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    Sarah (she/her) & Mary (she/her) have been together for 2 years. Their mutual love has taught them patience and self-acceptance with themselves and each other. They both have a hard time talking about the future of their relationship and the uncertainty it brings, so they are working on giving one another the reassurance needed to do so. They also discuss growing up in a religious household and how it led Mary to repress her sexuality for many years. Their partnership flourishes and teaches them by the day, they have bright and beautiful plans for the near future.
    As we explore new perspectives we invite you to step into the emotional space of connection and experience the deeper lessons that shared experiences can afford humanity. To everyone who has participated openly and vulnerably in our project - we appreciate what you have shared with us and hope others do as well.
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    WITH THE PARTICIPATION OF | Sarah & Mary
    Are You Gay? | {THE AND} Sarah & Mary
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Комментарии • 153

  • @seikashii733
    @seikashii733 Год назад +257

    When they say lesbians they always think about sex or other malicious stuff but they don't know the wholesomeness of loving another woman in a different level that you can't explained how happy you are and feel the genuine love ❤

  • @girl-dh2ym
    @girl-dh2ym Год назад +540

    no cause im always smiling through all these videos with lesbian couples

    • @Eyeswide39Open
      @Eyeswide39Open 10 месяцев назад +6

      I quite literally seek them out - they nourish me. I think I first came across TSD when I was grieving a relationship, and their content- particularly the lesbian couples - certainly helped the healing. The communication and closure is something I was never offered. I love listening to their stories.

    • @girl-dh2ym
      @girl-dh2ym 10 месяцев назад

      @@Eyeswide39Open TSD?

    • @carolina-zk2rt
      @carolina-zk2rt 10 месяцев назад

      Me alegro mucho

    • @nataliag3725
      @nataliag3725 9 месяцев назад

      Me too 😊

    • @ironshoes1720
      @ironshoes1720 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@girl-dh2ymTSD = The Skin Deep
      This channel. 👍🏻

  • @mihaelamars
    @mihaelamars Год назад +320

    This was a good one. I'd love to see the rest of their conversation. I repressed my sexuality for a really long time, so Mary's story really resonated.

    • @cortadoforhere
      @cortadoforhere Год назад +11

      It reminds me of Glennon Doyle's therapist saying she wasn't gay. Being pressured toward heterosexuality happened for me in therapy too (non-religious therapy at that). This needs to be talked about more.

    • @joylowther5068
      @joylowther5068 Год назад +4

      ive repressed my sexuality as well. and within the last 3 yrs have learned to love myself for who i am, not to be what others want me to be.

  • @TheSuperjunebug
    @TheSuperjunebug 11 месяцев назад +30

    Oh my, the intimacy, the honesty, the willingness to be vulnerable in this strange situation of being filmed... it is really touching. Thank you!

  • @katerynamekhnina
    @katerynamekhnina Год назад +187

    What a genuine and loving couple, happy for them and really liked the conversation

  • @melanielaura111
    @melanielaura111 Год назад +86

    This was especially beautiful to watch- specifically the fact that one was able to sit with the "this isn't me" feelings without taking it personally or running off. I've observed multiple individual women saying the feeling of some or all of their sexual attraction feels incongruent with the whole of them; but I've never seen a couple of any configuration talking about what that means. I would love to see a follow-up at some point if they're available. I don't see any visual similarities between them but I think it's interesting that other people do. Sometimes that's a sign of spiritual compatibility. They both seem unusually honest/available for intimacy. I wish the best for them- whatever that shapes up to be.

  • @NeonKodiak
    @NeonKodiak 11 месяцев назад +21

    they definitely match in terms of vibes and abilities to speak openly about their thoughts, and just being on the same wavelength but its wild to say they look alike lol lovely couple!

  • @amelieh.3327
    @amelieh.3327 11 месяцев назад +13

    I love how they also talked about their problems. They didn’t just try to overlook that there are things they have to work on, but instead are open about how to try to improve and to fix their issues. They truly care for one another and the survival of the relationship. That is what really stood out to me here - I hope they have a happy future together!

  • @lucemoon4370
    @lucemoon4370 Год назад +93

    They both have the most calming soothing voices!

    • @AlienoidGamer
      @AlienoidGamer 11 месяцев назад +5

      I was like, these gals could have a nice side hustle on audible or something. Maybe am ASMR channel.

  • @stephmo371
    @stephmo371 Год назад +45

    Theyre so sweet 😭 i love them and wish them nothing but the best

  • @AliceP.
    @AliceP. 11 месяцев назад +19

    What a beautiful couple, you can feel some sort of loving, soothing vibe just by watching them through a video.

