I am a funeral director, and I see families overwhelmed by the stuff when the loved ones pass. It is always interesting when stuff goes from proof to a life well lived and something people can remember you by, to a burden. Sending love from Iowa
You've put it so perfectly. And you are the true witness of this pattern, how meaningfulness turns into meaninglessness. Of course, there are exceptions such as family relics, but still... Thank you so much for being here, Claire 💚 Sending love to Iowa.
Indeed, a true witness to the pattern! Truer words seldom proved truer. From your comment, it seems you are a really fine funeral director, one who helps the family with the final act of minimalism for their loved one. Thank you💜
I am handing the many creative supplies/belongings of a dear, beloved friend/artist buddy who died in 2020 of the consequences of dehydration. He collected everything. He was certainly called a hoarder. He saw value and potential in everything. I still miss him deeply. AND I am suffering with the burden of honoring the potential he saw in his belongings. I found a locally owned bookstore that couldn’t afford to buy stock during 2020. My friend’s many barely-touched books fit the interests of the store’s customers so they had second-hand books to sell during those hard times. His other things were harder to distribute. One small house & 2 storage bins are empty and there are maybe 8 bins left... in my smallish house. In the living room. And I am overwhelmed.
10 years ago I had to leave all my earthly possessions behind, except for a few clothes and religious books that belonged to my deceased father and grandmother. I had to leave many items that my father and grandmother had given me as a child, along with all photos of my only son. Many years after I left I found a photo of my son in one of my grandmother's books. I had used it there as a place marker many years prior. That photo is precious to me. What I discovered after leaving everything behind is that I still had all the items with me now as memories. I have never second-guessed leaving everything, and I make ever effort now to not burden myself down with physical items. My only regret is that I did not leave soon enough to save my son. As you said, Ana, every physical thing passes away, as do we. I love your videos, they are a bright spot in my day. To me you are that bright ball of loving light.
Your story, the fable of your life, has touched me so deeply, dear friend. And I really mean it. It's a strange and beautiful feeling - to see one's soul in the words. Thank you. And I'm sending you much love 💖
Dear Ana, you are already a globe of light in this world, and light doesn’t have a gender. 😊 Currently, I’m travelling in my car camper. It carries what I truly need and nothing more. I use every item. This is the amount of stuff I can manage without it being a burden. To me, minimalism is a wonderful way to live, it’s so carefree.
I consider myself both minimalist and maximalist at the same time. I know it may seem weird, but somehow, I like collecting things that make me happy, make me more creative, etc. But as you said, Ana, the light that we carry within is the most important thing & I never forget that. So maybe I'm a minimalist, after all? Who knows... Thank you for a brilliant video once again, Ana ❣
Hi Magda! Oh, I totally understand what you mean:) Honestly, I've been missing all my art/hobby supplies so much, just as you said - all things that make your feel more creative. So, probably in that sense, I'm a maximalist after all 😉Thank you so much for watching and being here 💖
I have been a minimalist for 10-12 years now. Funnily enough people often don't see my home as minimalist, because it is not stark and grey, or with all things behind white cabinet doors. - They don't see, that what is left in my home, is things I both like and use. And that I often cull more, and release myself from things. - They don't see the joy my app. 40 houseplants bring me any day. They aren't just unappreciated clutter. - They don't see that my open cabinets instead of closed doors for all my creative materials, mean I appreciate and use them more. My minimalism is that I got rid of about half of what I own, am much lighter of mind, and that I know that I could leave 99% of my things behind tomorrow and be all ok with it.
This is such a beautiful piece of your mind and life! I absolutely love it and your approach to minimalism. If I had a home of my own right now, it would be like the one you've described 😍
@@anagoldberg Thank you. Eventually you will be able to have a place to be together and settle down, I am sure. But also the travel lifestyle, even by the circumstances, is good for the soul because it makes you prioritise and focus on what is the most important: Connection and peace of mind.
It's been so hard to let go of things after events outside of my control. Sometimes I'm glad I hung on to 2-3 of my grandfather's figurines because maybe one will get lost or something. But really what I miss is my grandfather. So when getting rid of things that have sentimental value, I will take pictures of them. It's also what I look at most when I look at albums of my life and my family - those little things that made Nana's kitchen *hers*, the sweater Dad always wore, the reading glasses that read every morning paper. They represent a time and a feeling - and pictures help evoke those for me. There's still nothing like holding something that still has the scent of your dearly departed. I don't know why it's so comforting to me.
To be creative is my most important activity. I'm without purpose without the option to have a creative outlet. Unfortunatly, my creative endevors come with many tools and materials. I work with paper, mostly, but wood is becomming my future, my legacy. I must have a fairly large building to house my creative world. Sometimes it is overwhelming to be responsible of so much material. John. Bethel, Missouri, USA
Ana, it is good to see how happy you are. Even my husband who is deaf said "she looks happy!" and "she is pretty." He is right about both. I like the way you combine colors in your clothing. You may be a minimalist but you have not abandoned your ability to combine and create. Love and Happpiness to you both.
I love how you share your experiences and your journey with all of us like a chat with a good friend. You are growing with each experience and so are we with you!Thank you for being such a wonderful role model for all of us!
I remember when I realized how I needed to be more mindful in my spending. I was not working, but caring for our small children. My husband worked very hard to provide for us. The challenge from a wise mother “when I think I need something or want something, I factor how hard my husband has worked to have that money. And then I realize I do not need so many things.” Wow her wise words changed my whole perspective on things! They are just things and I would rather my husband have more time with me and the kids, rather than “things” That was 20 years ago and I have no regrets about living more focused and minimal! Thanks for sharing
Hi Ana, good to see you again.i love your hair band, it looks beautiful🙏i am becoming more and more minimalist, especially now that I am older. When my mum died, Ihad the task if going through everything she had kept for over 80 years. She kept everything, all our school repirts, paintings , school uniforms, cards, everything. I realised when I opened box by box, the years had eaten away at everything, and when I lifted all these things out the boxes they crumbled with age and melted into nothingness, a puff of dust. I realised then than nothing is permanent, everything eventually dies. That nade me realised that its piintless keeping so many things but to rather keep the memories, until they fade a
Thank you so much for sharing this, dear Gale. I can so much relate to your story. It's a really profound feeling and realization. Memories are always with us... Sending love to you 💚
You shared your light in the darkest of circumstances. I saw true beauty there. Keep shining your light. You have brightened my world. God bless you both!
I find it hard to let things go but more so if they belong to my son. He has no t in keeping anything, I'm the hurdle. I ave always put too much sentimental store in things. Now I notice I'm keeping things that were not originally mine after e.g. my aunt passed and my mother is passing me things so. I totally agree that it becomes overwhelming as no home can breathe with so much stuff. I'm trying in spurts to get better. I was so bad I had to take a photo of every piece of clothing of my sons before I donated it ... and then all my photos died with a laptop. I'm trying to move on from the loss of my photos by focusing on my son in the now ... but it still breaks my heart. I really need to move towards less and detach the sentimentality from things 🌼💗🌼
When my younger sister died five years ago, I had to go through every one of her items and either give it away, donate it, or discard it. She was an organized hoarder, and it was a daunting task. I thought about all of the time and money that she had spent accumulating her things and it just made me sad.That time and money would have been beter spent, enjoying her life while she was still here. We all must die, but we seem to accumulate and live our lives like we never will.Then someone else is left to deal with our earthly possessions. What minimalism means to me is that my son will never have to suffer what I did while going through my things when I die. It should take him one morning and then he can move in to my house. This video was wonderful Ana. You are pure light and love and it really shines through.I am happy for your new adventures with your husband and hope that you both have a lifetime of health, joy and happiness.
