How i see is, if you are in your 30s and you been wanting to be in a serious relationship and ut hasnt happened or youre hopping from one relationship to the next then yes start looking within but if you want to be single and you are single then thats called freedom, the freedom of choice, the freedom of autonomy and much more.
I think it’s a cop out… having a relationship and a family means sacrifices and I think a lot of the modern girlies don’t want to sacrifice or compromise their “freedom”
Such a relatable and thought-provoking topic! Being single in the 30s can definitely be a mix of freedom and challenges. It's inspiring to see people embracing their independence while navigating the complexities of modern dating. Personally, I think it’s all about perspective-using this time for self-growth and building a fulfilling life, whether or not a partner is part of the picture.
It is inspiring but also sad because at 30 your chances of having a family is slimming down by the day. I feel sad because when all these “boss babes” turn 40-50 and they don’t have any family (kids) they are gonna be so depressed
I think it’s a cop out… having a relationship and a family means sacrifices and I think a lot of the modern girlies don’t want to sacrifice or compromise
I can agree with you for some women who are scared to really invest in a man and be disappointed but that’s the risk to take to eventually find the right one! Thank you for your comment☺️
@bunzbby69 I do not tolerate any mean comment on my channel comments please. We can discuss peacefully and everyone has a right for an opinion here, but in respect of others!
I meant no harm I was one of those girls in the past not listening and not wanting to change… I’m working on it still but I do have a husband and kids and I’d take the stress of my family over being alone any day … I am by no means perfect I know this but sacrifices must be made
A lot going on here, this is what i hear a lot. People want their forever person, very understandable. The thing is, that doesn't just happen over night. You need to learn what it's like to be in a partnership and that sometimes takes sacrifice but it's also enriching. But you can't expect to find that at 35 when you've been single off and on and only into casual relationships. You haven't had the time to develop the skillset. This is why i believe that to develop these long term skills, you need to meet your person when y'all are young, I'm talking high school maybe college at the latest. No baggage ir prior dating history to skew your perception, plus lots of years down the line to develop. Of course people will fight what i say and say, what about abuse. Thats terrible, but it doesn't always happen and it doesn't have to be a guarantee.
I agree 90%… these ladies don’t want to sacrifice and don’t have the skills to participate in a serious relationship . There is a woman I think her name is Tamara Marwy . She recently got a divorce from her husband and called it a graduation. She graduated from her marriage… There were kids in that marriage and her husband couldn’t be nicer. Now she cry’s about dating all the time 🤦🏻♀️
Women seem to never pick up on the common denominator when complaining about partners. If you cant find or keep someone, its probably you thats the issue. If you cant accept that, stick to being single, because no one deserves a partner that lacks self awareness
You ran through guy from here and there and wanting a king to pick you up later. Superman is only in a movie. If girl wanted a man, she will get a man no doubt. Maybe the man your choice is elon musk
How i see is, if you are in your 30s and you been wanting to be in a serious relationship and ut hasnt happened or youre hopping from one relationship to the next then yes start looking within but if you want to be single and you are single then thats called freedom, the freedom of choice, the freedom of autonomy and much more.
I think it’s a cop out… having a relationship and a family means sacrifices and I think a lot of the modern girlies don’t want to sacrifice or compromise their “freedom”
Such a relatable and thought-provoking topic! Being single in the 30s can definitely be a mix of freedom and challenges. It's inspiring to see people embracing their independence while navigating the complexities of modern dating. Personally, I think it’s all about perspective-using this time for self-growth and building a fulfilling life, whether or not a partner is part of the picture.
It is inspiring but also sad because at 30 your chances of having a family is slimming down by the day. I feel sad because when all these “boss babes” turn 40-50 and they don’t have any family (kids) they are gonna be so depressed
I think it’s a cop out… having a relationship and a family means sacrifices and I think a lot of the modern girlies don’t want to sacrifice or compromise
I think you sound fucking stupid and "modern girlies" confirmed that for me.
I can agree with you for some women who are scared to really invest in a man and be disappointed but that’s the risk to take to eventually find the right one! Thank you for your comment☺️
@bunzbby69 I do not tolerate any mean comment on my channel comments please. We can discuss peacefully and everyone has a right for an opinion here, but in respect of others!
@@NinaMoyo I’m sorry I didn’t mean any harm 😞 I just feel bad for people who will end up alone because of lies the media fed them
I meant no harm I was one of those girls in the past not listening and not wanting to change… I’m working on it still but I do have a husband and kids and I’d take the stress of my family over being alone any day … I am by no means perfect I know this but sacrifices must be made
"Living my best life" has its side effects.
Yup! Clock is ticking but then they get mad when someone points out the cats in their future
A lot going on here, this is what i hear a lot. People want their forever person, very understandable. The thing is, that doesn't just happen over night. You need to learn what it's like to be in a partnership and that sometimes takes sacrifice but it's also enriching. But you can't expect to find that at 35 when you've been single off and on and only into casual relationships. You haven't had the time to develop the skillset. This is why i believe that to develop these long term skills, you need to meet your person when y'all are young, I'm talking high school maybe college at the latest. No baggage ir prior dating history to skew your perception, plus lots of years down the line to develop. Of course people will fight what i say and say, what about abuse. Thats terrible, but it doesn't always happen and it doesn't have to be a guarantee.
I agree 90%… these ladies don’t want to sacrifice and don’t have the skills to participate in a serious relationship . There is a woman I think her name is Tamara Marwy . She recently got a divorce from her husband and called it a graduation. She graduated from her marriage… There were kids in that marriage and her husband couldn’t be nicer. Now she cry’s about dating all the time 🤦🏻♀️
Women seem to never pick up on the common denominator when complaining about partners. If you cant find or keep someone, its probably you thats the issue.
If you cant accept that, stick to being single, because no one deserves a partner that lacks self awareness
These girls don’t wanna sacrifice but then cry if you point out their cats
You ran through guy from here and there and wanting a king to pick you up later. Superman is only in a movie. If girl wanted a man, she will get a man no doubt. Maybe the man your choice is elon musk
They don’t want to sacrifice… they want to have their cake and eat it too
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