  • @bakhtawartagar7507
    @bakhtawartagar7507 Год назад +66

    Lesbians who haven't U-Hauled! I love this! I believe this is the healthy way to do things! Also so many cats and dogs, living the Cali dream, house by the beach, that's the dream

    • @TCt83067695
      @TCt83067695 11 месяцев назад

      U hauled?

    • @donttagmeinyourreply1304
      @donttagmeinyourreply1304 11 месяцев назад

      @@TCt83067695moving in together very quickly

    • @AlienoidGamer
      @AlienoidGamer 11 месяцев назад

      @@TCt83067695 moved in with each other after two weeks - its a stereotype for sure but a true one

    • @GabrielBell
      @GabrielBell 10 месяцев назад

      @@TCt83067695moved in together after the second date. It’s a common trope that lesbians bring the Uhaul to their second date…

    • @bigcheese1618
      @bigcheese1618 10 месяцев назад

      @@TCt83067695 Move in together really quickly

  • @iam433
    @iam433 Год назад +74

    These girls are so beautiful together, it warms the soul watching their faces and those blazing eyes😊

  • @create2liberate
    @create2liberate Год назад +9

    These two have CHEMISTRY! I love their communication. Lesbians and women loving women are FIRE!!

  • @jammu157
    @jammu157 11 месяцев назад +8

    The world is better place as long as you two are in it!

  • @nicolejack8238
    @nicolejack8238 11 месяцев назад +8

    Great episode love how open they both were with no holding back.

  • @Penthai9
    @Penthai9 10 месяцев назад +3

    Mary has such an amazing calm and serene energy around her. The ways she speaks , the way she listens are just so peaceful. And they look good together ❤

  • @jamielondon6436
    @jamielondon6436 Год назад +21

    Glad to see that Mary was able to overcome her comphet upbringing!

  • @shonad6377
    @shonad6377 3 дня назад

    Just by watching two women talking about being in love with eachother, validates what I have been feeling. I wish these videos existed while I was growing up. I am still grateful I get to have this experience now ❤ I feel so proud, seen and mattered now. Thanks alot. I really wish more and more people get to watch this and embrace love. I wish them tonnes of love and grace ❤❤

  • @Arthaius
    @Arthaius Год назад +11

    Damn ... Mary is one lucky girl, that Sarah is a Queen, a real 100% keeper. I think the two of them only need to maintain their current levels of love dedication and etc move forward sure, but never let new changes alter the way they look at each other right now. I just watched their facial expressions way more than I listened - every little mannerism and such was so telling, they are completely in love, and absolutely enamored with each other. Sarah seems to be the one much more worried about losing what they have, Mary seems pretty relaxed and unworried. Watching them made me so jealous that I haven't found a match like this, I hope that they have a forever life with each other.
    But back to my first point :: Sarah is a total win for whoever she is with so Mary, remember that and keep your Queen happy and safe forever.

  • @junedog.
    @junedog. Год назад +15

    I love this, but it would be so nice to see it happen in a less sterile environment, a more comfortable space around them would seem more fitting to the depth of the conversation

  • @BurritoMassacre
    @BurritoMassacre 7 месяцев назад +1

    They’ve set a great foundation, their love will stand the test of time. All the best ❤.

  • @gerardomartinez576
    @gerardomartinez576 Год назад +11

    Crazy synergy between these two 👏 😊

  • @charleswoollard2942
    @charleswoollard2942 Год назад +3

    OMG You Are Both A Truely Beautiful Inspiring Couple , So Lovely & A Joy To Listen and Watch, Keep Up The Good Work ❤🙏

  • @theoptimistic9282
    @theoptimistic9282 Год назад +5

    It was wholesome. I'm so happy for them. May they grow older together❤

  • @skittlepuff
    @skittlepuff Год назад +4

    Why you gotta end it all sad like that omg i was even about to cry. Their love is so beautiful and pure

  • @bakhtawartagar7507
    @bakhtawartagar7507 Год назад +12

    I have smiled throughout this video!

  • @laydeeslim
    @laydeeslim Год назад +2

    I loved theirs ❤so calming to watch

  • @jodiesversiion
    @jodiesversiion Год назад +3

    i can’t wait for love like this

  • @vyonncee
    @vyonncee Год назад +62

    Omg I thought they were twins! This is amazing! In Chinese there is a saying that when you look alike like your partner, it means you’ll last forever. I hope that happens for the both of you!