I have been cleaning out my mother's home for the past couple of months. We rented a huge (huge) dumpster, and the amount of items we had to just throw away was mind blowing. Certainly has given me things to think about for my own home and life. So good to see you Ana.
Oh, that was an intense experience, Julia. The number of things left after my parents gives me massive anxiety. Such a delicate matter it is... Thank you so much for watching, dear friend 💚
You bring me and other fellow introverts and HSPs so much comfort in this crazy world. I can't thank you enough. I wish I could talk to my younger self and tell her to not be so sad and cynical, because along the way, other individuals would turn up with whom she'd find a kind of kinship 🥺😘
Aww, I cherish the kinship and this community so much, dear Lourdes! It's a real gift for me and I hope I'm giving back just as much as you all are giving me. Sending you love, my friend 💚
Ana Your radiance💚 the light within You is shining so brightly for us all to see and Love💗 Take good care,and may blessings follow your gratitude💗 sending so much Love ❤ Bev, Bath, Uk
Very good video, Ana. I was reminded of the idea of Swedish Death Cleaning and how it relates to our possessions and the impact of them on others. It can be really liberating to have less things to store and care for and more time to spend on experiences and relationships. Sending all best wishes from South Australia to you and your husband.
Thank you so much for watching, Alex! Yes, I learned about the Swedish Death Cleaning not a long time ago and absolutely love the idea. Sending hugs to South Australia 💖
Ana, I always enjoy hearing your perspectives. You are a natural at presenting your videos. So glad that you and Bryan are together. I think it’s always comforting to be with someone you love. I feel both of your shining lights and I look forward to your videos!
Great insights in this video! 19 "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust does corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:
One of the best videos on minimalism out there! The depth of wisdom... so many lines I will treasure and take into the future. Thank you for this beautiful gift xxx
Minimalism has been with mankind in one form or another pretty much since the dawn of time. I've read people like Joe Dominguez (Your Money or Your Life) and others because I just think the whole concept of 8-5 until you die is pretty messed up. In the book of Matthew chapter 6 it reminds us we can't live our lives going in two directions at the same time; to keep our eye simple. That was thousands of years ago. I guess it's the human condition and people have not changed much over the centuries. I love channels like yours. It reminds me of what is right with humankind while we are asea as a species in turmoil. Keep your light shining Ana. 💗💖
I absolutely agree, dear Colleen. It's so interesting to see how we, humans, refuse to make the right conclusions while the answer is so obvious and not hidden at all... But I can feel the world's changing 😊 Thank you so much for being here 💖
Dear Ana, I was so moved by what you said about our inner light. Your videos are always so inspiring... Sending you love from Greece and I wish you and your husband stay safe and happy together.
I am by definition a minimalist, but I don’t usually think of myself as one. Just like claustrophobic people don’t like being in tiny spaces, I don’t feel comfortable in my own skin when my belongings grow beyond my appreciation, affection, use, and grasp. When things have out lived their appreciation or usage, but still in my possession, I feel a bit cluttered and disconnected from who I am. I’ve realized as I live and continue growing, possessions naturally come and go. I love giving away and clearing my life of the excess when I don’t use or cherish it anymore, like shedding old skin. When I am living my life with just the belongings I cherish and use, I feel more at peace, whole, and balanced.
I love the way you compared claustrophobia and "clutterophobia"! Yes, this feeling of being disconnected from yourself - I understand it so well. Your approach to life sounds grounded and balanced. Thank you so much for sharing, Gio!
Ana, you are wise beyond your years Your videos make me feel better. I am so happy you and Brian are finally together. You are a strong woman to go through the past two years. Stay safe and I wish you all the happiness that the future can give. Love from USA
nice to see a new video. I gave up most of my possessions in Canada, and moved to budapest from a large house to a flat here, its still large compared to other flats here but I am living with about 70 percent less things then before. AT least now I know what I have and where its kept. I also treasure some things that I kept even more.
@@anagoldberg not so daring, I forced myself to be brave. Being a highly sensitive person gave me physical issues as well with the stresses of it all. you know how it is.
From the outside, minimalism used to look like nothing more than an aesthetic with a set of rules. But once I took the time to learn about the core concepts and immerse myself in the community of people who practice minimalism, I found a beautiful spectrum made up of personal interpretations by the individuals I listened to or read from. And from that spectrum, I “decluttered” the interpretations that didn’t resonate with me, and I continue to stay connected to the people whose interpretations do resonate with me and uplift me (people like you!❤️). As with most things, when we take time to understand something that is new or misunderstood, it can be truly rewarding and life-changing. 😊
Happiness looks good on you! And I love your headscarf. This was a timely video for me. I am at the time of my life where I need to declutter. Your words of wisdom and quotes are a true inspiration for me. Sending love to you and Brian. ❤️
I have been on a slow journey towards minimalism for a few years. It never takes away from my life. It only gives clarity and more energy towards the thing I value the most which is my Creator and getting closer to God. I love how your gentle spirit makes these videos. You are relaxing to us. Thank you dear one. I tend to lean into always preparing for improved focus with less items. I have some health issues and might not always have the strength to prepare and finish house projects or downsize to a easy manageable level so I’m working (enjoyable) now while I have the time and energy so that my stuff is never a burden to anyone. Small and organized amount that is easy to deal if I go to Heaven soon. I see it as a way to be giving to others and most importantly my husband who works so hard and takes care of me well. I’ve made decluttering and improving household chores a hobby : ) If it’s not easy to maintain I try to let it go in exchange for more energy and thoughts toward higher and better ways: ) Peace be with you Ana 💕 Love, Vee
You're such a gentle and beautiful soul, dear Vee 🌼Thank you so much for sharing your experience and perspective. I'm so sorry you have to go through all those challenges.... Wish I could support you more, and for now, I'm sending all my love and best thoughts 💖 Your husband is a lucky man, by the way!
This is wonderful Vee! Our Pastor had a sermon this morning on living like you are trying to, with gratitude and not to be so focused on our earthly possessions.
Dearest Ana - as ALWAYS these coffee chats fills my heart with peace and joy. I feel that the whole minimalism trend - yes trend - gets really crazy at times. Some people just live a less "stuffed" life - I have always preferred spending time out doors, time with my cats and time with BOOKS rather than time spent accumulating things. My parents on the other hand seem to feel the need to always collect and hold onto so much stuff - I guess it's something in the make up of each human. I see it at work as well - so much spending on "things" and so little TIME to live and breathe. Anyway that's my little opinion for now. You look radiant and as always - the "chat" brings joy. Wishing you and Brian and wonderful blessed and sunny week ahead - enjoy some sunshine for me too please it's absolutely FREEZING here with endless storms and rain. Sending lots of Love and Purrrrrrrrrrrs ALWAYS xxx
Dear Pauli, I'm always so glad to get messages from you! Yes, people often forget that living and breathing are the most important... Sending you warm hugs! Hope the storms will subside soon 💖
I'm an upclycing artist and collect 'waste' to turn into art, fashion and buildings. I love the esthetic of maximalism. But I'm an minimalist as well. I have small, handy tools, smart and compact. I have only 3 outfits. But I love living surrounded by art, Fairy style things, kitschy vintage, oversized furniture and lots of loud colors. It's possible to be both
I'm so glad there is a movement that gets people to think about mindless accumulation. I've been trying for years to downsize and declutter to free myself from feeling strangled by the things I have. I've made progress but have more to do so I appreciate hearing from people like you. It's also nice to see you looking lighter in spirit now that you are reunited with Brian. All the best to you both.
