for you Loni!!! You deserve to be happy. I love your tears of pure happiness and joy.
Loni, do you love me? Are you riding ? Got me in my feelings
Seeing loni this vulnerable is so heart warming
aaaawhhh 💕
Awww, Loni looks so happy. I'm so happy! 🌻🤗
Tbh i am a little suprised cuz i just assume that loni prefers black men. But hey the heart wants what it wants. Best wishes to loni & james!
Yeah I assumed that too, but sometimes you cant help who you connect with.
Right. With the way she talks about Idris lol
Same
She was probably just trying to close herself off of fear. But the beautiful thing about love is it’s a connection/feeling not a skin color or race :)))))))
Nawal Baswedan well if plan A don’t work..:.::?
I cried when Loni started crying! Loni we love you and if there is anyone more deserving of true love, it is you. Sending you only the best wishes!
Loni made fun of Tamera being with a white man so much, and now she is with a white man. I wish she didn't tease Tamera so much but now hopefully she learns. This is coming from a nigerian-american girl with a white boyfriend
Proof that it was always in jest. She always had nothing against it obviously... I hope your relationship is as fulfilling baby girl... Truly
Nah she makes fun herself of being with a white man like it’s just jokes she doesn’t mean any harm by it at the end of the day love is love doesn’t matter what colour
She was just joking with her, they're best friends.
She never ever said anything bad about Tamera's white husband..she only joked that she loves white meat.
Maybe she teased tamera because she wanted what tamera had. Now she has it and is happy.
so happy for Lonnie. all her tough girl role was such an act and i couldn't wwait for her to find her happiness. yayyyyy. god bless them both. love you Loni!
She’s slick a hypocrite but how cn you be mad at her...she’s happy...she making it a huge deal tho idk about all that
MyJourney Z yes
🥰 I love when all the lady’s are the real happy and glowing!
Man is it Loni’s first time in a relationship or what, chilllllddd im tired hearing abt that, like she finally have a man talk abt it every 5 sec.
Oh MY GOSH! When she started choking up when she was saying how he was going to ask her out wow 😭 truly made me tear. so happy for you LoniLove. 😊❤️
See Black women...you might have to have some *White* crème in your coffee if you want love. Never think that your love has to be of the same racial background.
look how happy and giddy the girls are for her. true friends honestly.
so the only man she takes serious and is exclusive with and gets emotional for is a white man hmmmm she wanted what tamera had all along always making jokes about Adam when she dated black men it was only sexual and brown liquor self hate
Yeah I think she did want what Tamera had all long I think she was jealous...but at the same time she couldn't go exclusive with previous men because what's the point if it's one sided, the man has to want to claim you and be official as well or else you will look desperate if he is not making you official publicly but you are announcing it opening by yourself
This is so sweet. So happy for you Loni..awwww
This is so cute ❤️ it warms my heart seeing Loni so happy
Lonni has that happy glow !!!! CONGRATS WE ALL LOVE YOU 💓
Yessss Loni! I love to see people happy & in love.
So sweet! I’m happy forLoni and wish her the best.
I got major chills when Loni started crying! I'm so happy for her!
Awwww made me cry !!!! I agree with Adrienne so happy for her and it makes me emotional