  • @berthacorona3862
    @berthacorona3862 Год назад +3

    I love these questions asked 👍💐

  • @tiffanyg8753
    @tiffanyg8753 Год назад +4

    So beautiful, I see myself in still repressing my feelings and not being to be my true self. Hope someday I'll get the bravery to be MYSELF.😢

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  11 месяцев назад

      Wow thanks for opening up! We really appreciate this ❤️ sending you lots of love

  • @debbieverret4033
    @debbieverret4033 Год назад +25

    Two ladies who were made for one another, that chance meeting says it all.

  • @rtroian83
    @rtroian83 Год назад +2

    Ohhhhhh I’m blushing 😊 wow this is so rare to witness between significant others. Awwww my 😊

  • @elizabethm3748
    @elizabethm3748 Год назад +26

    Why are lesbians the best

  • @shondalesstudio
    @shondalesstudio 11 месяцев назад +3

    That last half got me.😂 I almost made it tear free.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  11 месяцев назад +2

      Everyone's tearing up :')

  • @phoebepham88
    @phoebepham88 Год назад +100

    Cant thank you this channel enough, great content as always. I can even feel the love for each other through their eyes, such a beautiful conversation. Do we have the part 2 of this one?

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  Год назад +9

      Aww thank you so much! We love doing what we do because of comments like this one! But no:( this is the entire video

  • @rtroian83
    @rtroian83 Год назад +3

    Can we see the entire conversation please. Wow 😊 this was very enlightening to watch from and objective perspective on my part 😊

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  11 месяцев назад +1

      This is the full video :( but we're so glad you enjoyed watching and found it enlightening! ❤️

  • @Zephoshyrule
    @Zephoshyrule Год назад +5

    I only see the parody aspect of these videos after watching one that was so good I literally couldn’t tel if it was a parody or not until like 5 minutes in 😂. They’re so parody-able now it’s insane

  • @robyn_hood_city
    @robyn_hood_city 10 месяцев назад +3

    Они смотрят друг на друга такими ясными, теплыми и влюбленными глазами, как будто они вместе не два года, а встретились только неделю назад. ❤ Хочется еще эпизод с ними❤

  • @Cancan-fo8qo
    @Cancan-fo8qo 11 месяцев назад +1

    They made me smile

  • @darija.lyrics.uncensored
    @darija.lyrics.uncensored Год назад +12

    At first glance I didn't realize what the concept was exactly, I just randomly thought one was the guest and the other one interviewer but as soon as I heard their calm soothing seductive voices to each other that's it ! I knew love was in the air 😝💖

  • @lindadudley705
    @lindadudley705 11 месяцев назад

    What a awesome couple’ They are so beautiful the both of them’ certainly wish them all the very best’ ❤❤

  • @kate_tsamse
    @kate_tsamse Год назад +9

    For this kinda love?? I'll wait❤🔥

  • @kristintrisha2616
    @kristintrisha2616 Год назад +2

    The look of love 🖤

  • @joycewhite7673
    @joycewhite7673 5 месяцев назад

    That was truly…A great episode

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  5 месяцев назад

      We're so glad you enjoyed it, thank you ❤️

  • @dianarosales4226
    @dianarosales4226 Год назад +6

    I felt that love whaaa 😍😍😍

    • @dianarosales4226
      @dianarosales4226 11 месяцев назад +1

      Hi @skindeep thanks for liking! 😊

  • @amelieh.3327
    @amelieh.3327 11 месяцев назад +2

    The lip biting

  • @julien4093
    @julien4093 Год назад +32

    God I miss being in love.

  • @ballershanelle
    @ballershanelle 11 месяцев назад +3

    U live one life. Nothing is promised.. maui's tracts of labd are gone abd people died.. jump and be about the journey. both can move on, if it doesn't work. Labels can change but being serious, honest and committed is the goal.

  • @GadgetsGearCoffee
    @GadgetsGearCoffee 11 месяцев назад +8

    Her therapists denied her sexuality? Yikes. Bad therapists.

  • @lethu6413
    @lethu6413 Год назад +30

    Mary has a gorgeous smile and some hella perfect teeth. 🤌

  • @hipcarrie123
    @hipcarrie123 Год назад +1

    Need more

  • @LIBqueen
    @LIBqueen Год назад +5

    Damn, these questions

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you!!! ❤️ We do work really hard on them!

  • @margsmith8132
    @margsmith8132 Год назад +6

    Lovely couple ❤

  • @user-pe9mp8lw3g
    @user-pe9mp8lw3g Год назад +4

    Can't stop smiling ♥️

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  11 месяцев назад +1

      Neither can we ❤️

  • @Buasop
    @Buasop 7 месяцев назад

    Get that house on the beach Sarah and Mary. The two of you have the same energy as me and my wife of 24 years. I have a guarantee for you. Tomorrow, you will love each other even more. I know the real thing when I see it. You two are locked in and it's beautiful Good luck.