I became a minimalist in 2017 by choice. I was a collector, and I had some really cool stuff. But I had to move and my mantra became if it won't fit in the Ford it's not going. I had so much fun giving and donating, even sold a few books. A lifetime of memories. I've never looked back. It is so freeing. I've even trimmed my art supplies down to a few. They used to occupy a whole room. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences, it is very helpful and motivating. So glad things are working for you Ana, I hope I spelled your name correctly!!! Be blessed!
So true Ana. I spent my life collecting and collecting till it began to stifle me. Now I am the happiest giving it all away. The hardest part is my books. They become a part of you. Love your thinking, Ana, your words of wisdom always touch my heart.
Thank you so much for watching, dear friend! Yes, I understand your connection with books so well. I used to adore my personal, tiny library of art books that I've been collecting for over a decade. But unfortunately, I couldn't take them along on this journey.... Sending love to you 🤗
Thanks for the new video! It was good to see you and hear your thoughts. You look more peaceful and happy, hopefully you are feeling that’s way. I’ve been getting rid of more things every day and it feels so freeing! Thanks for the encouragement!
Hope your decluttering journey is seamless and utterly liberating, dear friend 💖 Thank you so much for watching! And yes, I do feel so much happier now 😊
I’m listening to this while cleaning my home. I live in a small space. All the things I have in it are overwhelming. Sometimes I think about what would happen to all of my stuff if I die in this home. I can only think that my items would be a burden. I am slowly moving what I do not need along to other people who will get more use out of them now. I want a mostly empty space (except for my crafting supplies) so that I can focus on creating. I want to be free. Sending love. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. 💜
I'm not a minimalist, but I've been trying to curb my consumer mentality for a long time. Your videos help me with that, so thank you. Greetings from Belgrade🦋💫💖
Wonderful words of wisdom, Ana. Thank you so much. To me it appears that your trials and tribulations over the past months have deepened your sense of self, and expanded your ability to let your light shine. Yes, acknowledging our light and working to enhance our light, is part of why we are here on this earth, interacting with each other. There is so much more to say, and I also see that there is nothing else to say (right now). As always, all the best to you and Brian as you continue your journey of love, freedom, and discovery. Peace and Blessings.
You always touched my heart tremendously. I connect to your thoughts and ideas valuing what really matters. Thank you for always being a shining light and a mirror. Love 💗only love 💗
Oh my goodness. Such a wonderful post. You ARE radiant. Minimalism is not at all dead and your encouragement means a lot. I follow a few other minimalists, but I think that for each of you minimalism has been a pathway toward a deeper, more mindful and more soulful life. That is is truly inspiring.
Oh yes, that liberating feeling is precious! We're lucky to have this month of safe and slow living in Albania, and I feel like I'm getting back to being completely myself.
Thank you for your words on this (to me) ever intriguing subject. It is a shame that, at least for now, there won't come more views on that wonderful time capsule appartement of your parents. But I am sooo happy for you that you are together with your husband in a safe place. Perhaps that symbolizes the true detachment of the precious memorabilia and guarding the lively memories and living your life in the now with your soul mate. You look light and bright and expanded.
Ugh, I've been so homesick lately and of course miss that lovely, cluttered and dustry time capsule of my parents... Nikie, thank you so much for mentioning the symbolism of the situation, it really helped me 💖
Dear Ana, a more minimalist environment is a goal I am working towards. I'm trying to reduce the amount of possessions I have, largely for my children's sake. When my father died my sister and I had to clear out a huge amount of stuff and it made a stressful time more stressful. I have got rid of a lot of stuff and I still have a lot more, so minimalism is a work in progress for me. However, I definitely think that minimalism is still a valid ethos to live by and that we all gain greater self-knowledge by re-examination of past choices. Go safely x
Dearest Anastasia, your thought-provoking video came just at a time when my children and I were discussing where all my possessions will go when I am no longer here. They told me they don’t want any of my “stuff,” that they have enough of their own. This saddened me a lot because what I have is a collection of my mother’s personal Hungarian items that she brought with her when she escaped during the 1956 uprising. These things meant so much to her as they do to me also, yet my children don’t care at all. I am a minimalist,live very simply, but have held onto my mother’s things and it hurts me that they don’t mean anything at all to my children. Am I wrong feeling this way? I am seeing happiness in your eyes dearest Anastasia. Make each day count as husband and wife. Much love to you and Brian. 💕
Dear friend, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you feeling that way. We all have our own most cherished memories and possessions and it hurts when our loved ones do not share our feelings. But. Just try to think that you are the vessel of memories that somehow get transferred to your belongings. And your children will keep what brings up their most cherished memories of you - you will be with them, you and the particles of your own memories. I can understand your sadness though... Thank you for your kindness as always. Brian and I sending our love 💚
@@anagoldberg thank you…this eases my mind about my mother’s cherished things. Your thoughts on this matter are so clear, why didn’t I see it? You are wiser than your years. I rewatch your videos and learn from them. You are a wealth of knowledge my dear Anastasia. Across the miles sending you two my love and best wishes for a wonderful life.❤️
It’s always so nice to see you Ana. You look happy. I m so glad that you’re safe and well. This video was so inspiring, as are all your videos. I’m so glad I found your channel , about a year ago now. It’s added to my life. You have a high intellect and you’re a good person. We so desperately need more people like you in this world! I wish you and Brian all the best. Take care, love from Sydney, Australia.❤️🌷🐈⬛🌻🌴
Aww, I'm so happy you've been here for almost year, since the very beginning of my RUclips adventure, dear Teresa! Thank you 💚 Sending love your way to Sydney from both of us🤗
People will always make a trend out of whatever challenges the status quo. It starts off as a rebellion of those tired of the status quo, but then those that can see a way of making money from the rebellious ideas create a trend thereby distorting the original idea. Minimalism is not dead, and will never be. As I got older and became more sensitive as an individual, I naturally became a minimalist. Becoming minimalist is the natural shedding of mental and spiritual baggage.
This was such a lovely, inspiring post Ana, and I appreciate your taking the time to share your insights and continued commitment to an authentic life especially during these difficult times. Stay well.
I loved the story about your uncle and your father - and the point you made. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on "minimalism." I like how you approach it as not a label or a box to sit in, to create a safe identity, but as a way of living that reflects your values and priorities that grows and evolves as you grow and evolve. I agree with others here - you are a globe of light in the world. Thank you for stepping up and sharing your gift(s).
@@willowbei Yes, I'm an Ana fan. It started when I wanted to know more about a part of the world I don't know at all. Russia and Siberia! Now, I obviously come for more. I think Ana is in sync with Quaker sensibilities. Glad to see familiar faces/names among my fellow fans. I will be in Indiana August 1-17, and staying at my mother's farm. Maybe we can get together.
I absolutely agree here 🌼 we, humans, often think that the more we own the more "rooted" we are in life and the more "immortal" we become. Which is not true of course.
I totally agree. I have a house, but I prefer to be minimalist because I don't like clutter. It's more relaxing to me to have few decor pieces that are lovely and well chosen to my taste. To me that makes the house feel more cozy.
I’m going to have to listen to this again. I’m finding it difficult to focus. I suspect I don’t want to hear the truth. I have way too much stuff. And I have gotten rid of a lot. I think I spent years acquiring things because I could; I didn’t grow up with much. I thought it said something about me that I had money and could spend it. I am poor again, but I feel different anyway. I’m not eager to buy. I will listen again; I enjoy your soothing voice anyway. Please keep me in your thoughts next Friday. Love to you both.
I understand how you feel, Ginger. I'm from a poor background myself and used to buy a lot to prove that I'm worth it. Will be thinking of you 💖 Everything will go well, I know it.
"Museum of Memories" - that is so cleverly said by you-thank you so much for that, dear Ana🤗. Please, go on making videos on the topic of minimalism🙏. I hope the two of you are fine💕. Lots of love from Germany🙋🏻♀️🍓
Hello Ana, thank you for sharing your thoughts, it makes sense as we do have so much stuff !!! Just donating clothes I no longer need , feels good ,so someone else can enjoy, you look so well ,, always look forward to your videos, Stay safe as you travel, ❤️
Very thought provoking video! ❤ I love the simplicity of the candle sitting on a piece of paper towel on the plate. And I made your Tofu Paté recipe and love it!
Food for thought, this video, thank you for sharing your deep insight - it is so appreciated, Ana - and so seldom mentioned in today's world! The freshness of your thinking helps us grow, I feel, in a positive direction. So with my thinking cap on, I continue my day with more contemplation thanks to you!! Keep it coming, you are a Light!!!
Hello dear Ana ! I really love your video and how you talk about this subject so simply and beautifully ! Thank you so very much for all your sharings, je te souhaite une très belle journée, prends soin de toi 🌞🌸
When I was younger, I wanted stuff, it felt like it validated my existence and boosted my social standing (as you mentioned, something to that effect). But as I grew older (I'm turning 43), I've gravitated towards minimalism more and more, although I did not know that it's thing! I've only in the last 3 years learned that the concept exists and that it's real. I'm not a minimalist by any means, but I've realised over the years that it calms and focuses me a lot in times of stress. My husband is the complete opposite, but I'll keep striving towards it, lol. Apologies for the long comment!
Loved your comment, Talana! Thank you so much for sharing 🌼 I guess, with years we tend to value not the quantity but the quality and it naturally leads to owning less but creating more meaningful possessions. 💚
@Know1 I've noticed that once I'm in a "lets get rid of the junk" mood, he slowly gets into it, haha! Sometimes its a constant battle to keep his stuff from accumalating in our house. I guess I shouldn't complain though, he's a wonderfull partner to me. Fingers crossed we'll get to where you guys are soon!
Great video Ana! I know I get caught up in being a human doing instead of a human being. I loved this video. It reminded me where I want to be headed in life. Thanks for the pep talk. Stay safe.
My journey has always been evolving because I am open to possibilities that I didn't know to consider.... I have been reducing material items for some time, but I need to divest of most things now... In the coming year, I will retire and begin traveling out of a backpack so I will only take the essentials... You and Brian are an inspiration to many and one. Paka Paka?
Wishing you the best of luck with downsizing! It can be a pain to decide what to take but very rewarding after all 😊 Sending our best to you! Paka-paka:)
So we’ll said! I have always been a minimalist long before it was popular- it is very freeing to be who you are without tons of stuff weighing you down. I come by it honestly as my mother was the same way. In fact when she passed away 17 years ago and we had to go through her things, I was amazed at how little she actually (consciously) had. And for the record you are a bright light to the world!
Hello Ana, you are right, things are just things. Has there to be made a distinction between things, possessions and commodities? I think so. Even more difficult is it, where we put experience, knowledge and wisdom, talent and capacities ... Is it in any case better to travel light? I am not sure. And art, where do we have to imagine art? Beauty and emotions? My preference for minimalism is mainly an aesthetic approach. Have a good time!
I am a funeral director, and I see families overwhelmed by the stuff when the loved ones pass. It is always interesting when stuff goes from proof to a life well lived and something people can remember you by, to a burden. Sending love from Iowa
You've put it so perfectly. And you are the true witness of this pattern, how meaningfulness turns into meaninglessness. Of course, there are exceptions such as family relics, but still... Thank you so much for being here, Claire 💚 Sending love to Iowa.
Indeed, a true witness to the pattern! Truer words seldom proved truer. From your comment, it seems you are a really fine funeral director, one who helps the family with the final act of minimalism for their loved one. Thank you💜
I'm trying to bring my parents to the Swedish death cleaning idea, and I'm trying to get used to it too.
I am handing the many creative supplies/belongings of a dear, beloved friend/artist buddy who died in 2020 of the consequences of dehydration. He collected everything. He was certainly called a hoarder. He saw value and potential in everything. I still miss him deeply. AND I am suffering with the burden of honoring the potential he saw in his belongings.
I found a locally owned bookstore that couldn’t afford to buy stock during 2020. My friend’s many barely-touched books fit the interests of the store’s customers so they had second-hand books to sell during those hard times. His other things were harder to distribute. One small house & 2 storage bins are empty and there are maybe 8 bins left... in my smallish house. In the living room. And I am overwhelmed.
10 years ago I had to leave all my earthly possessions behind, except for a few clothes and religious books that belonged to my deceased father and grandmother. I had to leave many items that my father and grandmother had given me as a child, along with all photos of my only son. Many years after I left I found a photo of my son in one of my grandmother's books. I had used it there as a place marker many years prior. That photo is precious to me. What I discovered after leaving everything behind is that I still had all the items with me now as memories. I have never second-guessed leaving everything, and I make ever effort now to not burden myself down with physical items. My only regret is that I did not leave soon enough to save my son. As you said, Ana, every physical thing passes away, as do we. I love your videos, they are a bright spot in my day. To me you are that bright ball of loving light.
Your story, the fable of your life, has touched me so deeply, dear friend. And I really mean it. It's a strange and beautiful feeling - to see one's soul in the words. Thank you. And I'm sending you much love 💖
“Things are just things after all and they disappear eventually, like we do.” 🙏🌸
Dear Ana, you are already a globe of light in this world, and light doesn’t have a gender. 😊
Currently, I’m travelling in my car camper. It carries what I truly need and nothing more. I use every item. This is the amount of stuff I can manage without it being a burden. To me, minimalism is a wonderful way to live, it’s so carefree.
Wow, wishing you the best on your camper adventure, dear Christiane! Sounds amazing 😍
I consider myself both minimalist and maximalist at the same time. I know it may seem weird, but somehow, I like collecting things that make me happy, make me more creative, etc. But as you said, Ana, the light that we carry within is the most important thing & I never forget that. So maybe I'm a minimalist, after all? Who knows... Thank you for a brilliant video once again, Ana ❣
Hi Magda! Oh, I totally understand what you mean:) Honestly, I've been missing all my art/hobby supplies so much, just as you said - all things that make your feel more creative. So, probably in that sense, I'm a maximalist after all 😉Thank you so much for watching and being here 💖
I have been a minimalist for 10-12 years now. Funnily enough people often don't see my home as minimalist, because it is not stark and grey, or with all things behind white cabinet doors.
- They don't see, that what is left in my home, is things I both like and use. And that I often cull more, and release myself from things.
- They don't see the joy my app. 40 houseplants bring me any day. They aren't just unappreciated clutter.
- They don't see that my open cabinets instead of closed doors for all my creative materials, mean I appreciate and use them more.
My minimalism is that I got rid of about half of what I own, am much lighter of mind, and that I know that I could leave 99% of my things behind tomorrow and be all ok with it.
This is such a beautiful piece of your mind and life! I absolutely love it and your approach to minimalism. If I had a home of my own right now, it would be like the one you've described 😍
@@anagoldberg Thank you. Eventually you will be able to have a place to be together and settle down, I am sure. But also the travel lifestyle, even by the circumstances, is good for the soul because it makes you prioritise and focus on what is the most important: Connection and peace of mind.