  • @nevejones
    @nevejones 11 месяцев назад +1

  • @heyitsrheiyaaaa
    @heyitsrheiyaaaa 11 месяцев назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @metamorphic8
    @metamorphic8 Год назад +10

    ❤️💘❤️💞❤️💘❤️
    🏳️‍🌈 beautiful vulnerability 🏳️‍🌈
    ❤️💘❤️💞❤️💘❤️

  • @rtroian83
    @rtroian83 Год назад +3

    Lord bless their hearts ❤️ 😊

  • @nassimagartoa1729
    @nassimagartoa1729 10 месяцев назад

    They look alike. The chemistry is palpable.

  • @landonfise8321
    @landonfise8321 11 месяцев назад +5

    Is there a way to watch the full episode of these two ladies? They have me in my feels

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  11 месяцев назад +2

      This is the full episode! ❤️

  • @alyf.6698
    @alyf.6698 Год назад +3

    they're so sweet and such honest and open communication. love is beautiful.

  • @the_dirac_field6519
    @the_dirac_field6519 9 месяцев назад +1

    Little spoiler: if a therapist tell you what you are or what to do with your life is not a good therapist. It's all about to find your own way to deal with your stuff. They can't tell you anything that judge you, otherwise this is not a good therapist.

  • @laysguerrero948
    @laysguerrero948 Год назад +5

    Mental note: i can't accept less than that in my life.

    • @adrukova1407
      @adrukova1407 11 месяцев назад +2

      Aww, you're super gorgeous.....🤩💕 Hope you find everything you want in life💕

  • @offshot1st
    @offshot1st Год назад +10

    The first one rarely lasts. You find out so much about yourselves, and change as a person. Mary has alot to work through.
    Maybe being older and more mature and appreciative of the experience will mean it lasts but I'm not sure - good luck to them both.

    • @bakhtawartagar7507
      @bakhtawartagar7507 Год назад +6

      not true

    • @omnib.135
      @omnib.135 Год назад +5

      Definitely agree...the first lesbian relationship is usually key to whether or not a woman who was once heterosexual will fully accept herself as being a lesbian. That decision can weigh heavy on that persons heart bc for one she’s still ‘finding’ herself. Secondly, the struggle for self identity and acceptance can be a life time for others. Which can cause or create instability within the other partner. As there’s nothing like dating someone who maybe “testing the waters” when you yourself have been stroking that “pond” for years. Hence Sarah’s need for reassurance and hesitation towards believing in a future between the two by moving. But, the truth is everything always works out if you believe in the risks that you take!

    • @offshot1st
      @offshot1st Год назад +3

      @@omnib.135 agree completely. There is also the coming out to extended family and friends to navigate, eventually you cant avoid it. Then the OUT partner has to stand by them through it, possibly going through this for the second time for them, and that's a lot to go through for a partner who isnt' sure what they want.

  • @TCt83067695
    @TCt83067695 11 месяцев назад +1

    How do they both look so pretty?

  • @AlienoidGamer
    @AlienoidGamer 11 месяцев назад

    When the one lady bit her lip in regards to when do you make me feel most sexiest, I instantly knew that she went to a naughty place but was like, yeah can't share that on the internet lol

  • @R0995
    @R0995 Год назад +2

    The facial expressions of the woman on the right is giving me Bella Swan vibes

  • @louise8752
    @louise8752 Год назад +2

    Isn't the future always uncertain?

  • @Rhea123
    @Rhea123 Год назад +4

    They look alike

  • @trevy7321
    @trevy7321 Год назад +4

    I thought they were twins

  • @nadiad6519
    @nadiad6519 Год назад +2

    It's strange for me to hear people talk about being Catholic and how it's repressing of their sexuality, I've never went to church ever and heard the priest preach against homosexuality. I've heard those hateful words in the family and the community. Ppl are intolerant of our sexuality outside the church

  • @tc5782
    @tc5782 11 месяцев назад

    I am jealous of you Mary

  • @paramanic08
    @paramanic08 Год назад +14

    People say me and my long time gf look like twins/ sisters too. It's weird and slightly annoying but we've made a joke about it now. Ya'll seem to have a great relationship. Good luck towards yall happiness

    • @LIBqueen
      @LIBqueen Год назад +1

      Uhmm
      U should probably get a DNA test done 😅

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 Год назад

    👍

  • @obscurity87
    @obscurity87 Год назад +17

    They look exactly alike wow

  • @pemalama7907
    @pemalama7907 Год назад +2

    ❤❤ me too i want some1like this

  • @angiii
    @angiii 11 месяцев назад +3

    Omg they look so similar ... I thought this was going to be a conversation between sisters based off the photo they used for the still.