It's been so hard to let go of things after events outside of my control. Sometimes I'm glad I hung on to 2-3 of my grandfather's figurines because maybe one will get lost or something. But really what I miss is my grandfather. So when getting rid of things that have sentimental value, I will take pictures of them. It's also what I look at most when I look at albums of my life and my family - those little things that made Nana's kitchen *hers*, the sweater Dad always wore, the reading glasses that read every morning paper. They represent a time and a feeling - and pictures help evoke those for me. There's still nothing like holding something that still has the scent of your dearly departed. I don't know why it's so comforting to me.
You have such beautiful memories to cherish, Katie... Thank you for sharing them.
So glad you and your husband are reunited.you look so happy.
Thank you Sharon 🌸
Youook peaceful and glowing ❤️
Thank you, my friend! 🌿
To be creative is my most important activity. I'm without purpose without the option to have a creative outlet. Unfortunatly, my creative endevors come with many tools and materials. I work with paper, mostly, but wood is becomming my future, my legacy. I must have a fairly large building to house my creative world. Sometimes it is overwhelming to be responsible of so much material.
John. Bethel, Missouri, USA
Museum of memories… finding out what limits you… wow… thank you for your words, dear Ana🙏🏻❤️😊
Thank you so much for watching and resonating, dear Zuzka 🌸🤗
Ana, it is good to see how happy you are. Even my husband who is deaf said "she looks happy!" and "she is pretty." He is right about both. I like the way you combine colors in your clothing. You may be a minimalist but you have not abandoned your ability to combine and create. Love and Happpiness to you both.
Aww, you and your husband are so sweet, thank you! 🤗 Sending love, my friend 💚
Beautiful, Ana. I love the days when I come here to pause and refresh. Thank you.
Aww, I'm so glad, Catherine 🤗
I love how you share your experiences and your journey with all of us like a chat with a good friend. You are growing with each experience and so are we with you!Thank you for being such a wonderful role model for all of us!
Aww, you're so kind, my friend 💖 Thank you!
I remember when I realized how I needed to be more mindful in my spending.
I was not working, but caring for our small children. My husband worked very hard to provide for us.
The challenge from a wise mother “when I think I need something or want something, I factor how hard my husband has worked to have that money. And then I realize I do not need so many things.” Wow her wise words changed my whole perspective on things! They are just things and I would rather my husband have more time with me and the kids, rather than “things” That was 20 years ago and I have no regrets about living more focused and minimal! Thanks for sharing
This is such an inspiring story! Thank you so much for sharing, my friend 🌿
Hi Ana, good to see you again.i love your hair band, it looks beautiful🙏i am becoming more and more minimalist, especially now that I am older. When my mum died, Ihad the task if going through everything she had kept for over 80 years. She kept everything, all our school repirts, paintings , school uniforms, cards, everything. I realised when I opened box by box, the years had eaten away at everything, and when I lifted all these things out the boxes they crumbled with age and melted into nothingness, a puff of dust. I realised then than nothing is permanent, everything eventually dies. That nade me realised that its piintless keeping so many things but to rather keep the memories, until they fade a
Until they fade, away, like we do. Thank you for your updates and insight into your world. Kind regards to Brian. Big hug Gale x
Thank you so much for sharing this, dear Gale. I can so much relate to your story. It's a really profound feeling and realization. Memories are always with us... Sending love to you 💚
You shared your light in the darkest of circumstances. I saw true beauty there. Keep shining your light. You have brightened my world. God bless you both!
Oh, these are such sweet and precious words... Thank you so much, dear friend. And I always feel the light from you, your presence here 🌸
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I am always happy to see a new video to watch from you, I learn new and profound ideas! I pray you and your husband are safe and happy.
Thank you so much for being here, Jo Ann! 🤗💖
I find it hard to let things go but more so if they belong to my son. He has no t in keeping anything, I'm the hurdle. I ave always put too much sentimental store in things. Now I notice I'm keeping things that were not originally mine after e.g. my aunt passed and my mother is passing me things so. I totally agree that it becomes overwhelming as no home can breathe with so much stuff. I'm trying in spurts to get better. I was so bad I had to take a photo of every piece of clothing of my sons before I donated it ... and then all my photos died with a laptop. I'm trying to move on from the loss of my photos by focusing on my son in the now ... but it still breaks my heart. I really need to move towards less and detach the sentimentality from things 🌼💗🌼
I loved this video. It makes me realize that I have been holding on to the past and must let go. Thank you
I'm so glad the video was helpful, Sue 💚 Thank you for being here.
YOU ARE A SHINING SOUL, my dearest Ana! I've seen that till the first time i watched a video of yours 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
You are so kind, dear Chiara 🌿 Thank you for being here!
When my younger sister died five years ago, I had to go through every one of her items and either give it away, donate it, or discard it. She was an organized hoarder, and it was a daunting task. I thought about all of the time and money that she had spent accumulating her things and it just made me sad.That time and money would have been beter spent, enjoying her life while she was still here. We all must die, but we seem to accumulate and live our lives like we never will.Then someone else is left to deal with our earthly possessions. What minimalism means to me is that my son will never have to suffer what I did while going through my things when I die. It should take him one morning and then he can move in to my house. This video was wonderful Ana. You are pure light and love and it really shines through.I am happy for your new adventures with your husband and hope that you both have a lifetime of health, joy and happiness.
I'm so sorry for your loss 🙏Your insights are profound and utterly true.. Thank you so much for watching and your kindest words, dear friend 💖
Beaurtiful, Ana. I always feel several degrees saner after watching one of your wise and reflective videos. Much love. 💕⚘🌿
I'm so glad, dear Rowanne! Thank you so much for watching and being here 🤗🌼
I have been cleaning out my mother's home for the past couple of months. We rented a huge (huge) dumpster, and the amount of items we had to just throw away was mind blowing. Certainly has given me things to think about for my own home and life. So good to see you Ana.
Oh, that was an intense experience, Julia. The number of things left after my parents gives me massive anxiety. Such a delicate matter it is... Thank you so much for watching, dear friend 💚
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🙏 Thanks, Ana 🙏
You bring me and other fellow introverts and HSPs so much comfort in this crazy world. I can't thank you enough. I wish I could talk to my younger self and tell her to not be so sad and cynical, because along the way, other individuals would turn up with whom she'd find a kind of kinship 🥺😘
Aww, I cherish the kinship and this community so much, dear Lourdes! It's a real gift for me and I hope I'm giving back just as much as you all are giving me. Sending you love, my friend 💚
@@anagoldberg 😘😘😘
Ana Your radiance💚 the light within You is shining so brightly for us all to see and Love💗 Take good care,and may blessings follow your gratitude💗 sending so much Love ❤ Bev, Bath, Uk
Thank you so much for your kind words, dear Bev 🌸
Very good video, Ana. I was reminded of the idea of Swedish Death Cleaning and how it relates to our possessions and the impact of them on others. It can be really liberating to have less things to store and care for and more time to spend on experiences and relationships. Sending all best wishes from South Australia to you and your husband.
Thank you so much for watching, Alex! Yes, I learned about the Swedish Death Cleaning not a long time ago and absolutely love the idea. Sending hugs to South Australia 💖
Ana, I always enjoy hearing your perspectives. You are a natural at presenting your videos.
So glad that you and Bryan are together. I think it’s always comforting to be with someone you love. I feel both of your shining lights and I look forward to your videos!
Thank you so much for being here, dear Judy 💚 I'm so glad the video resonated with you!
You are looking radiant. Enjoy your videos.