  • @TopKop-oh9mh
    @TopKop-oh9mh 10 дней назад

    Some of these questions are ridiculous.

  • @13thAMG
    @13thAMG Год назад +1

    Awww. A nice dynamic for a change.

  • @beckham48
    @beckham48 Год назад +1

    Hope is not stage

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  11 месяцев назад +1

      It's not! 100% real conversation ❤️

  • @tiffanymartel7413
    @tiffanymartel7413 Год назад +46

    I thought they were twins at first 😬

  • @andalacomessenome
    @andalacomessenome 11 месяцев назад

    There is a lot of insecurity from the right side

  • @whatanime3210
    @whatanime3210 7 месяцев назад

    Respectfully but low-key been awhile Seeing two lesbian women and not one being "masculine "

  • @Eva_H
    @Eva_H Год назад +15

    I’m guessing they’re mental health issues involved, I say this is somebody who has mental health issues and has been in relationships and has seen the challenges of this (I’m currently single).
    I’m hoping this couple can get everything they want/need out of their relationship, because they would both have to go pretty far to find what they need/want looking for even though they don’t need too (hope that makes sense).
    Here’s to the beach and the myriad of animals for this couple that they want as their endgame, not to mention to be happy (obviously).

  • @taylorrobert9495
    @taylorrobert9495 11 месяцев назад +3

    I hate to be the one to say it but they look virtually fucking identical.

    • @Meccarox
      @Meccarox 10 месяцев назад

      They really do.

  • @rosalienmander9357
    @rosalienmander9357 11 месяцев назад

    🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

  • @francois_xaviermanson4769
    @francois_xaviermanson4769 11 месяцев назад

    Il y a quelque chose qui cloche là dedans … La dame blonde est nettement dominante, et cela se sent… Est ce que la blonde est sincère, j’en doute…

  • @AbdullahAl-mamun-kt8ou
    @AbdullahAl-mamun-kt8ou 10 месяцев назад

    Fun of heaven. I'm bise Xual 🇧🇩

  • @user-gh1pj3tr5t
    @user-gh1pj3tr5t Год назад +5

    BUT WHY DO THEY LOOK LIKE TWINS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @owrang9756
    @owrang9756 Год назад +9

    Are they twins?

    • @DivineVibrations9
      @DivineVibrations9 Год назад

      Yes, they’re twins and in an incestuous relationship with each other, and Skin Deep is promoting it. 🙄

    • @paramanic08
      @paramanic08 Год назад +24

      Given the fact that they are dating and having sexual relations...I'd say hard NO

    • @LemonGreenism
      @LemonGreenism Год назад +10

      Is this a real question ? Like did you watch the video ?

  • @CFCBlueBagger
    @CFCBlueBagger Год назад +18

    I’m sorry to say this, but they are not going to last. And the woman on the left will end it.

    • @roxy4325
      @roxy4325 Год назад +12

      Ugh, it sucks but it's probably true. The first relationship of learning who you are as a baby gay with someone who's already been solidified in their identity is doomed to fail. Hopefully we are wrong though 🤞🏾

    • @waleolabowale9825
      @waleolabowale9825 Год назад +1

      ​@@roxy4325dont know but why and sometimes even im hetero relationship one is more secure financil emotionall life history eg someone recently dovorced might still be healing misding tbe children whem other is stable

    • @waleolabowale9825
      @waleolabowale9825 Год назад +5

      Say why for our learning

    • @evie9239
      @evie9239 Год назад +3

      that last question's response felt like a goodbye... or she's been thinking about it recently...

    • @Terry-cz6rh
      @Terry-cz6rh Год назад +1

      Blondie will go back to guys

  • @darthvader3910
    @darthvader3910 10 месяцев назад

    Their relationship ends statistically in abuse

  • @Terry-cz6rh
    @Terry-cz6rh Год назад +4

    She looks like Diana Agron. But Blondie will go back to guys.

  • @AbdullahAl-mamun-kt8ou
    @AbdullahAl-mamun-kt8ou 10 месяцев назад

    US President Donald Trump had many girlfriend, so I put his picture on my profile 👨‍🦰🙆‍♀️🤰

  • @lethu6413
    @lethu6413 Год назад +10

    Damn. I wish someone would have told me that very last part. 🥹