Thank you so much, Yvonne 💖
Great insights in this video!
19 "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust does corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:
One of the best videos on minimalism out there! The depth of wisdom... so many lines I will treasure and take into the future. Thank you for this beautiful gift xxx
Thank you so much for watching and resonating, Ruth! 💚
Minimalism has been with mankind in one form or another pretty much since the dawn of time. I've read people like Joe Dominguez (Your Money or Your Life) and others because I just think the whole concept of 8-5 until you die is pretty messed up. In the book of Matthew chapter 6 it reminds us we can't live our lives going in two directions at the same time; to keep our eye simple. That was thousands of years ago. I guess it's the human condition and people have not changed much over the centuries. I love channels like yours. It reminds me of what is right with humankind while we are asea as a species in turmoil. Keep your light shining Ana. 💗💖
I absolutely agree, dear Colleen. It's so interesting to see how we, humans, refuse to make the right conclusions while the answer is so obvious and not hidden at all... But I can feel the world's changing 😊 Thank you so much for being here 💖
Dear Ana,
I was so moved by what you said about our inner light. Your videos are always so inspiring... Sending you love from Greece and I wish you and your husband stay safe and happy together.
Thank you so much for watching and being so kind, dear Katerina! Sending love all the way to Greece 💖
I am by definition a minimalist, but I don’t usually think of myself as one. Just like claustrophobic people don’t like being in tiny spaces, I don’t feel comfortable in my own skin when my belongings grow beyond my appreciation, affection, use, and grasp. When things have out lived their appreciation or usage, but still in my possession, I feel a bit cluttered and disconnected from who I am. I’ve realized as I live and continue growing, possessions naturally come and go. I love giving away and clearing my life of the excess when I don’t use or cherish it anymore, like shedding old skin. When I am living my life with just the belongings I cherish and use, I feel more at peace, whole, and balanced.
I love the way you compared claustrophobia and "clutterophobia"! Yes, this feeling of being disconnected from yourself - I understand it so well. Your approach to life sounds grounded and balanced. Thank you so much for sharing, Gio!
@@anagoldberg I never heard that term before, clutterphobia, but it is definitely going into my vocabulary. ❤️
@@thefilipinojoe Haha, honestly me neither, just came up with the term when I responded to your comment:)
@@anagoldberg glad to see we're creative inspiration for each other 💕
Ana, you are wise beyond your years
Your videos make me feel better.
I am so happy you and Brian are finally together. You are a strong woman to go through the past two years. Stay safe and I wish you all the happiness that the future can give. Love from USA
I'm so glad you enjoyed the video, dear friend 🌸 Thank you so much for your kindess. Sending love to you!
nice to see a new video. I gave up most of my possessions in Canada, and moved to budapest from a large house to a flat here, its still large compared to other flats here but I am living with about 70 percent less things then before. AT least now I know what I have and where its kept. I also treasure some things that I kept even more.
It's so inspiring to hear, dear Anna! You're a daring, strong soul🌟
@@anagoldberg not so daring, I forced myself to be brave. Being a highly sensitive person gave me physical issues as well with the stresses of it all. you know how it is.
From the outside, minimalism used to look like nothing more than an aesthetic with a set of rules. But once I took the time to learn about the core concepts and immerse myself in the community of people who practice minimalism, I found a beautiful spectrum made up of personal interpretations by the individuals I listened to or read from. And from that spectrum, I “decluttered” the interpretations that didn’t resonate with me, and I continue to stay connected to the people whose interpretations do resonate with me and uplift me (people like you!❤️). As with most things, when we take time to understand something that is new or misunderstood, it can be truly rewarding and life-changing. 😊
Happiness looks good on you! And I love your headscarf. This was a timely video for me. I am at the time of my life where I need to declutter. Your words of wisdom and quotes are a true inspiration for me. Sending love to you and Brian. ❤️
Oh, I'm happy the video was helpful 💚 Wishing you a smooth and liberating decluttering process! Brian and I sending love 🌿
There is so much wisdom in your videos, as well as calmness and peace. Thank you for continuing to make them!
It's so kind of you to say this, my friend! Thank you so much for being here 💚
Another great video ana
Thank you, Liam! 🌸
I have been on a slow journey towards minimalism for a few years. It never takes away from my life. It only gives clarity and more energy towards the thing I value the most which is my Creator and getting closer to God. I love how your gentle spirit makes these videos. You are relaxing to us. Thank you dear one.
I tend to lean into always preparing for improved focus with less items. I have some health issues and might not always have the strength to prepare and finish house projects or downsize to a easy manageable level so I’m working (enjoyable) now while I have the time and energy so that my stuff is never a burden to anyone. Small and organized amount that is easy to deal if I go to Heaven soon. I see it as a way to be giving to others and most importantly my husband who works so hard and takes care of me well. I’ve made decluttering and improving household chores a hobby : ) If it’s not easy to maintain I try to let it go in exchange for more energy and thoughts toward higher and better ways: )
Peace be with you Ana 💕
Love,
Vee
You're such a gentle and beautiful soul, dear Vee 🌼Thank you so much for sharing your experience and perspective. I'm so sorry you have to go through all those challenges.... Wish I could support you more, and for now, I'm sending all my love and best thoughts 💖 Your husband is a lucky man, by the way!
This is wonderful Vee! Our Pastor had a sermon this morning on living like you are trying to, with gratitude and not to be so focused on our earthly possessions.
Absolutely beautiful Ana. The light we are and the light we share is our freedom x
This is so true, Estelle 💖
Thank you for charging your thoughts.🙏🙏 😍 Greatings from Sweden ☀️🌲🍀😀
I've fully enjoyed this video. Namely your vision of the light that we carry inside. Sweet and brilliant.Thank you.
Thank you so much for watching, dear friend 💖
Dearest Ana - as ALWAYS these coffee chats fills my heart with peace and joy. I feel that the whole minimalism trend - yes trend - gets really crazy at times. Some people just live a less "stuffed" life - I have always preferred spending time out doors, time with my cats and time with BOOKS rather than time spent accumulating things. My parents on the other hand seem to feel the need to always collect and hold onto so much stuff - I guess it's something in the make up of each human. I see it at work as well - so much spending on "things" and so little TIME to live and breathe.
Anyway that's my little opinion for now. You look radiant and as always - the "chat" brings joy. Wishing you and Brian and wonderful blessed and sunny week ahead - enjoy some sunshine for me too please it's absolutely FREEZING here with endless storms and rain. Sending lots of Love and Purrrrrrrrrrrs ALWAYS xxx
Dear Pauli, I'm always so glad to get messages from you! Yes, people often forget that living and breathing are the most important...
Sending you warm hugs!
Hope the storms will subside soon 💖
I'm an upclycing artist and collect 'waste' to turn into art, fashion and buildings. I love the esthetic of maximalism. But I'm an minimalist as well. I have small, handy tools, smart and compact. I have only 3 outfits. But I love living surrounded by art, Fairy style things, kitschy vintage, oversized furniture and lots of loud colors. It's possible to be both
I agree with you, dear friend, so much! We can be both. With art and crafts, it's impossible to stay purely "minimal" 😊
Your face is just radiating happiness! ❤
I'm so glad there is a movement that gets people to think about mindless accumulation. I've been trying for years to downsize and declutter to free myself from feeling strangled by the things I have. I've made progress but have more to do so I appreciate hearing from people like you. It's also nice to see you looking lighter in spirit now that you are reunited with Brian. All the best to you both.
I became a minimalist in 2017 by choice. I was a collector, and I had some really cool stuff. But I had to move and my mantra became if it won't fit in the Ford it's not going. I had so much fun giving and donating, even sold a few books. A lifetime of memories. I've never looked back. It is so freeing. I've even trimmed my art supplies down to a few. They used to occupy a whole room. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences, it is very helpful and motivating. So glad things are working for you Ana, I hope I spelled your name correctly!!! Be blessed!
Thank you for watching and sharing your story, Allie! It's inspiring 💚 Sending much love 🌿
So true Ana. I spent my life collecting and collecting till it began to stifle me. Now I am the happiest giving it all away. The hardest part is my books. They become a part of you. Love your thinking, Ana, your words of wisdom always touch my heart.
Thank you so much for watching, dear friend! Yes, I understand your connection with books so well. I used to adore my personal, tiny library of art books that I've been collecting for over a decade. But unfortunately, I couldn't take them along on this journey....
Sending love to you 🤗
Yes yes yes- this is so appropriate to now. A very important discussion to be having X
Ana, thank you for your profound words that are so digestible to my heart.
Love to you and Brian. Happy well wishes as you journey together 💜💫
Thank you so much for these kind words, Julia 🌸🌼
Thank you, dear Ana, thank you very much.......
You're always welcome, dear Enny 🌸
Thanks for the new video! It was good to see you and hear your thoughts. You look more peaceful and happy, hopefully you are feeling that’s way. I’ve been getting rid of more things every day and it feels so freeing! Thanks for the encouragement!
Hope your decluttering journey is seamless and utterly liberating, dear friend 💖 Thank you so much for watching! And yes, I do feel so much happier now 😊
I’m listening to this while cleaning my home. I live in a small space. All the things I have in it are overwhelming. Sometimes I think about what would happen to all of my stuff if I die in this home. I can only think that my items would be a burden.
I am slowly moving what I do not need along to other people who will get more use out of them now.
I want a mostly empty space (except for my crafting supplies) so that I can focus on creating. I want to be free.
Sending love. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. 💜
Thank you so much for watching, my friend. Focusing on creating is a way to be for me as well. It feels so fulfilling.
Sending love to you 💖
I'm not a minimalist, but I've been trying to curb my consumer mentality for a long time. Your videos help me with that, so thank you. Greetings from Belgrade🦋💫💖
I'm so glad the videos resonate with you! Sending my best to Belgrade (tI already miss the city so much!) 💚
Wonderful words of wisdom, Ana. Thank you so much. To me it appears that your trials and tribulations over the past months have deepened your sense of self, and expanded your ability to let your light shine. Yes, acknowledging our light and working to enhance our light, is part of why we are here on this earth, interacting with each other. There is so much more to say, and I also see that there is nothing else to say (right now). As always, all the best to you and Brian as you continue your journey of love, freedom, and discovery. Peace and Blessings.
Thank you so much for watching and being here, Willowbei 🌟 Brian and I sending our best thoughts.
You always touched my heart tremendously. I connect to your thoughts and ideas valuing what really matters. Thank you for always being a shining light and a mirror. Love 💗only love 💗
Be yourself and choose what makes you happy and free - answers all the doubts about minimalism. Thank you, Ana.
It's true! Thank you so much for watching, Victoria 🌼
Oh my goodness. Such a wonderful post. You ARE radiant. Minimalism is not at all dead and your encouragement means a lot. I follow a few other minimalists, but I think that for each of you minimalism has been a pathway toward a deeper, more mindful and more soulful life. That is is truly inspiring.
I'm so glad the video resonated with you, Diane! 💖 Thank you so much for being here.
Good to see you 🙂 I hope your continuing journey is safe and happy! I am not a minimalist but I do experience freedom when I have let things go.
Oh yes, that liberating feeling is precious! We're lucky to have this month of safe and slow living in Albania, and I feel like I'm getting back to being completely myself.
Thank you for your words on this (to me) ever intriguing subject. It is a shame that, at least for now, there won't come more views on that wonderful time capsule appartement of your parents. But I am sooo happy for you that you are together with your husband in a safe place. Perhaps that symbolizes the true detachment of the precious memorabilia and guarding the lively memories and living your life in the now with your soul mate. You look light and bright and expanded.
Ugh, I've been so homesick lately and of course miss that lovely, cluttered and dustry time capsule of my parents... Nikie, thank you so much for mentioning the symbolism of the situation, it really helped me 💖
My heart goes out to you Anna! It will get better, but it will take time.
Dear Ana, a more minimalist environment is a goal I am working towards. I'm trying to reduce the amount of possessions I have, largely for my children's sake. When my father died my sister and I had to clear out a huge amount of stuff and it made a stressful time more stressful.
I have got rid of a lot of stuff and I still have a lot more, so minimalism is a work in progress for me. However, I definitely think that minimalism is still a valid ethos to live by and that we all gain greater self-knowledge by re-examination of past choices.
Go safely x
Dearest Anastasia, your thought-provoking video came just at a time when my children and I were discussing where all my possessions will go when I am no longer here. They told me they don’t want any of my “stuff,” that they have enough of their own. This saddened me a lot because what I have is a collection of my mother’s personal Hungarian items that she brought with her when she escaped during the 1956 uprising. These things meant so much to her as they do to me also, yet my children don’t care at all. I am a minimalist,live very simply, but have held onto my mother’s things and it hurts me that they don’t mean anything at all to my children. Am I wrong feeling this way?
I am seeing happiness in your eyes dearest Anastasia. Make each day count as husband and wife. Much love to you and Brian. 💕
Dear friend, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you feeling that way. We all have our own most cherished memories and possessions and it hurts when our loved ones do not share our feelings. But. Just try to think that you are the vessel of memories that somehow get transferred to your belongings. And your children will keep what brings up their most cherished memories of you - you will be with them, you and the particles of your own memories. I can understand your sadness though...
Thank you for your kindness as always. Brian and I sending our love 💚
@@anagoldberg thank you…this eases my mind about my mother’s cherished things. Your thoughts on this matter are so clear, why didn’t I see it? You are wiser than your years. I rewatch your videos and learn from them. You are a wealth of knowledge my dear Anastasia. Across the miles sending you two my love and best wishes for a wonderful life.❤️
It’s always so nice to see you Ana. You look happy. I m so glad that you’re safe and well. This video was so inspiring, as are all your videos. I’m so glad I found your channel , about a year ago now. It’s added to my life. You have a high intellect and you’re a good person. We so desperately need more people like you in this world! I wish you and Brian all the best. Take care, love from Sydney, Australia.❤️🌷🐈⬛🌻🌴
Aww, I'm so happy you've been here for almost year, since the very beginning of my RUclips adventure, dear Teresa! Thank you 💚 Sending love your way to Sydney from both of us🤗
Thanks Ana for your wise insights. Lovely to see you full of strength and wisdom again..!
Thank you for being here, dear Sylvia 🌿
Ana, just want you to know you always have my support and love.
Thank you so much, dear Jasenka 🌸
People will always make a trend out of whatever challenges the status quo. It starts off as a rebellion of those tired of the status quo, but then those that can see a way of making money from the rebellious ideas create a trend thereby distorting the original idea. Minimalism is not dead, and will never be. As I got older and became more sensitive as an individual, I naturally became a minimalist. Becoming minimalist is the natural shedding of mental and spiritual baggage.
This was such a lovely, inspiring post Ana, and I appreciate your taking the time to share your insights and continued commitment to an authentic life especially during these difficult times. Stay well.
Thank you so much for watching, dear friend 🌿 Sending love
I loved the story about your uncle and your father - and the point you made. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on "minimalism." I like how you approach it as not a label or a box to sit in, to create a safe identity, but as a way of living that reflects your values and priorities that grows and evolves as you grow and evolve. I agree with others here - you are a globe of light in the world. Thank you for stepping up and sharing your gift(s).
Thank you so much for being here, dear Lillian 💖 I loved the way you mentioned "creating a safe identity" - it's so well said.
Hi Lillian, So glad to see you here. Both of us love this channel. Hope all is well with you. We are doing fine.
@@willowbei Yes, I'm an Ana fan. It started when I wanted to know more about a part of the world I don't know at all. Russia and Siberia! Now, I obviously come for more. I think Ana is in sync with Quaker sensibilities. Glad to see familiar faces/names among my fellow fans. I will be in Indiana August 1-17, and staying at my mother's farm. Maybe we can get together.
"Museum of memories". I love that Ana!!!! I think fear of death makes humans want to acquire objects.
I absolutely agree here 🌼 we, humans, often think that the more we own the more "rooted" we are in life and the more "immortal" we become. Which is not true of course.
I totally agree. I have a house, but I prefer to be minimalist because I don't like clutter. It's more relaxing to me to have few decor pieces that are lovely and well chosen to my taste. To me that makes the house feel more cozy.
I’m going to have to listen to this again. I’m finding it difficult to focus. I suspect I don’t want to hear the truth. I have way too much stuff. And I have gotten rid of a lot. I think I spent years acquiring things because I could; I didn’t grow up with much. I thought it said something about me that I had money and could spend it. I am poor again, but I feel different anyway. I’m not eager to buy. I will listen again; I enjoy your soothing voice anyway.
Please keep me in your thoughts next Friday. Love to you both.
I understand how you feel, Ginger. I'm from a poor background myself and used to buy a lot to prove that I'm worth it.
Will be thinking of you 💖 Everything will go well, I know it.
Sorry part two of my message. Until the memories fade away like we do. Thank you for your updates, take care, kind regards to Brian. Big hug Gale
Such wise words!💚 I wish philosophy were a requirement in schools--it would save us from so many problems.
💜 wise words. Thank you!
"Museum of Memories" - that is so cleverly said by you-thank you so much for that, dear Ana🤗. Please, go on making videos on the topic of minimalism🙏. I hope the two of you are fine💕. Lots of love from Germany🙋🏻♀️🍓
Thank you so much for being here, my friend! I love this topic and hopefully, will expand more on minimalism further on 😊 Sending love to you 💖
A beautiful video. One of my favorites! Minimalist here.
Thank you so much for watching, dear friend and fellow minimalistl! 💚
Hi Ana, such a wonderful video and I am happy to see you looking so well! Thank you 💗
Hello Ana, thank you for sharing your thoughts, it makes sense as we do have so much stuff !!! Just donating clothes I no longer need , feels good ,so someone else can enjoy, you look so well ,, always look forward to your videos,
Stay safe as you travel, ❤️
Thank you so much Sue! 💛
On a very superficial note ;-) I LOVE the way the colour of your t-shirt comes back in your headscarf
Aww, thank you! 🤗
Very thought provoking video! ❤ I love the simplicity of the candle sitting on a piece of paper towel on the plate. And I made your Tofu Paté recipe and love it!
Aww, thank you, my friend! I'm so glad you liked the pate recipe 😊💚
I always feel redirected and grounded after watching your vlogs. Take care. If you ever make it to Australia you have a place to stay 🙂
Oh, this is so sweet and kind of you, dear Lisa! Thank you 💖 Sending warm thoughts all the way to Australia.
Hi Anna! Minimalist is the way! I just need to get with it!
Thanks!
Thank you so much for this kind support, Yoli! 🌸
Food for thought, this video, thank you for sharing your deep insight - it is so appreciated, Ana - and so seldom mentioned in today's world! The freshness of your thinking helps us grow, I feel, in a positive direction. So with my thinking cap on, I continue my day with more contemplation thanks to you!! Keep it coming, you are a Light!!!
I'm so glad you enjoyed the video, Christine! 🤗
You spoke so well Ana. You looked beautiful too. Thank you for a great video. X
Thank you so much, Sarah 💛
Hello dear Ana ! I really love your video and how you talk about this subject so simply and beautifully ! Thank you so very much for all your sharings, je te souhaite une très belle journée, prends soin de toi 🌞🌸
Merci beaucoup, ma cherie amie! 😊💚
@@anagoldberg Ooooh 🤗 merci chère Ana 🧡💫
Love and peace to you - I love your channel
Thank you so much, dear friend 🌟
Sweet Ana another very thought provoking video - you make me see things in a different light. Love the headband 💝 lol 🥰💖🇮🇱
Thank you so much, dear Sharon 😊💖 I'm so glad you enjoyed the video!
Another meaningful video, thank s a lot, you always make me think. Love 💗 u
When I was younger, I wanted stuff, it felt like it validated my existence and boosted my social standing (as you mentioned, something to that effect). But as I grew older (I'm turning 43), I've gravitated towards minimalism more and more, although I did not know that it's thing! I've only in the last 3 years learned that the concept exists and that it's real. I'm not a minimalist by any means, but I've realised over the years that it calms and focuses me a lot in times of stress. My husband is the complete opposite, but I'll keep striving towards it, lol. Apologies for the long comment!
Loved your comment, Talana! Thank you so much for sharing 🌼 I guess, with years we tend to value not the quantity but the quality and it naturally leads to owning less but creating more meaningful possessions. 💚
@Know1 I've noticed that once I'm in a "lets get rid of the junk" mood, he slowly gets into it, haha! Sometimes its a constant battle to keep his stuff from accumalating in our house. I guess I shouldn't complain though, he's a wonderfull partner to me. Fingers crossed we'll get to where you guys are soon!
Well explained and very humble. Your explanation has been very useful for me to be able to understand my own sentiments. Спасибо😊
I'm so glad the video resonated with you, my friend! Thank you for watching 🌼
@@anagoldberg не за что. You are most welcome💚
Great video Ana! I know I get caught up in being a human doing instead of a human being. I loved this video. It reminded me where I want to be headed in life. Thanks for the pep talk. Stay safe.
Thank you so much for watching, Karen 💚 I've never heard of the "human doing vs. human being" before! So well put.
My journey has always been evolving because I am open to possibilities that I didn't know to consider.... I have been reducing material items for some time, but I need to divest of most things now... In the coming year, I will retire and begin traveling out of a backpack so I will only take the essentials... You and Brian are an inspiration to many and one. Paka Paka?
Wishing you the best of luck with downsizing! It can be a pain to decide what to take but very rewarding after all 😊 Sending our best to you! Paka-paka:)
@Jennifer Rose Bruce I wasn’t sore of the sp.
So we’ll said! I have always been a minimalist long before it was popular- it is very freeing to be who you are without tons of stuff weighing you down. I come by it honestly as my mother was the same way. In fact when she passed away 17 years ago and we had to go through her things, I was amazed at how little she actually (consciously) had. And for the record you are a bright light to the world!
Thank you so much for sharing this inspiring story, Kathy! You're so kind 🌼
I love stuff to use creatively. But I love myself more.
❤ seeing you!
Hello Ana, you are right, things are just things. Has there to be made a distinction between things, possessions and commodities? I think so. Even more difficult is it, where we put experience, knowledge and wisdom, talent and capacities ... Is it in any case better to travel light? I am not sure. And art, where do we have to imagine art? Beauty and emotions? My preference for minimalism is mainly an aesthetic approach. Have a good time!